a step in the right direction. dont try to be more positive here before you leave. unload all your negative feelings here then be more positive away from here. all the best
drink more. at first i thought you were a fake incel because you have too much personality and sense of humor/sarcasm. now that i know you're suppressing your true self irl it makes sense. you're probably the biggest incel here. you're in your head all the time, not authentic. people appreciate authenticity, especially women. sure you will offend some people but fuck them. im telling you, being true to yourself irl is really fun/free
expounding on the scenario of woman's not wanting to be alone with a man. if a woman and a man are alone in a subway car and she moves to a different car and the man is offended, he is overthinking. overthinking is a feminine trait. Thats why negs work on women despite what they claim, especially when done subtly. if a woman can neg you, you are a feminine man even if you are jacked with a great beard.
Women of all attractiveness will go out with intention of hooking up. He knows how to read the signs. Her behavior afterwards determines the "relationship" this guy is experienced. dodged a bullet
I'm sure you've heard "it's not what you say but how you say it." Even with the perfect joke/line, you will bomb it as you stated previously. Your "vibe" is off and women can sense it. Once you fix your anxiety and gain confidence you will get better with interactions.
Thanks. Of the other 50%, where you had intention of continued relationship, what % did you realize the woman didn't have the same intentions before the sex and you still had sex with her?
Maybe he's stringing her along as a forever gf. You don't rock the boat when that's your goal. Let's have some faith in the men. If she said "husband" that would be a different story.
If you are actually doing all this without results, I would suggest going out on weeknights. I don't know where you live but Fri and Sat nights are mostly "normal" women looking to have fun, not hooking up. Plus you will have more male competition. Women who are out on weeknights are typically more welcoming to hooking up, in fact, that might actually be their goal. Start with Tues and Wed nights. Forget Fri and Sat nights.
