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| 39 | Crab Bucket Mentality -- And what to do💯. What I tell people who are new to improving themselves when (not if) they face this issue is : Any kind of leader mentality doesn't even allow you to see those other crabs. They're just a distraction on your way to completing your mission. You kick them in the face/ cut them off and go on about your day. Zero fucks given. You will lose some "friends" along the way and even alienate some family members on your journey to self-improvement but that was their choice, not yours. And as for you: Ze… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/20 02:29 PM |
| 152 | Reddit Admin give /r/TheRedPill a Stay of ExecutionThe issue is that some people coming here for help need a little tough love. A bitchslap. This is not snowflake compatible. Calling someone a pussy and telling him to lift is enough to trigger outsiders into calling it bullying or harassment. Yet that's exactly what some guys need to hear from other guys. We have no future here under the current regime. There is simply no way to help guys save themselves in a "politically correct according to reddit's shareholders" fashion. I'm looking forward t… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/19 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be a woman?No. Worse. I was ENTITLED to it all along! | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/19 01:15 PM |
| 1 | TRP lifestyle will eventually cost you a lot.What is the question? Risk exposure depends on where in the world you're based, too. I have tons of leeway at my locale. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 12:43 AM |
| 3 | The Problem With The Red Pill TheoriesThat is totally not how I digested my red pill studies. My take-away always has been that these decisions and evaluations and reactions women make or have are sub-conscious. Hardwired. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/19 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Does my therapist see me as beta?i cant see a male therapist because it feels gay opening up to another man & relying on him for support Nonsense. Not if you go to a proper man. Not Justin Trudeau. Brotherhood, yo. No homo. I could totally drop my guard if I were sitting in a room which Rich Cooper, Rollo, GB, Shawn T Smith. They wouldn't see me as beta unless a year on there's no progress and all I do is cry and expect to be spoon fed. I wouldn't feel gay. They wouldn't see me as gay. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Does my therapist see me as beta?I would say if you're RP aware and want counselling you are probably better served with therapist who is on the same page with you. Professional as they may be their personal belief system WILL imprint on the direction they take you. If you're around CO Check out Dr. Shawn T. Smith (@ironshrink): https://twitter.com/ironshrink?s=09 You can of course make it work with a female if she is level headed and RP aware. This likely means she will be in her 30s or 40s. Late 20s less likely. This one is s… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 02:21 PM |
| 10 | Should I become a personal trainer in order to meet and have sex with women?It would sort of violate the "don't shit where you eat" rule. It doesn't just apply to co-workers. It covers suppliers and clients as well. In Western countries, anyway. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Side jobs as 21yo studentNo don’t bother. Your basically selling the equity in your car by doing this. The maintenance and wear n tear on your vehicle is NOT worth it. Ah I was suspicious of that. Ok then the other dude's event security suggestion seems solid. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Side jobs as 21yo studentI would Uber. Lets you recon your city, meet people. Whenever there is no passenger in the car I would listen to educational audio books. The actual $ profit is probably crap though. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Tinder Height Verification - this better be a sick April Fool's jokehow brain damaged are you that you can't identify a tranny before you're buying him dinner I didnt have it come to that but I am sure it has happened to some newcomers. It gets annoying having to swipe through and two thirds of profiles are misrepresenting their gender. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/19 01:56 AM |
| 3 | Would you rather be a woman?Totally! I would get laid every time I want. Limitless attention and validation. By the time I am 30 I would have 3 clear house titles to my name. All with minimal effort. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/19 06:13 PM |
| 22 | Is it just me or do bitches seem to contact you in bunches? I just had 3 girls who have been MIA the last few months just blow up my phoneEnd of month. They're short on cash 😅 | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 12:15 AM |
| 8 | Tinder Height Verification - this better be a sick April Fool's jokeI was thinking of Philippines. But yeah Thailand will probably be similar. Tinder should have a category for that. It is not fair to allow misrepresentation of such a crucial detail. Weight, height, education... Meh. But gender.... Fuck yeah I need accuracy in the profiles! | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/19 02:26 PM |
| 5 | LTR of 4yrs who had a dozen green flags left me for a guy at her work and I am unsure of how to feel.What would be different if he were in his 40's? That perhaps there were plans and hopes to have children or something. I think an LTR in your teens and early twenties is less likely to involve plans like that whereas a guy in his 40s may have had plans like that and would be more bummed when it falls apart. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/19 11:04 PM |
| 15 | Tinder Height Verification - this better be a sick April Fool's jokeThat would be a joke. In South East Asia Tinder is full of pre-op ladyboys in the "female" category. People sent feedback for years. Tinder ignore it. So it's ok for guys to have their time wasted showing up for a date and seeing a dude in a dress on estrogen but we have to verify our height... Crazy talk! | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/19 08:58 PM |
| 24 | How do you guys deal with people still plugged into the matrix who act like your the strange one for avoiding monogamous relationship in order to foucus and improve on ones self? (21 years old)The people asking this feel so much sadness for you. But if you look at yourself and look at them 5 years from now you will see you chose the right path. When they are in their sex-less marriage with their second child on the way and 40 lbs of body fat gained and you are doing your thing. Unshackled and empowered. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Bullshit: woman claims she was raped by a wealthy manWealth doesn’t stop a guy from pursuing a shitty track. Weinstein and Cosby could have hired some truly 5 star entertainment and yet.... | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/19 04:28 PM |
| 4 | Anyone here went from incel to chad?This! The “One step at a time” strategy worked well for me. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 10:16 PM |
| 0 | What are signs a possible LTR has ridden the cock carousel?Signs she has a count higher than what she disclosed to you: She’s over 18 and didn’t grow up in a cave. That’s all it takes. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 09:27 PM |
| 3 | What is the most Red Pill Song of All Time?Superman by Eminem | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 05:18 AM |
| 10 | Building a social life from scratch - hardcore modeA million euros doesn’t buy much of a yacht. And when you’re 23 that million needs to go towards making more millions because the money gotta last another 60+ years.... OP is doing the right thing by not flashing cash around. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 11:54 PM |
| 10 | Girl says “I love you” during sex twiceUsername checks out. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 08:24 AM |
| 1 | the red pill is going mainstream: whats happening & whats next?Word. The payoff and sense of inner peace just by being in control of my shit and knowing what's happening around me are priceless. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 02:18 PM |
| 18 | the red pill is going mainstream: whats happening & whats next?It can't go mainstream. And it isn't going mainstream. It has gained more exposure and recognition and a lot of interest but I can assure you a great percentage of people are just here out of curiosity or because they are looking for a shortcut or quick fix. Once they realize the amount of introspection, hard work and social sacrifice it takes to be living RP they drop out. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 06:09 AM |
| 3 | Friends going to destroy themselves through marriageWe had a short thread on this not long ago. Issue comes up all the time. https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8iwqq2/a_guy_friend_not_super_close_of_mine_is_getting/?st=JHBRUCX4&sh=6e4e5e9d Basically mentioning TRP to the uninitiated will just make them resent you as a bitter weirdo. He’s already pussy-whipped enough to not hear you. I tried at least getting them to marry with a pre-nup and they (yes, plural - several cases over the years) run to their new master and tell her all about it. I… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 09:41 AM |
| 3 | A guy friend (not super close) of mine is getting married to a chick who openly fucked 2 of his mates in a "experimentation" phase as she puts it. She also lap-hops different guys at parties. How the F@#K does he still want to marry her?I don’t direct them to TRP and I obviously don’t go lecturing on the actual wedding day. It’s months earlier when they plan to propose to a girl I will ask him what he has to gain from getting married. IMHO there is only a very narrow case for getting married. If he says he wants to raise children and needs to build a stable platform to do so I salute him and do my best to support his endeavor. But in most cases the response will be some pathetic FOMO/Oneitis/misguided sense of duty to get marri… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 12:56 PM |
| 10 | Are women turned off by men without a vehicle?I think the answer to that question is "it depends on the context". If you operate in rural Australia then lack of a vehicle fucks your social life and logistics. If you operate in Hong Kong, Bangkok, NYC, etc. lack of a vehicle won't mess with your success. More important not to be fat, awkward, thirsty or smell weird. You can still manage logistics and have a lot of stuff going on without a car in larger cities. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 12:55 AM |
| 10 | A guy friend (not super close) of mine is getting married to a chick who openly fucked 2 of his mates in a "experimentation" phase as she puts it. She also lap-hops different guys at parties. How the F@#K does he still want to marry her?Can confirm. Same thing happened to me. I don't generally get invited to weddings anymore. I lecture everyone on prenups etc. Some of my acquaintances are so pussy whipped they will report everything back to their girl who will then demonize me and the dude hasn't got the spine to resist any of it. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 06:07 PM |
| 6 | Men from Asia, I know AWALT, but are the N-counts for girls here generally lower?TRP doesn’t mean girls won’t touch beta. They just touch them for different reasons. Reasons that are not going to end well for the guy. So we don’t wanna be that guy. My observation around Bukit Bintang and Zouk has been that the HB8 and above do the Singapore style 3C evaluation: car, condo, credit and their vaginal lubrication is linked to that assessment. In short: N count is not lower. What does it mean for you? Apply TRP principles as normal. AWALT. If the environment is blue, good. Less c… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 12:31 PM |
| 20 | Men from Asia, I know AWALT, but are the N-counts for girls here generally lower?I can report that Thailand and the Philippines AWALT. Sure, there are cultural differences that change the way shit tests play out and the way you escalate but all the principles of TRP apply all the same. Also women are feeling less entitled than in the West. There is less of that overt “bring me flowers or you sleep on the sofa” bs but the hamster, the hypergamy, the shit tests, the need for validation from orbiters, the AF/BB are all the same. What it means for me is the same as anywhere else… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 12:06 PM |
| 4 | How to tell family member I won't be joining them at an anti-gun march?Ok then we are back to the side bar and reading “the 48 Laws of Power” by Robert Greene. Ain’t nothin’ gonna help ya until that’s done. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 12:17 AM |
| 8 | How to tell family member I won't be joining them at an anti-gun march?So you're being run by two women ? She won't allow what exactly? She won't allow you to opt out or she won't allow you to throw a soft ball at your aunt ? | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 10:41 PM |
| 3 | How to tell family member I won't be joining them at an anti-gun march?Tell her your opinion on the matter isn’t quite clear yet and you wouldn’t feel right taking a stand for something you haven’t yet fully researched. This will soften the extent of the shitfight she will start because you aren’t directly opposing her zeal. All kinds of cards will be played and control techniques will be applied to guilt you into going. But do hold firm and do not go. See it as a shit test. You must resist manipulation and write your own story at all times. You may have some fallo… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Girl shared meme about sabotaging contraceptionThere is that shift in demographics and it is a valid concern which is why I already voted with my feet and left the country where you give up half your pay packet so lazy fuckers can play call of duty and smoke weed. I reside in countries now where if you don’t work, you don’t eat but taxes are lower in return. And I do recommend anyone who goes to have a vasectomy go freeze a load or two because things might change later in life. There are ways to have your cake and eat it, too. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 10:12 PM |
| 18 | Why is it when you stop caring/trying they like you more?The references linked in the side bar explain this. If you’re seriously interested in TRP, go forth and study them. It’s basically a sign of weakness when you’re needy. Chasing means neediness. Not giving a shit implies you have better / other options. The fact that you have other options causes dread and also increases your value by way of validation. Ever had any of these shower thoughts?: “Why does this asshole pull all the chicks, I would make her my princess if only she gave me a chance” “W… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Girl shared meme about sabotaging contraception+1 for the vasectomy. It is our ticket to freedom. Maybe freeze a load in case the world comes to an end or something. I have friends who done it and never regretted it. Personally I was waiting for Vasalgel to become a reality but that still seems a way off. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Girl shared meme about sabotaging contraceptionNot knowing her personality I could be totally wrong here but it just seems like she just has a cool sense of humor. Does she generally have a darker sense of humor ? Context is important here. I once told a first date that I just roofied her, have an ice bath prepared in the basement and already taken a deposit of 0.25 bitcoin for her kidney. F closed the same night. The only reason this was possible is that she was a LEO and had that sort of sense of humor. With anyone else I dated that year t… | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 07:07 PM |
| 2 | "Unfortunately i love you"Absolutely no LTR material. The lyrics of my RedPill anthem “Superman” by Eminem come to mind: “Between you and I Not a jealous man, but females lie But I guess that's just what sluts do How could it ever be just us two? Never loved you enough to trust you We just met and I just fed you But I do know one thing though B*es they come they go” There will be nothing different when she’s your LTR compared to what she’s doing now, with you, “to” the other dude who thinks he’s in an LTR with her. You h… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 04:39 PM |
| 5 | 7 Science-Backed Ways To Increase TestosteroneWhen I saw the title I thought this was going to be some spammy bullshit but to the OP’s credit, it is spot on and useful. Even with references. Kudos! | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 12:35 AM |
| 10 | TRP Advice on dealing with non trp men and building a stronger social circle with men?This is a very good question. I, too lost a bunch of friends when I made these changes. We just weren’t on the same page anymore. Since TRP I have been more focused on self improvement and enjoying the payoff of TRP than trying to discover compatible male friends. I have a few old guys now that I enjoy hanging around because they don’t give a fuck anymore and have seen it all and secretly know that AWALT and that the way society has changed the role of men is bullshit. But these guys are 20-30 y… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 12:37 PM |
| 2 | How to date and not get f'd over?Yeah I have friends who done it and never looked back. But I hung out in /r/vasectomy and seen stories where ... ugh. And for me personally.... not sure how alpha I would feel knowing that my shit don’t work no more. This fraudulent child support and change of mind rape allegation stuff really is a minefield nowadays. Especially for our brothers in Northern Europe and the US. I’m usually operating in countries where this isn’t such a thing yet but the sperm jacking stuff does exist everywhere. C… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/18 01:17 PM |
| 2 | How to date and not get f'd over?Paternity issue: Some people opt to freeze sperm in 2 geographically dispersed banks and do a vasectomy. I didn’t go that route yet because I am not sure what it would do to my mind if I knew I was shooting blanks. Conceptually that seems to be a good path to freedom though. Consent issue: I have not been able to find a bulletproof way to mitigate the risk of vexatious allegations. And all the methods that came to mind were kind of not fun so I continue to spray and pray. Some finesse in the way… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/18 01:05 PM |
| 6 | How do I react to my girlfriend (LTR 8 years) ruining our night?This LTR cannot be salvaged. I would explore new options (plural) and take one lesson home from this: never co-habitate. To recite from our bible: once you live together at the same address, the moment you sign that lease, you take a lot of dread off the table. She has nothing to worry about. No incentive to keep up her game to make you happy. There’s a whole chapter on this in Rollo’s book and it perfectly matches my experiences. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/18 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Foreign language6 Years on I still enjoy dating Thais. Didn’t notice any problems with kissing. Assuming no hygiene issues or smoker/non-smoker incompatibilities. They are more reserved in public than what you may be used to. Definitely no big shows of affection in restaurants, cinemas, malls, clubs. But once safely at your pad they play just like anywhere else I have seen. Feel free to pm me. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 10:05 PM |
| 5 | Foreign languageI found that I had access to better quality Thai dates once I was language proficient. I don’t think that better integrating yourself into society hurts your frame. I had better plates once I had language skills because fishing from the pool of those who hang around Sukhumvit and Nana and don’t expect me to have language skills was polluted with freelance hookers and desperate gold diggers who just lost their previous sponsor (beta provider). You would get a promo bang or two out of them but the… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/18 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Plating LDR girlfriend over possible shady social media account chatroom siteIf you’re in an LDR, is that RedPill? If you’re not fucking then you aren’t in a relationship in the red pill context. Read the side-bar material. You will find it helpful. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/18 11:52 AM |
| 3 | If she was a 5...Trust me... Some plates might as well be 5 the way they structure their shit tests is consistent with the emotional maturity level of a toddler. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/18 07:18 PM |
| 4 | Guide to Google Drive: How to protect yourself and stay organizedYou could clone the same folder to OneDrive or Dropbox etc. But the best bet for personal data is your own server running owncloud or, better IMHO nextcloud. https://nextcloud.com/install/ | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/17 12:52 AM |
| 5 | Guide to Google Drive: How to protect yourself and stay organizedYes! Absolutely. Owncloud and nextcloud do everything Dropbox does but run on a Synology or QNAP NAS, VPS or dedicated server that you can fully control. Full disk encryption and two factor authentication. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/17 12:50 AM |
| 9 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.Easy! Go out Friday nights alone and see what you come back with. There is opportunity everywhere! Alpha needs no wingman. Entourage can be useful but is not a must-have. I improvise and some of my improvised nights have been my most fruitful! | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 10:53 PM |
| 56 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.This. Friends dont let friends marry [period] but I am making concessions for those who have grandiose dreams of parenthood bliss and will say Friends don't let friends marry without a prenup. Past 8 years I saw a handful of Bros get married. And I lectured all of them to be smart about this. Guess how many went and got a prenup? Zero!! Excuses ranged from "I'm at the lowest rung of middle class, I got nothing to lose that justifies the lawyer fee" to "I want to have a child with her so if we we… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 08:46 PM |
| 7 | [Request] 51 law of powerIsn't it 48 laws of power? | /r/RedPillBooks | 22/12/17 08:33 AM |
| 3 | My story and how red pill has helped me.Because it's the only country in our region that has conscripts and gets them shredded :) And one of the hardest places to date in Asia. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 11:29 AM |
| 3 | My story and how red pill has helped me.Singapore girls aren't much different from Western girls. Car. Condo. Credit rating. Hypergamy in plain view. AWALT. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Ketosis, The Ultimate Test of Willpower.By drinking vodka or unadulterated rum with stevia based mixers or coke/sprite zero. Still need to do it in moderation though. Vodka and rum still have empty calories and calories still matter in ketosis. But the gist of what the OP said is right on the money. Source: Just look at my username LOL | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/17 02:25 AM |
| 8 | 25 yo virgin. Point of no return?Dude you clearly have a great canvas to work on. You will pull it off. Imagine: firefighter, low body fat, ripped, late twenties. You got a really good starting point. It's all mindset now. And we have the resources here and in the sidebar to help you fix that. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/17 05:14 PM |
| 2 | 25 yo virgin. Point of no return?The fact that you have this insight and that you are still working toward goals (becoming a firefighter for example) and all the other stuff you said about yourself makes me think you have all the ingredients to make this work! Just keep working towards your own success and don't see sex as a goal. It will come all by itself once you got your shit together and do your best to increase your SMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/17 05:10 PM |
| 3 | I'm overweight and my partner is not attracted to me. Please help...See the before and after posts and progress updates from people in /r/keto and know that this could be you. Very inspiring. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/17 01:56 PM |
| 3 | I'm overweight and my partner is not attracted to me. Please help...Come on over to https://www.reddit.com/r/keto/wiki/keto_in_a_nutshell And you will find lots of resources and support to losing body fat without a great deal of fuss. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/17 01:43 PM |
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