ShirtCannonAssassin Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How to pull a girl to your place if it's small, sucks and has not even a couch? Um I don't have a couch, I have a bed and a kitchen table. I have some art on the walls, some books on an old book shelf, I keep everything clean and clutter free and nothing else matters because being seductive has nothing to do with what you own but what is happening in the moment and what is about to happen.	/r/seduction	14/10/17 04:27 AM
9	Becoming a Kindergartner Again Meh. Adult interactions aren't like this at all. Source: am adult	/r/seduction	05/10/17 10:55 PM
2	I'm a man and I don't know how to flirt. Can someone point me in the direction for some reading on the subject, or give some advice on flirting please? Thanks. I agree with other posters, you're overthinking. This will help: there are multiple reasons to flirt. One reason is to communicate sexual interest, but you can also flirt to build closeness and have fun. Men feel like flirting is for sex, women however will flirt to build closeness. Which is wild, if you stop thinking, "I need to learn to flirt so I can have sex," and start thinking, "flirting is a good way to have fun and build relationships with people I'm attracted to," all of the pressure di…	/r/seduction	05/10/17 12:55 PM
1	Game... When attracted vs. Not Attracted I'm a sensible muthafucka	/r/seduction	23/09/17 12:20 AM
11	Game... When attracted vs. Not Attracted You actually sound pretty normal in that regard. And being on this sub, I presume you put yourself out there quite a bit. Maybe you aren't having as much sex as you could, but You're only having it with women you really want to have it with. Probably better for you.	/r/seduction	22/09/17 09:53 PM
3	How to ask this girl out who I gave my number while working? I love the don't masturbate advice. It's amazing how much better I am with women and at life when I keep my hands busy with other things.	/r/seduction	22/09/17 09:52 PM
3	I don't know what to do anymore You're asking in the wrong sub, haha. I don't know what advice you expect to get from a seduction subreddit that will be better than professional therapy. You probably shouldn't be in a relationship right now. Break it off with her to work on yourself, DELETE TINDER. You don't know her. Your obsessing has nothing to do with her. You've created this thing in your mind, laminated it onto her (whatever it is) and are obsessed with that thing. That's the trick man. If she leaves, you're still stuck …	/r/seduction	22/09/17 09:19 AM
1	I am so uncomfortable with escalating physically. Hence the read hard books component of the equation haha. Honestly dude, I sell paint and deliver pizzas. I'm just a regular guy with a library card. Thanks though, I hope this helps some small way. If you're ever in Columbus Ohio, hmu and we'll grab a beer and get some ass	/r/seduction	19/09/17 02:06 AM
1	I am so uncomfortable with escalating physically. Tough day, haha. It's strange to think that we are at our best when we are empty of thought, I used to think that the more thinking I did, the like, smarter I was? I don't know. The mind makes a fantastic servant, but a horrible master. I'm glad you're enjoying the Tao it's so short and so good. It really should be required reading in my opinion, though I say that about a lot of things haha.	/r/seduction	19/09/17 01:52 AM
1	I am so uncomfortable with escalating physically. As someone prone to negative self talk, I'll tell you it is possible to overcome it. Sleep, exercise, hydration, diet (as I mentioned) help to maximize the amount of cognitive bandwidth for the day. Learn how to recharge your emotional batteries. Things like engaging in hobbies and spending quiet time alone (for introverts) and meeting up with friends for healthy, stimulating activities (for extroverts) are some examples. Based on our conversation, I would check out the works of the Classical St…	/r/seduction	18/09/17 03:35 AM
7	I am so uncomfortable with escalating physically. You're caught in a negative feedback loop. "Scared...wrong...pathetic...", you have to understand that these feelings have a source deep inside of you. Get to know those feelings, accept them. If you were hanging out with a dude who was like, "you're afraid and pathetic," you'd either ignore him, knock a fuckin tooth out his head, or do something to show him what a chump he is. What are you doing? You're letting him drive the bus, you are letting him drive. You'll never be able to get him out, o…	/r/seduction	17/09/17 07:48 PM
2	I am so uncomfortable with escalating physically. What is happening in your head? Have you ever tried meditation or yoga? Learning how to quiet your mind? Don't focus on your thoughts, focus on your sensations. Have you ever put your arm around a girl who you've been chatting up and she just kind of...melts into you? That feels great. She feels great. Don't you want her to feel good? Don't you want to feel good? Shift your focus, see things differently.	/r/seduction	17/09/17 06:42 PM
1	Loud Bar, You've Approached, They've Shown Interest...Now What? Stop putting up a facade, and maybe institute a 2 drink maximum. If you're relaxed, be relaxed, what girl want to be with a try hard? I think you have introvert shame. I rock climb too. Women are way more into my forearms and strong hands than my lead climbing prowess. If we end up talking about it, then I explain how rock climbing is a form of meditation for me, a way to feel fear and overcome it, and maintain a mental edge. This is conversational depth. Multi instrumentalist? She's not interes…	/r/seduction	17/09/17 06:14 PM