Shermanderland Archive

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6	How to get out of the depression phase. I watched this today and it spoke to me. It's sort of long but if you can spare the time at night it's a really good talk and the guy shares some good info on all the brain chemicals associated with depression and what you can do to help activate/deactivate them. http://youtu.be/ReRcHdeUG9Y	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/15 07:27 AM
1	Becoming emotionally attached too quickly Np man. That's just my take on it, do what you do	/r/seduction	08/05/15 12:16 AM
2	Becoming emotionally attached too quickly That's probably wise. I agree with not deleting her for the same reason. If she initiates contact again I would take your time to respond and come off as distant. If you see her in person just smile bigger than her, it'll show her that you're beyond her. Don't talk to her unless she says something first.	/r/seduction	07/05/15 09:34 PM
3	Becoming emotionally attached too quickly You hit the nail on the head. There's no problem with liking her a lot, even too much, but don't put her on the pedestal. By doing that, you give her the power to shut you down. A quote I read says, "The person in a relationship who cares the least has the most power." By being afraid to lose her, and glorfying her you gave up your power and your sexual value. It sounds counter productive but you honestly can't give two shits if she turns you down. Accept the disappointment and realize that you'…	/r/seduction	07/05/15 08:50 PM
3	Becoming emotionally attached too quickly I mean using you in a "friend-zone" way. She recognizes by the way you've acted that you're too clingy or not stable enough to be with her, but instead of rejecting you she keeps you around as an option and possibly(in the worst case) a meal ticket. You have to present yourself as you are, and not wanting someone at the cost of yourself. You'll get a solid relationship when you put yourself first and balance your relationship second. Maybe find out the root cause of your clingy-ness. Is it insec…	/r/seduction	07/05/15 06:40 PM
2	Oh-Man: The Autoban You're right, but I do think that by homogenizing your group to the point where everyone has infinite sympathy and the same way of thinking is bad for discussion. Just for example, there may be some blue pill users that comment here every now and then but we don't persecute them, and I'm sure they don't get banned unless they cause a nuisance. Their presence here actually stirs up conversation by offering a different point of view.	/r/TheRedPill	07/05/15 03:15 PM
4	Becoming emotionally attached too quickly If she's telling you to cool it about sexual stuff for "a few months" (INDEFINITELY) then she's using you dude. That's when you have to man up and tell her what you want out of the relationship. If she declines then that's unfortunate because you liked her, but it saves you the time, energy, and money of trying to court her for however long she'd like to use you. If she accepts, then bravo, she's actually interested in you and you both get what you want out of the relationship. Theres nothing wr…	/r/seduction	07/05/15 02:59 PM
17	Oh-Man: The Autoban Unfortunately it's their right to censor whatever they want in their subreddit. By censoring, however, they're restricting the viewpoints in the sub and eventually it'll be a circle jerk where everyone has the same point of view and no benefit is brought from it. They're essentially cutting off an entire point of view just because it makes someone angry for a moment. They're only hurting themselves by this.	/r/TheRedPill	07/05/15 02:52 PM
1	Self Taught Mastery I'm a guitarist and I still struggle with synchronization on new songs. I see it posted on all music subreddits but here it is again: Practice.	/r/TheRedPill	06/05/15 05:49 PM