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It is a reasonable fear, but look at it like this: Somewhere in your subconsious you think the people who should have your back no matter what, would not have your back. This tells me you are either right or wrong. If you are right, then wouldn’t you rather find out now and find a new friend group that does have your back? If you are wrong, then your just wrong and now gained some new insight and strengthened your friendship with whoever helped you. Either way it is a win win for you. You get fr…
/r/seduction27/06/20 09:40 PM
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You need to change your friend group possibly, if you don’t know a guy in your group that can replace the “bigger brother/father” dynamic your looking for then they are keeping you back.
/r/seduction27/06/20 09:08 PM
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Work as a busser or back waiter, you will interact with so many people, if you find a good restaurant to work in, you will see a lot of pretty woman and get over your nerves after a few interactions with them, also see how other guys act around woman. You can eventually become a waiter and use your charisma to get tips, after a month or two of bussing you should be able to finesse a girl no problem, not a customer but just by being around a more social group of friends. Waiters/waitresses/barten…
/r/seduction27/06/20 08:48 PM
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Some people talk like that and it’s normal, people from the south speak like this and no one bats an eye.
/r/seduction23/03/20 07:21 PM
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Also, remind yourself why it took you so long to start dating... Don’t you feel like all that sacrifice paid off? Look at what you have accomplished while your boys were chasing pussy since they heard about it. This can be a source of confidence. You had the discipline to put yourself first, and build your body. Your body is pretty insane, and I can tell a lot of hard work went into what you have now. Lastly trust yourself and have the self respect to break up with a woman when she doesn’t treat…
/r/seduction16/02/20 06:22 PM
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For me I got over the nerves by being patient with myself, avoid putting too much pressure on yourself, sit back and don’t let other peoples experiences ruin your own. It just took you longer to start dating, and there is nothing wrong with that. Now you are ready, so just take her out with the goal of getting to know her better. When the date is over if you enjoyed her company tell her that, and set up the next date. No one says you have to make out with her on the first date, just do what feel…
/r/seduction16/02/20 06:13 PM
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I personally like having ADHD, you just gotta look at it as a strength! I can carry a conversation forever and keep people interested the whole time, you just have to tame your mind and ease it back when you realize you want to say something when someone else is in the middle of something. When I realize I am waiting for them to finish talking, so I can say what I thought of earlier, I tell myself “lets listen to when they are saying and make a remark on what they said, then bring up what I thou…
/r/seduction16/02/20 04:32 PM
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Best advice I can give you is: Paragraphs... use them.
/r/seduction15/02/20 03:54 AM
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You want to fuck and date, but told her you want a long term relationship. Is this a troll post?
/r/seduction09/02/20 04:51 PM
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Learn to be more present in conversation, you have to be interested in the conversation too. No one is going to want to talk to you if you are saying things to attract someone, they will just be attracted by you once you realize that you are cool. Learn to lead a conversation into your own strengths and passions so you can talk about them as well. Just don’t come off like your trying to impress them, instead if you learn the art of teaching someone about your passion that comes off more genuine …
/r/seduction05/02/20 12:03 AM
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Be more bold with your advances at the beginning, if they know your sexually interested in them earlier, that thought might be addressed before they have to address it.
/r/seduction04/02/20 08:59 PM
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I guess it depends on what you want, if you want “hot” woman and just wanna get your nut off your right? But from my experience when woman come to you and you vet them to see if it’s a good fit the relationship turns out to be a lot more fulfilling.
/r/seduction31/01/20 05:54 AM
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Your good bro, just ignore her for a week and her mind will be racing, the. hit her up and say you had a great time getting to know her on your last date and would like to take her out again! This time don’t just do dinner do something more exciting and go in for the kiss very early, like within 10-15 mins of the date.
/r/seduction18/01/20 05:52 AM
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fuck em who cares? just be you and if they dont like you they can miss out on what you have to offer.
/r/seduction02/01/20 02:22 AM
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Australia?
/r/seduction29/12/19 03:41 PM
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Woman love it when you brag about your dad paying for your upgraded overpriced bowl of rice.
/r/seduction21/12/19 10:15 PM
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Girls like turning gay guys, play that to your advantage. Others perception of you is their own deception.
/r/seduction15/12/19 10:28 AM
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Hell yea, glad it helped!
/r/seduction27/11/19 04:57 PM
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lmk
/r/seduction11/11/19 05:27 AM
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I need them, go and ask your friend at the gym for his balls, and see what he says.
/r/seduction11/11/19 05:23 AM
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It’s not your fault you don’t have balls.
/r/seduction11/11/19 05:18 AM
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If your friends make you feel that way, they aren’t gonna change the way they are so just stop hanging around people who make you feel like shit. You probably are just a considerate empathic human being, and your friends are most likely insecure about XYZ, and they project their insecurities on you. They may seem more confident than you on the outside, but once you mature emotionally you will see that they need to use you to feel better about themselves. Fortunately, every new person you meet yo…
/r/seduction11/11/19 04:55 AM
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Stop being a nyc guy
/r/seduction02/11/19 10:35 PM
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sik
/r/seduction28/10/19 05:23 AM
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I just died trying to read it in one breathe, this is me in the afterlife.
/r/seduction27/10/19 07:28 PM
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what book?
/r/seduction27/10/19 07:08 PM
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Your worried about being needy by offering to go to her house? My dude, she is looking pretty needy, just get in your car and drive over there if you want some pussy. Don’t worry about the word “needy”
/r/seduction22/10/19 03:42 PM
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The term “say it with your chest” may help you. Maybe you are just not projecting your voice enough, I was the same as you when I was younger. Then as I gained confidence in myself I now actually use my voice since I am not scared of being noticed. Aka more confident. Just learn how to speak from your belly.
/r/seduction22/10/19 03:38 PM
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That is the vibe I got but it seems the other people in the comments think this is acceptable behavior? This just seemed like the girl wanted to get the fuck away from this dude and he ended thinking she was disappointed he didn’t get in the lyft, like they were gonna have sex or something.
/r/seduction21/10/19 06:08 AM
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I was in the same position as you, but I was physically abused as a kid and emotionally neglected, so I had an attachment disorder. When you are supposed to trust your parents and you can’t it makes the concept of a girlfriend almost unfathomable, because the people you are supposed to trust most in the world aren’t trustworthy so everyone else in the world becomes not trustworthy. Now I am 28 and I have been getting better and better with woman, but if I was to give you any advice. It would be …
/r/seduction18/10/19 05:19 AM
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Fuck texting dude, just talk in person at work, make a get together for a bunch of people including her at your place and just be the dude that brings people together.
/r/seduction17/10/19 06:18 PM
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Just ask her on a date, she’s probably bored of waiting.
/r/seduction17/10/19 03:50 PM
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start there, with no intent. You seem to have a deluded perception of reality you need to just realize woman are also people.
/r/seduction16/10/19 09:49 PM
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Do your self a favor and try to make some female friends, don’t worry about having a relationship. Just try to have one female friend and once you are able to hold a conversation with a female you might be able to understand what you actually want out of a relationship, just save this post in a journal or something so you can look back and have a laugh and a half.
/r/seduction16/10/19 09:26 PM
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Okay thanks! I am going to therapy and have been making significant progress, therapy is the best.
/r/seduction16/10/19 06:46 PM
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How have you gone about learning how to innocently touch people? I grew up with physical abuse, and whenever I go to touch someone I literally feel like someone is about to stab me in the stomach so I just avoid it entirely. Which makes dating as a guy pretty challenging.
/r/seduction16/10/19 04:09 AM
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23 year old single dude is very specific, my fault.
/r/seduction12/10/19 05:06 PM
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nah, your post is so vague that it isn’t worth any serious effort
/r/seduction12/10/19 04:58 PM
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Check out the book, “How to pick up girls as a 23 year old single dude.” One of the best pickup lines I saw was: “Hey I am a 23 year old single dude, wanna fuck?”
/r/seduction12/10/19 04:42 PM
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I never danced until like 4 months ago, but I have been doing a lot of self improvement in that time, at first I danced with this married woman at the bar and she made me feel comfortable and was giving me a lot of encouragement. Then I realized I didn’t like dancing because I was just self conscious so I started listening to music in my room and dancing by myself, then after a while I would go to concerts and dance by myself to get the anxiety out, and now I dance and move to music without cari…
/r/seduction11/10/19 05:46 PM
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Concerts cuz I am a good dancer, and you don’t really have to talk much. Just talk between set’s to gauge interest then ask for her number, and take her to the Art Museum another time where I have some time to get to know her, and express my personality.
/r/seduction11/10/19 03:17 PM
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