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ConversationShneker/r/seduction23/08/20 06:41 AM
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FundamentalsShneker/r/seduction05/08/20 01:11 PM
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ConversationShneker/r/seduction30/11/21 03:29 AM
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ResourcesShneker/r/seduction21/06/20 08:07 PM
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If you think you’re below them, you’re bothering them, you’re interrupting them, etc. then you are subconsciously lowering your own value which in turn raises their’s in relation to yours. A good way to make sure you are not putting yourself in this low value frame is to have positive self talk and keep progressing with your outer appearance like you have been. Something you may want to start incorporating to further your progress with your road block is to socialize with everyone. A lot of this…
/r/seduction29/03/22 02:43 PM
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You’re putting the women you’re afraid of talking to and getting on a pedestal. You need to realize you have made significant progress to yourself and that you are the real prize here, not them. Telling yourself this will be helpful, but actually believing it is when it will actually start to work. Look back and remember who you were. Look in the mirror and notice the difference. The man in front of you can have anyone he wants, he just needs the foundational understanding that he can achieve wh…
/r/seduction29/03/22 12:31 PM
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Fair enough. I just don’t think in this case you have much social proof. You’re basically starting from scratch. Unless you can run into this chick in person your only move really is to message her
/r/seduction06/10/21 08:17 AM
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If you know better than why ask for advice?
/r/seduction06/10/21 07:10 AM
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She gets to know you by meeting up with you. Messaging is for logistics, meet ups are for rapport building and escalating. If you don’t feel comfortable or entitled enough as a man to have her spend time with you, I know for a fact there will be another guy that will
/r/seduction06/10/21 03:38 AM
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Say less. Message her something to grab her attention, set up a meet up, and make it happen. I don’t recommend bringing up anything about the break ups. Make it fun and light hearted
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:31 AM
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You’re still not answering how much you guys have talked or hung out. But considering she already has a new guy your chances are slim to smash at the moment. But never impossible. If this is something you want, you need to get in there ASAP
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:16 AM
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So as far as talking to her and hanging out with her (1 on 1 and in groups) where do you stand? Sounds like you both at least know of each other
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:06 AM
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How well do you know her? I only ask because that could determine your success and also determine your course of action as far as approaching her goes
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:57 AM
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Best way to approach her is don’t. She sounds like she loves drama and being disloyal. If these are traits you value in a woman than shoot her a message. If not, find someone better, there are tons.
/r/seduction06/10/21 01:49 AM
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It’s not about gender but about physical exertion. If she’s riding you for 20 minutes like she’s riding a bull in a rodeo, you bet your ass she’s gunna need some water. Same if you’re putting back shots in for an extended period of time. Sometimes sex is smooth, slow, and gentle. Sometimes it’s rough, fast, crazy. Once you get a feel for the vibe you’ll be better prepared for what you’re getting into and how thirsty you guys will be haha.
/r/seduction05/10/21 09:56 AM
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If you can actually go 2-3 rounds you’ve got nothing to worry about bro. Just make sure you got a glass of water for both of you before you start haha
/r/seduction05/10/21 08:58 AM
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You should always assume she’s talking to someone else regardless if you get a text like this or not. It’s mostly realistic to think so if she is a decent to beautiful looking girl but it’s also not always true. With that being said, you never know who she meant to send that to. Could have been to one of her girlfriends. So do yourself a favor and be high value and act like it doesn’t matter. Proceed to lock in the meet up. If she’s not interested, move on and let her replace you with some loser
/r/seduction01/10/21 06:45 AM
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Great read man. Congrats on the amazing night, sounds like it was one for the books. Your mindset before, setting up, during, and after the whole interaction is top tier. Almost felt like I was there with you when I was reading haha
/r/seduction01/10/21 05:52 AM
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Good addition and clarification. The best game is unrecognizable because it’s so genuine
/r/seduction16/09/21 08:40 PM
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How would you know she only will hangout with you if you have a good date suggestion? I’m willing to bet you’re putting too much pressure on this decision and thinking she won’t say yes unless you blow this out of the water. Just take her to do something or go somewhere where you both share common interests. It shouldn’t exactly matter what it is, it should matter the quality of time spent together. If you’re good enough at game, you should be able to take any environment and make it a fun and i…
/r/seduction16/09/21 09:42 AM
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Such under-appreciate advice. Thanks for posting 👍
/r/seduction13/09/21 08:01 AM
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I see this as a huge success. You obviously feel bad about not taking action and that’s exactly what you need to experience in order to approach the next time you go out. Yes, you didn’t meet your expectations, get dates, or share experiences with attractive women; but even better than that, you learned what exactly not to do in order to get one step closer to doing what you went out to do in the first place. You’re one less shitty experience away man, just keep going!
/r/seduction11/09/21 10:21 AM
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You should wear fragrance because you want to wear fragrance. Smell how you want to smell because YOU want to smell that way. Yes, smelling good is something everyone enjoys but the truth is not everyone will enjoy the cologne you are probably wearing. That being said, it is a very good way to open a woman if she enjoys what you’re wearing so capitalize on it when you get the opportunity
/r/seduction31/08/21 08:59 AM
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It could be that you are acting like you don’t have an agenda once you know you can’t have them. Your vibe changes once you aren’t trying to pull them, which might attract them to you more because you aren’t coming off like you’re trying so hard.
/r/seduction29/08/21 08:04 AM
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I dated a girl who liked choking and was inexperienced as well. Just start slow. It might feel weird for you at first. But just do one hand and light pressure either on the front or back of her neck depending on what position you’re in. I never got into it but you might find yourself enjoying it if she’s liking it. When you see she’s enjoying it and you’re getting a feel for it that’s when you can add more pressure and make it more intense but like I said, start off slow. Good luck
/r/seduction15/08/21 10:56 AM
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Huge balls on girl number 3 but that opener for girl number one is fire! Simple but so unique and friendly.
/r/seduction14/08/21 11:11 AM
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It sounds like you guys connected well which is cool bro, proud of you. I would ask her out. Just ask her if she’d like to hangout outside of work. Find a common interest you guys have and go do that thing together. You’re doing it because you like her company and because you guys both enjoy the activity you’ll be doing. That will make her feel comfortable with the idea, as she’s obviously already comfortable sharing deep conversations with you, now you just have to make the move of creating the…
/r/seduction12/08/21 11:06 AM
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You don’t have to ignore the fact that she might be talking to other guys, that’s likely the case. But god damnit, you gotta act like you’re the best fucking guy she’s going to be talking to. Now and forever. If she doesn’t want you, it’s her loss. Ever girl wants a confident man who sees value in himself. You can’t win if you never show up to play. Now get out there and play motherfucker!
/r/seduction11/08/21 10:44 AM
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Off we go, into the wild blue yonder…
/r/seduction10/08/21 10:31 AM
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I commend you for grabbing the insta but her number is the best way to get her out on a date. Much more personal and you won’t be just another guy in her DMs. Considering this is where you are in the interaction tho, I’d say just let her be. You don’t wanna double text and come off as needy. Maybe just post some interesting stuff to offer value and hope she gravitates to it and messages you. Other than that, pressing her to interact more might ruin all the work you’ve put in.
/r/seduction10/08/21 10:23 AM
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I’m also a sober lad. I went to a bar for the first time in a few years a few months ago and had a great time. My advice is to find your own fun. A lot of people drink to loosen up, stop worrying about the problems they may be facing, and have a fun experience. You need to do the same thing except without the assistance of alcohol. Once you get to that point, I bet very few people will even assume you’re not drinking. I didn’t get asked until 3 hours into the night if I was drinking. Match the v…
/r/seduction08/08/21 08:28 AM
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Todd’s push-pull technique is one of my favorites. Giving her that intention you want to convey and a little validation with a compliment up front, and then hitting her with some playfulness and mystery by questioning or conveying something different than the compliment on the back end. Works amazingly.
/r/seduction05/08/21 09:39 AM
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What an absolutely under-appreciated piece of advice. Actions speak louder than words for sure.
/r/seduction05/08/21 09:11 AM
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Can’t agree more. Overthinking is a major killer in conversation. Especially if you’re talking to someone you’ve never spoken to before. Start small to get your nerves out by approaching people (no just women you’re attracted to) and asking them for the time, for directions, good places to eat, etc. as you get more comfortable, your conversations will expand as well as your dialog. You’ll find it’ll be easier, you’ll be more relaxed, and then you’ll be in a “flow” state where humor and wittiness…
/r/seduction22/07/21 04:12 PM
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TLDR; I met 2 beautiful women that got me dazed by beauty. One I capitalized on, the other I did not. After notes on my lessons from the experiences. This has probably happened to most people many time but I have had this happen 2 times that stand out to me. One I capitalized on and one I did not. I will share both The one I capitalized on was my last ex. She’s a military cop and I was rollin through the gate with my mom while she was visiting. My mom ends up striking up a conversation with her …
/r/seduction14/04/21 12:40 PM
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That’s your opinion
/r/seduction08/10/20 12:10 PM
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There are so many other things a man can have that will consciously or unconsciously tell a woman that he can provide security. You hit it on the head. Just keep in mind not everyone is looking for emotional connection nor is everyone going to tell the truth about what they really want
/r/seduction22/09/20 12:47 PM
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Unpopular opinion: real men will don’t fall victim to social shame and are not emasculated nor told what to do by cucked men. Way to be a fucking man and lead, women will notice your unfailing courage to stand out and stand up against this dumb shit
/r/seduction15/09/20 12:31 PM
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Glad you’re seeking help man, I found myself in a very similar position as you a few years back. Although I would not consider myself “very attractive”, from the same way you were validated, so was I. Although you can rely on looks to help pull women, you have to understand your foundation as a person is within, not external. Looks can fade and will, but who you fundamentally are and your behaviors will be more attractive than any feature you have. The way you get noticed by women is expressing …
/r/seduction08/09/20 12:56 AM
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Nice 👍 How loud do your tits fart tho 🤔😎💯
/r/seduction27/08/20 01:04 PM
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Went to buy a skirt for this but couldn’t find one in the men’s section. It’s as if...
/r/seduction26/08/20 12:31 PM
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Shit chief, guess I got some soul searching to do.
/r/seduction23/08/20 07:08 PM
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Great points. The last thing I wanna do is give myself false confidence that anything will be guaranteed trying to make this happen. But things feel better this time around since I’m living a fulfilling life regardless of having her or not. Which makes the possible rejection less meaningful and the interactions less pressured. But it’s good to keep in mind that everything happened for a reason. Either way just wanted to see what you guys thought, we will see where this goes!
/r/seduction23/08/20 07:06 AM
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If you think having premature gray hair will effect your value, then it will. IMO, who you are to a woman is going to be far more important than what you look like (to an extent). I don’t personally find it a deal breaker, it’s something out of your reach. Honestly, there’s so many more things that are dealbreakers that are in the same category of things you can’t control about yourself. Carry yourself with confidence and some girl will appreciate it. If she shit tests you about “looking old” or…
/r/seduction23/08/20 06:36 AM
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It sounds like you know what you’re doing, you’ve just been out of the game long enough to forget that confidence and that charm you had that made women attracted to you I suggest just going out and getting back into it again. Be yourself. The only way to get better is to actually go out and practice. You can read up on theory and motivate yourself, it will help don’t get me wrong, but it won’t get you any girls that will be attracted to you. Taking action is progressing. Progressing is masterin…
/r/seduction14/08/20 03:30 AM
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Welcome home king 👑
/r/seduction14/08/20 03:09 AM
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This is an interesting situation. She seemed to be giving off strong IOI’s and even when her mother threw out her schedule to you she didn’t abstain from trying to stop her which seems to have been a good sign. Remember: any girl saying she has a boyfriend could mean she really does, or she doesn’t and just doesn’t wanna you to pursue her for whatever reason. With that being said, if she does have a boyfriend, it’s very likely she is interested but is actually just being loyal. If she doesn’t, i…
/r/seduction07/08/20 02:01 AM
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Understandable. Some are new to the environment, others just aren’t calibrated enough to know what they did makes people wanna drop a dumbbell on their chest
/r/seduction05/08/20 08:45 PM
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Great advice thank you! And yeah never during a set, that’s just proper gym etiquette.
/r/seduction05/08/20 08:00 PM
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So what do you suggest? Opening her dad first and then transitioning the attention towards her, then go for the kill?
/r/seduction05/08/20 05:29 PM
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Yeah man I was thinking the same with ignoring her and focusing on the connection with the dad to get his seal of approval. But asking her dad to take his daughter on a date in front of her? Now that’s a bold move... I can get behind that idea
/r/seduction05/08/20 01:50 PM
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I’m definitely not a novice seductionist but I’m definitely not a noob. You don’t think I could pull this off chief?
/r/seduction05/08/20 01:21 PM
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Glad to hear you had what sounds like an awesome night with a girl you really connected with and were attracted to brother! But if she is spending her free time not hanging out with you, then she isn’t making you a priority. We prioritize what we want to be invested in, and we invest with our time. To keep chasing would be dropping your perceived value of yourself to her. I know this sucks to hear, I’ve been here before, it sucks, you feel shitty. But the best thing you can do for yourself is en…
/r/seduction04/08/20 09:22 PM
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Spot on. Dudes in pickup need to remember the art of pickup is about self-improvement in all aspects of life with a focus on social. Not about creating impressions to feed desires. Also if one more fucking person recommends No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert A. Glover, I’m going to lose my shit and buy it and be pissed because my reading list is already so fat. Fuck. UPDATE: I bought the book. Fuck all of you
/r/seduction30/07/20 02:26 PM
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Be gone ethot 🙅‍♂️
/r/seduction24/07/20 06:59 AM
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Great job brother! You got yourself a female meme lord haha! You’ve done a 180 from last week, keep doing what you’re doing and crushing 💪 Keep us posted!
/r/seduction21/07/20 12:26 PM
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Glad the sub has helped you brother. Wish I would have had this info when I was deep in the friendzone in my school years. Congrats 💪
/r/seduction05/07/20 04:00 AM
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I’m glad to see you are using more unique openers. I think the artistic opener is good but only if it’s genuine. Like if the girl really looks like an artist, use it, because that’s how you feel. The same goes for all other comparison/stacking openers. I’m sure that you are conscious of that and I’m sure someone has mentioned that in the comments on your posts before but just a good thing to note if not. I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again, you are out there doing more than most man and you’…
/r/seduction01/07/20 12:37 PM
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Smart man, I would have done the same. Showing you’re not looking to fuck things up but that you’re also that you don’t care enough to
/r/seduction30/06/20 02:49 AM
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Unpopular opinion: Good, that shit drains your balls and fucks your mind. Go find a wife and have a family
/r/seduction29/06/20 12:07 PM
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Glad to see my nickname for moisturizer girl sticked lol There is good and bad to that interaction. The good is that she is obviously interested in you. Bantered with you in the store, got her insta, added you, replied to you and gave you the “:))” Bad news is she obviously is taken, but she was honest about it. It’s really up to you how far you wanna take it now. She may resist depending on how serious her relationship is but from the sounds of it, she’s looking to move on
/r/seduction29/06/20 12:04 PM
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Good brother! I’ll be waiting to see your post on it. Good or bad, you’re still doing more than most !
/r/seduction28/06/20 02:01 AM
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Crushing💪 Now go back to the gym and work on that other girl with that same playful confidence you have the moisturizer girl
/r/seduction27/06/20 10:20 PM
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Interaction 3 lol. I would suggest the hamster line for after you’ve told her you think she looks cute. Maybe point out that she has cute chubby cheeks like a hamster instead of saying it without context. Show that you are attracted then stack on a funny comment after. With interaction 5, ask more in depth about the weight training if she seems into it. You’ve already narrowed down that she likes to workout and more specifically lift weights. If she has in interest in the conversation, and she’s…
/r/seduction24/06/20 03:44 PM
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I think it’s pretty normal we all kind of hit the eject button once in a while. The important thing is you recognize you are being passive, if you didn’t see this you would probably keep ejecting and wonder why your sets are not working the way you want them too. I’m positive you’ll come back tomorrow with even more confidence and knowledge from your mistakes today! Every step is a step closer mate, keep crushing!
/r/seduction22/06/20 11:47 AM
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He seems like a dope guy. Who’s your top 1?
/r/seduction21/06/20 08:52 PM
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Yeah he’s not your average guy but he seems to have good approach tactics
/r/seduction21/06/20 08:52 PM
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I can see how they can exploit people for money, but if they are actually getting results isn’t it effective and worth it at that point?
/r/seduction21/06/20 08:51 PM
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Calling girls a ninja pirate and a nerd AND getting a girls number all in one day?? Legendary haha Btw, when you say “I told her she looked... really pretty” are you actually adding a pause when you say it or just typing it that way for dramatic effect for the reader? Awesome work once again! Can’t wait to hear more tomorrow!
/r/seduction19/06/20 03:37 PM
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Everyday is another step towards where you want to be, and a step away from where you were. I love waking up and reading these every day man, great job and keep setting the example for us and crushing!
/r/seduction18/06/20 11:58 AM
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I know some people like using the dating apps to meet people but IMO those apps are not exactly built to help people find meaningful relationships or connections. Not saying it’s not possible, it just doesn’t seem to be a prioritized goal of the users. My best advice would be to be around places you like. This would include anywhere where you can enjoy the hobbies you like, places you find fun, beautiful, or happy. Because if that’s where you want to be, that’s most likely where that ideal guy y…
/r/seduction12/06/20 04:51 PM
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Is your mom the type of mom that doesn’t let you close the door to your room if there’s a girl in there with you? If so I’d say take a walk to a park or something with here alone. Find a quiet spot and get that first kiss with her. You got it bro!
/r/seduction09/06/20 06:15 PM
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Sports is the best avenue I’ve found to be successful. Not only will you get in great shape but you’ll be in friends with your team as you progress further into the season. But if you are not the athletic type joining a club is another great option. Also try partnering up with new people on projects. That’s a great way to in a way be “forced” to talk to other people and get to know them
/r/seduction04/06/20 01:20 PM
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