ShittyPUAadvice Archive

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2	Question for seddit, how should I sit without looking mad or awkward? I believe that everything you do is "alpha" (I loathe the term, but it's useful) because you are "alpha" to the very core of you. Even if you have poor body language, you are still "alpha" because situational body language does not affect your self-value. Conversely, simply having good body language does not suddenly make you the man. Just sit comfortably, whichever way you like sitting. I'm extremely comfortable having "closed" body language, and that doesn't stop me from projecting positive em…	/r/seduction	14/03/12 07:43 PM
3	Question for seddit, how should I sit without looking mad or awkward? No, back when I was a complete noobie and trying to learn to be "alpha", these types of questions really mattered to me. They're going to be insignificant in a half-year, but we all have our questions.	/r/seduction	14/03/12 07:39 PM
-1	The 5 Biggest Misconceptions Men Have About Getting Women I've always hated these articles. They're the type of articles that would say, "MIRROR YOUR PARTNERS BREATHING PATTERNS FOR +5 ATTRACTION".	/r/seduction	14/03/12 01:38 PM
5	Always approach. One thing will lead to another, and it will make a huge impact on your life. Want an example? This JUST happened. There's a difference between doing a lot of cold approaches and trying to hit on your social circle. It's established that you shouldn't eat where you shit. And doing approaches != being a creep. You're a creep if you're a creep. That guy just happens to be a W.I.P.	/r/seduction	14/03/12 01:10 PM
1	10 things you probably do wrong Don't worry too much about it. If you're in the right headspace/mindset, your body language will generally follow. E.g. if you feel awesome and relaxed, your body language will show it. You can't be in conscious control of every little tick.	/r/seduction	13/03/12 01:29 PM
3	Is it possible to "hack" your brain into looking at 10's the same way you'd look at anyone else, so you don't feel as nervous around them? Even the baddest bitches have to shit.	/r/seduction	13/03/12 01:08 PM
1	Got called a wonanizer on facebook. Good or bad? Well, if you're the type of womanizer that treats women correctly, it could be good for you. Your lady friends might introduce you as, "Hey, my friend anonomousrex is a great casual fuck and he's super sweet, want to meet him?" That's like the dream combination. But either way, play to your personality.	/r/seduction	12/03/12 05:40 PM
1	Got called a wonanizer on facebook. Good or bad? Depends on how you deny it. Don't deny it in a way that ruins the fun atmosphere created by that girl. That would be unnecessary qualifying. On the flip side, it also doesn't matter if you agree that you're a womanizer. Your chances won't be hurt either way, since there's a positive and negative to everything. Just spin everything to a positive. If I were to deny it, I'd probably make a joke like, "Noo! I don't believe in pre-marital hugging :\".	/r/seduction	12/03/12 05:38 PM
1	I'm pretty new here, but I've read pretty much all of the sidebar stuff. But I personally would like an outline of a strategy some of you use that works. Fuck you guys we are in love. I'm gonna feed her potatoes and rain water Wow, I love this.	/r/seduction	12/03/12 05:28 PM
2	It's Sunday: What did you learn this week? When a girl says, "help me up so I can do a pullup", she doesn't want you to hold her just so you can help her do a pullup.	/r/seduction	12/03/12 01:55 PM
3	Eye contact is incredibly important. Are you trying to have sex with guys?	/r/seduction	12/03/12 01:40 PM
1	Eye contact is incredibly important. It's only creepy if she doesn't want it. But she does want it.	/r/seduction	12/03/12 01:40 PM
2	Eye contact is incredibly important. I'm not trying to fuck dudes, so I just avert my gaze. It's not like I'm losing a battle or anything, I'm just looking away. Also, some people take it offensively and will get offended. Don't stare down shady characters in your local hood/housing projects/shantytown.	/r/seduction	12/03/12 01:40 PM
1	Eye contact is incredibly important. You're trying too hard to qualify yourself. Sorry, I'm being an ass. <3 XOXO	/r/seduction	12/03/12 01:38 PM
8	20 year old virgin (male); when I'm eventually about to have sex should I mention that I've never done it before or just keep quiet? I lost my virginity to a relatively close female friend of mine. I told her I was a virgin, so she went out of her way to make it awesome for me.	/r/seduction	12/03/12 01:34 PM
5	College, partying, and alcohol What do you think about amount of alcohol consumed? I personally don't like drinking when my purpose is to "game" because I enjoy the entire process sober. I enjoy that gut-wrenching anxious feeling in my stomach, and then crushing that feeling without the need for alcohol. It makes my game just so much more solid, and I learn more too. Drinking is fun when I'm not actively trying to approach girls, like if I'm going to a party with a ladyfriend already or whatnot. Sorry I can't say anything for…	/r/seduction	12/03/12 01:33 PM
2	College, partying, and alcohol It doesn't affect it at all. Getting into a relationship with a girl you've "gamed" is essentially saying, "Hey, I think you're a cool girl, and we have great sexual chemistry, let's go out". Girls you want to f-close and girls you want to date don't have to be mutually exclusive. It's only mutually exclusive for me if I don't want to date girls that I only want to fuck. Otherwise, I try to go for the FWB/open relationship.	/r/seduction	12/03/12 01:29 PM
1	Why am I getting this line? And what does it really mean? It depends on how you say it. You can say something like that and not convey insecurity. My favorite one is, "Sorry lady/girl/whatever, I need comfort and compassion first!"	/r/seduction	12/03/12 01:21 PM
2	Why you should take more actions as IOIs It's can be good to think like that for a little bit, at least to start noticing things. Every chode/AFC goes through stages like these. I used to get worried about how far apart to spread my legs when I sit in order to convey relaxed body language. Silly stupid shit! Once you gain experience, you always look back and say, "Wow me, I was a fucking idiot!"	/r/seduction	12/03/12 12:29 PM
4	Why you should take more actions as IOIs So what you're saying is to approach people?	/r/seduction	12/03/12 12:27 PM
1	I am discouraged from flirting with women because I am so ugly. Could an ugly guy ever seduce a beautiful woman? I would feel like a well-dressed loser. The only reason why you're a loser is because that's how you view yourself. It's a limiting belief and a self-fulfilling prophecy. I know you can't just flip a switch in your brain and suddenly go, "WELL I GUESS I'M NOT A LOSER NOW", but try. Don't put yourself down for no reason. They may seem like big reasons to you, but they're really not. They're just rationalizations. Think about it. You're posting on an internet forum for self-help. You have gigantic…	/r/seduction	09/03/12 02:36 PM
4	Post a picture of yourself. If possible, one with a girl you "___" closed with. I want to see how much looks play into being a PUA Asian here. I have bias because I'm white-washed as fuck. White girls are "easier" because it's easier for me to relate with them since my friends are mostly white. But other than that, there is no difference between white girls and Asian girls. I need to calibrate a bit, because most of the Asian girls I've met are initially very shy, but everyone is ultimately human.	/r/seduction	09/03/12 02:24 PM
1	Do you ever feel like seduction is just draining? it's hard to always be on your A game all the time. You don't always need to be on your A game. Just be who you are, and if you're tired or cranky, just roll with it. You don't need to be super alpha male 100% all the time. You just need to be human. You being a super-cool guy will come across if you're a super cool guy who's just tired and whatnot.	/r/seduction	09/03/12 02:14 PM