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SEEKING ADVICESheDanceswithLove/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 09:42 PM
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There's so much ad hominen attack and projection here that I just won't address you anymore. Good luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 11:14 AM
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Yes thank you! I agree. Actually I gave compliments to another chef about the food, and he corrected me and said 'Actually, it was all HIM!' to which I redirected my complimented to the one I like. They did seem to be encouraging this interaction, lol! It's so awkward because it's a small town, and this is my favorite place to eat. So I think we're both honestly just shy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 10:18 AM
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That's very good advice! That's exactly why I haven't even flirted with him because I don't want to make it uncomfortable. Even if the relationship doesn't become romantic, I could just see him as my friend too. We live in the same neighborhood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 10:14 AM
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I know it's hard not to project your experiences on mine, but I'm not going to write all the details. You just have to accept that my reality is as I'm describing because that's the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:50 AM
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Eeew, no. I don't live in the US. There is a lot of context being left out here. He is definitely not a f-boi. He's just a hot, young chef who works a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 07:31 AM
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Thank you dear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 07:28 AM
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Thank you dear. I think you're right that I will wait for him to ask me out. I'm neutral when talking to him. Perhaps now I don't mind showing him a more subtle tell that I like HIM, not the others trying to flirt with me, some of whom may be relatives or very good friends due to some context that I'm leaving out. This started just before covid. The restaurant was closed for months. Now it's open, he's still single and fine as ever. When I told him I loved the food he cooked yesterday, he was bl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 07:23 AM
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Exactly. He's very professional about work and introverted. I don't see him abandoning cooking or burning food to chase down my number. However, he does live in my town (very small town). So if I run into him outside of work, I'll be able to have a more in depth conversation and learn more about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:45 AM
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To be clear, only one of them full-on approached me (the guy offering a ride). The others are just overly polite and give me special treatment when I'm there. The one I like is often really busy cooking. When we do have a chance to talk, we do, and he always initiates the conversations. He is very professional and serious about work, which could be why he doesn't want to seem like a PUA guy that approaches customers at work. It could feel awkward for him too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:42 AM
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Some of y'all overuse the word 'pickme' as another way to attack women you don't know and say you're better than them. It's another side of the cool-girl coin. If having attraction to a man makes me a pick-me, oh well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:32 AM
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The sick thing about parents who do this is that they also brainwash and gaslight the child to thinking that being uncomfortable, humiliated, and insulted is what it's like to feel loved. 'You know I love you,' they say after doing something completely disrespectful or abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:40 PM
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Gloria or LaVena? Eta: The person who killed LaVena is General Kevin P. Byrnes. This website has all the information: https://www.donaldwatkins.com/post/solving-the-murder-of-army-private-lavena-johnson
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:37 AM
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No. Actually we have documents, evidence, photos, and bodies often. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MbYlPuyrg5U
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:44 PM
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Honestly this is a strawman argument. We are talking about the military where the conditions of joining are a lot different than the condition to join college. Anyone can drop out of college at any time without risk of criminal punishment. Joining the US military is not comparable to joining college, nevermind that you can get an entire undergraduate and sometimes graduate degree online from home these days. Once again, we are talking about terrible abuse and downright torture that is taking pla…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:22 PM
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I am glad your experience in the military was positive. However, on this post, we are talking people who had an opposite experience. We're talking about the serious issue of rape and murder of women in the US military. Do you not see how your comment on this particular post lacks tact? ETA: As college graduate, I'm not going to enter a post about women being raped or killed on college campuses and strut in and say, 'College grad here. I had a positive experience.' I wouldn't center myself and my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:03 PM
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Exactly. It's a defense mechanism for her mind. If she admits that what happened to her was wrong, she'd have to grieve the serious trauma she experienced, which is a lot more difficult that saying, 'Whatever. She deserved it. etc...'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 03:01 PM
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Why did you enter a post about abuse in the military just to essentially say, 'That didn't happen to me.'? We're talking about the US military where 1 in 3 women are raped. We are talking about people to whom sexual abuse or gendered violence DID happen. Your point or experience doesn't negate the thousands who've suffered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:07 PM
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I'm really wishing you healing. You didn't deserve what happened. I'm sorry to hear that you went through that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:03 PM
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We need a MeToo movement specifically for the military. It's outrageous the abuse that happens in the US military, to US soldiers and the people in other countries that the US terrorizes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:00 PM
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Thank you for posting this. I remember seeing photos of Lavena when I was younger, but I was too young and naive to understand. I just watched a documentary of her family describing the case, though please be warned there are terrible photos, but it explains the situation well. In the documentary, it says that 1 in 3 women are raped in the US military. What the hell? Why in god's name would any woman want to join that corrupt organization? We need to spread the word. This is truly evil. https://…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:58 PM
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