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| 0 | Why does everyone on YouTube use the Yad stop?Haven’t been approaching long. | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Why does everyone on YouTube use the Yad stop?Running up and approaching a woman who’s walking in front of you (going the same direction) as if she’s dropped something. | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 04:48 PM |
| 0 | Why does everyone on YouTube use the Yad stop?Yer my most successful approach was a yad stop so I was curious. | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Daygame on the street, what's a good conversation starter?Cheers, My biggest issue I guess is I feel weird asking a girl for directions on the street I mean everyone has a phone on them with everything on it. I've done it before but only when I had an excuse like when my phone had gone flat. | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 03:42 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid wasting time chatting to girls at clubs?Thanks man will give this a go | /r/seduction | 29/07/18 01:28 PM |
| 2 | How to avoid wasting time chatting to girls at clubs?Don’t know about getting classes but I might get up some YouTube videos and learn some dance moves I can pull out on the floor lol. | /r/seduction | 28/07/18 12:06 PM |
| 2 | How to avoid wasting time chatting to girls at clubs?Dances don’t always necessarily mean a lot, in fact I haven’t asked that for a while sort of forgot lol. | /r/seduction | 28/07/18 05:39 AM |
| 2 | How come I can get makeouts etc at clubs but can't manage to get laid?bit late, when you invite the girl back to yours, what do you usually say to her? Do you tease her and say, your gonna have to wait until later tonight or do you play it underhand and ask to grab a bite to eat etc | /r/seduction | 23/07/18 04:10 PM |
| 1 | How come I can get makeouts etc at clubs but can't manage to get laid?Probably a balancing act for many girls. | /r/seduction | 21/07/18 09:02 AM |
| 1 | How come I can get makeouts etc at clubs but can't manage to get laid?True, not always easy on a packed night out though. | /r/seduction | 21/07/18 07:14 AM |
| 0 | How come I can get makeouts etc at clubs but can't manage to get laid?"You gotta work her up enough" Can you explain what you do? cheers man. | /r/seduction | 21/07/18 05:26 AM |
| 1 | How come I can get makeouts etc at clubs but can't manage to get laid?dude chill out, perhaps there's truth to what your saying but I'm asking for advice here mate if your gonna be a pessimistic dick and not bother to offer anything productive don't bother. | /r/seduction | 21/07/18 05:19 AM |
| 1 | How come I can get makeouts etc at clubs but can't manage to get laid?Thanks for the help, You might be right about the kissing I may be a bit too aggressive and need to improve on that. In all honesty, and you learn this from approaching many girls and just being around people in general people are very much individuals with their own preferences for kissing flirting etc. What can turn one girl on will creep the fuck out of another girl that is how different people are to one another, people also seem to overestimate how much their preferences apply to everyone e… | /r/seduction | 21/07/18 05:02 AM |
| 1 | How come I can get makeouts etc at clubs but can't manage to get laid?Perhaps, without a doubt though people are going to have different preferences for what constitutes good kissing hence I haven't put a lot of thought into it. | /r/seduction | 21/07/18 04:38 AM |
| 1 | How come I can get makeouts etc at clubs but can't manage to get laid?I don't have that much experience with girls but I think this honestly applies with anyone. Unless the girl is just super sensitive you do need to filter yourself to some extent around most people if you don't want to look like a moron. | /r/seduction | 21/07/18 04:35 AM |
| 5 | How come I can get makeouts etc at clubs but can't manage to get laid?Thanks, In response to what you were saying about feeling up, I honestly haven't done it very often at all, mainly just making out. | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 07:06 PM |
| 2 | How come I can get makeouts etc at clubs but can't manage to get laid?I do try but they usually end up just flaking | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 06:59 PM |
| 10 | How come I can get makeouts etc at clubs but can't manage to get laid?lol your name dude haha, you mean like " we can get pizza at my place" yer tried that lol | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 04:27 PM |
| 30 | How come I can get makeouts etc at clubs but can't manage to get laid?Not a bad idea, never thought of that worth a go. | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 04:08 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of my situation when it comes to cold approach?Oh yer Definently lol, no way I would ever be like "look behind you LMAO" | /r/seduction | 18/07/18 10:57 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of my situation when it comes to cold approach?Thanks, what exactly do you mean by front approach? I've seen this used differently. | /r/seduction | 18/07/18 08:02 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of my situation when it comes to cold approach?I'm fine with my voice it's just cold approach can frighten women enough without an ultra deep voice lol lowering your voice a lot of times is used to intimidate others, not exactly ideal like I said. | /r/seduction | 18/07/18 08:00 AM |
| 1 | How do you mitigate the chances of getting in trouble doing day game?how did the fight go? that's not what I meant though. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 09:04 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys stop a girl when doing daygame?fair enough | /r/seduction | 15/07/18 05:09 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys stop a girl when doing daygame?I'm guessing this forum is anti being able to carry pepper spray? | /r/seduction | 15/07/18 05:01 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys stop a girl when doing daygame?Yer man, gotta remember everyone is their own individual obviously some will think it's desperate, some will think it's ballsy and others won't think twice about it. | /r/seduction | 15/07/18 11:57 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys stop a girl when doing daygame?lol, wise guy huh | /r/seduction | 15/07/18 11:19 AM |
| -10 | How do you guys stop a girl when doing daygame?lol you can't even carry pepper spray here, what a joke. | /r/seduction | 15/07/18 06:39 AM |
| 2 | Is the youtube channel "How to Beast" a good source?I found his ideas to be the most helpful as someone who's had to slowly expand their comfort zone in order to approach. | /r/seduction | 15/07/18 05:43 AM |
| 1 | How do you judge age when doing daygame?Agreed. | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 11:48 AM |
| 1 | How do you judge age when doing daygame?fear is a strange thing, rationally I can judge a situation at a distance and go oh duh that's easy what's the worst that could happen? but when I get in the moment my brain doesn't care about logic, more based on animalistic survival instincts. | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 10:57 AM |
| 1 | How do you judge age when doing daygame?nerves hopefully. When I first decided I wanted to do this I thought ah this will be easy I talk to random chicks all the time at work. Approaching them on the street showing interest? damn it's a lot different in the moment at least for me. | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 10:51 AM |
| 2 | How do you judge age when doing daygame?tried that, couldn't approach. Logically it's ridiculous but in the moment the primitive back part of my brain goes oh Fuck no. Have no problems In a bar or whatever but on the street in the day, no. | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 10:27 AM |
| 1 | How do you judge age when doing daygame?LOL haha that would be so awkward. | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 10:23 AM |
| 1 | How do you judge age when doing daygame?seems to be the only way. I'm gonna start by asking girls for directions or the time, something like that and try to work my way up. Found this way harder to do than I initially expected. | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Having trouble getting laid out at clubs, any thoughts?what should I do then? | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Having trouble getting laid out at clubs, any thoughts?Yer I just can't work out how I've been going out for soooo long and gotten with many girls but haven't ended up having sex, even one of my friends thought that was odd. Maybe I'm not trying to close hard enough, any ideas guys? | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Want to try and get a date with this girl on tinder?How should I word it? what do you like doing in your spare time? I don't want to feel like I'm conducting some sort of interview. | /r/seduction | 29/04/18 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Is this an effective way to open women in clubs or bars?True I guess as it immediately draws up the subject of looks, whereas a girl may overlook below average dudes if they can really charm her. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Is this an effective way to open women in clubs or bars?Well it does but as I said you either look good enough for her or you don't I would have thought. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Is this an effective way to open women in clubs or bars?hmm seems to me if others have success with it, it would work for you if she's interested. Obviously personality matters but I would have thought you're either attractive enough for a particular girl or you're not. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Asking out a girl from a group project. Wait or just say fuck it?I'd say do it mate!, I've missed out too many times by waiting until things felt right. | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Couldn't get myself to make any approaches today, any advice?I guess I'm just reluctant to put myself in a vulnerable position if it means I could get treated like shit in return. Like I said I've had some people be real dicks to me in the past over my voice, and it's something that stands out quite a bit. Also I am a little nervous I may go up to someone the wrong age, I'm 22 it can be hard to judge especially at a distance. | /r/seduction | 23/04/18 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Couldn't get myself to make any approaches today, any advice?what do you think I'm afraid of? I guess i'm afraid of feeling like shit. | /r/seduction | 23/04/18 03:01 PM |
| 3 | Couldn't get myself to make any approaches today, any advice?what's your point? Probably say something really insulting about my voice, what did you say?, then she's not interested. Not much I could do, just leave. As I said it's easy to say who cares, but obviously I want them to like me or I wouldn't bother going up to her. | /r/seduction | 23/04/18 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Never get eye contact with girls at clubs?100% Agree, that's what works in my experience. My point was I've seen these apparent scientific ways of courting women on a night out such as sharing a smile and eye contact but never worked in my experience. You look like your there just to find someone which seems desperate rather than having fun. | /r/seduction | 17/04/18 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Never get eye contact with girls at clubs?I do man lol that's why I've had some success haha never worked the other way. | /r/seduction | 17/04/18 01:56 PM |
| 2 | How can I get girls to dance me at the club instead of them standing around?I just go for it, hold her hand, hands on waist etc it's only dancing. Anyway for example I got called weird the other night by a girl to her friends when I tried dancing with her. Iv'e done the same sort of thing other times and have made out with them. I think it seems less awkward when your real drunk for some reason. Gotta give yourself permission to be blown out. | /r/seduction | 16/04/18 07:08 AM |
| 1 | How good looking do you need to be to get consistent matches on tinder these days?I'm making generalizations obviously. | /r/seduction | 15/04/18 01:10 PM |
| 1 | How can I get girls to dance me at the club instead of them standing around?Just start dancing with them. Initiate, Sorry but you have to really get yourself to not give a shit and put your balls on the line. She'll either let you dance with her or make it known she doesn't want to dance with you. You may even get a positive response then her friend will cock block you. | /r/seduction | 15/04/18 06:49 AM |
| 1 | How good looking do you need to be to get consistent matches on tinder these days?You didn't understand what I said. I didn't say they didn't find it attractive, agreed they probably dig stubble not sure if they like how it feels tho. | /r/seduction | 15/04/18 06:23 AM |
| 1 | How good looking do you need to be to get consistent matches on tinder these days?Yer stubble or somethin seems alright but I don't know if many girls want to kiss dudes that aren't clean shaven. | /r/seduction | 14/04/18 09:22 AM |
| 1 | How good looking do you need to be to get consistent matches on tinder these days?I think I'm good looking but i'm a little on the boyish side, my eyebrows are somewhat thin and I don't have a bomb ass jawline. | /r/seduction | 14/04/18 03:12 AM |
| 1 | How good looking do you need to be to get consistent matches on tinder these days?yer I'm gonna start cold approaching, more work? you mean anxiety? | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Is a scar on the neck a turn off?I'd post one but I don't know how/ think I can on this. | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Is a scar on the neck a turn off?it's more how it looks, it's sort of curved like a smiley face. | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Is a scar on the neck a turn off?It's fairly noticeable sometimes but I don't ever really get asked about it honestly. | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Any guys successful on tinder mind sharing their profile with us?Will have to give that one a go. | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Any guys successful on tinder mind sharing their profile with us?Exactly they have a financial incentive to make you insecure. | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Any guys successful on tinder mind sharing their profile with us?said she drank in her profile, didn't look like a decent person tbh. | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 01:36 PM |
| 3 | Any guys successful on tinder mind sharing their profile with us?You actually call them bbw's? Haha 😂 | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Any guys successful on tinder mind sharing their profile with us?Cool Santa gets the ladies lol. | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 12:26 PM |
| 2 | 28 y/o with no friendsMy advice is to put yourself out of your comfort zone, if you can I'd find a job working on a checkout somewhere perhaps even a bar. Your social skills likely aren't too good if your going days without talking to anyone. If it's too much you can ask to work on one of the isles for a bit until you build up confidence or if it becomes too much to handle. You should find it easier to make friends or even just aquaitances once your social skills are in good knick. As for finding friends try to find … | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 11:37 AM |
| 13 | Any guys successful on tinder mind sharing their profile with us?That makes a lot of sense actually. Seems quite obvious, it's the same reason why a lot of chubby girls have great personalities. They can't use their looks as a crutch to get by. | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Any guys successful on tinder mind sharing their profile with us?Definetly! would really appreciate that. | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Any guys successful on tinder mind sharing their profile with us?You could probably look better if you really tried to take great photos, but you should be at least getting a few matches already IMO. | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 09:47 AM |
| 6 | Any guys successful on tinder mind sharing their profile with us?Tinder seems sort of rigged a lot of times tbh. Agreed I'd expect you to get quite a few matches aswell. | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 09:45 AM |
| 4 | Any guys successful on tinder mind sharing their profile with us?Matched with a girl, gave me an attitude the whole time. Asked her out for a drink said she's not interested. WTF are you matching with dudes for!? waste of time. | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 09:38 AM |
| 33 | Any guys successful on tinder mind sharing their profile with us?What kind of response do you get from that? | /r/seduction | 02/04/18 01:57 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do you get a one night stand?"Muscular men have a 30-40% first night sex ratio over their scrawnier peers" Source? | /r/seduction | 01/04/18 05:40 AM |
| 1 | How the hell do you get a one night stand?Nice haha 😀 | /r/seduction | 31/03/18 04:50 AM |
| 1 | How the hell do you get a one night stand?Anything in particular you use as an opener? | /r/seduction | 31/03/18 03:12 AM |
| 1 | How the hell do you get a one night stand?I usually get a makeout or something and then they end up going somewhere else dancing or decide to leave with their friends. Seems like a lot get a kick out of stringing a dude along, annoying as fuck. I should at least get the number tho that way if theres pressure to go off with friends I can hit them up later, or you think it's a waste of time? If I was gonna ask to leave personally I'd say you wanna go get somethin to eat? or get out of all this noise? Somethin more subtle. | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do you get a one night stand?Good info Thanks! | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Tinder dosen't seem to be working, any help?Haha What do you think the reaction is from most women? do they look at you like a desperate nuisance? Or some ballsy as dude? | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 08:24 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do you get a one night stand?Any tips for what I should do online other than looking good? How flirty are you with them? | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 08:12 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do you get a one night stand?Close, as in trying to bring the girl back home you mean? that's really hard lol what's been stopping you? not interested or ducking off with her friends? | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 08:01 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do you get a one night stand?you pulled a girl from the club before? | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 07:07 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do you get a one night stand?Haha that's not a bad idea lol never thought about it like that, not everyone reads tinder bios tho pretty sure many just speed swipe. Might need some ab pics lol, good way to make the women in town hate me tho 😕. How many girls do you think are actually out at clubs to get laid on any given night? Definently a minority at most I'd imagine. | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 06:38 PM |
| 2 | How the hell do you get a one night stand?Cheers, Nice one! I don't usually go for the number often enough, I'm always trying to pull that night lol I'll have to start tho. | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 06:27 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do you get a one night stand?Honestly I've never felt that comfortable talking to groups, have tended to feel at ease talking to most friends one on one more. It can be really hard to even intervene into a group once they've got a clique going on, that's another big problem actually. | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 05:03 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do you get a one night stand?Thanks man! 😃 I'll give it a go. | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 04:56 PM |
| 2 | How the hell do you get a one night stand?Hahaha 😂 I kept trying to send that message but it said error or somethin | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Tinder dosen't seem to be working, any help?Nice you did it tho!, Did you fumble a bit the first couple approaches? | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Tinder dosen't seem to be working, any help?nah you can use your cell phone numb to log in aswell, as a new person. Not sure if it matters too much a lot of people prolly rush through swiping without caring for connections. I've got quite a few matches now as the model. Quite alot more than I was getting with mine, thing is nearly all are below average and I haven't matched with anyone that was that hot. | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Tinder dosen't seem to be working, any help?Cool I'll have to give it a go, I do find it really scary honestly which conciously is pretty dumb. Need to shut off my internal dialogue to do it, I think quite a lot. | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 03:48 PM |
| -2 | How the hell do you get a one night stand?Why does it say two comments I can only see your post brainbeam. | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 12:35 PM |
| -2 | How the hell do you get a one night stand?Why does it say two comments I can only see yours brainbeam. | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 12:34 PM |
| -1 | How the hell do you get a one night stand?Why does it say two comments? Can't see anythn else | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 12:30 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do you get a one night stand?Why does it say two comments? | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Tinder dosen't seem to be working, any help?I've been considering doing this but the whole meetoo thing is really blurring the line on acceptable behaviour. Has anyone accused you of harassing them for doing this? | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Tinder dosen't seem to be working, any help?wtf does that have to do with the conversation? | /r/seduction | 29/03/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Tinder dosen't seem to be working, any help?I've matched up with the rare, to put it politely ha troll now. Pretty sure tinder gives your account some kind of score. I've also got an old phone that's fairly slow. I tried to make the model dude look somewhat passable as a real guy. We'll see how it goes. | /r/seduction | 29/03/18 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Tinder dosen't seem to be working, any help?Yer probably haha, do you do daygame? | /r/seduction | 29/03/18 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Approaching girls with friends at clubs?Thanks man, Whilst this is good and worth giving a go I like the introduction, I find looking at it too scientifically like a plan makes me come across as more serious and like I'm just there to pick up women which seems desperate. I think the girls might sense that your trying to execute something with your cards to your chest, rather than being genuine with no agenda other than to have a good night (this is probably the wrong subreddit to post this, you can tell I'm not a pua guy) Personally i… | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Approaching girls with friends at clubs?I'll give it a try again but it seems to me that not many women at all would be willing to go home with a guy if their friends were around to see, nor ditch them but perhaps I'm wrong. How often do you think you could pull girls from a club, I'm curious? If I'm with the right chick at the right time I'll get a makeout but that sort of thing seems to be the most women are willing to do on a night out, maybe I get too clingy who knows. | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Approaching girls with friends at clubs?Sorry I think I posted this in the wrong place man, I might have a quick look. Good luck with the women man. | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Approaching girls with friends at clubs?Does that shit even work? | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 06:47 PM |
| 1 | How to react when girl has a boyfriend?was gonna comment this, Johnny bravo lol | /r/seduction | 23/03/18 06:31 PM |
| 2 | How to establish attractionI think some girls will just be naturally attracted to your personality, I don't think you can really force it. It may take a while to find the right person. The only thing I can think of that seems to make people fond of you is being quick witted in a funny way. My general rule is if your going to hit on women you run the risk of seeming like a creep to those uninterested. It's an opinion everyone has them, let it go and move on. | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 09:08 AM |
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