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"..and if they don't get a return on investment, they will walk the f**k out of that abusive marriage." This is the way.
/r/MGTOW204/07/21 12:19 PM
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Yeah
/r/askTRP19/12/20 12:43 AM
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It’s because that’s the identity politics the Left has created with their movement. They see EVERYTHING through the lens of race. And if they don’t like something, it’s racist. The word is essentially meaningless at this point.
/r/MGTOW226/11/20 11:11 AM
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Great post 👍
/r/MGTOW226/11/20 11:07 AM
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You da man !
/r/MGTOW226/11/20 11:03 AM
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You start today.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 03:12 AM
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Preach.
/r/MGTOW226/10/20 02:12 PM
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I approve this post.
/r/MGTOW216/10/20 11:47 AM
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haha. you live in nyc too. I used to live there. I know how right it feels in the summertime to go out on a date w a pretty girl, hit up some spots then take her back to your place.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 02:15 AM
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I think it’s fine to want to get laid, but just remember want and need are completely different. your mindset affects your behavior. And it’s your behavior that ultimately seduces a woman.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 01:50 AM
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I haven’t even thought about dating since March, but now I’m realizing that was the last time I boned a woman. damnnnn, bro. it’s been a minute since i’ve gotten laid. thing is, I’m not dying for it. I just want to stay healthy/exercise, keep progressing my skill sets, and watch my investments (hopefully) flourish. that’s what’s important to me.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 01:23 AM
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because the narrative that’s been written shames men, and if you’re straight, white, and male, you’re a devil. tOxIc MaSuCuLiNiTy it’s okay to be a guy, but the narrative disagrees.
/r/MGTOW217/06/20 02:12 AM
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so what is the problem?
/r/askTRP09/06/20 03:11 AM
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this is your gf who didn’t text you back for two days and then when she did, never answered your question? doesn’t sound good to me. best thing to do is the less is more approach. be happy she has the covid antibody, but that’s it. go focus on other things that bring you joy. seriously. also, why the fuck are you asking her what’s she’s planning? beta behavior. do yourself a favor and get to know the sidebar more.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 02:57 AM
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you need to read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 06:04 PM
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they’ve never met before? Why does it bug you?
/r/askTRP07/06/20 01:38 AM
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my man, I am one of those people right now who is moving out of the city(nyc). Even though I do not consider myself a Republican, more of a disenfranchised Democrat, I do not want to live where it’s led by such radical progressives. I know I could buy a gun, but safety is my main concern for wanting to leave. I found a place outside the city, close to a train. i’m happy w my decision. I think the only thing i’ll miss is the dating prospects, but if that’s all then i’ll be good. EDIT: grammar.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 09:51 AM
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use that $$ on a therapist.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 01:07 AM
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you didn’t fuck her?
/r/askTRP06/06/20 01:06 AM
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well I think it’s fine to use as long as you don’t have a mindset where you’re seeking validation from others w your post(s). less is more, for sure. this could be argued, but I also believe “sliding into a girls DM” is basically saying you’re their biggest fan. nahhhh, not doing that.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 09:20 PM
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my only advice is.. if your gf is hot, don't let it bother you other guys check her out. she'll feel the insecurity, and lose attraction. be strong !
/r/askTRP01/06/20 02:00 AM
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thanks for sharing this.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 01:55 AM
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some betas have SMV. whether it's money, intelligence, a group of friends, or hobbies, they can still attract women. it's their behavior that makes them "beta". I had a friend who used to rip Red Pillers, and always call them 'neckbeards'. I knew something was off when I witnessed his wife pretty much dominate him. I said to myself, "I never, ever, ever would want that for myself." That was when I stopped asking him for advice about women. It was a bit sad to watch TBH.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 01:52 AM
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this sounds correct.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 01:47 AM
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you’re taking her to smash mountain. don’t overthink. just enjoy yourself, and have fun. those vibes will turn her on, not words.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 10:45 PM
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I can honestly say those times certainly don’t resemble me at my best, but i’m grateful I became attuned to my behavior and learned from my mistake(s). I strive to be less overzealous, and try to listen and give things time before making a decision. if i’m emotional, I take a step back. it’s worked out for me for the most part. all the best to you.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:01 AM
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therapy will help. don’t hold back. say everything that you’re feeling. there might be some unresolved issues lingering you need to iron out.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 01:11 AM
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yeah, I did this shit. it was all emotionally reactive too. burned so many bridges because I couldn’t handle my emotions.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 01:09 AM
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I never talk about it w others.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 11:09 PM
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the ok text is the worst, but i think it works in this particular scenario.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:46 AM
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i like the first option more
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:42 AM
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put yourself in the girls shoes. if you were going to her place to fuck, and she said, ‘oh i’ve slept with roommate.’ i bet that would weird you the fuck out. so don’t.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:36 AM
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it sounds you need some goals. things you can work towards to give your life more meaning.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:32 AM
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you’re the man. you’re decisive. when you walk away, you need to mean it, and not look back. maybe she did something awesome, and you took her back, but now the same shit is happening and now, it’s time to go.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:13 AM
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wayyy too much drama. I think you need to wake the fuck up, and stop playing these stupid games. it’s time to move on, man.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:07 AM
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just accept your decision to date a younger woman. that’s it. if it makes you feel so bad then maybe you made the wrong decision. take responsibility.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 12:59 AM
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you need to work on yourself, mate. just because a woman is coming after you, doesn’t mean you should do it.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 12:51 PM
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well, sexual energy is insanely powerful, and if it’s used correctly and not wasted, you can have profound consequences.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:01 PM
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that’s a big NOPE.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 10:56 PM
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I would always steer clear of women in relationships especially marriages because there’s plenty of fish out there, but since you’ve already ‘confirmed’ you’ll be inside her (wtf), why do you care? seems like you’ve made up your mind.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 09:39 PM
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you got it, man.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 10:08 AM
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money and status create attraction, sure, but ultimately, it’s your behavior that’s most important IMO.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 11:22 PM
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I have a LinkedIn account. would that suffice?
/r/askTRP15/05/20 09:40 PM
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pretty sweet deal, man. you should do it.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 09:00 PM
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no one sane actually admits that.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 08:52 PM
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acqua di gio.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 10:59 PM
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I've made a ton of mistakes, but here's one that I hope others will learn from... start becoming more aware of how others treat you. I've been treated like garbage by women and kept going back for more because of my fear of abandonment issues. I didn't even realize I was doing I at the time until I started going to therapy, meditating, long-distance running. a girl recently told me in a text that I should move on from her. total disrespect, but I kept texting her afterward. I think it was 3 time…
/r/askTRP10/05/20 06:07 PM
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sometimes.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:59 PM
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my rule: if they flake and don't offer another date: next if they flake and offer another date: give it a shot if they flake a second time: don't even respond don't act butthurt.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:38 PM
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you don't give us much context. maybe you're the weird one.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 07:31 PM
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It's been tough because now there's a ton of women using Hinge, and I am getting a lot more matches. When I do actually put forth some effort in initiating conversation, the responses are often lackluster, and it emits a feeling of 'why do I even bother?' Personally, I don't want to msg a person back and forth that I've never met before. I am usually asking for a date after 5-6 msgs back and forth, but now, once I get there, I don't know what to do. I asked one girl if it would best if we could …
/r/seduction08/05/20 04:27 PM
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yikes
/r/askTRP08/05/20 02:09 AM
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ask yourself, ’do I like me?’ and then think about how a person who likes themselves will allow others to treat them.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 09:32 PM
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you might as well cut your losses since she's up on that ol pedestal. you're overthinking this. no one who cares for you treats you that way. girls reach out after a while because of space. it displays non-neediness, which generates attraction. now she's back, and you're asking us what we think. even if you said the right thing, you'll probably overthink the next thing because you're seeking her approval. cut her out, and talk to other girls.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 09:13 PM
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this reply is well-deserving of my upvote.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:07 AM
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there’s a girl I know who has depression/anxiety, and while I suffer from my anxiety myself, I try not to bring it out into light. sometimes she does, and it’s a total turn off for me. so, if you know yourself, and think it’ll be a turn off then stay away. otherwise, go for it.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:04 AM
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if I were you, i wouldn’t even bother, man. that’s such a lame response.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 01:53 AM
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here’s the link because OP tried to be fancy. FYI, you’re sabotaging yourself doing that. Social Media Mastery
/r/askTRP06/05/20 01:45 AM
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yeah, no more worrying about this. the more you think about it, the higher the chance you’ll actually fuck things up. you’re the fucken man, remember that.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 01:56 AM
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this is a joke post, right?
/r/askTRP04/05/20 01:18 AM
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The last time a girl invited me over was to make pizza with her. It was technically our second date. Made pizza, and took one bite of it... next thing you know, we're banging out in her bedroom. I took the pizza to-go and ended up giving it to my Uber driver. He was thankful for it. We never worked out, but that's okay. It's times like those when life is unpredictable that I find most fulfilling, but just know, your chances of slaying this girl is above average. Have fun, and be safe !
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:09 PM
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I dated a girl once who was into Love and Hip-Hop. She was a cute chick, but it didn't work out. It wasn't because of her love for reality TV, we just didn't vibe well together. go with the flow, and if you don't vibe with her then leave. EDIT: spelling.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:19 AM
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yikes. unless you’re into needy women, you need to stay away. it can be endearing in the beginning, but it becomes super annoying quickly.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:50 AM
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when women like you, they subconsciously make it easy for the man. in this case, she came up to you. it’s YOUR job to make the move tho.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:37 AM
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oh you follow AMS? guy is funny as hell
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:27 AM
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well said brother 👏👏
/r/askTRP01/05/20 10:50 PM
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grew up w brothers, raised by mom
/r/askTRP01/05/20 09:40 PM
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the best way to kick addictions is to replace them with something else. so instead of beating off, go for a run instead. eventually it’ll be a habit the more you do it. the more you train your mind to do this, the easier it’ll be to lay off your previous addictions. edit: comma
/r/askTRP01/05/20 01:58 AM
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you’re young, and you have your whole life ahead of you. stop worrying about one girl. I used to do that, thinking i’ll never meet another like HER again but i did. focus on yourself, and the girls will come to you.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 12:09 AM
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so your question is, “is being an introvert real?” yes, it’s real.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 12:05 AM
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thanks 👏👏
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:56 AM
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wow. cool guy right here.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:53 AM
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always fun to cum on their face too
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:45 AM
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made me think about my bitch days when girls would walk all over me for saying dumbass shit like that. edit: it’s not bad you said it, but let the girl say things like that.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:41 AM
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dude, relax. at least you’re coming to terms with it before you’re much older. start taking action and smash some goals. bitches love a man who takes action.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:28 AM
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when approaching a beautiful woman, it’s sure to bring up some level of nervousness. it's because you want them to like you. you're attached to an outcome, and therefore, start feeling nervous. the key to stop feeling nervous, IMO, is to stop giving a fuck about any kind of outcome. then the nervousness will subside substantially. and work out.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:20 AM
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thirsty boyyy
/r/askTRP29/04/20 05:59 PM
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terrible advice.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 05:55 PM
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right. i’m talking more about the big picture of life rather than the things you’ve mentioned....you need to work hard to achieve your goals. nothing good happens instantly.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 10:20 AM
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a lot of women use online dating to boost their ego. they don’t actually have any intention to meet up. some do though. they’re not all cynical.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 02:27 AM
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don’t be indecisive and go back because then shell lose respect for you. no respect = no fucking. move on. there’s plenty of fish.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 02:17 AM
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yup.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 02:14 AM
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def another guy, and stop being so fucken needy with your minimum time of texting. you reek of neediness.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 02:11 AM
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instant gratification isn’t real, and if it happens, it’s very rare or it’s too good to be true.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 02:06 AM
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I second this.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 02:05 AM
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try to acknowledge how your behavior changes when you talk to a girl you like compared to one you don’t like very much. maybe you’ll spot some key differences and adjust.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 02:16 AM
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preach, man. i’m 33 too, and i’m done having shitty toxic relationships. I used to be a bitch who craved validation through women. trust me when I say I wasted a lot of time. everyday, i try to be a better man. you’re right, most of the attractive ones are taken, but i’ll wait it out.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 02:14 AM
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your time is the greatest gift you can give anyone.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 02:08 AM
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it’s natural to feel attraction for others who you aren’t in a relationship with. however, it’s unnatural (and shitty) to cheat. if you do cheat, you should tell him so he can move on with his life.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 01:56 AM
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don’t ignore her, but aim to stop caring so much.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:25 PM
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there’s plenty of fish in the sea. she could be bored, and trying to stir up some drama. not worth it in my opinion.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 07:52 PM
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I don’t want to scare you, but when my ex switched our communication to Messenger, that was the beginning of the end. She’d constantly talk to her ex on there. If I could go back and change anything, I’d most likely pullback a lot, and stay busy on my own terms. But that’s my experience. I was a b*tch. I’m working on it everyday so when I read your post it brought back some bad memories.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 07:48 PM
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had to look at Urban Dictionary.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 11:40 AM
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you’re the prize, remember that.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 02:25 AM
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I also cried on the phone with my ex. She dumped me, and I cried. Yup...
/r/askTRP27/04/20 01:27 AM
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"I'll buy you another jacket." I wasn't even there when she ruined it nor know what the jacket looked like... it was painful when the next text was to tell me this wasn't going to work out.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 01:26 AM
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you fucked up. you've never even met this girl.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 01:22 AM
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break my back? I've never heard anyone ever say that before. sounds stupid, and definitely wouldn't turn me on.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 01:18 AM
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lmao
/r/askTRP27/04/20 01:14 AM
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"People are freaking out during this quarantine because they're losing their fuck buddies, ltrs or social contacts. Why do you give a fuck ? " I like what you wrote here. A stoic perspective brings forth true freedom. While it's important to be kind, and generous (to a certain extent), you need to be okay with being alone. I, for one, allowed my ego to overtake me and it turned my life into a sh*tshow. I would always blame others for things when it was ME who was the real problem. I was never ok…
/r/askTRP26/04/20 11:32 PM
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we need more posts like this 👏👏
/r/seduction18/04/20 04:20 PM
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👏👏
/r/seduction24/03/20 02:36 PM
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