Shissslacker Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Q4Men: choose a life: bad boy with 5 baby mamas or mild mannered virgin I mean the first one is obvious, and the second one is rather not be a virgin. It ain’t that complicated	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 10:18 PM
7	Q4Men: choose a life: bad boy with 5 baby mamas or mild mannered virgin Both sound real bad but B is WAYYYYY better than A	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 10:13 PM
8	Why do you all seem to take people’s word at face value instead of accepting that our subconscious wants to protect our self-image as good person, and therefore people tend to say what makes them seem like good people? I wholeheartedly reject that. Men, just like women, are humans. Humans are social creatures and perception of ones self amongst the in group is massively important. Everyone cares, except those with severe mental problems	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 10:11 PM
0	Why do you all seem to take people’s word at face value instead of accepting that our subconscious wants to protect our self-image as good person, and therefore people tend to say what makes them seem like good people? Yeah	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 08:24 PM
1	Why do you all seem to take people’s word at face value instead of accepting that our subconscious wants to protect our self-image as good person, and therefore people tend to say what makes them seem like good people? Yes I would agree that men downplay our sexual and romantic desires specially less than women do. (It might be useful to think about WHY there is less social pressure on men to deny their shallow desires than for women) But this tendency towards conscious belief that contradicts subconscious ones is a human one and goes through our entire lives, not just the romantic marketplace	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 08:24 PM
1	Women are attracted to toxic men BECAUSE of their toxic traits, not despite them. You’re mixing up correlation with causation. Women are attracted to traits that “asshole” men often have. - high self esteem, they often think less of those around them and thereby think more highly of themselves. - independence, they’re normally the opposite of people pleasers which means they are happy to do what they want to do. - high status, they’re often willing to do bad things to good people which is something that is generally rewarded financially and status wise Some others in less dep…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 07:13 PM
3	"Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie. The bar is in hell for attractive men	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 07:04 PM
2	Why do you all seem to take people’s word at face value instead of accepting that our subconscious wants to protect our self-image as good person, and therefore people tend to say what makes them seem like good people? Genuine question, do you think that men hold similar contradictions to these like women do?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/25 07:03 PM
2	What happens to men when they finally get sex and are no longer interested in it? If your only life goal is to get sex then you are living a pathetic existence without meaning	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/25 05:09 PM
–	Men, Has your promiscuous past made it difficult for you to stay loyal in a committed relationship? 💯 bang on tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/25 11:29 AM
–	Men, Has your promiscuous past made it difficult for you to stay loyal in a committed relationship? Nope not particularly, if anything it’s made it easier as I have a lot less fomo and curiosity. I know what’s out there, I know what I want and my girlfriend provides that	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/25 11:28 AM
1	I don't believe there is such a thing as "Toxic Masculinty" Toxic masculinity is a term referring to a group of behaviours that are generally seen as masculine, but have negative effects on either the man themselves or the people around them. For example, it is generally seen as masculine to bottle up your feelings and problems, never discuss them and to view those who do as weak. This is a “toxic” behaviour as it causes harm to the man and those around him. Toxic masculinity is not referring to all masculine behaviours or masculinity as a whole, it is a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/25 01:54 PM
4	Don’t women not really care about how a man dresses & isn’t wearing nice clothes just something guys y’all aren’t as physically attracted to can attempt to use to add points? Dressing nicely is very important in attracting women. The majority of women care how a man dresses. It’s highly subjective though and no one style will attract all women equally	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/25 07:22 AM
2	Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of Love Bro you’re agreeing with me. When they decided they wanted to date, they “went over the top” (presumably positive) to get them to date. Again, in my experience women are better to men that they want to date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/25 08:27 AM
4	Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of Love I mean yeah, everyone has positive qualities beyond “man with functioning penis”	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/25 08:25 AM
2	Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of Love Is that why you hate all your friends and family?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/25 07:53 AM
4	Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of Love The craziest sex I’ve had has always been in relationships. Not that hookups are necessarily boring but instead that some women can be real freaks with men they trust. Just don’t date women you’re sexually incompatible with	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/25 01:14 AM
1	Do men really prefer women who dress modestly? Men like women with attractive bodies, it’s easier to tell if someone has an attractive body when they are dressed immodestly. Though many men feel very insecure when their girl dresses immodestly when they’re dating. In short the ideal woman to many men is someone who is extremely attractive and shows them that but is then willing to dress like a nun the second they’re dating	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/25 01:12 AM
1	Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of Love I have literally zero idea what you’re talking about, are you replying to the right person? I get treated very well by women	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/25 12:51 AM
4	Scenario: sex is off the table Sex is like the toilet when buying a house. Only an idiot would buy a house based on the toilet. But it takes a mad man to move into a house without one	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/25 12:40 AM
1	Power makes men sexually attractive:Better to be an asshole than nice You’re mistaking being a doormat for being nice and having self respect/confidence for being an asshole.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/25 12:16 AM
0	Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of Love Wdym?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/25 12:15 AM
1	What motivates you to be monogamous vs ENM? I’m too protective and possessive to ever do anything other than monogamy, I’ve had it proposed to me before and I just blocked her	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/25 12:12 AM
10	Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of Love Must be the kinds of girls around you, because I’ve always been treated better by women who wanted to date me than women who just wanted to hook up. Which makes sense, the women who just wanted to hook up barely had to do anything, whereas the women who wanted to date had to put in effort	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/25 12:09 AM
1	Men who have been wild in the past can they be loyal to a fault in a relationship? Speaking for myself, given I’ve never dated any man, I’ve had no issue remaining faithful when in a relationship. Yes No I have no issue not flirting given I mostly did it to get sex anyway so if that’s not in the table there’s little point. I’m dating my partner (in part) because I find her attractive and we have compatible sex drives. If I were to be propositioned I’d just say no. If I find myself longing for a hook up so much so that I’d cheat on my partner, I’d just leave her	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/25 12:05 AM
1	What do you assume to be the normal rate of matches the average guy on a dating app receives? 2-3 a day, if you get less than that you’re either very ugly, have a terrible profile, or you’re using dating apps wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/25 11:54 PM
7	Be Realistic: Don’t Resent 'Boyfriend Material' Treatment; Reciprocate the Lack of Love Where do you get the impression that girls treat relationship candidates worse than hookups? My experience is the opposite	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/25 11:51 PM