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That's a good call. Might need to work on my self esteem thx
/r/seduction09/09/17 10:57 AM
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Thanks I'll keep this in mind for the future. Btw, she did the whole 'friends' thing. I said no I'm interested in you but we can spend time knowing each other. She didn't want that. So I said 'Ok' and went no contact for a week. I wake up today and I have a missed call from her at 2am. What do you advice? (Atm I'm only interested in a lay with her or a fwb type thing)
/r/seduction09/09/17 10:55 AM
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I sent her a "so hey are we on for Friday?" and I got back: "Hi - no, sorry I am quite busy... thanks for the invite." So eh. Maybe I suck at reading women but this almost feels like a "no i never want to meet". Why did she say yes on the phone then? Should I just straight up ask her ? Should I act nonchalant say it's ok and just make a joke? Should I just ignore ?
/r/seduction30/05/17 12:14 PM
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I sent her a "so hey are we on for Friday?" and I got back: "Hi - no, sorry I am quite busy... thanks for the invite." So eh. Maybe I suck at reading women but this almost feels like a "no i never want to meet". Why did she say yes on the phone then? Should I just straight up ask her ? Should I act nonchalant say it's ok and just make a joke? Should I just ignore ?
/r/seduction30/05/17 12:14 PM
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But I jsyut don't know how to initiate convo at this point, sicne she hasn't replied. Should I just call her tomorrow?
/r/seduction28/05/17 09:54 PM
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Ehh I wouldn't really want to do that. I want to be alone with her. But I'm not even sure if I or how I should initiate contact with her.
/r/seduction28/05/17 07:48 PM
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(I actually want to call her, but I suddenly rememberd she told me when we met during a night out that she had a boyfriend she was breaking up with.. so that might complicate matters)
/r/seduction28/05/17 05:18 PM
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Send a text asking if it's still on Meh the problem is I asked her out to an art exhibituion on the phone and she said the exhibition sounded cool. She asked till when it was in town, I said I wasnt sure but I was busy with deadlines (I study, she works) but that I would text her an exact date. I found it was leaving pretty early, so the next day I immediately asked if she was free coming weekend and told her we should go friday. So I am not sure if I can ask if it still on. Was it even ever on?…
/r/seduction28/05/17 05:16 PM
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Maybe, but I wanna be sure
/r/seduction28/05/17 04:46 PM
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calibration can you explain?
/r/seduction14/05/17 01:13 PM
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my social anxiety just jumped from 25% to 150%
/r/seduction14/05/17 01:13 PM
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I might be a loud clown. Idk. What would that even mean?
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:40 PM
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Well I wouldn't say it is annoying people. At least, I cant notice annoyance.. but I just think maybe.. quiet guys are more seductive?
/r/seduction13/05/17 07:43 PM
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boisterous The problem is I generally just AM boisterous in social settings (more than 2 people) ..
/r/seduction13/05/17 07:33 PM
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explain?
/r/seduction30/04/17 07:57 PM
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But I want to go out and party more, for the sake of being more outgoing and partying. But once the only goal becomes hooking up and they fail, it is a ruined night you know? Like I went out with a friend, 2 of us. We are dancing. And he is like: hey I am going to make a round. Me: eh what? We're here together man just enjoy He: no no, i want to walk around and check out the ladies.. and there I am randomly alone by my self on the dancefloor lol It just feels off. Imo, have fun, enjoy, and then …
/r/seduction30/04/17 03:54 PM
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Jesus Christ, I might have Borderline myself :(
/r/seduction16/03/17 12:34 PM
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With the disorder I mean, not the book
/r/seduction14/03/17 10:00 PM
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Can you share your experiences with it ?
/r/seduction14/03/17 07:52 PM
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We ended up becoming friends-with-benefits (dont ask me how) but the constant push/pull was awful and painful. It made me super insecure but kept me crazy infatuated at the same time. Finally, she ended up saying it is over 2 weeks ago. I am heartbroken man and I miss her. But I think your assessment that she might have a disorder is correct.. so many weird things I now start to realize isn't normal behaviour
/r/seduction12/03/17 10:22 PM
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Ehm..... this got deleted? Why?
/r/seduction16/12/16 10:02 PM
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I'm not really a seductor, but personally I minimize texts/whatsapps/IMs. It can only work against you.
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:07 PM
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But I have multiple options atm. I just don't have a crush on them, if that makes sense? edit: Basically, I DO care if I lose her lol, I dont care about the other options. They just keep me from texting her like crazy, they're like my lighting rods hehe.
/r/seduction17/11/16 09:47 PM
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