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Yeah, and you never know. The way women's circles work now a days, they are very conniving, and they may tell women not to say a word until the baby is born so she can make the decision without it having the opportunity to file an injunction. A woman might agree to not have one, and then at the last minute say, "Whoop, changed my mind. Sorry." I even know women like that, unfortunately. It's such a scary world.
/r/MensRights06/12/19 02:40 AM
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Holy shit... are you serious? I didn't know that it was the mother's decision. What a fucking backward process? Here, do you wanna chop of a piece of this organ that you don't have and you don't understand what it feels like? Makes. Total. Sense. :/ My partner is uncircumcised, and I honestly prefer him that way. I was born and raised in America, and still feel that way. I would probably be the uncompromising partner on having a circumcision done on my son.
/r/MensRights06/12/19 01:45 AM
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Thank you for your clarification. Lol. I think that makes the perspective a little more clear. Everyone has their personal preference for what they find attractive, and I respect that. As a woman who used to have a belly, there are more guys than you’d think that don’t mind or even totally love it. Different strokes for different folks. :)
/r/MensRights05/12/19 10:45 PM
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I think that there will always be some people who do it based on family medical history and things like that. I think it’s okay as long as people make informed decisions and don’t just do it because it what’s always been done. There needs to be a legitimate purpose so that when a kid grows up, they have no reason to resent their parents. I do really enjoy this whole thread. I’ve really enjoyed everyone’s argument and that it doesn’t seem to have spiraled out of control. Lol. I love that people p…
/r/MensRights05/12/19 10:41 PM
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It has been a real problem for me lately because I was having some mental issues a couple months ago, and because people associate hugs with showing support, people would always ask to hug me, but when I'd say no, they'd do it anyways. I get why they did it, they thought I was just being hateful and didn't want a hug because I isolate and push people away. But when I am escalated, people touching me hurts me physically, and it is searing when people do it when I ask them not to. It makes me diss…
/r/MensRights05/12/19 09:50 PM
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I like that many men seem to have that mindset. They can see that it was wrong it was done to them, they aren't resentful, they won't continue the cycle with their own children.
/r/MensRights05/12/19 09:39 PM
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And with that understanding, you can help others to not have to feel what you feel. That's how we make positive changes in the world. It's really important not to listen to others who can't begin to understand what you are going through. Pain is pain. Trauma is trauma. Just because someone says you shouldn't feel fucked over by something, doesn't mean that you don't. It's not something someone can just turn on or turn off. And we all have different life experiences that make us believe the thing…
/r/MensRights05/12/19 09:37 PM
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I think there are a lot of practices that exist in society because that's just the way we have always done them, but that doesn't mean they are right. Especially where men are concerned. It's like the rules for men aren't allowed to change, but the rules for women are always dynamic.
/r/MensRights05/12/19 09:33 PM
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Haaa! That is also an interesting fact! Which means... that's the way it's supposed to be. Somewhere in the way the universe works, it's accepted that circumcision makes sense for real medical conditions, which probably wouldn't develop until later in life when you do have the nerve endings already. So--you wouldn't be missing out on as much as what those circumcised at birth do.
/r/MensRights05/12/19 09:32 PM
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That sounds awful. :( I suppose it would have made sex very unenjoyable unless you had been circumcised. If masturbation feels better, I would assume that sex would have felt better also.
/r/MensRights05/12/19 09:29 PM
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Everyone, check under your seats! You get genital mutilation, and you get genital mutilation, everyone gets genital mutilation!
/r/MensRights05/12/19 09:26 PM
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I like this explanation. Thank you.
/r/MensRights05/12/19 09:26 PM
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I hate that it feels like the biggest decisions in our life would have been made differently with hindsight. :/
/r/MensRights05/12/19 09:22 PM
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Yeah, I am American, but live in Australia and the attitudes seem to be at least slightly different between the two countries. A lot men I have met in America who are uncircumcised usually have experienced some level of discrimination because people talk down to them because it's not what's normal and they are uneducated and think it's unclean. I've known men who had people who wouldn't sleep with them because of it. I suppose it depends on culture as well.
/r/MensRights05/12/19 09:22 PM
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I'm glad you have that outlook about it.
/r/MensRights05/12/19 09:18 PM
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Sometime it's hard to imagine another person's suffering when you endure the same thing but don't feel anything about it? I don't necessarily disagree with you. I think that is sometimes what it is, but I also think that there are some people who have done the research and feel like they are missing out on something. Also, maybe some people feel like it's a consent issue. You never know whose consent has been ignored in other areas of their life that they don't feel comfortable talking about, bu…
/r/MensRights05/12/19 02:03 PM
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I really like that mindset. It's a very healthy one to have. There usually isn't a point in being angry. It's counterproductive. That sounds absolutely awful. I wonder if you are right, if it would make it less sensitive? Because usually they say the head of the penis is much more sensitive with foreskin because when you are circumcised, your underwear or pants rub it all the time. But when you are circumcised, it rubs the foreskin instead. So, I wonder if it would have made you less sensitive, …
/r/MensRights05/12/19 01:55 PM
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Aw, thanks! <3
/r/MensRights05/12/19 01:51 PM
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It seems like people just brush it off so easy. I think it's just the way older generations view it. I think older generations just figure they've been doing a lot of things a certain way for a long time, and it always seemed to work, so why change it now. But it's because people have feelings and opinions and repressing that for what society has always thought was "right before" just doesn't work. Glad you seem to have a success story with restoring, since I know not all people are successful w…
/r/MensRights05/12/19 01:51 PM
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Seeing a doctor isn't really an option at the moment unfortunately. But in general, I don't feel bad, whereas I used to, so I'd like to think it's a good thing. It's definitely drinking more water and not eating as much fast food and eating smaller portions. Much less stress. I'm not really an emotional eater. I am more like... an emotional soda drinker. Lol. I have seen people who have tried to stretch their skin to have foreskin again, with weights. But I have heard it doesn't work with everyo…
/r/MensRights05/12/19 01:38 PM
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I'm really glad. <3
/r/MensRights05/12/19 01:30 PM
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However, when American women see women from other countries who have FGM, they are outraged. But never for boys? I just don't understand why it's so different. I don't get why there is a debate. If there are men who say it was traumatic and they don't like it, then it just shouldn't be done. Why do women even have such a strong opposing opinion anyways? It really seems like it's on purpose and out of spite sometimes.
/r/MensRights05/12/19 01:29 PM
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It's good to hear that you, and it seems around 2/3 of men don't mind. One less thing to have to worry about when there is already so much, right?
/r/MensRights05/12/19 01:26 PM
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It appears that both men and women feel that our sexual organs and sexual characteristics definitely define who we are, sexually. They give us identity. You would think that more women would be able to relate to the issue then?
/r/MensRights05/12/19 01:07 PM
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Omfg, I love that all of you are sending me research articles. It's like you know the way to my heart. Ahahah. MalibuStayZ mentioned above that about 1/3 men feel trauma after being circumcised. That probably goes nicely with your "sample of circumcised men." Obviously there is a correlation. Even if it's only 1/3, or only a sample of men, it still caused trauma, when it wasn't even necessary.
/r/MensRights05/12/19 01:03 PM
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Oh, no. I absolutely wouldn't do that. I dunno, that is like putting a paranoia in someone's head that they didn't even think to have before you said something. Better to just let people feel how they feel if they are happy and it's a healthy happy. :)
/r/MensRights05/12/19 12:58 PM
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Hahah! Thanks. I'm not quite sure if it was a bad thing or not? I'm hoping not. I am hoping it's just better mental health and a better environment. Lol. Fingers crossed. And thank you. <3 I really appreciate that. It's probably not even noticeable to anyone but me honestly. Lmfao. Oh. My. God. I would be furious! This might be a stupid question, but is there no way to fix that? I can't even imagine how unsatisfying that would feel. :( And tearing... I can't even imagine what a circumcised penis…
/r/MensRights05/12/19 12:55 PM
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Thank you! Also, thank you for even having a research article to back it up. Maybe that will even further prove the point that it shouldn't be done in childhood. If it causes men trauma when they know what they are missing out on, obviously the ones who were circumcised without a say are missing something too, they just don't know it.
/r/MensRights05/12/19 12:37 PM
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I'm not quite sure what that makes them then? Lol. Fat boobs? Most men don't discriminate if they like them big. Lol.
/r/MensRights05/12/19 12:34 PM
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It's good that you are happy with it because you feel you had a voice in the matter. Was there any point where it made you feel different about yourself? Like, just after the operation? Or did you always just have a positive outlook on it? Many men talk about how the sensation during sex is different because the foreskin makes it more pleasurable? You didn't find that, or that doesn't bother you? Sorry if the questions are too intrusive.
/r/MensRights05/12/19 11:38 AM
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Aw. That's very sad and good to know. I think this needs to be more common knowledge.
/r/MensRights05/12/19 11:16 AM
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I have a question. I'm not asking to be confrontational or to make a point, legitimately curious. Does being circumcised ever make a man feel like less of a man? Especially if maybe they had their foreskin for most of their life and then got Phimosis or something like that and had to have it removed? I've never thought about it, but I imagine it would totally be a thing. Anyone know or have experience themselves? Asking, because women usually associate their breasts with femininity. I lost a lot…
/r/MensRights05/12/19 10:54 AM
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Good luck!
/r/MensRights02/12/19 12:59 PM
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Yeah, I couldn't imagine why a father would be so distraught not be able to see his kids over the holidays...?
/r/MensRights29/11/19 03:42 AM
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Exactly. Which is why I said it was a toxic work environment and I had no business being there. I just don’t give up very easily. I thought I could make the park better and ppl would see the hard work I did and see they were wrong about my friend and I. But in the end, I think it’s more that they just didn’t care about the park.
/r/MensRights18/11/19 09:02 PM
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I know that there are lots of situations where the pay gap doesn't exist. I know there are companies who are overpaying women to compensate for their delusion of such vast inequality. However... when I was a bit younger, early 20's... I had worked at a small amusement park for years. I had worked at two companies within the same company, and had worked my way up. I am confident enough in my abilities to be able to tell you without a doubt that I have solid work ethic and I am GOOD at business. I…
/r/MensRights17/11/19 03:56 AM
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I agree. Lol. It seems like more of an attention-seeking post. Which just proves our point over here alllll the more. ;)
/r/MensRights17/11/19 03:38 AM
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I was kind of wondering that. Like I said in one of my other comments, you never know the actual legitimacy of people's posts, because people like radical feminists always make up text conversations or Tinder convos where people are being dicks to make their point... but they are making their point through lie, so.
/r/MensRights17/11/19 01:24 AM
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It's really not. I wanted an honest opinion. You can go back on all my other posts in this group and see I am legit. ;) Men and women think differently. And sometimes I just want to know how much. If someone gives me a shitty answer, I would respect it, because everyone is the way they are for a reason. Everyone has things that happen in their lives that create the monster that they are.
/r/MensRights16/11/19 10:54 AM
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You are right. It's kinda odd that she would immediately start work five minutes after getting the job. Lol. Either a very motivated worker, or a bit of a stretch. Lol. Also, before starting work, I'd think making a contract would be important.
/r/MensRights16/11/19 09:40 AM
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You are right. I am making an assumption about the gender of both parties. However, a few things to note, the OP said sexist beggar. You are right, it could be a male or female OP, but regardless it seems that OP posted about the pay gap somewhere the consumer could see, and that was his response. It could have been a dude doing it to a dude, but I dunno, isn't it kind of also sexist either way, because he was either a dude attacking a girl for the pay gap, or a dude attacking another dude for a…
/r/MensRights16/11/19 09:37 AM
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That is the bad thing about businesses being advertised on FB though. Sometimes a business should probably just be a business. Otherwise stuff like this is bound to happen to you. It doesn't make it right, but we still have to find ways to protect ourselves so it doesn't happen. And I agree, I think it is pretty low to say you're not going to pay a price that was pre-agreed on unless the work is really just not what you asked for in the least bit.
/r/MensRights16/11/19 09:27 AM
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It's also kind of not fair, because we don't actually know the legitimacy. I mean, people make up stuff like this all the time. I'm not saying OP did... but just saying, we never know. I think the consumer probably knew the gender of the artist because of the post she had made regarding the pay gap. I am wondering if maybe the point of original contact was Facebook or something and that is how he knew?
/r/MensRights16/11/19 08:34 AM
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Aw, thank you so much. <3 I am already kind of working on it on some level, but I just need to sit down and focus more and get more people to join and start discussions. It's a subreddit, so if you are interested, when I get it on a better level, I can let you know? I mean... you can join now, but it'll just be hella boring for a few days probably. Lol.
/r/MensRights13/11/19 01:10 PM
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I dunno. I always wanna change the narrative. Sometimes, I really wanna create a Men's Rights group here in Melbourne, especially because there are sooooooooo many Men's Rights violations that are just so blatantly obvious (#thanksJuliaGillard), that I just wanna show them how it's really done. I wanna show them what happens when your argument is based on fact and not emotion and not the generalized experience of a couple of people who had a bad time and chose to be loud about it. My partner is …
/r/MensRights13/11/19 02:25 AM
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I totally believe it. She seems really cruel and callous honestly. And it's people like her who turned men into villains. Same as above, with any population, you will obviously have bad apples. There is so much that goes into a person, that its really just statistics. Some of what goes into a person is bound to be bad, and some of what goes into some people is bound to be nothing but bad, or mostly bad. It's such a complex process that you can't generalize and be like, all men are bad and abusiv…
/r/MensRights13/11/19 01:31 AM
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I don't think you can safely say that feminists care about anything? That's like saying, "Oh, I'm a person, capable of empathy, so that means I care." Sure... that makes a lot of sense for some people, but certainly not everyone. There will always be bad apples. And honestly, when I think of a feminist, all I imagine are radicals. Women like Gloria Steinem made that a thing and gave them a bad name, and now educated people have a difficult time respecting their cause. Also, the name implies alli…
/r/MensRights13/11/19 12:45 AM
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The 1600s isn't that recent! And it's plenty of time where we should have figured all of this out way before now. lol. I mean, maybe in terms of human existence, it wasn't too long ago. But in terms of our existence and progress as a race, and from we are standing right now, it is pretty long ago. And honestly, I kind of see the appeal to arranged marriages? If I was raised knowing that I would have an arranged marriage, it's more possible that I could be upset. But I remember being in high scho…
/r/MensRights05/11/19 08:41 AM
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So, I talked to my partner about it... Because I had an idea, but I didn't know if it would be an intrusion of privacy. But my idea was, there should be a list of caution words. Words like, green card, escape?, blah blah blah, where if two people were messaging one another, and one member of the chat said one of the caution words, that it would flag that message, notify the person who sent the message that a caution word has been detected and that their message was sent to a moderator for review…
/r/MensRights05/11/19 08:13 AM
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I dunno. I'd have to ask my partner. He is an IT dude so he would know better what is possible and what isnt and what is legal and what is a violation of privacy. Yeah, it was a couple of years ago, but I told him the whole time he was being catfished, and finally I had him send me her pictures and reverse image searched them and there were all sorts of scam discussions. It took him weeks after that to believe me. When I met my partner online, my dad was was skeptical and kept telling me he was …
/r/MensRights29/10/19 08:54 AM
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I dunno. I feel like the people who are having the hardest time on dating sites might get taken advantage of very easily bc they are much more willing to take chances to find love. And some aren't mentally in the best position to know the difference. My dad got taken advantage of and he paid the girl hundreds of dollars, and he lives in poverty, so it infuriated me. I think its definitely a good idea. There just has to be safeguards in place. Also, bc some men and women want to date outside of t…
/r/MensRights29/10/19 08:46 AM
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That's a super smart thought, and you're right, local women would have to up their game or do without. But as a man, wouldn't you ever be worried that she was just after you for citizenship or money? Cause, you'd have to probably open it up to and encourage all countries. So, some people might just be looking to escape.
/r/MensRights29/10/19 08:20 AM
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I think you picked a good story actually, because it was simple to pick apart and analyze. Pick a more complex story, we'd still be doing it!! Lol. Modern dating really is a shitshow. I've posted before about my theory on what happened, which is that back in the day, men had to court women bc women didn't have jobs. They went straight from living at home with their fathers who took care of them and made all their decisions for them, to courting to find the man who in the future would take care o…
/r/MensRights29/10/19 08:14 AM
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Sorry, we have been moving for the past few days and I wanted to be able to sit down and give you a well thought out response. I figured you were summarising, bc you don't seem that dense. Lol. And yeah, if she was comfortable with you, she should have felt more comfortable telling you why she wasn't ready to meet yet. Especially bc you do sound like an understanding guy, and if she would have said something like, "Look, I have social anxiety so this is a little hard for me," or if she was anxio…
/r/MensRights28/10/19 09:05 PM
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I dunno. That IS a real threat though. Not just for women, but for men as well. I mean, we all hear about the craigslist killers, and the people who have gotten ambushed when meeting a Tinder date or whatever. It happens to men as well as women. Women will arrange dates with men, they show up and then her boyfriend and his best friends rob him and sometimes kill him. And honestly, if I've been talking to a dude for 30 minutes and he's like, hey let's meet up, I dunno... that does make me feel a …
/r/MensRights26/10/19 03:00 AM
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That's an interesting idea.
/r/MensRights25/10/19 09:30 PM
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Yeah. We learned about him in Psychology of Human Sexuality. Also Graham crackers. Its bc its bland food. What pigs.
/r/MensRights25/10/19 12:55 PM
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My partner has a theory that all the main dating site makers are just like him... they wanted an easy way to find a girlfriend. And then they wanted an easy way for their friends to find a girlfriend. So they make it easy for their friends, and then obviously its easy for the dudes it always easy for, and then the normal nice guys are left with nothing. Also, women are idiots, because they want to be treated like queens, but they act like assholes. You can't expect to go on a new date or a new h…
/r/MensRights25/10/19 12:41 PM
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That is an absolutely perfect resolution to that problem! I love it! And yeah, I never really got the point of matching? Especially because my friends will sometimes say a girl will match with them, but never say anything. What was the point? And I feel like it kinda means you feel like you have to say something catchy because you matched. And you have to have the pickup line and all the things. But... if you just message someone, maybe you just message them? Maybe there is etiquette to messagin…
/r/MensRights25/10/19 12:32 PM
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Very American. But also Canadians apparently. And a German person commented and said that it was common there for cosmetic purposes. Also, a few other people were saying that here in Australia that a lot of men are circumcised, but that hasn't been my experience at all. I've never met a circumcised Australian man. Until now I guess? Lol.
/r/MensRights25/10/19 12:19 PM
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Do they think having foreskin encourages you to stroke yourself or something?
/r/MensRights25/10/19 12:17 PM
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Were you not aware that it was criminal, or were you not aware that uncircumcision was common? I wonder if it depends on the area of Finland?
/r/MensRights25/10/19 12:15 PM
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Yeah, someone below was saying exactly that. That it's actually a crime unless it was for a medical purpose. It is absolutely nuts how one countries views on something like that could be so different from another. You'd think with all the knowledge that we have gained and shared with one another throughout time.. that we would kind of more be on the same page? lol. You'd think they would have come to a consensus.
/r/MensRights25/10/19 12:15 PM
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Do you think it depends on the part of Australia? Or whether it was a regional hospital? Not likely, right?
/r/MensRights25/10/19 12:08 PM
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I like a lot of those ideas actually. Making pictures available afterward makes me leery... because if I am really just not physically attracted to him, it would honestly make me feel bad to have to tell him no thanks as soon as pictures became available. I feel like that makes it obvious why you are saying no, thanks. I think the multiple choice questions is a great idea though. That means you actually have to pay attention to the other person's profile, take time, and you are actually a real p…
/r/MensRights25/10/19 09:12 AM
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I think that site might biased against certain men? lol.
/r/MensRights25/10/19 09:09 AM
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I dunno. Maybe it's just another way that radical feminists try to make men feel like shit about themselves so they can feel powerful? I mean.. if you think about it, it makes sense. They would both, be trying to make you feel insecure about your penis, and also, by having it circumcised, it removes sensation for y'all. It sounds like the absolute sadistic type shit a bent woman would do. I am American, but I honestly prefer uncircumcised penises. I know a lot of women, even women who I once wou…
/r/MensRights25/10/19 08:14 AM
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That's really sad. :( It feels like we are moving forward for lots of other people's rights, but moving backward for men's.
/r/MensRights25/10/19 07:28 AM
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I am from the U.S. but my partner is Australian, and that is where we live now. Do you think that attitude has changed over time? Because... a lot of older men in Australia seem to be uncircumcised, but it does seem like the new generations having their children circumcised?
/r/MensRights25/10/19 06:26 AM
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I have honestly never heard that about the UK, but I am glad to hear it. But, from below commenter, looks like Germany might be like America in that regard?
/r/MensRights25/10/19 03:21 AM
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That is why I think confirmed accounts would be a good idea. Like, a person has to send a picture of like, their Driver's License for instance, and then also a picture of themselves holding the Driver's License and the date or something, and those pictures also have to at least somewhat match their profile pictures. I feel like this would deter time wasters, because they are too lazy to get verified and go through all the steps. And then, if you could leave comments under people, you could say s…
/r/MensRights25/10/19 03:19 AM
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It's funny, because in the countries where they do circumcise women, it's a travesty and an outrage. And those countries are usually considered savage and third-world. But... in America, it's almost expected that you circumcise your son. And many other very progressive countries.
/r/MensRights25/10/19 02:33 AM
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My partner has been the victim of Australia's shit system for multiple forms of abuse. He is still trying to get justice for one instance. Thank Julia Gillard for shit like that.
/r/MensRights25/10/19 02:01 AM
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Well, he was 11 so it was rape regardless.
/r/MensRights24/10/19 05:33 AM
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There shouldn't be a feminist movement at all. Human Rights movement sounds good enough to me.
/r/MensRights23/10/19 10:03 PM
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Yeah, it doesn't seem like she actually wants to press charges or anything. She just wants to psychologically torture her partner and make him feel guilty. Sounds legit, right? Don't you hope she has children so she can pass that wise message onto further generations?
/r/MensRights23/10/19 10:02 PM
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In Australia, there is a huge news story right now (https://www.3aw.com.au/i-dont-think-ive-been-angrier-in-a-long-long-time-man-who-violently-attacked-two-paramedics-escapes-jail-time/) about a dude who beat a female paramedic in the back of an ambulance, and he walked. Her dad was furious, and on the news last night, he basically said something along the lines of, Letting him walk shows its okay to beat women, I mean, why not? But why does it have to be about beating a woman. What about that s…
/r/MensRights23/10/19 01:29 AM
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Were you circumcised and if so do you wish you hadn't been? I have heard that some circumcised men attempt to stretch their skin to have foreskin again. I have heard mixed results, that sometimes it works but sometimes it doesnt.
/r/MensRights22/10/19 04:41 AM
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So, cognitive dissonance basically. They have to justify the thought or behavior and make it make sense. It's sad when people cant think for themselves or form their own opinion or do their own research. Imagine all the good sex women are missing out on bc they experience life in such a close minded way that they refuse to try new things. And all the good sex men are missing out on either because women dont appreciate their foreskin or bc their mama had it cut off.
/r/MensRights22/10/19 04:24 AM
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Yeah, and women get the same white residue that men get under their fore skin. It's dead skin cells and oil. Big fucking deal.
/r/MensRights22/10/19 01:55 AM
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What an uneducated dumbass. Especially bc anyone who knows anything about uncircumcised men knows that their penises aren't hard to clean or disgusting and it feels better for him and her, soooooo...
/r/MensRights22/10/19 01:54 AM
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Well, I guess to prove I would: Shimmer, duh. I'd say my name to a real date of course. Lol 29.6% 16DD 14ish. I had an interesting night at an adult cinema with my partner, so... give or take one or two or so. One. But he was emotionally and mentally abusive and I snapped and lunged at him to choke him. It's no excuse for my behavior, but I have no other history of violence toward others so I wonder if it might have something to do with it. Not currently. As good as your grandmama!!! Well, maybe…
/r/MensRights21/10/19 05:41 AM
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Lol. I would answer all of those questions honestly. And I am a weirdo, and also loved those surveys, so I'd probably be stoked. But I'm an open book, and not everyone is, I guess. So you never know.
/r/MensRights20/10/19 10:42 PM
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I think women can get away with it because they have the upper hand in dating. They always have and the internet made it worse. Women throughout time were "taken care" of by their men. I don't think men's perception of what their role in a woman's life should be has changed very much (Not in a bad way). I think women's perception of what their potential is has changed a lot, so women's thinking has changed a lot. I think women thought that men took care of them because they thought less of them …
/r/MensRights20/10/19 10:37 PM
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The women who hang out here aren't offended bc we know better and know you aren't talking about us. :) And no, they definitely aren't catches. They are the kind of girls who were rude sluts in high school and they know their prime is running out and they have literally nothing going for them and no talent so they need to find someones life to ride on right quick.
/r/MensRights20/10/19 05:19 AM
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The girls want equal rights, you should treat them like they treat you in the dating field. Also, just scratching off the boyfriend at the top and adding girlfriend is even better bc if they AREN'T willing to fill it out... then yeah, double standard.
/r/MensRights19/10/19 08:18 PM
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The girlfriend application? I think because women can get away with whatever they want bc they have an advantage. Honestly, men put women on the pedestal. If men stopped treating women like they were a rare elusive thing that is so unattainable, then maybe would get off their high horse. Obviously you should treat your woman like a queen if she is one, but if she doesn't deserve it, drop her back into the dating pool till she figures it out.
/r/MensRights19/10/19 08:10 PM
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Agree. Not aesthetically pleasing. They didn't put effort into making it but they want you to take effort to fill it out.
/r/MensRights19/10/19 08:05 PM
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Questions like, first ideal date. Do you want children. Do you want to get married. What is your favourite vacation spot. What's your favourite movie. Favourite type of music. You know, girls wanna know you are interested in them. And that's all just cute stuff that is pretty neutral. Maybe make it personal a little. Like, I love camping, cars, travelling, blush blah blah, pick something that you are passionate about that you would want to share with your girl... I like ____, would you enjoy doi…
/r/MensRights19/10/19 11:36 AM
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Yeah. You'll see my stupid afterthought reply a bit further down. Lol. The questions are a bit too personal. I mean, they are questions that I would want to know myself, but I wouldnt be offended to answer them myself also. But I'm not like most females, and most females would probably be offended to answer those.
/r/MensRights19/10/19 11:25 AM
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However... you are right, because there is a double-standard. You could never ask a girl if she were a virgin or if she lived on her own, because she'd think you were a pig. Like I said, if you were to do the same kind of thing, it would have to be cute. Like, cute questions. Which is pretty bullshit, because a woman can ask those very personal kinds of questions and no one thinks she's an asshole for it.
/r/MensRights19/10/19 11:16 AM
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Okay, as a female, who is also a major supporter of men's rights.. Honestly, girls love that crap. Don't you remember those surveys that Myspace used to have and the girls would all fill them out and loved reading what their friends also wrote? So... I dunno? Maybe it's kinda like that. Maybe they just think it's cute. So you never know, if you made a cute girlfriend survey, it might be a hit? Maybe you should make a burner account on a dating app you don't use and just see how it goes over? As …
/r/MensRights19/10/19 11:13 AM
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Or they should be charged with something even worse... It should be it's own charge, and those guilty should live in disgrace. The stigma that a person receives when they are falsely put on the sex offender list, and the mental trauma is endless. It leads men to suicide. Innocent men. Good men. I mean... you are literally trying to ruin a person's life in the worst way possible. Only a psychopath would do that.
/r/MensRights19/10/19 12:32 AM
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I posted it there. :) Thank you. :)
/r/MensRights17/10/19 10:25 PM
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I have worked in mental health, in psychiatric hospitals so I actually have a well formed opinion on what needs to be changed in the mental health system. I actually thing we need to change the way we treat mental illnesses, less about diagnosis and more about symptoms. I think that would take a lot of the stigma away. Not everyone has borderline personality disorder... but a lot of people have depression. A lot of people can have delusions. A lot of people can have poor emotion regulation and p…
/r/MensRights17/10/19 08:11 PM
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Well, it doesn't just have to be about what I want to change. I just want to make the world a better place. And I feel like part of doing that is helping people to understand one another. But things that I personally am in support of that I would like to change that I hope can be changed through this: mostly probably education reform, men's rights, mental health reform, and animal rights. Honestly though, everything is important. We are in crisis.
/r/MensRights17/10/19 07:20 PM
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Also, I asked permission to post here. So, apparently at least one mod thought it was a good idea.
/r/MensRights17/10/19 02:31 AM
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Hey, you never know. Maybe there might be some more hope out there than you think.
/r/MensRights17/10/19 02:30 AM
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Also, if you guys have any suggestions of other communities that would find benefit in/like this community, feel free to suggest! I will contact them and tell them what I am all about. :)
/r/MensRights17/10/19 01:39 AM
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I mean, if it was real life, I'd be playing SimCity BuiltIt, but... lol.
/r/MensRights10/10/19 04:23 AM
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I just don't understand how they aren't ashamed? How can you scream for equality, but then point out everything bad about the person on the other side? And the stuff they point out isn't even accurate. It makes me so sad. I literally had my best friend tell me today, "I know I may seem hard on the outside, but I secretly love romance and being in love." He shouldn't even have to say that to me. He shouldn't have to seem hard on the outside. He should just seem like who he is. I mean, is it liter…
/r/MensRights10/10/19 03:56 AM
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A little louder for those in the back, please?
/r/MensRights10/10/19 03:30 AM
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If it's a "men's" bathroom, and you are in it, tell them to fuck off. I would have sat in there playing Candy Crush. Lol.
/r/MensRights10/10/19 03:29 AM
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Cull the men! /facepalm Do they think before they post the dumb shit they use for their campaigning? I mean... they aren't helping their case..
/r/MensRights04/10/19 02:38 AM
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