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When mens feelings are not clear to a women , that is more attractive not love bombing
/r/seduction27/01/26 04:44 PM
7

You become the supervisor, in bed.
/r/seduction25/01/26 11:07 AM
15

Just use protection, you should be alright.
/r/seduction25/01/26 11:07 AM
2

Good that you filtered her out. On the the next.
/r/seduction20/01/26 05:53 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction19/01/26 04:11 PM
6

Nice work. But if you date her, you will have to follow HR policies.
/r/seduction19/01/26 03:58 PM
1

So in 1000, Bad guy gets 50 women's numbers. A decent number will turn into dates and lays. So worth the effort.
/r/seduction19/01/26 03:56 PM
24

Yep that works every time. Social condition boosts attractiveness. Even if you spoke to another hot woman on your date it would drive your date wild.
/r/seduction19/01/26 12:51 AM
7

Women know who's hot And those are the guys with more options. Thus they are attracted to men with options.
/r/seduction19/01/26 12:49 AM
4

Face and jawline make a HUGE difference. So yes lowerbody fat helps. But a better gut and a V taper makes you more attractive.
/r/seduction18/01/26 08:51 PM
1

Have drinks handy. Also water. Keep bedroom clean, wash sheets, extra condoms. Also bathroom clean. Keep a robe for her as well. But good luck.
/r/seduction18/01/26 08:40 PM
1

0/1000 I hope no one is that bad.
/r/seduction18/01/26 08:38 PM
1

Yep but sometimes it's not pure cold based on choosing signals.
/r/seduction18/01/26 08:36 PM
5

Yep very true behavior. She flaked on you once. Worth another shot but then move on. I would delete the contact and hit up other women .
/r/seduction17/01/26 04:34 PM
1

Did you see him on the talk show with Jessica Alba. See the game in action, it's on YouTube.
/r/seduction12/01/26 12:28 AM
2

Approach 9s the same way you approach the 6s that you are used to. You will land some, it takes time, it's just a numbers game.
/r/seduction11/01/26 07:14 PM
65

Bodygame, 15% body fat or a bit lower. Face, jawline looks way more attractive. Plus confidence, posture make a huge difference.
/r/seduction10/01/26 08:02 PM
1

Some girls sleep with a guy on the first date, if they don't see a future. If she sees a future she will wait. Pretty common logic for a lot of women.
/r/seduction10/01/26 05:40 PM
2

Works every time!
/r/seduction10/01/26 12:02 AM
2

More plates more dates
/r/seduction07/01/26 08:23 PM
1

They .mostly give off choosing signals But when you are close, they do make random comments sometimes but it's rare. Mostly they just look and orbit around.
/r/seduction07/01/26 05:51 PM
8

If you treat her like a superstar, she will treat you like a fan. Just approach her like she's a 6
/r/seduction07/01/26 05:44 PM
3

DJ or bartender Or any job in a nightclub
/r/seduction04/01/26 09:37 AM
0

Just kiss her
/r/seduction03/01/26 08:57 PM
1

Makes sure she does like 70% of the talking. Ask her questions and don't go on about yourself and don't mention exes. But chill, dating is supposed to be fun!
/r/seduction03/01/26 08:42 PM
4

Read about female nature, that will turn you off fast.
/r/seduction01/01/26 09:39 PM
1

With a six pack abs
/r/seduction01/01/26 09:38 PM
1

Now approach more women
/r/seduction31/12/25 10:59 AM
8

Yes good. She could have walked away and said, it was nice meeting you But she kept it going, so she's interested. But she won't act on that, maybe she has a BF or maybe not. But atleast you took your shot. Next time you see her just say hi and move on.
/r/seduction31/12/25 10:58 AM
1

As a 40 year old man, Yes those women in your age group are smoking! But if you want kids look for younger women in 30s. But if you want to have fun, there are so many hot 40+ women who are amazing to be with.
/r/seduction31/12/25 02:29 AM
1

It's like matching on an app It means nothing, they can ghost at anytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:27 AM
1

Well it may come back. As a guy, it does work But younger women are so shy because they aren't used to it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:21 AM
1

Girls have a different way of describing guys. Cute works!
/r/seduction28/12/25 06:21 PM
1

No they aren't better looking. You have to have to confidence to know that a there is a woman out there who wants you! Not only for looks, but you walk, your talk and confidence.
/r/seduction28/12/25 06:05 PM
1

No
/r/seduction26/12/25 02:01 AM
5

Yes. 70% of the US population is overweight or obese. I'm not sure what you mean by sporty. But bodyfat is the best way to look at it. 15% or lower will get looks from women, not just body but face and jawline look better. 20% is mid. 25% and up.. well.
/r/seduction26/12/25 01:03 AM
1

You own county or state
/r/seduction25/12/25 07:02 PM
1

No it happens all the time
/r/seduction23/12/25 10:16 PM
1

What's your body fat? Get it to around 15% and women will be interested.
/r/seduction23/12/25 12:28 AM
5

No, I need choosing signals before approaching. Plus I only can take so many shots a day.
/r/seduction23/12/25 12:04 AM
1

Nah. Body game helps
/r/seduction16/12/25 03:15 AM
13

Man these stories are so inspiring. I will remember them the next time I strikeout.
/r/seduction14/12/25 01:23 PM
3

Easiest way when I was on a trip to Europe, met a girl in a train. We talked for a couple of hours, she asked me where I was staying, she said mind if I join you? Had a great night together and then said good bye. Maybe she liked me or just needed a place for the night but it was amazing!!
/r/seduction14/12/25 01:13 PM
1

Get to the gym and get jacked. It will change your life.
/r/seduction13/12/25 08:05 PM
1

Get her some drinks. Start making out. Say why don't we go someplace more comfortable.
/r/seduction12/12/25 03:51 PM
5

Windows up, in the back
/r/seduction10/12/25 03:27 PM
1

Ok he's the backup guy or just another girlfriend.
/r/seduction10/12/25 03:26 PM
1

Girls don't want friends. Either you are boyfriend or her girlfriend. Which one do you want to be?
/r/seduction10/12/25 08:26 AM
1

No, you did your job. Just move on but keep it cool with her. Girls talk so you don't want to be known as a creep. Maybe find another nice girl.
/r/seduction10/12/25 02:16 AM
2

No you did your job. If she wanted to go out, she would do it. But just keep it cool with her, like you are doing, and just say hi and move on. Try another girl
/r/seduction10/12/25 02:14 AM
1

She asked you out. Of course she's interested. Find out some of her interests. Any may join her somewhere if she is shy like a gym, yoga class, etc. Take her for coffee/drinks afterwards.
/r/seduction10/12/25 01:57 AM
3

Lots of girls make out but are not dtf. Buy them drinks, tell them you want to F. See how they react, some will say no but some will say yes. Also, are you getting numbers from these women? You can always hit them up later and go on a real date and then some will be DTF.
/r/seduction08/12/25 10:35 AM
20

When your interest level isnt clear, it turns woman on
/r/seduction08/12/25 10:30 AM
1

Do fitness related classes or activities. Tonnes of women in yoga, MMA, or boxing.
/r/seduction07/12/25 06:16 PM
1

She probably feels that way too. But I assume (hope), she can control it.
/r/seduction07/12/25 05:41 PM
14

Dancing attracts women, having fun attracts women. Doesn't matter Asian or height or whatever. Be yourself..
/r/seduction07/12/25 05:31 PM
1

Excellent
/r/seduction05/12/25 12:35 AM
2

Get jacked
/r/seduction04/12/25 12:48 AM
-1

Bros before hoes But if she's fine, you saw her first!
/r/seduction04/12/25 12:46 AM
1

Great idea. Or just approach 6s and under to boost your confidence. Like a practice squad. Then once you are ready, do the thing with 8s and 9s. Treat them the same and don't be intimidated by their beauty. No simpling, the 8s and 9s get so many compliments and simps, if you are not like that and confident you really stand out!
/r/seduction04/12/25 12:43 AM
1

Get jacked
/r/seduction04/12/25 12:36 AM
1

I have better luck meeting women IRL. The gym, coffee shops, approaching anywhere once I get some choosing signals.
/r/seduction02/12/25 04:02 AM
11

Ok good luck. Also try approaching some women in the mean time.
/r/seduction30/11/25 06:13 PM
7

Ok. Would you want to try it again with her? Do you think it will be better the 2nd time around?
/r/seduction30/11/25 06:07 PM
16

Whoa man. Overall how was it? Are you glad you tried it?
/r/seduction30/11/25 06:00 PM
1

Build up your physique. A six pack will have women chase you.
/r/seduction30/11/25 12:43 AM
6

Yes hive mentality. Just go places and be around people who respect you. So family might not always meet that standard.
/r/seduction30/11/25 12:41 AM
11

Just ask her out Do something fun together. If you know her , take her some place different like a golf course, pickleball etc if she's into to stuff like that. Don't be a simp and take her burkin shopping
/r/seduction24/11/25 06:24 PM
1

They are having too much fun dating so many hot woman
/r/seduction24/11/25 05:36 PM
1

Yes I was shocked a couple of times. Not a great way to make a first impression.
/r/seduction24/11/25 05:34 PM
1

LA all the way. The most beautiful women in the world. Warm weather all year round, can actually see women in the winter not just some random bundle walking down the street.
/r/seduction24/11/25 04:51 AM
12

Remember they do it so much, they become outcome independent.
/r/seduction24/11/25 04:35 AM
1

Anything works. Talk to them like a human being. Talk about what they are wearing, the place you are in, or ask for help with something basic. Just get a reading on her and see how the convo goes.
/r/seduction23/11/25 11:04 PM
3

Yes I was reading some chart women peak in their 20s based on male attraction. But men peak somewhere between 33-38 based on attractiveness from females. So your story sounds about right.
/r/seduction18/11/25 09:12 PM
3

Of course, many woman want a long term relationship. So if you lead with that, they are more likely to trust you and hook up. If you are just casually dating them, they will be more guarded, in most cases.
/r/seduction18/11/25 08:32 PM
4

Lose weight, be more feminine, have way more sex.
/r/seduction15/11/25 02:59 PM
1

Get jacked. A woman will be after you, even if you don't have $$$.
/r/seduction12/11/25 08:27 AM
2

3-4 days later ask her out again.
/r/seduction12/11/25 08:24 AM
4

Yes you have the looks But you need to up your game
/r/seduction10/11/25 06:04 AM
1

Lol, yeah right.
/r/seduction09/11/25 05:39 PM
1

I'm trying it now. I will let you know how it goes.
/r/seduction09/11/25 08:04 AM
9

Try going out with one or more female friends. That will attract more women.
/r/seduction09/11/25 07:49 AM
3

She's making you wait 1) she thinks you are a Beta 2) shes not that into you.
/r/seduction09/11/25 07:46 AM
1

It's not rejection as much. It's that so few women are in many clubs. Focus is not on dancing and mixing with the other sex now. It's now all about bottle service and spending $$$ to get a few women into a special section. Way diff than before, we could just approach women and dance, get #'s and ¢@#!
/r/seduction03/11/25 04:01 AM
11

Yep same story from industry people across the board. The only exception is if you work there and meet a chick. No money spent and you get her number or more. My buddy, back in the day, was a bouncer. He did ok. But once he got jacked, all the women were after him.
/r/seduction01/11/25 09:38 PM
1

Phone is for setting up dates not being a date. Ask her out. Talk for a couple of mins and suggest that you go somewhere and meet in person. Not lunch date. Evening dates so if it goes well you can go somewhere together after and ...
/r/seduction01/11/25 06:14 PM
61

Yes. It's not like it was 15 years ago Ask people who work in that industry. It's worse than ever for dudes.
/r/seduction01/11/25 06:11 PM
9

IRL is always better
/r/seduction01/11/25 08:21 AM
2

Mostly it's other women who don't respect another woman right to date who she wants. Typically a 33 year old woman will infantilize a 23 year old who's dating a 33 year old man. Mostly they those older women don't want to admit that men find those women in their 20s hotter and more fun with less baggage.
/r/seduction28/10/25 03:01 PM
1

A bit too fast. Take her some place close to your home. If things go well, then invite her over
/r/seduction28/10/25 02:57 PM
11

They want to look like they are not desperate for Masculine energy.
/r/seduction28/10/25 02:55 PM
-1

No. I felt a bit strange at first. Like, if she's ok with me but what will her friends and family say. Now I don't care. She's an independent woman and can do what the @$#! She wants. I'm happy to partake. Plus women my age have too much baggage.
/r/seduction28/10/25 11:20 AM
1

What about coffee meets bagel? I get a little action there but just mostly use Facebook. Way cheaper and get lots of matches but few ONS.
/r/seduction23/10/25 09:22 PM
-1

Just tell her you DJ at a night club part time as well. Or mention that you are taking Tech classes at night or something to show you are trying to move up.
/r/seduction20/10/25 01:57 AM
1

Do you own the shop?
/r/seduction20/10/25 01:56 AM
1

Car?
/r/seduction19/10/25 02:05 PM
2

Approach a 100 women in your home country, yout anxiety will go away.
/r/seduction19/10/25 02:01 PM
1

No never.
/r/seduction13/10/25 03:51 PM
1

Sorry man that 304 was hot.
/r/seduction12/10/25 09:16 AM
1

3 times, if have a life outside of dating.
/r/seduction12/10/25 12:57 AM
1

Approach 100 women, it will make you less outcome dependent
/r/seduction05/10/25 02:13 AM
1

You just do it over time. Gym, mall, coffee shop, library, anywhere. When you see a hot women talk to her, after a while it becomes easier and easier. You will learn so much about women and people in general. Life changing for me. Now when I see a hot woman, I can approach with no hesitation.
/r/seduction01/10/25 01:46 AM
1

Maybe you are over pursuing. Women react better to indifferent men.
/r/seduction30/09/25 12:38 AM
1

If she's into you, go for it. Doesn't take long
/r/seduction30/09/25 12:37 AM
2

Looks don't do it. If she's careful or wild that matters more..
/r/seduction30/09/25 12:36 AM
1

Approach 100 women, it will change your life.
/r/seduction30/09/25 12:35 AM
1

They are ripped
/r/seduction28/09/25 11:20 AM
2

Yep 70% of men and women are either overweight or obese. I believe it's like 40% overweight and 30% obese, which is scary as a country.
/r/seduction27/09/25 04:47 PM
1

Well if you work at a club or are always there you have a pretty good chance. My friend was a bouncer and regularly got some play.
/r/seduction27/09/25 04:17 PM
0

Yes porn holds men back
/r/seduction27/09/25 04:16 PM
1

Yes apps are useless for 80% of men. Better to meet people IRL
/r/seduction27/09/25 04:15 PM
1

1st date
/r/seduction27/09/25 04:14 PM
2

Dating advice about women from women. You need to get advice from Chads.
/r/seduction27/09/25 04:13 PM
1

Clubs attract women looking for a man, more open to talking/sex. Not always wife material but still some good girls out there.
/r/seduction27/09/25 04:06 PM
0

8-10s are used to being hit on and can handle the conversations much easier. 6-7s are usually more bitchy and rude and don't handle the situation well So go for the upper tier women!
/r/seduction27/09/25 04:05 PM
3

Cold approach a 100 women, it will change your life. I cold approached like 10 and had decent success, not much really. But by like 50, 60th women, I learned how to talk, understand them and move on without being outcome dependent. It sounds strange but it works.
/r/seduction27/09/25 04:02 PM
9

You make me feel safe
/r/seduction27/09/25 03:58 PM
3

Very high. If a man is like 30-40 lbs overweight he will get very few looks from woman. If that same guy drops 40lbs and eats right, works out, gets proper sleep he will get a tonne of women after him. You will get more women looking, talking to you, and on the apps more swipes.
/r/seduction27/09/25 03:57 PM
17

Yoga is amazing. I go to classes in different locations and meet so many amazing woman! 9s and 10s
/r/seduction27/09/25 03:56 PM
2

Just text her that if she wants to meet up to let you know. Time to move on.
/r/seduction25/03/25 08:50 PM
1

Women protect the pussy and are taught not to give it up so easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 08:52 PM
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