Shatmander Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
57	What's a good way to meet older women?		Shatmander	/r/seduction	14/07/15 09:24 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	[FR] I am slowly getting it. That's a lot of trouble to go through. Out of curiosity though, how has that worked for you?	/r/seduction	08/02/17 08:40 PM
3	[FR] I am slowly getting it. It works for both sides, too. A girl seeing you with another girl works wonders for how they view your worth. When winging on a guy for the winggirl, you can level with him easily and explain how to get him with her. Total win-win; best results when I take my winggirl.	/r/seduction	08/02/17 08:38 PM
2	Tired of coffee dates I tend to do coffee dates later after work. You can get a coffee date going at 6 or 7, get to see what she's like, and by the time the coffee kicks in at 8, go out and do something else. It's not that hard to say "hey, have you been to <local park>?" "Yes/no" "Ahh, well I've never been, so we should go" or "You haven't? Wow, you have to see it; it's beautiful!" From there, head out to drinks or seclude her in the park and get more personal with her before hitting another venue or taking her home…	/r/seduction	08/02/17 08:22 PM
2	All of my numbers flake. All of them. How do I get past this? "Let me get your number so we can meet up for coffee sometime" is my go-to. Number & date, forward, it is an offer not a question, and she understands what I want from her. Just make sure to chat more after the #. If you just get the #, it will make you seem like a guy who just hops from girl to girl looking for an easy lay, which will make her lose interest.	/r/seduction	08/02/17 08:10 PM
2	I'm 21, have a chance to lay with a cute 30 yr old. Anxious about the gap in experience. Get off it. She won't care. If you bust quick, just go down on her until you're good to go again. The first like 3-5 times you're with a girl it won't matter how either party performs unless you are both in it just to get good ONS type lays. It takes time to learn each other, don't overthink it or you WILL bust in like 5 minutes.	/r/seduction	08/02/17 08:05 PM
1	was hit on, too scared to do anything I said ok then get on your back. That's fucking great. Solid advice. I gotta ask though, what's a PUA?	/r/seduction	20/07/15 02:03 PM
4	How do I create spark and get numbers or f-close in in bar or club ? \/thread	/r/seduction	20/07/15 01:52 PM
3	Don't make your life and goals revolve around someone else You can't be fully comfortable with another person until you're comfortable with yourself.	/r/seduction	20/07/15 01:26 PM
2	Hit her up on FB or wait for her text? [m22/f21] He may have been a bit savage in his posts, but he's right. You did it wrong. If anything you negged a little. Take his advice. He's probably just annoyed because your post (and post history) makes you sound like a little bitch trying to act like a stud ladykiller when you're not. Just learn from this and move on. He may have been rude but he's being realistic here, not negative.	/r/seduction	20/07/15 01:15 PM
3	What's a good way to meet older women? Did she smell like Grandma?	/r/seduction	15/07/15 10:05 PM
1	What's a good way to meet older women? I'm in above average shape with fitting clothes, but outside scares me.	/r/seduction	15/07/15 10:04 PM
1	What's a good way to meet older women? Oh God.... That's so true.	/r/seduction	15/07/15 10:03 PM