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Thanks, you’re right I do have some learning to do w controlling my emotions. I think things will be easier without him fucking with my head nowadays and I fix my triggers
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:19 PM
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Thanks. Really thinking he is with all the manipulative ness and abuse, of course like every narcissist he’s nice and kind once in a whole which would me think “oh underneath it all he’s nice and loves me” but him doing this to me when I’m a grown man the night before my college graduation completely killed it all for me.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:17 PM
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That actually makes sense. I’ll definitely keep that in mind, thanks
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:16 PM
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Lol no, I’m actually agreeing with people who tell me what I did wrong respectfully and telling dickheads like you to fuck off.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:12 PM
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There’s as much evidence that he did that than there is that I punched him
/r/askTRP25/05/21 04:40 AM
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For sure, appreciate it. I do feel better and satisfied but definitely conflicted too. Like I don’t want to be triggered so hard that I punch my dad and have to skip my college graduation the day after. I guess I wish I could have deescalated it a different way so we could have been happy and I’d still have hope I could have a healthy relationship w my dad but it seems completely done. The reality is he refuses to change and is clearly a huge detriment to my life and will continue to try to sabo…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 04:24 AM
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It was actually in my house though and he was making me feel threatened. It’s really hard to remove myself from that situation. I really don’t know what else I should have done.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 04:17 AM
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It’s really hard though because this is an atypical situation where my own father is being blatantly abusive and pushing my buttons, making fun of my deep rooted trauma he caused that I’m trying to move past, and gas lighting me about it. then I respond with assertiveness continually and he keeps pushing the buttons and only stops and gets put in his place when I finally throw some soft punches at him, which is why I’m pretty conflicted. If this was a random person I would have simply just walke…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 04:14 AM
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Found it lol
/r/askTRP25/05/21 03:34 AM
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Is there really? You got a link
/r/askTRP25/05/21 03:31 AM
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There was a benefit- he learned his lesson (although he also did from me cutting him out). But he sees that there are also direct consequences for his bullying behavior. But yea I agree wish it didn’t escalate to that
/r/askTRP25/05/21 03:30 AM
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Yeah I agree but it’s hard when it’s your father playing with your deeply rooted trauma and not responding to assertiveness
/r/askTRP25/05/21 03:29 AM
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Yea that guy sounds like he understands trp concepts but not basic social skills
/r/askTRP25/05/21 03:28 AM
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Do you really want to do this? Honestly sounds like codependency/dad is manipulating you. You’re giving up your life to take care of him. Super unhealthy and weak boundaries
/r/askTRP25/05/21 03:17 AM
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Lmao sounds like she’s always been doing this shit, just the honeymoon phase is over and reality is starting to set in. Only way to fix this is to beat her ass and punch her three times
/r/askTRP25/05/21 03:14 AM
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Yeah no doubt need to stay in control, he knows my buttons and how to push them sadly but I’m definitely working on fixing that up. And definitely obvious he’s not being concerned about my feelings until theirs visible consequences
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:38 AM
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I’ve already explained my side and you’re missing points and forming an opinion off of what you’re choosing to see. Too lazy to point out what you’ve missed. There are some people who explained why I’m in the wrong and I agreed, just not with you, especially since you’re getting defensive over me not agreeing with you
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:35 AM
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Yeah man most of the people saying punching him was wrong keep revealing themselves as soft non confrontationals and get defensive when I talk to them/call them out on it. I agree w everything you said and it’s why I resent him so much. He caused me to have a shitty early life experience and self sabotage later in life till I got help. He is def narcissistic / abusive which is something my therapists have been telling me as well. I have no desire to go to counseling with him as I have better thi…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:30 AM
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I hardnexted him
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:26 AM
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👍🏼
/r/askTRP25/05/21 02:26 AM
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You sound too scared dude, I gave him 3 soft punches that were practically taps in my house. Stop acting like I started a fight in the middle of a restaurant and knocked him out bleeding in the flloor in front of everyone
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:53 AM
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Consequences are me NCing him and him losing a ton of respect in my family, don’t get what’s unlawful about that
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:43 AM
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Thanks man that’s what I was thinking, it’s awesome To hear someone else say it. I keep my cool in a lot of situations people are super tense in, a lot of people describe me as abnormally calm/chill but my dad is the one person who can constantly trigger me and make me lose control. It felt great to punch him. There was also some guilt too for sure (he guilt tripped me though, yelling shit like ‘just remember I love you ‘when my mom walked him out). But I also felt some kind of peace/freedom in …
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:39 AM
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For real man it makes a difference. A lifetime of emotional/mental health issues, great opportunities slipping by, etc. Luckily I’m more stable now and recovering thanks to EMDR therapy. Looks like it will speed up too now that he’s gone
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:37 AM
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Yeah sadly he was provoking it and not understanding / listening until I did something- and it’s different coming from your dad rather than a random it’s super easy to brush them off. I actually work door to door sales and get people provoking my daily and never get triggered. At the end of the day though he did do what he did, it was his choice and he gets to face the consequences now.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:36 AM
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Yeah that explains it- her environment (which your parents provided for her) was negativily influencing her. Have you had a conversation about it with her? You might be surprised how it’ll go. For your situation just remember that everything you’re going through is fuel and a strength. I’m in sales and a lot of recruiters could sense what I was going through and really liked it. Yeah my dad is a typical skinny fat Indian, like 5’11 270 lbs and a massive ego. Probably what stops them from making …
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:16 AM
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Yeah he’s using the punching him in the face to smear me to the family, but they all know he fucked up hard with me so they aren’t 100% on his side. Sadly though they have always seen me as the crazy kid because at the core of it: my dad fucked up hard with me
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:08 AM
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Damn sounds like your parents failed with her too. She might be going through the same shit mentally that you are, but doesn’t mean you have to keep her around if she’s treating you like that Also lol @ RuneScape scamming, I used to be a huge one
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:06 AM
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👍🏼
/r/askTRP25/05/21 01:02 AM
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Of what? My cock?
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:54 AM
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“Your father had it coming” describes it so well. Yeah I used to be fight happy when I was younger and just learning to fight, definitely have way better self control now. I don’t regret what I did at all
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:50 AM
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Huh? You sound like you’re taking trp concepts too serious to the point you can’t see/evaluate shit correctly
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:47 AM
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Yes I’ve been training Muay Thai / BJJ for years. I rarely get into fights and now I deescalate. actually haven’t gone in a fight since my first year / honey moon with MMA and knowing I can kick most peoples ass. I held back hard on my dad.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:46 AM
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Bruh that’s exactly my dad! Acts so tough in the family, but for example when we were at my apartment in the elevator, a hot girl walks in and he puts his head down visibly nervous, while I’m talking to her normally but almost start to feel anxiety because of my dad. Guaranteed he prob passed that shit on to me as a kid before my trp days (and I still struggle w it if I’m not constantly exposed to women). Also, if you’re sister / family dynamics are anything like mine, I bet your sister knows wh…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:45 AM
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I hard nexted him
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:32 AM
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Damn sorry to hear man, I lived with him till 18 and got the hell out ASAP. Has the same fears of losing his material support for years which stopped me from confronting him. I guess I’ve been super patient/savvy since I have everyone else in my families support (they’ve also seen the pain I’ve gone through because of my issues and are super aware of how toxic my father is), they have been helping me still get his materialistic support while I NC. Me and my dad have been fighting for years and h…
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:30 AM
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I didn’t want to punch him at all, warned him 3-4 times and my mom told him to stop. It’s pretty hard when it’s coming from you dad and the source of your emotional issues, rather than having sympathy, apologizing, etc, he just laughs and brags about it. Yes he is a v insecure guy, super low social status among his friends, kids always having to put him in his place and he judges, bullies, etc to us
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:25 AM
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How so?
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:20 AM
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What? That was not a shit test, it’s plain extreme disrespect and terrible parenting. Also probably should have read the OP, I did set the boundary, and have had multiple talks to him about what I’m going through and doing, and he invalidates it, says to just get over it etc
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:19 AM
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Bro what? People have the right to not talk to you, they aren’t obligated to constantly give you attention. If they cut you off, maybe you did something or crossed a boundary
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:07 AM
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It made 1000% sense for you to hop on until I read you only started lifting in April 2021. Try lifting for another year. Roids will be the perfect antidote for you of done properly
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:22 PM
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Cool so if someone in your social circle is disrespecting/making you look like an idiot you just gonna walk away cause “nothing to prove”? Or people who refuse to respect your boundaries? Non confrontational mindsets just attract bullying and cause you to sit super low in social hierarchies. It’s about learning how to handle confrontation or confront people in a calibrated way. I can write a lot more on this but I’ll just leave it at that
/r/askTRP21/05/21 04:30 AM
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Well yeah obviously be a bit more mindful of it, never fight some drunk idiot who doesn’t care about themselves or anything, there’s endless safer situations where you can practice your confrontational skills, doesn’t even need to be out in a club or involve actual fighting. Seems like a lot of people here are non confrontational if all that comes to mind is worse possible scenario whenever it’s mentioned
/r/askTRP21/05/21 03:37 AM
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This is true but I think literally every human being is playing their own game, it’s just there’s a few factors that determine how someone plays it like how aware of reality you are/mindset/self esteem Ex: the guy who dates an older single mom probably has low self esteem and thinks he’s tricking the single mom into dating him and winning it big when he doesn’t realize his own value and he can get way better
/r/askTRP21/05/21 01:32 AM
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Call him out on it in private then, might be a boundary issue
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:03 AM
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If you’re friend has better game than you, it’s you’re problem. Maybe you should work on yours so things like this don’t happen. For now I wouldn’t worry
/r/askTRP20/05/21 03:29 AM
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Could be adhd
/r/askTRP20/05/21 03:28 AM
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You did good, just sounds like your inexperienced/scarcity mindset which caused issues
/r/askTRP20/05/21 03:27 AM
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I remember seeing a YouTube skit of some high school virgin nerds talking about how they’re gonna steal alp of chad’s women once they go to engineering school and get rich while chad was broke. Eventually they did go to engineering school and got rich and chad was broke but guess what? He still was drowning in pussy while the virgins were confused af
/r/askTRP20/05/21 03:24 AM
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I disagree w a lot of the people here except the ones saying join a martial art and spar/grapple. You need to then go through a phase where you seek out physical confrontation to deal with the fear of it. You’ll realize 99% of people back down when they realize you don’t mind beating them up, the ones that don’t back down and you fight will be easy knock outs, the ones that beat you up will be a lil shameful but better than being a non confrontational pussy. Once you are calm and don’t fear conf…
/r/askTRP20/05/21 03:18 AM
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