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The body count obsessed boys apparently don’t like promiscuous women. Men like sex. Promiscuous women means more sex for men. I think men are divided on promiscuous women. I think promiscuous women like men more than non promiscuous women do. I like promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:04 AM
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The gym is not an appropriate venue. I understand why employers don’t want work to be a dating venue Catalina relationship to go bad it can create problems for the company But I say fuck the employers ; work is where you spend most of your hours and maybe where you are meeting opposite sex people. I say, go ahead and date them after you have a reason for thinking that they like you. The guy that tries to date every attractive coworker is misbehaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:03 PM
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AI can’t replace a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 09:31 AM
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Nobody knows more about straight women than other straight women. One of the problems of purple pill is that you have guys that never had a girlfriend I think advice to guys that want a girlfriend. Your sisters would know more about what makes straight women attracted to men then the purple pill guys know. But would you dare to have a conversation about dating with your sister? And when she dare to be honest with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:43 AM
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Being an autistic man is like a double whammy. His social skills are worse because he is autistic but also just because he’s a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:38 AM
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I a man bet that the whining bitter men spouting, stupid idea about women as if those ideas were science reduce the sympathy that women would have for the frustrated men that women don’t want. Instead of being thought of her poor little brother, who is not getting any sex or love from women the behavior and beliefs of those men make them seem like creeps. Women do have empathy, but not to the point where they will dispense mercy fucks. It would not shock me if the average woman has dispensed one…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:43 PM
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You incel adjacent men that have fucked up ideas about women might be difficult for women to care about. I was one of you guys for some years when I was young except that I did not have the fucked up ideas about women . But I remember the pain of women not wanting me.. In my case, it turned out that my insecurity and belief that women would not want me was my problem with women. My insecurity made me not be the loving, fun, funny, confident to be myself man that women loved when I lost my insecu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:55 PM
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Trumps looks were never that good. Trump is tall. I don’t like Trump’s personality. Trump is a narcissist. Trump has strange mannerisms. I am turned off by arrogant pricks. I am fine with bad boys getting girls but I don’t like arrogant pricks getting girls. Some women are attracted to arrogant men and I hate that. His personality is strange but is it bad? His TV show was popular. He has 1/3 of the country strongly supporting him.. My guess is that only 1/4 of women could have sex with me becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:37 PM
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They get laid often when the they get a girlfriend. Average men will do better with girlfriends then one night stands. I know the sub only means looks when they say average but for getting a girlfriend, personality matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:48 AM
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I met my wife because she was a friend of my best friend’s girlfriend. If my best friend’s girlfriend did not like me she would not have said nice things about me and my future wife would not have flirted with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:40 AM
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In home building the old men with the skills slowly teach the young men skills in exchange for the young men doing the heavy grunt work. Women can not replace the young men because women can not do the heavy grunt work that the old man can no longer do. I lived at the Osho Rajneesh ranch commune. We were a bunch of weak psychologists building a city. We enjoyed giving women men’s jobs as a gender bending joke. I had women working with me wiring new houses. There was a lot of work with screwdrive…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:45 AM
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Censorship really does not solve anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:14 AM
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I don’t like censorship. Is venting about dating trouble the purpose of this sub? I will occasionally come in and criticize men if I think they are being stupid and unfair to women. I am a man but I could be unsympathetic to the men that complain about women if I think the men are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:12 AM
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Men 25 to 35 do better with women age 18 to 35 than the younger men do or than older than 45 year old men do. I don’t know why the older men should expect to do well with young women, but the older men do still want young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 03:08 AM
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Why would you hold Blue Pill people to a higher standard of proof than you hold purple pill people or red pill people to? It isn’t as if red pill or purple pill have ever been able to defend their beliefs. Saying something over and over again does not make it true. Purple pill and red pill have no “legitimacy” beyond the facts that young men would like to have more sex and are getting that sex than young men used to get decades ago. Even decades ago, there were high numbers of young men, not get…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:45 AM
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Women prefer men a few years older than themselves. Many statistics separate over 30 from under 30 so every married 28-year-old woman who is married to 32 year old man is showing up as an extra under 30 female married. Marriage statistics do not have the big mismatch of genders being married that exist for me are you in a relationship question. Something strange is going on with the relationship question . The statistics have to be wrong with the are you in a relationship question. I do not like…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:29 PM
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The results from survey data about relationships can not be true. The survey results on relationships are impossible. A massive error is coming from something. Chad having 5 girlfriends is not the solution. I love being in a relationship with a woman, but there is no way that I would have the energy to be in relationships with multiple women. Women expect more from a relationship than one man can provide to multiple women. What is a casual girlfriend? If you limit your interaction with a girlfri…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:40 PM
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Surveys can be deceptive. Many studies based on anonymous survey results are producing impossible results. Guys at purple pill are taking the impossible results seriously. When I was a teenage I thought adult humans were competent and that one day I would be competent. Now I know that humans are not competent. Incompetent humans will fuck up surveys. Something is clearly wrong with the degree to which women claim to be in relationships, while men claim that they are not in relationships. Trump w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:27 PM
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For the college age, many of the girls are rejecting many of the boys as being too immature. I am not saying that the girls are more mature than the boy although the girls may be more mature than the boys. There is a Darwinian survival of the fittest based reason why women prefer boyfriends to be a few years older than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:50 PM
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Your post is not getting upvoted. Most posts get upvotes. 1st rule of Reddit Karma; don’t go to a subreddits and talk agains the bias of the Sun-Reddit. Unpopular posts get 10 upvotes. Popular posts get 300 upvotes. At this time your up-down votes is zero. I am sure people upvoted your post but others downvoted your post. Some people are taking offense at your post. Some people really want to believe that usual purple pill ideas that are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:03 AM
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Most men don’t care about height on a woman. I think men care about female, body shape, and curves and breasts and ass more than women care about men having muscles or not being fat. Men like pretty faces, and women like handsome faces . Overall, I think it’s pretty clear that men care more about female bodies and faces and women care about male bodies and faces. I will look at your study, but if they try to claim that women care more about male locks than men care about, I won’t believe them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 03:01 AM
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The funnest job that I a male ever had was babysitting three little girls, age 2 4 and 6 when I was 22 years old. My commune put me in charge of the kids because they noticed that I like the kids and the kids liked me. The girls each had different parents . A couple years later, he Fells daycare scandal, bro in Massachusetts where my commune was. Fells daycare sex scandal made most people in Massachusetts if used to have male babysitters. In retrospect after further investigation, it appears tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:01 AM
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What studies? You are probably making things up . Or, perhaps your studies are making things up . The truth is opposite of what you say, and we have always known that . Men are more looks focussed than women are. Perhaps women are more looks focussed give me once believed decades ago. Dating apps are not real life . People will be more looks focused on dating apps because there’s nothing else to focus on.. Woman can be very picky and dating apps because of how much women outnumber men on dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:20 AM
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Men will fuck any attractive women but only want relationships with women they like. Many women don’t even want casual sex with attractive men that they don’t like. Men rarely turn down, casual sex with attractive women that they do not like..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:17 AM
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Sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:14 AM
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Not inflated ego. If they don’t want want fuck me they are evil and cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:14 AM
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No. Unpleasant is as much of a problem as bad looks. You might be in denial about a bad personality if you don’t want to believe that personality is very important.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:12 AM
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Right. Deal with it. There is a reason which could be phyical looks, personality or habits or a combination. If women don’t want a man or men, don’t want a woman there is a reason even if the person doing the rejecting does not know their own reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:05 AM
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Men also won’t always share why they reject women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:02 AM
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Purple likes to ignore personality for 2 reasons. 1 Personality is hard to quantify and men prefer things to be quantifiable. We men and women trust our opinions about physics attractiveness even though in real life men do not agree with each other about how attractive particular women are and women don’t agree with each other about how attractive particular men are. 2 many purple pill guys are rejected by women and they prefer to believe they were rejected for unattractive looks to believing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:00 AM
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Is thinking that there is no reason more common for rejected men then for rejected women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:50 PM
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I figure personality and goals match 25% Generalized attractive personality 10% Being in the right place at right time 25% Looks 15% Height 12% Money Career 12% Mind boggling wild card idiosyncratic personality or looks 8% Good in bed 3% (for keeping her not for getting a date)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:43 PM
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My wife who I loved more did create some Chaos but not so much chaos that I would chose a woman that was calm and stable but who I did not have so much passion and love for. By passion I am not talking about sex appeal. My wife was beautiful physically but most of my passion was for her personality and for the music of her heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:06 PM
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Bad sex with men they don’t want is available to women if they wanted it but they don’t want that. Women often do not get their orgasms. Women sometimes are OK with sex without orgasm if they are getting intimacy with a man that they like a lot. Men will orgasm easily. I have enjoyed all sex including sex with unattractive women. If we are counting sex as sex in the last year women having sex once a year count. 4 women having sex once a year may all be having sex with a slightly better average m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 10:56 PM
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We were married 35 years. 1 miscarriage no children. We had doubts that my wife could carry a baby to term. She had severe endometriosis possibly made worse by her father beating her pelvis / uterus area with a board. Great grandmother child abused grandmother. Grandmother child abused father. Father child abused daughter. If my wife had children, she probably would have child abused them. My wife’s grandfather was the admiral in charge of the Utah beach on the D-day Normandie invasion. Utah bea…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:19 PM
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I like people that are capable of having high quality, unique thoughts, so I will never get bored by them. My wife had high quality in unique thoughts. People tell me that I also have high-quality unique thoughts.. But to be with my wife, I had to tolerate l fights.. I I also dislike drama, but I put up with drama because I loved my wife more than I disliked drama. But I really don’t like drama, especially angry drama..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:50 AM
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I don’t think you had previously said that these sun normal weirdos were volatile. Maybe I did not read carefully.. I had a girlfriend who slept with her head on my arm for a year. We never had a fight; not even 1 fight. Living with her with a very easy. But we did not really have any passion for each other.. My crazy wife was physically violent towards me sometimes and had she been the man and me that woman I would’ve had to have left her for my own safety. The only reason I could stay with my …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:22 AM
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Maybe these guys are interesting. Maybe they have bad boy rebel attraction for doing their own thing without fear of what people think of them. Maybe they are in a social network that includes women. Maybe they know how to talk to women and how to play with women. This is why there is some truth to the idea that there is somebody for everybody . Being average might not be better than being below average but interesting.. Average can be boring. Below average last boring might do better with women…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 06:12 AM
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Not really. We fell in love quickly without having a formal date. I just say that she started the relationship because she was flirting with me for the first two days that we knew each other before. I really started falling back hard. . She was a friend of my friends and I think my friends saying nice things about me may have been why she flirted with me from day one. She did not care about height. I was pretty handsome and she was beautiful. I think I was too short for 3/4 of women. Luckily, fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:10 AM
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The 80/20 rule is not scientific and is obviously ridiculous. Most average women are marrying average men which would not happen according to the 80/20 rule.. 80/20 is clearly false in that rule is designed to make below average men who want to believe that they are average find a way to explain why women are rejecting them. Now, perhaps you could make a case for a similar 60/40 rule. If you change the numbers from 80/20 to 60/40 the rule could actually be real. 80/20 it’s clearly not supported …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 04:04 AM
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Slut shaming used to be worse than it is now. Still at purple pill you find lots of stupid young men concerned about a woman’s body count. A woman that makes the first move is more likely to have a higher body count.. I loved women, making the first move on me because I was afraid of rejection if I made the first move. I hate women being slut shamed. I prefer women that like men a lot. My wife had a higher body count than me. My wife flirted with me on the first day she met me and I’m glad that …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:20 AM
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You can cherry pick videos, to prove anything you want. Wanting women to have less self-esteem so that we men can more easily use women would selfish to point of being sick and evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:12 AM
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Good for picking up women but other abilities are good for keeping women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:51 AM
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Because the men of this sub Reddit are young man and for young men, they are better off in a Darwinian DNA reproduction sense in finding a woman who can devote her attention to the children of the young man, rather than children are some other man. This would be even more true in a hunter gatherer society like humans were for the last few hundred thousand years that shaped our instincts. Also the men on this sub Reddit tend to be immature men that are selfish at all fuck and don’t know how to in…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:20 AM
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I went through phases when I was too insecure,to attract a woman. Something was wrong with me and it left on my own. I would start believing that I was unlovable and no woman to ever want me and this is, despite me having evidence supplied by women that I was lovable and that women could want me. But when I got to deep into feeling unlovable unwantable I was actually almost unlovable and unwantable. I had no appreciation moment from age 19 to age 23 even though women did like me when I was 18. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 12:34 AM
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In my mostly 1600s New England Puritan genealogy people tended to get remarried when their spouses died before their age 45. Pre-marriage after the failure of a marriage, or death of a spouse might be normal human instinct . Men that did not get married, might do well In terms of Darwinian DNA propagation to marry a woman that has children. She may be willing to have another child with a new husband. Our instincts do not know that birth control pills exist. If you like kids a woman with children…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:07 PM
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That sounds like the same thing they say about getting wealthy. Those to get wealthy claim they earned it. But there seems to be a lot of luck involved in getting wealthy. Better parent can help you develop social skills and the skills needed to get wealthy . We did not earn our parents or the neighborhood we grew up in or our DNA. I don’t like pity parties as our response to bad luck. I don’t like pride and arrogance as our response to good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:29 AM
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My future wife was a friend of my best friend’s girlfriend and to a lesser degree a friend of my best friend. I was to a lesser degree a friend of my best friend’s girlfriend. My friends must have said good things about me and my wife flirting with me and then they she met me and I quickly started flirting back. And this so-called objective looks rank my wife out ranked me. If we ignore me being too short, I might actually have been handsome. My wife did not care about height.. My wife had some …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:25 AM
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Why would women claim to have a relationship that they do not have an anonymous surveys more than men would claim to have a relationship that they do not have on anonymous surveys? Men lying about their penis. Length being longer than it is had the penis length as measured by anonymous surveys overrating penis length by an inch. What should men be lying about on anonymous surveys their penis length or their relationship status? Are women as ashamed of being single as men are ashamed of having a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:03 PM
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If you include the men over 30 that Reddit does not believe are human then most men are also in relationships. Young men are something like 35% in relationships. While young women are about 55% in relationships. What age is young? 21 year old women want men more mature than 21 year old men. I am not sure the 21 year olds should be considered men and women. They remind me more of teenagers. Every young woman in a relationship with a 32 year old man is a young women in a relationship without a you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:57 PM
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Women like masculinity, just not toxic masculinity. Nobody is jealous of toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:32 AM
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I hope I was exaggerating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:24 AM
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It might be like rape. Male rapist are very rare, but rape victims are common because the rapists that do exist rape 6 women each on average. Most guys are too chicken and or too polite to approach women in person but some men may be approaching more than one woman every day. I have never post a woman that I did not know for 2 months. I was quite chicken. While I did not get with many women from me approaching them, and I actually got with more women from the women approaching me, my success rat…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:10 AM
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71% of Reddit users are male. Most Reddit users are under age 25. Most Redit users are liberal. Most Reddit users have a college degree but I do not believe the average Reddit user is all that bright despite having a college degree. Because purple pill shapes a lot of my image I Reddit users. My version of a Reddit user is a 23-year-old male liberal that women are not attracted to who barely knows women that has a college degree but is of slightly below average intelligence. But I have to rememb…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:28 PM
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Who is interested in sexually gaming women? Not women. Who is angry at women and want to show women as being shallow and bad. Not women. Who prefers a simple rules based version of reality in particular a simple rules based version of female attraction to men? Not women? Who wants to pretend that women are not attracted to attractive male personalities and wants to pretend that they and other men are not being rejected by women for having unattractive personalities? Not women. Apparently most me…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:43 PM
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For some, there is a gender war while for others there is a gender love. Which group would you rather be in the group that hates the opposite gender or the group that loves the opposite gender.?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:07 PM
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You calling yourself a real man? Purple pill thinking is an attempt by immature men with ugly personalities to not know that their personalities are ugly. Real men do not lie to themselves to avoid knowing that their personality is unattractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:03 PM
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The guys on this sub that came to their agreement were immature morons that never had a girlfriend because women don’t want them, and misogynist that hate women, and men with bad personalities that desperately don’t want to know that they have bad personalities. That was the group came to an agreement about women are.. One of the funny thing about these guys that came to agreement about women is that they came to believe their own bullshit and now act like they are the experts on women .even tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:53 PM
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I thought the below average men who pretend to themselves that they are average men might be a bigger problem than average men choosing to believe that they are above average. Purple Pill pretending to believe that the man’s personality does not play a role in attracting women changes the definition of average man to not include his personality in his averageness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:36 PM
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Clearly the guys in this sub that think they have demystified women are idiots. The idea that they have demystified women was a fiction and one of their core demystifications was to claim that the man’s personality does not play much of a role in why women are attracted to a particular man which is a false Idea. Why would we have a sub-Reddit that’s main theme was spreading a few false ideas about women? Why would a sub group of men like the lie that male personality does not matter to women? Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:17 PM
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I don’t know. There are some differences between men and women.. I have heard many women complain that they are not becoming a physically attracted to the man they are dating who they like . Men are not like that. Men do not expect physically attracted to a women that they like if they were not attracted to her on the first date. Most women apparently have had the experience of becoming physically attracted to a man that they were not initially could be attracted to. This is why many women get d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:10 AM
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When they try to claim that personality of the man does not matter in attracting a woman they are just plain being false. The 80% 20% rule is clearly false as evidenced by so many average looking women, being with average looking men. If they change the numbers to a 60% 40% rule then it could possibly be true with the revised numbers.. We can disagree about whether the man’s personality is 30% of the attraction or 70% of the attraction but personality isn’t none of the attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:02 AM
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I am a short blonde American with ancestors on the Mayflower. Incel beliefs said that I was too short to get a girlfriend and a wife. I had more girlfriends, Moore, one night stands, and a prettier wife that Incels say is possible for a man as shor as me. Incels and some red and purple pill guys claim that personality does not matter and does not attract women, but I’m pretty sure my personality was half of what I had going for me with women. I was no Chad. I was jealous of Chads but I was not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:51 AM
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Just mocking male pity parties and the stupid ideas of purple pill men. Also just being honest without any concern for political correctness. I tend to like women more than I like men, but one of the things I like about men of the past was that they had less pity parties than women did. Now on Reddit, or at least on purple pill it is the men having more pity parties than the women. I guess I expect men to be manly and I don’t think all this whining because you’re not getting fucked is manly . I …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:19 AM
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Objectively, my wife probably had a bad personality because her child abuse made her prone to rages and made her unable to handle normal situations. On the other hand in addition to being pretty my wife was wise, smart, funny, capable of having original thoughts, had beautiful mannerisms and was like living art, and everything she did was done like beautiful art. She was the perfect for me If only she had not had her child abuse mental illness.. We were very in sync and compatible She died last …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:07 AM
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Most women have too much dignity to stay in a relationship with a hot guy that has a bad personality for very long. She might stay with hot guy for a while, hoping that his bad personality is not real. But eventually she will come to terms with the fact that Mr. hottie has a bad personality and can never be Prince charming. But I am still jealous of bad personality hot guy’s numerous one night stands. Still, I married a pretty wife, who was the first glance too good for me if you did not know ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:51 PM
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But the average man only has average hotness. What does it matter what the hot men can get away with? I will admit it ; I also am jealous of Chad. But I don’t think being jealous of Chad is a good look on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:40 PM
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I want to fuck every average women, and fuck every moderately below average woman and every above average women. I know the women must be evil because they are not letting me fuck them whenever I am in the mood to fuck them. Why do women have to know my name before they let me fuck them them when I don’t require that I know the woman’s name before I fuck them. It seems so unfair.. If women understood how much I want to fuck them then why would they deny me this basic comfort?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:25 PM
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The vast number of average looking women in relationships with average looking men debunks the stupid 80% 20% rule. The 80% 20% rule was just a cope that enables below average men to pretend that they are average but are still being rejected. By definition 50% of men have to be below average. And personality does matter. The 80% 20% rule is usually talking about a fictitious world where personality does not matter. Personality might account for 70% of attraction for women while only accounting f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:16 PM
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Men believe in objective rankings more than women believe in objective rankings. Men want a quantifiable world but women do not require a quantifiable world as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:07 PM
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I don’t believe that women are only attracted to men in the top 20% of looks. But a top man includes a top personality. Purple Pill is wrong about personality not mattering because guys with unattractive personalities like to pretend to themselves that they don’t have unattractive personalities. Apparently being ugly is not as much of an ego blow to men as having an unattractive personality is to men so the guys would rather believe that they are physically ugly than to believe that their person…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:04 PM
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The majority of Women still want a male partner. The number of women that don’t care about getting a male partner has increased but those women are still a small minority. Most average looking women are still ending up with average looking men. Perhaps the percentage of men that have unattractive personalities has increased. No spouse is better than a bad spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:57 PM
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Get married if you feel compelled to have a husband. If you don’t have an urge to have a husband then only marry if a man that wants you as a wife is making you happier by spending time with you than you were happy without him. If you want children and want a partner in raising those children then marry a good father and husband type man. If you are living alone and want to save money and find a man that wants to marry you who will do his share of the chores and will be easy to live with and ple…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:11 AM
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Mostly, I don’t know why the women who were with me were with me. By Incel theories I was too short, and no woman should have been with me. I did mediocre with women but good enough with women to make himself jealous but then incels will get jealous of anything. When I was 28, I married a very beautiful 24 year old woman who you would think was out of my league unless you knew about her child abuse caused mental illness problems. Women are often not initially attracted to the man they eventually…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:39 PM
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If we just banned the unwanted men from having online communities where they criticize women and spread stupid false theories about women then everything would be fine. Except the unwanted men would be miserable but unwanted men have probably always been miserable. I don’t think my spinster great aunt was miserable but she was really a fabulous person. I didn’t have a kid. It would not surprise me if she were a closet lesbian. I respected and loved her.. My single old man, alcoholic New Jersey, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 06:20 PM
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1/4 truth. Blue pill is more real than your beliefs. I do think letting the women know early that you are attracted to them may be important for staying out of the friend zone. Women don’t fuck their brothers so don’t let them think you are their brother if you hope to eventually fuck them. But for relationships the man’s personality is going to matter more than height, looks and money combined. Looks matter more in dating apps because dating apps have almost no way to show personality. When a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:20 AM
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Character as separate from personality. Hmm? Even if we divide character from personality, I would bet both character and personality attract women . I don’t think people would get a personality that attracts women without social experience. Practice helps. The other says something and you respond and then you notice how your response is received..
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:19 AM
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My wife and I appreciated each others high intelligence and that might have played a role in us falling in love. We could have interesting conversations. She was also a screwup. We were both interested in the spiritual aspect of humans. But we both failed at having good careers. My child abused wife was mentally ill and I did not abandon her despite her causing problems. She’s dead now. My intelligence may have played a role in some other women becoming attracted to me before my wife. My loving …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:07 AM
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What does sub 5 genetics mean? Albert Einstein once said he wished he had been a plumber after he was distressed about his work leading to the development of nuclear weapons. People told me that my father was a genius . My father designed the inertial navigation system for the Polaris nuclear missiles and the Apollo moon landing. Was that good? My father was a retard when it came to getting along with his wife. And my father was drunk every night while he designed the initial navigation systems …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:41 AM
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I get bugged by pill guys delusional theories. If they don’t know what they are talking about and barely know women at all maybe they should not be posing as experts on how women choose men. But maybe something is wrong with me for being bugged by these idiots posing as experts on how women work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:41 PM
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I have traveled a lot and lived in a few countries. I think, being a international mixed breed mutt is actually more attractive than being from a single country. American mixed ethnicity is actually more attractive than most countries, except that Americans ruin their superior attractiveness by being too fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:28 PM
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Chads with good personalities can turn hook ups into relationships. Chads with unattractive personalities won’t keep a relationship long. Looks just don’t cut it for relationships . The personality must be at least OK.. The pill guys that women don’t want pretend that their problem is not their personalities . For some reason having a bad personality is more of an ego blow then having bad looks. The average looking guys that women don’t want have bad personalities and get around knowing that by …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:08 PM
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Personality is the real king. Why do Incels, purple pill and red pill want to believe that looks is king when personality is the real king? I think the guys that women don’t like do you not want to acknowledge that anything is unattractive about their personalities. If these guys stop, insisting that looks his king and looks is not king then I would leave you guys alone and let them believe if their personalities are OK but they keep insisting that women are like men and women in most circumstan…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:00 PM
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I am short so most women cannot be attracted to me. I had a few women throw themselves at me that did not know me so I guess my handsome face did that for me. But in general, yes it is personality that attracts women. We got a whole bunch of unwanted men I do not want to know that the reason they’re failing with women is because their personality to unattractive.. It is like if they think that women are rejecting them for being average looking men that is OK. But if women are rejecting them for …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:25 PM
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I know, women just won’t settle for us 2nd rate men. Therefore, we need male fetuses to be aborted until we have a 2 to 1 male to female sex ratio, and make things easier for us men to get a woman that pleases us. So come on you pregnant women help out your male babies that get born by aborting your more of your male fetuses because the competition for females in the young men is driving the young men crazy. We men want getting into a relationship with lovely women to be easier for us. On the ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:07 PM
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This drug dealers story is stupid too. Some drug dealers have good personalities. But mostly women being attracted to you drug dealers is just a story archetype in that is constantly being told in the stories of the unwanted men that claim to be better than drug dealers, because they claim that they are nice guys. These guys that claim to be nice guys and therefore deserve pussy usually are not actually nice guys.. instead of being nice guys these guys that think they deserve pussies for being n…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 09:00 PM
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She will never be attracted to the guy’s personality if she does not know his personality. Women are choosing average looking man because they like the guy’s personality. If you’re an average looking man, and you want the woman choose you you better show her your personality .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:57 PM
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I think 2/3 of the guys have friends and 1/3 don’t even have friends. My wife was a friend a friend because my best friend’s girlfriend was a friend of mine and a friend of my wife, but that won’t work if you don’t have friends . And being a real friend to my best friend’s girlfriend helped. My future wife was flirting with me from day one apparently, because my friend said such nice things about me . My future wife was the courageous one that made our relationship happen not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:51 PM
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What do you expect a woman to do with a dating app. There are not enough women to go around on the dating apps. On the dating app, the woman might as well choose 10 photos of men before she ever spend time looking at bios. Chose 10 photos, then look at the bios for those 10 photos in rule out sixth of those guys from their bios.. Chat with the other four guys that passed the bios test. Date two guys that pass the chat test. If nobody passes the date test, repeat the process with another 10 photo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:34 PM
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This pity party about average Western or American women rejecting average men is just more stupid purple pill nonsense. In real life average looking women are still choosing to have relationships with average looking men. But these are women who are not using dating apps.. The men that are not getting any success with women are coming up with all kinds of crazy nonsense to cope. These unwanted men do not want to hear anything bad about their personalities.. First, when you have an average man ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 08:22 PM
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The average looking man would do a little better with women if online dating went away. Above average looking men would do a little worse with women without having online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:38 AM
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My history of delayed attractions to women is almost zero. One woman I knew was attractive from the start but I did not know I would want her because I did not realize that I would start loving her personality. Then there is my wife. My wife got old and fat and I was still attracted to her. In some way I always saw the very attractive thin sexy beautiful 24 year old version of no matter how old and fat she got. I would not be attracted to old fat people similar looking to my wife but I was still…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 09:32 AM
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Who told boys that life would be fair? Life has never been fair. Expecting fairness just sets you up for more pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:31 AM
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Dating is not about fairness. The unwanted men should drop their desire for fairness. Women don’t owe anything to unwanted men. I will feel more empathy for unwanted men when they stop their self pity and jealousy. I spent 4 years age 19 to 23 as a unwanted man and I know it hurts bad but don’t blame women and Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:25 AM
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I don’t think hitting on strangers in person is good. Women always had resistance to being hit on by strangers at random places. It has been longer than 20 years. How do you meet women enough and let women know you enough to not be a stranger when you hit on them. Maybe guys should choose their jobs based on how many women they will meet at work. Only work for a company that has more female employees then make employees in which your job description while require you to meet 20 women. OK that jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:24 PM
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Men like to think that they are better than those losers but they might actually not be any better than the losers. The self proclaimed nice guys from the nice guys vs bad boys story usually end up not being actually nice are lazy about everything except showing up for work and are immature, socially weird and awkward so are only better than the bad boys at having careers. The better men are already taken. Leaving the immature guys with poor social skills who are addicted to gaming and porn as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:04 PM
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Online is not good for the average man because the male to female ratio is has too many men and not enough women. Women apparently prefer meeting men in real life and do not participate with online dating enough to make online dating work for average men. Men it seems would prefer online dating to asking for dates in real life so men really want online dating to work. But as long as the gender ratios are so overwhelmingly more males to females online dating will not work for average looking men.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:54 PM
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I don’t think purple pill men of Reddit have empathy for women or even like women other than being attracted to female bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:21 AM
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Hamstering? Don’t say nothing bad about those furry critters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:19 AM
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What is your evidence that average women want above average men more than ever? Are you just talking shit an pretending that shit is real? A hook up app like Tinder ( not that I really know) would connect average women with above average physically men. With women being in low supply on Tinder because women don’t want casual sex as much as men do; then of course average women will end up with above average men on Tinder. But Tinder is not the real world and is not for relationships. In the relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:17 AM
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Men beyond purple pill immature too young men won’t see a woman’s value as being lowered for being with an average man. This is another ridiculous purple pill theory about men and women. In the real world men and women don’t think like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:29 PM
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No. The desire for a tall male mate is instinctual and comes from what was happening for our hunter gather ancestors. Almost surely from human on human violence when a good stick was the primary weapon.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 12:58 AM
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Mean bullies will hurt people any way they can. Most people have something that makes them feel isolated from general society. Race, religion, lack of social skills, stupidity, physical weakness, being too geeky. Bullies will use anything against you. If you are insecure about your looks then mean bullies will hurt you with your looks. The normal male response to ugly women is to pay less attention to ugly women, not to try to hurt ugly women. Anybody intentionally hurting ugly women is abnormal…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:27 PM
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Can you explain many women getting a physical attraction to a man that they were not initially attracted to? You have cases of women complaining that they are not gaining a physical attraction to a man they are dating that they like. You never hear a man talking like that. Men don’t expect to become physically attracted to a woman that they were not physically attracted to on the 1st date. But many women expect to become physically attracted to any average looking man after a number of good date…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:24 PM
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You can’t necessarily do things safely. In retrospect, I probably should not have risked my life to attempt to get a purse back for a woman from the purse snatcher. It was just a purse. But I did not have time to think. From me attempting to stop the person snatcher who was too big and athletic for me I pretty much know that I will intervene in a attempted rape, even if I’m overmatched. And I prefer to be somebody that would intervene in a attempted rape, even if I am overmatched. I am getting o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:04 AM
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You did not do the wrong thing. Having his collarbone broken hopefully would stop him from behaving in the same way the next time he was mad at her..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:56 AM
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I would. Random men protect random woman in public. Cops are not going to arrive in time and may be useless even if they do arrive.. I was growing up an escalator at a subway station, and I heard what I interpreted to be a purse snatching. Young man, of a race that I’m slightly intimidated by was right, running down the up escalator carrying a woman’s purse. I locked my eyes on that man with the intent of tackling him even though he might’ve pulled out a knife and stabbed me and I was middle-age…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:29 AM
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Everything should be thought of, in terms of Evolutionaries game theory as at least one of the ways of looking at human behavior. Women having orgasms does not guarantee that they will want sex . Odd because ice cream tasting good seems to be better at guaranteeing that they will want ice cream. When sex drive serves no purpose other than to give orgasms that are pleasant sex drive may stop for some women. If the body knows that they will not have more children (and I don’t know how the body wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:58 AM
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I don’t know the stats. What if it was normal for 65% of women who have had a few children and are in their mid 30s to lose interest in sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 02:49 AM
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Oh please.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:08 PM
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Why isn’t an artificial vagina worthy of being a girlfriend? Too boring? Suppose your boyfriend or girlfriend only gives one word answers and never starts a conversation would that be boring. Suppose they can say things but only the most average things as if they don’t have a mind of their own and can only copy other people? Too boring?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:48 PM
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Twice when I was in my 20s Gay men offered to pay me to have sex with them. Most Women wanted tall men but I don’t think gay men cared about height. 4 months since my wife died. I don’t like admitting my age on Reddit, because the 20 year old men really believe that they are living in a completely different world than what I lived in and therefore my experience is irrelevant. But I am not going to chase young women. Maybe next year I will try dating on my own age. I loved falling in love . I’m n…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:50 PM
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I also met my wife through friends of friends who apparently said very nice things about me so that my wife start flirting with me from the moment she met me. My wife died last May. Dating apps would not have worked for me because I’m too short. No, if my face is an 8 I may have been OK on dating apps with the 1/4 of women that don’t care about height. I think women still want men . I don’t think women being paid more than men stop growing from wanting men.. Since neither men nor women got a pay…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:38 PM
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Hi value for the one night stand, and yet perhaps even disappointing for the one night stand. Not high high value for relationships although it may take the woman a few months to admit to herself, that his personality sucks. He looked like Prince, charming, but he acted like a frog.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:29 PM
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Are you both short and ugly? I never actually had a short, ugly friend . I am short, but my face was probably significantly more handsome than average so my moderate success with women including getting a pretty wife; is not necessarily relevant to guys who are by short and ugly. I know short guys besides me that were successful with women and they know and I know ugly guys that were successful with women, but I don’t know any short ugly guys at all who were either successful or unsuccessful wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:19 PM
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I was just short 5’ 5”, and once I stop being excessively insecure, and the good parts of my personality started shining, then I didn’t really have a problem with women. I honestly believe that 3/4 of women can’t be sexually or romantically attracted to a man as short as me, but that didn’t matter because the one 1/4th of women who could be attracted to me were plenty of women. I have seen a few men with ugly faces do just fine with women, but they had good personalities. By my definition of wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 08:06 PM
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The main goal of this sub is to help men who are being rejected for having unattractive personalities, believe that they are being rejected for some reason, other than having unattractive personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:55 PM
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Men should really not being having stupid theories about women. I have little empathy for bitter men. I went 4 years without sex or a date from age 19 to 23 and I did not get bitter. Stop being better and stop having stupid theories about women and then I would be easily able to have empathy for the men that women don’t want. If I got bitter I may not have got sex with the next 9 women and may not have got 1 girlfriend and 1 pretty wife who is adorable and wise. Me being bitter might have scared…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:00 PM
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OP was talking about the men getting away with mistreating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:29 PM
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I personally believe 3/4 of women will not ever have sex with a 5’ 5” man. But the 1/4 of women who would have sex with a short man is a ton of women. I had a 16 year old girlfriend lovingly tell me that I would be perfect if only I was taller. That hurt. She really was not OK with a short boyfriend but she was making an exception for me because she liked me a lot. I never hit on women that I did not know for 2 months. While I occasionally did have a stranger, woman hit on me and I lost my virgi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:27 PM
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Women are different from men. When I want porn with emotional content, and slow clothes that don’t fly off in seconds during a film cut leading straight to blow jobs I almost have to watch lesbian porn, because even though I am a man, men apparently don’t want what I want but lesbians do want what I want more often than the men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:52 PM
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That history you tell of with men getting away with everything never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:48 PM
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Are women really happier now. I doubt it. In good easy food year hunter gather 40 person tribes that humans lived in for most of human history were happier times for both males and females than humans are now. Gaming is overrated.. Most hunter gather societies treated women respectfully and fairly. I don’t feed humans now in America as being happier and humans were in the 1950s despite the racism and the patriarchy. Getting rid of the patriarchy was good but that does not mean women are happier.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:27 PM
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They let 5’ 5” me talk to them and I have seen them talking with ugly men that have good personalities. Ugly men with good personalities do get sex and love in the real world (not dating apps) Take another look at your personality if women are avoiding you. Actually, I don’t know if knowing that your personality is the problem he’s going to help you if you can’t fix your personality. Maybe you will be happier not knowing anything, is wrong with your personality. I’m not sure how difficult it is …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:11 PM
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Yes. Personality matters. Some of these guys on a place like purple pill are being rejected by women because they have an unattractive personality but since personality comes closer to being who they are it is harder on the ego to be rejected for having an unattractive personality than it is hard on the ego to be rejected for being short and ugly. So the guys want to believe that they were rejected for being short and ugly . And if they are not short and ugly, then they want to believe that wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:02 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:01 PM
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Guys are not completely unaware of personality. Men can appreciate a woman’s personality.. I think the thinking at red pill and purple pill is very much shaped by the men’s effort to deny that women rejecting them is because of their personalities. The guys can be OK with being short, ugly and poor but they can’t handle knowing that they have an unattractive personality. The lie that women don’t care about personality, and that personality does not matter is part of denying that the men are bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:39 PM
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They can fake good personality for a few days. Then she will be disappointed because she had hoped that she found Prince Charming but actually his personality is not good. Faking is tiring, he won’t fake for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:25 PM
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That is why personality matters to women. Pill theories about high value men ignore personality. If the high value man has an annoying personality he is not really a high value man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:02 PM
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Most women can get the relationship that the unwanted men want if the women are willing to tolerate a relationship with a significantly flawed man. The unwanted men may not be able to get a date or sex or a relationship so he is stressing over those things. The women can get those things so she is not stressing over those things. What she can’t get is a good date, good sex and a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:59 PM
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Not for me and I think not for most guys. I do suspect that boobs might be a big deal for 20% of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:28 PM
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The purple pill guys that women don’t want make me sad. I had a 4 year stretch without women wanting me because I was too blatantly insecure. That was not fun. The purple pill guys women don’t want mostly not wanted because of their personalities . But the whole pill culture is about helping the men do not know that anything is wrong with their personality.. they insist that women don’t care about personality in order to pretend to themselves that they are not being rejected by women, because of…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:14 PM
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I live in the USA. Most men and women here are at least 20 pounds overweight. 47 pounds overweight is normal for women age 20 to 40. I have diabetes. Diabetes is the number 1 cause of heart disease. Hear disease is the number one cause of death in USA. High carb diet is the number 1 cause of diabetes and obesity. Our body thinks the fruit trees are dropping fruit and it is time to pack on the wait for winter when we have abundant carbohydrates. Insulin does not just drop blood sugar; insulin als…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 08:04 PM
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In the USA: Years ago men and women were equally likely to be overweight. Now 1/3 of men are not overweight but only 1/6th of women are not overweight
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 06:23 PM
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Aborting 50% of male fetuses starting now should solve the male dating problem in 25 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:50 PM
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For obesity percentage There are 12 tiny Polynesian countries fatter than the USA then the USA followed by Kuwait, Qatar and Saudi Arabia. Mexico is not in the top 35 on that list. I can find websites saying Mexico is more obese than USA. I did not find a list of countries by percentage of healthy weight people. I can kind of understand, obesity, and from a medical Sandpoint . But in this thread, I was talking about people that are not overweight, and I was not finding a list of countries for no…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:40 PM
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No true unless the women lift weights.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:18 PM
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Weight lifting could make you not overweight at 137 because you might have muscles like a man. I am a short man an inch taller than you. I know what 137 would be like on me and it was not fat but not underweight as an 18 year old male an inch taller than you. I did weigh 137 at age 18. BMI was not that unisex in the past. Now I am seeing websites that treat BMI as if gender does not matter. I don’t think people should weigh much more at age 45 than they do a age 20 if they are healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:13 PM
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You think it is more stupid than the average purple pill topic? I think the average purple pill topic is very stupid. Young men, who know nothing about women having theories about women is not stupid ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:20 AM
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By definition I think the average woman must be a 5.5 on a 1-10 scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:19 AM
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Muscles weigh more than fat. Women should weigh less than men of the same height because of male muscle weight. Ideally women would lose baby weight inbetween babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:11 AM
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I admit, this post is absolutely objectifying. And I can see what is wrong with the whole 1 to 10 scale in the first place. And I am a romantic normally who who gushes over my wife’s personality. I have made it by mission on purple pill to tell guys that personality does matter a lot to women. When I see purple pill being disrespectful to women I normally give the guys shit. But in this post, I am deliberately being objectifying. Objectification is part of life..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:43 AM
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I had a high school girlfriend, who never noticed me until I caught her when she was fallen down a mountain path. Me catching her made me attractive to her. She told me that the more she thought about whether I was attractive the more tractive idea came.. I was never unattractive to her but she just did not care if I was attractive until I call her when she was falling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:36 AM
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Nationally from the statistics American women between the ages of 20 and 40 or 47 pounds overweight. I don’t really think the 20. Somethings and the 30 Somethings should be lumped together like that. They are 47 pounds overweight where I live. Most of the young women where I live are Mexican Americans. Second, most common young women where I live are Punjabi Indians. 3rd most common are whites. 4th Assyrians.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 12:05 AM
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How much fat and how below average face? . From 19 to 23 I was freezing up in insecurity and the belief that women would not like me and the women did not like me because of that. From 24 to 26 I was feeling secure and being fun, loving and funny and women were hitting on me. At 27 I was starting to freeze up again. A woman with a very ugly face came along and wanted me and made me feel like women would want me which let me be the fun person again. That happened just in time because my pretty fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:56 PM
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I am not that fussy. I can get excited by a wide range of female bodies but not all female bodies. I also like female personalities and female voices.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:47 PM
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The average American woman between the age of 20 and 40 is 47 pounds overweight. I will go for 30 pounds overweight but I probably will not go for 47 pounds overweight. At 47 pounds overweight, I think waist is bigger than the hip. I need the hip to be 1 inch bigger than the waist, which is still overweight but not overweight enough for me to lose interest. Perhaps 47 pound overweight still has a hip that is 1 inch bigger than the waist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:31 PM
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I had a big flaw being only 5’ 5”. From 19 to 23 I had a 2nd big flaw because I thought women would not want me and I was too insecure and so women did not want me and I had no sex or girlfriends for 4 years. When I got over my insecurity, they didn’t stop me from showing them in my personality, which was actually a good personality. Then women started wanting me. . So are you my only flaw was being short because my insecurity was over then I didn’t then I did OK with women despite being quite s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:29 PM
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I liked the A cup woman I had sex with just fine. Her face was kind of pretty. She was very thin. For Some reason I like it when a woman’s rib cage will fit to my thumb and fingers. There was something I liked about her that I could not identify. I liked her energy or something. I was not so thrilled, and I found out that was cheating on her husband with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 11:14 PM
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Are you a woman? When I was in my 20s and gay guys were always hitting on me m; twice gay guys tried to pay need to have sex with them. I could not do it.; too much ick for me. But I would not expect straight women to have the same reaction to French kissing ugly men. I could French kiss an ugly woman without ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:59 PM
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We have the am I ugly subreddit and those women are almost never close to being ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:55 PM
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Unless they are factoring age you are still overweight by gender and height. I don’t think it is true, that older women should be fatter than younger women. Older women will be fatter than younger women, but that is not necessarily healthy.. Your ideal weight should be about 115 unless there is something unique about you like you are very muscular. But you are not overweight enough for me, not to be attracted to you .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:44 PM
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When they are less than 40 pounds overweight 90% of women have a waist that is less wide than their hips and less wide than under their armpits. I have seen woman where their hourglass shape is too extreme for my preference. But when the hourglass is completely gone because the waist is wider than the hips and wider than armpit to armpit the woman seriously loses attractiveness to me. A subtle almost gone hourglass still attracts me but a completely gone hourglass makes me lose interests and big…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:37 PM
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My wife hated her neck. I could see what she was talking about when she pointed it out to me, but I didn’t really ever noticed it, except when she was making me look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:28 PM
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I have never told a woman how I rated her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:24 PM
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What is a complaining corn feeder.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:14 PM
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Half half. I think half of attractiveness is relative to other people, and the other half of attractiveness is what is hardwired into our DNA insticts. Straight guys turn gay in prison . If you take away everybody that you would normally be attracted to you will lower your standards.. In some places in the Middle East guys used to the women being all covered up and escorted by family members end up having sex with 14 year old boys, because 14 year old boys are the closest thing available to them…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:13 PM
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No. Beggars can’t be choosers. I will happily fuck a 4. I will marry 5s and above’s if I like their personality and they would have me. I’m married an 8 with a great personality on the surface and a great personality for me under the surface, but she was mentally ill and had a lot of rage problems from her child abuse . I absolutely adored her but she has died. On the surface if you don’t know about her personality, 8 was probably too good for me because I am only 5’ 5” but she did not care abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:03 PM
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What country do you live in? USA might be the fattest nation on earth..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:57 PM
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Even if I am only comparing 20 something women to other 20 something women. Any woman with a 3 or above face is a 7 or above woman for me. If I am adding the 30 to 70 year old woman into the comparison then I would say that a skinny 20 something year-old with a face that is a 3 or better as measured against other 20 something women is probably a 9.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:53 PM
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If I am dividing 1-10 into 10 equal sized segments I think being at her ideal weigh alone makes her a 7 as long as her face is a 3 or higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:50 PM
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I am saying that a 20 something women with a 3 face at their ideal weight is a 7 female. Ugly but moderately feminine face will not knock her below a 7 but an extremely ugly face like a 1 or 2 could knock the thin woman below a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:46 PM
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Yes faces matter but if the waist is as wide as the hips and under the armpits all women, except my wife, pretty much lose their attractiveness to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:41 PM
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Manhattan is the only place I know of in the USA that is significantly lower weight than America. I Remember, looking at the obesity in a small town in southern Indiana as I passed through and they were fat . Boston suburbs were fat, but not as fat as Turlock, California where I live now or Crescent city California, where I bought property.. Utah and Colorado are the thinnest states.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:35 PM
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I let Reddit choose my username for me, and never bothered to figure out how to change my user name. If it was easy, I would change my username because my username has no meaning for me. I have no idea who Megan, the Stalion is .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:30 PM
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Good points. I am assuming you are a woman and I am glad you are here and commenting. I am a diabetic, trying to do a keto diet because my research has led me to believe that high insulin is the cause of diabetes and the cause of obesity . High insulin is also because of polycystic ovary syndrome and skin tags. More controversial is whether high insulin or high blood sugar is the cause of most heart attacks, and the cause of diabetic retinopathy. High carb diets are the non-genetic cause of high…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:28 PM
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Where do you live? The national statistics say that you are living in a strange place and where I live where almost all women are fat is more normal for the USA Only 1 and 8 young women are not fat at my Walmart. For the town in general it might be 1 in 5 women that are not fat. If I start including the women over at age 40 the town gets even fatter.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:17 PM
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Weight can change quickly, but it usually does not change quickly. That Classic female curve , bigger hip, small waist, back to bigger under the armpit means a lot to me. It feels very stupid how much that curve means to me, but it means a lot to me.. Once a woman is 40 pounds overweight and has lost that curve I barely find the women attractive anymore. There was a strange exception thad I had for my wife, who was underweight from amoebic dysentery when I met her, and she eventually became 100 …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:08 PM
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I prefer a world in which both women and men think that they are the best thing thing since sliced bread. And frankly, I’m not that impressed with sliced bread .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:06 PM
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I’ve always done straight line with equal distributions rather than a big swell of 4 5 and 6. But I don’t know what most guys do with this 1 to 10 thing because I have not seen a discussion of that. When I discussed 1 to 10 with guys we never defined our terms. The only people that I was half doing bell curve with what is the 1s and 10s where I tended to make them less than a full 10th of the population.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:00 PM
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I rarely see a skinny woman with a face ugly enough to knock her below a 7 given how fat the average woman has become.. In my Walmart (Walmarts are fatter than other stores but I shop at Walmart) only 1 in 8 women are not overweight. Skinny women have become rare. I have an 8,000 person college in my town and the average 20 year old college student girl is 25 pounds overweight, After seeing the national average weight for women age 20 to 40 being 167 pounds I now know that my town is not abnorma…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:54 PM
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The 47 pound overweight average is more than a little overweight. At 47 pounds overweight the hip to waist to armpit curve is gone. The hour glass shape is gone at 47 pounds overweight and it is not even a slight hourglass curve. That curve is completely gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:46 PM
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Male obesity has leveled off in America. Men are no longer getting fatter every year but women are continuing to get fatter every year. The average women age 20 to 40 is now 167 pounds. My data is for average but median would have been a better statistic because a few 300 pound women could throw average off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:41 PM
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When I was on the other side of the country for a year the women were only a little less obese than where I live, Where are you living that the median woman is not 30 pounds overweight. I just assumed that you were American. The least obese place in the USA is Manhattan because they walk a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:28 PM
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Same goes for women. If men don’t want her something is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:23 PM
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Where I live the median 25 year old woman looks 40 pounds overweight. Median 20 year old college girl looks 25 pounds overweight. Median 40 year old woman looks 55 pounds overweight. Only 1 out of 8 women at my Walmart are not at least 20 pounds overweight. Average weight for women in USA age 20 to 40 is 167. I am making the next number up. I think the average fit healthy weight for an American woman is about 120 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:19 PM
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Average should be average. The average young woman is 40 pounds overweight now. Any non-overweight woman is not average anymore. Since most women are overweight now simply not being overweight becomes hot by default. I see tons of average women with average guys but the average women are overweight where I live an also overweight where I bought property 10 hour drive from where I live. I live in a small city that has a 3rd rate 8,000 student university and the college girls are also overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:00 PM
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Same goes for women. If they want a man and don’t get a man something is wrong with them. Be a man and admit that something is wrong with the man if women don’t want him. Pill culture is designed to protect men with unattractive personalities from knowing that there is anything wrong with their personalities. Average men and average men are forming couples. If the women reject one of the average looking men then something is wrong with his personality or he is not being rejected and is failing b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:54 PM
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Male personality may be declining. Maybe you just can’t learn social skills from gaining. Home prices may be playing a role in people, not having children. Money problems could be causing divorces.. But poor social skills could also be causing divorces . The problem is serious . Miserable people is serious. If the government was competent at anything, I would want the government to look into what is going wrong with dating and marriages. But the government isn’t competent there anything. Yes, I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:14 PM
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Communication about serious things was one of my weaknesses. I was pretty chicken especially about talking about sex. I never asked, they never told. They never asked and I never told..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:03 PM
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Being funny is a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:02 PM
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One woman is all you need but most of the women that hit on me we’re not woman I would’ve wanted to marry. Many of them were plenty attractive, but our personalities just did not click. So out of the 15 women I am thinking about (a few of them on them were hit on by me) there were only 2 of them that I would have wanted to marry. I cheated on one of them so she dumped me and I married the other one and she was very pretty.. And I am only 5’ 5” so according to the Incels no woman could have possi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:58 PM
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I see average looking men with average looking women all the time. If you are an average looking man and no woman wants to be with you, then there’s probably something unattractive about your personality .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:50 PM
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If an average looking man does not get with women and he is 25 and not immature then there is probably something unattractive about the man’s personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:48 PM
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That one confused me to. I suppose a woman could reject me for friends are if I have creepy friends. I don’t see why it wouldn’t care if my friends were masculine. I don’t see how masculine men will be better roll models for me. Having men around me who are good with women because of their personalities might teach me something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:46 PM
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Character takes longer to attract. But if you met her three times, and you had her laughing all three times she may want your date her. If your character was stamped on your forehead then character might attract as quickly as looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:38 PM
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The women are getting fat before they get old. Obesity is definitely more common and more severe among women on average than it is among men . I thought I was not particularly attractive because I did not look like Burt Reynolds and he was the woman’s favorite when I was young; but I do look a bit like Brad Pitt. I have come to realize that I underestimated how attractive my face was. Had I not been short perhaps I could have been a Chad. But I am overweight compared to Brad Pitt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:30 PM
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Each man that women go for has something good about them that for particular woman. Even women and woman is complaining to you about their shitty man. She’s not telling you why she was with him in the first place. But even that shitty man she’s complaining about had something good about him..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:28 PM
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No. Looks are only the common denominator for men with bad personalities that have women. For men without looks the common denominator for men that have women is a good personality .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:27 PM
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Being loved by woman feels great. Hopefully someday you’ll get to experience that..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:25 PM
1

Who is a dancing monkey? The guy is like an actually keep a girlfriend; is that who you were calling dancing monkeys? Will the pill copes ever end.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:23 PM
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On the roster. How many women will go for being on the roster if they know there is a roster? I thought only Chad gonna have a roster of woman who knew that they were just one of the women on the roster.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:21 PM
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I never met a vagina I did not like. What do you want girls that want to be choked? I might prefer women that orgasm easily . I don’t want a passive woman that just lays there. I don’t even care if she doesn’t want to give head as long as she wants to be fucked. Women are harder to please than men but I am so easy to please that I’m having a hard time understanding what a woman being bad in bed would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:16 PM
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You like tall girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:15 PM
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That is pretty much what women are saying about men. We have too many catch and release men and women floating around. Should we blame parents for raising kids to have bad personalities?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:14 PM
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Whiny. Men are not so marginal to the equation. Men with unattractive personalities, may be in the situation you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:13 PM
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If the woman is enjoying being with a man, she will stay. So are you saying that the man has no control of whether the women enjoys being with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:10 PM
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We do make that decision for women by how we behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:09 PM
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Sure, we believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:07 PM
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When it comes to relationships, women care more about personality than they care about height, looks, and money combined. The reason the pill people deny the importance of personality is because their personalities are unattractive, and they don’t want to know if their personalities are unattractive . Dating apps may give the impression that personality does not matter but that is a false impression, because personality cannot be quickly shown on a dating app . So if you don’t have Height, looks…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:06 PM
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Women do care more about personality than height looks and money combined when it comes to relationships (but not necessarily for hook ups). Dating apps can’t quickly show personality. The pill guys don’t want to admit to themselves that their personalities are unattractive .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:01 PM
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If the men are ashamed, because women don’t want them, should they then pose as experts on women? I think the whole point of pill culture is to deny that anything is unnatracive about the personalities of the men that women do not want. Pill culture seems to be a group cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:57 PM
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I assume you are not getting women. I got no women from age 19 to 23 despite being fairly popular with some women at age 18 and losing my virginity. By age 23 my self confidence with women was shot and I believed women would not like me. For some crazy reason one woman took me to bed at age 23 and that fixed my confidence which unlocked personality that I have not been able to show women for the PDF 4 years. From age 19 to 23 I was not fun , was not loving towards women, and was not funny, or wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:47 PM
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Pill guys talk nonsense. Pills are about pretending that nothing is wrong with your personality. Pills have nothing to do with truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:37 PM
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What is the point of attracting a woman if you can’t keep her? One night stands?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:35 PM
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If you are very attracted to women, but don’t like women, don’t like men, and don’t like yourself what would that be like?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:33 PM
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Because in phase 2 keeping a woman or having a happy relationship it helps to love respect woman. Women do not like doormat men but loving and respecting women does not mean that you don’t love and respect yourself. Even in phase 1 attracting the woman a pretty woman who did not want me caught me accidentally caring about her and then because she was attracted to being cared about. She all of a sudden wanted me to date her because I showed her accidentally, that I cared about her.. Loving women …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:28 PM
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That bad personality guys that women don’t want that complain about women are facing a massive shortage of vaginas I bet that 90% of pill pundits have personalities that are unattractive to women. These guys pretend that personalities don’t matter to women because they do not want to know that they have unattractive personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:17 PM
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Pill culture is just about men lying to themselves about the impact of unattractive personality and lying to themselves about their own innate active personalities. You can’t help these guys because they don’t want to know the truth. Even if they did want the truth fixing an unattractive personality is not so easy. But we don’t want innocent 16 year old boys believing any of the BS that pill guys say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:13 PM
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Are you a human? Pull men are always lecturing on women and 90% of what pill men say about women is wrong. Hmmmm? What’s going on here. Men of average physical attractiveness that women don’t want claim that that average women do not want and will not accept average men but all you have to do is look around to see that average women do want average men. I think the motivation behind the unwanted pill men’s talk about women is for the unwanted pill men to pretend to themselves that their is nothi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:08 PM
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Be fun. Making yourself a fun person is not so easy. But maybe you already are a funny person and just have to relax stop being scared .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:36 AM
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You say the women don’t understand their sexuality but you and the pill guys understand. Pull guys no nothing about women. Any random stranger on the street understand women better than pill guys do. Pill guys are stupider than stupid because pill guys know things that aren’t true.. Kniwing nothing is more intelligent than a pill guys knowing things that aren’t even true. Pill guys are complete retards about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:06 AM
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As soon as you put the 2 below average people into a couple and have them act like a couple they look average so that confess things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:51 PM
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Average man and women of what age. Read it very young, so I assume you mean young man and woman. The body morphing photography might be applicable, except when you average 4 guys together and 4 women together the average morphed people are more attractive than the component people were. So just remember your last trip to Walmart and the people of the age group that you want. Where I am living, I am living young women for the most part are 40 pounds overweight but still attractive, because they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:16 AM
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I I am short 5’ 5”. I had sex with 10 women and then married a pretty wife . From age 19 to 23 I had no sex and no girlfriend . My insecurity made me no fun to be around and stopped me from playing naturally made me not want me.. when I broke out of my insecurity thanks to a woman that chose to be with me suddenly other women wanted me. I had a an attractive personality that I was not showing because I was afraid of making mistakes and I had stress. I could play it be funny and women like that b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:52 AM
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Women’s standards for personality are higher for a relationship. Women’s standards for looks may be higher for casual sex because they lower their standards for personality for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:41 AM
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It’s a big problem for men that think getting a virgin minute or inexperienced woman woman will be satisfied with bad Fax. I would expect the male goal in a Darwinistic evolutionary point of view would be to find a woman that will not be with other men other than the boyfriend / husband. So half of men must be feeling that experienced women will not stay loyal to them. We have to be a reason why I half of the men prefer inexperienced women even if they experience women and the experienced woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:26 PM
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So then what is the point of many men having instincts to want an experience women if the unexperienced women are not left, likely to seek better men. I assume the instinct to want inexperienced women is there for a reason sort of like I also believe the female instinct to want tall men are there for a reason Instinct don’t exist for no reason . So if the insecure guys get no benefit from experienced women then why do they want them?. If the virginknows as well as a more experienced woman when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:06 PM
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I’m going with the men being insecure. I can’t think of a reason why men would want virgins or low body count other than insecurity. Fear of STD sounds reasonable, except the People that have the most fear from STDs. Are the women not the men. STDs and more dangerous for women..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:41 PM
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Of course she deserves satisfied in sex. Do you have a better theory for why men want virgins than men thinking that virgins will not look for better men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:19 PM
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How do they know? From what Other people tell them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:09 PM
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But how does she know what premature ejaculation is? She has never been with a man that did not premature ejaculate. If she only orgasms when she masturbates, and the other women are talking about their orgasms, and how much they love getting orgasms from men that would be a problem I think there should be sex classes for men . Have one female test, subject, model, and one female instructor, and a man that needs to be taught. It would not be prostitution if the man did not orgasm, I’d rather jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:30 PM
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How does she know that her sex life is bad. Are all female friends giving her clues that her sex life is bad? I hope she is not looking at porn because porn is fake .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:26 PM
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Because men want virgins, and women don’t want virgins. Women are more likely to die from syphilis, and other STDs than men are so it isn’t about STDs. Men are scared. If they aren’t the only liar she ever had any not be the best lover she ever had, and she may not be satisfied to stay with that man. She may always be looking for a better man. But if she was a virgin, she wouldn’t know that each man had it on good qualities, and that she was not getting all the best qualities from her husband . …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:06 PM
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You are ignoring the fact that many men have unattractive personalities. Being a looks match does not mean the guys personality is acceptable.. When average men looks wise, complain that average women reject them that is a pretty clear indicator. Something is wrong with the man’s personality. You can go to look around and see all the average women who are with average men and don’t have a problem . So no average woman are not holding out for more attractive men.. The guys that women don’t want o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:47 PM
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No you don’t actually know women. You may have seen something but you’re missing the big picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:45 PM
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You apparently don’t know women. And yet you pretend to be an authority on women . Most of the pool guys are idiots that should not be believed .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:27 PM
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I am old. I remember a discussion that we might have sex Ed but I don’t think we ever did have sex Ed and even if we did they wouldn’t dare talk about the clitoris when I was young. I also don’t remember anatomy being taught in my high school. We dissected frogs but we were not being taught about the vagina, uterus or the ovary either I did miss a semester of my junior year at high school, so maybe I just wasn’t there the right day. If you got taught about the clitoris then yay some progress has…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 11:39 AM
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Being nice is not irrelevant. If women see you being nice to other people, they are more likely to say yes when you ask them for a date. The opinion, and only height, a handsome face and money matter to women is false. This opinion about women is coming from men that women do not like because these men want to pretend that nothing is unattractive about their personalities.. So if you guys are average something they claim that women don’t want average fucking guys . And if these guys are below av…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:46 AM
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I had sex for 10 women before my wife. I was too chicken to talk about sex . The women were also too chicken to talk about sex. I did not really learn to be a good lover with my casual sex partners. A girlfriend is much more likely to teach you things than a casual sex partner is. I was with 4 women before I learned from porn that clitorises existed I don’t think the women were going to tell me that clitorises existed. Maybe no relationships should be a red flag but I’m not sure that women would…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:03 AM
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There are no inflated standards. Men with unattractive personalities like to pretend their are inflated standards because they want to pretend that they are not being rejected for unattractive personalities. Now dating apps are a different story. Women normally fall for a whole man which includes his personality. Without an attractive personality she would rather not have sex unless the guy has a very attractive body and face. Every day I see many average looking women with average looking men b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:33 AM
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No, low libido is a real thing. Lol libido does not mean that the partner is not attractive enough. Even if she marries Chad if she is low libido she may not fuck Chad . The only difference is it Chad won’t have a hard time finding somebody to cheat with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:09 AM
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Drug addicts were always hopeless. The gamers are a loss that did not have to have to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:36 AM
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People should organize social clubs that do things together like hike or go to museums together. An alternative to dating apps. Don’t even ask for date until you have met each other a few times . Jumping straight to dates forces people to decide whether they want a date before they have a feel for who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:48 AM
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The things women can do with make up or clothes to enhance their beauty are not that powerful. If the guy goes to the gym and get some muscle, but he won’t keep after he catches a girl is that so different from wearing make up? Men are free to wear make up ; nobody stopping them. Mascara is the only makeup that really has much affect on me . Guys could wear mascara but I wonder if it would have an effect on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:47 PM
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Non-traditional woman come in all types.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:11 AM
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The best it was for me as far as women/girls being attracted to me was probably my senior year in high school. Girls wanted older guys and they also want older guys in college . The college boys were leaving the high school girls alone. With high school sophomores juniors and seniors all wanting a senior boyfriend guys were in demand as seniors in high school.. the exact opposite of dating apps with the men vastly outnumber othe women. In college, a lot of the college girls, consider college boy…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:33 PM
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Blue pill is probably more in line with reality than the other pills are
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:27 PM
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Do you think that men and women today prioritize physical attraction, more than men, and women of the past did? Instinct don’t change that fast . So you’d be in the culture camp as opposed to being in the instincts camp. People are asserting different realities on the percentage of relationships and hook ups that are coming from dating apps, and other online things as opposed to meeting people in person . One of the competing realities Hass to be wrong . What percentage of relationships and hook…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 08:22 PM
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In the 1950s American men may have credited women with being more angelic and noble and non shallow than they really were. Now in Incel culture and any pill culture other than blue pill and probably in general college age, male culture, and probably in the culture of men that woman don’t want these men have gone too far and thinking that women are shallow in the same ways that men are. Sure Women want tall guy with handsome face is but women actually care more about personality than they care ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:58 PM
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Just quibbling over the language. I won’t be having sex with every woman on the planet, just one at a ttime. Interaction with women isn’t just about being accepted by them as their romantic/sexual /mate partner. Even if you were good enough in bed, and everything else for them to choose you as their romantic and sexual partner and life mate; how to be with Woman still has more to it than how to get chosen by them and to be their mate. Although a lot of how to be with women is the same as how to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:46 PM
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My concern was that I may have been boring to the woman. I have been bored when masturbating before, but I have never been bored when having sex with a woman .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 06:17 AM
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Yup I don’t wanna put pressure on 17 year old boys to get experience rather than to fall behind their peers but there is a price to be paid later if you fail to get experience as a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:34 AM
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Everybody has to be inexperienced at some time. Maybe it is better to be an inexperienced 14 year old future Chad making mistakes with an experienced 14-year old girls who will not compare him to better more experience lovers because they never had any better more experience lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:12 AM
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Oh I missed that typo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:50 AM
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Siri or my spellchecker turned 10 women into 10 minutes. Something is really does not work when I type or speak to my iPhone Reddit app. I really did need improving in bed. I suppose it was unrealistic for me to expect my 3 night stand women to teach me anything. If they brought me back for a 3rd night I must not have been the worst lover I but I know I was not good. Maybe being good in bed isn’t everything even on a one night stand?, Perhaps they just liked me and being bad in bed twice was not…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:31 AM
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I and the woman I was with were more chicken about talking about sex than we were chicken about about having sex. I had sex for 10 women prior to my wife. I never asked them anything and they never told me anything. They never asked me anything and I never told them anything..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:59 AM
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I lost my virginity in some pretty stupid sex with a drunk girl. I never told her I was a virgin and she might have been too drunk to remember me telling her that I was a virgin if I did tell her that I was a virgin. She initiated. Out of the blue, barely knowing me, She jumped me while I was dancing at a house party and started dry humping me. So I took her home. She helped me take her clothes off and then passive. I don’t have absolute proof that she was not a virgin but I doubt she was a virg…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 01:55 AM
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Inexperience, hunter gatherer man will not be able to keep the kids alive. Do not have sex with him because there is no birth control in hunter gatherer world. A woman risks too much with childbirth and raising small children to take a chance on getting pregnant from an immature man. Her instincts about when to flirt with a man and when to have sex and when to seek commitment from a man and when to commit to a man are all coming from the hunter gatherer situation of the last 200,000 years. I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:59 AM
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If the man is not demonstrative it might seem like the woman loves more when the man actually loves more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:40 AM
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In order of importance and commonness. 1 too immature 2 They have no love for anybody. I would love for themself. No love for their girlfriend just lust. No love for puppies and kittens . No love for their mothers . No love, their friends . They will not have any love for their children so don’t fuck them. 3 there is nothing interesting about them. They are not fun or funny . They are not witty. They never say anything interesting . They are not smart . They are not observant.. 4 they are not we…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:56 AM
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It would be true for current men as well if they were spending time with women. If women find love when they least expect it dies the guy they find unexpected love with expect it? What is happening now is a shift in the bell curve towards being single. Boomers did experience being single. Young folk have Nita’s a radical transformation that makes their experience completely different from what boomers experienced. But the bell curve has shifted. College age women always rejected many college age…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:37 PM
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Are you 5’ 2” My wife apparently really did not care about height . She was with a 5’ 1” guy once. She was also with a. 6’ 7” guy who once played in the NBA but lost his money, and became broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:00 AM
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I doubt that women’s reaction to height has changed because of the Internet. Attraction to height should be the same as it was.. I was 5’ 5” and some woman chose me and I ended up with a very pretty wife. My guess is that 3/4 of women cannot be attracted to a 5’ 5” man. I heard a 5’ 9” man think he knew what it was to be a 5’ 5” man because he thinks 5’ 9” is short and that makes him an expert on being short. Crazy, 5’ 9” is a whole different world than 5’ 5”. I at 5’ 5” do not claim to know wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:50 AM
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Apparently young slightly below average men are not having much success with what they are trying. I don’t believe that the young women of today are fundamentally different than the young women of 40 years ago were.. Instincts don’t change that fast. Of course the Internet is a game changer .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:40 AM
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Don’t knock, listening to homeless people tell you wild stories that are almost entirely lies until you have tried it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:38 AM
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I think you are wrong. Incels and red pill and purple pill, and some other pills promote the idea that women just care about height, handsome face, and money. But I am pretty sure that woman care more about personality, and they care about height, handsome face and money combined. I think the myth of the pill people that women don’t care about personality is because people who are being rejected for the personality. Don’t want to believe that anything is wrong with their personality. .
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:35 AM
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If the guy’s looks are a 6 and his personality is an 8 won’t be average woman be happy to capture his heart and make him their own man?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:26 AM
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Online dating may be normalized but the gender ratio is still stacked against men. You had better be objectively above average for online dating to work because there are too many men and not enough women. If women are letting you chat with them on online dating then I guess you are in the game and have a chance. I have heard a lot of men at Reddit say they can’t even get women to chat with them in online dating. Warning, irrelevant throw away story just to amuse myself: I was a naïve young man …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:03 AM
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Hmm? Then I don’t know. Socializing with women was what worked for me but even the woman that did not want me romantically were friendly towards me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:00 AM
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In the college age women are rejecting men their own age as being too immature. The situation for college age men is pretty bad if what I read is true. The age that I was most hit on by females, was as a high school senior . College age men were not chasing the high school girls.. The high school sophomores and juniors wanted older, senior boyfriends, and the senior girls also could only have high school senior boyfriends so even though I was short I was getting females throwing themselves at me…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:42 AM
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If Bumble has the best gender ratio for men and Bumble is still 60% male I don’t like those odds for the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:36 AM
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I hear that women mostly don’t like dating apps and that is why there are 9 men for every woman on the dating apps. Maybe it is not 9 to one. I just read that bumble has the best gender ratio for men at 60% men and 40% women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:15 AM
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I was short, but after women knew me, and liked me, they didn’t necessarily care anymore that I was short. On a dating app the same women that did not care that I was short because they liked me would have rejected me for being short on a dating app because they would not know me and like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:09 AM
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That is what worked for boomers. You enjoy each other’s company first and then you start dating. Jumping straight to dating seems like too much pressure. Women might have held my short height against me if they did not like me. Because they liked me they were willing to give short me a chance. Now my wife did not care about height. I think my wife flirted with me because she heard my friends talk about me as if I was a good person. Do you do anything with a male friend and his girlfriend? Your f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:03 AM
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Then socialize and forget about dating until you notice that some woman is enjoying your company. But I have to admit I am a boomer telling use to use Boomer methods because modern ways are not working for you. I was 5’ 5” and still some women chose to take me to bed and I married a pretty wife because I was meeting women in non-dating situations. Do young people still have house party’s.? Do mixed groups of women and men hike together or play tennis together or do anything together. Can you org…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:39 AM
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If online dating won’t work for you then don’t use that method. Socialize like boomers did. Meet the women. After you have met some women then figure out which one to ask on at date. But first meant some women. Don’t compete with Chad in Chad’s home playing field. Bring back boomer style and you will have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:37 AM
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Why are they not interacting? Don’t women enjoy talking about their interests? Take a a few co-workers to lunch and a museum. Do not call it a date. Let her pay for her own meal. If all goes well after after doing stuff with her then maybe you can date her. A couple guys and a couple women could go do something together on the weekend. What is interesting near where you work and live?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:30 AM
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If you can’t show your personality you are not meeting the opposite sex and socializing with them. Skipping socializing and going straight dating is for attractive people. If she likes you she will say yes when you ask to date her even if you are not physically attractive. But she can not like you if she does not know you. How are you going to let women come to know you. You have to do something to meet women. Are you interested in anything that women are interested in? Take her to lunch and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:22 AM
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Bullying woman to do anything would be like herding cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:05 AM
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No. Not being single is more economical. The more adults sharing expenses the cheaper it is. Why pay your internet bill and trash bill by yourself when those bills are cheaper when shared.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 01:19 AM
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which man is above average, average or below average. This is for each woman to decide for themselves and the women will not agree with each other. Pill guys often want to pretend that personality does not matter while the truth is that personality matters more than handsome face, height and money combined. Women cannot agree on who is handsome and they even more can not agree on who has a good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 12:47 AM
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Both men and women, but especially women, oscillate and their opinions of themself screen back and forth between too high of an opinion of themself to too low of an opinion of themself. You can’t make anybody admit anything. By definition, only 50% of women “deserve” a below average man. I smell a rat in men even caring what women deserve.. why bother thinking that’s what I thought about women. Excuse me, but your thoughts are not actually scholarly. On your list of male traits like so many Ince…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:08 PM
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Luckily for me my bad attitude was only my false belief that women would not want me and was not a bad attitude against women. I am neurodivergent but not a kind of neurodivergent that the non-shallow-women I am attracted to find to be an ugly personality. Some woman don’t seem to see through anything. Other women seem to see through everything.. Often women are seeing through things, but are confused because they don’t know that they are seeing through things . I don’t know why men would not be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 06:22 PM
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On my father side, I have only 1 relative closer than a third cousin and she is too old to have children and my sister is too old to have children, and my brother died young. I had a wife who could not have children and now she is dead. I feel like I failed my father’s DNA . My father was defective at emotional intelligence and he was an alcoholic from a long line of alcoholics. But my dad was acclaimed by many to be a genius and he designed the inertial navigation system for the Apollo moon lan…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:55 AM
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Female cats sound like sex is painful for them but when they are in heat, they will do things that Attract males. Men look at women and nobody asks men why they are looking at women. Looking at women is just a thing that men do.. The men are not purposely doing anything. The men are just obeying their instincts when they look at women. So why do we expect women to be more conscious and deliberate when they do things that attract men? If you don’t hold men responsible for looking at women why do …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:25 PM
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I think that the original pressure was on women to seem virginalal or almost virginal. It was a way of stopping sexually transmitted disease and of making men feel like the woman would not cheat. If the woman was a virgin, she would not be thinking that some other man was a better lover.. So prior to the last 60 years there was a price paid by women when women approached men. Now isn’t it funny that men are complaining about having to make the first move. Men have a higher sex drive, and want ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:49 PM
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They need to meet women and that that require putting down the video games occasionally. I had a high school girlfriend told me I would be perfect. If only I was taller. Ouch. . I was only 5’ 5” and the height thing is real. But a bunch of women, and most importantly, a pretty wife did not care about her height. After losing my virginity at age 18, I had a phase 1from age 19 to age 23 where I had no girlfriends and no sex and I felt like no woman would want me. Then a woman chose to have sex wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:16 AM
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I had sex with 4 women and went down on 1 woman without me knowing that clitorises existed. I was too chicken to ask any woman anything and women want to chicken to tell me anything. I had sex with 10 women prior to getting married and I asked those 10 women nothing and they told me nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:30 AM
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Because of my mild autism making noisy places a problem for me I don’t know what it is like to try to approach a woman in a bar. Grandpa talking here. I did not have to approach women because I was meeting women in situations where we came together and talked. What happened to coworkers talking? What happened to house parties where you meet the friends of your friends? Approaching women sounds more stressful than meeting woman. I never hit on a woman that I did not know for two months, but that …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:45 AM
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I personally prefer a loving relationship in which both partners make each other happy. But when you have a bad personality,, making the woman feel inferior, may be the best way to keep her for a while, and get sex from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:21 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:16 PM
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By Disgusting men I mean men with bad personalities that are also abusive. These men may need to convince women that they are higher ranking than women in order to not be rejected by the women .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:11 PM
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My wife and I were both capable of having intelligent original thoughts. Most people seem like parents to me just imitating things they’ve heard without understanding anything. For my wife and I were both objectively, very smart, in the academic sense, which is not necessarily the same as common sense. We both wanted an intelligent spouse even though my wife did not have a problem persuading me that kindness is more important than intelligence. Neither my wife nor I were capable of converting ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:03 PM
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But what if you were actually a disgusting man? Then fooling a woman into thinking that you outrank them might be your best strategy for getting and keeping a woman for a while. I personally love women too much to use that strategy of disrespecting women, but I had to stop acting like women outranked me before I could attract women that I wanted to attract. Once you understand how badly my wife is damaged, and the child, abused, and therefore was mentally I’ll then the truth where’s my wife did …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:37 PM
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When I felt like women would not like me, women did not like me. When I felt like woman would like me, and I relaxed and played with women then women did like me and occasionally invited me to bed with them. I hate Incel and pill garbage. I can’t help loving woman. But I think women reject men that seem to be lower ranking than them. What enabled me to go from a man that had no success to modest success with women and ended up with a pretty wife that other men wanted was to feel that I was worth…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 10:20 PM
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They don’t like being treated like garbage, they just want to be with a man that outranks them. By treating them like garbage he is signaling that he outranks them and they are lucky to have him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:37 PM
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So you were working the I am to good for you game that can work on low self esteem dumb women. Treat women like people to get laid unless you can find stupid women with no self esteem. We can call it a personal weakness of mine but I love to see women smile and be happy. So I can’t use the I am too good for you method although acting unimpressed by women probably did help me with women. I let my future wife flirt with me for 2 days before I started flirting back and that may have helped because …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:10 PM
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Women like it when you have the courage and trust in them to be vulnerable with them. Women like to take care of their beloved emotionally up to a point. So what part of needy man do women dislike? A man needs to do what a man needs to do even if he is scared. Failing is acceptable but at least make an effort. Do not need for her to do your job. Do not let your fear cripple you. She may enjoy letting you be a needy child and her comforting you for 15 minutes but then time is up. Be a man. Face y…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:10 AM
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Don’t forget average personality. Personality matters more to women than height, looks and money combined.; The fact that women will not sleep with a broke ugly midget does not mean that personality does not matter. Women may have sex with a tall handsome guy with a bad personality but they will not be his girlfriend. Most Nice guys are not nice and most bad boys are not bad. What she says when she is complaining about the guy is only half the story. Anybody that thinks a girl owes them sex beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:06 AM
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Single at a moment in time does not mean single a year ago or single a year from now. I got no sex from age 19 to 22 but t since I had lost my virginity and had a girlfriend at age 18 I did not meet the definition of Incel. Also you are not involuntarily celebrate if you are not making much of an impact fort to get with women. I had sex with 10 women before I at 28 years old married a pretty woman but at any given point in time in my 20s I was probably single and probably had not had sex in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:35 PM
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You ignored the most important part of average, the average personality. The idea that personality does not matter is an idea being pushed by Incel/ red pill/ and purple pill people that women reject because of their bad personalities. The unwanted men do not want to believe that anything that s wrong with their personalities. Personality matters more than height, face, muscles, and money combined. So stipulate that this average man also has average personality. Truly average man will get truly …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:18 PM
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Real nice guys do not complain. Some of the bad boys are real nice guys. The guys that complain that they are nice guys and women still do not like them are not real nice guys. I have my doubts about whether these self proclaimed nice guys would put down their video game to change their baby’s diaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:55 PM
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It has seemed to me that the self proclaimed “nice guys” are fake and are not actually nice. The self proclaimed nice guys seem to be less nice than the bad boys and the average guys. Thinking that a woman owes you a fuck because you opened a door for her is definitely not nice.. The guys that women don’t want have a bunch of lies to explain away being unwanted by women. Women care more about personality than men do and men do care about personality. Unwanted men do not want to admit that women …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:30 PM
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I might try dating women my own age 63 about a year from now. I care more about love than sex. My father in law who child abused my wife, got away with murdering my mother in law 2 years into my marriage and then my wife who was having child abuse flashbacks when I touched her stopped having sex with me. I am still in love with my wife and deeply respect my wife but we were separated because we fought too much. I pay my last rent in my wife’s home today. My wife died a few months ago. I kind of …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:55 PM
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You probably do not behave. Women demand more on the personality front then just a lack of bad behavior. She wants to find something to like about your behavior.. Make her laugh or do something that she can like about you. Incels and red or purple pill people like to pretend that personality does not matter because they can not handle the fact that they have bad personalities. If you have average height and looks and are getting no pussy then you either I’m not spending any time with women or yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:42 PM
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Women; even women, with good paychecks, seem to care what people think of them with the possible exception of creepy, irritating men. I do think women care what average men think of them. Incels, red pill, and purple pill men are probably 95% below average man and women don’t care so much about the opinions of below average man. These Incels, red pill and purple pill guys probably have more problems with their personalities than they have problems with their looks height and money. You cannot de…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:32 PM
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Misogyny could be an outgrowth of being lonely and angry. It might be a loop because women are not going to like misogynists which might make the misogynists lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:13 PM
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What kindness and good deeds and patience? The guys that claim to be “nice guys” normally are less kind and do less good deeds and are less patient than the guys accused of being bad boys do. And when bad boys do nice things for women they do it because they are feelings towards women where as the fake nice guys are just trying their manipulate their way into her pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:07 PM
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I think the whole point is for the men that women don’t want because they have unattractive personalities to convince themselves that nothing is wrong with their personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:54 PM
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I am old. My 20s were in the 1980s. There were always unwanted men that cried and hurt because women did not like them. But single people are a larger percentage now. I think women still want men and are not rejoicing about being feminists who have no use for men. Men getting their pay cut did not help women. Cutting men’s true inflation adjusted pay every year since the 1980s did not get women a pay raise. The rent is too damn high. So we have financial issues Gaming, social media, dating apps …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 05:28 AM
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I would date them if they had a great personality which means I would have to already know them. So I would not date obese strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:46 AM
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I was sleeping with my boyfriend Chad. I got up to pee and noticed their were 4 other women in the bed. How had I never noticed before? Apparently each had been living in my bedroom for over a year and I never noticed. I thought Chad had a lot of dressers but actually only one of them was Chad’s. Each woman had their own dresser in my bedroom. How could I have never noticed?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:22 AM
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Men never truly need sex but they sure as hell do want sex. I seriously want love. Buying sex won’t be that difficult. Buying love might not be possible. My wife who loved me good is dead. If I want more love I should try loving old women my own age and see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:16 AM
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Sex work is illegal in my country but that just raise the price to the customer same as drugs. Where there is a demand there will be a supply.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:12 AM
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After I get my 8 little house community built if I don’t die first I plan to give old women my age a try. If old women my age does not click for me I might try a young sex worker once as a one time thing just to say goodbye to sex. My marriage with my child abused wife went sexless a long time ago. When the passion calmed the part of her that felt uncomfortable being touched because of the child abuse was still there. Our love was sacred but the marriage did not go the way she or I wanted. Now s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 08:07 AM
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Going back to high school again, My friend’s extremely pretty little sister who did not know how pretty she was hung around with us. I was pretty sure that she had no attraction to me except why was she hanging out with us and being so cute. One day She and her brother and I were at a party. I stumbled accross her smoking marijuana by herself outside the party. She looked vey worried and scared. I asked her what was wrong. She told me that she was scared that I would tell her brother that she sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:27 AM
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She must have an interest in what is going on with you guys. I red some Incel writing by accident. Then I began wondering why I at only 5’ 5” was not an Incel. I knew that the problem of being a short man was real. My 2nd girlfriend lovingly told me that I would be perfect if only I was taller. She was only 16 and did not know better than to say everything she was feeling. She told me her truth: Incel theories said that at my height I should have been an Incel but I was not an Incel. How did I e…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:49 AM
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I was not a real bad boy. I just was brave enough to not care what anybody thought about me mostly because I did not really have an option to care what people thought about me. Some men and women found me not caring what people thought about me to be manly and attractive. I did not really get my little bit of bad boy mystic until after I attempted suicide and came out of that as a sort of free man at age 17. I could not be pushed around because I had nothing to lose. You could not scare me with …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:04 AM
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The unwanted men are produced the stupid ideas. My guess is that these guys want to pretend to themselves that nothing is wrong with their personalities. The few women that participate at purple all seem rational. It is half of the guys that seem delusional. A woman assured me that the guys in her real life do not think like the guys at purple pill and that this screwed up thinking is just a problem of a subgroup of guys at Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:47 AM
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What do you know about bad boys other than what women say when they complain? Do you even care to know the truth or are you just using a hypothetical bad boy as a prop in your drama? Women like men, and to the degree that bad boys seem more like men than wormy guys seem like men women will tolerate bad boys. One thing I think I figured out is that incels and purple pill guys seem to be selfish babies with no love in their hearts who are immature and know nothing about women, although they think …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:17 AM
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Women do not go for toxic masculine but they may tolerate toxic masculinity if the guy has some good qualities. Women have zero attraction to toxic masculinity. You may find the occasional very rare masochist that wants to be tortured, but she is not really attracted to toxic masculinity . What is producing all the stupid ideas at Purple pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:04 AM
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I am not sure that I could abandon a stray cat that adopted me. Most Reddit boys and young men don’t think I should have ignored my wife’s body count or stuck with my wife when she abused me. The average Reddit boy or young man can not even relate to being madly in love with your wife. They would not put down their video game to change their baby’s diaper. They would not cut their wife any slack about her bad behavior for her having been child abused. They just want to imitate what they saw on p…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:29 AM
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By redpoll logic about women liking selfish alpha men it makes sense but redpoll logic is 85% false and 15% real. Don’t take pills of any type including the ones that mother gives you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:03 AM
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I think most of the men getting rejected by women their own age that write their hurt thoughts are getting rejected because the women are feeling them as too immature. Too immature for what? Too immature to be a successful Hunter gatherer father that will do whatever it takes to keep his kids alive. That is the purpose of her instincts to reject the immature and not allow the immature to have sex with her. A guy who would not put down his video game to change his babiy’s diaper is not a guy wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:17 PM
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I have seen it before but why? What is the point? I see no humor in that meme. But you are not the only one that likes that meme. Is somebody hurting somebody? Are the long winded hurting people? Did me pissing on the stupid beliefs of the unwanted men offend you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:34 PM
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My favorite job was being a 21 year old male babysitting three little girls. I loved them and they loved me and I didn’t care that hey were not my children. Culture is as real as DNA at least through one generation. Part of you does survive by being a parent to kids that were not your own. But I would prefer that my DNA gets passed down to my descendants. ..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:02 PM
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Got two reasons why I cry away each lonely night The first one's named sweet Anne Marie and she's my hearts delight The second one is prison, babe, the sheriff's on my trail And if he catches up with me, I'll spend my life in jail Got a wife in Chino, babe And one in Cherokee First one says she's got my child But it don't look like me Set out runnin' but I take my time A friend of the Devil is a friend of mine If I get home before daylight I just might get some sleep tonight …….,.. edit I fuckin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:53 PM
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But why bother with the joke? What is funny about the joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:49 PM
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A guy should know whether or not he is married. There should be no gender gap on marriage. I understand that on anonymous penis size surveys many men with lie about the length of their penis but when the so-called scientist started actually measuring the length of the penises of random men they discovered that the anonymous surveys produced an average penis length 1 inch longer than measuring the erect penises, a random men did. I can more easily understand men lying about their penis length on …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:19 PM
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If I was dating two women who both thought they thought they had relationships with me, I might think I was single, because I am committed to either woman. One of the women needs to dump me before I will commit to the other woman .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:13 PM
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I saw some signs that relationships where they do not live together are not taken as seriously as live together relationships. They may be monogamous and having sex five times a week, but if they don’t have breakfast and dinner together and don’t sleep in the same bed, they are not a real couple.. Why because they are not like your average married couple ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:12 PM
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Didn’t watch lol. Why did you bother to post? You have something against more than one paragraph? Do you suffer from attention deficit? Did you figure out that I was not going to be nice to you and the other men that women don’t want? Why did you bother to post? I understand not wanting to read long things, I can relate to that. But why would somebody want to post about not wanting to read long things; that confuses me. Why did you post your comment about not reading?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:51 PM
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A small age gap is good. Our instincts our designed for Hunter gather tribal life with marriage to stop the males of the tribes from killing each other over jealousy and marriage and monogamy so that one male will give his all to keep his kids alive when the famine hits and other men’s kids in the tribe are dying. Imagine an animal that is 1/3 modern human that would know how to use a cell phone, 1/3 Kalahari hunter gatherer from the “gods must be crazy” movie (which you should watch) and 1/3 ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:47 PM
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Yesterday I had data for specific ages Today I only found data for at best 5 year sections. Men 25 -30 60% are single Men age 30-35 60% are not single So at what age do the majority of men become not single? Age 30? Yesterday the majority of men were not single at age 27 if my memory is correct. The age of the data matters. Covid was not good for forming couples. This trend of extra singleness has been expanding. How are the women so much less single than the men? Suspicious. Sure women are with…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:22 AM
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Majority of sources are breaking down ages as 18 to 29 and 30 to 49z. But I got more detailed age breakdowns yesterday and I will find one now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:47 AM
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I spent a 1/2 hour yesterday with Google and had more data for singleness than I wanted. I will try not do the work for you if you tell me that you are below average at your ability to use Google. If you have problems using Google then I will find a link for you. I will make a second reply to you with a link soon since you would rather that I do the google work again. I normally want 3 links on every topic and I believe the average of the data but I am only going to give you 1 link
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:39 AM
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Just Google Cohabitation and single are useful search terms. You can find plenty of studies in the first few pages of Google results that break single status down by age and gender. If you want to know what is happening specifically for 27 year old men that data exists and is easy to find. I looked at that data yesterday. I am of the opinion that most people under age 30 are competent at using Google. Am ai wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:31 AM
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Average man 25 to 30 is not single. Get the immature men out of your sample and the average man is not single. You mediocre woman that will only be with hot men is a fake woman that you and people like you have made up. Do you have any sisters?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:25 AM
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OP you are wrong about everything. Why do you talk as if you know something when you know nothing. What is motivating you and your type? I know it hurts to not be wanted by women. But I think your type mainly want to convince yourselves that you are not below average. To do this you must pretend that the average man is unwanted. The averages man is wanted after they are older than 25 and no longer immature. But you look average in the mirror and women still don’t want you. Then something is wron…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:13 AM
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Why do purple pill guys want to pretend that women do not want average men? If women do not want you then you are either below average or under age 25. Women are not going for immature young men. Personality does matter. If women don’t want you and you have average looks and are older than 25 something is probably wrong with your personality. But you claim to be a nice guy. Most guys that claim to be nice guys are less nice than the average guy, more selfish than the average guy, understand wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:12 AM
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The majority of 25 to 30 men are not single; but the men under age 25 are overwhelmingly single and skew the numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:02 AM
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Statistics say average men older than age 25 are among relationships. Purple pill men say average men are not in relationships. Who are you going to believe professional demographic statistics or the anecdotal opinions of slightly odd and slightly bitter against women young men at Reddit Purple pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:01 AM
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The word “game” in the context of picking up girls predates reality tv. It goes back at least to the 1970s and maybe further back than that. There are things that players have learned are seductive to women and charm women. Is it sociopathic to take advantage of what you know about women’s instincts when your intention is to get the woman to let you have sex with her? The advertising guys put a scantily clad women across the hood of the car in the photo of the car model they want to sell me. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:48 PM
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The principle is correct. So many more 23 year old women are in relationships than 23 year old men are but most 23 year old women are not in a relationship. If the 23 year old women are all in relationships with 26 year old men can the 23 year old men solve their problem by dating 20 year old women? It sounds logical but somehow it does not quite work. I kind of botched year 18. I should have had more sex with women at age 17-18 senior year of high school. I got more female attention at age 17-1…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:17 PM
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I assume that you are younger than age 25, right? Every generation has mostly incorrectly thought that things are new and different now. Unwanted men having online echo-chamber communities of their own in which to spread false idea about who the unwanted men are and who the women that don’t want them are is a new development. Shy and outlying men never did well with women. Women have not changed. Your generation did not invent the unwanted shy and outlying man. Women were always the gate keepers…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:31 PM
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At age 23 most men are single. At age 29 most men are in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:22 PM
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There were always unwanted men but they had no online echo chambers where they could spin a narrative together in which nothing was wrong their personalities and women don’t care about personalities. I do not feel like the women of Reddit are backing up the pill men of Reddit on their views on the current state of affairs for young single people looking for romance. Young wanted men don’t seem to talk about love and dating on Reddit. We only hear from the unwanted men and the bitter men. And yet…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:35 PM
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I am 5’ 5” I am old but I don’t think women have fundamentally changed since I was young. I do think gaming and social media have reduced the amount of time that single men and women spend together.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:19 PM
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I can’t explain the fluke woman that gave me a chance, when my personality was bad. Women giving me a chance when my personality was bad happened less than once every two years. But when my personality was partially healed by a fluke woman giving me a chance, then a new woman gave me a chance every month or 2 for a while. My good personality was always latent, but it needed me to feel relaxed before I could share the good personality side of myself with others . The fluke woman that made me thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:22 AM
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No, it was the attitude almost entirely. The proof is that when a few fluke women gave me a chance thereby fixing my attitude other women with much greater frequency, began to choose me. Instead of going years without women I was only going a month or two without one minute mostly because I wasn’t trying.. Women fixed my attitude. I did not do that. And those women gave me a chance for some reason, but those fluke women fixing my attitude is why I got my wife. When the first of those fluke women…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:47 AM
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Personality matters more than height and looks and money combined. A man with a great personality, but no height, looks or money. can get a girlfriend. A man with height, looks and money but no personality or should I say a bad personality can only get a prostitute; not a girlfriend. He can get a date, but he can’t turn that date into a girlfriend when the woman discovers that his personality is bad. So then why do the pill guys have it backwards? They pretend that personality isn’t even an issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:34 AM
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I may have felt the self pity that is common in these pill men discussions but I was never resentful. I was jealous of Chad but did not hate Chad. I wanted the pretty girl but I did not find any fault with the pretty girl for not wanting me and not giving herself to me.. The difference between the versions of me that women would have sex and relationships with and the versions of me that women would not have sex and relationships with was my attitude. But I really can’t tell guys to fix their at…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 07:17 AM
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I am not judging good and bad. I just meant unattractive to woman. I am shy and neurodivergent but when I was feeling that women might like me I became less shy and let the women see my neurodivergent self and the women liked me because I was a sweet smart kind funny kind of Neurodivergent. I was quite weird but not a bad weird. But when I was being shy and ashamed and thinking nobody would like me I was even weirder and the people were not even getting to see the good side of me that apparently…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:23 AM
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I don’t know. I would rather imagine myself being 6’ 2” With my face, the love in my heart and a gift for being funny I might have been a full blown Chad if I was 6’ 2”. With your sadder version of me I might be a miserable old Virgin man but I think I would still be too smart to believe some of the nonsense that pill people men tell each other. You are scaring me. I don’t want to think about that more unfortunate version of me. I had it hard enough in my real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 05:13 AM
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My mother did not like herself. My mom’s mom had an inferiority complex from being the poor newcomer Swedish immigrant kid in a long established English ancestry town where most people’s families had lived in the town for generations. My grandmother’s shame got passed down to me. Then both of my parents were a bit autistic and I was a bit autistic so I was a unpopular weird kid in junior high school. Luckily for me I somewhat outgrew my autism to the point that I did not always come accross as w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:53 AM
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Yes very sad. And then they wonder why women don’t want them when they don’t really want women. Crap, I may cry. I so loved being in love and it is so sad to me that increasingly more people will never get to experience being in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:00 AM
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A girlfriend told me that she was not attracted to me until I caught her when she was falling on a mountain trail. It was not that she had found me unattractive prior to me catching her as she was falling but rather she had never been interested in whether I was or was not attractive prior to me catching her. After catching her she became interested in whether I was attractive. The more she thought about whether or not I was attractive the more attractive I became.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:53 AM
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One thing guys are confused by is women developing an real physical attraction to a guy that they were not initially attracted to. Women do not know that a guy developing a physical to a woman that they were not initially attracted to is not a thing that men commonly experience. Men and women are not the same. When a woman complains that she is not developing a physical attraction to the guy that she is dating that she likes the men are thinking “didn’t you know that you were not attracted to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:36 AM
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That reminds of a friend I had that would never stop talking about how beautiful his girlfriend was. And I could tell that my friend was really being sincere and that he believed that his girlfriend was staggeringly beautiful. I did not find his girlfriend attractive. I think it is good that we don’t agree on who is hot. Everybody has a chance that somebody will find them to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:14 AM
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Isn’t game just about picking up women by taking advantage of women’s instincts by doing or saying certain things? How do you define game? Isn’t game calculated rather than just being a attractive personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:09 AM
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Adorable to women is pretty much unquantifiable. Each guy is different and why the women like these guys is different. I had a girlfriend who was a 5 who was the woman I loved 2nd most after my wife who was an 8. Why did I love that girlfriend so much more than I loved the other woman that were with me other than my wife? I have nothing. Maybe something about her laughing at my jokes. But I really can’t begin to explain why I loved that girlfriend so much more than I loved any of the other women…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 02:02 AM
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Because the people saying this are men who’s personalities women don’t like. They would not be here talking about women on Reddit if women liked them. They want to pretend everything is about looks because they are ashamed that women do not like their personalities. Go to the supermarket at 7 PM. Find the 2 or 3 couples shopping together. The men in the couples shopping are not better looking than the women or at least they did not used to be better looking before America’s women got fatter and …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 01:42 AM
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The problem is not women’s instincts or men’s looks; the problem is men’s attitudes and sometimes the man’s personality. I don’t know what guys with bad personalities can do but guys with bad attitudes might be able to attract some women if they fix their attitudes. It worked for me except that I did not really fix my attitude but rather thanks to 1 or 2 women ignoring my bad attitude my attitude fixed itself and then other women started thinking taking me to bed might be a good idea and even th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:27 AM
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Many women will want to date you if you are fun even if you are not hot. Maybe you are fun when you are with your guy friends but are you fun when you are with women? Gay guys thought I was hot but gay guys may not care about height and I am short. Some women did not care much about height and those women saved me from a world of pain because not being wanted by women was surprisingly painful. But when a few women wanted me and I started thinking women could want me then other women started want…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:06 AM
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It is a myth of the unwanted men that average looking women will not not find love and partner with average men. I understand average looking men with unattractive personalities wanting to cling to this myth in order to not realize that they have below average personalities. Being an average looking guy is bad enough without piling on that women do not like your personality. But no no no no no, average looking women are not holding out for hot men. This idea is just false. Go look at the couples…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:49 PM
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What kind of neurodivergence. I was neurodivergent but when I was confident and relaxed half of women did not mind me being neurodivergent. When I was nervous and lacking confidence women did not like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:08 AM
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The women are fine. It is the male thoughts that make me want to cry for the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:36 AM
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Without ever caring about school I still was in the 96th percentile of test takers on SAT scores. Should I have abandoned my mentally I’ll infertile wife that I adored to find a mediocre girl to breed with me? By not having children you and I are making the world’s next generation stupider.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:58 PM
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Poor people can not wait and have babies when their lives are in order because they know that their lives will never be in order. Downwardly mobile American children of upper middle class parents don’t have children because they can not raise their children in the type of conditions that they grew up in. The poor know that it is better to raise your children with the stray dogs living behind the dumpster than to not have children at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:51 PM
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A woman on Reddit said it was OK for me to be attracted to some 15 year old girls as long as the girls don’t know that I am attracted to them. Adult men weird out teenage men by wanting to have sex with them. I think most women are at peace with the fact that men of all ages are sexually attracted to teenagers. I am 60 years old now. If me wanting to not harm females was not being considered and I was just talking about who I have the strongest urge to have a one night stand casual sex with my f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:17 PM
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Yes my delightful abusive wife died last May.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:00 PM
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Men don’t care much about whether a woman is immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:46 PM
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No. That is not it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:55 AM
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Yes but lots of arguing is also normal for attractive couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:22 AM
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What study? Back when penis size was based on anonymous surveys of self reporting men my penis was smaller than average and I felt slightly sad about my penis being a little bit small. Then when “science” decided that measuring the penis size of random men replaced the anonymous surveys of self reported penis size the official median penis length shrank by 1 inch and suddenly my penis became a little longer than average. My wife had seen enough penises. I should have believed her instead of beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:10 AM
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Is there a Chad survey? Just how many women does Chad have sex with? Even Chad has his limits. Chad has a job. Sometimes Chad also just wants to play video games. Sometimes Chad has a steady girlfriend that he will not cheat on. You may want a Chad harem because you never experienced that but 26 year old Chad who could be with 10 new women per month may prefer being with just one woman. Of course there will be a new crop of young Chads to replace the Chads that are retiring from being Chads. 80/…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:54 AM
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A lot of the unwanted early 20s men will do just fine with women when they are 27 and more mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:39 AM
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Dude you replied to is right and you are wrong. You were too strong with the way you spoke for a guy that is wrong. 80/20 probably has some merit as a modifier but it is not the central force that explains how men and women mate. 80/20 is more relevant for hookups and dating apps than it is for real life relationships. The poor Chads are worn out and can not service all those women. Women want a man of their own and do not want to be a part of Chad’s Harem. Most Chad’s eventually commit to 1 wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:37 AM
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When I was young a long time ago Burt Reynolds was clearly women’s favorite face. I looked nothing like Burt Reynolds so I assumed my face was nothing special. But wait Paul Newman had women’s 2nd favorite face. Later in the 1990s women liked Brad Pitt a lot. While I looked nothing like Burt Reynolds I do bear some resemblance to Paul Newman and Brad Pitt. I had a mix of masculine bone structure and boy band androgynous prettiness. My skin was so flawless and smooth that my skin could have been …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:17 AM
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I just never noticed women recoiling from anybody in the supermarket but why would I notice women recoiling from men when I was busying shopping? Did you notice women reclining from any other men? So women don’t want me because I am too short but my face might still have made women be nice to me. I thought women were nice to everybody that did not act creepy. It never occurred to me that women who did not want me might still be showing favoritism to me because of my face..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:59 AM
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Could your self hate have made you perceive people who were not recoiling from you as being recoiling from you? Nobody ever recoils from me since junior high school. But my problem was different from yours. I was too short for most but not all women to take me seriously as a man that they could want to be held by romantically or want a relationship with. But my face was possibly a 9 face. I thought my face was a 7 but now I suspect that it could have been a 9. So me in a supermarket would be a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:37 AM
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Yup. They are just lucky in life but not evil. Had I been 7 inches taller I probably could have been a Chad because I have begun to realize that although I was not given height I apparently was given a quite attractive face. Although my personality included some autism and weirdness that women did not like I was also given a loving heart and an ability to make people laugh which women did like. Although I was a screw up who did not get a good job I had some bad boy appeal for being a Sigma male …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:27 AM
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My wife who was very attractive at age 24 became a very obese old woman. But I was still sexually attracted to her as if I was still seeing her sexy 24 year old self. It was really quite strange. There are plenty of women publicly sharing their distress over finding a man that they really like but can not get physically attracted to. From a male perspective it makes no sense. The man says “well didn’t you know that you were not attracted to him before you dated him”. I tried to explain to the yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:42 AM
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So I married a 24 year old woman when I was 28. A 35 year marriage that I could not objectively call a success except that people can’t get their heads around how much I love and respected my dysfunctional wife. My own sister can not get her head around how much I loved my wife. The Purple pill guys would not want the relationship I had with my wife because they are just boys that want girl toys and they don’t value the love that my wife and I had. I had sex with 10 women and had a couple of hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:47 AM
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I think most attractive men want the marriage to work as much as the unattractive men do. Attractive men also get their hearts broken when their marriages fail. Chad is not a robot. Chad has feelings. I am fucking jealous of Chad but I am not going to dehumanize Chad. You are undervaluing love and overvaluing sex appeal. Chad can not get the benefits of a good marriage without having a good marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:22 AM
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I am a victim of domestic violence. Luckily for me my child abused mentally Il wife (who died last May) punched like a girl. She did have me gushing blood once when she hit me with a glass bottle. Had I been the woman and her the man I would have had to leave the male version of her because the out of control rages would have been too dangerous for me if I was a woman and her a man. I could have been a taller man and a more handsome man and a better lover and she still would have exploded in rag…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 01:12 AM
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Trump was rich and destined to be president. How alpha is that. Trump’s looks were OK when he was young. Trump is fairly tall. I would tell my sisters not to marry Tump because something is wrong with Trump. Trump did not seem to have happy marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:52 AM
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I probably was a Sigma. Probably still am a Sigma even though I am old now and therefore irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:49 AM
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Attractive men have the same problem. While attractive men easily can get into relationships; attractive men have almost as much difficulty as unattractive men at making their relationships be good relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:47 AM
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Because the woman is not a hottie therefore he the observing male acquaintance does not value that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:43 AM
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You can have a high quality relationship with a low status woman. Are you saying that by rule the relationship is low quality if the female is not hot, a 8+ ? I have not seen evidence that attractive couples have higher quality relationships or happier relationships than unattractive couples have. Even money only correlates weakly with the quality of the relationships. Loving people form the best relationships. Relationships are difficult. Most couples regardless of how attractive they are have …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:42 AM
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I was nothing special for random women in a super market but no woman has ever recoiled from me in a supermarket. If I ever have anything to do with women in a super market the women were friendly to me. How did you get women to recoil from you in a super market? We’re you staring at their breasts? Are you saying that after you got thin and muscular women no longer minded you staring at their breasts?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:27 AM
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But only 10% are in the top 10% so that thinking does not help average people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:21 AM
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Something about using an authoritative style when people say things that they don’t really know bothers me. When I was a young man I used to act like I knew more than I actually knew. My wife found my fake knowledge distasteful and I agreed with her so I have scaled back on pretending to know things that I don’t know. Pill men often seem to me to be claiming knowledge that they do not really have.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:19 AM
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There is something good about those guys. He may be ugly and he may beat her and he may be in and out of prison and he may steal old ladies purses and she may know that he cheats on her and she may constantly complain to you about how rotten he is and how unfair to her he is but there is something good about that guy that she is not telling you. She is not just stupid. She is with that loser for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 12:10 AM
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I cheated once and it cost me a girlfriend that I loved. I was very young and naive. I head never thought about cheating. I had never thought that I could cheat or be cheated on. It was not a topic that my mind had considered. It was a time before Jerry Springer. So a pretty girl threw herself at me. I was not prepared for that. I had cheated before I even realized that I was cheating. I fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:59 PM
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Yes these couples of average people disprove pill thinking. People that don’t want relationships and don’t want to love and be loved can refuse to settle for their equal. They can say although I am only a 6 I demand a 9 or I will just remain single. But a pair of 3s can marry, be attracted to each other, love each other and raise children together. Feminists can insist that they are happier without a man. Insist that men are just trouble. Darwinian evolution will favor men and women that want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:49 PM
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Reddit believes in censorship. Reddit has a woke bias. Reddit believes that trans people are victims. Being unkind to victims is unkind..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 10:40 AM
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I don’t remember young women that could not have a conversation with me. I remember men that could not have a conversation with women. Women may not have to ask men out on dates but I am just talking about socially interacting with the opposite gender. Women never seemed as tongue tied as some men did. I was timid about asking women out but I got with more women who initiated things with me than I got with women that I initiated things with. I know that is not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:34 AM
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I don’t think so. Men that can’t even talk to women outnumber women that can not talk to men. The awkward men really are more awkward and it is not just about men being expected to approach women. I was an awkward young man once and then I outgrew my awkwardness. Part of it was confidence. Girls liked me as a teen but I was more awkward at 22 than I was at 18. At 25 I was more relaxed and fun than I was at 22 and women liked me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:13 AM
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No. You are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:10 AM
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Personality can get you through the door. I think a lot of unwanted men are rejecting the idea that anything might be unattractive about their personalities. The men of the pills cling to the idea that women are just basing off of looks. This idea smells like a cope for unwanted men for me. Maybe women are more shallow than women had us believing when I was young but I still believe that female attraction is more complex than male attraction. No, it is not all about looks for women and the pills…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:09 AM
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I am undecided on whether young women are really more mature than young men. But women care more about the maturity of men than men care about the maturity of women. The socially awkward young men do seem more awkward than the socially awkward young women. Young women may be more socially mature thang young men but the young men may be more mature in other ways. Women can be immature with their emotional dramas. Men can seem more practical. Men might know better what they want. But in the world …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:59 AM
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If you are annoying you are either socially immature or unloving. If you are fun and not needy women will consider whether or not you are attractive enough. You don’t have to be their looks equal if your personality is pleasant or interesting. Women will give you a try because if your personality. That is why you hear women talking about not being attracted to the guy they are dating. They were hoping to develop an attraction to the guy that they like but sometimes they just can’t be attracted t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:42 AM
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There are different kinds of immaturity. Women seem to be pretty hard on social immaturity. I think the main reason why women choose older men is because the older men are more socially mature. I think social immaturity and lack of social confidence are the biggest reasons that women reject men. I think pill men are wrong about the degree to which they think looks matter to women. Looks do matter to women but not quite as much as looks matter to men. Looks do matter to women but a man can get a …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:32 AM
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Some of the zeros 1s 2s and 3s men act like they don’t want women who are less than 6s. I think women who are 3s can be worth having as girlfriends. When I was young perhaps I would not go lower than a 3 but even being short and holding my height against me I was not lower than a 3 and I may have been a 7 for women that only cared a little about height.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:05 AM
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A few months ago a pretty young woman treated me as if I would be fun to party with. I assume she was not attracted to me because I am old. But her wanting to invite me to party with her may have still meant that she found me interesting. Had I been young her thinking I was interesting might have given me a chance with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:38 AM
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Having most women not want me because of my height was already in effect but there were a lot of women willing to ignore height. Short men probably should not use dating apps. Short men need to meet women so that women can choose to ignore height.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:31 AM
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Women always wanted height. My 2nd girlfriend lovingly told me that I would be perfect if only I was taller. I never did get my heart broken by her choosing to try out taller men because I broke her heart first when I accidentally cheated on her with a girl that threw herself at me at a party. I was not prepared to have a pretty girl throw herself at me and I fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:18 AM
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I got an extremely good personality fit for me if Ignore her mental illness which made our marriage difficult but did not decrease how much I loved her. A very good fit is quite possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:01 AM
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My wife is a past tense because she died unexpectedly last May. We had been separated at times during my 35 year marriage. She was difficult but damn did I adore her. She was an 8 out of 10 when I married her when she was 24. Of course she lost some attractiveness as she aged but I still found her very lovable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:52 AM
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Unless you are a 0-10 why are you worried about the zero of 10s. If you are a zero of 10 settle for a 3 or 4 of 10 that fits well with you. A 3 can be delightful when she loves you. A 3 can grow on you if she fits well with you. I would rather be with a 3 than be alone. My 3 girlfriend before my wife was so comfortable. We did not even have passion for each other’s personalities but it was sweet being with her. I loved her sleeping with her head on my shoulder for a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:43 AM
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I am old but I don’t believe that attraction between men and women has changed so much. Why would human instincts change? There were always men that women did not want. There were always men that were scared to talk to attractive women. Maybe guys are not as patient as they used to be. Maybe social life has declined and been replaced by gaming and guys are not meeting women so much. I seriously doubt things are so different today. The fundamentals remain the same. What I am saying is still true.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:40 AM
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I was 5’ 5” and women gave me a chance. Now maybe for the subgroup of women that did not care about height I may have been attractive. I think me just liking women and being a little playful with them got me in the door. Try practicing playing with the women you don’t like so much. Making the 5 woman liking you may help you learn to relax with the scary 8 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:34 AM
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My wife was at least an 8. I am only 5’ 5” but might face may have been significantly better than I realized. My face may have been quite handsome. But that was not it. My wife and I were good fits for each other, had shared interests and played very well together. She chose me before I had a chance to show her how funny I can be but I can be very funny. Maybe being funny helped me keep her. I don’t believe looks matter more than personality. Personality is not so much a 1-10 thing but rather ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:23 AM
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I think you pill guys are idiots. You are young men missing out on the delightfulness of young women probably mostly because young women find your immaturity unappealing. Forget pills. Women like being treated lovingly more than you guys understand. Now if you can’t love then nothing will work. If you can’t joke and play with women things will be difficult but pills won’t be as effective for getting with women as playing with women and loving women would be. But what if you guys are not capable …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:15 AM
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Holy crap 12 years old. Adult men? I admit being attracted to some 15 year old girls but I would never allow myself to let 15 year old girls know that I found them attractive. I grew up in a sheltered gentle wealthy town but I don’t even remember seeing 14 year old girls getting sexual attention from adult men. Most I remember is my adult supervision man looking at 16 year old me and my new 15 year old girlfriend with a look on his face that said “aren’t they cute with their young love”. No lust…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 02:03 AM
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Ask her permission to kiss her and kiss her. Isn’t that enough at least for the beginning?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:58 AM
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X
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:57 AM
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X
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:55 AM
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I was 16 and her 15, We played games and talked. She taught me the Asian game “go”. Like I said, 1st girlfriend. She had a nap in my arms my first day with her. She was tired from white water canoeing. But I probably was not her first boyfriend. She probably wanted me to feel her up and I did not do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:41 AM
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From purple pill I get the impression that young men know absolutely nothing about women but even worse the young men of Purple pill incorrectly think that they know something about women. But a young woman at Reddit assured me that young men in the real world are not like the young men of Purple Pill. My 1st girlfriend did not think I was gay until I did nothing sexual with her for months. Assuming you were gay because you did not put a move on her in the first few hours sounds extreme to me. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 01:34 AM
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I was a chicken about communication well into my 20s and the girls and women I was with were also chickens about communication. My cowardice was so ridiculous that I find it kind of funny now. But I could have had more fun with those teenaged girls and young women had I not been a coward. Some of my nerdy male friends did not even have teenaged girlfriends and were afraid even to talk to girls so maybe I should be grateful that I even had teenaged girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 11:22 PM
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Average men can date if their personalities are OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:31 PM
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My first girlfriend decided that I was gay and tried to hook me up with her gay male friend of hers before dumping me. I was just trying to be a gentleman. She could have asked me if I was attracted to her. She could have told me that I did not need to be a gentleman and that she wanted more sexual behavior from me. I did not know that girls had sex drives. I thought that my sex drive was offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:23 PM
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Spouses are coaches even if they are the same age. You are a team. Nobody has all the answers already. You help each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:18 PM
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Not working well for men at all. Men are on a bad path.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:52 PM
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Men seem to suddenly be helpless babies that can’t pick at all and can only sit home on Reddit making stupid theories about women that complain about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:43 PM
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Women should choose better men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 12:05 PM
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Idiots. Stop thinking and just love women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:52 PM
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When in doubt just blame women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:40 AM
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Stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:59 PM
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No no, Not possible. All women care about is male looks. Haven’t you been listening to our male experts on women at Purple Pill. Just because they have never had a girlfriend does not mean they are not experts. Listen to how authoritative they sound. They sound like tenured professors to me. Are you claiming to know more about women just because you are a woman than some autistic virgin boy who writes anonymous comments in the style of a tenured professor?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 01:00 AM
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No no that is not possible. We need a panel of male virgins to explain to you that women don’t care about personality and only care about how a main looks. How dare you think you know more about women just because you are one than the male virgins educated for years by Reddit Purple Pill know about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:52 AM
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Rock chip in the eye sounds more like a final straw than the cause. Maybe the final straw was how they fought about the rock chip in the eye. As a male baby sitter 40 years go I probably let the kids take more chances than a female would have let them take. Women did not stop me from being with the kids my way but I think me letting 3 year old girls climb trees made women nervous. One mom told me not to swing the kids by their arms which the kids loved. I adjusted to holding them by their armpit…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:10 AM
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You must be a 21 year old semi-autistic man who has never had a girlfriend to be an expert on women. I think the main reason women divorce is because the marriage has gotten ugly. Fighting got out of control and the love could not overcome the anger and the love faded. Women don’t like feeling disrespected. Men can be too lazy at everything from chores to lovemaking to working on the relationship and healing fights. Many divorces are too unique to fit into a category. My high school girlfriend’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:33 PM
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What is the source of the evidence that women are mostly divorcing men mostly because they are not physically attracted to their partner? Everything that I think I know says that not being physically attracted to their partner is not a top 3 reason for why women divorce. This purple pill making up of fake facts is something that irritates me about many guys that post in purple pill. It is one thing to believe things that are not true because you want to believe them but when you try to convince …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:15 PM
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My wife was a friend of my best friend and his girlfriend. She came over to where we were living to visit my friends and she flirted with me for 2 days. Then I flirted back. A month later we were in love. I don’t remember exactly how it happened. We had all traveled to Pune India to be with Osho. Love just happened. We played well together. There was no dating as we think of dating. Not that we did not make plans and do things together and become inseparable but we were in an unusual place and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 06:01 AM
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I think my best friend and his girlfriend talked so good about me that my future wife was flirting with me as soon as she met me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:35 AM
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I am old now. My wife has died. There is an art to approaching women tastefully. I think I erred too much on the side of caution. But I really did not want to risk making women uncomfortable and I was not all that OK with being rejected and I was a bit of a coward about approaching women. I think I should have approached 40% more women than I did. Even if I approached 40% more women I still would not have been approaching many women. I got with more women that approached me than I got with women…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:11 AM
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Why? My wife flirted for 2 days before I started seriously flirting back. I lost my virginity to a girl that basically jumped me and started dry humping me. I don’t see the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:34 AM
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I was not afraid to look stupid when making jokes. I was pretty silly and women liked me being silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:12 AM
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But if the main objective is to pretend that women are not rejecting them for their personalities then I think the unwanted men echo chamber is effective at helping them convince themselves that they are being rejected for reasons other than an unattractive personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:38 PM
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Because it is a sub for men that women don’t want. The are trying to explain women to themselves in ways that hurt them the least. The thing they most do not want to believe is that their personalities are unattractive to women. Apparently these guys think their height is not them so being rejected for being too short is almost tolerable but their personality is almost who they are so being rejected for having a unattractive personality is almost like rejecting who they are, rejecting their soul…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:22 PM
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Meet women. Have fun with women. Find a way. Get it done. Don’t expect instant results.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:39 AM
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If you divide 100 random women in to ten equal groups based on their attractiveness relative to each other you get 10 groups of 10. You get the same results if you divide me men into 10 groups of 10. In looks match the women as a whole are by definition equally attractive as the men. I am not attracted to men but then I am a man. The space alien I was talking to burst out laughing and thought the question of whether male or female humans were more attractive was ridiculous because the space alie…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:22 PM
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Since males and females are judged on separate scales that have identical bell curves the women in total can not be more attractive than the men. I think the woman are more attractive because I am a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:03 PM
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When I was young I would have preferred more attention from women and less attention from gay guys but the gay guys never really irritated me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:06 PM
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It is a taste. Whatever you like is fine as long as you don’t complain when you get what you wanted. Zero clinginess would probably not work for me I want to feel wanted. Too much clingy can be annoying but I will tolerate it if she makes me feel loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:29 PM
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Do I like her personality? Is she fun? How much does she like me? Am I also mediocre?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:20 PM
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What are people supposed to do? Do you want the government to arrange marriages. You get a notice from the government that you are getting married in 3 weeks and this person will be your spouse. Do we want the people who ran COVID to be put in charge of dating? Or just let the cruel dating tradition that hurts below average people to continue and tough luck if you are below average. Women don’t feel like settling. Men also don’t really feel like settling. Quirky idiosyncratic love from meeting p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:07 PM
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Why did you get downvoted. Some purple pill guys are just wieners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:10 AM
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Mostly I don’t know why the women who were with me were with me but a few times women were with me because I was loving towards them. Not a doormat, loving.. Nice guy is not the same as loving.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:05 AM
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Blue pill seems very unpopular here. Maybe purple pill should change it’s name to Burgundy pill or crimson pill or rose pill because it is closer to red pill than blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:03 AM
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End game in what way? After they finish gaming they end up crying at Purple Pill? Or Purple Pill teaches them how be with women? I really don’t Purple Pill teaches men how to be with women. If anything I think Pueple Pill ideas make men less capable of being with women. All Purple Pill is good for is copes for men that women don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:48 AM
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If you do not want to be friend zoned let her know early that you have romantic interest in her. You can still be her friend if you can handle that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:48 AM
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If am man leaves a friendship after rejection was it really a friendship? Losing a friendship is not nothing. She thought she had a friend but really she just had a guy that wanted something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 03:46 AM
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But shit, I am going the ugly woman credit for me being able to marry my beloved, does that count for nothing? I am a bit confused at how I was negative towards women. Just because I admit that ugly women exist? I was grateful for that ugly woman even though I would not accept her as my girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:30 AM
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No, opposite sex friendships are not the men giving more than the women give. The only gender difference is how much the men want to fuck their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:38 AM
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No not a shitty existence. It all comes down to how much you are loved. Being settled for does not mean that you are not deeply loved or that your partner will always look for somebody better. Not being OK with being settled for is about insecurity and jealousy. I need a virgin because I don’t want her to have experienced anybody better in bed than me. If she loves you enough then screw all that insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:05 AM
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A pretty 19 year old instagram model that lived in the same house with me had just broken up with her boyfriend and was showing me naked photos of herself to get my opinion on her modeling career. My friend, boss and co-worker told me that I was a moron because I did not understand that the instagram model was flirting with me. I did not want that well younger hot instagram model as my girlfriend because I did not think our personalities would work together. I was ambivalent about casual sex wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:40 PM
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My wife was the love of my life but I was not the love of my wife’s live and that was OK because my wife loved me plenty. Her high school boyfriend who cheated on her with both of her best friends was the love of my wife’s life and could never be knocked off of his pedestal. My wife thought his music was great; I heard his music and it was not great. Her ex-boyfriend never held a job and lived of his wife’s income. But that jerk was the love of my wife’s life. My wife did not want him back. Bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:25 PM
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A lot of hot women get annoyed by excess male attention. Do Chads ever get annoyed by excess female attention? If your not Chad I see no reason why you should be treated like Chad. In a perfect communism where money and even attraction is equal maybe all men should be treated like Chad. Being less wanted by women hurts but I never blamed women and even though I was jealous of Chad I was not even close to being an Incel. I would have liked to have been more attractive to women but you could do wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 07:11 PM
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At Reddit I am seeing more bitter men than bitter women but maybe that is because I “joined” purple pill as one of the first subs that I joined without really knowing what purple pill was. In my younger days before the internet I was more aware of women bitter against men than I was aware of men bitter against women. When I joined Reddit I coincidentally had been learning about Incels and their thinking and was wondering why short 5’ 5” me did not become an Incel. I am no Chad. I had some womanl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 06:25 PM
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No I don’t watch movies or TV. I found TV to be to boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:00 PM
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Your base data is probably OK but don’t be so sure about that. Women saying that they are currently in a heterosexual relationship more than men think that they are currently heterosexual relationship with a suspicious. I don’t think Chad having 2 girlfriends is the right answer. Having 2 girlfriends would be like a job. A girlfriend and a few booty call girls would be doable but I don’t think the booty call girls would think they are girlfriends. You have identified a problem or at least I thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:55 PM
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Problem is that theories about society wide trends are often BS. We have below average men with bad personalities pretending to themselves that they are average men and pretending to themselves that they don’t have a personality that is unattractive to women and pretending that women are dominated by visual body attraction as men are and that personalities has nothing to do with what attracts women. I don’t want struggling average boys to be influenced by the cope theories of below average men t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 04:06 PM
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The average man is desirable and is partnering up with average women. The problem is that below average men and women are not wanting each other. The other issue is below average men pretending to themselves that they are average men when really they are below average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 05:45 AM
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She is dead now and I was delighted by her when she was alive. She was great but she had serious flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 03:43 AM
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At 2xchromoson i commented on a post from a woman who gets no attention from men and suspects she might be unattractive. I promptly got permanently banned from 2xchromosones This comment of mine got me banned: I had sex with an ugly woman that wanted me. I was mostly an unwanted man who was anxious and sad about being unwanted. I was not relaxed or playful when I felt like women would not want me. I had had 2 earlier phases of women wanting me but I had reverted back to my anxious feelings that …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:10 PM
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Every woman except my wife was nice to me. Wife was dealing with child abuse trams so she gets a pass. My wife made me feel so loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 09:01 PM
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A player maybe could go to the mall and get a date. I could not do that. My height probably would have got me shot down and my shyness would not even let me try to get a date at the mall. I have never hit on a woman that I had not known for at leas 2 months. I was only hitting on women that I thought liked me as a person. More women got with me by the women hitting on me than by me hitting on women. I was pretty chicken.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:57 PM
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My wife was only woman that has been mean to me but she also is the woman that made me feel the most loved.. She was child abused and had major trauma from that. She had PTSD and BPD. I could not expect her to be normal and I forgave her for everything including hitting me with a glass bottle and making me bleed and for our bedroom going dead because being touched activated her child abuse PTSD. She was not sexually molested just regularly beaten up from the time she was a baby through her teena…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:37 PM
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Harmless unless they won’t stop tailing about astrology. But it might be a sign that they don’t think clearly. I might not want that as the mother of my children. If I am just having fun with the woman then I don’t care if she is into astrology.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:17 PM
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Butter is good stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:38 PM
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Do you find men more desirable as people? Most not fat young women were attractive to me sexually. But the point was to find one that was also attractive as person who also finds you attractive sexually and attractive as a person. I had sex with 11 women and had a couple high school girlfriends that I did not have sex with, I absolutely wanted to marry my wife. 1 high school was probably somebody that I would have been happy to be married to but I lost her by cheating on her. 1 girlfriend that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:36 PM
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I just hate big Pharma. Pills don’t improve understanding of women. Pills just make people delusional. Now butter on the other hand might improve your understanding of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:27 PM
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I think men are designed to love women except that maybe some men can’t love. You can understand women and love women. Some women will be difficult. Some women will use you. Some women will be selfish. Some women will be mean. Some women will be idiots some women will be bitter but so what the same is true about f men Women are not worse than men. What you are saying is not true. Women are not vampire squids. You can both understand women and love women. You got twisted. Do you have a sister? Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:04 PM
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Women are not perfect sweet little loving princesses but that is as far as I go with my pill. If you find it hard to not dislike women then you don’t know the truth about women. What happened to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:54 PM
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Isn’t Tinder for sex not romance. A woman can get sex through Tinder. I did not like the customers of prostitutes. Just the imagining myself as a woman who is only allowed to date the customers of prostitutes then I think I would not date. I am sure that tinder men are better people and more attractive than the customers of prostitutes but are tinder men good people?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:46 PM
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Fair enough, but it is complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:43 AM
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Homeless black men under 3 foot 2. Are you sure it isn’t just 1 guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 07:35 AM
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Aren’t you supposed to give her a massage using the butter as massage oil?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:35 AM
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Thanks. I like nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:49 AM
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How common are women under 5’ tall? I Ave met some under 5’ tall but even though I am 5’ 5” the 11 women I had sex with and my high school girlfriends I did not have sex with were all over 5’ 3” and some were taller than me. A 5’ or under co-worker once showed interest in me but I was not in the right frame of mind to do anything with her at that tmw
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 05:04 AM
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I suspected that men in real life were not like the purple pilll men but it relieves me to hear that the men in real life are not like the purple pill men because I was about to start crying for the young men and young women if the purple pill attitudes were the real life attitudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:35 AM
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Women love when a strong man is vulnerable with them and is willing to share his fears with them. But she still wants a strong man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:55 AM
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I think average and below average men men may be wasting their times on dating apps. Women won’t find the unique good qualities that on the surface average men have on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:51 AM
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Yah, butter against women.Rub butter on the women. Sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:42 AM
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I like true love fairy tales. And I damn near had a true love fairytale if I ignore all of the difficult parts of my marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:31 AM
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Women even in my day were preferring more mature boys and finding the boys their own age to be too immature. We’re the girls really more mature than the boys and young men their own age? Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:23 AM
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Because I don’t know any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:17 AM
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My wife hit me often but she could not hurt me. It would have been wrong for me to hit back. She was child abused And PTSD and BPD. When she was not hating me she loved me so much. My sweet wife I loved her so much. She died I don’t think I ever saw a girl hit a boy when I was in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:15 AM
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Women have always been nice to me even when they did not want me. I always have been attracted to most women. I think women are cute. Young women sometimes still try to be my friend for no reason. I don’t understand men not liking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 03:06 AM
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I am an old man bitter against men that are bitter against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:56 AM
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Your broken hearted teenaged cousins killed themselves? Oversensitive? I fell pretty hard for girls and women but still. I attempted suicide at age 17 so I guess I am also oversensitive but my issue was feeling like a fake person when my brother’s death led me to discover that I was just imitating my brother and my father.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:52 AM
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Mostly 1980s. High school stuff is late 1970s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:21 AM
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I think women are pretty damn cool too. I don!t understand the bitterness against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:19 AM
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My 2nd girlfriend, just holding hands with her laughing at my jokes, no sex, she was 16 years old. Anyway she looked up into my eyes, not sure how that happened, she was 5’ 7” and me 5’ 5” And she said to me with love in her eyes and love in her voice “you would be perfect if only you were taller”. Guess where I went with that rejoicing because she loved me and thought I was almost perfect or feeling like shit because I was not tall enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:22 AM
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OK I am a boomer but is gen Z really so different than boomers? I have heard this show hate against short men thing a few times but I am suspecting the hate was for a bad personality not shortness. I am short and I have never received hate from women but I barely hit on women. Was the hate received while hitting on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:03 AM
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5’ 5” me had 10 sexual partners before I met my wife at 28. Not a lot sexual partners but I was not making effort to get sexual partners. Lost my virginity at 18 so I was only averaging 1 per year until I married. A few years I had no partners some years I had a few partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:51 AM
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If it is 1 in 100 the I must have been a super magnet to the 1% that could be with me. 1 thin the one to 5 in 100 is just how many prefer height in dating apps. Women drop their preferences when they meet a guy that they like. I think it is only 1/4 that just can’t be with a short guy. Most of the 1/4 prefer tall guys but not to the point that they will turn down a short guy that they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:47 AM
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63 years old. Stick a fork in me, I am done. My 35 year difficult but love filled marriage recently ended because my wife died. I may try dating women own age next year after I have built my house. But I am scared that I might not be able to have romances like I did when I was young without the visual attraction. But I have memories of my 20s and teens before I married my 24 year old wife when I was 28. I don’t really believe that anything has fundamentally changed about attractions between men …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:28 AM
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When I was not in a dry spell I had nothing to complain about. I married a pretty woman that other men would have loved to steal away from me. She was fabulous, perfect fit for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:17 AM
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Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:11 AM
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Since shallow women did not want me and I did not want shallow women I guess I lived in a world without shallow women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:52 PM
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My autism prevented me from hanging out at bars. I can be funny but even if I could hang out in bars my shyness would have prevented me from Turing on the comedian side of me for a woman I just met in a bar. I have never hit on a woman that I had not known for at least 2 months but I have had women that did not know me hit on me and I could flirt back if the woman started it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:40 PM
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I am probably primarily a sigma male which might have helped women find me a bit attractive despite me only being 5’ 5” I don’t know what manisphere means
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:31 PM
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What is IRL? In real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:27 PM
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I am typing on an iPhone. If I hit the wrong key misspelled bitter and women get changed by spell check into butter and wine. Apparently my spellcheck is hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:26 PM
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I don’t think the height thing is BS for the majority of women but if only 1/4th of women could want a man as short as me that still left a huge group of women who could want a man as short as me. But still even if 3/4 of women could not want me because I am too short women also can’t want a man with a bad personality? But height is so much easier to measure and to talk about than personality is to measure and talk about. I think personality matters more than height even though height means that…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:08 PM
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Oops, bitter against women not bitter against wine. I don’t know how to edit that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:36 PM
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You don’t think my post title is neural enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:34 PM
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My similar post that I think was taken down by a moderator was taken down for being a rant that did not comply with CMV format. Being bitter against women will make it harder to attract women. I don’t want innocent 16 year boys to be influenced by the theories of bitter 23 year old men that women don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 10:31 PM
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There people who like opposite gender friends and people that don’t like opposite gender friends and only befriend opposite gender when they have an opening for a boyfriend or girlfriend. When a man looking for a girlfriend offers woman friendship it is kind of a lie if he only really wants the woman as a girlfriend. If the woman accepted the man’s offer of friendship only to have the offer of friendship rescinded be she is not somebody he will ever get to fuck the woman got hurt because she wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:45 PM
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We are at purple pill. The problem here isn’t the women. The problem here is bitter men reinforcing each others bitter stupid beliefs. I don’t know where you have been where the women oppressed you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:28 AM
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Women read something but unconsciously. Women did not want me when I did not feel worthy of being with a woman but when I felt worthy of being with a woman then women wanted me. What changed? I got a bit more mature and one woman chose me. After one woman chose me I felt like maybe I was worthy of being with women and I got more relaxed and playful with women and other women started choosing to be with me so I got more relaxed and felt more worthy.. We all read personalities to some degree. We a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:43 AM
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Do you have a girlfriend? What makes you are the authority? If all the women has to go by on a dating app is a photo then she will chose the best photos. But in the real world women are much more complex than just wanting looks. In the world where men and women are socializing and meeting each other’s personalities looks are less than half of what makes a woman interred in having a particular guy for a boyfriend. Looks matter more when a woman just wants casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:30 AM
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Boy men of purple pill, Don’t tell women what they are when you never had a girlfriend and don’t know women and don’t go ruining the other young men that women don’t want yet with your stupid theories. Some of the guys have potential to be wanted by women as they get more mature if you don’t confuse them with your stupid bitter theories.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:22 AM
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Purple pill womanless boys: Women may be shallow but they are not as shallow as men so quit your bitching. You probably never even had a girlfriend so stop pretending to be an expert on women. The theories you have about women are just to pretend that the problem is women and not you. I was only 5’ 5” and some women chose to be with me. I cared about women and loved women and that is probably why I got women and selfish immature you can’t get women. Most average women have and average boyfriend …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 01:07 AM
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The best hunter is attractive. The modern version of the best hunter is the rich man. I think the transition from chimpanzee like man to modern man happened on an overpopulated island where shellfish was the main food and their were no animal predators but nasty humans were the main danger. Even now nasty humans are the main danger. If you overpopulated us thereby giving us a greater incentive to kill each other we would be living in a brutal world where defending ourselves from other human woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 05:12 PM
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Regular Mihousee. Simpson character right? But I forget what Mulhouse was like.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:45 AM
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Come on. Kink is the wrong word. When you are faced with a situation that is not in the playbook the solution will also not be in the playbook. My anti-immature selfish men rant was intended for men but I thought I saw something that made me think you were a woman.. So let me translate my sports jargon. Playbook is a list of plays/maneuvers like choreographed dances that a football team has practiced and will use in particular situations. My situation was not anticipated by the experts so the ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 01:33 AM
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Other humans. A tall man with a stick beats a short man with a stick. I believe Aquatic ape theory answers question about evolution better than Savana theory or any other theory does. Semi real science always rejects change, especially change popularized by a housewife who did not have the correct degrees. But that housewife had the better theory so aquatic ape theory should eventually wi out. So imagine that 4 chimpanzee like creatures wash up onto an island of the coast of east Africa. There a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:06 AM
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In my case holding the line against physical abuse would have been immaturity and insufficient love. Set general for rules do not apply to all situations. Zero tolerance for physical abuse is a good general rule but me applying that rule in my case would have been immaturity, selfish, stupid and unloving. There are exceptions to every rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:30 PM
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I talk about her all the time to anybody that will listen and to some that won’t listen. When we were in India we used to swing on the banyan tree roots together. We often rode our bicycles or took a rickshaw to the fancy hotel cafe for midnight snacks. I took her to the Aquarium in Boston which unexpectedly to me meant a lot more to her then I ever could have imagined. She liked that I knew her well enough to know what she would like and she said “because nobody ever took her anywhere before.” …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:16 PM
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We should take you to scout basketball players. Both pros and college have a habit of lying about heights. Which ends up with fans arguing about heights.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:07 PM
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I might have been hot but I did not know it. I was only 5’ 5” Now I am old. My wife just died after a 35 year marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:56 PM
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Where is the boundary between chasing a guy and flirting with a guy? Have I ever been chased? That depends on how you define chased. I certainly have had a number of women initiate something with me. My wife had to flirt with me for a couple of days before I started flirting back. I lost my virginity to a girl that saw me at a party and decided to grab me and dry hump me in public. Not a long chase and I either disappointed her or she just wanted sex and never was looking for a boyfriend. Anothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:38 PM
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I had a mix of masculine features and androgynous boy band prettiness. Gay guys hit on me a lot. My grandmother told me that my skin was wasted on a boy. A girl could be a pretty girl with my skin. Not masculine skin but with some masculine bone structure my skin was not too feminine. I do have blue eyes. White, German English Swedish. Blond hair that usually had a healthy glow. No male pattern baldness even now that I am old. I am not healthy but my skin still looks young and heathy. A masculin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:57 PM
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I am 5’ 5” pretty damn short but at least I am not 5’ 2”. Women know I am short and can tell the difference. I never had much money. I am weird and a little autistic. I can almost pass for normal. In some ways I can sometimes be better than normal which can be interesting for a woman. I think some girls did not reject me for being weird and autistic because I was kind of sweet and kind of interesting so my weirdness did not seem bad. If a woman could get past my strange delivery the things I sai…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:13 PM
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I am exaggerated some. Her punches did not physically hurt me but her intent to hurt me hurt some psychologically. She punched like a girl and that taught me that women should never think they can fight a man and Buffy the vampire slayer is fake. That actress who I though was sexy also would not be able to hurt me without a weapon. I got hit with glass bottles twice and bled a lot once. I got hit with plastic spatulas 20 times. They made minor cuts on my arms but they broke and I had to keep buy…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:21 AM
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You never know with girls. Sometimes they just want you. I did not look gift horses in the mouth so I don’t know why they wanted me. I think Reddit purple pill is dominated by men women don’t want but women did want me some so I can’t really relate to the world you guys are living in. I am short. Somebody forgot to tell the women that I was too short to want. I was jealous of other guys that more women wanted but after reading purple pill I am starting to feel like I was lucky. I understand why …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:47 AM
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Does she have competition? Does somebody better looking want date me? I am old now. Nobody better looking is likely to show up. I will take plain Jane and be happy with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:36 AM
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So what. Women are still vulnerable. In the past where instincts come from rape may have been more common than it is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:47 PM
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Men have little to lose although my 2nd girlfriend who I loved dumped me for kind of sort of cheating on her. I took off another girl’s shirt and let her show me her breasts. Busted, yes I cheated but I was young and stupid. Men are so much stronger than women, that matters. Some men get fixated on a woman and stalk them. Women can’t risk having babies with a bad partner. She can’t have a good partner if she is having babies with a bad partner. Human Instincts don’t know that birth control exist…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:38 PM
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Most women are pretty good at getting rid of manipulative creeps that want to use them. But some women omen are not as good at detecting and getting rid of bad people like red pill players and those women that are susceptible to being manipulated by creeps a whole red pill will work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:26 PM
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So if 60% of attraction is personality but personality is not quantifiable pretend personality does not exist. Even facial preferences are difficult to quantify so maybe we should pretend faces don’t exist and just stick to money and height.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:18 AM
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Anther story from high school because I really have no idea why the women that chose to be with me in my 20s chose to be with me. I am only 5’ 5” and never had money so by personality doesn’t matter belief system about female attraction I should have been doomed to being an Incel unless my face was extremely attractive. I can’t rule out the possibility that maybe, perhaps my faice might’ve been extremely attractive.. I didn’t think I had a face that was better than a 7 on a 1 to 10 scale-Years l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:57 AM
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I think I have enough Karma that ai can afford to give those bitter men that women don’t some shit now and then. They are endlessly blabber their theories and their self pity. They oversimplify attraction which is really very complex. They don’t even know women and they pretend to be the experts on women. I am getting annoyed at these self puttying dweebs who won’t even consider that that parts of their personalities are part of their problem. Was I like them when 1 was a 15 year old dweeb? No w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:22 AM
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Yah your right initial attraction. Personality is more about keeping the woman but personality can be a negative in the initial attraction phase as well There are 2 kinds of personality, That which you learn slowly and that which you meet in the first few hours. And then mannerisms. Suppose she likes or dislikes sound of his laugh? That could get him in the door or kick him out if she was on the fence about the guy. A women meets a lot of a guys personality in the first hour of meeting. She is b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:51 AM
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Nothing to do with the personality is a lie that (men that women don’t want) tell themselves to protect their self esteem. “We are good people. Women just don’t want us.” No half of you are bad people and the other half just act weird around women because you panic. Personality counts more than looks. Personality is complex and not easy to talk about. Good on Red pill for knocking down the lie of the noble female for whom looks don’t matter but swing to the other extreme and asserting that perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:27 AM
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My 2nd girlfriend (her 16 me 18) told me with love in her eyes and love in her voice that I would be perfect if only I were taller. I almost could not hear her love and that she thought I was perfect because I was distressed and no being tall enough. I have a great pick up technique that can get the short boys laid. Love the women. Women love being loved. But you be all vulnerable and the women can break your heart. If the women chose some other guy after loving you and being loved by you just k…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:43 AM
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But good lord what if it is your personality? Your personality is like almost you. So I like what you are saying. If women don’t ever want you you are not attractive. Don’t get mad at the women it isn’t their fault. Lobby Congress for a mercy fuck program. We could use the money spent in Ukraine to fund mercy fucks. But you mention DNA but don’t mention personality. Why are the hurt boys insisting that everything is looks and personality has nothing to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:28 AM
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Please you babies. Red Pill may have something to teach but it is ugly. If you want women give them love. If you are too selfish to love then you can try red pill to exploit the weaknesses of women. Women are not the enemy. You getting hurt because women don’t want you helps nothing. Them not wanting you is not their fault. Real men don’t blame women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:10 AM
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When I was a young man it seemed to be women bitching about men not committing. Now it seems to be the men that women don’t want going insane because women don’t want them. Whatever pills and Incels are trying to tell women who women are. Since when did the men women don’t want become the authority on women? Incel and whatever pill theories are mostly about helping the men that women don’t want to blame anything but their personalities for why women don’t want them. It is OK to be ugly or short …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:48 AM
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If only everything could be reduced to calculations. Your theories sound reasonable but it sounds like women are saying “that’s not how it works in the real world”. Thinking things could be reduced to theories and calculations might be a sign that the speaker has little experience with the real world. Real world may be to complex to calculate. Hope you can feel your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:30 AM
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Mike Tyson is an exception to the general rule. I know that we short guys may not like admitting that the average tall guy will beat the average short guy in a fight but come on we all know the truth. There are plenty of exceptions. I was probably one of them but now I am dealing with the average young guy will beat the average old guy in a fight. Short and old; I better not get in fights. I don’t feel scared enough to get a weapon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:30 PM
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Unnatural selection like what occurs with breeding can make rapid changes quickly. We could make a breed where female dogs would be highly resistant to breeding with short dogs. But natural selection makes changes much slower than unnatural selection by breeding does. Is there any reason why the last 10,000 years should have created a stronger female preference for taller men than the previous quarter million year of Hunter gather culture did? One our species has become a species where the femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:16 PM
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Maybe you are half confusing me for somebody else. I never said short people are smarter. The main advantage of short people is that they require less food. I was short and wide (not fat) and strong. It was easier for me to move through thick forest ducking under branches or smashing branches that I could not duck under. When breeding animals or plants placing extreme selective pressure on that which we are breeding we can create something like a desire for a taller mate quite quickly if we sele…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:28 PM
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She is wearing Gucci to put the other women down or to worship at the alter of fashion. Actually I am a guy; I don’t know why she is wearing Gucci, can you help me out women? I don’t think she is wearing Gucci to get men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:54 PM
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I very much value the ability of any woman that I would partner with to have intelligent original thoughts. I like to have conversations with women and I don’t want to be bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:49 PM
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My buddy and I care a lot about the intelligence of the women that we might partner up with. Later in life I decided that a fun woman overflowing with love would make me happier but my instinct is still to chose the smart women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:45 PM
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I think the last 10,000 years is probably not enough time for women to develop a preference for taller men so I look to the precedence hunter gather quaternary million years. Even now women say they feel protected by tall men. I war the number of men usually matters more than the height of men. I think it must be about the tall man’s ability to protect the woman but to protect the woman from what type of threat?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:38 PM
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Fitting in is why Germans went along with the holocaust. But dear all of our neighbors are turning in Jews so we should really tell the authorities about the Jews living accross the street. Science progresses as new better science replaces old faulty science but the fitter inners resist change and huddle in terror and shout burn the witch when new better ways emerge. Had we lived in the same generation and place I think you and I might have liked each other; i think you might have been my kind o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:25 PM
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Hunter gather society similar in to what exists today in the few remaining hunter gatherers is the way of living that our DNA / instincts are optimized for. Farming, nation states, professional soldiers protecting farmers from herders in exchange for taxes, trade beyond what Hunter gatherers did, specialized labor, cities and bureaucracy are all things that our Instincts and DNA have not had time to be optimized for because all of these new non-Hunter-gather ways of living have not been around f…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:06 PM
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The way I read the tea leaves conservative fighting with liberals over trans issues is now T just something the liberals and conservatives ives decide on o do on their own. I think the ruling system’s propaganda assets went from not liberal and conservative community and pushed them to fight each other over trans issues. I don’t believe that enough conservatives and liberals naturally care enough about trans issues to fight each other over trans issues on their own. I think both conservatives an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:48 PM
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There is a trend. It may skip a generation. Nutrition matters. But height is hereditary. Height comes from both the mother and the father and short men also tend too have short daughters but men like short women just fine so having short daughters won’t be likely to reduce the number of grandchildren where as short boys have a higher chance of not finding a wife. Both of my grandfathers were 5’ 5” My mother was 5’ 2” her brothers were both over 6 foot. My mom’s mom was from Swedish heritage and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:34 AM
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Would you tell men that they smell good or keep that to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:22 AM
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What happens to the wife of a short man in hunter gather society? Maybe the problem is that short men have short sons and short sons have problem getting mates therefore in a self fulfilling prophecy a woman hurts her generational success by having short sons because she married a short man. If the clan turns on each other and start killing each other it is better to be married to a taller man that people are scared of. I was 5’5” and did OK with women.. I was half way between Chad and Incel but…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:16 AM
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What are they doing with you if they are not attracted to you? My firstgirlfriend decided I was gay because she did not feel like I was attracted to her. I was attracted to her, I was just trying to be a gentleman. Why Neuro divergent. I think I was neutron divergent and because I was not extremely neurodivergent I think it might have made me more interesting to some women. Some women want very normal men but I don’t want those women. I don’t know what “no fucks given” attitude means.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:04 AM
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Finally a woman who’s standards men can meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:58 AM
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Dating trauma? My wife the woman that I love used to hit me with glass bottles and make me bleed but I still love her. I would marry her again but I can’t because she died 2 months ago. I cut her slack because she was dealing with child abuse trauma. But dating trauma? We get rejected sometimes; isn’t that part of life? We may get our heart broken, it hurts but isn’t that part of life? What kind of timid babies did my generation raise? I think my generation may have failed as parents if our kids…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:50 AM
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Doesn’t cisgender include lesbians?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:37 AM
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Some force is trying to use trans issues to divide and conquer. Have most people ever met a trans person? I found a trans person online that I like as a commentator. I have never met the same trans person on 2 separate days. They have all been one day and done acquaintances at most. Trans people are not numerous enough to be very relevant to me. Why should trans people be getting so much positive and negative attention? Why is NPR, the deep state’s propaganda outreach to the pseudo intellectual …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:25 AM
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A transwomen is a very different person than a cis woman. If he is only interested in what makes a straight cis woman feel lust then he should exclude transwomen and lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:20 AM
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Maybe he is just trying to include girls answers while rejecting male answers. We have too many young men proclaiming what women want. I would rather hear women saying what they want. For the most part older men and women are not on Reddit. Some time I might try dating women my own age which means old but I am not sure that Reddit is the right place to learn what old women want. Sometimes I feel like half of all Reddit users are young men that women do not want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:12 AM
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Weakness and insecurity seem to be more acceptable on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:09 AM
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I am short male definitely a problem but some women still liked me. Dating myself, I thought I could not be handsome because I looked nothing like Burt Reynolds. Then Brad Pitt came along and I thought maybe I had a handsome face all along because I do look a bit like Brad Pitt and maybe that explains why some women were not rejecting me for being short.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:06 AM
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I was short, might have been super nice but was probably a sigma male not a beta male. I don’t see why we should assume a nice guy is a beta male.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:00 AM
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If you replace the nature setting with an office cubicle setting how less attractive does he become?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:55 AM
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Lust should not makes sense unless you are the kind of woman who feels lust when things make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:52 AM
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After attempting suicide at age 17 because I was having difficulty with realizing I was a fake imitation of my father and brother I began to be more of an individual who did not care what people thought of me. Post suicide attempt me may have had some bad boy appeal for girls even though I was not a bad boy, just somebody not afraid to March to their own drummer regardless what that might cost me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:47 AM
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Foxy women was once a term.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:42 AM
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Watch out the transphobic-phobic might not like that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:41 AM
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He does not want answers from male women. I suppose females that are not women could be girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 06:25 AM
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As a short man who still got to be with women I think 10% of woman don’t care about height and another 25% are willing to ignore their preference for height when they find a short guy that they like. In a dating app scenario women are unlikely to ignore their preference for height because the short guys never get the chance for the women to discover that they like the guy enough to ignore their preference for height. My wife had a 6’ 7” former NBA player boyfriend and a 5’ 2” paralegal boyfriend…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:45 AM
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Why wouldn’t women love you back if you are in a relationship with them and you love them? I only had 4 relationships, girlfriends or wife and they all loved me back. Not counting my fist girlfriend where maybe we kind of sort of loved each other before she decided I was gay because I did not even kiss her. I was scared because I did not know how to kiss so I procrastinated. As far as me not groping her breasts, I was trying to be a gentleman. We should have talked about sex and making out and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:17 AM
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First woman I went down on smelled bad. But I did not yet know that clitorises existed so I was going down on vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:17 PM
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My future wife told me that she had taught enough guys and wanted me to figure things out on my own. I thought she was making a mistake and she should teach me. I was apparently the first guy to discover her g-spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:13 PM
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I just found out that my wife died on May 7 while I was in the hospital with a Staph infection. I thought my wife had temporarily gone no contact with me because she was mad at me about something but actually she was dead.and the no contact will be permanent. She has been no contact with her father and sister for the last 30 years since her mother got murdered.. Her father child abused her she thought her father murdered her mother. There is some evidence that supports the idea that her father m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:21 AM
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Why do you say relationships are a lie to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:57 AM
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She died May 7, I was right. She spent her las month in a board and care. She did not tell me that. I was in the hospital with a staph infection from April 6 until June. Last time I talked to her in April her lungs sounded bad. She evaded my questions when I asked about her lungs and how she was doing. She probably did not want me to freak out about her situation while I was still in the hospital having just escaped death myself. I am still paying her rent at her home. I need to get keys from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 09:54 AM
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She was the only one that knew I caught her. I just happed to be behind her. She loved me being her hero. If some other guy was behind her they also probably would have caught her and not let her fall. Then we had moths of her laughing at my jokes and me loving her laughing at my jokes. I can be funny; my jokes probably were good jokes. Then I accidentally kind of sort of cheated on her and she dumped me. The a drunk girl jumped me at a party and I was no longer a virgin boy. But I would rather …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:04 PM
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Love the women. Men should love the women more . I had no sympathy for selfish baby men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:55 PM
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You are failing as men. Grow up. Stop being porn twisted babies. Love those women proper.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:33 PM
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So it turns out that my wife that I adored but was separated from because we could not stop fighting died on May 7 while I was in the hospital. I still have more crying to do. She was not not answering me because she was mad at me. She was not answering me because she was dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:59 PM
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Yah true for me. Pretty woman does not mean I will want her as my girlfriend but when I was single any pretty woman could have me for a one night stand if she wanted me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:53 PM
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What do you think of my something flips the switch for the woman and then she wants the man theory as stated in more detail above as displayed on my screen. My examples were she caught me honesty caring about her and then suddenly wanted me where as before she caught me caring about her she was not interested in me as a boy. And 2 other girl wanted me after I caught her and prevented her from getting hurt in a fall. One little catch of her while she was falling and then she was interested in me …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:41 PM
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Female attractions are confusing. I don’t think the women even really understand. Something happens and the switch is flipped and they suddenly want a particular guy or at that’s how I think it goes. Pretty little sister of my best friend did not want me for years. I was just her brother’s geeky friend. Not a boy she was interested in but a least a nice boy she did not dislike who never creeped her out with tasteless expressions of desire for her body. Then outside of a party she got worried tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:26 PM
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My gay cousin the doctor paid a women to get pregnant. I think my cousin and his husband pretend that they don’t know which of them is the biological father but by age 2 it was getting pretty clear just from facial resemblance that my gay cousin rather than his husband is the biological father..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:21 PM
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Do they need a pulse? Some men might settle for a fresh corpse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:10 AM
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The problem immigration as the solution to the Social Security Ponzi scheme is that the immigrants are being paid less and therefore do not contribute as much to social security.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:51 AM
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Or just get drunk and let your beer goggles choose the sperm donor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:47 AM
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If I could have been a dad without a woman’s help I might have done it. My wife could not have kids and probably would have abused the kids if she could have them just like her dad and grandmother did. I did not want to abandon my wife with her many crisis so I had to choose between kids and my wife; I chose my wife. Tomorrow I go to the county clerk seeking information on whether my wife is dead or alive. I think my wife died last May while I was in the hospital almost dying myself. We have bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:32 AM
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There are not enough hot women to go around or hot men to go around. In capitalism there are winners and losers. In Darwinian nature there are winners and losers. If you can’t be the big winner in mating do the best that you can with what you can get. Loving an ugly women can be good. I had passion for my wife an I adored her and she was pretty but we had a difficult marriage. My wife created problems where they did not exist. My wife was difficult. My girlfriend prior to my wife was not pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:08 AM
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I had some special education for my dyslexia but nothing was done for mild Autism when I was a kid in the 1960s and 1970s I have no idea what could have been done for my mild autism. My dad also had mild autism and It did not stop my dad from being a well paid and highly regarded engineer doing work for the Apollo moon landings. My dad did have to be fired as the manager while kept as the chief engineer because his autism which did not hurt his engineering did hurt him with the people skills he …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:55 AM
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Thank for your informed thoughtful answer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:28 AM
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I got curious about Incels. Reading what Incels were saying I should have been doomed to being an incel and then the question became why wasn’t I an incel. Prior to age 28 I had sex with 10 women and had a few girlfriends. 10 women is not a lot and I think there was some year when I had no sex in my 20s. At age 28 I married a woman who on first impression was way too good for me but she did have some serious psychological baggage from being a child abuse survivor. But at 18 there were a few wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:26 AM
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At Reddit we should ask women who have dated why they dated the last guy that they dated. A survey to test whether Incel and whatever pilll theories are correct. I forgot to ask the women who had sex with me why they were having sex with me. I mostly don’t know what first attracted my girlfriends to me. My 2nd girlfriend a 16 year old girl told me what first attracted her to me. She said I caught her when she was falling backwards down a steep mountain trail. I was with a group of girls and boys…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:20 AM
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What do you know about the differences in creating couples when you were at the age your kids are and what is going on with your kids? Do you get informed by your kids as to what is going on with their dating lives? I read that young 20s men make up the largest segment of Reddit users. I am not sure that Reddit users are representative of the American young 20’s population. I am about as much older than you as you are older than your kids. I was short 5’ 5”, poor, weird and a bit autistic but wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:17 AM
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Do you know what it is like to be overwhelmed with messages? Sometimes my emails overwhelm me. Maybe she can improve her technique to not match so many men but I don’t really know how matches and dating apps work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 09:07 PM
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Trying to be normal is tiring and mostly fails. I got success with women as I got to age 17 and somehow got better at understanding normal people and I stopped caring about what people thought about me; then I was just marching to the beat of my own drummer which I think is part of what women like about bad boys. I could not fake anything well so I stoped faking and became authentic and a lot of women sort of liked authenticity. So I became a bit of a Sigma male. I am capable of having the occas…
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 06:18 PM
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Getting rejected sometimes won’t kill you or damage you for life or salesmen would have a short life expectancy. But women I liked were scary because they meant so much to me that failing with them felt like a death sentence. But how would I learn from my mistakes if I would not even play the game?
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 06:04 PM
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People feel uneasy about the unknown. Strange acting autistic people are the Unkown for normies. Would you date somebody that you feel uncomfortable with? Who has the disability when a normal person feels uncomfortable with an autistic person? The normal person can’t handle abnormality. The Autistic person can’t act normal. Who is the weak one here? Normal people seem weird to me like they are speaking an illogical foreign language that includes secret code messages but I the autistic must learn…
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 05:52 PM
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I and my father are probably mildly Autistic. I developed effective work arounds for my social skill deficiencies. I did not instinctively know what normal behavior was and how to fit in. But is lack of empathy really a trait of autism or is do autistic people just fail to understand imprecise language with coded sub messages? Are autistic people really less empathetic or are they just confused and behaving strange? I did OK with women. I tried door to door vacuum sales when I was young. I was b…
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 05:42 PM
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If she the woman commenting was not attractive to me I probably would not have listened to the whole video. I do agree with her. I must be a predator for being attracted to the commentator.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 05:13 PM
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No, it is very logical. Marriage serves the ability to pass down DNA and culture. Why we are attracted to who we are attracted to is complex enough to seem illogical but it is time tested by hundreds of thousands of years of breeding history and is not illogical. Survival and reproduction of DNA and culture is the goal. Happiness and truth and kindness to others are not the goal. Do you want to be happy? Happiness is just a tool to force your mind to serve survival and reproduction. Economically…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:32 PM
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Babies,DNA, Darwinian competition You are not designed to be happy as a losing competitor to survive beyond your own death through reproduction. You could just pay women to have your babies and to pass down your DNA but to pass down your culture you must live with those children so you must pay women to have your baby and then to give you the baby so that you can indoctrinate the baby with your culture. Men and women still want to partner up; they just get unsatisfied with their partners more ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:18 PM
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The point of everything is to survive in time. The survival of the fittest or really the survival of that which is capable of surviving. Culture is like dna. 2 culture being meet and have culture babies. Adopting a kid gives you a chance to pass on your culture. Sex gives you a chance to pass on your DNA. Happiness is just the prison guard at the survival prison. Happiness is harnessed to survival of the fittest. We loved pigging out on sugar because in human history the survival problem was too…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:17 PM
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I am a bit autistic and I could not tolerate the noise of bars. Strange that I did fine in loud concerts but at a concert the sound is organized where as in bars the sound is chaotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:18 AM
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I got my wife because she was friends with a couple that were my friends and the couple told her I was good so she flirted with me and I fluted back and a month later we were in love. I don’t know how the 24-7 gamers that never meet women are supposed to get girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:28 AM
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Nothing wrong with wanting what you want. I like tomboy types who can swing from girly to manly but are not afraid to get dirty. Long polished fingernails scare me. A closet full of women’s shoes scares me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 08:56 AM
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Narcissist is not the right word.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:34 AM
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Self pitying pathetic men. No wonder the women don’t want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 02:46 AM
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I am actually trying to help the men who could be with women but are failing. Incels are wrong, don’t listen to them. There is more to attracting women than height, muscles, money and a handsome face. I you are average by Incel definition and are not attracting any women you either have a bad personality or you are not giving women a chance to be attracted to you because you are not spending time with women. To be the most attractive man at a party full of ugly men I had to go to the party. It w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 10:12 AM
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The average women will be attracted to the average man and love the average man if that is all that is available. Many straight men in prison start finding other men attractive when other men is all that is available to them. If average women would really only settle for the top 20% of men there would be a lot less marriages. This story that average women won’t accept average men is a story that below average men tell to deny that they are below average despite the evidence that they are below a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:54 AM
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Getting married took me out of the how to attract a woman problem. For those lucky enough to really fall deeply in love, love trumps sexiness. But my wife was pretty messed up from child abuse and she made problems where they did not exist. But she was so adorable. So once married the problem becomes how to make the marriage work. My girlfriend before my wife slept with her head on my shoulder for a year and I loved the cuddling but we were not in love. We had no passion for each other. We appre…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:34 AM
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The jerks that get women have something attractive about them. They may be poor, short and ugly but they are doing something right. Maybe Incels should pay these guys to let the incels study these guys behavior while the socialize with women. Don’t get mad at the women who like these guys. Don’t get mad at the men that women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:14 AM
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It is the opinion of most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:09 AM
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It is not a big cheat code. Make up only makes the women look a little better, not a lot better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:08 AM
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So I am attracted to mascara. Why? My theory is that mascara makes me see the eyes and eyes are beautiful. If I really see her eyes I might fall for her. Mascara on a man won’t attract me because I am a man. But are men that want to attract women making a mistake by not wearing mascara?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:06 AM
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Not fair. But I don’t think men are to blame for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 09:01 AM
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I wanted to be a guy that did not like make up because make up seems like a chore. An attractive woman looks just fine in an old T-short. I don’t particularly like lipstick. But damn, I must admit that mascara attracts me and so does eye shadow if the woman has above average skill at eye shadow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:58 AM
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I don’t have to get pregnant but if I was not a man and I could have gotten pregnant I probably would have because I wanted a kid and I love kids. My wife could not have kids and because she was child abused and had a rage problem and comes from 4 generations of child abusers she probably would have child abused her kids if she had kids. If I could get pregnant I would need to get my wife to approve and somehow stop my wife from abusing my kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:53 AM
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Do you give compliments to women for things other than her beauty. I compliment the bagger girl at the store on her bagging skill because she really was a particularly good bagger and I know baggers are under-appreciated and by complimenting the bagger’s skill I get a really nice smile from her that warms my heart for the next 2 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:40 AM
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In my experience it was kind of hard to predict who was going to pursue me. Some women did surprise me by unexpectedly pursuing me. Who I could catch tended to be women that smile at me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:36 AM
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Because if the woman do choose you they will be stuck doing 70% of the housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:33 AM
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They listen to the women, are Kind, interesting, smart and funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:31 AM
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Nature is cruel. We need woke nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:29 AM
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My 20s which was the 1980s was when getting women to give me a chance mattered to me and when the attractiveness of women mattered to me. Then in 1988 at age 28 I married a woman and then all that mattered was making the marriage work which was not so easy. My wife had emotional scars from being a child abuse victim. I still want to touch the 20 something women. I look discreetly, I am not creeping out women. I have never touched a women without her consent. 20 something women are much fatter on…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:02 AM
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The selfishness of the average normal guy starts to nether women after they realize how selfish normal guys are. Not that women are not selfish. Both women and men are more selfish and stupid then we are taught that they are when we are children. Had the children been taught the truth about humans they would not get so hurt when they expect humans be more like angels and discover that humans are actually worse than we pretend humans are. To some degree I think that I self improved from moderate …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:39 AM
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Are you sure you can’t self improve out of Autism? I am Autistic but mildly enough autistic that I usually pass for a normie. I seemed more weird when I was a child. I developed some difficult to explain work arounds for my autism. At some point as women had been disappointed by normal men my being weird but a kind of sweet weird may have actually put me at an advantage with some women who wanted to try something different. If you don’t look good and your personality is not good try caring about…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:52 AM
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I think the average man ahas some appeal but can’t compete with above average men. Below average men will have trouble being with women and I am sorry. But I wish that in discussions the below average men would stop pretending they are average men. I wish the average lookin men with bad personalities would admit that the reason they are getting nothing from any women was because they have personality problems not because they are average looking. I was 5’ 5” but my face was probably better than …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 06:21 AM
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I think the true average median 23 year old man has had sex in the last year. Not as much as he would like but he got some. What is messing up the average man discussion is that below average men are calling themselves average men when they are really below average men, the 15% to 35% men is a huge group of men but they are not the same as the 40% to 60% group of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:04 PM
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How are you seeing this stuff? Are you a peeping Tom?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:16 AM
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Decades ago a month afterI graduated high school a girl I did not know who was the little sister of the party host 15 minutes after meeting me and without talking with me much, took my hand and led me out of that party and into an empty playing field across the street. He only explanation she gave me for why she was leading me out of the party was that she wanted to be alone with me. I already had a girlfriend that I loved. I think when I let the girl lead me out of the party to be alone with me…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 09:57 PM
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Rejects often get hurt feelings when they are rejected so rejected men blame women. I don’t like the 80-20 nonsense or Incel ideology but there is a tiny part I sort of like. Men get trashed for being shallow dogs that just want casual sex with attractive women. Men may or may not get feelings for their casual sex partners. I don’t recommend that women seeking relationships just have sex with a bunch of random men on n the hopes that a good random man will get attached to her after having casual…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:07 PM
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Did you message them? Was it entertaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:41 PM
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Most single women do not using dating apps so it is not rejection by every woman in your city. I was chosen by enough women when I was young in a time before dating apps. I believe I was better than a 50% man but by dating app shallow standards I would probably have been a bottom 30% man and had no success. If at first glance you appear to be bottom 60% guy dating apps probably won’t work for you. You need to socialize with women because one of them will find something to like about you that wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:18 PM
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Incel theories got my attention because by their theories I should have been an Incel or near Incel but I was not an Incel or near Incel. I have to concede that I might have had a handsome face but I was 5’ 5” and poor and women should have rejected me but too many women did not reject me. I was no Chad and would rather have had Chad level success with women but I was not even close to being an Incel. By Incel theory my face must have been very attractive. Even my personality was weird and not w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:41 PM
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I am a latent dirty old man creepy old man because I really do want the young women to want me but apparently I am not very creepy because women don’t scowl at me and it seems that I am discreet enough that women don’t even know that I looked at them because I was attracted to them. I might say something that makes women smile or laugh and the memory of them smiling or laugh will have to be enough for me because I like women too much for me to accept me making women less happy by me being creepy…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:02 PM
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Every princess deserves a prince charming. When Prince Charming turns out to not be charming most of the time the princesses will get upset by the bait and switch so the women will divorce. Not saying the women hold up their end of the deal either. Prince Charming is not so charming. Princess sexy can’t save you and fulfill you through sex and adoration and she will age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:38 PM
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Yes, I just checked. You are right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:22 PM
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I don’t know about 63% But probably 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:53 AM
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I am glad some women found me strangely endearing. Some men are not found strangely endearing by any women. Are any men found strangely endearing immediately or does strangely endearing only happen more slowly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:39 AM
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Telling men that women are also horny visual creatures gives comfort to men with bad personalities. Incels want to believe that personalities don’t matter because they tend to have bad personalities. To some degree women are horny visual creatures and they are supposed to be less shallow. A shallow man is OK but a shallow woman is not OK. Personalities do matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:35 AM
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Women don’t go for the same men and personality does matter. Men also don’t go for the same women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:29 AM
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The whole Incel rant seems like a way for men that women are not attracted to to feel better about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:28 AM
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Whining men shit on women because women are not attracted to them. You don’t need women to be attracted to you; you just need 1 woman that you are attracted to to be attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:26 AM
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It isn’t just about sex. Maybe it is mostly about sex if you are a young man but for everybody else relationships is about more than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:23 AM
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We have spent 50 years undermining the middle class so that the rich can be richer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:21 AM
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Absentee fathers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:19 AM
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By definition most people will be mediocre. But some how mediocre in usage seems to mean a little below average so I prefer the word average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:18 AM
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Do women get offended? I have noticed that women tend to simultaneously underrate and overate their appearance or swing back and forth between underrating and overeating themselves. But despite their fluctuating self assessments women basically do know where they stand and perhaps do better than men do at dealing with the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:16 AM
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Well if you replace slightly unattractive with average looking it probably is true. If the very unattractive are often single that moves the bell curve some. The average people usually will eventually marry somebody.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:04 AM
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I think I might of got some bad boy appeal just for marching to my own drummer and not being worried about what people thought of me. I was not an actual bad boy who was aggressive or trouble making.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:01 AM
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Because they tend to be undesirable losers. The parents failed at teaching their kids to be better romantic partner material.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:58 AM
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Women usually marry a man about 4 years older than themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:56 AM
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If people will not be accurate about whether they are single maybe the survey should ask them whether their friends are single too produce a different set of data.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:55 AM
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They are smoking mental crack. It hides their failure from themselves. If you failed it feels better to believe that everybody is failing and there is nothing wrong with your personality. People that are not succeeding feel better blaming their ugliness, financial status or lack of height because those things might be traits where as their personality come closer to being you. For you to have bad traits is OK but for you to have a bad personality is more like saying that you are a bad person and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:51 AM
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Truly loving your partner is half of what is needed. Some people are too selfish to truly love anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:45 AM
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They got married in the first place which proves that people will marry defective people. What the 70% divorce rate proves is that many people lack the social skills to make a marriage work. People expected something from a marriage that they were not getting from their marriage. Only 45% of first marriages end in divorce. 65% of 2nd marriages end in divorce because the people who could not make their first marriage work also can’t make their 2nd marriage work. The 70% number is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:38 AM
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If women were holding out for a stereo typical 20% man they would not have been with me. They were with me. I probably had some good qualities but I was not that 20% man. Times have changed since I was young. Dating apps are not good for finding and liking a man who is not in the top 20%. With so many men on the dating app why should women choose men that are not in the top 20% to chat with? If she won’t chat with me how is she supposed to discover that she likes me? I would not have done well w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 10:04 AM
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Is the woman just having fun with fuck boys or is she looking for a relationship partner? Is the man just playing with fuck girls or is he looking for a relationship partner? The fuck boys and fuck girls can play together while they are waiting for somebody who has good relationship potential to show up. Good relationship potential means somebody that fits well with them as well as having generic responsible mature considerate traits. There is nothing wrong with 20 year old kids choosing playing…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 02:59 AM
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Women don’t agree on what a handsome face is. Some women get so into a personality that the handsome face does not matter that much. In high school the younger sister of my best friend thought her brother and I were nerds. I did not think she was attracted to me. She was pretty. I probably did have a handsome face but being quite short usually negated the handsome face. I found her outside a party she, her brother and I were attending. She was smoking marijuana but she looked worried. I asked he…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:21 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 01:51 AM
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I am more attractive if Brad Pit or Paul Newman are the ideal and less attractive if Burt Reynolds or Clint Eastwood are the ideal. When I was a teenage boy the women were debating Paul Newman vs Burt Reynolds. Obviously I am too old now. I was always too short. Going to the gym cold have helped. By Incel theory rules, with me being short, and also poor and lacking confidence and being a bit autistic if I got to be with women despite being too short and all that I must had a very attractive face…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 01:21 AM
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I wonder which gender has more diverse preferences in what they would like in an opposite sex mate. But we might not know we like something until we find it. I sort of believe that there is somebody for everybody if we don’t give up trying to find them. I am guessing female tastes are more diverse but men are also quite diverse in what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:30 AM
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He looks privileged to me too but I don’t know why he looks privileged to me. His beard is evenly trimmed. He does not that manly to me. I think at that age I could have kicked the crap out of him and left him crying on the floor if I wanted to. I think I could have kicked his ass despite me not having experience at fights, him being taller than me and him probably having had Karate lessons as a kid. Now maybe there is manliness that has nothing to do with physical fighting. I also would have ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 12:12 AM
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Jon Stewart (who I thought had an attractive face but what do I know I am a man) was still tripped out about being short at the height of his fame. My second girlfriend (she was 16 and did not know better) lovingly told me I would be perfect if I was taller. I could have been all happy about being almost perfect but the not tall enough thing haunted me. I am an inch shorter than Jon Stewart at 5’ 5” -5’6” rounding. Most woman don’t see 5’ 5” men as real men for dating purposes but maybe 1/4 of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:51 PM
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Yes I have fear about not being attracted to women my own age. I have more in common with women my own age. I don’t want to be one of those men chasing younger women. I think my preference for sex with younger women is just my instinct to get a women pregnant. Women my age can’t get pregnant. My instincts know old women can’t get pregnant but my instincts know nothing about birth control pills. There was a time when I was separated from my wife and I got a plenty of fish account. I was searching…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:08 AM
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What is better a $200 orgasm from an attractive sex worker or an orgasm from a not so attractive girlfriend. Street prostitutes that I knew were rarely attractive and I would not pay them for sex. I never had sex with a sex worker so I have no idea what that is like. My marriage turned sexless and then we separated. She might be dead. I loved my crazy wife a lot and proffered having sex with her. The ten women before my wife all chose to have sex with me. Could a sex worker make me feel as accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 11:32 PM
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Nice guys is a myth. Guys who think they are nice guys are selfish but under control. If a woman really wants to beloved she needs to avoid the selfish fake nice guys. Nice guys are to selfish and scared to love. Bad boys love but they are trouble. Find a man that is alive and independent and not a screw up. These liars who truly believe that they are nice guys are pathetic. They will open the door for you and then think you owe them a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:20 PM
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There is lust There is attraction to beauty but beauty can be a beautiful personality, beautiful mannerisms, beautiful mind, beautiful music. Why do we believe something to beautiful? There is loyalty like loyalty to a sister or to a friend. There is the comfort of knowing and trusting somebody. When you know somebody won’t be a selfish jerk towards you or anybody else that is nice. There is respect. When somebody loves me and thinks I am very good it feels good to be around the person that thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:59 PM
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Can Whiny guys that complain be masculine?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:40 AM
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Waiting to 30 means waiting until many of the best people are already married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:42 AM
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If she lives in a place where most men are conservative it might be hard to find a masculine liberal. But I don’t believe her opinion applies to liberal areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:54 AM
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I have met non extroverted very attractive women. They exist. But maybe attractive women tend to be extroverted or at least confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:32 AM
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Why wouldn’t the prehistoric Chads of decades ago also have taken all the women? Chads, I hated them too because I could not play their game and get women that easily. But in retrospect I was with enough women even if I wanted more. How did I get those women? My best method was to have fun with them. I am not sure what is happening now but having fun with women worked well enough that I am suspecting that a lot of guys today are not having fun with women. I met the woman I married because she wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:21 PM
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Just spend time with women. Eventually one of them will have sex with you. They had sex with me and I did not have the attributes that women are supposedly holding out for. One of them married me when I was 28 and she was 24. If women won’t be with you, then you are doing something wrong. If you are fun women will like you even if you are weird, short and poor like I was. If they like you they might have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:52 PM
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An almost stick figure front view drawing of a woman has a female curve; hips bigger, waste small wider again by the armpits. Fat around the waist makes that curve that attracts me go away. I like just about every female body part. I thought I was strange and only I would be attracted to a female collar bone so I googled and found out that there is nothing strange or unusual about men being attracted to a female collar bone. Fat makes the female collar bone less noticeable. Luckily fat does not …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:03 AM
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Men pick badly too. A man can sabotage his life by picking badly. We just do not see the men as being as wrecked by their bad choices. We don’t see single men raising children alone because of their bad choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 11:53 PM
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I never told the woman I lost my virginity with that I was a virgin. I doubt she was a virgin and I hope she was not a virgin because that sex we had would be a pretty bad way for a girl to lose her virginity. Not a good way for a boy to lose his virginity either but I am still glad I lost my virginity but I would have rather lost my virginity with a girlfriend rather than a drunken one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:32 PM
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Or is men preferring pretty women hypocritical if they don’t like women having preferences. I was short and poor but women had sex with me for some reason. If I was quantified on a dating ap women probably would reject me but enough women thought the real me that was more than height and wealth was acceptable to have sex with. I don’t even know why those women had sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:24 PM
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Of course it is hypocrisy to criticize promiscuous women and not criticize promiscuous men. But there are sensible practical reasons for women to not be as promiscuous as men. And there are sensible evolutionary reasons for men to be more promiscuous than women. I failed at procreating unless some woman had my baby without telling me. Since I won’t be chasing younger woman and women my age can’t have children I failed at evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:18 PM
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I won’t fault women for being attracted to high status men. I like a pretty face on a woman, women like a high social status man; which is more shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:23 AM
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If the guy who never has a girlfriend is unaware of the existence of the woman who never has a boyfriend the girlfriend-less guy could be watching the girl accross the hall having serial boyfriends and think that he is her equal but she is being monopolized by guys that have multiple girlfriends. Not many guys even want multiple girlfriends. No, lonely man’s problem is that woman accross the hall is choosing to be with a succession of men that are better than him. Why did he never get a date wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:05 AM
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Quit I bitching about women. If you love women you would not bitch about them having more influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:47 AM
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People that are OK with casual sex will have more sex partners but most sex happens in monogamous relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:20 PM
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Some women have a strong pair bonding instinct. Some women really like men. Some women love being in love and being loved by a man. I think most people will be better off in a good marriage even if their partner is not earning well. But most marriages are not that great because the people involved are not good at relationships. Two equally poor people will be better off financially married than they would be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:14 AM
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Men know sooner whether they are attracted to a woman. I think (not a woman) woman (when not looking for casual sex and women usually are not looking for casual sex) woman have to know that they like the guy as a person before their physical attraction to the guy gets unleashed. Women might know that the construction worker in the street looks good but she is not ready to have sex with him. A Woman usually has to meet your personality before she is willing to have sex unless she is drunk and hor…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 06:02 PM
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Most 20 something women and men have an urge to pair up with the opposite gender. Give her a chance to imagine being paired up with you by spending some time with her. That is all. Nothing fancy. Just have fun with women without the sexual pressure. Of course you want to fuck her but if you want a girlfriend be her friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:50 PM
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I never downvoted your post. You did not undercut your sloth at gluttony fat shaming fast enough for my taste. Everybody has a weakness. You could interpret free will in a way that makes every criminal innocent by insanity. You can tell the fat person to try harder to not be fat but don’t assume anything about them having weak discipline because you don’t know how powerfully the food is calling to them. We all have our weaknesses. Is the person with road rage really superior to the over-eater. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:19 AM
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I have not seen ugly people treat like shit much junior high school. I might not make the ugly woman feel validated as a woman but I will be treating her like a person and I will listen to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:54 AM
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Yes, I had to tell my friend, “Mike, that is a fire hydrant and it isn’t smiling at you”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:47 AM
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Hitting on a hotter girl is not proof that the guy is overestimating his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:43 AM
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What is your evidence and sample size.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:42 AM
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Being fat is mostly due to genetically producing more than normal insulin. Extra insulin does create extra gluttony but also makes you store more of your food as fat and get more tired in response to lack of food instead of just burning fat. Extra insulin is a genetic adaptation designed to make it easier to survive famines. In a famine it is better to be fat. This is a strange time with no famines in so much of the world. The historic norm was to have frequent famines. The extra insulin famine …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:40 AM
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My hunch is that women tend to vascular between underrating their appearance and overrating their appearance. I am a man. I was willing to not have a strong opinion about my appearance and remain in the unknown regarding my own appearance. I understood that me being a short man was a problem. But after reading about incels getting facial surgery and wondering why I had not been an Incel I be an to suspect that I might have had a handsome face that occasionally got me sex initiated by women who d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:17 AM
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Men liked chubby Rubenesque women when the health problem of most women was being too skinny from being too poor. Now that the health problem of most women is being overweight men prefer skinny women. I do think men prefer women who will be healthy enough to raise a child for 15 years with under harsh conditions with her husband being dead and of no help.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:29 AM
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I am a dinosaur. I met my wife through friends of friends before the internet existed. The internet kind of sort of existed for 10 years before smart phones apps and online dating started to exist. Now that people understand the limitations of dating apps a change away from dating apps as they exist now might happen. What will artificial intelligence do? Let your computers date and if the computers like each other then have a virtual reality phone call date with the owner of the other computer. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:57 AM
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My wife and I are separated. I supported her when she was romantic with a new man. That failed. Intellectually at least she would be happy for me to find a woman to love me. If it actually happened she might get freaked out. I don’t expect any woman I might date to be happy with how much commitment and attachment I feel for my separated wife. The potential new woman probably would not be happy with me paying for my wife’s rent and food bills. But a cope for my being attracted to 20 something fer…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 01:55 AM
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My below average girlfriend before my wife moved in with me at my appartment because she knew my associates including the people that lived in the appartment upstairs. After she moved in I hit on her in a gentle way that would not have created a problem if she rejected my advance. She ended up sleeping with her head on my shoulder for the next year and I loved being her pillow. We, (girlfriend before my wife) never had passion for each other but our relationship was convenient for both of us. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:50 PM
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How often does a man meet the love of his life at X where X equals the total of unexpected places? I bet unexpected places in total is over 15% of all marriages and loves of their lives. My meeting of my wife was not a place but rather through mutual friends so the place was irrelevant. Through mutual friends seems to be one of the more common ways of meeting the love of my life. My uncle and aunt met at my parents wedding. Uncle is mom’s brother. Aunt is daughter of the best friend of father of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:17 PM
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Has anything changed about below average women getting boyfriends and husbands? When I was young most below average women did eventually got a husband. I ended up marrying an above average woman but had I really connected well first with a below average woman I think I would have married a below average woman. By connected well I mean I mean emotionally, intellectually and play well sense of humor. The below average girlfriend I had before my wife was snuggly and I also am snuggly but unfortunat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:10 PM
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Degrading makes no sense anyway. Women do not like men who degrade themselves. Women don’t want a doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:16 PM
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Everything looks better and sounds better when a pretty woman does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:14 PM
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Knowing that sex sells is nothing new. Men going nuts for pretty women is not new Half of women earning more than half of men is new. It is getting very difficult for men to be the heroes that fairy tales say that men should be. Women should lower their standards for men because women still want a man but the available men are not good enough. Before dating apps women liked fun funny men who could make them laugh. A woman using a dating app will have no idea if the man in the profile can make th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:07 PM
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Even if the guy is paid less two people is stronger than one and sharing expenses is more economical. A spouse that will be committed to your child is also like good life insurance. Even if women are finding men disappointing most men and women are still genetically wired to want to pair off. Sharing care insurance and internet saves money. Maybe a 40 person commune is more efficient than husband wife and 2 kinds but 40 person commune has more personality conflicts and less commitment. I actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:34 PM
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Women might be too well balanced to have the obsessiveness needed for some of the awesome stuff. Half insane men accomplish things that fully sane people might not achieve. Being a bit autistic might also be a good thing for getting awesome things done,
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:04 PM
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I think Bi men might display the most severe homophobic behavior because they are disturbed by their own bisexuality and are trying too hard too act straight. In my 20s gay men often hit on me. I was even offered money for gay sex on 2 occasions when I did not think I had done anything to make anybody think I would take money for sex. I had the yuck disgust reaction minus the fear that teenage girls have when old men hit me n them. An inappropriate sexual partner hitting on you is sort of like b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:31 PM
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Women end up choosing men that surprise us when women are actually meeting and getting to know real men. Women are not as unpredictable when choosing dating app profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 08:45 PM
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I am 63, my separated from me wife is 60 and 150 pounds overweight, she weighs 270 pounds. I love my separated wife. We fought too much She never recovered from being child abused. She was violent towards me sometimes but luckily for me she hit like a girl. I might start dating women my own age but the only woman my age that I am attracted to is my wife. Why am I still attracted to my wife when I would not be attracted to her if she was a stranger? I love her. When I see my 60 year wife I also r…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 02:41 AM
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Nobody asks why men look at women because it is understood that men looking at women is part of the nature of men. Nobody asks why a female cat in heat is up on the fence doing things that will attract a male. But when a woman wants to be attractive we say she wants to feel confident. The woman does not need to know why she is trying to be attractive any more than the man has to know why he is looking at women. But women might get shamed if they are trying to be attractive because perhaps some p…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 11:08 PM
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I was young a long time ago. How can dating apps let people know the real people. I attracted enough women but I did not have money and I am short. My personality was not normal but some women liked me. But in the modern world would a woman even get to know me enough to discover that they liked me? I think personalities matter a lot in love and romance. But people are looking for measurable things now. They are looking for surface things. I am glad I was a young man a long time ago and not in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:08 AM
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If they are angry at women they just want women but don’t love women. I have no idea how they handle being frustrated because they can’t be with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:56 AM
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No. I just thought men might find thinking about whether they do or do not love women difficult. Knowing whether you do or do not love dogs is easier. So I think that thinking about how you feel about dogs can help you think about how you feel about women. With dogs sexual attraction won’t be a confusing factor. Loving a woman’s breasts isn’t the same as loving women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:51 AM
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If you don’t love women the women will not enjoy being with you as much as if you loved women. But if you don’t love women how are you supposed to change that? Loving women is not the same as being attracted to women. If you don’t love dogs you probably should not have a dog as a pet.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:56 AM
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I still like the old ways but it is getting harder for men to be heroes for women or even useful to women. I think women still dream of strong men but it is not so easy for men to be what men used to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:57 PM
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Western war is the junior partner to finance crony capitalism. War is a drain on the economy but crony capitalist finance capitalism is a bigger drain on the economy. We had a strong economy in the USA in 1970. We hade trade surpluses and budget surpluses. Then Wall Street decided that for them to make more money we needed to send the jobs to places with lower wages. The high dollar allowed America to run on debt. Running on debt always fails in the long run but if Wall Street makes money in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:51 PM
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You won’t impress the modern woman with your salary if she has a higher salary. So hopefully the guy is funny or has some other good qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:45 AM
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I doubt the modern woman is changing. Her environment is changing. Men on their video games won’t meet women. Women like men that are perfect on the surface. But women also like non-perfect men that fit well with them. Women will never discover the man that fits well with them if the man is busy playing video games. It takes men and women spending some time together to meet their non-perfect match that fits well with them. The perfect that is perfect on the surface can be identified much quicker…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:40 AM
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Tom will value you more because you are his first and only. I think I choose Tom because I think he will be devoted to you. Sam does not need you and he can find another woman. You have to wonder if something is wrong with Tom’s personality that stopped him from getting a girlfriend but if they are 22 years old I would not worry about that but if they are 30 I really wonder why Tom never had a girlfriend. But if you care about sex but don’t want to teach a man to be a good lover then pick Sam. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 04:10 AM
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Besides all that people that can’t afford the rent are not real enthusiastic about having children especially if they were raised middle class. The people raised by poor moms may be more comfortable having kids while poor and the poor immigrants maybe comfortable having kids while poor but downwardly mobile women from middle class families won’t have kids while poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:55 AM
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I just figured not being Chad is like not being wealthy, just something to put up with that won’t help you to be jealous about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:34 AM
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A few of the women I had sex with had been friends of mine. Before I had sex with them. Was I “orbiting them”.? They were just fiends and then we had sex. I was not scheming to have sex with them. The language is getting so strange. Some men may befriend a woman with the intention of getting sexual and or romantic benefits but I am not sure that I have ever seen this behavior in my friends, The world I lived in might be more different from the world that younger people live in than I realize. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:57 PM
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For some reason I think the gym is not the right place to approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:05 AM
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It might end in a dating situation, I would not know. It isn’t over in a marriage or long term girl friend situation but it could be on it’s way to being over. Complaints multiply and the woman might be sharing minor complaints rather than talking about her core complaints. Or she may be having a problem with her own life and be pretending that the main has changed. I do think women are harder to satisfy then men but I love women too much to hold that against women. But no it is not over just be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:15 AM
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Some of these people are thinking thoughts that makes no sense to me. There is nothing mysterious about opposite gender friends, just treat them the same way you would your same gender friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:50 AM
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I don’t like having too many male friends. In my opinion the female friends are not any more of an energy drain then the male friends are. If you are feeling drained just avoid your friends until you feel like being with people again. What are the benefits of your male friends that your female friends lack?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:41 AM
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Even if at some level you want to sleep with them you can have attractive women as friends if you are not trying to sleep with them while you are being their friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:26 AM
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I treat the woman like they are men and that works fine too. I don’t have a special way of treating a woman like a woman until I get romantically interested in her. The man woman thing does not enter my conscious brain when I play with a woman even if I do treat the women a little different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:21 AM
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Just find a woman that likes to geek out on a topic that makes you geeky happy. Just say something about a topic that interests you and see if she likes the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:14 AM
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I feel like their are 2 species of humans, the type that has opposite gender friends and the type that does not have opposite gender friends. I am of the opposite gender friend having type but some of my friends don’t have opposite gender friends and I don’t know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:09 AM
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I did not get romantically rejected by women often because I only hit on women that liked me. I did romantically hit on a female friend who sweetly rejected me and we remained friends and it was not weird. Me letting her know that I wanted to have sex with her did not stop us from being friends and did not even make our friendship weird. I just accepted her rejecting a relationship with me and kept her as my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:02 AM
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Sometimes an opposite gender friend just happens. Even if I am a guy physically attracted to a woman but I am in a relationship with another woman I am open to becoming friends with the woman I am attracted to but I will not hit on this new woman because I am in in a relationship with another woman. I have also had female friends that I was not attracted to. I am a bit confused by how a person does not get opposite gender non-romantic friends by accident. Even though I am one of the less sociabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:54 AM
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I got female friends pretty accidentally. I did not try to get female friends I just got them; same for make friends. Some woman and I discover we like to joke together and suddenly I have a new female friend. I don’t really understand the problem. All my female friends and my sex partners and my wife and my male friends as well were co-workers, housemates or friends of my friends. How else do you meet people. I did not join groups. I have had fun with strangers and the store clerks but I never …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:40 AM
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Want to keep a mate, be funny. Or make her feel loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:23 AM
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If I could magically make 16 to 35 year olds interested in me the way they sometimes were when I was young I would prefer the young women with perky bodies and perky un jaded personalities. I was never babe magnet Chad but a couple times when I was young women did throw themselves at me for no reason that I could understand. I was 5’ 5” so that should have ruled me out for most women even when I was young. But these few women who surprisingly threw themselves at me did not know my personality an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 10:06 PM
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Highest Testoserone is at ovulation. Testosterone increases sex drives. Even at it’s peak female T is much lower than male T but still many women notice their higher sex drive at ovulation when they are most fertile. I think the spike in testosterone at ovulation is a plot to get women pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:32 PM
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The whole younger generation sometimes seems intolerant to me as if they think it is OK to have a bunch of enemies and then hurt and stifle their enemies. Values have changed in a way that I don’t like. In general purple pill seems to be more stupid and mean towards women than stupid and mean towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:54 AM
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Where are you going to flee to now? In the 1970s fleeing to rural areas was easy. Sometimes I get sick of humans and want get away from them. It is hard to find land without too many neighbors now. In the 1970s you could buy a price of rural land cheap and build a shack on it. Now that land is not cheap and the government will not allow your shack to be cheap. In the 1970s the suburbs did not go on forever and the commute from the outer suburbs to the urban core was not that long of a commute.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:04 AM
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Box is trash? I was with 10 women before my wife and never encountered a box that was trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:13 AM
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The establishmennand presumably the oligarchs seem to dislike the low birth rate. The money people seem to want US population to keep rising fairly quickly by births and immigration. I don’t like the current population density as much as I liked the lower 1970s population density.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:49 AM
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I agree with you. At least about relationships. Why are many men promoting this fantasy like their life depends on this fantasy? I think the bad personality guys are desperate to see themselves as average guys when their bad personalities make them actually below average guys. Now when it comes to the casual sex that many women won’t even do then I think maybe the 1/2 of average women that will have casual sex might be making exceptions to their normal no casual sex rule to have casual sex with …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 12:21 AM
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Average women rejecting average men has the smell of being a myth to allow below average men think that they are average men even though women reject them. They may have average looks but if women reject them they probably have below average personalities. But these men don’t want to know that they have below average personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:27 PM
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I rarely got rejected not that I was Chad or an above average man but rather because I was only hitting on women when I knew that they liked me. Even when hitting on women that liked me I had a fairly strong fear of rejection. There has to be a Darwinian evolutionary reason for the intensity of the fear of rejection but I don’t think current American culture could produce that fear of rejection. Not counting my teenage romantic but pre sex era, 11 women that I had sex with did not reject me and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:05 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:56 PM
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There were always people who were objectively Incel but now there is a culture because of the internet. And men who have had sex twice but have not had sex in a few years because women usually reject them are also joking this cultural Incel pity party group that is bitter against women. Objective Incels were around but they were not a thing or a movement or a group or a culture before the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:32 PM
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Right, before that they were courting. Where did you get they idea that dating started in the 1929s? Maybe there was an increase in party girls in the 1920s and a decrease in parental and church and community control of the behavior of young women in the 1920s. Puritans in 1650 Massachusetts were dating. The rules for dating change, the names for dating change but dating and flirting have always existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:26 PM
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Right, before that they were courting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:18 PM
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Do I think society has changed? Yes. Do I think average women will no longer marry average men? No but high rent plus student loan debt is a problem for marriage. You are the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:33 PM
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Many women have jobs that pay as well as the jobs men have: that is a change not so much from my generation but more from my mom’s generation. I am older than most people at Reddit but women were already getting good paying jobs in the 1980s when I was off dating age and got married. The rent is too damn high: that is a change. Dating apps is a change. People obliviously wandering out into traffic staring at their smart phone that they never put down is a change. I never saw political hatred to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:30 PM
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Many women have jobs that pay as well as the jobs men have: that is a change not so much from my generation but more from my mom’s generation. I am older than most people at Reddit but women were already getting good paying jobs in the 1980s when I was off dating age and got married. The rent is too damn high: that is a change. Dating apps is a change. People obliviously wandering out into traffic staring at their smart phone that they never put down is a change.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:27 PM
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Good lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:41 AM
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Why are you handling this better than the below average men are?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:40 AM
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The happily married seem to be underrepresented at Reddit. They do exist but apparently they do not comment at Reddit as much as the dissatisfied do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:39 AM
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High value older men trade in their aging wives for younger models. Men do as much trading up as women but trading up is not so easy for average men and average women. Men are having a pity party. Maybe women could have changed since I was young because men seem to have changed therefore change is possible. I don’t remember men being this whiny when I was young.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:37 AM
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It seems to be a vocal minority of undesirable men that are the most vocal at Reddit .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:32 AM
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women and men have been pairing off successfully forever but you say the current generation of women is different. I doubt it. My guess is that the men that that complain that they can’t pair up with women are below average men who don’t realize that they have bad personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:30 AM
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Maybe women are more content being single than men but women are not content being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:26 AM
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Ban local residential zoning restrictions and do something to pressure builders to build small homes rather than than try to maximize their profit per lot by building bigger homes. The builders main expense is in the permission to build and in the land. It is hard to tease apart the natural cost of the land from the government granted permission to build. It is clear that the collective effect of local zoning cresting artificial scarcity of buildable lots is the main reason why young people can …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:25 AM
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I think it is a myth at some Reddit Subreddits like this one that average women reject average men. Average women did not reject average men when I was young and I find it more likely that social media has created a space for men to complain rather than that average women have raised their standards since I was young. Why do average men want to believe that average women will reject them? My guess is that half of these average men are not making an effort to date average women. My guess is that …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:12 AM
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Fear of rejection is so illogical. You get rejected so what. Maybe in some past era there might have been danger in approaching new people for romance. Both men and women seem to fear rejection but women seem to underestimate the degree to which the average man fears rejection. Maybe because 10% of men don’t fear rejection and are constantly hitting on women the women think that the average man also has the lack of fear of rejection that the fearless 10% that always hit on them have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:03 AM
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All perfectly normal. Hitting on women that I knew liked me was easy and did not get me rejected. Being attracted to a woman that might not like me made me nervous. Me being nervous was unattractive. With my wife she liked me and was attracted to me and I liked her and was attracted to her You can find women who are in both categories; she is attracted to you and you are attracted o her. It will probably happen to you eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 10:58 PM
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If the new person really fits well with me I might add him as a friend but then I would phase out my previous friend number 4 and replace friend number 4 with my new friend. That is kind of a cruel thing to do to my previous friend number 4 but more than 4 friends becomes stressful for me. I am weird and a bit autistic but my social work arounds for my lack of neurotypical social skills sometimes have me looking like I have advanced social skills. But really I have autistic melt downs if there a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:35 PM
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I pretty much set a limit on friends to no more than 4 real friends at a time. I had more acquaintances that I was friendly with but they were not really friends. I was fine with only one friend because I like a lot of alone time anyway. Every one of my girlfriends and my wife were my best friend within a few months of being my girlfriend. My best friend in high school was a bit intense and maybe unstable. He came to me with a message from his little sister asking me if I would like to date her.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:13 PM
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Yes, I like women besides sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:53 PM
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I am not sure why so many people hate the older man with the younger woman. Part of it might be that young women don’t like being hit on by old guys. Part of it might be young women projecting their gag reflex about self with old guys onto the young women that chose to have sex with old guys. Part might be parents that think the old guy is a bad match for young women. Part might be the desire to protect teenage girls from being taken advantage of onto 20 something women who are old enough to mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:52 PM
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A husband is usually the closest and most important person to a wife. The husband is the person a wife wants emotional support from.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:00 PM
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It is my nature to put women on pedestals and I don’t think there is is anything wrong with that. I can have her on a pedestal and still not let her walk all over me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:58 PM
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Women depend on men for emotional support as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:52 AM
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I can be a loner. I don’t need people that much but I prefer having a wife. I don’t really want more than 4 friends and I want a lot of alone time. That has been fine with most women that were with me. If the Woman wants to be in constant interaction with me / can’t be alone we won’t work as a couple. But I give the women with me enough attention for her to not feel alone and to feel intimate with me and I like feeling deeply connected to the women with me. The women with me get the best friend …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:54 AM
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Getting a mail order bride would seem to be the natural answer although those marriages usually fail. Free trade in spouses. If the women or men of your country don’t want you find a country where the opposite sex would want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:34 AM
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The 5’ 10” one had been my friend for months before we had sex and she was not higher than a 5 for looks. I honestly don’t know how attractive I was. I might have underestimated my face and actually might have had a very good face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:25 AM
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I had a 16 year old 5’ “7 girlfriend when I was 18. She lovingly told me I would be perfect if only I was taller. She did not know she was hurting me. She came from a very tall family and I bet she ended up being 5’ 9”. I accidentally cheated on her and she broke up with me for cheating. I did not know I was cheating but looking back on it I would have to agree that I cheated on her. I think she would have stayed with me if I had not cheated. I lost my virginity to a 5’ 8” girl. This girl did no…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:08 AM
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I did OK with women despite being 5’ 5” and broke. Maybe I had an attractive face. I definitely could be funny once I get over my shyness. I could not be funny on command in a bar pick up. Actually I don’t feel comfortable in bars so no bar pick ups for me. But I am older and going by old memories. Living in a modern dating app world probably would have hurt my success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:49 AM
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I am just saying a half dead bedroom can be OK. OP said “desire” and I jumped to lust. Most women just are not going to feel as much lust as men will. After marriage will she grab your penis and ask for sex like she might have done after she was your girlfriend for a few months? Probably not. Is there any part of your body that will excite her as much as her body excites you? Probably not. Not a dead bedroom but maybe non-passionate bedroom that might make the OP not feel desired. But I don’t re…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:31 AM
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Most of a relationship is 2 personalities enjoying each other. Playing well together. Having shared goals. Finding each other interesting. Taking comfort in your partner’s loyalty to you. Respecting each other’s contributions to the relationship and the household. Lust is important but not more important than the non-Phyical things. It would be nice if the women had a lot of lust for the men but you can have a good relationship even if the woman is not that physically excited by here man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:18 AM
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Physically I think men are attracted to and like women more than women are attracted to and like men. Non physically I think women are as into their men as men are into their women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:29 AM
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Prostitution became more tolerated during the gold rush when there were too many excess men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:08 AM
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Shitty is in the eye of the beholder. If a woman says the guy is treating her like shit but she sticks with him then maybe he is mostly not treating her like shit but she just feels like complaining to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:05 AM
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Men want shy virginal sluts that will only have sex with them. Never mind that a women that does not sleep around is not a slut. Never mind that shy virginal girls are not sluts, men want that unicorn. What you want does not have to make any rational sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:25 AM
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Most men prefer relationships but want casual sex more than most women want casual sex. If women are going to have causal sex they want a man that they are very attracted to. So the very attractive men are getting casual sex and are not complaining. The women are not choosing to have casual sex at rates that will let all men have casual sex especially since the very attraction men are getting casual sex with multiple women leaving fewer women for the less attractive men to hook up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:49 AM
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That photograph looks like a real human to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:17 AM
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What to do? Instincts are instincts and it is not fair to condemn women for their instincts. It also is not fair to condemn men for their instincts. We can modify our behavior some to not make people feel uncomfortable. That’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:47 AM
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Funny
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:05 AM
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Single mom’s are a symptom not the cause. The Single mother’s correlate with crime but are not the cause of crime. Which neighborhoods do single mothers raise their kids in? The bad boy next door will corrupt her son. Who becomes a single mom? She was already damaged before she became a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:32 AM
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I think the guys that whine about women choosing bad boys are mostly fake nice guys. Fake mice’s guys want something from women. Bad boys want something from women but at least the bad boys are honest. At least the bad boys love women. The fake nice guys are actually less nice than the bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:04 AM
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Try to stay in the middle. Not skittish and not overly aggressive. Using words is scary but try telling her what you are feeling. I don’t know why telling her what I was feeling made me feel vulnerable and scared. If you really like her being honest should get good results.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:42 AM
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Which woman
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:02 AM
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I don’t think I ever experienced a woman being sexist towards me. Times may have changed. I am older than the rest of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:18 AM
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Rules once prohibited TV from showing a husband and wife sleeping in the same bed even though most husbands and wives slept in the same bed. Porn has gone nuts. Both freedom of speech and censorship have reasonable cases to be made for their point of view. The Military industrial complex created a bunch of think tanks and a network of media assets to promote an ideology that would in turn promote weapons spending. Eisenhower warned us. Now this ideology that was sponsored by the military industr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:27 AM
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Would it be OK if government pushed private companies to censor certain political beliefs? That happened in the 1950s during McCarthyism. America realized that censorship was a threat to Democracy and that Democracy was what prevented the rich from robbing everybody else which would destroy the economy. Propaganda lies and censorship seem to be getting out of control again. I still see free speech as less dangerous than censorship. I am not saying that Reddit and the New York Times and other com…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:16 AM
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My last fight and the last time I was sucker punched were both in junior high school. I had a knife stuck to my throat by a crackhead that had a habit of robbing taxi drivers. I was driving taxi. I think most men have not been robbed by force. I think most men have not been in a fight or been hit since they were teenagers. My wife hit me often but she is a child abuse surviver with psychological disordered rages and delusions that she is being victimized and not many men have experienced that. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:05 AM
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We have insticts that were formed before laws and police existed. It was a time when men could take what they wanted and not even be judged for it. Hatfield vs McCoy style clan Justice was the only Justice that existed. Religion and the stigma against stealing was just developing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:51 PM
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Be nice to men because we men are needy babies who are soothed by a woman’s smile. But don’t smile at us men too much because then we will start hoping that you will have sex with us or become our girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:46 PM
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Ghosting is something that confuses older people who grew up prior to texting. Ghosting is a cultural change. Approving of Censorship is another cultural change. America rejected censorship after the McCarthy Era but now young people and Reddit are comfortable with advocating for censorship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:39 PM
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My wife gained 150 pounds and is morbidly obese. We are separated because of psychological reasons. She delusionally sees herself as a victim. She gets upset at me for me not fixing her problems. He mother failed to protect her when her father beat her. It isn’t really me she is mad at but she can’t keep it straight. She starts fights out of frustration at the fake victimization. She has been violent towards me but it isn’t her fault because she is just twisted by having been child abused. She s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 11:13 PM
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Submissive to me. I never wanted a woman to be submissive to me. I wanted my equal. A playmate and serious partner. Somebody as competent as me. But my wife without realizing what she was doing was trying to make me submissive to her. My wife was not attracted to weak men. If my wife was successful at making me submissive to her she would find me weak and become less attracted to me. My wife did not want to let any man dominate her like her father did when he child abused her but my wife’s margi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:29 PM
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Even in their 20s today most American men are overweight and most American women are even more overweight. When I was in my 20s in the 1980s young Americans were overweight but not as overweight as they are now. From the 1980s to now Americans steadily got fatter. In about 2015 plus or minus 10 years the men stopped getting fatter but the women continued to get fatter. Plus or minus 10 years is because of my memory having a problem; there was a specific year when the men stopped getting fatter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:21 PM
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I don’t think finding a wide variety of female faces attractive is weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:15 PM
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I thought 19 year old Britney Spears was very sexy. Too bad she was damaged. My wife was damaged and brilliant and beautiful and loving when she was not hating. I would rather be with the 24 year old version of my wife than 19 year Britney Spears. 19 year old Spears was a a little bit sexier than my 24 year old wife but I prefer my wife’s mind even though my wife was probably more of a crazed trouble maker than Britney Spears who was also trouble. Playing with my genealogy, I came across a websi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:13 PM
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Why were anime loving crackheads attractive to you? What kind of person do you want for a life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:01 PM
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When I was 28 I married a 24 year old, the love of my life. That was prior to the internet. By Reddit standards I am very old. She was a child abuse survivor with psychological problems. It was a difficult marriage. We are separated. I still pay her rent. She was violent and problematic but I am still in love with her. She is now morbidly obese, like 150 pounds overweight but she is the only woman my age that I would want to have sex with because when I look at her I still see the beautiful 24 y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 06:45 AM
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Yes I agree. I don’t think it is same when a woman touches a man without permission. I never touched a women without her permission and I never will. I did get jealous when I saw a hot guy get what he wanted when he touched a women without asking for permission. What I was saying is if 1/3 of the women wanted me to touch them the way I think 1/3 of the women want the hot guy to touch them then I was not sure that I would maintain my policy of never touching women without their permission. But on…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:39 PM
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We have watched the hot men with envy at what they can get away with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:24 PM
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The Hot guy can get away with more because the women won’t be as mad because the women may have mixed feelings. The hot guy may get rewarded for inappropriate behavior so the hot guy may not restrain himself. I have never touched a woman without her permission but I do want to touch women. What would happen to me if 1/3 of the women wanted me to touch them? I lost my virginity to a girl at a party that was drunk and horny and decided that out of the pathetic men at that party I was the hottest s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:04 PM
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If the groper is Prince Charming the attention is not unwanted and she may not even realize that Prince Charming is a groper because she liked the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:51 PM
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I have never touched a woman without her permission and I am guessing that is true for half or more of men. Somebody is groping women in bars but it isn’t me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:50 PM
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I have heard some women say all men are rapists in their lectures but the women saying that might have been being dramatic and not really believing what they were saying. I guess they hated patriarchy and met some obnoxious men and simply like the feeling of accusing all men of being rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:47 PM
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If the men have good jobs, live in safe neighborhoods and don’t associate with macho boys the men will be assaulted less than women because women often get hit by their boyfriends and living in a safe neighborhood won’t protect a woman from getting hit by her boyfriend. I was battered by my wife who I would not hit. I pretended I would hit her to try to scare her out of hitting me but that did not work. She had already lived with a man that hit her, her father and she was not afraid of being hit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:19 PM
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I wonder how many years I have to be on Reddit before I will be able to understand moderator speech. But I appreciate your attempt at communication with that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:15 PM
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I had a knife stuck to my throat when I drove taxi. The guy that put the knife to to my throat stabbed 6 taxi drivers in his other robberies. But I was driving night shift. Few women drove taxi in 1990s San Francisco and none of those women drive night shift. There are reasons why women don’t get violently attacked as much men get attacked . Women are avoiding those situations that put them in danger. I am a small man but I am so much stronger than women even though I don’t intentionally work ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 08:01 PM
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X
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:16 PM
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Let’s suppose a woman had this pattern until marriage at age 35. Let’s start this woman early at 15th birthday. 10 months monogamous with boyfriend. 1 month of celibate break up mourning. 1 month of exploring men, sex with 4 men one of whom becomes the next boyfriend. That means 4 men per year. That ends up being 80 men prior to marriage. What is strange about my hypothetical woman is that none of these boyfriend relationships lasted more than one year.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:20 PM
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Straight men would also be very promiscuous if the women made that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:08 PM
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I am not sure I ever met somebody healthy and well balanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 09:06 PM
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People that are in favor of appreciating high body count women are getting down voted in this thread. Is that because being anti-high body count women is majority male opinion and Reddit is majority male? Is it because being anti high body count is majority opinion of people younger than 25 and Reddit has a majority under age 25? Is it because purple pill has a misogynistic majority? It is nice to have enough karma 800 that I can afford to lose karma but I still need 1200 karma to post comments …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 04:06 PM
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I was not grossed out by high body count. I just had fear that she might go back to one of those guys or that I would not be as good as one of those guys so she would keep looking for a guy better than me. I was grossed out when gay men wanted me. Most women get grossed out when old men want them. I would get grossed out if I was served food with squirming maggots in it. Inappropriate partner and inappropriate food cause a gross out feeling. Your body may be trying to protect you from syphilis. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:56 PM
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It is the women who are quite enthusiastic about sex that are going to end up with the high body count. These are the women that won’t stop having sex with you after they married you. The risks from a high body count woman are that she will cheat because she is enthusiastic about sex and that you won’t measure up to one of her past lovers. The high body count woman probably won’t cheat but she is a higher risk to cheat than the ice maiden is. If she keeps coming back to you for sex it is because…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:40 PM
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Women are not aliens from Mars.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 03:28 PM
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I suspect BS. I bet that women are also happier in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:06 AM
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I was with 10 women only one of whom, my wife gave me blow jobs and not often. She gave me a blow job in the museum of fine arts and the security guard caught us. In retrospect I think we were being disrespectful to the other people when she gave me a blow job in the museum. I never had a bad blow job so I don’t know. I figure a bad job might be good because it would last longer. Of course a good blow job giving woman could keep me on the edge of cumming for as long as she wanted if that is what…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:30 AM
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What is a crushed box?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:56 AM
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I cared some about body count in the ancient past when I rode dinosaurs to work. I cared about body count because what if I was inferior in bed. But if the woman wants me despite my being inferior in bed then I should just accept that she wants me and stop worrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:55 AM
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I a guy with a higher body count woman agree with you. I am surprised thinking it is wiser to ignore body count gets down voted. I am not trying to shame the guys distressed about female body count. I just think that if they have a choice they should judge the woman by how good she is to them rather than by how many men she has been with. I think a woman that likes men and is sensual and is not frigid is a good thing. Throwing away a good woman that wants to love you because of her body count se…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:44 AM
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Work is where I met half of the women who were with me back in the 1980s. If I could not be with women from work that would have seriously reduced my success. There was no way I could make the bar seen work for me. Maybe I could have done something with dating apps that did not exist when I was young.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:52 AM
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How often do you have to get laid to disqualify yourself as having trouble getting laid? If you don’t make an effort to get laid can you really say you are having trouble getting laid? Prior to age 28 when I got married I did not get laid as much as I would have liked. I went some years without getting laid but I was laid by 10 women. I barely worked at getting laid and I was only rejected by 2 women both of whom rejected me sweetly and remained my friends .
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:30 AM
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I have social anxiety and am not comfortable being sociable with strangers. I also have some sensory processing disorder and can not spend time in noisy bars. For some concerts are OK for me but not bars. But what about one on one if you get a date? One on one was usually OK for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:12 AM
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If the guys don’t have girlfriends then there are women out there without boyfriends. Do those women not want boyfriends? Apparently dating apps are not solving the problem if those without boyfriends and girlfriends are not finding each other. I would have thought dating apps would have helped but I guess I was wrong. On the other hand maybe the dating apps are helping but something else is hurting more than dating apps are helping. Maybe smart phones and computers are making it too comfortable…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 12:03 AM
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Disrespect There are types of jobs you should not ask the disrespected person to do. If they are not capable of doing jobs like maybe they are stupid and unwilling to do jobs due to selfishness and irresponsible to the point that I can’t leave a child under their supervision then I won’t respect them. If the irresponsible incompetent person delights my heart with their beauty, their love for me, their jokes and the way they hold their tea cup then I will love them even if I don’t respect them. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 06:27 PM
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I lost my virginity to a girl that basically jumped me but it was rare for a woman to make it that easy for me to get laid. At minimum I had to recognize when I was being flirted with and flirt back and probably would have get brave and do something or say something to get us the next step closer to sex. I was shy about asking for what I wanted. Even if you spend a lot of time with women if you don’t try to get sex or romance you probably won’t be getting sex. Cowards won’t get much sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:55 AM
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Well, I respect your intelligence. You gave me something to think about. My wife really chose me and got us together but me realizing my wife was capable of having high quality original thoughts made me more excited about being with her. I was sort of an intellection snob. Then my wife explained how her smart father child abused her and how her genius sister tormented her and how her dysfunctional extended family were also cruel to their families despite being geniuses. Then I thought about my d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:33 AM
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Yes. Enjoy a woman’s love and forget the body count. My wife was the love of my life but I was not the love of her life. She still was worshipping a high school boyfriend who cheated on her with both of her best friends. Her loving her ex-high school boyfriend was OK with me because she gave me better love than I knew was possible. My wife also had more lovers than I had and more boyfriends than I had girlfriends. It did not matter because she was good to me. Her love for me was real despite her…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:38 AM
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I meant value and respect interchangeably but my switching words might indicate something about my unconscious attitudes. Nobody thinks a housewife is unusual but people might not think a house-husband is normal. I never wanted a woman to look up to me as a superior. I just wanted women to think I was worthy of being with them. I can’t really relate to superiority. I suppose superiority does connect to respect. I just wanted to love and be loved. I can see superiority being relevant to the early…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 11:48 PM
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I don’t find it scary that Incels have a online community. I think the next generation will improve the understanding. I am glad Incel culture did not exist when I was young because I was not so Un-incel that I might not have been influenced by incels but if I had been influenced by Incels and more strongly believed that no woman would ever want me because I was too short then it might have hurt my chances with women. I accept that I feel better when I am loved by a woman. I like that Incels sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:51 PM
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I agree with you. In theory the couple should move to advance the career of whichever spouse is having more career success. In theory the man should become the primary caregiver of the child and the primary household chore doer and cook if the wife has more career success. Would a wife respect her husband if he was the house husband? Men might have an easier time valuing their housewife than women would have valuing their house-husband or at least that is a male fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:17 PM
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I am sorry. It is not fair or kind. Evolution is not kind. But if other women are locking down the best men you will be left with a lower quality batch of men to choose from if you don’t lock down a man early. The batch of men left for you to choose from at age 30 will include some hidden gems but you will have to date more men to find those hidden gems that other women missed. By not locking down a good man now you are letting some other woman have the good man you could have had. You are doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:05 PM
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What if there were always this many Incels but now the internet has changed the way Incels see themselves and communicate. Borderline Incel type young men might become real Incels if they get influenced by the Incel community. The guy is already not very attractive to women and then he goes and kills off his remaining chances with women by believing Incel ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:47 PM
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I seemed to have gotten away with being myself, not scary and not Hollywood perfect and yet I still married a pretty woman who had a personality that I loved. I was theoretically very much not a good catch for women and yet women were still willing to be with me. I did not say all the right things. Enough Women must have liked my personality or something despite my being a bit autistic and not socially smooth. But I have been out of the dating scene since before dating apps and dating websites e…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:26 PM
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How does current culture explain the fear of showing romantic interest. I go to prehistoric culture because current culture fails to explain the fear of showing romantic interest. You get rejected, you don’t get socially killed. You don’t get banished or excommunicated. You live to try again. My fear of being rejected was disproportionate to what actually happened to me when I got rejected. The women who rejected me romantically never held it against me that I approached them but I did not scare…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 09:08 PM
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The woman’s need to get male commitment prior to sex is easy to understand in the historic evolutionary context but that does not explain the fear of showing romantic interest. We don’t know much about prehistoric culture. Something in prehistoric culture must have made it dangerous to show romantic interest. There must have been a evolutionary advantage to making new romantic overtures dangerous. Something has changed; maybe cheap food, but for the most part nobody is getting killed for flirtin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:53 PM
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Historically from a Darwinistic evolutionary perspective having a baby without a committed male partner was a bad move in terms of passing you DNA to a future generation. Historically just surviving was difficult. Children without 2 committed parents did not do well at surviving.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:42 PM
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I think the fear was instinctual. Why do women flirt rather than be direct like the gay men that hit on me that I rejected. I think women also have instinctual fear. I don’t see anything in the modern American culture to explain why such fear would exist. But instinctual fears develop over thousands of years. I assume that openly expressing that you are romantically attracted to somebody must have been getting people killed in prehistoric times.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:32 PM
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Unless things have changed for young men I reject the idea that the average young men have any great difficulty socializing romantically with young women. Of course there will be men with low self esteem and men with poor social skills that will struggle romantically with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:27 PM
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I was a young man before many of you were born but I think the majority of my peer young men were not inept at socializing romantically with women. I had fear and anxiety at being romantic with women but I was under the impression that most of my peers were not quite as fearful as me. I was worried about my late start at romance. A high school girlfriend told me I would be perfect if I was taller and I became insecure about being short. But in some ways I was good with women. My sister and I pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:17 PM
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Do women younger than 25 years old understand that the time to catch a high quality man with their youthful beauty will not last? I understand that young women are busy working on their careers but maybe they should be dating and getting married. They can still delay having babies. I understand how children hurt careers but don’t see why being married would hurts careers. From my massive genealogy I see that historically American women were normally married by age 25. But my sample, my ancestors…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:05 PM
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About who approaches who. I a man did not really do the male job of chasing women and as a result of that I got less rejections but also had less girlfriends and sex then I might have had. Still despite me not hitting on women that I had not already played with or worked with or lived with I still ended up with women. On a couple of occasions I ended up with women who had been my housemates. Half of the women that became girlfriends or casual sex partners were clearly the result of me approachin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:45 PM
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We could use Reddit anecdotes to find out. We could use anonymous surveys to find out how much more chubby women are forgiving of men that don’t look good. Warning about anonymous surveys. For decades science’s opinion about average penis size was based on anonymous surveys of men. When science switched from anonymous surveys of random men to measuring the penis sizes of random men the scientific penis length shrank by 3/4 of an inch. It seems a bunch of men were lying about their penis size in …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:04 AM
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I have studied 1600s Puritan New England. Puritan women did not have to marry men they did not like. People commenting don’t know history and have an exaggerated view of the degree to which women were property. Most of the world and history had women having veto power over who would be their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 06:56 AM
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Trust, but keep your eyes open. I am pretty much a blue pill guy. A slightly purplish blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:47 AM
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No. I had no intent to fuck his sister although she was very hot. My friend was kind of intense and had poor boundary control and I was not so sure that having his sister as my girlfriend was a good idea. I just believed that the siblings should have solidarity. If my friend who is smoking marijuana with me does not want his sister smoking marijuana he needs to explain his position to his sister who now knows that he smokes marijuana. Like I said, Love wants nothing in return. You have misunders…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 10:54 PM
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If we are liking her breasts that won’t be changing. But in other ways I am not sure that the men are any better than the women at knowing what they want or at always liking what they liked once. If you liked something once you will probably like it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:22 AM
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Women may not be able to say what they want but they know that they are liking a man when they are liking a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:09 AM
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I was with enough woman and married a pretty woman with a mind that I loved. My wife had other men perusing her but she found me and chose me. I had something working for me but I am not sure what was working for me. 1/3 of women don’t care about height. Thank god being only 5’ 5” just meant that 2/3rds of women would not want me but there an awful lot of women in the remaining 1/3 of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 04:05 AM
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In one case when I was being nice to a woman for no reason and was speaking to her with love in my voice and looking at her with love in my eyes because in that moment I felt love for her, in that moment she flipped from being ambivalent about me to wanting me. And her wanting me persisted. Nice and Loving are 2 different things. I think women really like a guy that loves but most women can recognize he difference between real love and fake love. I think you can attract a woman with love but eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:52 AM
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If man A is not on Reddit complaining, how will you know that he exists? My guess is that man a A is more common but man A probably also has an easier time getting into to committed relationships so his numbers as single men will go down as he gets a girlfriend and gets married. The frustration and intensity of Man B may scare off women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:36 AM
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I was 5’ 5” and did not have money. My face may have been attractive. Incels reject personality problems as being the reason why they are Incels but I think the Incels were wrong. I had some of the lack of confidence problems that Incels have but women often chose to be with me. I did not have Chad level success with women. I don’t really know what those women saw in me but maybe some aspect of my personality was attracting enough women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:27 AM
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It is attitude. Some people are not prone to bitterness. Some people are prone to bitterness. Some people are satisfied with what they have. Some people will never be satisfied. I bought property an 8 hour drive from where I live on which I can on which to build an 8 units of Tiny homes, a community for poor disabled people. Once I get the first home built for me, 60 years old but not disabled then I might try to find a woman to be in my life because I love having a woman in my life. But if havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:18 AM
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Some couples are able to make a a relationship based on physical attraction work. They become friends but maybe not best friends. My wife and I quickly became best friends. She fit right for me. Relationship with a best friend is superior in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:46 PM
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Only the high paid can really afford to raise kids on a single salary without feeling financially squeezed. Our genetic Insticts and much of our cultural instincts have come from the tribalistic hunting and gathering years of human history. A woman without a loyal man or a loyal tribe was not likely to be able to raise a child to adulthood. I don’t know what the women feel but I feel much better when I sleep snuggled with a woman. I prefer that the woman I sleep with be a permanent partner. It j…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:00 PM
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Some of women are going to feel very hurt by not having children. Some other women don’t even seem bothered by not having children. Same is true for men. My wife could not have children. I hurts me a bit to have not had children . There is slim hope that a woman young enough to have children might still have children with me. There is also a tiny possibility that I got some woman pregnant and she had my child and never told me. The funnest job I ever had was taking care of 3?girls age 2,4,and 6.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:58 PM
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I suspect it is not true that domestic violence is really about patriarchy. I don’t think the male batterers of women are motivated by patriarchy. They just want to control the women because they are scared. The truth is the women mean a lot to the batterers and the batterers don’t like that vulnerability. I dont’t think patriarchy as an ideology is really that important to the male batterers even as a justification of their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:10 AM
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My great aunt whom I loved, respected and admired had no romantic relationships that I am aware of l. I don’t know her history and I never asked her why she did not get married and I don’t know her sexual orientation. Still for me a wife and children mattered. My wife could not have children. My wife gave me love that was better than I could have imagined love being but we fought too much. We are separated and will probably stay separated. I still love her and she still loves me and we are still…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:12 PM
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I wonder how much women would batter men if women were stronger than men. When my wife bettered me I would sometimes threaten to hit her. If she was enraged enough to hit me she was also enraged enough to not worry about me hitting her back. My threats had little impact on her. But I bet most male batterers would change their behavior if their wife or girlfriend could beat them up. Maybe men are socialized to physical violence. Maybe men have poor skills at fighting with words. But the strength …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:01 PM
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I will try dating women my own age sometime. But I am attracted to women young enough to be my granddaughter. I am not the old man that bothers young women. The young women have not even been aware that I was attracted. to them. To young women I am a nice older guy that they are comfortable being around. Young women like me if they have any opinion about me at all but I think the young women would stop liking me if I hit on them. I am like a fire extinguisher in a glass case that has a sign sayi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:29 PM
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I did not know about Johny Dep. The danger to a women with a male batterer is much greater because of the strength differential. I could stay with a female batterer for decades because being male and stronger gave me some protection. I still love her and she still loves me. I just think it is good to remind people that men do get battered. My wife’s mom got murdered 3 years after I married her and we suspect that her father did the murder and got away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:01 AM
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My gay cousin the doctor had a surrogate give birth. I think there is a whole industry of surrogates. It Sounds more extreme than prostitution to me but if the surrogate thinks the money is right that is her decision. The surrogate women going through pregnancy get paid well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:34 AM
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Your wife may not get pregnant but she still has to raise the kids and kids are more difficult than a pet dog. So what is the procedure to gather your wife’s eggs like? Don’t push your wife to accept a surrogate birth. If she says no she says no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:31 AM
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I would kind of like to have a baby. I guess I got Uterus envy. As a childless 60 year old man I would happily agree to become a healthy attractive 25 year old woman. But I am getting 35 years younger as well as changing gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:38 AM
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I basically agree with you but you left out a 3rd category. Women who fall for bad boys because the bad boys love them and make them feel loved. When a bad boy loves a women he actually loves the woman. When a nice guy is nice he does not necessarily really love the woman. Also there are different degrees of badness. Some bad boys are not that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:51 AM
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She can be a bad ass lawyer and still be delicate emotionally in relationships. If she cries when you tell her you are mad at her for something, then she is delicate. I no longer remember whether it was you or somebody else talking about crying as manipulation. If her tears are real then she is not manipulating. I can understand the confusion you might have regarding a strong tough lawyer crying but just accept the paradox. She isn’t as tough as she appears to be in her lawyer persona.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:59 PM
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But we’re you saying that a guy being supportive to a woman in a feminine way would make her lose respect for him as a man? That is what I don’t believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:07 PM
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She is a delicate woman and your fury might be a little scary. If my wife pissed me off……….. actually my wife is not a good example because she is more likely to retaliate if I complain rather than cry. But I have known the kind of woman that you are talking about. So with this delicate type of woman you need to calm yourself first, explain to her calmly that she pissed you off and hurt you; take a break in the middle of explaining to tell her that you love her and then repeat that she pissed yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:05 PM
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BUll A man needs to find some other way to appear manly. Open the pickle Jars. Move the furniture. Do something without her permission. But listen to her. She will not lose respect for you. Let her be vulnerable with you and dare to be vulnerable with her; it will only make the relationship better. A man being competent in a feminine role does no emasculate a man. A man not being competent in male roles emasculates a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:58 PM
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Most people just are not wired to be comfortable being alone. A friend does not replace a best friend or replace a partner. Historically people needed partners, extended family and tribe/village and would feel insecure and uncomfortable and vulnerable without the protective social structure supporting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:45 PM
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Most Men won’t even talk about being battered by women that they refuse to hit back. Still I agree that it isn’t the same. My wife punched like a girl and could not even hurt me physically with her punches but her punches did hurt me psychologically. When she hit me above the eye with a glass bottle and my wound gushed blood she was passionately repentant. Normally after hitting me she was not repentant and thought that I had deserved to be hit. Had she been the stronger male and me the weaker f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:35 PM
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I have no idea why I was so scared to talk about sex and relationships with my lovers. I asked and told nothing about sex and they asked and told nothing. I guess I was afraid that anything I said might be used against me. Without porn I am not sure when I would have learned that clitorises existed because I am not sure that the women I was with would have told me that clitorises existed. One girlfriend told me that she had already taught 3 men how to be better lovers and she was done teaching a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:20 PM
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My wife, the love of my life was not cuddly, maybe because she had been child abused. My previous girlfriend that I did not love as much was cuddly and I loved hugging and cuddling and gentle background physical affection. So his couch had the better TV angle. Fine. He should bring you to his couch and hug you and snuggle and kiss your ear, and play with your hair and tell you that he loves you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:04 PM
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If the crying is real she is not manipulating; but it can still manipulate you. If a baby is crying because it is hungry, the baby is not manipulating but the parent does what the baby wants and feeds the baby because the parents love the baby. When is feeding the crying baby not right? There may be circumstances where it is correct to make the baby wait. When is taking care of your crying wife not right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:53 PM
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Sorry. So first man monopolized the years in which men were probably most attracted to your body. You only felt loved when first man was having sex with you. Women felt loved by me In non-sexual situations. I am sorry that you did not get to have that. Feeling loved during sex is good. I baby sitted for 3 little girls, it was the funnest job I ever had. I would not have ignored the kids. But I have had a problem with laziness and my ability to force myself to do boring jobs that need to get done…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 08:36 PM
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I lived in a 45 person commune, To some degree something like the fights between husband and wives happened between commune members. But the dynamics were different. Most of our commune members were in their late 20s or early 30s. There was some hook up sex within the commune. 45 person commune was like a tribe and felt like a natural human social structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 06:49 PM
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Thanks In my wife’s case the crying easily and other effects stopped as soon as menstruation started . Her weepy days were the 2-3 days before the start of menstruation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 01:01 PM
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I was wondering if feminism made men less attractive to women. Does feminism make women resist falling into foolish romance? Did women of the past project a little heroicness onto men. With men needing a wife’s income to raise a family can men no longer be heroes. Does feminism teach women to not dream of a heroic man while modern economics deprives men of the opportunity to be heroes. We have police to protect women. What are the little boys in men’s bodies for now?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:53 PM
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A couple questions Did your extra emotional response happen when you were premenstrual or when you were menstruating? Did you also get more happy / delighted at those times by things or only more weepy? I understand the issue of men not validating the emotions because of menstrual cycle. That would bother me if somebody did not validate my emotions just because I was more emotional at some times than other times. I did not do that with my wife. Just because being premenstrual made the emotions g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:25 AM
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No, she was worth putting up with some trouble. She suffered from being a child abuse victim. Her mom got murdered perhaps by her dad 3 years after I married her. I am separated now because we fought too much. But I stayed with her and her hair trigger temper for 20 years. I still love her and she still loves me. She is my best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:14 AM
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Enbies ? A typo or yet another term that I am not familiar with?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:03 AM
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Do the happily married not talk about their happy marriages on social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:02 AM
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What is going wrong? Is it just money? Has feminism damaged romance?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:00 AM
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I love a woman sleeping with her head on my shoulder. I almost feel like a woman cuddling with me is healing medicine for me. I love that thing where I make jokes and she laughs. Women are like art to me. Why do we like art and music. Why do I prefer some music and some women? I love being loved and I love loving. It is easy for me to love a woman. Being in love, the honeymoon phase is so deliciously intoxicating. It is our instinct to pair up into couples. Reproduction and family unit to raise …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:50 AM
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My wife’s hair trigger temper got even more hair trigger when she was premenstrual. Sorry but there is no question that menstrual cycle effects moods. But when the menstruation actually starts the bad part of her menstrual cycle was over for me but her menstruation was physically painful for her with her endometriosis. All women are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:05 AM
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BPD has a stigma. I think my wife had BPD because her behavior was BPD like. But she had a strong clear sense of self which goes against one of the BPD check boxes. She prefers the PTSD diagnosis but PTSD does not match her behavior as well as BPD does. Men deeply loving trouble making BPD women is normal. I don’t like it when some men get bitter against BPD women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:44 AM
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Love stopped me from abandoning her despite her violent rages. Love did not fix our inability to have a good relationship. Actually part of our relationship was good but the bad part was bad. I would marry her again and do it all over again despite knowing that a successful relationship with her isn’t possible because she was the love of my life and I doubt I ever would have experienced a love as wonderful as her love with somebody else. The fact that she will get enraged for stupid reasons and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:20 AM
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I might feel more insecure if the woman earned a lot more money than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:06 AM
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I am separated. My wife was physically violent to me with weapons as part of her rages caused by her being child abused. We fought too much. I am paying her rent and food with no resentment. She is disabled. She loves me and I love her. I married her more than 30 years ago and I am still in love with her. Love is not always fleeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:00 AM
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I don’t believe that the percentage of men and women rejecting partnering with and marrying somebody of the opposite sex is that high. Something has gone a bit wrong, but what. Clearly the economic situation is part of the part of the problem. Identity politics (which is just a device to stop the left and right from uniting against corporate corruption) may be part of creating hostility between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:56 AM
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In many ways 1973 America was the economic peak for the American people. The wealthy have quietly and successfully waged class war on the middle class and the poor since 1973. The only reason I don’t declare 1973 the peak is that modern technology is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:32 PM
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It may be a horrible comment but it is true. I am counting white men of the North and south as white men. When the average white man wanted slavery ended, it ended. African slavery was never good for poor white men economically and only the propaganda of the wealthy made poor white men tolerate stagers, My fathers ancestors included a few slave owners in 1600s and 1700s New Jersey. My mom’s ancestry has included a slave owner in 1600s Massachusetts.. Somehow Northern states turned against the ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:01 AM
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I don’t think women are aggressive enough to get ahead in business or to get equal pay for equal work. Although a man, I also was not aggressive enough but driving taxi in Boston was my assertiveness training and it helped me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:24 AM
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If I start dating women my own age I think I will only be looking for relationships. If I want sex one last time with a woman that I am very sexually attracted to then I think I should go to a young escort and do that before I start dating women my own age looking for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:04 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:45 PM
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Taboo in asking men out, yes. But that is what flirting is for. Get men to ask women out while the men think asking asking the woman out was their idea but really the flirting woman set the whole situation into motion. I was a scared chicken man with women but looking back half of the women I was with actually did the majority of the brave vulnerable work of getting with me. Those women could have been rejected by me. They risked rejection. They violated the taboo of approaching a man. But some …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:26 PM
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I can’t find the comment I wanted to comment to. I am sort off topic anyway. I wanted to be a nature boy feminist man. I did not want to like make-up because it felt unfair to me that women should have to wear make up and unnatural that men should prefer make-up to women as they occur naturally. But it turns out that mascara attracts me. I don’t know why. Eye shadow works for me if the woman knows the right eye shadow to choose for her looks and has the skill to apply it well. Lipstick does noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:13 PM
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It won’t necessarily be that way. Looks attract men but men can fall in love based on personality fits and being loved. Love can be like a spiral. You love them a little, they love you back some and that feels nice so you love them more and then they love you more and then you love them still yet more and they love you back still yet more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:05 PM
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The women who rejected me were sweet to me while rejecting me. I am not so sure why guys should be so scared of being rejected but I also was scared of being rejected. What would a guy have to do to be rejected harshly? If ugly women approached men and the men chose to reject them, I hope the rejecting men would be as nice to the ugly women as the women who rejected me were to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:39 PM
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That statue’s butt is more bubble butt than my idea of Greek butts. The
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:45 AM
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A perfect relationship helps women make sure that the children live to adulthood. A man has no children without sex. A loving woman makes a man happy and probably will have sex with him. But sex, not the woman’s job or her dreams or her intelligence or her kindness and love, it is sex that determines if the man’s DNA will propagate into the future. Men relentlessly seeking sex makes sense makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint. Women relentlessly seeking commitment makes sense from an evolu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 11:39 PM
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In general good looking men and women don’t cheat on their spouses, boyfriends and girlfriends. They have opportunities to cheat but they won’t cheat. There are a minority that will cheat. Good looking people not in relationships will have more sexual partners than ugly people but so what.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:53 PM
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A lot of people, maybe half of American men and women don’t believe that people can have opposite sex friends that they are sexually attracted to. I have had opposite sex friends that I was sexually attracted to and I don’t see what the problem is. I would not cheat on my wife just because I was alone with a female friend that I was sexually attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:47 PM
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I had been to Greece and noticed that their butts were shaped a bit different on both the men and women. They tended to be a bit flatter butts and less bubble butts. My fiancé / wife was half Lebanese and the Lebanese, Syrians, Palestinians Turks and Greeks have some shared ancestry/DNA and body shapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:36 PM
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Flirting is confusing. But Flirting works OK. Their must be a historical reason for the need to maintain the plausible deniability of attraction; some reason for flirting instead of being direct like the gay men who wanted sex with me were. Maybe it is about slut shaming. A woman admitting to wanting sex might be devalued. I think we can do a bit of mind reading if we are given enough clues. Men have often gotten wishful thinking about women who were just being friendly but I like friendly women…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:23 PM
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Now I have to find out what Fresh and Fit is. Compulsively curious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:38 PM
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I told my fiancé that her butt looked like a Greek butt. I never said I did not like Greek butts but I saw that I created an insecurity. There was no need for me to say anything about her butt and I was not a Kid and I should have known better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:28 PM
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I don’t think she would have accidentally hurt me when she was trying to compliment me if she had been 18 rather than 16. She could have told me that I was almost perfect and I would have loved that and would not have worried about in which way I wasn’t quite perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:33 PM
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That king of the Incels guy Elliot Rodger who killed 6 people thought that women should come and chat him up and give him their phone numbers if he just sat at an outdoor table at Starbucks looking cute in his designer clothes. Elliot Rodger was a moderately attractive guy, his problem was personality. How attractive would a woman have to be to make sitting at Starbucks looking cute work as a dating technique?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:14 AM
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Game/ seduction gurus have the power to extract money from lonely men’s pockets. The game seduction tricks may work some with hook up bar girls. Not my favorite girls but I was only their cabdriver. On top of being to shy to try picking up girls in bars I could not even spend time in bars because I had a autism spectrum sensory processing disorder that made it painful for me to be in bars. I don’t know why rock concerts were fine but bars were painful for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:29 AM
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How does somebody become confident?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:21 AM
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Feminism made logical sense but I agree that women might not be happier now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:03 AM
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Ban local real estate zoning to make home prices fall so that couples can start families.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 03:01 AM
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Is dropping the bitterness and misogamy easy? Changing a personality won’t be easy. Learning to talk to people sounds achievable. Short man won’t taller. Ugly man probably won’t get better looking but some are trying plastic surgery. If becoming wealthy was easy we would not have poor people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:54 AM
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Force Chad to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:46 AM
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I think the sexless make mostly are shaming themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:44 AM
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Apparently as a proportion of their own age group 80 year old men are the most likely to kill themselves. You will see some statistics saying that 45 to 55 year old men have the most suicide but that is because there are more middle aged men then 80 year old men. White men kill themselves more often then other ethnicities in America. An 80 year old man living in rural Wyoming is the most likely person to kill himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:40 AM
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My connection to the sexless guys is that I can relate to their shame and to the pain of feeling inferior. I was only a little inferior with women and I think the sexless guys would happily settle for what I got but feeling inferior even when not particularly inferior was like being cut by a knife.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:08 AM
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Yes they want validation but is the validation trustworthy if the validator won’t have sex with them? How can they feel worthy if women won’t be with them? Maybe they should seek validation for accomplishments that have nothing to do with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:06 AM
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Yes, some woman found me desirable; I wonder how that happened. Malleable women. I wonder what molded them to the point that they could see a non-mainstream guy like me as desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:54 AM
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A high school girlfriend lovingly told me I would be perfect if only I was taller. She was only 16 and did not understand what she had just done. I could have been happy about being almost perfect but instead I was haunted by not being tall enough. Male Height does matter to most women. I turned down every gay man that wanted me so why should women that need male height to be attracted be shamed for being who they are? Why should men be pissed at women for wanting what they want when men also wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:54 PM
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Women don’t agree with each other about what they want. 10 women were with me but I was 5’ 5” had no confidence sand am still convinced that I am unlovable and unfuckable and unwantable despite women proving repeatedly that I am wrong and women could want me. I am strange, I am a little but on the autistic spectrum. My face may have been handsome. My personality is a mixed bag some good some bad. I can be loving and funny. I got with a few of those 10 women by be loving towards them with no inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:07 PM
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So women, what do you think about having sex with virgin men who are basically average men but not truly undesirable and not bitter against women. Would you avoid virgin men after you have already had sex with a few virgin men? I figure 16 to 20 year old women are having sex with virgin men. When a woman turns 21 does she want to be finished with having sex with virgin men? And men, did you tell the woman that you lost your virginity to that you were a virgin? I did not tell the 18 year old woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:20 PM
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I don’t see any great mystery about the cause of sexless men. These are men that women don’t want. It is not the women’s fault that they don’t want these men. Now maybe economics has stopped many of the desirable men from getting married which increases the supply of available singe desirable men. Then the single women can date desirable men. If those desirable men were removed from the dating and hook up pool by being married then the left over women might be more inclined to give the sexless u…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:08 PM
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If women can help their Incel little brothers figure out what he is doing wrong with women then great. Actually I think older sisters and Incel little brothers will usually lack the courage to discuss little brother’s problem with women. And the Incels need to have the courage and humility to admit that something is wrong with their personality. Women can’t fix the sexless male problem. How many women are willing to dispense mercy sex and mercy love to men they are not attracted to? I was unwill…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:00 PM
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Really? On the surface my wife outranked me. Now the truth was that my wife was damaged from child abuse and therefore did not really outrank me but neither I nor the other men chasing her would have known that she did not outrank me. She chose me over the other men; yay. But she was going to make our relationship very difficult because of her damage from child abuse; boo. I treated her well. I see no reason why I would treat a woman that outranked me poorly. It would be nice if a woman with me …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:42 PM
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I never heard of grinder. Really, easy sex without prostitutes? Will the women weigh 300 pounds? Is Grinder a resource I should know about? Is 60 year old male too old for grinder? I still am in love with my ex-wife and I support her but I am free to look for sex and love if I want to. When I drove taxi in Gay Mecca San Francisco I learned about a park where gay men would go to have sex with strangers. They apparently were skipping talking and flirting and jumping straight to sex. Straight men w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:27 PM
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Not if you can be a real friend to a woman that you are attracted to. Now half of America thinks that is impossible so I accept that being a non-manipulative friend to a person you are sexually attracted to is not possible for half of the people. Fine those people are the way they are but I am in the group that is not like that. I let the woman that friendzoned me and called me her brother know that I wanted to have sex with her and she sweetly rejected me and I went back to being her brother wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:13 PM
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Loves you like a brother. I got friendzoned once by a woman that loved me like a brother were we definitely had real love for each other. Now I am short and 2/3rds of women can not have sexual or romantic feelings for a man my height so maybe that was the problem. Half of American men and women don’t believe that friendships with ignored sexual attraction are possible. I know that for me friendships with ignored sexual attraction are easy and I can easily be a true friend to a woman that I would…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:56 PM
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When the nice guy successfully dates and gets a relationship with the woman that was crying on his shoulder because the bad boys she had relationships with were too bad; he nice guy might get in fights caused by his girlfriend and she is now crying in another nice guy’s shoulder and the new nice guy now thinks that the original nice guy is a trouble making bad boy. Maybe the bad boys were never bad but the girl is troubled.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:41 PM
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Do women get sick of being with male virgins? From my side as a high school student I became insecure about being less experienced than the other guys because I thought the girls wanted more experienced guys.. When I was a high school senior, sophomore girls started seeing me as the cool experienced older boy that they wanted to be with but I was not cool or experienced. A sophomore girl and her best friend both saw me as a guy they wanted to be with. The 1st girl became my girlfriend and is sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:57 PM
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My wife became friends with a couple that had been my best friends for years. Apparently the couple talked me up and got my wife interested enough in me that she was flirting with for 2 weeks as soon as she met me before she reeled me in and I started flirting back at which point we basically had captured each other because we were a good fit for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:28 PM
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Dating is so time consuming if dating is not an ends in itself but just a means to an ends. Why can’t artificially intelligence replace dating for screening men? Let your computer meet his computer and let the computers date each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:05 PM
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Polite, hard working, stable man needs one more good trait, any good trait to interest woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:59 PM
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I don’t think the science has been done. Self reported penis size in anonymous surveys was something like 6 1/2 inches but when they finally measured a large sample of penises of random men they got a average penis size of 5 1/2 inches. It seems that men were inflating their penis size on anonymous surveys so yes, there is a problem with anecdotes. But anecdotes is all we have. You could averaged of vast quantities of anecdotes but that would at best be as good as measuring penis size via anonym…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:10 AM
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The guys claiming to be nice guys and complaining about women choosing bad boys over them have made a very bad impression on me. Those guys may believe that they are nice guys but am not perceiving them as nice. They are polite as best. The best form of nice is inspired by love. The worst form of nice is just an attempt to manipulate women. Then the guy trying to manipulate women by being “nice” gets upset when the woman feels no love behind the niceness and therefore fails to respond to the nic…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:43 AM
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So you have to date him for a while to screen him? I know almost nothing about the dating app scene. I think if I was a woman using a dating app. I would talk to the man on the phone for 1/2 hour before agreeing to a date. Men can lie about their character but not their looks. OK, some men try lying about their looks. Somebody else’s photo or a younger photo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:30 AM
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If it was just sex then legalizing prostitution would solve the problem. But I also think the guys may want a loving relationship as much as they want sex. The guys women don’t want can’t get with women at the pick up bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:24 AM
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Only high income women can get the home without the husband. 2 incomes are required now in half of the country to get a home. Partnering up makes a lot of sense economically but of course the man and woman should at least like each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:18 AM
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No, if the men that women don’t want give up hope and quit chasing that only affects the women that might settle for the men that women don’t want. Something else like everybody getting married young might make the unmarried women settle for the men that women don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:08 AM
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There are not that many rapists but my memory says that statistics say the average rapist rapes 6 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:58 AM
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How would you screen for good character?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:57 AM
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What is a switch? If you are young but tired something is medically wrong. But unfortunately doctors are overrated and tired is a vague symptom. Getting a doctor to diagnose the cause if tiredness correctly will require the patient to push the doctor and tired people won’t push doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:24 AM
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I don’t believe that. It isn’t my experience. How do you behave when you love a woman? Do you get scared, jealous and clingy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:16 AM
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I am not sure that the Incel community and the fake nice guy community are actually helping sexless men. These communities may help men feel like victims instead of feeling like failures. I think I would rather be a victim than a failure. But the Incel community and fake nice guy community are making the sexless men less capable of being somebody that a woman might want to have sex with. The Normie men and women could give sexless men better advice about how to be with women than the other sexle…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:10 AM
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I still suspect the main difference between the past and now is that the internet exists now. Some academic discussion divorce rates suggested that women’s expectations about marriage and relationships rose and made women dissatisfied with their men. Also men were sort of heroic when they could support a family but now a family requires 2 incomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 07:00 AM
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Is it possible that you cared less about the lower ranking of the women that you were with? I am thinking the less self assured women may have stayed with you. You may have sent signals that you were too good for those women and they may have believed your signals and stayed with you because they thought they had caught a superior man. This is more likely to happen with younger women. I was no Chad. What I was offering women was mostly love; some funny jokes, quirky intelligence, and maybe a han…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:40 AM
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In my experience women love being loved. Maybe I attract a different kind of woman than you attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:29 AM
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I think your sample size is too small for a valid experiment. I do think that something exists like the Groucho Marx joke where he says “I would not be a member of any club that would have me as a member”. Women do like a man that outranks them. By not treating them like princesses you might be indicating that you outrank them. If there was some way to indicate that you outrank then while still treating them like a princess that would even more enticing to women. Men also want a woman that outra…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:21 AM
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Absolutely, legalize prostitution. That is the kindest thing we can do for sexless men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:08 AM
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No, even sluts might not have sex with the sexless men. Sluts can find more psychologically attractive and physically attractive men than the sexless men. The sexless men are sexless for a reason. I had a lot of pathetic incel qualities and women were still with me. If a sexless man is is a worse catch then me then the sexless man is a really bad catch. Still you are right that more sluts would help some of the sexless men but not most of the sexless men. The borderline sexless men who were almo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 06:05 AM
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No, the people saying that are the fake “nice guys” in the community of fake “nice guys” that moan about bad boys. The fake nice guys are like Incels but they replace Chads with bad boys and gave a slightly different ideology than the Incel community. Women don’t want wimpy doormats but women do want to be treated well. Women might want an exiting confident man but they don’t want an unreliable bad boy who is going to be constantly making bad choices and getting himself in trouble. The thing abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 05:50 AM
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No, that’s absurd to help the sexless men. Apparently you have a big heart but the sexless men are not your problem. There were always sexless men but they did not used to whine so much. Maybe they would have also whined if the internet had existed in their time. Ideally there would be a woman that wants to be with every sexless man but that isn’t going to happen. Yes it is tragedy. Women have their own problems and owe the sexless men nothing. Some people come from wealthy families and some peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:56 AM
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Men gave liberation out of kindness or idealism. The capitalists did not know that liberating women would benefit them. The capitalists should have been able to figure out that liberating women would benefit them but the capitalists were not that clever. Supply and demand for labor vs supply and demand for capital. Increasing labor through women working more outside the home does benefit the capitalists. Getting rich usually requires buying labor cheap and selling the product of labor high.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 07:12 PM
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Men can only dream of that kind of gratitude. No thanks is needed. Men were only trying to live up the idealism that is expressed in the Declaration of Independence. I am sorry that white men ever did oppress the world. Can women and men be friends now? I would really like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:52 PM
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I don’t think Patriarchy was good for men but men did not have to liberate women. Men chose to allow women to be liberated. The evil white men did not have to liberate slaves; white men chose to liberate slaves. White men in America still could reestablish patriarchy and bring back racial slavery if they wanted to. The evil white men for the most part are choosing not to be oppressors. You just don’t get any praise for choosing not to be a criminal oppressor. The good will of the evil white men …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:26 PM
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I have experienced women liking me more after I had the courage to be vulnerable with them. I have seen women loving me sharing my vulnerable feelings with them. This was true both with established girlfriends of mine and also when I shared my insecurity with my female friends. My female friends found it endearing when I shared my insecurities with them. It is not virtue signaling, women actually have a positive reaction to males being vulnerable with them as long as the vulnerability does not m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:13 PM
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Feminism won for the same reason that gay marriage won. Men who like equality and justice have to give women equality and justice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:26 AM
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I totally agree with you that making things less advantageous for women sounds excessively unselfish.. But playing devils advocate, was giving women the right to own land and the right to vote advantageous to men? Actually anything that makes women happy is probably advantageous to men because a happy woman is more fun to be around. Also not giving women the equality that normal men wanted vs rich men would be an awkward double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:23 AM
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Tell women how you feel but tell them as a vulnerable non bitter man. Be brave as hell and tell them of your fear of rejection. You might come accross as too backwards to get the girl but you are not getting the girl anyway so who cares. The thing is women often reward male vulnerability because they like that you have dropped your shields for them. It is a form of intimacy to drop your shield. The women who rejected me were always sweet to me but I did not have my shields up. While I was to muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:16 AM
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Men should not be bitter. First of all being bitter is depressing. 2nd being bitter is going to hurt your chances with women when they pick up on your bitterness. Take what ever knowledge and copes that are useful from the Red Pill guys but don’t be bitter. Bitter is counterproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 06:06 AM
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Having played with girls helped me not be so awkward when it came to the next step of holding hands with a girl and making her laugh and us getting romantic feelings for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:59 AM
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Guys before the internet were also the risk takers. I sold vacuum cleaners door to door at age 18. That should have been good practice for dealing with rejection. I was a coward with women and did not take risks. Even though I was a short man with no confidence women were taking risks to get closer to me. Thank you brave women. But why were they wanting to be closer to me if I was such an Incel type guy minus the bitterness. Obviously I was not as much of an Incel type guy as I thought I was but…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 05:54 AM
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Women will breed if their family can afford a home Maybe the economically successful corporate ladder climbing career women won’t breed even if they have enough money but I think for average women the issue is that she and her husband combined cannot afford what her parents had.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:04 PM
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A victim mindset looks worse on a man. Traditionalist here but men are supposed to solve problems not be helpless victims of problems. I feel more like cutting the women some slack perhaps because I am so in awe of women being able to have babies. If women can have the babies then men should not be babies. Men are supposed to support the women and not get lost in their own feelings of being a victim. I think women have the more difficult path in life than men do. I hate self pitying victims in b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 09:17 PM
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I don’t know what AF means. Yay, I love it when women love short men. What, his house just cries out for remodeling? Do you have to change the first woman’s work? Is letting a woman remodel your house a secret romantic bonding technique that the players don’t know about? My wife designed the remodel of my condo. Her design was fantastic but me and some guys I hired had to do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:32 PM
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That’s what I thought. And despite the presence of some extra patriarchy the women of the 1970s did not seem more unhappy than modern women. Actually modern women seem more unhappy than 1970s women did. Maybe the simplicity of the earlier time made it easier to be happy. Maybe letting the men they loved be heroes that supported their wives made women happy. Maybe men being happier made women happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:34 PM
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Well, if you could get any man you want because you are that charming then don’t settle for either of the two guys that I created.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:30 PM
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Good. I meant it to be humorous but it still is how it felt to me. I felt destined to be an Incel but even in high school the evidence suggested that I was not destined to be an Incel. I have some sort of psychological defect that makes me feel unfuckable and unlovable regardless how much women fucked me and loved me. I was so sure that women would not want me that I barely tried to get with women. But women kept appearing out of nowhere and they were choosing to be with me. If a woman flirts wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:19 PM
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I doubt any of you red pill guys have been as deeply on a woman’s bad side as me. I have had my disabled wife accuse me of victimizing her when I did nothing but take care of her and do chores for her and pay her bills. My wife punched me a few hundred times over the years but luckily for me she hit like a girl. She threw a bottle that hit me above my eye and caused me to gush blood all over the bathroom floor. At least that that time she was repentant. But I cut my wife slack for 3 reasons: 1 s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 03:18 PM
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I doubt any of you red pill guys have been as deeply on a woman’s bad side as me. I have had my disabled wife accuse me of victimizing her when I did nothing but take care of her and do chores for her and pay her bills. My wife punched me a few hundred times over the years but luckily for me she hit like a girl. She threw a bottle that hit me above my eye and caused me to gush blood all over the bathroom floor. At least that that time she was repentant. But I cut my wife slack for 3 reasons: 1 s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:55 AM
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I feel the same way but I think that attitude might be sexist. Two people with equal bad incomes partnered up in a marriage are economically stronger than single people. Exchanging the guy making equal money that you get along great with for a guy making much more money that you don’t get along with who just likes having sex with your body is not a good move even if you plan to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 06:07 AM
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Could not get a credit card in their own name until 1974? Shocking. Almost unbelievable. Women got the vote when, 1920 or something? I was 14 years old in 1974.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:58 AM
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I would not mind paying for the date even if the woman is wealthier than me. Sort of like I think the woman is the prize and I am not the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:43 AM
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I would take the cheap rent and give up the internet and the electronics. I love the internet. I love having access to the greatest library ever. The Internet is only as good as the search engine. Google as a search engine peaked in about 2008 so the internet peaked in about 2008. There was plenty to do before the internet, electronic games and smart phones. We die younger now perhaps because the quality of home cooked meals has declined and we just sit at a computer instead of exercising. I wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:41 AM
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I find it kind of shocking how much purple pill guys don’t like women. I can’t help loving women perhaps more than they deserve to be loved. It is fun to love; they don’t have to love me back; I don’t care; I will love them whether they want to be loved or not but I will be careful not to make them feel uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 11:42 PM
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I am a 5 unless she gets a special liking for my strange mind or my heart. Could I have a special heart? Anyway I snagged an 8. Actually the 8 snagged me. She did the choosing. Other men were chasing her and she chose me, a 5. Now it turns out that she was crazy and damaged by child abuse but neither me or the other men chasing her knew that she was a damaged 8. Beautiful face, big breasts that some men appreciated more than me. I am fine with A cups. Nice body. Great bubbly personality. Somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 11:20 PM
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So what is going wrong? Even though I am only 5’ 5” which meant 2 out 3 women don’t even see me as a real man the remaining 1/3 of women still took care of me: And I did not have money. My face might have been good, I am not sure about my face. My lack of confidence and being behind the curve on experience was working against me. I had a girl for my first best friend at age 4 and played with my older sister and played with girls and women my whole life and that might have worked for me. Even tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 11:06 PM
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Only depressing when compared to the above average man. Not depressing when compared to the below average man. How many girlfriends and casual sex partners has the average man marrying at age 30 had? The average man does marry. The average bride looks pretty good. What is their to moan about. Maybe it is a below average man moaning that is only pretending to himself to be an average man. I am truly sorry for the below average men and women. I know the average man could do OK with women in my tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 10:55 PM
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We seem to mostly agree that men are dogs and girls should be red pilled about men at birth. The question is are women also dogs? Also does red pilling boys help or hurt boys to be happy and help or hurt boys getting with girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:59 PM
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What is blue pill
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:35 PM
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There are 2 bell curves for males and females getting over break ups. I think on the fringe of the bell curve men are more likely to be obsessed with their ex years later. Might be why some men murder their ex years later. But I think it more likely to be women hurting bad 4 months after a break up. One of the confusing things is that men are more likely to break up as soon as they feel to break up. While women might break up in stages and in the first few stages the guy has not even been notifi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:31 PM
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I have see women crying for months after a break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:24 PM
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What gives men the most rage is that 3rd rate men can’t compete with 1st rate and 2nd rate men for intimacy with women. Alls guys are angry at a society and mothers that told them that being a nice guy would get them women. Women like being loved but being polite is taken for granted. Nice if motivated by love is a way to a woman’s heart but if nice is motivated by politeness or by a scheme to game one’s way into a woman’s pants then nice is not appreciated and that kind of nice isn’t really nic…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:18 PM
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Yes but if he shaved his beard and asked for a date again would it be too late for him because you had already seen him in that beard? Even if he shaved his beard you were not going to date him were you? Wasn’t there something else about his personality that made you not want to date him? But you could see that he could improve his chances with other women by shaving his beard and I think you liked the guy enough as a friend that you would like him to be happy with some other woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:59 PM
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Sounds like Tate is making life better for the beta Chads by sucking some of the beta betas into a red pill mindset that will actually hurt the beta’s chances to bond with women which leaves more women for the non-red-pilled beta Chads. I was a very insecure short statures Beta Chad normie. I had some Chad qualities and some Incel qualities. Strange mix and women did not agree with each other about what I was and what my rank as a potential mate should be. If the other lower mid level guys were …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:53 PM
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Maybe this applies to everything. Having low expectations of humanity and then being happy when humanity exceeds your expectations will feel better than having high expectations of humanity and then being sad when humanity fails to meet my expectations. Would Red pill thinking have helped me or hurt me. Me answer is both. Red Pill thinking might have helped me play the field more like it was a strategy game, but in the end loving women is what actually got me women and that was so not a strategy…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 06:10 PM
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I think half of us care about the feelings of strangers. I think women care about people’s feelings a little more than men do. But women caring about men’s feelings does not extend to the point of mercy sex and mercy relationships for Incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:51 PM
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A girl showed me naked photos of herself while asking my opinion about her modeling career. Her delivery was so good that in the moment I actually believed showing me naked photos of herself was about her modeling career. She maintained her plausible deniability. Isn’t that what flirting is about? Showing interest in each other while maintaining plausible deniability? So after I went to work the next day I started think that she had been flirting with me by showing me naked photos of herself. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:34 PM
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If I was that guy, my preference would be for you to tell me that If I shave my wizard beard that you will date me. Now you never said you would date him without the beard, just that he would have been attractive without thee beard. How about this: tell him “you would be attractive without that beard” Who knows maybe other women like the beard but we are guessing that you speak for the majority of women. I had a 16 year old high school girlfriend tell me “you would be perfect if only you were ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:42 PM
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I think that is it But what is being funny? Is it a measure of intelligence, a measure of knowing your audience or a measure of love. Women love a guy who makes them laugh and men love a woman who laughs at his jokes. His jokes seem funnier when they are in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:07 PM
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Men need to be attractive to attract women . Tough luck guys . You can attract women with love but what if you have no love; then you damn well better better be studly superstar if you have no love.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:49 AM
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Only thing more pathetic than women pretending to be victims is men pretending to be victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:35 AM
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You can get women with your heart if you have a heart. Women care just fine. Why aren’t they caring for you? Women want to love. Why not you? Incels want to deny personality problems. Incels have not had success with women so what do incels know about women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:32 AM
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How much fun are the couple having together? Do they say interesting things to each other? My attractive wife chose me. Our marriage went bad with fighting. Maybe I should ask my ex-wife why she chose me. We still love each other. We just separated because of the fighting. Other men were chasing my future wife but she chose me. We played well together and respected each other’s minds. Maybe I loved her more than the other men did. Maybe she loved me because I loved her mind as well as her body. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:08 AM
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You don’t want to become insecure about being insecure. Truth is girls might reward you for being vulnerable with them but at that age I was ashamed of being less experienced than other boys and not knowing what I was doing. I think being worried about not knowing what an was doing was not a good look and set me back some with girls. So I do encourage high school boys to date and learn a little something about being in a sort of romantic or slightly sexual situation with girls. At least make out…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 04:23 AM
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Women don’t want to marry doormats but other than that I think the nice guys vs bad boys argument is an oversimplification and exaggeration. Most of those supposedly rejected nice guys were never actually nice guys. Women go for being loved much more that they go for politeness. Being loving is not the same as being nice. But if a guy has no love then being nice is as close as he can get to being loving. Incels vs Chads is also based on oversimplifications and exaggerations. Incels want their pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 02:01 AM
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Men faking orgasm is mind boggling. Somebody wrote about using a condom and hiding the evidence that there was nothing in the condom. Somebody wrote that some men can orgasm without ejaculation. Those stats on faked make orgasms seem suspicious to me. I thought my penis was slightly smaller than normal because the penis size based on self reported penis sizes on anonymous surveys had inflated the penis length by 3/4 of an inch when compared to actual measured penises of random men in studies don…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:57 AM
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Now if the 31st guy is the last guy I am not going assume she will cheat on him. I am talking about the N—count at marriage because marriage is when people want virgins the most. The 2nd time they want virgins is with their first girlfriend. The woman can have 30 sexual partners and never have cheated on any of them. A woman with 30 sexual partners may be more likely to cheat but the threat of cheating would not scare me if I got engaged to be married to a woman with an n-count of 30 sexual part…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:35 AM
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If the guy does not cum the woman might feel insecure. I know some guys have erection problems but I think that is mostly older guys and I think Viagra works. I am an older guy now but If the other guys are like me as I always assume they are then the erection and ejaculation are reliable and very simple. There is no way I don’t cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:24 AM
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Yes what you say about the virgin obsession not applying to women wanting male virgins does seem to indicate that the virgin obsession is not from STDs. That was a smart observation. The Virgin obsession is plenty strong in non-Christian non European cultures so it also is not about Catholicism and the Virgin Mary. I don’t think the virgin obsession would be so universal if it did not connect to an evolutionary incentive to strongly prefer to marry virgins. If I could find a culture without the …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:12 AM
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