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Or just outsourcing the task of having sex with their unsexy husband? “Knock yourself out honey”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:22 PM
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I can’t wait for Google’s gibberish to English translator. I bet this is interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 09:25 AM
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and eat TV dinners that they then put in the sink. tray, box, and all. saves a trip to the trashcan. thank god for garbage disposals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 08:20 AM
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I think the common thing is a significant lack of social exposure and self esteem/confidence. so gd true. cant win if you dont play.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 08:39 PM
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I’m a gentleman sir, i could never accept payment for such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:18 PM
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1- married - i think cheating is unacceptable. 2- not stupid - accepting an offer of casual sex at work is… unwise at best. The ego boost and knowing you were given the option is just as good, at least for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:19 PM
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oh, i can assure you, it is reality based. "my husband is off shore for two weeks, i need someone to keep me company" "its lunchtime, have you had anything? you should come inside, if you see anything you like, you can have it." it does happen. my response has always been to show no reaction, finish the job, and gtfo and to the next job.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:27 AM
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I can assure you women can detect the faintest trace of eyeliner on a man from a thousand yards away, in the dark.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 04:16 AM
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while she didnt starfish... "what works best for you?" "thats for you to find out!" oh no. thats some, "your princess is in another castle" bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:27 PM
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I know a lot of women actually want a guy who is tougher and takes what he wants (consensually of course). or just has two different answers already loaded for questions like, "where do you want to go to eat?" A tough caveman would crush such a situation. "idk, where do you want to eat?" wont get you very far. "agreeably decisive" may be a better term for, "tough caveman"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:56 PM
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Hey, you’re gonna have to just gtfo. I come here to read ridiculous shit from people I suspect have never even had a conversation with the opposite sex. You bringing this reasonable pov in here is harshing my mellow.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:06 AM
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Yeah, okay. Let's just pretend that everyone has had the same experience as you. but not everybody has proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:39 PM
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Okay, but i think you can atleast agree that there are other people out there who have had different experiences. no, youre wrong, mommas right!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:35 PM
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You are so talking out your ass. I was raised by a single woman, a widow, and and I was taught that women are THE DEVIL!!!!!1!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:06 PM
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Now maybe my experience is wildly different than others, but IME, any women a particular woman doesnt like are by default ugly. So by applying that, "not me, or my friends, but someone else may want some of that" straight up code for, "ewwww, no."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:33 PM
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But that seems like too short of a list. Thats because it is. The truth imo is that the majority of men posting here are not looking for a long term committed relationship. No, they are looking for a long term committed sexual partner. The reality is sex is the activity you will spend the least amount of time on in a relationship. Eating, talking, even being slightly annoyed at each other pushes their imagined non stop porn shoot fantasy pretty low on the totem pole. And thats by no means an exh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:51 PM
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100% agree except for: Give up completely at the first hint of resistance Move on at the first hint of resistance split the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:03 AM
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no. women give the appearance of getting over breakups faster because they had already broken up and grieved the death of the relationship before they give formal notice its over. Youre confusing getting over the relationship with feeling bad for seeing someone they care about (but can no longer be with) hurting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:34 AM
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It’s almost people are individuals with their own unique wants, needs, expectations, and boundaries. I can see why it’s so frustrating for so many- searching for an instruction manual that doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:33 PM
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have you considered not staring at the ground and tapping the tips of your index fingers together? Srsly, how do you get thru basic life if your so defeated and resigned to your empty life of trying to get socks pregnant? what if you, and this whole philosophy was just plain wrong, and youre working against yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:26 AM
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Men give terrible dating advice. People with limited to no experience give terrible advice. Those operating off pure theory and their feelings.. they love to give their opinions...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:47 PM
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I doubt many of them are particularly content with their status I feel your doubt is more than justified. Subtle point that is nearly always missed- Female Dating Strategy. Dating... thats it... there is no end game.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:37 PM
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TBH, Im so conflicted about FDS. On one hand, I think its massively important for women to have standards, self respect, etc. I know it sounds kinda dumb stating it like that, but there are plenty of women who dont get it, or at least act like they dont. On the other, it ultimately ends up teaching women to be a bland husk of a person that brings precious little to the table but an attempt to leverage sex for everything. How much of it is just bluster and venting on their subreddit? who knows, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:15 PM
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Yknow, this is one of the first times Ive seen something on here, and felt that it has something to it, and for some it may define them. Ive experienced a smaller scale version of this several times in my marriage, and if anything, maybe my experience may help you refine your point. I would often (yes, past tense) do something nice for my wife, just because, she would be happy about it, and I would too. But she would come to expect this as the norm, transforming it from something special, fun, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 02:57 AM
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Is this a serious question? cause the answer is really easy, you wont like it, but for a lot of men its simply, "someone else's problem."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:26 PM
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An interesting take, but I cant help but think the core issue is actually whether or not a man actually matures into an adult or not. This is more about if one learns how to function in society, learn self control, become a decent person. Im not saying youre wrong, but I dont think what youre describing is a problem of masculinity. Its unchecked aggression teamed up with massive self doubt/insecurity over their place and purpose. I have seen women who exhibit these same problems, rage, inability…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 02:47 AM
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it depends on the relationship, if its a drag on one or both, then attraction turns to, "done with this shit" Its also the personalities present. someone who sits in front of the tv constantly thinking, "id fuck that" probably will have a wandering eye no matter what circumstances they find themselves in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 09:45 PM
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Because I’m not wasting my time reading all of that; sorry you wasted your time. No need to lie. You read it. You just dont have an answer to it. Youre on reddit, you have plenty of time to waste. You never directly addressed the actual point; are men or women more capable of barebones survival? The answer is men. Actually, I did, in the post you claim you didnt read. Read it again, with less butthurt this time. Women here being so offended by that fact is unfortunate. You really dont understand…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 07:23 AM
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That’s a lot of word vomit to avoid admitting you know men are more capable of women. In other words you have no rebuttal. Weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:42 AM
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When asked point blank if you consider yourself a, "great man" and you reply with, "even the weakest men..." Interesting... Seriously, the only people who are willing to debate whether or not the average man is physically more powerful than the average woman are those that have not had any dealings with the opposite sex. In fact, Ill save you the trouble, and bust out with, "the strongest woman in the world is stronger than a lot of people, but the strongest man in the world is stronger than eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:28 AM
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The point is men would be far more able Ah... I see. There are several flaws with that line of reasoning. But I shall pick at just one. The point is men would be far more able That should be corrected to great men would be far more able, and the sentence ended. Do you believe yourself to be a, great man?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:15 AM
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Where are you going with this? I dont know of anyone who fits what I suspect is your notion of not depending on men, or anyone else in general. How far you think most people would get if they had to kill their own food? Make their own clothes? Because everyone trades/barters/purchases from other people, everybody, "depends" on others...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:27 AM
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Very many people, women included, DO NOT talk about what turns them on or what they like during sex. I have point blank and bluntly asked partners in the past, only to get a coy, "thats for you to figure out!" or, "...I thought you knew?" It gets taken care of, but Id rather deliver exactly whats needed rather than hit or miss, sounding for all the world like an erotic vision test.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 01:17 AM
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An extremely limited or completely non-existent social life, usually due to said poor social skills That right there. Despite at the time having at least a full quarter of the traits on that list. Being in a social group that had many members, stuff just happens... In spite of your personal flaws, however numerous they may be, no matter how obnoxious you can be, someone is going to find your antics amusing. Of course, the better your traits are, the better off you are, but you cant win the lotte…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 12:58 AM
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Oddly enough, I knew exactly what the clip would be. Doesnt that suck? I could have won the lottery or something, but no, I unwittingly had to have made a finger on a monkey paw curl up just for that...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 06:49 PM
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Youre wrong, but only by a slight degree. Its more like sour graping than one upping. Tom: "Im in a long term relationship" Dick: "Better get a paternity test" Harry: "Lumberg fucked her"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 06:02 PM
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Ummmm, no. And Im saying this as a man, who unfortunately is not a billionaire, this is ridiculous. Maybe you should go out and talk to some women in a social setting, none of what you stated holds up. The only point of yours that comes close to being accurate is your fourth point-- Women can usually "enjoy" lighter sentences for a given offence than a man would, but not always. But beyond that, naw man, youre dead wrong. You dont have a viewpoint to change, just fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:30 AM
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Oh thats easy; constantly in and out of; breaking up, and getting back together with one or more men. Basically anyone who would make you a part of a love triangle. Or really any complex shape. The drama such a person cultivates and brings... the real personal danger. No, hard no, trumps everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 02:40 PM
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She said for the most part the guys are average and or not her type. For me as a 32 year old man, it’s very rare I see a flat out ugly girl. Thats because stopping a clock is just as hard as stopping traffic. Most people are.... average.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 03:10 PM
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I don't really want to see anyone's face that uses this subreddit. Its glory holes then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 10:27 PM
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not who you responded to, and not the article requested, but, very relevant, and probably expands upon it. http://boysvswomen.com/#/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 01:09 PM
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Not a woman, so, this is based off my observations, conversations, etc... Creepy > any positive trait, and its a one way ticket. Doesnt matter how good looking a guy can be, once he has the, "creepy" tag, his prospects within that social circle are over. Creepy is basically inappropriate seeming, plus sensation of minor threat. Ie; someone who makes women feel vaguely unsafe. Eyefucking while lurking is a hot ticket to creepy. Its also something more attractive individuals with more confidence w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 04:45 AM
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Whats fat? Almost overweight? a stomach roll? Gut that hangs to their knees? Shapeless blob? Oww mah leg? Or just not a teen that lives on a brick of top ramen every third day? Everyone has their preferences, but I do think the younger the man, the more likely they are going to insist on very, very thin. However, at some point the phrase, "an ass like two pigs fighting under a blanket" may change from an insult to a intriguing, and desirable description. But those guys are probably too busy doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:59 PM
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Its odd really. What youve wrote, Ive met men and women that it applies too. What youre describing is just a self esteem issue, and hopefully one that you will solve soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 05:04 AM
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Its not often I get to just nod and point at the correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 02:39 AM
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What do you mean by awesome personality? Ahhh, your asking me to answer possibly what is for intents and purposes the very core question of this sub. Fuckit, I have nothing better to do. Its subjective, its all subjective. What I think is awesome, you may find total garbage. What you think is awesome may be grounds for burning you at the stake. While an individual may have likes that overlap with a great deal of the population, they may also have taste that are unique to them. You can also like …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 01:23 AM
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I totally get what youre saying, but I dont think thats the case. I think the reason that they think women are lying is because of an inflated opinion of themselves. They think they have an awesome personality, when in reality they dont. And being that a lot of us, men and women, have grown up being told were superspecial and supergreat just the way we are, just be yourself, they may not ever get clued in to the fact their personality may have serious flaw. This is where character comes in. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 08:29 PM
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extroverts. Often mistaken for confidence. Having the appearance of hitting a desirable trait multiple times would be hard to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 12:08 AM
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I completely agree. Of course peoples views on anything change over time. And someone who experiences no growth is in for a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 02:23 PM
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I cant help but agree with your points, with a few exceptions of course. I think, "cannot change who they are attracted to" cannot get enough bold, underline and exclamation points. From a male perspective, yes, Ive been exposed to what charts and graphs tell me are the most beautiful women to ever exist, but it doesnt explain why I can myself getting dumber looking at that objectively homely girl at the supermarket. And Id have a hard time believing that sort of sentiment isnt true regardless o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 01:14 PM
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I'm only 5'8". But I've got a nice face, fashion sense, and I work out hard. Im pretty much convinced that for a lot of women, "6 feet tall and over" is code for taller than they are. All theyre really looking for is someone who does not make them feel like the bigger one in the relationship. As long as you are larger than them in some way, even an intangible quality, thats what really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/20 12:57 PM
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First of all, my words would probably not be that different face to face. If you dont think so, read your first response to me, then read this most recent one. It is radically different. Its not the words, its how theyre used. We have a bit of overlap in background. I worked for banks, and later on construction, no military background however. So I can assure you, colorful language is something I use... generously. I try not to posting, too easy for the message to get lost. But there is a differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 06:39 PM
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This bullshit, this stupid shit right here is you being a fucking idiot, not you spouting some universal truth about manhood. 5'10 but just one look at him you knew he could handle himself. Cool, I look like maybe more trouble than its worth. Was there anything to suggest im getting into fights? I have no doubt your excop friend outclasses me in every way when it comes to getting into a fight. But he takes unneeded risk. I dont go to bars, cause I know thats where trouble lies. I do not put myse…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 05:14 PM
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I think its a very minor taste, but not nearly the same. Im a remarkably unremarkable man, at 5'10", Im an agreeable height, pretty much same can be said for build, nothing really all that special. That being said, I have yet to meet anyone that if they were say in a fit a rage at me, I wouldnt be able to either defend myself or flee the scene. I have seen men get outraged, angry, and, if there werent witnesses, im sure violent could also be applied. That akwardness you felt, Im sure women feel,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 06:30 PM
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This is going to be mindblowing shit, but... they dont. Some people do, so people dont. It all boils down to if someone was surprised or otherwise not ready for a breakup, and how invested they were. I have seen more than a few women be absolutely wrecked by an ended relationship, pining over their ex for a year and longer. But yes, if someone cant wait to get out of a relationship with someone else, of course its going to seem like it was easy for them to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 03:34 AM
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Nearly all of my friends have been women, so... no, I do not find them useless. so I wonder why a lot of guys will say friendship with women is valueless? (Obviously in the case of you want to be more than friends then it would be valueless in compairson to what you really want. I mean in cases were both see eachother platonically) That covers at least the dishonest ones, who are trying to work a friendship into a sexual encounter. How do you blanket decide one gender has nothing to offer in a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 05:18 AM
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IMHO its because it is easy at times to confuse, "asshole" woth confidence. Nothing sells someone quite as hard appearing to appearing confident and without a care in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 04:30 PM
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He's not sexual or not escalating. The women around him can't picture him with a penis because he's not masculine enough. Not the exact words Id use, but I cant say youre wrong at all. If youre not creating some kind of tension, if youre not putting out some kind of vibe that youre available and interested-- people will assume youre not, and they wont be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:15 AM
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If it were as you say, the statistics wouldn't line up the way they do. Agreeing who is attractive isnt the same as keeping your own list of what is also attractive to you Im not disputing the results of w/e survey, im disputing their value.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 01:01 AM
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I dont buy the scale nonsense, it just doesnt hold up outside of still photos. Yes, I could look at the charts over at /rateme or w/e, and while we could probably all agree on what a sideshow freak is, once we get outside of the realm of unfortunate and terrible, gl agreeing. Its not just men and women that rate differently, its every single unique individual. Someone that you may not notice may impossible for someone else to look away from. No harm in being the best version of yourself possible…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 09:19 PM
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You are the type of man you want to be. External sources can plead their case, but ultimately who you are is up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 02:04 PM
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I agree with every single thing you said. Yeah.. um.. really nothing to say or add to that, you crushed giving the explanation of my pov.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:23 AM
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What if.. just go with me a minute or two here... What if I were to tell you that I have no malice or anything like that against you. That I have no idea who you are or what you do, and that it doesnt matter at all to me. Everything you have stated is either outright wrong, or your understanding of it is seriously flawed. That 80/20 rule is entirely bullshit, the way you think of it. Women are not a monolithic group, they do not share a hivemind. They are individuals with their own thought, tast…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 12:17 AM
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That’s the issue. It probably is. How do you intend on fixing yourself? Or do you really think the problem lies with all the women out there, and its not something with you? Taking a hard, honest, critical look at yourself would be a good place to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:07 AM
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ok, first off, its hoard, not horde, nor even whored, which tbh, Im actually surprised you didnt use. while they sound alike, theyre actually different words with different meanings. Homophones. Thats the term that would describe those words in relation to each other. Enough of that! We have "important" stuff to discuss! Remember at the start of this pandemic, you would see videos of people hoarding toilet paper. Mounts of toilet paper in their cart and thought they were disgusting individuals. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 01:50 AM
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The biggest issue is that women like to horde sex This is the greatest day of my life. Im not sure if I ever been exposed to a concept so hilarious! We have someone who thinks women are some kind of magical sex-dragon living within a high mountain, resting in her softly lit lair, seemingly asleep-- but always one eye is watching, curled up upon her treasure, her jealously guarded hoard of sex. Sometimes she even dives into and swims thru her hoard of fucks, ala Scrooge McDuck. but alas...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:54 AM
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i love feeling sexy, being noticed for being sexy & it makes me feel good about me. That fits in nicely with my thoughts on the subject-- Its rude not to notice, but leering is gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:25 PM
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lol, everyone is such an independant badass till actual emotion gets involved...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 03:03 AM
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I see a lot of people on here saying that its a tell of being a snob, or expecting a jetsetting lifestyle, demanding nothing but the finest of pickles and hotdogs. Maybe... What I see is someone giving a one sentence description of perhaps the greatest experience of their life. This.. is on a dating profile you say? Interesting, so theyre giving you enough insight/info to make a crushing intro, but instead of seizing on it.... Yknow, thinking on your feet is a must have skill. If its tough onlin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:51 AM
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To open up a girl, you talk about how you’re going to pitch a tent with your head between her legs and stay there overnight. Mmm, indeed. I have had good fortune with, "I wanna wear you like a feedbag."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 10:44 PM
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This is most concerning. Alarming-- Troubling even. I never thought it would be possible to see a post on a sub like this and go, "Yeah... uhuh... ok, this all checks out." Only enen minor nit I could have is that I have never known a woman who did not greatly appreciate acts of service. And if you can combine act with memory, good lord... I had a coworker that looooved to gobble down cough drops. Didnt have a cough, just strung out on that honey lemon menthol flavor. I know, no accounting for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 08:59 AM
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They don't pursue as often as men. I don't paint individuals with broad strokes but I notice statistical trends. Someone being 6'2" doesn't change that the average man is 5'10". That is completely... accurate and fair. Its just me being pedantic over disclaimers like ,"most" "often" "usually" not being present. I came off as belligerent when I did not intend to. My apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 12:26 AM
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You are not addressing my points, and just deflecting. I explained why your "reasons" were bunk. You have no argument. Odd, thats how I view everything you have said. We are done here. Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 10:22 PM
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It is the last resort when you have no argument. You were the one who skipped to the last resort with your mgtow nonsense. And your tone is getting borderline hysterical. Its almost like youre defending a completely fantasy based scenario. "the special hole" thats in the thread name, right? Its pretty clear what its referring too. Its also pretty clear we have both proven that we see things differently. If you really want to keep arguing, im game, but this is going nowhere. And please stop confu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 09:27 PM
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You seem to think this is inherently evil. Not at all. I dont paint people in general with broad strokes. But if you dont think women also pursue, you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 09:09 PM
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You are going to deny it, but you can't deny you aren't implying that they aren't "manning up" when you say "packing up their balls and going home", even if you ignore the double entendre. you can save your shaming language. It won't work on me, or people who are MGTOW. Save your sanctimony, It doesnt work on me, or in any other situation you created. What I am saying is I cant relate to you or your concerns. Ive never travelled in a social circle where partners are passed around. I have never f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 07:29 AM
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Female sexuality can't be predatory since they don't have to pursue men. Spiders dont chase flies either. absolutes are ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 06:45 AM
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That was just wierd, idek what it was supposed to mean. I have some strong disagreements with MGTOW, and I am not one per say, but one thing that really rings true is "We don't recruit, we just wait for members to arrive". It amazes me how different the experience is for some men. But if the only solution they can think of is packing up their balls and going home, thats on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 06:11 AM
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I get what your saying, its amusing, and as a fan and fellow practitioner of ridiculous example to nth degree, that was pretty good. But back to reality, Im really sorry so many of you are frustrated over boundaries and your own self doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 05:24 AM
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If women have done things with past partners that they claim to like, but won't do it with you, wouldn't you want to know why? Thats a you issue, not a them issue. And tbh, I completely disbelieve this line of logic, maybe Im special, maybe Ive had nothing but right time right place kind of luck in relationships. Again its just my experience, but certain positions are far more likely to be declined than an act. Some people want to know the reason, and if it's because of them, then that would be …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 11:09 PM
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It sounds like your trying to say that for women, some men are for recreation, others are for procreation. Im not about to say that not a single woman thinks that way, im sure some do, but on the whole it sounds like nonsense. I think a lot of people just cant over the fact that the past is the past, and thats that. If someone doesnt want to perform a certain act with you its for no other reason than they just dont want to. For any reason or no reason at all. But most likely because they either …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 01:02 PM
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You dont venture off reddit into reality much do you? This is going to sound like wild shit, but men and women are people who more or less want the exact same things. In my experience, women sigh, mope, and get ll, "the sky is falling" over romantic issues, or the lack thereof just as much as men. The unspoken question/complaint in all these subs is, "why not with me?" flash to the ben kenobi meme, "Of course I know him, hes me!" But no, its easier to blame the who youre after than fix your own …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 10:25 PM
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most people are trash in general finally after wading thru miles of garbage...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 05:41 AM
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No, I am talking about, "I lost a substantial amount of weight, but fuckit, these still work"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 07:16 AM
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like the average guy wears clothes that don't fit lmaooo They dont dude. Do you have pants that are a couple sizes too big? No problem, thats what belts are for! Well... yes... but not that much. If you can slip em off without undoing em, they are too big, and other people see this. And its really not a good look. Getting clothes that are your size is pretty important.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 06:55 AM
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You make nothing but reasonable, rational points, that I can only agree with, except: security/passport guards who bizarrely are thrown by it will be around much longer. I know truth when I hear it, Im sure you do to. And so do those security/passport guards? Yeah, them too. But I dont think theyre confounded so much as either being hamstrung by rules, or just being a dick. And sadly, I dont think theyre going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 05:08 PM
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But its hard because that isn't a legal issue - its bullshit that you were refused entry, you had every legal right to just be let straight in But this is where reality kicks in the door. This is a brutal concept that is really hard to accept; being right isnt enough. In the end, nobody cares. About your wants, your needs, ultimately about you. Sure, there are billions of people on the face of the planet, and with luck, youre going to stumble across an exception here and there, so please, hold o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 02:10 PM
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47m us. I have been married 20 years. My wife kept her maiden name for the first 7 or so. It didnt seem important to either of us until I was refused after hours admittance to visit her. Due to various meds she was on, and a little something called, "tylenol toxicity" she was in liver failure, and more or less dying. She was drifting in and out of consciousness, wasnt sure where or when it was. But you see, because our last names were different, I was refused entry. She recovered, and changed he…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 05:31 AM
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My parents had a large number of friends and would regularly meet new people. For real. My parents and inlaws even knew and associated with people they didnt particularly care for. They knew their neighbors too. I have no idea how they did it, and sadly, I dont think they know how they did it either. As evidenced by my inlaws moving cross country and being more or less freiendless. Which tells me, its not just them, or me, or you, but the whole world has got a little frostier.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:08 PM
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thats where posture comes in. Standing up straight will cause you to tower over someone who is 6' tall with bad posture.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:29 AM
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You’re not tall, but you’re not short. It’s the guys that are like, 5’7 or shorter, that have a much harder time. ok, that makes sense, im always, "this shit doesnt happen" But then again, Im 5'10" barefoot, which sounds like its the "fine.. i guess thatll work" height.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:23 AM
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I know that the there are more than a few women on subreddits like this one are active, engaged, and willing to talk. And by willing, i mean anywhere from the friendly side of tolerant to enthusiastic. i think actually listening to someone is one form of caring. even if we don't actually reach the same the same conclusion, we still listened and considered. I agree with you, on every single point. I think its a nice piece of validation, letting someone know that they have a voice, and have been h…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:23 PM
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The past is grass. No, no it is not. What did he do in the past to kill those feelings, that emotional connection? Where was he while his friend was dying and the resentment was blooming?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:52 PM
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Yeah, its almost like all those charts and graphs aand scales be damned. People are gonna like what they like and there is really no deeper explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 05:53 AM
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Hell some women find ron perlman attractive.. Ive had friends who drooled over him, "he looks gentle"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 04:05 AM
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superior powers of sex-urge repression. Its really not a super power. After a generation only the men without the ability to suppress effectively will have kids. lol.. You are confusing self control with asexual. I have fathered 1 child. I dont need farm labor. How many women would be eager to have the baby of a man who doesn't have any urge to sleep with them? I have sex about 1-3 times a week. Ill bet you that is a bit more than the dudes who are proclaiming themselves sexual tyrannosaurs, act…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 08:07 PM
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uhm...no? The question makes it sound like men are creatures with little to no self control put on crass, embarrassing, wildly inappropriate displays, that range anywhere from catcalling to whipping out thei-- Right.... Can I start this over? Now, Im not the ambassador (Manbassador?) for all men, so while what Im going to say describes me, it may or may not describe any other man. Pointless disclaimer. Whatever. No. I have not resented any woman for making me horny. I make me horny. Thats all in…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 08:09 AM
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You’re in a distinct minority I dont think she is. Everyone has their own unique idea of attractive. If thats her type, thats her type. Kinda presumptuous to argue her taste, dontcha think?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 09:35 AM
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I dont think its that rare. To be completely honest, I think its what most people are looking for. I never looked for casual sex, way too risky emotionally for me, and when it did happen, always left me feeling empty. Almost like, surprised that it was just that. So, no, I definitely prioritize a romantic relationship over a casual encounter. Its probably why Ive been married over 20 years, instead of crying on reddit about women being picky having standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 09:26 AM
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Nobody knows whats going on inside anyone elses head. Everyone wants almost the exact same things, just in slightly different amounts. The problem being that almost part. Im talking about regular, emotionally well adjusted people. See, you trying to tell me that if women would only relax and let men do whatever it would all good. I am absolutely 100% convinced that women know men want to have sex. This is the crazy part, so do women. But, alas, they seem to want enjoyable sex. I know youre going…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:40 AM
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because its hard one to accept for some people that not wanting to have sex with you does not mean they do not want to have sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 11:27 PM
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Taking steps to become more attractive helps by making you more attractive to everyone you deal with. If you havent taken the plunge yet, you should. Being good looking is one of the best decisions I ever made, you should totally do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 11:02 PM
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No, I didnt find it curt at all. I viewed it as wonderfully to the point. I envy people that can do that, the urge to make every post the length of a russian novel is too real. I mean I could have said nothing, or np, or lol, or any combo, but nope, here I go like Im channeling the spirit of some foolish creature from Aesop's fables.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 10:07 PM
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It's really sad you girls in here resent men like you do. Hey man, this is a you problem. I have messaged quite a few posters on FDS when I wanted to say something. A few have been silent, I came off poorly to one and was answered not with hostility, but with a chiding tone, but by and large I have been met with warm a warm friendly tone, I have had extended conversations, I have even been received a book recommendation because they thought I may find it a valuable tool in becoming better versio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 09:55 PM
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I’m glad men like you exist. Thank you, that has just absolutely made my day better! I think a man hearing your perspective from you would be much more impactful or believable than for them to hear it from a woman. I wish I had your confidence. If you scour my post history, you will quite probably hear me refer to myself as, "remarkably unremarkable" My eyes work like any other mans, and my ears more or less like any other mans. Its all there, in plain sight, if you choose to see it for what it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 09:38 PM
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I have to say I think you're way off on your speculation about why dick pics are so offensive. Unsolicited pics, from someone you're not romantically involved with, are visual sexual abuse. It's a form of sexual assault. Fair enough, thank you, thats exactly why I asked for input. Far more often than Id care to admit, I miss the obvious, elegant answer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 09:01 PM
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What makes you think Im shocked by how terrible males are? I have seen a man force open and attempt to crawl thru a drive thru window to get to a co-worker of mine because she wasnt giving him the reaction he expected to his pickup lines and no doubt tempting offer of the best dick ever. I zip over to keep this guy out, ill be honest, I was pretty amped over the completely justified opportunity to slam someones head in the sliding window, and I stated as much. She stopped me. "NO! youre just goi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 04:20 PM
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Last year, I had a 19 year old give me her number, and ask me out. I was 46. That is a 27 year difference. I was approached. No, besides me being intolerable for a few days nothing came of it, cause not only am I married, but... thats a kid. I agree with you, But I would say that pursuing someone vastly younger than yourself is more unprincipled than anything else, and thats at best. Would I schmooze up to a 19 year old girl just sitting there minding her own business? Absolutely not. While you …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 04:49 PM
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I dont think my wife would be ok with this at all. Im not sure what the point is here, because throwing in the kissing just makes it really confusing and really makes boundaries murky at best. Would I be open to a close friendship that has no physical contact aspect to it, but has light romantic overtones? Absolutely. But throw in kissing and all the other trappings of a serious romantic relationship, with Im sure demands of exclusivity, and no, hard pass, id be an unfulfilled emotional wreck. F…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:04 AM
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The 40 year old. She has her shit together, Shes age appropriate for me. The 40 year old would be such a much better fit it isnt funny. We would have so much more to talk about, I mean, is there supposed to be a downside here? I would feel a lot more at ease knowing that if I dropped dead or something, the 40 year old would not be faced with an uncertain future. Plus, shes basically a doctor, wow, who would pass that up?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 01:50 AM
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Idk. I have never given a shit about a body count. Ive never thought of anyone as a slut, and have never thought less of anyone because their sexual history. I feel like Im about to say something that is going to be met with either rolled eyes and, "no shit?" or "no u!" But.... I think its just a case of "sour grapes."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 03:23 AM
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10% is a huge chance when it comes to something bad happening to you. Lets pretend youre sitting across a small table from someone that you love, is important to you, completely and totally irreplaceable. On the table is a 10 shot revolver. Yes, they exist. You know where this is going, There is one bullet in the cylinder, and the math is simple. Each time you press the barrell against their forehead and pull the trigger, you get $1000. One Thousand dollars. Each time. Thousand bucks is a pretty…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:46 PM
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sure guy, on it. big thumbs up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 04:35 AM
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You misread what I wrote. But thats ok, if you really think the world is like that, then thats cool, you carry that baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 04:18 AM
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Oh, ok, I get it. You have some crazy leaps of logic. Yeah, someone here is desperately deflecting. You bust out here hysterically bleating about how the real threat of violence against women does not exist. Now your "argument" has shifted to your, "right to defend yourself" oh please. Sure, your the one in danger. If you dont want people seeing right thru your strawman, you need to build them a lot better. You know what you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 06:10 PM
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"You endanger your life whenever you leave your home" Where do you stand on that? You need not leave your home to endanger your life. But I would think the risk for myself, and I presume you of randomly catching a case of dead while going about our day to day routines is somewhere between trivial and non-existant. Im sure you have the stats for for that somewhere, nono, its fine, I dont care that much. So, can answer the question, do you think hurting women and forcing them to have sex is wrong?…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 07:14 AM
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I'm flattered Its what I do, I feel everyone should get recognition. it's just that it's worthless as a rational argument Theres the flaw right there. When talking about fear and pain, and most of the awful things in general, its going to be emotional. Because its really not an issue you care about it really doesnt have any impact on you one way or another. To you the whole thing is bullshit. If I just flatly state, "Hurting women and forcing them to have sex is wrong." While that wanders a bit …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 04:18 AM
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Thats unfair to you, your wife, and everyone else. You're better than that. No really.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:58 AM
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Are you going to tell me it doesn't happen? If it happens at all, its too much. Is that not an easy concept to understand? really, you sound like a guy who is well versed in forcing women to have sex, academically, theoretically of course, not that you would do something like that. So its really weird that someone like you just seems so reluctant to concede that women do get physically, sexually assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:56 AM
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Extreme far out examples for the win! How about something more believable: what if you're a woman and the guy you meet is short or isn't a Chad? That's terrifying enough. For real.... That sounds like a personal problem. Not yours of course. But for the guys that arent a TyrannoChad like you, have you ever thought of... idk... have you just tried being good looking? between you and me, it was probably the best decision I ever made. Why am I tellin you tho? amirite?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 03:17 AM
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And how often do these things happen? More often then they should. And it doesnt have to even be to them. Their sister, mother, grandmother, aunt, that lady down the street, any woman they know could have been assaulted and her tale get to their ears. If you dont think fear will lower someones inclination to have sex, then your delusional. Im with you. "I'm paranoid" is not an argument, but "nothing bad ever happens to me" isnt one either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 12:57 AM
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Now Ive never been with a dude, so dunno how frequent that happens. Me neither. But ive been with birds who like to both choke and be choked. Its fun. So you have your own experience to gauge how often it happens. and IMHO as long as its amongst consenting adults. Now did you get consent for the choking beforehand? Were you asked to do so in the heat of the moment? Or SURPRISE! choke time!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 12:20 AM
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Your projecting also assumes that every experience is a good one. What happens when something goes off the rails? Like someones idea of foreplay is beating the shit out of you? Or someone youre into starts talking about choking during sex, and wonders what it would be like to put cigarette butts out on a woman, hey.. you busy later? Thats gonna slow you down I bet. Remember every guy you see is easy somewhere 2x to 5x stonger than you. See as a guy, worse thing that could really happen to me is …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 07:44 PM
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Why do men do xxx? Cause a lot of men are stupid. No, really, sometimes it really is a simple as that ​ Fine. You can dress it up however you like, wrap it in whatever self-defeating nonsense you like, it doesnt change the fact that if you desire female companionship you are working against your own self interest by joining the he-man woman haters club. Bodycounts... Ive never asked, but Ive alwats been told. To that, Ill say this much. I am not a jealous man, but I dont share. The only thing ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:56 AM
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I... really kinda just enjoy this reddit. The tone in a lot of cases seems to turned up to 11, but thats how venting goes. The advice, the strategy, seems to revolve around self empowerment, rethinking and tweaking your standards, learning how to take control of your dating situation. Id also say the concepts are solid regardless of gender. I feel that if you dont resemble Goofus more than Gallant, than there are far more deserving subreddits to be butthurt over. But if you do, well thats a pers…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 01:37 PM
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