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| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADInsecure in what sense? That you think she might have ulterior motives (like guys salivating over her and getting attention from guys, even if she doesn't plan to date them)? Maybe it makes you feel like you aren't enough for her? Or do you just think in your preferred type of monogamous relationship she wouldn't do this even if it was innocent? I think this is a relevant distinction. No perhaps upset is the better word. Just the image of another man getting sexually satisfied from looking at vi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 12:19 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThank you for your comment, it was really insightful, and that's saying something for a comment from this sub. Is this really what you think? If it is, it's completely immature and unrealistic. Even when covered up in normal casual clothes, men can stare and ogle. You can only fully avoid this by going Taliban mode and covering her up. Let me clarify my position because there might be a misunderstanding. So yeah I am aware that sometimes, no matter what a woman wears or does, she'll get sexualis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 09:16 AM |
| 2 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI can't believe I'm asking here of all places, but here we go a classic question: So I have a gf and like anyone else she likes to post pics of herself on her socials. No it's not super sexual stuff, some of it is borderline like she posts dance trends from tiktok, she shows her midriff and she looks good and sexy, let's say it's not overtly sexual but it's something most guys would go "damn what a hottie" when they see. Okay so I am okay with her feeling good and posting herself if she wants to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 08:20 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSoutheast asian here. Living in asia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 07:22 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWould definitely make it easier if so. But unfortunately doesn't look that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 05:13 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLooks like im going exclusive with one of the girls im seeing. Deleted my dating apps. Looks like I'm finally entering into a relationship after 6 months of a manhoe phase. Let's see how this turns out. Gonna have to start rejecting the other girls im seeing so that's always gonna be rough but you reap what you sow lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 05:10 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've never actually thought about doing this before. Sounds fun. Will try this next time haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 08:34 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIkr. It's a waste of their energy to be so critical haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:39 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOk this one is the winner. I'll get back to you with the results HAHA | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 07:36 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHaha I have a feeling sexual imagery is not gonna make for an effective first text 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:39 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSomeone give me a pickup line for one of my bumble matches. Her name's Katana so I wanna do a joke about that. How's "If i was a japanese swordsman you'd be the one for me ;)". Pretty milquetoast but it's the best I got. Alternatively. Ill just ask her about her interests as I usually do with my matches and eventually when she says something witty or intelligent ill say "You're sharp, Katana is definitely the right name for you ;)" Blue pill suggestions only pls. No aloof bad boy stuff, that's f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 06:28 AM |
| 4 | The Stat "80% of Women Match with 20% of Men" isn't because of female hypergamy. It's because of the skewed gender ratio.Women feel more comfortable scouting out their social circles before going for dating apps. It's not like it's hard to get a date in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 07:04 AM |
| 2 | I frequently see various men complain about women supposedly being "hypergamous," but aren't the qualities they are said to require in a man also key features of traditional masculinity?And people will hide their cheating if it affects their future. Doesn't make it ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 12:38 AM |
| 3 | I frequently see various men complain about women supposedly being "hypergamous," but aren't the qualities they are said to require in a man also key features of traditional masculinity?It's in everyone's interest to hide things which make them less attractive. Doesn't make it okay to hide things, especially if you know your partner would want to know about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 10:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: While cheating is universally immoral, a woman cheating is worse on several levels, and generally spells the end of a relationship.OP's conclusion relied on a cherry picked example that conveniently left out the broader scope of animal behavior concerning unrelated offspring. This is not true. OP brings up the fact that male humans have a preference for raising their own biological children as opposed to adoption, which he uses to argue that getting cheated on as a man increases the risk that you will unwittingly raise a child which is not biologically yours, which increases the emotional harm caused by a woman cheating (as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 08:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: While cheating is universally immoral, a woman cheating is worse on several levels, and generally spells the end of a relationship.No it doesn't. He used it to indicate that the preference for males to rear their own biological children is strong, he didn't use it to suggest that males only ever want to rear their own biological children. To do so would require no exceptions whatsoever, which your article correctly refutes. But OP's entire discussions and conclusions remain valid on the assumption that males have a preference for rearing their own biological children. The fact that this preference is not absolute does not a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 07:49 AM |
| 1 | CMV: While cheating is universally immoral, a woman cheating is worse on several levels, and generally spells the end of a relationship.Adoption definitely happens in the wild and researchers aren't even entirely sure why, so it would be false to assume all males have a biological instinct to invest solely in their own children. He never made this assumption. He said that men have a biological instinct to invest in their own biological children. This is categorically different from your assumption which contains "solely in their own children". The word solely changes everything because with it, then it means men only ever want t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 06:31 AM |
| 11 | I frequently see various men complain about women supposedly being "hypergamous," but aren't the qualities they are said to require in a man also key features of traditional masculinity?Goes both ways though, more women having more casual sex means the top males have greater access to variety than ever before, and this makes it difficult for women of all kinds to lock-in Mr. Right since he is living a greater life of abundance than ever before. It also creates social pressure to put out more, which a lot of women are uncomfortable with: "if more and more women put out more then men I'm into will lose interest if I don't do the same." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 06:03 AM |
| 6 | CMV: It's ok to leave your husband even if he's a great guyTechnically it's okay to leave anyone, it's your life after all and if living without someone makes you happier than living with them, go ahead. But obviously that's a very non-committal approach to life and the point of entering into marriage is that you are acknowledging a very strong level of commitment that's supposed to go above and beyond "Meh I'm just not into you anymore". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 05:57 AM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNot catching feelings too early is good, but if it happens because you subconsciously think every girl your dating has an unacceptable sexual history, it can cause problems down the line. E.g. when you actually find the right girl and want to do a long term relationship with her, then unless she's a virgin, it'll take her a lot of effort to prove to you that she doesn't have that kind of sexual history and this might cause trust issues in your relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Looking For A Long Term Relationship In The Philippines Isn't That Easy Or Simple.If someone who travels overseas for sex is a travel bro, then all those sex tourists who go overseas to places like Thailand just to see prostitutes would fall within this definition. If so, then these people are definitely using a good strategy, because prostitutes are far more available and affordable overseas than in a western country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Looking For A Long Term Relationship In The Philippines Isn't That Easy Or Simple.What's your definition of passport bro then. To me it's someone who is actively searching for a long term relationship with someone who is overseas. Usually through online dating or temporarily travelling there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Looking For A Long Term Relationship In The Philippines Isn't That Easy Or Simple.I wouldn't say it's a legitimate strategy if it doesn't work The fact that there are people who successfully marry foreign women by through online relationships / temporarily living overseas shows that this strategy does work. If this strategy didn't work, then there would be no passport bros who actually married their wives. An easy google search shows that this is not the case. I highly doubt that someone who genuinely can't find someone to love in their entire country of origin is going to fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 09:22 AM |
| 2 | Looking For A Long Term Relationship In The Philippines Isn't That Easy Or Simple.There aren't many people choosing this at all. Of course only a minority of people with pursue this strategy, that doesn't make it any less legitimate of a dating strategy. It's very unlikely that anyone truly can't find anyone in their own country yet somehow can find some romantic paradise in a different country where everything is harder, yet some people delude themselves into thinking it's the case. Like I said, for those who choose the passport bro life, they've already tried (and failed) t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMaybe something about why you two broke up caused your Mom to dislike you? Maybe if you broke up from cheating on eachother, or something. There's usually more to it than just 'oh my son is single now I care about him less' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 07:07 AM |
| 13 | Looking For A Long Term Relationship In The Philippines Isn't That Easy Or Simple.The main thing to consider is that men become passport bros because their local options are worse. If a man's local options were in fact better, then there is no reason for him to spend the money, risk, and resources to finding a foreign wife. Being a passport bro is sort of like a Plan B strategy to dating. And most people only do this when plan A (modern western dating) is no longer working. You can't really tell these guys to just go back to Plan A when it isn't working for them. If plan A wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 07:06 AM |
| 2 | 70% of all younger woman are in relationships where as only 30% of younger men areFor every girl in a relationship, there must be a guy too (the one dating her). So how is it possible that 70% of women are in relationships, when only 30% of men are? (it's possible if we assume multiple women are dating the same guy, or that some women consider themselves in relationship when they guy they're dating considers himself just casually dating. But do people agree with these assumptions?) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Being neurodivergent is a death sentence for menNeurodivergent with ADHD. Bro it it's a double edged sword but when it works in your favour it really fucking works. Really helps with making jokes and flirting, spontaneous date ideas etc. Makes me someone who is more of a risk taker and fun and girls love that shit. Obviously I look decent too, looks are still #1 but I guarantee you my ADHD has probably let me get more short term flings and lays that I would without it. But the drawback is that it makes me not into long term relationships so t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 07:06 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow many children did your grandparents and their siblings have? My dad has 8 siblings my mom has 3. I have 2. Seems like they could afford procreation more than our generation. Well depends what you associate as the costs of procreation. My grandma gave birth in her home, so didn't have to pay hospital bills. I'm not sure if a doctor was present at birth either since the nearest clinic was in the next town/city, so no doctor fees too. I could definitely do that if I wanted to but in the modern … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 03:23 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo a small, family owned business vs working for other people that don’t care about you? I'd definitely prefer working a desk job for someone who didn't care about me vs working 16 hours a day of hard labour for myself. 100% A family owned home vs living paycheck to paycheck to afford a roof? Hey, at least I can buy a meal with my paycheck. My grandparents literally ate what they grew and that is insane. Imagine having to work 16 hours a day of labour OR starve. in this world I just work a few h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 03:10 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI guess. Lived in some mountainside village. Grandma had like 6 siblings so they all shared the farm together, so I guess co-ownership. All worked manual labour basically all day. Radio at night was their entertainment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 02:52 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's why I said "main" factor. The fact that outlier examples that have to due with health exist is something I am aware of and people in general are aware of. Again, how can you call it the main factor. We have identified 2 factors so far: Desperation for a Relationship, Physical Attractiveness. How do you know desperation for a relationship is a larger factor than physical attractiveness? You don't. You're misunderstanding me. I'm not saying that it is too early to be snatched up at 18. I'm … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 02:39 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI was talking about the regular population I understand, but my point is that there are definitely factors other than how badly a guy wants a relationship which will help/hinder his chances at finding one. Like, I said, such as his physical attractiveness. It's really hard to say "Well, how badly he wants one is the most important factor". For something to be the determining factor, it needs to have over a 50% influence in the result. Who knows, maybe it's 40%, maybe it's 50%, maybe it's 60%. We… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 02:25 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMaybe your experience is different, but my grandparents lived on a farm working all day, so I'd take being a wage slave over that, for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 02:01 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think the main determing factor in whether someone wants to be in a relationships is if he is pro active and wants to be in one. Main? Hard to say, it's usually a mix of his attractiveness, his standards, and how badly he wants a relationship. For example, even if a guy is desperately looking for a relationship, if his standards are unrealistic (to him, a relationship means having a woman who will do anything for him, like a servant), or if his attractiveness is super low (severe birth defect,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 01:58 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMen tend to be more willing to grind alone or not settle down as fast whereas good women usually tend to not want to be alone. This has nothing to do with the situation we are talking about. We are talking about the number of men who are actively in the dating game, who are both really attractive and actively looking for a long term relationship. These men (the ones who are both really attractive and actively looking for a long term relationship), will very quickly leave the dating game because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 01:50 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe argument is mainly aimed at women want to find a guy who is really attractive and also willing to commit to them for a long term relationship. If a guy is really attractive, he would have gained the attention of a lot of women, and if a guy is willing to commit to a long term relationship, he would probably find out relatively quickly, and therefore only spend a short time in the 'dating game' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 01:41 AM |
| 5 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenYour CMV is flawed because you said "There are no benefits to having kids as a women". This can be proven wrong by finding a single benefit to having kids as a woman. Here's one, children can offer lifelong companionship and emotional support to a mother, often to a far greater extent than any romantic relationship could. You can see many stories of a woman's romantic relationship deteriorating to the point that she divorces her partner. But mother-child relationships are far more likely to last… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Jay Cutler ain't having itThanks for your explanation, that makes a lot of sense! I wouldn't be surprised if she literally didn't know the passwords to her own accounts, and he took advantage of that. Yeah this could be it. It's a shame that many marriages have basically one person managing all the money generated by the couple. Of course the idea is that you should be able to absolutely trust your spouse with your money, but when a divorce happens... | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/05/20 03:21 AM |
| 3 | Jay Cutler ain't having itThey had joint accounts and he locked her out If the accounts are held under their joint ownership then both he and she would have control over the cash held in them. It wouldn't be necessary for her to ask him for cash held in the accounts as the OP tweet states. Moreover as a joint owner she should be able to unfreeze those accounts at will. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/05/20 03:14 AM |
| 4 | Jay Cutler ain't having itJay Cutler get to unilaterally seize all of her assets If those are her assets then she should have immediate access to them to pay for the $5 million house and wouldn't need to ask him in the first place. Or am I misunderstanding the situation? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 05/05/20 03:06 AM |
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