| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 12 | Us girls are sometimes told that men don't approach us because of our beauty, rather than our lack of it. Is there any truth to this?Yes there is definitely truth to this. Especially to guys with a lack of self-confidence beautiful women are intimidating and they think they're "out of their league". On the other side i have the feeling that girlfriends aren't the best way of estimating ones level of attractiveness. I see pictures of women on facebook on a daily basis, with comments like "you're so beautiful" "why are you so gorgeous" "so cute"... I wouldn't touch them with a ten foot pole (obviously exaggerated but you get wh… | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 07:53 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate from an only when drinking FWB situation to an also when sober FWB?I would strongly suggest trying telepathy, because you may possibly fall into the depths of the abyss if you dare to talk with her about it. | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 05:22 PM |
| 1 | This is a fairly complex question that I don't THINK is for beginners, even though I am one. Further details are inside, basically asking "How can I save this?"Don't apologize or try to find excuses, just embrace it. Everyone has times that are harder than others and you have a gf to support you in that times. Being vulnerable shows that you are a human being that has feelings like everybody else. | /r/seduction | 11/11/12 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Is the idea that everyone deserves great life/great life partner/beautiful women a self-delusion?No, it's simple truth. Why would anyone deserve a better life than the other? Because he was born rich, is more intelligent or has a better education? There so many different people on this planet and everyone deserves a great life if they truly desire it. If you don't feel like you deserve a great life then you might have some guilt issues that make you think you're less of a human being than others We strive for it because we deserve it. There would be no reason in striving for something that … | /r/seduction | 03/11/12 08:54 PM |
| 1 | We like e.o, but intimacy feels akward.Stop searching for excuses. She has more experience, and now what? Leagues only exist for people who think of themselves as lesser human beings. Stop that shit. She is used to a faster pace, show her that you like it slower, she will cope with it. If she has a problem with you being a little handicapped at the moment, move on. Otherwise, get your shit together man, seems to me you have some big confidence issue -> read the sidebar if you haven't already | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 05:38 PM |
| 1 | r/Seddit, I've read many posts, articles, threads that say "If you focus on any one girl you've already lost." Well fuck it. I want to hear your story about you falling head over heels but still got the girl.Hmm, well, i think the problem is that the OP gives an example where he didn't act like the prince of Beta-Air and wants other stories from people who also had some luck. In your example the beta simply didn't even have any luck. Problem also is, if we only look at the AFC that comes here to learn more and the AFC that knows nothing about this stuff, yeah you could say that by a chance of 99% nothing will happen. But we can also look at guys that are natural and if we take them into account for … | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 02:53 PM |
| 2 | r/Seddit, I've read many posts, articles, threads that say "If you focus on any one girl you've already lost." Well fuck it. I want to hear your story about you falling head over heels but still got the girl.I think this example is pretty bad for this topic as the guy in your story seems like the king of beta-land. What OP actually means is Stories of guys who have decent game and get the girl they set their eyes on. | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 11:17 AM |
| 3 | Misunderstood alphaSeems okay to me. So there's 3 things: I think the delivery of this line doesn't matter so much because you could even say it deadpan if it matches your frame. The important thing: Stay in your frame and don't change it according to a girl. She just has a shitty personality, in that case: move on. She threw another shit test at you trying to break your frame. Seems like a bitch but if you still wanna pursue her, stay in your frame! Possible answers that come to my mind now: "Yeah i totally hate … | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Misunderstood alphaThat's pretty vague, but okay. Any example of a shit test + answer + her reaction? | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Misunderstood alphaWe'd have to know, what exactly you're trying to be and what your definition of being alpha is, because i think somewhere there lies your problem. | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Misunderstood alphaI think since you said people think you're serious and it's not what you want, you use some C&F line you read somewhere in the sidebar. The thing with these lines is, that they have to match your frame. If you didn't establish the C&F frame, people are surely gonna be put off by this line because they can't match it to your overall personality that you've shown them. | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 04:32 PM |
| 6 | Misunderstood alphai hope that alpha version of you has some congruence between alpha verbality and alpha body language/tonality/general behaviour. Otherwise you would just be a beta with some alpha lines he read on the internet. God i hate this whole alpha/beta thing, but it's nice to have one word that describes the whole thing and everyone knows what's meant. | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 04:11 PM |
| 6 | I think the tables have turned, next step, go for it or no?I really have no fucking idea what tables may have turned. She just took a seat, man, that's no reason she suddenly wants your dick. And please don't go overboard with your new super powers, because remember: With great power, comes great responsibility. To answer your questions: Yes you're reading too hard into it That question is fucking dumb. If you wanna talk to her, do it. You should use the approach where you go up to her and then have a conversation. But what the actual fuck were you thin… | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 12:43 PM |
| 9 | Redsky's Controversial Day-Game SystemHonestly I don't really like your style. It seems like, even though you approach women that you find physically interesting you show no intention of getting to know them beyond that. In fact you let the women choose you rather than the other way. You "pick the one who shows the most interest", that sounds like you obviously need a lot of validation and are too lazy to do something yourself. Which brings me to the 3. point You're only in for fast sex, but not sex with women you choose, but with t… | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 11:43 PM |
| 1 | quick question about shit testsI find it's always hard giving off the right vibe while teasing over text because it can just seem like outright insulting her, but yea you should just wait. I would've amplified it rather than just brushing it off but that answer was totally acceptable. Just wait and if she doesn't answer for days you can still say something along the lines of "Is the little girl still angry at me? :'(". She will probably then answer Yes and you tease her about being a whiny little bitch (just not in that wordi… | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 11:40 PM |
| 0 | How to respond to "you look like a drug addict"?I really don't know how the same questions can get asked over and over again. It just seems that everyday new betas come here whining what mean things these women said to them and how they should respond, so they don't seem like the beta they obviously fucking are. If you don't have the mindset, some answer you read on the internet won't be the solution for your problems. If you had the right mindset you'd know how to deal with such shit tests. Read the Sidebar, IT'S NOT THAT HARD GUYS | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 05:50 PM |
| 1 | The girl I have a crush on moved in next door in my dormitory. How can I take an advantage of the fact of how close we live to each other?Don't wanting to mess up always results in messing it up because you are a) getting in the friendzone because you're trying too hard to to do everything right, therefor don't take chances, because you're too afraid to mess up, and are not seen as a potential sexual partner. b) See a) My Advice: Seduce her like the random girls you meet. Show Interest, don't seem "beta" (the whole stuff about being needy/desperate/unconfident and whatnot), escalate physically (hope you have an eye for comfort, be… | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Hey seddit, I need your help with a textJust reschedule now, if she still wants to hang out with you she will accept. There's no need for asking her if she still likes you, which sounds incredibly insecure by the way. If you really want to you can go cheesy and if that's your style it's fine, but just DON'T ask her if she's still into you, assume it until proven otherwise. | /r/seduction | 14/10/12 08:17 PM |
| 8 | Paradigm shift: Your goal is to make the other person feel great.Pursuing your own goals often means that you can't make everyone feel great. I think the egocentric mentality is what most of the community needs, because if you tell them they should strive to make other people feel great, voilá another nice guy who doesn't understand why he doesn't get the girl. The right thing to say would be something like "Pursue your own goals. When you reach them, you can help other people on their way." Also, give as much back as they give to you. They make you feel grea… | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 05:09 PM |
| 2 | What to do when you are stuck with failed setFirst off, you should always have an eye for your target being comfortable or not, because feeling bad is beyond feeling uncomfortable. So if you see she starts getting uncomfortable with you, back off a little, because you're the awesome social guy who knows how to talk to women and not the antisocial creeper who gets restraining orders on a daily basis. I think since you don't seem like the direct type, you'd open situational/opinion etc. If you start flirting/teasing her a little after the sm… | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 01:46 PM |
| 5 | What to do when you are stuck with failed setYou still can be rejected but it doesn't affect you in any way. If she doesn't want to talk to you, then you just stand there for the next hour not talking and that's exactly what you do when you're not opening her. Her loss not yours, if she makes it awkward it's her problem, not yours. You are just a genuinly friendly person who wants to kill some time on a bus and maybe fuck her later | /r/seduction | 13/10/12 12:27 PM |
| 0 | Halloween advice? costumes, routines, and tipsYeah dressing like everyone else who is too much of a pussy to wear something extraordinary/funny will surely get you the highest amount of attention around the other AFC's. Just as being like everyone else gets you all the girls. Jesus, actually, what is this crappy subreddit for? | /r/seduction | 02/10/12 04:11 PM |
| 1 | What is the response when women blatantly pretend that you are some sort of "disgusting" person?True. Say that your ugliness spreads like a disease and go in for a hug | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Translation thread (for socially accepted phrases that mean other things)For Classroom environment: "Do you have a pen" - She wants your dick | /r/seduction | 24/09/12 11:39 AM |
| 1 | How douchey do I have to be exactly?It's about Confidence, not about being a douchebag. It's about putting your own needs over others and don't bend backwards for that girl, not about "lessening your niceness" (meaning you can still be a genuinly nice person AND get girls, believe it or not!). And lastly it's in no way about being arrogant, rather about the understanding that every person is equal (yes even girls) and you should treat every person equal until they give you a reason not to. Most sane girls will prefer the Confident… | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Emergency! A buddy is spooning with a girl I'm into. How do I turn the tables?I'm impressed by this huge amount of information you just gave us. Right now is nothing you can do to separate them without coming across as the needy beta you obviously are if you couldn't get your message through/ didn't escalate throughout the night, but again some information where you are, how is the relationship between you/girl, you/bro, bro/girl. I guess since you don't have time for that you pretty much fucked up. Go on with the night, and most importantly don't give a single fuck about… | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 11:36 AM |
| 2 | You guys have the best linesJust rephrase it as a statement/ let them guess your program. playful = funny. I don't even know what you mean by "rephrasing it into something funny"? | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 11:09 AM |
| 2 | I'm going to a Toga Party tonight!You're not expecting to have a good time, You will for sure have a good time! | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 10:28 PM |
| 7 | I hate bars/clubs...Do you think Daygame is a good method for an LTR?Yes. Why shouldn't it? | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 10:23 PM |
| 7 | How do you initiate a booty call? Any tricks that seem to work?If you're in a FWB like Relationship and sex is already expected just tell her you got an hour to kill and she should come over for some non-virtual fun. If she's not totally dumb she'll get the hint and will either accept your offer or decline because she really has no time/doesn't want to. | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 09:22 PM |
| 2 | What's the etiquette here?Start a food fight and team up with her | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 05:27 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter