ShivasRightFoot Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
221	LLMs are biased toward female names in hiring decisions	article	ShivasRightFoot	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/05/25 01:06 PM
17	Political Streamer Destiny Discusses Double Standards for Male and Female Success	media	ShivasRightFoot	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/11/20 04:43 PM

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5	"Women don't start wars" and other myths. I thought those tribes were meant to be “progressive non colonial, enlightened savage” tropes You may be interested in learning that the Native American Tribes fought on the side of the Confederacy during the Civil War and continued the practice of chattel Black slavery for a year after the war ended until they were forced to sign new treaties with the US (it was ruled that their rebellion with the Confederacy abrogated previous treaties). US federal courts were first imposed on the Tribes to en…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/05/26 02:50 PM
2	Has anyone noticed that there’s a correlation about the treatment of men and racism from the left? patriarchy theory and critical race theory specifically are heavily influenced by the oppressed-oppressor theory some call cultural Marxism You should be more precise with your Leftist insanity labels. They will calll you out on it. "Oppressor-Oppressed" is from Critical Pedagogy, the work of Paulo Freire: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paulo_Freire Technically this is a completely different strain of Leftist insanity which is a cousin to Critical Race Theory and not a direct ancestor, although i…	/r/MensRights	13/05/26 04:49 PM
11	Post in r/science claims women are better off after their husbands die, comments are as you’d expect. We have been journeying through a realm of foreign customs and just as our behavior is surprising to the Americans, their customs seem baffling to us. Among these differing customs by far the strangest was the social relations between men and women. In conjugal and family relations in Japan a wife is dutiful to her mother and father-in-law and children show respect to their parents. In America however it is the custom for the husband to serve his wife. This may involve carrying her lantern or sh…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/03/26 01:19 AM
15	How to talk with normal leftist Leftists don't talk; they virtue signal. Literally everything they say is some version of "Look at how much I am part of the tribal in-group!"	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/03/26 02:01 PM
–	This "treat me like a human" thing that women repeat is something men could say too. You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would disagree with me." Coffé, Hilde, and Catherine Bo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 10:41 AM
59	Boys falling behind in schools I’d be interested in hearing other perspectives on this. What factors do you think are most overlooked in this conversation? There is peer-reviewed literature documenting that teachers show favoritism to female students over male students. This paper compares teacher grading when the student's gender is known to when the teacher is grading blind: I use a combination of blind and non-blind test scores to show that middle school teachers favor girls in their evaluations. This favoritism, estimated…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/02/26 03:12 PM
5	Time Magazine 2016: "6 Feminist Myths That Will Not Die"—Ten Years Later: Still Not Dead What happened after 2016 that a mere criticism of feminist myths is now considere misogyny and "extremism"? You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/02/26 11:49 AM
1	Decentering Women Isn’t Anti-Woman. It’s Actually Feminist and Healthier for Men Too You think Chad pulls at parties by declaring his political positions? Lol. You think these academic studies were based on Men hitting on Women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/26 11:18 PM
8	Decentering Women Isn’t Anti-Woman. It’s Actually Feminist and Healthier for Men Too You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would disagree with me." Coffé, Hilde, and Catherine Bo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/26 11:37 AM
2	As a man, Why am I not allowed to argue with women? You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would disagree with me." Coffé, Hilde, and Catherine Bo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/26 01:23 PM
1	As a man, Why am I not allowed to argue with women? Maybe it was a conversation etc, or debate. What a dumb thing to argue about. Oops I mean debate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/26 01:20 PM
3	Feminists will do all sorts of mental gymnastics to avoid admitting that women objectify themselves whenever it's convenient, and would rather demonize male sexuality instead. Again this is the mental gymnastics they always do. You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who wou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/26 10:52 AM
2	For those of you who complain about men who complain about not getting sex in relationships, saying that they should just seek hookups instead, would you be fine with those men complaining about their lack of access to hookups? If not, what is the right way for a man to complain about a lack of sex? Pay a prostitute and get it over with, Relevant research: Most governments in the world including the United States prohibit prostitution. Given these types of laws rarely change and are fairly uniform across regions, our knowledge about the impact of decriminalizing sex work is largely conjectural. We exploit the fact that a Rhode Island District Court judge unexpectedly decriminalized indoor prostitution in 2003 to provide the first causal estimates of the impact of decriminalization on the co…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 04:40 PM
27	Men's Issues are invisible in discourse Im almost convinced feminism is a psyop at this point. You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/02/26 04:34 PM
24	Vent/Rant Post: Severely depressed over gender wars You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would disagree with me." Coffé, Hilde, and Catherine Bo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/02/26 12:42 PM
1	Women seem to dislike clear communication, its a turnoff for them But (c) gets described as having not a problem to reveal ones believes. And women have a higher value in this metric. Of disagreeing with the statement: I have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to somewhat who would disagree with me (disagree) The word in parentheses is the response to the question. They disagree that they have no problem revealing their beliefs, so they agree that they have a problem revealing their beliefs. It's a double negative so it is a bit confusing. Also th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/26 03:37 PM
0	Women seem to dislike clear communication, its a turnoff for them but are nevertheless more likely to express their believes. I think you skipped the word "avoid." They are more likely to avoid expressing their beliefs, in that study's case by choosing the "don't know" option more frequently than males across their survey data.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/26 03:18 PM
0	Women seem to dislike clear communication, its a turnoff for them You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would disagree with me." Coffé, Hilde, and Catherine Bo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/26 02:53 PM
2	It's only considered an issue when it affects women. And the two black men reacting to Charlamagne saying that, brought up a really good point. They said, "Why do you guys only bring this up when it comes to Rappers being homophobic (or misogynistic)?" Whenever we talk about the violence in Rap we get called anti black. This had to be Aba and Preach. Fairly certian it wasn't the Hodge Twins.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/01/26 01:02 PM
1	Dramas Keep Showing Us Hapless Men — and Hypercompetent Women (NYTimes) But it's so agonizingly difficult at times with this mental poison circulating within me. Knowing I'll never have a place for my trauma to be received without invalidation or dismissal. Have you considered that history has afforded you the opportunity to heroically live as a persecuted minority? It's kinda like you're in a movie (it's not Star Wars but still like a mopey Oscar-bait film about racism).	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/01/26 01:48 PM
17	Dramas Keep Showing Us Hapless Men — and Hypercompetent Women (NYTimes) So which is it? You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would disagree with me." Coffé, Hilde, …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/01/26 01:43 PM
1	What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?" The researchers say that their results “suggest that socialization might be serving as a brake on female political involvement and expression”. They found that daughters of politically interested mothers nearly close the gender gap in political expression. Well now that we're on the same page with these results that Women have lower expression in aggregate I suppose we are free to further speculate as to why. Saying it is because they weren't raised correctly by their mothers is one candidate ex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/26 12:25 AM
1	What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?" Those studies show differential participation in a specific form of politics. A form of politics that is public, adversarial, status-oriented, and punitive. One study cited above showed this expression-avoidant behavior extended to anonymous survey responses (Atkeson, Lonna, and Rapoport 2003).	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/26 08:04 PM
2	What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?" What exactly is the point you’re making? If we say that political candidates running for positions of power and authority in society are analogous to more general "leadership" then these studies are attempting to address a similar question to the one posed by the OP. While it is established empirically that Women offer themselves for political canidacy less often than men these studies go further to question why we observe this phenomenon. The phenomenon is particularly puzzling given that femal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/01/26 05:04 PM
9	What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?" Is this a new thing that Gen Z and Gen Alpha are looking for? Is it a direct consequence of the Andrew Tate toxic nonsense of alpha/beta/zulu social dynamics? You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against expressing their own opinion and hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel unco…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/25 03:12 PM
32	The most common bad faith responses from feminists, explained. I frequently like to have my views challenged, You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would di…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/12/25 05:15 AM
38	Apparently even progressive women have a habit of demonizing sexuality of average dudes You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would disagree with me." Coffé, Hilde, and Catherine Bo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/25 01:33 PM
27	"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable. You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would disagree with me." Coffé, Hilde, and Catherine Bo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/25 04:07 PM
16	The widespread misrepresentation of data in feminist propaganda… You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would disagree with me." Coffé, Hilde, and Catherine Bo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/10/25 02:37 PM
5	A man needs to emotionally support his female partner; but reciprocation is mankeeping, which is oppressive and misogynistic. Isn't women beating men exactly what we expect out of patriarchy? Women constantly having demands put upon them to the point they physically attack their partners??? What did we expect, an egotistical man and his slaving wife? Good argument. Women abusing men is always men's fault. Whenever a bad behavior is done by a woman it is always a reaction to something worse done by men. Oh wait: that's not a good argument...	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/10/25 01:51 AM
32	A man needs to emotionally support his female partner; but reciprocation is mankeeping, which is oppressive and misogynistic. You may be interested in knowing there is a large body of social science research documenting the phenomenon of Women making demands in heterosexual couples' conflicts while Men "withdraw" from these conflicts. Here in this paper exploring the presence of gender stereotypes in heterosexual couples conflict patterns finds that: Couples assigned to discuss an emotionally easy topic showed fewer demanding behaviors (M = 3.56) than couples assigned to discuss an emotionally difficult topic (M = 6.23…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/10/25 05:49 PM
7	Hasan tries to push some "positive masculinity" as "advice" to young men. Hasan has endorsed groups like the Houthis of Yemen. Let's see how they interpret positive masculinity: Yemen: Huthis ‘suffocating’ women with requirement for male guardians The Huthi de facto authorities must end their mahram (male guardian) requirement, which bans women from travelling without a male guardian or evidence of their written approval across governorates under Huthi control or to other areas of Yemen, Amnesty International said today. Now that is some "positive masculinity" or what…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/09/25 12:11 AM
-4	Hasan tries to push some "positive masculinity" as "advice" to young men. Who cares what he thinks The public relations offices of various terrorist groups like Hezbollah, the Houthis, and Hamas?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/09/25 12:03 AM
2	Men are of very little use to a woman in a personal relationship. How is it relevant It would possibly be relevant if we consider that monetization of other aspects of a traditional partnership could be potentially spread to the aspect of sexual intimacy through this means.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/25 03:32 AM
3	Men are of very little use to a woman in a personal relationship. Possibly relevant: Most governments in the world including the United States prohibit prostitution. Given these types of laws rarely change and are fairly uniform across regions, our knowledge about the impact of decriminalizing sex work is largely conjectural. We exploit the fact that a Rhode Island District Court judge unexpectedly decriminalized indoor prostitution in 2003 to provide the first causal estimates of the impact of decriminalization on the composition of the sex market, rape offen…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/25 09:52 PM
45	A lot of women not being able to tell the difference between misogyny and equality, is not a joke. You could sum it up by saying women are more agreeable and men are more disagreeable Lol. No. The OP is precisely an example where this is not the case. Furthermore, according to social science research Women are more likely to make demands in heterosexual couples' conflicts than Men. Here in this paper exploring the presence of gender stereotypes in heterosexual couples conflict patterns finds that: Couples assigned to discuss an emotionally easy topic showed fewer demanding behaviors (M = 3.56…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/09/25 03:02 PM
81	A lot of women not being able to tell the difference between misogyny and equality, is not a joke. You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would disagree with me." Coffé, Hilde, and Catherine Bo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/09/25 01:16 PM
21	The problem when feminists say men should make their own movement or just be themselves and not worry about society You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would disagree with me." Coffé, Hilde, and Catherine Bo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/08/25 11:13 AM
5	the philosophical work and pro male and pro transgender advocacy stuff i do is central to my life and it seems to be going nowhere and is increasingly seeming pointless and i need help. I just need a space to speak freely and be heard. I’m not trying to offend anyone. You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political b…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/08/25 02:39 PM
11	I thought I found an article actually addressing male sexlessness from a progressive perspective, only to get more shaming and the same cliche tropes. You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would disagree with me." Coffé, Hilde, and Catherine Bo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/08/25 03:41 PM
4	CMV: "my ex is crazy" = I drove her crazy You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would disagree with me." Coffé, Hilde, and Catherine Bo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/25 03:55 PM
21	any assault on a woman = "incel attack"? You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would disagree with me." Coffé, Hilde, and Catherine Bo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/07/25 02:00 PM
4	Bad argument I found on twitter that I wanted to share because it pissed me off You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would disagree with me." Coffé, Hilde, and Catherine Bo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/07/25 02:49 PM
3	Advice geared towards men is circular and designed to drive you insane Women that enjoy those hobbies and frequent those spaces exist (I’m one of them). The ratio is incredibly skewed towards men, as u/Wooshie_Pop points out. It is simply unrealistic to hold out for the one moderately physically attractive (extreme) nerd girl. The real issue I am trying to get at is that we need to recognize the differences between how men an women engage with these interests and get a realistic picture of how close a couple's interests can be. Men should not expect women to compet…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 06:26 PM
16	Advice geared towards men is circular and designed to drive you insane Think about your values and habits and what your ideal woman’s values and habits are Can't wait to find my ideal woman who is into video games, esoteric philosophy, and sci-fi! I'll just be the fat nerd waiting at Warhammer store for my perfect woman to walk through the door!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 03:05 PM
–	Advice geared towards men is circular and designed to drive you insane You may be interested in knowing there is a body of scientific literature showing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would disagree with me." Coffé, Hilde, and Catherine Bo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/25 03:03 PM
-10	Are We Wrong About Prison Rape You don't think there is an abuse of power when this happens? Sex between consenting adults is actually perfectly legal, shockingly.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/06/25 11:01 PM
4	Are We Wrong About Prison Rape I’m criticizing the push back against including male inmate sex with female guards as instances of rape This push-back is entirely reasonable and associating willing consentual perfectly legal heterosexual sex with prison rape shamefully undermines the advocacy of people actually attempting to prevent real violence.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/06/25 03:37 PM
16	Are We Wrong About Prison Rape then a female worker can willingly have sex with her male boss. They absolutely can. The idea this is an impermissibly vast power difference is a recent and stupid idea which is hardly universally accepted.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/06/25 01:48 PM
-25	Are We Wrong About Prison Rape That the authors are trying to inflate the prison rape numbers by including willing sex between consenting adults is ridiculous and will undermine future efforts to address the actual problem of prison rape. This study is a farce.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/06/25 01:47 PM
3	Do Android phones really make you less attractive? I don't doubt you hang around with very stupid people. Here is a body of scientific literature showing Women are more likely to feel pressure to conform to social expectations: Analysis of sex differences revealed that older females were significantly more conforming than older males when under surveillance as well as when subjects formed impressions of one another's likability. Eagly, Alice H., and Carole Chrvala. "Sex differences in conformity: Status and gender role interpretations." Psycholo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 03:54 PM
79	LLMs are biased toward female names in hiring decisions The study used identical resumes with differing gendered names. It also found an ordering effect biasing it to select the first candidate and a bias to select candidates which mentioned preferred pronouns in their resume. https://davidrozado.substack.com/p/the-strange-behavior-of-llms-in-hiring	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/05/25 01:08 PM
–	A violent felon has a greater chance of having a girlfriend while incarcerated, than a autistic man who never hurt a fly I think if more people held others accountable for things as simple as "Make sure your actions match your words," things would change for the better. You may be interested in knowing Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem reveal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/25 04:50 PM
17	What's a good response or 'comeback' to the pick me girl insult? The best thing you can do is casually let their insults bounce off you and keep arguing your point calmly This, but also call them "childish." It's perfect because it is an apt description of what they are doing. "That's childish." Simple as. "What are you, a child? (other options: twelve? in middle school?)" "Don't you think personal attacks are a little childish? You're embarassing yourself." This one is for the sophisticates. Toss one of these and then launch into the strongest point in your …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/04/25 03:26 PM
14	Male friendly reviews on Netflix's show Adolescence You are trying to solve the wrong problem. ??? These are just empirical findings which seem to support your position "It is [difficult] to have an intelligent, meaningful conversation with a modern woman [about this contentious topic]" These peer-reviewed scholarly works seem to show this is a valid generality which is not limited to your social group nor a result of your personal bias.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/03/25 04:29 AM
15	Male friendly reviews on Netflix's show Adolescence Is this show worth watching? Lol, no.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/03/25 04:08 AM
13	Male friendly reviews on Netflix's show Adolescence It is not possible to have an intelligent, meaningful conversation with a modern woman Women have a strong preference against hearing contradicting ideas. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would disagree with me." Coffé, Hilde, and Catheri…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/03/25 04:05 AM
9	Dozens of male Israeli detainees and hundreds of Palestinian detainees now left in the dark Here is how the IDF, the most moral army in the world, treats its Palestinian detainees: One part of the news story about the sexual abuse was left out, the part about Israel arresting the soldier who may be suspected of the assault: NBC News has not confirmed details of the reported abuse or if the video circulating was of that incident, but the allegations came out amid a roiling controversy over the treatment of Palestinian detainees that was sparked in July, when the Israeli military charged…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	19/03/25 04:54 PM
7	Male privilege explained - a rebuttal women are just less likely to run. The actual reason. We examine the differences in attitude expression between men and women over the past 50 years. Using the National Election Study (NES), we examine both the number of open-ended comments expressing like and dislike of candidates and parties and the percentage of times women responded "don't know" to specific closed-ended questions relating to policies, candidates, and groups. We find that women are less likely to express as many likes and dis…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/02/25 05:23 PM
1	"Of Course, That Doesn't Mean You're Invalidating Women's Issues" I’m a leftist and I use the term woke so clearly you’re wrong about “nO lEftISt uSes tHe teRm wOkE” lmao Here Barack Obama uses the term "woke" to disparage extreme and unproductive political purity from the left: You know this idea of purity and you're never compromised and you're always politically woke and all that stuff, you should get over that quickly. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qaHLd8de6nM He again used the term to describe exclusionary extreme leftism just last December: It is not a…	/r/MensRights	22/02/25 04:04 PM
1	Women care more about feelings than facts. Funny how retaining a cultural identity is celebrated in Boston, with Irish Culture. In Cincinnati with German culture. Dutch culture celebrated in Holland, Michigan. Italian culture in Little Italy and South Philly. These cultural celebrations are not separatist nor encouraging or endorsing "separation from the American mainstream." Everyone votes with their money. Voting with your money in the way described whereby he chose furniture moving employees by race would be illegal if done by a busin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/25 04:20 PM
1	Women care more about feelings than facts. I’m just dying to hear how you feel about critical race theory and the argument about teaching jingoistic American history vs facts in the public classroom setting. While not its only flaw, Critical Race Theory is an extremist ideology which advocates for racial segregation. Here is a quote where Critical Race Theory explicitly endorses segregation: 8 Cultural nationalism/separatism. An emerging strain within CRT holds that people of color can best promote their interest through separation from …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/25 03:39 PM
23	The problematic 'Gen-Z men are turning conservative' narrative Women became more liberal than men in Gen Z, but men also became more liberal (just not as much as women). This whole narrative was kicked off by the numbers in a Financial Times news story from almost exactly one year ago. It showed a widening political gap between young Women and young Men which all of the (US) left-leaning media misrepresented as young Men becoming more conservative. While they didn't really become more liberal according to the data it is still extremely clear that the wideni…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/01/25 03:28 PM
7	Society can actually fix dating. And this can happen voluntarily and does not require violence Most governments in the world including the United States prohibit prostitution. Given these types of laws rarely change and are fairly uniform across regions, our knowledge about the impact of decriminalizing sex work is largely conjectural. We exploit the fact that a Rhode Island District Court judge unexpectedly decriminalized indoor prostitution in 2003 to provide the first causal estimates of the impact of decriminalization on the composition of the sex market, rape offenses, and sexually t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/24 04:40 PM
2	Older, single cat ladies are not who manospherians say they are I have no doubt she’ll find more takers Well, there's this: Why am I still pretending that I’m not getting older? Why am I afraid of looking my age? Why does any of this matter at all? What if I just allowed myself to become a gorgeous old amazing woman, like her? What if I were just free? Later she rephrases it in terms of denying men subservience: A lot of men don’t like this haircut of mine, of course, but I find that I don’t care. Let me rephrase that—I can’t care. I cannot organize my life …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 12:13 AM
5	Older, single cat ladies are not who manospherians say they are friendly, outgoing, and engaging. Reminds me of "Eat, Pray, Love." That lady used to work at the Coyote Ugly bar, a place that had a raunchy '90s movie made about it. Wonder how she's doin? In a 2015 article for The New York Times titled "Confessions of a Seduction Addict", Gilbert wrote that she "careened from one intimate entanglement to the next—dozens of them—without so much as a day off between romances." She acknowledged, "Seduction was never a casual sport for me; it was more like a heist…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 10:23 PM
25	Q4M: Would you date an attractive "loser"? You do not understand how little we give a fuck about keeping up appearances to have meaningless get-togethers which frequently degenerate into subtle social jousting. "Oh no, I won't catch hell for leaving a pair of socks unattended in the middle of the room," "Oh no, I won't be frantically rushed off to some awkward social occassion to pointlessly eat up what little time I'd have for relaxing hobbies after a long workday or week."	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 09:39 PM
14	Opinion: Biggest benefit of dating men over women According to the most relevant research on the topic Women do apologize more. They also are more easily offended; in general they have a lower threshhold for perceiving offense. So it may be that men in relationships with women find themselves having apologies demanded of them frequently; and while women do also apologize more frequently men may not remember and recognize this because the men are not offended when they get an apology. Relevant sections: Most offenses occurred between friends (46…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 06:33 PM
1	He’s right. Kamala also outperformed Angus King Jr. in Maine. Kamala underperformed Angus King plus the literal other Democratic candidate in the senate race that ran against both him and the Republican. 430,512 < 508,588 = 423,080(King) + 85,508(Other D) The Maine Democratic senate candidate received 10% of the vote in Maine. Bernie had no Democratic opponent and the highest vote total in Vermont for a third part senator was about 7 thousand (2.2%) compared to the about 6 thousand votes for Robert Kennedy …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/11/24 10:59 AM
4	He’s right. Bernie underperformed Kamala in Vermont (235.8k for Kamala vs 233.9k for Bernie).	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/11/24 03:27 PM
1	There’s too much casual misandry on the internet Both don't really get pushback Reality \| You	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 01:42 PM
3	The Guy Tiers in The 80/20 Rule of Single Women Chasing Men Wait. What? I'm 64 and can assure you I'm far from the end of my "sexual career" nor are the women in my age range in online dating that I match with and date. This is from the data. Figure 4 shows the number of partners by age. For women there is a strong "kink" in the graph at around 26, when they basically stop accumulating sexual partners. For men it is 28. While it is true there are still some people accumulating new sexual partners past these ages it is at a dramatically lower rate than in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 11:52 PM
1	The Guy Tiers in The 80/20 Rule of Single Women Chasing Men The numbers are adjusted so that the same number of heterosexual pairings are reported from each sex, despite women reporting less and men reporting more. You would need a story about how some women are systematically deflating their count while others inflate it to account for the 2016 and prior data. Either that or both (general) women and high end men lying that they slept with fewer women (and then telling the truth in the 2021 data).	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 09:51 PM
6	The Guy Tiers in The 80/20 Rule of Single Women Chasing Men There’s a few fundamental angles and gaps to this argument that don’t get brought up. Male players hang around the casual markets for longer and sometimes nearly indefinitely. Nearly all women are transient in the casual market. Women may go through 1-3 casual dating hoe phases in their life that don’t last more than a year. Women pickup fwbs and situationships to explore those opportunities and don’t just sit in hookup culture. Historically this is untrue. You can see in figure 3b and 3c that f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 07:41 PM
13	The Guy Tiers in The 80/20 Rule of Single Women Chasing Men The thing most redpillers don't understand is that the 80% of matches come from a small percentage of very "sexually open" women. Much of it is just that there is a subcultural difference between parts of our wider culture. A couple years ago I did a pretty in-depth analysis of GSS data on this question, and many more. Here is what I said about this specifically: The top approximately 30% of men accumulate 80% of bed notches between the ages of 18 and 30. The other side of this story that is not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 05:45 PM
2	What role does IQ play in a man's attractiveness? This research asked if intelligence impacts personal finances. The results confirm other researchers' findings that IQ test scores and income are related. Depending on the method of analysis used and specific factors held constant, each point increase in IQ test scores is associated with $202 to $616 more income per year. Your source.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/24 11:14 PM
14	What was a time that you, as a man, experienced sexism or misandry? Unrelated YT video causally mentions the recent Joker movie as an example of a surprise musical and it reminded me that the rape scene in that movie being portrayed as a justified humiliation of a villian would cause a media scandal if it was Lady Gaga being raped.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/10/24 07:22 PM
2	Do men on here understand why women follow alpha fucks and beta bucks? In general there of course needs to be a balance between considerations of caution and the future and immediate use of resources. Avoiding paralysis by analysis and taking up action is necessary for expressing any intent in the world. Throwing caution to the wind to indulge in our spirit is sometimes appropriate. Perhaps an iconly female example of this is Joan of Arc's urging for immediate action against the cautiousness of the male French military officers: The next day, 5 May, was Ascension D…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/24 04:37 PM
2	Do men on here understand why women follow alpha fucks and beta bucks? This is an interesting paper showing similar results in a vastly different environment: we find evidence that households in which women are empowered spend more on welfare-enhancing goods, such as food, but are less likely to have savings left at the end of the month.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/24 02:29 PM
0	Do men on here understand why women follow alpha fucks and beta bucks? While certainly not a universal practice, it seems possible a lack of consideration of the outcomes of their actions in the future may explain this phenomenon? In a 2015 article for The New York Times titled "Confessions of a Seduction Addict", Gilbert [author of Eat Pray Love] wrote that she "careened from one intimate entanglement to the next—dozens of them—without so much as a day off between romances." She acknowledged, "Seduction was never a casual sport for me; it was more like a heist, ad…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/24 01:57 PM
8	Three interesting studies with expected results Unlike a few decades ago, today there is a wide gap between young men and women in political views, and it seems to be growing sharply. This is due to young women being much more liberal than in the past, not men being more consevative, at least in the US and Europe. The FT data show this clearly.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/09/24 03:43 PM
3	CMV: There's no actual problem The actual suicide rate in the UK during 2020 was 10/100k compared with 11/100k in 2019 and 10.5/100k in 2018, although the 2017 was slightly lower at 9.4/100k. In 2021 it went back up to 10.7/100k. https://www.ons.gov.uk/peoplepopulationandcommunity/birthsdeathsandmarriages/deaths/bulletins/suicidesintheunitedkingdom/2021registrations	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 09:18 AM
1	CMV: There's no actual problem In countries on every continent, an ideological gap has opened up between young men and women. Tens of millions of people who occupy the same cities, workplaces, classrooms and even homes no longer see eye-to-eye. In the US, Gallup data shows that after decades where the sexes were each spread roughly equally across liberal and conservative world views, women aged 18 to 30 are now 30 percentage points more liberal than their male contemporaries. That gap took just six years to open up. Germany a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 09:07 AM
6	CMV: There's no actual problem Looking at CDC suicide statistics seems to show a downtick in suicide rate during COVID oddly enough: https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db464.htm Overall suicide declined from a peak of 14.2/100k in 2018 to 13.5/100k in 2020. The same statistics show suicide steadily increasing for men from 2006 (18.1/100k) to 2018 (22.8/100k).	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 04:13 AM
3	CMV: There's no actual problem There were no major revolts on the streets during the COVID lockdowns. People are largely OK with the way the world is going. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Floyd_protests#Violence_and_controversies January 6th took place shortly after COVID and still technically during a period of restrictions. Moreover, we have seen Donald Trump's popularity sustained despite felony convictions, the support of Putin for Trump, the opposition of his previous appointees including Mike Pence, and his attemp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 03:51 AM
9	CMV: There's no actual problem treating mental health issues is a bad thing? The necessity to treat the mental health issues by the existence of the mental health issues is the bad thing. Being upset at a rise in people seeking cancer treatment or treatment for heart disease is something only a mentally challenged neurodivergent person would think is confusing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 03:39 AM
1	Social media: Why algorithms show violence to boys Just wanted to mention that I saw Phil Defranco (large and long time news YouTuber) cover the widening political polarization among young people and most of the segment was about how Andrew Tate is turning young men more conservative. The irony is that the young male group is bang in-line with other male groups at slightly more conservative, while the young female group is way more left-leaning than other female groups. It would have seemed that the polarization is from young women moving farthe…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/09/24 02:06 PM
8	As one of the guys that's being talked about, the comments just hurt Pretty funny watching people, some of whom are very well educated, make continuous fallacies of reasoning, namely putting the cart before the horse. You may be interested in knowing that there is a large body of social science research that shows women are less willing to form strong opinions and engage in intellectual discussion than men. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel unco…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/08/24 02:59 PM
8	As one of the guys that's being talked about, the comments just hurt The inability to connect dots on other data is startling. You may be interested in knowing that there is a large body of social science research that shows women are less willing to form strong opinions and engage in intellectual discussion than men. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem reveal…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/08/24 02:55 PM
1	K Harris perpetuates the '80 cents on the dollar' hoax he Biden admin has been proven to have helped prevent the early end to the war in Ukraine (through Boris Johnson) & the FBI/CIA needs to be taken down a few pegs. Right now, republicans seem to be the only ones concerned with doing this, while democrats make excuses and back the escalation tactics of the CIA & NATO. I just don’t want WW3. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lesson_of_Munich The policy of appeasement underestimated Hitler's ambitions by believing that enough concessions would secure a …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/08/24 06:45 PM
3	K Harris perpetuates the '80 cents on the dollar' hoax I’ll admit it’s just a shot in the dark based on his first term performance. While Trump did fight the rest of Republicans on passing the COVID stimulus he also proactively persued further tax cuts for the wealthiest Americans, which is the most impactful long-term economic federal policy. Democrats with a Democratic president are better able to pass programs that can directly help regular Americans without risking exacerbating wealth inequality. If Trump and the Republicans get control of congr…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/08/24 05:35 PM
13	K Harris perpetuates the '80 cents on the dollar' hoax As an American I am very glad people are finally waking up to Trump and seeing his tactics are BS. Calling him weird is the kind of 4 IQ move that he usually makes. Now Trumpists have decided that more than 4 IQ is necessary to make an electoral decision. I am also very concerned this election will represent a tipping point whereby Democratic leadership will legitimately become "Woke," i.e. accept racial discrimination and sexism from racial minorities and people with sexual identites other than…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/08/24 02:55 PM
11	What do men want women to do when they become sexually undesirable as they age? Literally just be thin. I think a lot of people use "youthful" as a euphemism for "thin" because of media messaging about female body image and eating disorders. When we compliment a woman on a "youthful figure" we really mean thin; no one is calling a woman with a round cherub-like face similar to a toddler's "youthful," that chick is fat. Chubby at best. "A little extra," if you're trying to be nice about it. I bet as an intelligent man of fine taste you'd agree with me that Halle Berry remain…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 05:06 AM
67	The male gender role of being the stoic rock in a romantic relationship is the most pronounced example of emotional labour that exists in life, and those who believe women do more emotional labour on average are either lying or ignorant. You may be interested in knowing there is a large body of social science research documenting the phenomenon of Women making demands in heterosexual couples' conflicts while Men "withdraw" from these conflicts. Here in this paper exploring the presence of gender stereotypes in heterosexual couples conflict patterns finds that: Couples assigned to discuss an emotionally easy topic showed fewer demanding behaviors (M = 3.56) than couples assigned to discuss an emotionally difficult topic (M = 6.23…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/07/24 09:50 PM
2	Thoughts on how I could rebut this “gender conscious lens” argument? "Gender conscious" is the critical feminist version of CRT's "race consciousness." It simply means discrimination of your opinion or response to a situation on the basis of the race or gender of the involved parties. It is gender discrimination in the same way "race consciousness" is race discrimination. While some people argue that this is not "racist" or "sexist" by a tortured definition of racism or sexism it certainly is discrimination. The original meaning of discriminate is simply defined …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/07/24 11:03 PM
6	Has something drastic happened to Menslib? it's it's own concept that doesn't have to be a boogeyman beating down on white men as privileged/whatever conception of it people have. While not its only flaw, Critical Race Theory is an extremist ideology which advocates for racial segregation. Here Critical Race Theory explicitly endorses segregation: 8 Cultural nationalism/separatism. An emerging strain within CRT holds that people of color can best promote their interest through separation from the American mainstream. Some believe that pr…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	17/07/24 05:32 PM
15	Does clubbing automatically mean being sexually active? Did you read the post? She fucked the guy, so she does not consider him unsuccessful. Great example of how women in general "do[n't] understand how unsuccessful guys can be at picking up women." The word 'unsuccessful' was a description of his efforts at the club, not a general trait of himself. A decently attractive man can go for long periods without attracting a casual sex partner, even while clubbing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 02:27 PM
12	Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectations Even for Gen Z, most flirtations and banter and hanging out is happening in the real world. Nice gaslighting. More and more Americans are likely saying things like that, according to new research from Stanford University, which found that meeting online has become the most popular way heterosexual couples get together in the United States, surpassing introductions through friends and family members. https://web.archive.org/web/20190821194543/https://www.bostonglobe.com/metro/2019/08/21/the-robot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/24 04:55 PM
5	Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectations Bluepiller fails to recognize or even address the hypocrisy: Redpiller: "They want it both ways, A with men and then B with women!" Bluepiller: "Well you can see how it makes sense for people to do A."	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/24 04:45 PM
–	Men suck at non-verbal communication, Women suck at Verbal communication We have been journeying through a realm of foreign customs and just as our behavior is surprising to the Americans, their customs seem baffling to us. Among these differing customs by far the strangest was the social relations between men and women. In conjugal and family relations in Japan a wife is dutiful to her mother and father-in-law and children show respect to their parents. In America however it is the custom for the husband to serve his wife. This may involve carrying her lantern or sh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/24 08:29 PM
4	Men suck at non-verbal communication, Women suck at Verbal communication Do you think that women somehow drop the lifelong habit of making others happy because it’s safer than confrontation simply because they were on the phone? I guess your theory that women have irrational habitual and/or instinctual fears may be a candidate explanation for why they are apparently worse communicators.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/24 03:24 PM
7	Men suck at non-verbal communication, Women suck at Verbal communication Women have no choice but to display acquiescence and agreeable behavior to others. This is factually untrue in the situation of a discussion on an anonymous phone call with a polling organization.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/24 02:11 PM
10	Men suck at non-verbal communication, Women suck at Verbal communication One of the studies involves anonymous telephone polls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/24 02:02 PM
10	Men suck at non-verbal communication, Women suck at Verbal communication You may be interested in knowing that there is a large body of social science research that shows women are less willing to engage in discussion than men. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would disagree with me." Coffé, Hilde, and Catheri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/24 01:45 PM
3	Do you think that it should be illegal for people to charge money for sex? Lots of harm comes from it and no good. You may be interested in knowing that as best as Science can tell the legalization of prostitution lowers the incidence of sexual violence against women (and STDs too): Most governments in the world including the United States prohibit prostitution. Given these types of laws rarely change and are fairly uniform across regions, our knowledge about the impact of decriminalizing sex work is largely conjectural. We exploit the fact that a Rhode Island District…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 05:08 PM
0	Do you think that it should be illegal for people to charge money for sex? When men and women do not have to use social skills and charm to attain sex, it creates a bunch of fucking weirdos in society You may be interested in knowing that as best as Science can tell the legalization of prostitution lowers the incidence of sexual violence against women (and STDs too): Most governments in the world including the United States prohibit prostitution. Given these types of laws rarely change and are fairly uniform across regions, our knowledge about the impact of decriminali…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/23 05:07 PM
–	For those of you who think women can get anything for free? Not trying to be confrontational but I am curious what job a 25 year old has that affords the time and pay to enjoy the extensive international travel you've mentioned: https://old.reddit.com/r/SluttyConfessions/comments/18n9j23/25f_fucked_a_different_guy_in_every_country_ive/	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/23 02:32 PM
3	The issue with dating today The main issue in testing a hypothesis that contemporary young Men are fatter or not than contemporary young Women is establishing a comparable difference in bodyfat percentage. This isn't really a question addressed by academia as medical studies are going to be looking at deviations from the existing average, and will not be concerned with the aesthetic issues of, how to put this, "comparable hotness." One relatively objective measure of the differences between Male and Female body fat for arg…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 01:36 AM
16	Women asking to be "treated as human beings" are really just asking to be treated as royalty It occurred to me after posting that bullying behavior would also be something that can give an indication that men experience more hostility in social settings: The preponderance of male perpetrators of bullying is found consistently across surveys, and survey time point. It is also consistent by age, but HBSC data suggest a curvilinear trend in early adolescence. Males also tend to more frequently be victims of bullying, consistent across age and survey time point, but with variations by surve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 06:01 PM
47	Women asking to be "treated as human beings" are really just asking to be treated as royalty I think Men "being ignored" by other Men is earned after a period of open hostility. Research on hazing behavior seems to pretty clearly demonstrate that when attempting to join a new group a man will have to endure much more crap than a woman, with statistically significant regularity: Chi-square tests for independence also reveal there is a significant association between gender and whether or not students experienced hazing behaviors X2 (1, n = 4,175) = 55.81, p < 0.001. Overall, 32.4% of mal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 02:46 PM
3	The Difficulty of Dating For Average Men is Nowhere as Hard as People in this Sub Makes it Out to Be Finally found someone saying it in the thread. Thanks u/tonyghow you have a usable brain. u/yuriw99 please come back with screenshots of chats with rizzed-up Women on Tinder. Get phone numbers at least, but things like nudes would also be strong indicators of interest from accounts that are not OF bots. OF bots and others not interested in sexual relationships with Men on Tinder (such as advertisers of various kinds, just looking for friends, etc.) do not count. Women over 25 BMI, with kids, or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 02:07 PM
3	Women don't save money because they expect the man to take care of them Here is a study of Canadian couples showing that households with women "in control" of the money have a lower rate of contributing to savings accounts even after controlling for household income and a host of other variables like age, number of people in the household (children), and whether the members of the couple have had previous marriages (the woman being previously divorced was associated with lower savings but previous marriages for men had no significant effect, I found that particular …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 12:54 AM
-1	Women don't save money because they expect the man to take care of them Here is a study of Canadian couples showing that households with women "in control" of the money have a lower rate of contributing to savings accounts even after controlling for household income and a host of other variables like age, number of people in the household (children), and whether the members of the couple have had previous marriages (the woman being previously divorced was associated with lower savings but previous marriages for men had no significant effect). Notice that some of the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 12:50 AM
5	Women don't save money because they expect the man to take care of them Here is a study of Canadian couples showing that households with women "in control" of the money have a lower rate of contributing to savings accounts even after controlling for household income and a host of other variables like age, number of people in the household (children), and whether the members of the couple have had previous marriages (the woman being previously divorced was associated with lower savings but previous marriages for men had no significant effect). Notice that some of the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/10/23 12:48 AM
2	When women talk about “compromise”, they are only speaking about it in one direction- as in coming from men Papp, L. M., Kouros, C. D., & Cummings, E. M. (2009) Leaving aside for the moment the inherent problems in asking couples to keep data on their own conflicts, particularly the incredibly powerful conflict of interest inherent in these subject-researchers; it frankly strains my imagination to think of a situation more fraught with conflicts of interest than reporting on arguments in the most important and intimate personal relationship of the researcher: Vogel and Krokoff (2002) discusses issues …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 04:39 PM
2	When women talk about “compromise”, they are only speaking about it in one direction- as in coming from men Thanks for a thoughtful reply! Dating couples behaviorally diverged in gender-typed ways when they discussed an emotionally difﬁcult topic, but not when they discussed an emotionally easy topic. However, further analyses revealed that this pattern primarily characterized men’s behavior. The rest of the paragraph after the quote I selected in my comment mentions: However, contrary to the prediction that emotional vulnerability causes people to confirm gender stereotypes, there was not a significa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 09:26 PM
0	When women talk about “compromise”, they are only speaking about it in one direction- as in coming from men You may be interested in knowing there is a large body of social science research documenting the phenomenon of Women making demands in heterosexual couples' conflicts while Men "withdraw" from these conflicts. Here in this paper exploring the presence of gender stereotypes in heterosexual couples conflict patterns finds that: Couples assigned to discuss an emotionally easy topic showed fewer demanding behaviors (M = 3.56) than couples assigned to discuss an emotionally difficult topic (M = 6.23…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 07:55 AM
4	When women talk about “compromise”, they are only speaking about it in one direction- as in coming from men So who are we to believe? Could it be that individuals are individuals and your experience isn’t universal? According to social science research Women are more likely to make demands in heterosexual couples' conflicts than Men. Here in this paper exploring the presence of gender stereotypes in heterosexual couples conflict patterns finds that: Couples assigned to discuss an emotionally easy topic showed fewer demanding behaviors (M = 3.56) than couples assigned to discuss an emotionally difficul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 07:49 AM
4	Here is the real problem But you cannot solve a problem at such a global scale. Thats like trying to solve world hunger. All the smart scientists in the world haven't figure out how to do it. You can only solve specific, definitive problems on a personal level. TFW you have a complete absence of any sense of civic responsibility. This sort of parasitic disregard of your responsibilities to society is a prime example of what some people call degeneracy. Also, the Redpill is literally exactly what you are describing in ac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 09:34 PM
1	Why women come to r/PurplePillDebates ? For the AT thing I would dump my boyfriend over that because it directly conflicts with my values which are extremely important to me. Clearly, dating a person with dissimilar political values was not an issue for the boyfriend. While not proof, it is an indication men are forced to silently agree with their partners in cases of conflicting opinions due to the partners' intolerance of divergent viewpoints. they’re looking for advice while men here talk about what they want women to do. Cf. I don…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 03:44 PM
0	Why women come to r/PurplePillDebates ? They were seeming to be reasonable complaints about people who happened to be men doing impolite things like eating a cake meant for a social gathering or questioning the veracity of a story of SA, until I saw a post with over 4k upvotes about a woman dumping her boyfriend because she found out he is an Andrew Tate fan. I am not sure if this is crazy because A) this poster (and the supportive commenters and thousands of upvoters) are overreacting to the ridiculous clown that is Tate OR B) this p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 07:56 AM
12	Studies show the higher the IQ a man has the less attractive he is to women but the individual always has control of their outcome. "She was asking for it!" vibes. Nice one. I feel like a lot of smart people are also arrogant about their intellect to the point that they’ll never consider the idea that they’re wrong about something. Women are more likely to want to avoid argumentation and generally don't like to have their ideas challenged. That isn't my analysis, that is the opinion of peer-reviewed science. This study in particular comes to the conclusion that women ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/23 07:43 PM
1	Why do women on this platform get offended by the most vanilla sexual topics? She would be told to lose weight and maybe work on her glutes? Inverse projection of this advice is what causes so many "RP" men to hit the gym.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 10:57 PM
1	Are the Red Pill statistics true when it comes to mens struggles? The only one I can speak to off the top of my Reddit history is: A third of young men are virgins I made a post addressing a number of Redpill empirical claims using data from the General Social Survey. In figure 7 I plot the percent "virgin" in the GSS data for different age groups in the 18-30 range. The recent rise in "virginity" is largely confined to the youngest age group and the rate of "virginity" for 28-30 year olds has fluctuated very little in the past forty years (the highest peak fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 05:28 PM
1	What to make of the Joe Jonas-Sophie Turner divorce… How do you even function day to day By being unfathomably based. I now know about the recent Texas cattle mutilations, which are incredibly creepy. I was totally ready to think people that believe in cattle mutilation stuff were kooks but then I did a google search.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 05:25 AM
5	Escorts and strip club should be normalized for people who have no other options Onlyfans is a clear example of widely accepted and normalized sex work despite the assertion that "[parents] are not going to support "normalizing" their daughters becoming sex workers." Onlyfans is not the only such example of sex work that is much less stigmatized than prostitution is presently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 03:35 PM
5	Escorts and strip club should be normalized for people who have no other options It [legalizaed prostitution] won't even solve the problems you're talking about, you'd still be lonely with no friends. You may be interested in knowing that as best as Science can tell the legalization of prostitution lowers the incidence of sexual violence against women (and STDs too): Most governments in the world including the United States prohibit prostitution. Given these types of laws rarely change and are fairly uniform across regions, our knowledge about the impact of decriminalizing s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 03:27 PM
0	Escorts and strip club should be normalized for people who have no other options We’re telling you that your isolation is 100% not going to be solved by a sex worker who will inevitably become a receptacle for you to dump all your misery. You may be interested in knowing that as best as Science can tell the legalization of prostitution lowers the incidence of sexual violence against women (and STDs too): Most governments in the world including the United States prohibit prostitution. Given these types of laws rarely change and are fairly uniform across regions, our knowledge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 03:18 PM
0	Men are not the main problem in relationships. Women are not the main problem in relationships It should be self-evident that one gender is not the cause of all problems and that each case is different and usually both are to blame.... If this logic was true then same-sex relationships would be some utopian paradise. Homosexual males divorce at a much lower rate than homosexual females: According to data from the Office for National Statistics, in 2019, 56% of same-sex marriages were between women. However, the divorce rate for lesbians was much higher, with 72% of same-sex divorces in 20…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/23 04:01 PM
3	A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendship Shocking, I know. You are aware of the concept of hazing and that it specifically is much more severe and prevalent among men and groups which consist primarily of men? What do you think that is? Where does that come from? Here is a good quote about the gendered nature of hazing from a study of NCAA athletes (of both genders): For 17 percent of the respondents, however, initiation goes beyond a single infraction. These athletes – overwhelmingly men – found themselves deeply immersed in a culture…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 04:17 PM
10	A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendship Because it proves that most men only value us when there’s potential to have sex with us. Women are shocked to learn that this is actually more value than men generically place on each other. The fact they are not trying to physically exclude you from territory with threat displays and acts of aggression is actually as friendly as men get to each other when not attempting to achieve something practical. As a man most other men people inherently view you as threatening and your generic presence i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 03:53 PM
1	Mating Crisis: What has actually happened? I didn't see the data was released in May. After taking a look I notice some weird stuff going on. For example, there were supposedly 13 men reporting exactly 22 sex partners in the 18-30 age bracket while none reported 20 nor 21 partners. In fact none of the (weighted) 18-30 year olds surveyed reported having 17, 18, 19, 20, nor 21 partners (and two reported 23, none 24, and one reported 25). While this might be just luck of the survey, all 13 appear to be 19 years old (of 19 sampled 19 year ol…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 07:36 PM
1	Mating Crisis: What has actually happened? The only consistency is that male sexlessness has always been slightly higher than female sexlessness (with the 2021 GSS being the only exception). Of the data I have laid out in a spreadsheet at present, Female "sexlessness" was higher in 1989, 1990, 1996, 2000, 2002, 2006, 2008, 2010, and 2014. 1989 was the first year NumWomen was collected and of the 13 survey years 2010 and prior Women reported higher "sexlessness" in 8 of those years. Women consistently report lower sexual activity than men…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 07:18 PM
5	Mating Crisis: What has actually happened? The weighted 2021 survey year data seems to show a sudden large spike in the rate of young female sexlessness. This is less dramatic in the unweighted data and also is a single year phenomenon. Since 2012 the rate of "sexlessness" for those 30 and under by gender: Year 2010 2012 2014 2016 2018 2021 Female 12.1% 8.9% 15.4% 12.8% 14.4% 25.2% Male 11.3% 12.2% 14.9% 18.3% 24.3% 20.2% Figures 8-10 here: https://www.reddit.com/r/Destiny/comments/101jiw2/a_thorough_review_of_the_2021_gss_data_on/ also …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 04:24 PM
8	Mating Crisis: What has actually happened? Why do people act as if the number of Incels has already risen massively, rather than social media just revealing numbers that have been true for a long time? Because the General Social Survey data, which is basically the only data source producing comparable statistics for sexual activity over long periods of time, shows extremely clearly a decrease in sexual activity since 2010. In regression tables 1-3 on this post: https://old.reddit.com/r/Destiny/comments/10q4exr/explaining_the_sexlessness_…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/07/23 03:09 PM
–	A lot of men are jealous of women because they put themselves in more dangerous situations "They were asking for it!" Nice one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/23 02:52 PM
–	A lot of men are jealous of women Men would prefer to be treated with the respect that we are due. Here. Right here is the line where you misunderstand the concept of a comparison between two alternatives. It is like someone is arguing whether taxes should be higher or lower, or perhaps how someone could want higher taxes, and you come in to say you think people want to be governed by altruistic generosity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/23 06:04 AM
–	A lot of men are jealous of women From jealousy over a womans looks, to jealousy over how “easy” life is as a woman, and yes - envy of the fact that women are lusted over. How completely unaware of men does one need to be to not understand that men would very clearly like to be "lusted over" by women in the same way women are lusted after by men. It is extremely obvious that men would prefer to be treated by women and societal authority figures the way that men and societal authority figures like courts, police, schools, and emp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/23 03:19 AM
–	A lot of men are jealous of women Please explain how men could be jealous of women? I think it is extremely obvious that men would prefer to be treated by women and societal authority figures the way that men and societal authority figures like courts, police, schools, and employers treat women. It seems abundantly clear that the societal pressure against a man expressing a desire for traditional femininity is larger than the pressure against a woman expressing a desire for traditional masculinity. I was going to provide a toy e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/23 02:57 AM
6	Porn is the main cause of the recent decline in relationships and sex According to GSS data heavy internet porn usage was associated with larger numbers of heterosexual sex partners for men ages 26-35. In this regression it has a t-statistic over 3, meaning a highly significant assocaition (column 7): https://preview.redd.it/ljymggud6uca1.png?width=1104&format=png&auto=webp&v=enabled&s=677b673775a84114cba7fa5b46775ac990b8b763 Heavy usage was measured as a response in the highest category for the "porn30" variable (more than five times per month): https://gssdataex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/23 03:40 AM
3	Porn is the main cause of the recent decline in relationships and sex I do think it’s a contributing factor. According to GSS data heavy internet porn usage was associated with larger numbers of heterosexual sex partners for men ages 26-35. In this regression it has a t-statistic over 3, meaning a highly significant assocaition: https://preview.redd.it/ljymggud6uca1.png?width=1104&format=png&auto=webp&v=enabled&s=677b673775a84114cba7fa5b46775ac990b8b763 Heavy usage was measured as a response in the highest category for the "porn30" variable (more than five times p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/23 03:35 AM
2	I think the biggest problem in dating is that women are simply not honest about what they are attracted to, and despite the fact that men have learned this they are simply told: “so you’re going to tell an actual woman what she wants?” When men say never take dating advice from women. Reposting here per mod request: You may be interested in knowing that there is a large body of social science research that shows women are less willing to form strong opinions and engage in intellectual discussion than men. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 01:08 AM
1	I think the biggest problem in dating is that women are simply not honest about what they are attracted to, and despite the fact that men have learned this they are simply told: “so you’re going to tell an actual woman what she wants?” When men say never take dating advice from women. At this point I think it would be best for you to explain perhaps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 01:03 AM
1	I think the biggest problem in dating is that women are simply not honest about what they are attracted to, and despite the fact that men have learned this they are simply told: “so you’re going to tell an actual woman what she wants?” When men say never take dating advice from women. As the second study provides a direct observation of behavior by scientists it is essentially equivalent in methodology to studies of animal behavior, perhaps particularly ones that rely on species surveys done by people like National Park Service employees in which case the scientist is not personally collecting data. Is this methodology in biology also one you discount?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/23 12:53 AM
4	I think the biggest problem in dating is that women are simply not honest about what they are attracted to, and despite the fact that men have learned this they are simply told: “so you’re going to tell an actual woman what she wants?” When men say never take dating advice from women. Asking someone their opinion is the most direct method of measuring their willingness to provide an opinion. While the first and third papers cited rely on the subjects self-evaluating their own qualities the second study does not. In the second study researchers compare the rate-by-gender at which respondents to phone surveys on political topics answered "I don't know" or otherwise refused to provide an opinion on topics. u/fiftypoundpuppy	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 10:49 PM
72	I think the biggest problem in dating is that women are simply not honest about what they are attracted to, and despite the fact that men have learned this they are simply told: “so you’re going to tell an actual woman what she wants?” When men say never take dating advice from women. You may be interested in knowing that there is a large body of social science research that shows women are less willing to form strong opinions and engage in intellectual discussion than men. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would disagr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 04:06 PM
8	CMV: Women not wanting to be judged and having terrible judgement are two sides of the same coin You may be interested in knowing that there is a large body of social science research that shows women are less willing to form strong opinions and engage in intellectual conflict than men. Particularly one study shows that women are significantly more likely to "not justify my political beliefs to someone who disagrees with me;" "often feel uncomfortable when people argue about politics;" and disagree that they "have no problem revealing my political beliefs, even to someone who would disagree…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/23 06:51 PM
6	Not only does the D.E.N.N.I.S. system work, it should be the ultimate blueprint for any man seeking to date women casually. Everything I've seen in my recent exploration of GSS data seems to indicate that breaking up with people is a good way to increase one's body count. It also seems to be a trashy thing to do as promiscuity is associated with lower income, lower educational attainment, and lower happiness particularly among late-youth men (ages 26-35). One interpretation is that "winners" at this stage of life seem to be mature enough to stabalize relationships in areas of education, profession, and romance by usi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/23 09:32 PM
1	What is personally a hot man for you? I am wondering to what extent desires for angular features are simply a proxy for attraction to thinness. Like, they can't say "I want a guy that is thin," because low BF% body-built guys also are attractive, but do not translate as "thin" to them due to the muscle. But by BF%, thin is beautiful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 01:59 AM
6	Study finds that being muscular does not increase attractiveness for short men. According to the GSS data I've been looking at for men 26-35 both the tallest and shortest men have the fewest number of female sex partners with the distribution being quadratic and peaking at about 5'10.5". See figure 1 here: https://www.reddit.com/r/Destiny/comments/10fdov0/what_the_gss_data_says_about_attractiveness_and/	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 08:53 PM
11	Study finds that sexless people are just as happy as sexually active people. Yeah, I am pressing X to doubt on this study for a number of reasons. The first thing that jumps out at me is that there doesn't seem to be a segregation of sample by gender/sex for most of the analysis. Furthermore, segregation by age group is incredibly important as the nature of promiscuity changes as a cohort ages, as we shall see. So I downloaded the happiness data as well as several other variables related to indicators of emotional distress. So far I've done a preliminary regression on th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 08:08 PM
11	Political Streamer Destiny Discusses Double Standards for Male and Female Success Quote from the video: As men one of the main ways that we draw validation is through other women as society and it is insanely fucking toxic it is so fucking toxic um don't do that okay? The reason why somebody mentioned something about how women that have their shit together will always date crazy men that's not actually true. And if you take a step back you can actually realize it the women that date crazy men often times don't have their shit together but it's just that there is a hugely diff…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/11/20 04:44 PM