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Yup, this is exactly why we should just leave. The utter terror that they can't talk themselves out of it once it's done is the ONLY deterrent. The comments explain perfectly why: Even if this guy rallies social support and tries to blame her in the future, he will do so against a backdrop of 'what would it take to make someone leave in an instant like that after 5 years?'. His usual sources of pandering are therefore threatened, his girl is gone, his ex will question him at the first new sign o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 04:04 PM
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spat my tea, best explanation for all these lizard-skinned unwashed mfs at my door three times a year. Extra fun in the context of retrogrades as a call for us to look closer, specifically at communication choices and 'swift finishings' in the case of Mercury. I think we can safely say both apply when studying these swamp brethren
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 11:16 AM
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this was such a fun fact, thank you! Loved the books as a goth teen but scared to read them again considering I'm still reforming as a pick-me. This context may be the reason I dig them out. Interesting to hear the sub role being triggered off by real life disempowerment again, as BDSM was the last hill my former self tried to die on having not levelled up. Regained a bit of control recently and like magic I wasn't turned on by the idea of sub-drop any more and found my exes aggressively macho d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 11:08 AM
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Thank you for being such a wonderful example for other women and a trigger for self-examination by LVM. I wish I had your strength- The man I've been in love with for years is HV in every possible aspect except porn consumption, and FDS has been great for stopping me being such a pickme about/around him but if he wanted to date me now I'd find it hard to say no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:25 AM
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Respectfully, I think this is the opposite of misogynist 'not like other girls' flexing, because the pickme, socially sanctioned, male-approved position would be to wear heavy instagram makeup and wax our entire bodies in order to compete sexually with other women and please men, 'not like one of those ugly feminists'. I'm guessing that OP's point is that (much like pornification) this is never actually a choice, so much as a perceived choice sold back to us as eMp0WeRMeNT and something we're do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:27 PM
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Yeah I think there's a risk of those who don't read much or widely digesting stoicism-lite self help or infographics as 'emotions bad, control and logic good', which becomes another excuse to ignore the roots of individual tendencies towards reactivity, as well as demonizing traditionally feminine spheres of understanding. The ignorance of the self and never examining your own flaws part is particularly hilarious in light of the stoic take on self-examination as personal power, but here we are i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:19 PM
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Mods (you rock!) - having referenced The Satanic Witch, I'd add anything by Anton LaVey to this red flag list. Most satanists and edgelord atheists (outside of the pretty wholesome Satanic Temple gang) still have misogyny levels stuck in the 1970s: It's not just a terrible aesthetic, it's a whole state of mind! Church of Satan's 'Bible' has fascist overtones despite LaVey's heritage - think Zarathustra with added troll aggression and an incel tone. The Satanic Warlock isn't LaVey but it's also C…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:57 PM
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Mixed feelings seeing Robert Greene in here, so I'm going to waffle a little. I agree that his audience is redpill types, but his writing has really helped when I've felt hopeless, angry or struggled to escape complex family and LVM triangulations. 48 Laws and The Laws of Human Nature are openly manipulative (he gives instruction to 'good' and 'bad' alike, believing that power/leverage itself is neutral), but for those wanting to leave or out-strategise narcissistic relationship dynamics or toxi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:54 PM
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I feel like it's been that long since a person wanted to court me and not sleep with me or get a free mommy that I legitimately don't remember how it works or what I should expect to see. I had a LTR where we didn't even go on dates and this kind of entitlement was so normalised I barely questioned it! Now all my fantasies are romantic - sex I can take or leave, non-transactional real world effort seems comparatively magical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:44 AM
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Great point about safety and feeling generally taken care of. My ex did please me but was very LV in other areas so it's kinda irrelevant whether he watched it in some ways, and he's the only ex I've had (male or female) that wasn't pornsick or influenced by the narratives around BDSM. I wish there were more ways to vet before things become remotely sexual, as by that point I'm usually pretty invested. I know some of the language and conversational acceleration to look for now, but sadly so many…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:16 AM
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I agree with all of this, but how does one actually vet for porn? I spent years with a guy who claimed to never watch it and was actually alright at intimate, respectful, non-ridiculous sex, but it turns out even he lied about his usage and watched it when he could. I wasn't against it at that (pickme) time but he still had me fooled and knew enough to realise it was a good thing to tell me he never watched any. How do we vet through the lies?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:02 AM
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Can confirm. Ex's ex so crazy she stalked us, abused her own kids as 'payback' for bonding with us and assaulted me in my own home, but the statement being true still didn't stop my ex from being the lowest of LVM's and getting away with much of it based on being in 'recovery' from what she did. He was a kind man and a genuine victim of a horrific narcissist who abused him in countless ways, but for some reason it never occurred to me that being susceptible to such an obviously toxic (sexually v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:09 PM
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Outstanding use of Venom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:23 AM
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I might have misremembered, but I thought her way out was to stab herself or cut her tail back into two legs and jump into the sea in the versions I read. Either way, not a great contract!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 07:07 PM
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Yeah and the antidote to the spell is literal suicide yet she still goes for it like 'what could go wrong here'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:34 PM
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Loved this!I wouldn't count Belle as she so obviously reads queer to me and probably just wants to help Beast because she's an aspiring veterinarian. It's my belief that she gets roped in because (crucial asset here) Beast has a library the size of the remaining town. Ngl, if my kindle held that much and I got a fancy gothic castle isolated from my haters, I might trade in a little captivity knowing I could always hack his rose-globe and summon a witchy sister to free me if he started getting ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:33 PM
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Aw thank you, that's very sweet! Agreed on the selective thing too, I used to be guilty of it when I was a lot less secure, and I suspect that even when guys aren't framing women as throwaways it's possibly a sign of 'please, will anyone have me, I'll try everyone I can'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 10:24 AM
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Really agree with this. I'm on the lowest income in my friendship group and yet I often buy drinks or meals for people I truly care about, to treat them or as a supportive gesture. If a date who's on potentially 4x my income can't take a chance on me to do that, it's either pretty insulting regarding their evaluation of me so far, or tells me how little they trust life in general to keep them supported and happy. If they have more on-paper security yet a view of the world as a relatively safe pl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 12:54 AM
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the treatment of this particular subset by other women, ostensibly to protect the rights of all women (except those who want to talk about it?!) was what tipped me over into researching RF directly and not just assuming it was awful because I'd been told that: Seeing female friends have to close down well established women-only meet up networks and support groups within the community here because they were being picketed by people actively supporting violent protest if we met to speak about our …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 12:56 PM
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I had depression throughout and developed bulimia pretty early on in the relationship (LVM was 'glad I was looking thinner'), then a year and a half in I started having daily anxiety attacks with more severe ones on top when triggering events happened. My blood pressure was through the roof and I had regular dissociation for the first time in my life, along with frequent migraines explained away by my doctor as 'quite normal during the stress of family court'- actually child protection court due…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:45 PM
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It's not inspiration exactly, but I'm 95% sure the long-term stress of complications attached to my last relationship is what put me in the position of being a young woman celebrating her birthday with a major stroke. What I'm saying is, be careful out there. My system was vulnerable to stroke in minor ways, but the signs were everywhere that my body was struggling for a long time in DIRECT RESPONSE to changes in that situation. Stress is no joke. Put yourself first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:19 PM
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totally accurate and reminds me of this: https://youtu.be/gEO3F0KTLi8
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 09:07 PM
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I was reading recently about how the unpredictably varied nature of non-unified 'groups' (two of the big ones begin with A) allows for genuinely new ideas by virtue of having poor or chaotic reputations - which cloaks their activities against popular consciousness because everyone assumes they're 'somewhere doing xyz, just like they said on this one major news outlet that one time I never questioned', and when people look into it the reports are so contradictory that they decide not to bother. W…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:44 PM
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I love that you used the 'arr' prefix to avoid taggery here, because now I'm not just imagining butthurt male mods cuttlefishing libfems- they're also all dressed (badly) as pirates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:25 PM
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When I was about 19 I went camping with a group of new friends and one of the older guys attached to that group had a video on his phone of his (17yo) ex doing stuff with him, loudly. He spent the weekend crying on the other dudes because she'd dumped him and rewatching it in his tent, then asked me if I wanted to have sex with him in the wild because he was 'pretty horny thinking about it all as well as sad'. Prior to that weekend I'd had a crush on him but that trip sorted it SO QUICKLY. Even …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:55 PM
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