ShittyPUA Archive

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1	Make sure to remember this 3 is essential. if you can't deal with rejection that's the first thing you need to get down. 1 is stupid: if your target doesn't even have the courtesy to blow you out... 2 starts out sounding like a "don't rape" thing, but turns into bad advice. compare the creepiness of "can.. can I buy you a drink? fake smile" with a calibrated "This place sucks, let's bounce to <other bar>" 4 is useless because it's not actionable advice. 5 yes, if you get outright blown out, move on. the set doesn't want y…	/r/seduction	04/01/13 08:21 AM
-2	Make sure to remember this DavidBryon is saying you should learn how to manage your indignance. The subreddit you're interested in doesn't owe you a response.	/r/seduction	04/01/13 08:01 AM
2	Seddit for women ? Exactly the same principles apply, with the possible exception that you might not have to deal with things like LMR, because male slut shaming isn't a thing. Just approaching and escalating will get you MILES above other women, because most females wait for guys to approach.	/r/seduction	01/11/12 02:56 AM
1	I'm attending a 2-day Hot Seat by RSD hosted by Tyler and Julien Tyler fucking owns willpower. I think you've already seen these, but they have pretty good rewatch value (especially the first one): How To Be Happy And... How To Build Willpower VS Positive Emotions	/r/seduction	19/05/12 05:05 PM
4	A word of caution Inner game, inner game, inner game. I understand that you want to embrace your oneitis, and there's nothing wrong with that lifestyle choice. On the other hand, you're not going to be able to make this relationship work if you don't fix your inner game. This girl sounds like she was REALLY into you, and if you messed that up because you were fucked up on the inside, there's a way to fix that, and it's called inner game. Owen Cook/rsdtyler has some really good stuff on youtube for this. Seriously…	/r/seduction	15/05/12 01:10 AM
1	Is there an Alpha way to deal with a break-up? Slightly off topic: Two women is a bad idea. One is okay. Three is even better. Never two. Even if they say they're okay with each other, usually one gets jealous and all sorts of stuff. With two women, they'll give you trouble for it. With more women, they'll just get mad at each other.	/r/seduction	08/05/12 02:02 AM
1	Woman here, just curious: what makes you sex zone women? Try really hard not to come off as insecure. There are two reasons I won't spend time with a girl: I've a hotter/funner chick lined up. (Can't really do much about that) I'm getting an insecure/slightly crazy vibe from her	/r/seduction	08/04/12 11:17 PM
6	[FR] Finally got a K-Close. I'm 25 and still a virgin, but at least I made the right step! Thanks to y'all on seddit! She gamed you, man.	/r/seduction	04/04/12 03:53 PM
1	Miss Manners: Constant pressing for sex deserves outraged response I was giving a response to what one should do with an HB that's either actually insulted, or a reader an follower of this mag. There's also no indication that the girl herself was insulted; that seems to be Miss Manners putting words in her mouth. Exactly. if the girl's actually insulted, it's slut shaming, which gets punished, and then we go to a friendlier set. Either way, a "no" gets the same response as a shit test. If she hasn't walked away, then you get "rejected" but not blown out. Either…	/r/seduction	09/03/12 12:52 AM
1	Ladies/gentlemen of seddit: I'm a woman who would like your advice on how to get asked out more. lol, instinctive PU response to "buy me a drink".	/r/seduction	08/03/12 12:02 PM
1	Miss Manners: Constant pressing for sex deserves outraged response The PUA would move on if it was convincing; we're not interested in chicks that hate sex enough be insulted, but this is closer to a shit test than an actual objection. Actually, this is in some sense slut shaming: punish that shit with some IODs and DLVs.	/r/seduction	08/03/12 11:53 AM
1	My opener is typically walking up to a girl and saying "Hi" with a smile. Are there better openers or is it enough? You can open with ANYTHING. The line isn't nearly as important as opening with a smile, being alpha, and looking like you've been having fun. The most effective way to get better responses to your opening if you already have these is social proof. FWIW, I open with "Hey" about 60% of the time and "Hey, how's it going" about 20%	/r/seduction	08/03/12 11:45 AM
2	Complementing a girl and getting a shit test No I'm not Agree and amplify "Yup, you're like a monkey's ass, but uglier". Then smile, so she knows you're joking. I'm a bit chubby "Really?" (put in either an ass slap or a poke depending on the setting) "I can't see that through all these clothes" This works better later after you have comfort/attraction. Really? Can't think of a response more clever than "yup." Then look into her eyes, smile, and stare her down.	/r/seduction	02/03/12 03:16 AM
7	Ever watch a politician talking to people in action? They utilize every single technique of PUA, except not for picking up women. It's part of how they seem so amazing in person. Whether they are or not is a different story. Watch Obama in action. Wow, this is GREAT infield footage. Obama's rockin' the social proof game, but he doesn't even need it! Great Kino, great eye-contact, nearly perfect frame, even a little tiny bit of escalation. Did you notice how everytime he looses a little bit of confidence and says "uh," people move a bit away? At 3:35 for example, see how cynthia moves away as he fumbles. Then he immediately gets his frame back, calibrates, DHVs (not that he needs to, "I'll buy these"), breaks rapport ("but you have to eat …	/r/seduction	28/02/12 01:45 AM
1	[FR] OKC Date---> Sex at her place made sure to take TofuTofu's advice Can't go wrong there :) I comically act like she shoved me. More detail on this?	/r/seduction	12/02/12 10:27 PM
1	Does PU need to be complicated? Dating advice in a nutshell. Openers. Just say hello. Having the "right" line. Just focus on having fun and flowing. Conversation ain't chess. It's not about what you say, it's how you say it. "Openers" matter, but opening lines don't :P Negging/DHV's. Just have fun. If a girl's bitchy, maybe she's just a bitch? This is just bad game now. Don't DHV, assume value.	/r/seduction	11/02/12 03:51 PM
26	[FR] First. Got a great girl due to confidence. You fell so far out of state that you snapped into state. That's good shit, right there. :) Sounds like you could've gotten a k-close if you'd went for one.	/r/seduction	11/02/12 03:48 PM
17	Tonight gentlemen, I'll test what you've not tested yourself. Totally off topic, but the apocalypse opener is the only one Feynman ever used, according to his book.	/r/seduction	03/02/12 04:36 PM
1	Alpha response to "It was nice meeting you"? The problem with Jeffries is that he has a frame of EXTREME scarcity. "Take the pussy off the pedestal" is probably somewhere on the sidebar... That said, there's some good stuff there.	/r/seduction	01/02/12 12:12 AM
2	LR: HB Dressed-To-Kill mark of a good FR.	/r/seduction	31/01/12 11:37 PM
2	A Good LTR vs. The Single Life... What are your thoughts Seddit? Barney: Don't even think about getting married 'til you're 30. Barney isn't real, but has all the PUA idiosyncrasies and sometimes gives solid game advice. This is one of those times.	/r/seduction	31/01/12 11:28 PM
3	Good Cracked article with a few scientifically-validated things to increase your attractiveness to the opposite sex. smiling is better than looking "creepy" and two approaches are better than one "being approached"	/r/seduction	31/01/12 10:34 PM
2	What in the world is the point of friend zone oneitis... for the girl? That's a scarcity mindset, man. Work on your inner game :P	/r/seduction	24/01/12 05:35 AM
3	"Can women tell a nice guy from a player by looking at his eyes?" Eye contact is the first rule of pretending to have inner game.	/r/seduction	22/01/12 07:12 PM
2	Does "I like your shirt!" Work as a pick up line. Tyler the creator does it. "Everything's an opener" -Tyler	/r/seduction	21/01/12 04:57 PM
1	Awesome FR from work The way it's been explained to me is: When your actions don't match your words it confuses her, in the same way that peacocking does, and she then continues talking to you to "figure it out," thereby getting her to invest in the interaction. EDIT: Wikipedia delivers! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_dissonance Lots of examples and explanations. This is PU gold!	/r/seduction	31/12/11 09:05 PM
1	Simple Pick-Up gets girls as NERDS! Right on the ball. Incongruence and cognitive dissonance builds interest.	/r/seduction	30/12/11 07:46 PM
1	How do you avoid being too "clownish"? Qualify, Qualify, Kino.	/r/seduction	30/12/11 07:40 PM
0	LMR 3 nights in a row... Even better, you can deliver that line and keep going "Thats cool, I respect that, I'm not going to make you do anything you want to do.." "... All you have to do is tell me to stop." Then count down from 5, escalating as much as you can without getting under her clothes. When you hit 1, her pants come off. Now if she gives you LMR again when you go for the panties, all you have to do is countdown again. And if she does tell you to stop, then do the freeze out.	/r/seduction	30/12/11 07:35 PM
2	Awesome FR from work I know Gambler loves using cognitive dissonance. He calls it "multi-level communication". Just be careful not to overuse it.	/r/seduction	30/12/11 05:42 PM
21	I apologise for the language, it is not my writing, but I think there are some interesting thoughts hidden between these disrespectful lines slut=woman, here. This guy is going out and trying to describe any women who'll have sex, which is all of them. He sounds a but pissed off too. This comment raises a good point about how this relates to us as PUAs. I think I've seen the video by AFCAdam where he talks about the PEN model. I'll see if I can go find it agian.	/r/seduction	28/12/11 08:31 PM
-2	I apologise for the language, it is not my writing, but I think there are some interesting thoughts hidden between these disrespectful lines This.	/r/seduction	28/12/11 08:20 PM
1	I feel like this is true From what I've seen, this is only a fraction of all of pickup. Sure, a lot of PU is confidence, but there's also things like being able to escalate, which if you do wrong, you just end up looking creepy (speaking from experience, from before I discovered PU) and drive the girl away. AFCAdam likes enumerate the qualities of a natural like this: Pre-selection (showing that you have value to women) Confidence (this) Escalation If you don't have Escalation, your relationships aren't going to go anyt…	/r/seduction	04/12/11 07:23 PM
6	I need a guy's opinion. Normal? That's better than normal. If all girls were straightforward like that, seddit wouldn't exist :P	/r/seduction	08/11/11 08:56 AM
1	You're not my type - racist. Rereading your post, it looks like you want a female opinion. r/AskReddit is thataway.	/r/seduction	08/11/11 08:45 AM