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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | Need to unload my thoughts here | Need Support | Sharp_Preference7083 | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/24 05:20 AM |
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| 11 | Did you ever consider the possibility of divorce at the beginning of your marriage?No. I expected some moments may be less happy than others throughout the marriage, but I was committed to my partner for life and would hope we could work together and overcome any issue we had because ultimately we loved one another. I wanted to live the rest of my life with her by my side. She had other ideas. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/07/24 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Guys with small social networks, how are you after divorce?She has an adult kid, so you married into that knowing that . Also, why have the adventures stopped? Do you make plans and she is adamant not to go? Take initiative and plan something exciting but reasonable. If she fails to tag along then yeah, y'all might have a problem but has there been any effort? | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/24 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Guys with small social networks, how are you after divorce?Bro why did you get married if you're over it within 3 years? The suburban life sounds perfect for someone like me, why would you throw it all away to chase after something you can't even catch? Like, married or not you can do these things. What makes you think your life will be fulfilled after a divorce? You seem to be struggling to find things to do, it's going to be a lot worse once you're all alone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/24 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on being divorced at 25 without kids?Where did you find people to date? I'm 33 and am 6 months out of my separation (3 from divorce) and am looking to move on. I had 1 tinder date and 1 speed dating event (with a follow up date) but nothing clicked. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/07/24 05:25 AM |
| 7 | Struggling with confidence and jealousy issues several years post divorceThe reality is your concern of not being good enough is making you not good enough. She is choosing you and you need to reciprocate the affection she is giving you. You should have learned what it's like to lose your person, so put in the effort required of a healthy relationship and make sure this girl stays around. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/24 04:52 AM |
| 7 | Discussion100%. Especially with all these life coaches and social media rotting their brains and creating false expectations of the type of life they feel they should be living. Once they get a little unhappy and think twice about their situation, they see all these happy highlight reels of other people and feel like that's what they should be doing instead of working on themselves and improving their current relationship to get to that point. As for committed people, we also get unhappy from time to time… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/24 05:23 PM |
| 21 | Is this the healthiest r/ on Reddit?I've been browsing here less and less tbh. There seems to be an incel culture and women haters among the community. Like yeah, we all are dealing with some woman that is ruining our lives lol, but it seems a tad extreme. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/24 04:35 AM |
| 6 | How long did it take you to be happy againAs others have said, this is a recent development for you and you had a long marriage, so it's okay to still feel lost and sad over this. You won't feel happy quickly. It takes time and some effort to eventually get there. What you can do is start today. Try getting into one of the best physical shapes of your life. Get some exercise daily and start eating better. Try ditching alcohol, at least keep it to the weekends or social events only. Take it hour by hour, and then day by day. Again, time … | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/04/24 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Wife wants me backYou obviously have a lot of questions. I think giving her a final chance with some rules in place will help answer them. Maybe she really has changed and you can have a happier life without breaking up your family, or maybe you'll learn she hasn't changed but you'll know you've made the right decision. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/24 04:42 AM |
| 6 | One year on since being told she wanted a divorceKarma will get you. There's no need to lie | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/03/24 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Need to unload my thoughts hereAppreciate this. I had a good workout this evening and was left feeling over this BS and then read your comment. I'm pretty sure there's some other chump involved, she's so dumb for doing this. I deserve better and will find someone who is better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/24 01:23 AM |
| 8 | How you guys fucked up in your marriages?I'm to blame for not keeping things interesting, but I also think COVID ruined my relationship. I used to go into an office 5 days a week and travelled the country for client visits, giving her space and time to miss me. COVID changed that and we went fully remote, which I've been since 2020. I'm the breadwinner and make decent pay with benefits that she's on, but I'm always at home. She never got to miss me anymore and I didn't make an effort to get out of the house when she was home.to give he… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/24 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Need to unload my thoughts hereThank you. I think I get what you're saying, although I'm not sure it will get to that point. I don't have a lot of money saved, so I'm not sure what she would even be able to take from me. She says she still loves me, but isn't in love with me, so I think there will be a level of respect as we go through the process. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/24 05:54 AM |
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