| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 663 | Men telling on themselves lol. Just a reminder a HVM will never let you take on unneeded stress! | STAY WOKE | ShitFaced_Dumbledore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:10 PM |
| 515 | This is why you don’t give ugly men chances. | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | ShitFaced_Dumbledore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Men telling on themselves lol. Just a reminder a HVM will never let you take on extra stress! | STAY WOKE | ShitFaced_Dumbledore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:07 PM |
| 1 | The bar is so low. | MALE DEPRAVITY | ShitFaced_Dumbledore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 07:54 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 25 | How are you leveling up?I’ve leveled up so hard after getting dumped by an ex who disguised himself as a HVM. Career: I got my dream job and am now making close to 6 figures in my field, which is rare in my profession. Lifestyle: I got a breast reduction 1.5 months ago which has made me 10x happier. I love my new boobs and feel so much more confident. I joined a spin class to get back into shape I really struggled because of my giant boobs to maintain an active lifestyle. I’m taking walks everyday and making sure to sp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 03:14 PM |
| 70 | Defending yourself against men who want you to be a pickmeI come from a very machismo culture, the men in my family are very traditional. My father knows how I am, and does not try to debate with me because I am very hard headed and will most likely win the argument. I did this a lot as a teenager but not so much now. ( wanting to debate controversial topics and look for a fight all the time is frankly a sign of immaturity IMO). My family already knows my views. That doesn’t stop my LV brothers from disparaging women and feminist topics in front of me.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 05:15 PM |
| 7 | Cut off your guy friendYeah I cut off my male best friend who was LV. I wasn’t attracted to him at ALL. I usually dont befriend men I find attractive. He would always make sexual jokes that made me uncomfortable. Once I leveled up I should have cut him off then When I started dating my current boyfriend, this “friend” started berating me for my standards of having him pay for everything and if he was dating a girl like me he would think I was using him blah blah. For the record he only dated pick-me’s with really low … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 04:13 PM |
| 24 | Saying "I love you"Great question I’d love to hear other’s opinions about this because I’ve been dating someone for 6 months and no I love you yet. I wouldn’t dare say it first. On the one hand I feel like by 6 months you should know if you love a person? BUT I also get love means different things to different people. It can be more casual for some, for others It could be something they say when they feel deeply committed to someone, wanting to build a life with them, etc. In my case, I felt like I loved him at 3 … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 06:28 PM |
| 51 | Pick me-ism is a hell of a drugAgreed I’ve run into a situation in my pick me days where I was unknowingly sleeping with a guy who had a gf. Found his reddit account and saw that he was a frequent Red pill poster and was talking about his cheating and how he manipulates his gf. Felt bad for the girlfriend eventually found her IG account and i debated telling her but gotta protect yourself first who knows if a crazy scrote will come after you for “ruining his life”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 04:03 PM |
| 20 | Wife is in critical condition in the hospital, man blames lack of resources for fathers while spending paternity leave playing video gamesThis is how i read it too because there is no way he didn’t see how exhausted his wife was especially if she had threatened to leave him prior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 03:50 PM |
| 407 | Wife is in critical condition in the hospital, man blames lack of resources for fathers while spending paternity leave playing video gamesFuck this guy! When this woman recovers, i hope to god she does. She needs to leave this disgusting pathetic excuse of a man. This post just reads me, me, me. I feel so guilty. He’s only sorry that if his wife passes he will have to take care of his kids all on his own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 02:30 AM |
| 2 | My best trick for EARLY DETECTION of misogyny: pay attention to his interpretation of TV & movie charactersWell said! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 09:49 PM |
| 58 | My best trick for EARLY DETECTION of misogyny: pay attention to his interpretation of TV & movie charactersI watched the “I Care a Lot” movie with a guy I was dating and he kept calling the female lead a bitch. Granted she was evil but that response and use of that slur turned me way off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:29 AM |
| 4 | Ditched today by a Pickme friendI’m sorry to hear that OP. 💖 You seem like a really kind and considerate person she definitely doesn’t deserve a friend like you. A similar scenario happened to me where a friend whom I’ve known for 12+ years ditched me at a bar when we were both drinking for a loser LVM. I had to uber back home at 2 AM by myself. I cried over the situation for like an hour as well. I am no longer friends with that person! FDS has really helped open my eyes to having to cut all Low Value people out of my life. T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 04:40 AM |
| 3 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 8 - Disney Presents: The Princess and The BumCan you share the tik tok? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 01:50 AM |
| 7 | Opinions on surrogacy?I used to work for a Surrogacy agency and I’m super ashamed of it! I was there for a few months and I can confirm that all of the agencies are incredibly predatory. They lure women in with the promise of a huge compensation 80-100k but if you break down the emotional and physical trauma your body goes through during and after pregnancy, it is not fucking worth it. On top of that the contracts surrogates actually end up signing are like 20-40k below what is advertised to them. We were also told t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 10:18 PM |
| 1 | If you are curating your social media feed for a guy, STOP!Before the icons/emojis it would show a top friends list of 3 people when you clicked on a profile. It would list specific usernames! They replaced that with the emoji system later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 08:55 PM |
| 24 | If you are curating your social media feed for a guy, STOP!Snapchat also used to have a top friends feature. Men were always caught cheating that way when other women who werent their SO were their #1 snap friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 08:18 AM |
| 86 | I'm sick of pop music!Same! I used to like Ariana Grande during the God is a Woman era. I thought she was going for a more FDS vibe but her new album was so disappointing. Positions is so cringy to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 12:41 AM |
| 72 | Chinese dad hand-makes toys for daughter. He plays with her, and even involves her in the designing and construction process. She refers to him as her "superhero." This is the type of man that men should strive to be.That’s amazing how do they make them with cardboard?! What a great dad teaching her how to be creative and resourceful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 09:07 PM |
| 8 | What having a service dog taught me about menWow! This post has convinced me that I need to make getting a dog an important goal. Not just for my mental health but also safety! Thanks for sharing. So glad you have your dog helping to keep you protected 💖 I need to level up to be able to afford caring for one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 02:59 PM |
| 8 | We don't deserve this ladies. I bet we've all been through it.Yes been there done that! Never doing that shit again! It’s an awful feeling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 04:58 AM |
| 6 | This is freaking scary. We are not even safe at homeYes! Totally agree with all of this, I’ve been saving up to buy a house right now and keep rent cost down by living with roommates but that is the downside. I’ve been lucky so far with roommates bringing boyfriends or guests over / dealing with their forgetfulness but you never know! It only takes that one crazy depraved person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 04:37 AM |
| 53 | This is freaking scary. We are not even safe at homeScariest shit I’ve ever seen! My clueless roommate sometimes forgets to lock our back door when she goes in and out of the garage and I’m always so scared someone could be hiding in our house!!! Gonna be freaking triple checking every night now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 10:20 PM |
| 392 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩This is so disgusting. This is much worse than a red flag. Throw the whole marriage away! Classic narcissistic behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 07:12 AM |
| 6 | This is why we don’t take a man back, even once. He WILL do it again and you WILL find it increasingly harder to leave. I feel bad her daughter will grow up and see and accept this treatment by men.How interesting! I watch ASMR too! But the personal attention ones are too much for me because I’m not used to affection/attention lol. Childhood trauma smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 02:56 AM |
| 25 | This is why we don’t take a man back, even once. He WILL do it again and you WILL find it increasingly harder to leave. I feel bad her daughter will grow up and see and accept this treatment by men.Ugh I hate this new culture trend of glorifying “dick”. Most men have wack ass dick game! These Pick-Me’s are lying, you crave attention and intimacy girl not dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 07:22 PM |
| 6 | Men telling on themselves lol. Just a reminder a HVM will never let you take on unneeded stress!I hope he was your ex soon after that incident! What kind of asshole doesn’t offer to help his girlfriend recovering from a broken ankle? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Men telling on themselves lol. Just a reminder a HVM will never let you take on unneeded stress!Glad you dropped him sis! 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Loving myself, respecting myself. It has gotten me to do this to other women. I feel so inspired by them. When I'm working out I see fit women, and I think someday I could be on her level. These women work so hard, it shows.Same! Used to be a pickme and got jealous of other women who I thought were prettier than me. Particularly if they were around men I liked or was dating but now I’m confident in myself and appreciate how beautiful other women are. You’ll never see me bring another woman down especially not for a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 06:04 AM |
| 66 | Men telling on themselves lol. Just a reminder a HVM will never let you take on unneeded stress!Love this energy 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 07:53 PM |
| 4 | I started making lunchboxes. I always wanted to and couldn' wait to have a partner/children, so I can express my love this way. Just recently I realized that I already have a loved one, that I can make food for! (And who will always appreciate it) It's silly but it never came to my head before :DThese look sooo good! I have to work on upping my cooking / meal prep game. Thanks for the reminder! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:48 AM |
| 8 | Which one of you ladies did this? 😂My hero! Wish I would have had this girl's confidence at 23. I really hope she doesn't doubt her instincts by taking him back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:42 PM |
| 17 | And on today’s episode of men are oppressed...Eww this scrote is so ugly I couldn’t finish watching the video. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 10:59 PM |
| 112 | When the cost of repairing your car window > The life of your child. THIS IS WHY YOU NEED TO RUTHLESSLY VET THE FATHER OF YOUR CHILD. Trigger warning because this might ruin your dayDisgusting! How could the cops entertain this clown they should have broken the window as soon as they got to the scene. What the fuck that poor little girl :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 10:57 PM |
| 5 | I think she discovered FDS.. better late than never 👑A FIELD?! Dude what the fuck good thing my good sis said hell nah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Confessions of a former pick meThat makes a whole lot of sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:14 AM |
| 13 | In MemoriamThis is so devastating. Rest in Power RBG, a fucking legend. Champion of women’s rights I feel so much dread thinking about what the future may hold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:12 AM |
| 14 | This is why you don’t give ugly men chances.The one they gave a six rating to is so fug! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 07:48 PM |
| 16 | This is why you don’t give ugly men chances.He's currently asking for validation and sharing this thread in the MGTOW and Men's rights subreddits LMAO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:50 PM |
| 9 | This is why you don’t give ugly men chances.100% Facts!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:36 PM |
| 34 | This is why you don’t give ugly men chances.Was about to PM you but saw that you found it! LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 11:48 AM |
| 19 | Why do men think stuff like this is going to make us want them? 🙄BEAT ME TO IT LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:00 AM |
| 14 | I messed upGirl I’m sorry you went through that but read the handbook!!!! You never consider a man High Value unless you’ve properly vetted for months. The minute he does something low value you need to be ready to drop him. Read the handbook, maybe take a break from dating and work on setting boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 11:56 PM |
| 44 | I—????????????The audacity! Indian/Desi women are so beautiful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 10:32 PM |
| 6 | Why would men keep initiating contact with low effort? I don’t understandI don’t think he’s even worth meeting at ALL sis. Just block him and stop stressing over whether he’s interested or not. He’s probably just bored and is just testing to see what he can get from you. A lot of men do this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:04 AM |
| 11 | Don't give girlfriend/wife privileges to someone that's not making you one!!!! This is what happensYEP been there. My ex was a South Asian Muslim, somehow I convinced myself he was ~different~ and wasn’t just using me as a placeholder. 2.5 years later he claimed he didn’t want to waste my time anymore because he wasn’t ready for marriage. But when the time came he would just get an arranged marriage LVM af. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:37 AM |
| 4 | Some Scrote Really Tried to Neg A Woman Who Looks Like This lmaooooSaw that twitter thread! She’s gorgeous! Men’s replies trying to defend the man’s behavior made me so angry. They truly lack any shred of decency. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Can we please talk about this nonsense? I’m trying to understand what’s going on here?What? Plenty of people criticized Beyonce for writing a whole ass album about her cheating husband who she ends up forgiving by the end of it. I’ve definitely criticized her for it and have seen it being talked about plenty of times. Lana is coming off as incredibly entitled assuming WOC have never faced criticism for the topics they choose to highlight in their music. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 05:37 PM |
| 1 | The importance of having a rosterI’m trying to get myself into this mindset but it is mentally so hard for me to avoid giving only one person my time and attention. Any tips? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 06:26 AM |
| 5 | REMINDER: NO CUFFING POST COVIDNeeded this reminder lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 06:21 AM |
| 4 | Pickmeisha gets owned! [From r/technicallythetruth]My last name is incredibly common and is attached to bad family memories. I’d take my future husband’s last name if it was cool, or just get a brand new one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 06:45 AM |
| 10 | Felt like this belongs hereLOL, I straight up said this to a guy, minus the baby names part, during my tinder hookup days since he didn't have any condoms on him and it actually worked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 05:54 AM |
| 7 | Reminder never to accept anything less than protected sex, and why“Im not upset or anything” wtf?! Girl you should be this guy’s a total asshole who keeps denying giving you chlamydia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 05:16 PM |
| 49 | May just send a screenshot of this to the next well-meaning family member who asks me why I’m single. It’s rough out here.I like how no one’s mentioned the plenty of toys part, fucking gross. The thought of using sex toys owned by some fuckboy ughhhh who knows where they’ve been or who’s used them. Nope, BLOCK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 11:09 PM |
| 19 | Sis it's ok if you want your man to spend more on your ring than he does on a single $60 video game...The walmart receipt girl smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 08:34 AM |
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