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And who keeps trying to get rid of no fault divorce, so people are trapped together no matter how miserable they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:31 AM
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Girl same. I spent years trying to get my first husband into counseling for HIM. He was severely depressed and had been for years. He also refused to do anything around the house - not pick up, not clean, and expected me to bring home all the money. He also said that I should be responsible for all childcare when we discussed kids. Because his mom did. I walked out and THEN he went to counseling. He promised to do better. Nope. It’s called a tolerable level of unhappiness. It’s on TikTok and is …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:30 AM
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College educated voters voted Harris
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:56 PM
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I cited hard data of what happens when we get rid of illegals - and your answer is that I’m emotional. But you rely on trash like Tom cotton’s personal opinion. And you have the nerve to claim I haven’t researched.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:56 PM
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Get ready for those numbers to go up and Trump locks them all up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:52 PM
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lol “Breitbart.” Tom Cotton is a politician. What makes you think a politician is telling the truth about a state that isn’t even his?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:51 PM
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Further infrastructure (primarily male) construction Continued gradual insourcing through CHIps act rather than aggressive tariffs Small business support Continued roll out of broadband to rural areas Continued support for labor unions Expanded veterans benefits Allowing young men to stay on their parents health insurance All of these are now at risk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:47 PM
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“ Excellent, in addition workers will also have 100% health insurance coverage, paid maternity/paternity leave, and several weeks of PTO.” Lmao. No one in America has that. Why would they? Unless they’re union. And Trump intends on neutering the unions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:33 PM
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“ Kamala was telling me I'd never see a vagina again if I didn't vote for her. Childish.” No, you were listening to what people told you she was saying. What she actually was saying was small business loans, improving housing costs, continuing with insourcing via chip acts, but I’m sure indiscriminate tariffs will help. How many small farms collapsed last time? How much did we have to bail them out? Did they get their soy bean market back? Did that farmer suicide drop?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:30 PM
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And they fucked him over for it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:22 PM
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Serious. As a woman, I also didn’t get great experiences until I got some self respect, acted as if I was the prize, and also worked on body, skin, and dress. Like it really isn’t that different. RP advice works for women too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:09 PM
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Those young men are competing for money and good jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:00 PM
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THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:59 PM
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Still showing up or NOT showing up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:59 PM
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And what about all the white men who’ve been shits? Why is it that one trans man acting like a dick proves that DEI bad but a white man acting like a shit doesn’t make you say, fuck no more white guys DEI good? Because you understand that one bad white guy doesn’t mean all while guys are bad. But you seem to think that one trans being a dick - and being fired - means all trans are dicks and should be fired
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:51 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:47 PM
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So, you haven’t researched and just hate illegals. Here is some EVIDENCE: Most US agriculture is mechanized. What happened when Georgia and Alabama aggressively cracked down on illegals: https://www.forbes.com/sites/realspin/2012/05/17/the-law-of-unintended-consequences-georgias-immigration-law-backfires/ And it isn’t just for agriculture: https://www.npr.org/2024/04/26/1242236604/florida-economy-immigration-businesses-workers-undocumented https://www.wsj.com/us-news/dalton-georgia-trump-jobs-de…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:38 PM
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“ The independent voters decide elections. These are thinking voters. ” The studies show the reverse actually. The most politically astute and educated went for Harris in a landslide. I’ve been amused by those in shock over Trump’s threatened tariffs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:40 PM
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Let’s see how hungry people get when no one is in the fields picking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:39 PM
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Are there laws that slut shame or fat shame men? And no one has arrested you for hating on women. Sounds equal to me .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:38 PM
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He’s sad. He wants to be gigachad and score hot women when he himself isn’t hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:30 PM
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States with equal custody law: https://www.custodyxchange.com/topics/research/dads-custody-time-by-state.php More BLUE states give equal custody than red. So sounds like Dems have done quite a bit, you just failed to research and don’t know it. Permanent alimony, which Florida just got rid of: https://divorce.com/blog/what-states-do-not-enforce-alimony/ Most states have outlawed permanent alimony. In fact, Florida was an outlier - one of just a few states (a mix of red and blue) that still allow…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:28 PM
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Nope https://www.cepr.net/bidens-record-on-income-growth/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:18 PM
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We fucking made BANK during the Biden years, husband and I. We made - I shit you not - 500k more than we spent this last year. We’ve always been pretty tight with money. My girls’ education is paid for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:15 PM
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Dems do offer more in concrete matters. Seems to me that men want to be praised rather an actual support
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:14 PM
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No it wouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:00 PM
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“ Do as I say, not as I do.” the definition of hypocrisy. And you think this is a good thing. “Jeffery Epstein didn’t kill himself so I would be careful pointing the finger at just one party.” Do you understand which administration was in office when Epstein died? Trump’s administration. Barr - TRUMP’S attorney General - removed the director of the BOP (again federal) because of it. This just demonstrates how utterly emotional and illogical you are. You are blaming democrats for actions under GO…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:58 PM
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Right? Love this version of RP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:48 PM
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I’d rather be single than be in a shitty marriage and I make bank. Why the fuck should I be forced to marry someone? You want more miserable marriages for men and women? Or you just want to be sure that people never goddamned marry And fuck Christianity. I was raised in the church but FUCK Christianity. I am done with it and all religions. It doesn’t belong in the public sector. It is ABSOLUTELY misogynistic and preaches that men are first class citizens and women second. No fucking way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:43 PM
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I couldn’t do a man who couldn’t hold a conversation, had no hobbies, and didn’t ever pick an activity, but that’s me. Note, I absolutely do spend quiet time with my husband - I don’t need to always chatter and we are both introverts (I appreciate restful too) - but I also want to hear about the interesting things he’s doing, the dead internet, and the degeneration of AI. But that’s me. I agree with you philosophy of a cost benefit analysis - I’m big into Stoicism which is about appreciating wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:32 AM
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Men too. That average guy should have given up on new hotness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:20 AM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:19 AM
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One of the nicest girls at my HS (and still friend ish with) is beautiful and funny and sweet. Even after all these years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:15 AM
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Sure. I didn’t want to date a man with kids either. But there is a difference between saying “not for me,” and treating them like trash or without value. Edited to add - I came from a broken home myself. I’m not sure why that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:58 PM
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See here is the thing. No. Not for me, but I really appreciate your philosophy and I’m so glad it works for you and your lady. She sounds very restful to be with - and that’s no small thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:56 PM
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It’s just porn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:59 PM
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Name checks out :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:57 PM
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I’ll note that men regularly tell women here that her interests, her career, are all irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:50 PM
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Have you seen the studies about the dangers of unrelated men being brought into the home?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:39 PM
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Pass that on to your buddies
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:38 PM
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So you just decided to make this post to shit on single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:37 PM
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So not only are you ignorant about where single mothers come from, you are also ignorant of how alcoholism occurs. It isn’t one sip and they go nuts. It’s usually a gradual process. And yes I’m related to quite a few alcoholics
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:36 PM
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“ OR....she can raise her kids with the child's father....that she chose.” Man here thinks all men are pussy whipped NPCs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:35 PM
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No there aren’t a lot of guys like that lovely man you met. Why do you see so many men here speaking so badly of single moms. That dude sounded like a gem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:34 PM
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“ The put abortion clinics on every corner and let the government pay for them.” Not in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:33 PM
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So men are children who can’t ever be accountable for their actions and so can be locked up inside the house as her serf and made to work for her and the family?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:31 PM
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So men have no agency?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:29 PM
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Thing is that men wouldn’t be losers unless they chose to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:29 PM
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Aren’t men fully adults responsible for their own actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:28 PM
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No you don’t. You are unbelievably naive - you think birth control never fails - it does. And you think that men never ditched their families. I’ve watched it happen with my dad. I’ve watched it with others. And despite what you think, it’s really easy for a man to take off to another state, get paid under the table, and avoid child support obligations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:27 PM
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Wasn’t a planned child. Accidents happen, even in marriages. My fiancé knocked me up on the pill. Ask my dad. Dude decided he was unhappy with my mom and cheated on her with her best friend. Broke up two marriages. And when he took off, he decided he wasn’t going to pay child support. Three kids. And my teacher mom had to fight him all the time. Made sure to shame his ass up and down the wall with his siblings tho. ‘Twas fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:23 PM
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It helped me a lot. And here is the thing - social skills help you out everywhere, not just dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:21 AM
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I’m so glad for feminism. It allowed me to be independent, have a great career, get out of a terrible marriage, marry a wonderful man, and have two kids. Feminism is wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:24 PM
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Shouldn’t the average man be marrying the average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:23 PM
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It makes sense when you realize intermarriage was how you moved your family forward in life. It’s not simplistic - it’s long term planning over generations
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:21 PM
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That’s the grifter right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:20 PM
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Lmao. What how fast a man dumps a wife when she stops having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:14 PM
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Women do love. Like WTF?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:12 PM
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In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:11 PM
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I never signed up to be mid. Tough shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:11 PM
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That’s the point. And wow, way to point out how you guys are a bunch of 5s thinking you deserve an 8
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:10 PM
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But that’s what they are. And they’ve ALWAYS been part of the scene. WTF. Like in the 60s too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:08 PM
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“Imagine that happened.” Stop basing your world view on your speculations and fantasies Drake isn’t DMing 32 year old Chrissy who’s short and a size 12 and has a big nose
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:07 PM
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Um, no. Not unless the girl is a 10/10 or 9/10. She’s got to be early twenties, skinny, and very good looking - hour glass figure, fit but not too fit. Etc. Like top 5% and be in a place like la or Miami etc. where the super rich party
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:06 PM
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I think you are dead on
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:02 PM
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This is that annoying part where people say “go be friends with women and treat them like people.” Look, just be an anthropologist. Serious / helped me out when I used to have social anxiety. Go find out about people. Don’t think about “making friends” per se or even “can I date this person.” Chat up the 50 year old lady at the cash register. Go join a volunteer group and talk to the 30 year old married woman with two kids. Just talk. And listen. Take internal notes. I’m a writer in my spare tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:52 PM
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It is really good isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:40 PM
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Nah. I have two female friends - millennial women - who haven’t been on dates in like a decade. They are in their late 30s now. We tried setting one of them up all the time in her late 20s. She just stopped being interested and really likes her freedom. Both seem just fine without kids, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:37 PM
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Nut in a hole in a tree…. Jees, don’t you women know how privileged you are???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:34 PM
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Right. One of the things that my mom used to do that pissed me off was push me to be “interesting” to men. She was born in 43 and was raised where marriage to a good WASP was the best chance at a good financially secure life. She still had a career tho as a teacher and was very smart. But she wanted me playing an instrument, learning to ride, to appreciate classical music, play tennis and golf (I mentioned WASP right?), ski, and do well in school so I could “go on any kind of date with man and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:33 PM
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No they won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:24 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:03 PM
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100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:00 PM
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And I’m sure the men also want some super model hottie but can’t settle for that either, so?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:59 PM
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Women are not happy to share.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:55 PM
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Yah no woman is too ugly to be treated as a disposable flesh light - hell a few perverts (very few) will fuck a corpse. Women are sooo privileged that one of those might fuck her. Jesus even the original sleeping beauty story from the 16th century had a king fucking a corpse (she wasn’t but he thought she was). No im not kidding - Google it. So many men here will insist that women should be flattered that a man will fuck them but then say “men will fuck anything.” But then they trash the town bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:52 PM
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I have a GREAT husband. He gets the entire month of December off - good for him - but I don’t. He just sat there watching soccer as I spent four hours getting crap put away from Thanksgiving and Christmas debris. He did try and help. It’s … infuriating. He did try and help getting stuff together. And he’s an excellent man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:48 PM
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Omg as a teen I remember hanging out in the goddamned Giant parking lot and doing donuts. We were such losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:38 PM
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You mean the value looks like men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:31 PM
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“ Sadly a monogamous nuclear family unit is the optimal way to build society.” When most of human society has NOT worked this way, maybe a nuclear family unit really isn’t the way to build society. Most family structures were actually extended
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:30 PM
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I can’t tell. The whole thing is weird. As people say, feels like bait. It does feel like a set up to knock someone down. On the other hand it also feels like she had it all choreographed out. They don’t seem right for each other at all/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:34 AM
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Those are awful
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:18 PM
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There is no way on planet earth that I would have turned down my now husband if he had proposed to me in a different way than I had been imagining. It’s the philosophy of it - we are choosing to move forward as a project. And that means things are never going to be exactly the way I want them. I mean I’d love a coupe, but I have a four door because I have kids. I love my house in certain ways, but I had to flex to make it work for him. The proposal is the start of that journey - and so it might …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:16 PM
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The US
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:46 PM
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Sadly many LGBTQ end up here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:43 PM
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“ Women should not get a child tax credit, welfare, paid abortion or a state funded bounty service for neglectful fathers (child support).” Why should children be punished for lousy men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:08 PM
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Yes. Far later than that. My mom was not allowed to attend UVA even though she had a perfect 4.0 as an undergraduate. Women weren’t. She was allowed in as a third year but only for nursing or education - low paying jobs relatively at that time (nursing pays much better these days). When I went to UVa, I got in as a first year and could take any course I wanted to. I went to law school and now am in the top 20% of American taxpayers, entirely on my own merit and work. It enabled me to get out of …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 06:27 PM
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Down voting me doesn’t change the facts, snowflake. Wanna lower your chance of divorce? Marry a college educated woman: https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2015/12/04/education-and-marriage/ https://divorce-education.com/divorce-rate-by-education-level/#:~:text=If%20you%20said%2C%20%22Bachelor's%20degree,with%20lower%20levels%20of%20education.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 06:09 PM
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You don’t pity them, you are angry. Tell your wife you don’t want to hear it. Jesus. She needs to tell them to shut it up if it’s so distressing for her. Frankly I think you both enjoy having these women to look down on otherwise you wouldn’t encourage it. You all get pleasure from watching the shit show, just like those libs that hang out on leopards eating face Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:16 PM
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A shit ton of women are invisible to men. Ask black women about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:11 PM
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Because women were forced to marry Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:08 PM
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The only way you could possibly my think we don’t promote healthy body size is by willful blindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:59 PM
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“ college-educated women, I feel like feminism has created an undercurrent of "If you're not needlessly antagonizing your husband from time to time, you're a dupe of the patriarchy," which is not great for relationship harmony, to say the least.” College educated women are the LEAST likely to divorce. Do you ever ask yourself why if we are all man haters that don’t treat our husband’s right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:52 PM
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No it’s men who do that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:47 PM
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Bullshit let em fail - men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:46 PM
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Why are you so angry about it? Why do you care? It’s your wife’s phone. They aren’t your friends…. I mean, I’ve known some stupid men who insist on going for train wrecks who are hot. 🤷‍♀️ oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:42 PM
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“ Even when we have looks on our side…” Yah well, I don’t care how hot you are, I’m not going to be your plain but smart girl that you fuck while you also fuck dumb blonde two. You aren’t - for a lot of women - worth wife investment, ltr, or kids. I don’t care how hot you are. And there is a saying about hot women - no matter how hot she is there’s some man sick of her shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:06 AM
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Me. And I was ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:02 AM
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Yah I like hair
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:00 AM
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This is literally the way it has always been.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:54 AM
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A friend of my husband’s met his wife at one of those events
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:31 PM
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“ to a society that increasingly treats men as expendable.” I don’t think this is objectively accurate. We ditched the draft. Where else are men “expendable?”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:30 PM
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This is a good point. My job will also wipe out my people energy so not super interested in super social things
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:28 PM
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I do this. It can take hours on a Sunday
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:35 PM
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Nice non sequitur
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 08:14 PM
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And yet you aren’t calling out OP for an entire post calling all “modern” women trash. I don’t see any posts calling all men trash. OP’s post is up. Seems like he isn’t being “shunned.” In fact you are here defending him. You should look in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:06 PM
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“ Alternatively, he could choose to go down the AI girlfriend route. His AI girlfriend doesn't care that he's ugly and low status, she'll still speak to him with excitement/enthusiasm and be willing to have deep conversations late into the night. She'll be willing to talk through his problems and fully accept him as a human being, rather than treat him as an accessory whose only purpose is to entertain her and impress her friends. Seriously, which would YOU rather pick?” This literally says that…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:11 PM
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You treat all modern women with contempt. I quoted you. And that says all that needs to be said about you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:58 PM
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Gawd that was horrifying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:53 PM
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Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:53 PM
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I think you are dead on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:52 PM
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Yawn. Whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:49 PM
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Right - makes an awful negative sweeping generalization of women and then is like, what did I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:48 PM
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Is that… sarcastic?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:47 PM
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https://apnews.com/article/chatbot-ai-lawsuit-suicide-teen-artificial-intelligence-9d48adc572100822fdbc3c90d1456bd0 Sure. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:30 PM
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Gee why would people react badly to women being called slut, narcissist, gold diggers who can be replaced by an algorithm? Seems super respectful to me! 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:27 PM
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I did read the entire thing - including the screed essentially calling “modern” women slut, narcissists, and gold diggers who will divorce men and take their money. Natch - you are the one saying a woman can be replaced with an inanimate object. That shows me exactly how much you dehumanize women. My husband - any of the men I have dated - never could have been replaced by a robot, and no I don’t need their wallets. Never did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:26 PM
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You are defending a post that says women are trash…. And you are butt hurt people are responding in kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:22 PM
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lol - the OP posts this as a revenge fantasy against women, which he paints in the ugliest light, and you are mad that woman won’t rise to the bait. “ The systemic misandry in the west is only reaching new heights day by day, and modern women are becoming increasingly narcissistic and entitled. The standards and expectations on men are only becoming higher, while western women are becoming worse and worse. It's actually insane if you think about it. A man today is expected embark on the Sisyphea…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:21 PM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:18 PM
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I know you want us to really care and be hurt that some emotionally undeveloped man doesn’t want us, but that’s your revenge fantasy, not reality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:17 PM
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Live out my life alone. And? So will the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:08 PM
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“ But we are talking about what makes you more attractive, not the other way around. If Ai can behave just like you, and is definitely much cheaper to maintain, what do you believe you bring to the table better than Ai other than your physical body?” Guys, when you make this statement, you really are proving the RadFems right - that men don’t see women as people but just appliances. And - let’s try the concept of empathy here - is that how you want to be viewed? Do you want yourself to be tossed…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:07 PM
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Right? Every time someone posts something like this, they demonstrate exactly why women don’t want anything to do with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:04 PM
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Grrrr brakes ….
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:59 AM
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Oh he did. But that’s also a slice of my personality. I’m not a damsel in distress type. I will say that I do turn into jello when something threatens my kids. We were in an accident when I creamed* a deer at 60 miles an hour. Bless that Lexus, it saved me and my kids that day. Never lost power never lost breaks. Safely slowed down to the side of the roads. Kids fine in back seat. Adrenaline drops. And I turned into absolute jelly. Boy goddamned he has calm in crisis, bless that man. We work wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:58 AM
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And this is the attitude that runs head on into the “just don’t have sex” of abortion bans.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:01 PM
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Girl we are unique. I grew up half country/half city. My dad wouldn’t know what to do with me if I couldn’t shoot or take care of a snake
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:53 PM
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My hub’s neighbor came over crying there was a snake in her garage. She was really used to relying on him for the manly things. I went over with a shovel and took care of it. He married me not her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:51 PM
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God, I hate this stuff. As bad as the religious “the man is the quarterback” crap. I donno, my husband really admired how I got the black snake out of our neighbor’s garage (lol she came to him with that damsel in distress nonsense). My hub feels like a man when i go to him with questions in his expertise - like guns and electricity. He likes that I talk him up to my friends and family and brag on him. He loves what I do to him in bed. He loves when I am appreciative of what he does - like diggi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:49 PM
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Oh women know about it. The trophy wife was a thing in my mom’s generation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:27 PM
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Your hysterics over conservative bullshit memes aren’t facts. You know what we remember the renaissance for? Double entry book keeping and extraordinary art and literature.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:25 PM
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You are getting value - you are getting roads, medical research, a military, expensive planes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:22 PM
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Lmao. Women should be compelled to give men sex!!!! No wait, ED meds are for women!!! Men don’t need sex!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:21 PM
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You are right - let’s make it so men are legally compelled to provide other men sex, since uoh both want it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:20 PM
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No it isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:19 PM
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This WAS the structure. Maybe you want to go look up why it didn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:16 PM
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So starve the children. And you all wonder why people don’t want to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:15 PM
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CHILDREN are the largest beneficiaries. CHILlDREN
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:13 PM
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Fascinating - so the idea of limiting men’s freedoms any way is “bad,” but let’s limit women’s freedoms instead. You are wrong btw. A man may have more that one sexual relationship but that’s generally SERIAL. Of course in the beginning he may date several (and so would the women) but for the vast majority, they’ve settled to one generally monogamous relationship. That means all those other women are available to other men. in addition, a man can only marry one. So even if that man could have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:09 PM
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Birth rates are dropping in Muslim countries too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:54 PM
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“ A heterosexual (man) no longer needs a (woman) to survive or even thrive, (he) can obtain a degree, a six-figure salary - and if (he) fails the social safety net will catch (him).”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:54 PM
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The Biden economy was better than every other developed nation’s, that’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:50 PM
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I look to what he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:48 PM
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But republicans keep voting for republicans. Unless they choose to punish republicans for a national ban, why would the GOP care?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:46 PM
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You don’t get it- the rules never applied to the rich. He and his cabinet know they can just send their mistresses and daughters to special clinics or Europe or Canada. The rest of us? Lmao. One more dead woman in Texas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:45 PM
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“ Trump refused to accept the results, not Republicans.” A whole lotta Republicans did too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:43 PM
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I’m a feminist. And I also know how expensive and time consuming little kids are. No way would I have made it through undergrad with my pregnancy. I’d have had to work full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:42 PM
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One person apologized to me - one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:39 PM
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Awww you like curvy ladies. Lil’ bit of the kardashian. (I realize this could sound snotty - it’s not meant to be. I’m being serious)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:08 PM
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Because men don’t want the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:53 PM
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Are you fuckkng comparing pregnancy to a little reversible snip (unless you leave it in for a long time)? I ended up with life threatening preeclampsia TWICE with my pregnancies. It’s still the same - it’s that WE ALL have the right to dictate what happens to our goddamned bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:52 PM
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Do you want women to control what happens inside your own body? Do you want women to have control over whether you get a vasectomy? No? Then you don’t get to control what happens to another’s body. Why is this so hard to understand? You get to control what happens inside your body. That means you get to decide if you come, if you take the male pill or if you get a vasectomy. But once you put sperm in another person’s body she gets to control what happens to her body. If you can prove rape I’m fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:50 PM
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Oh it’s here all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:46 PM
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Men here say that women should be stripped of their rights to vote. And they don’t get banned. so bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:42 PM
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OP’s envy is dripping.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:38 PM
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When ever you move past empathy, the ask is always placing limits on female agency
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:25 PM
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Man the biases these types of statements reveal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:58 PM
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Men do hypergamy and serial monogamy. Like is this upside down world?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:57 PM
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It can be both. And yes women can start dialing it in too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:48 PM
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Bullshit. You have perception bias. Women tell other women all time that if all your exs are crazy, you are the constant factor. Maybe women don’t admit to YOU that they make errors of judgement, but women sure as hell talk to each other about it. Why would any woman admit it or discuss accountability with men? When they get raped “what were you wearing?” When they get hit “pick better.” No woman goes to a man for comfort unless they know that man very very well. But women? Holy shit do we warn …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:46 PM
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Alpha fux beta bux. Ie the young hot girl will screw all the alpha hot men in her twenties - and even carry his kid! But then will look for a mid man with money to marry in her 30s. I guess the male version is the girl you screw and the girl you marry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:47 PM
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Like men don’t search for their best options. Like wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:45 PM
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Aw! She sounds like a gem!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:43 PM
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Why would I wreck my body having kids if that lowers my value and my husband could then walk off? Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:41 PM
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Yes you are like that. And good on you. Other men aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:26 PM
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I am a woman and really feel your first two paragraphs. I can and do run over people. I need a guy who can stand up to me. I like that my husband does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:26 PM
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Youth and inexperience. Poor self esteem. The men get comfy in a relationship and stop trying Btw these apply to men too. Young men will get so entranced by sex that they’ll ignore the GF insanity and then wake up and say WTF. 1&2 led to my first disastrous marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:22 PM
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Goddamned - crazy making
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:20 PM
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Damn straight and this woman does not support it. She’s has to be young and dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:15 PM
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This comment is hilarious and I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:07 PM
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I mean I think the point is that relationships run their course for whatever reason
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:02 PM
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Age gap relationships aren’t the most stable. Neither are very young relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:01 PM
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Right? It sounds like these relationships lasted just long enough to get past the lust phase (or NRE - whatever name you give that early heady hormone driven time). When you are past that you have to see whether there is something more there to sustain it - do you LIkE this person even when you aren’t having sex? Do you enjoy their company? Do you all work through issues together? I don’t know how it works exactly - I’ve been married now 17 years - we’ve had highs and we’ve had lows. But we turn…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:00 PM
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“ they know they never would get these guys attention before.…” So apps made MEN drop their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:53 PM
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“ Since value is subjective (men) can use plausible deniability to value themselves whatever they want (Infinity Value!) and craft any narrative they want about the dating market.” Sounds like OP, who declares who women should value
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:51 PM
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“ More girls,lie,cheat, and have multiple partners. We're seeing more girls act like the men you look down upon.” Casual misandry right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:50 PM
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No. You are thinking about only sex. When it comes to relationships, men have high standards. Stop confusing Sex with relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:43 PM
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Happy birthday, man. Hoping the next turn around the sun brings you more
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:39 PM
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Sounds like a lot of women went off the tinder market - they married, stopped dating in general, or bailed from tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:31 PM
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Can’t be fat = minority of men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:19 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:14 PM
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This entire discussion, starting with your comment here, needs to be pinned at the side. One of the best discussions of relationship formation from top to bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:14 PM
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God, you are really pretty insecure aren’t you. That must be the braggadocio, obsession with male genitalia, and random insults. The smallest dogs bark the loudest. I bet were an awful nag.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:59 PM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:19 PM
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My dad cheated on my mom with her best friend. Does that mean all men will be cheaters?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:17 PM
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Good god. I know who is on the power trip here and it isn’t the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:08 PM
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NOW supports adding women to selective service. And it’s conservatives that oppose women from joining the military in combat roles
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:04 PM
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Your entire post is that man hating is part and parcial of feminism because some of the proponents also hate men. So which is it? Is man-hating bad and it sucks that some of those are involved in feminism or is feminism bad because some of the thinkers were also man haters? I’m a feminist. I don’t hate men. I’m married to a pretty stereotypically masculine guy - think guns, games, stoicism, and physical. He wants equality and respects me for more than my nice ass. But that doesn’t blind me to sy…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:58 PM
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As if you guys don’t nag and manipulate. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:46 PM
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No I don’t “demand” anything from my gfs. I’ll ask them out and we’ll talk. If I get turned down enough I withdraw. I ended a friendship about a year ago for that stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:44 PM
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Uh no. We just don’t want to be the mother to our husband
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:35 PM
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Then don’t get into a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:34 PM
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You sound like a great dad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:33 PM
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You don’t unless she wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:26 PM
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Women confronted the same issue. So they decided to not marry
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:26 PM
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Snork. No. You are all free to not marry. No one is making you do it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:24 PM
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So civil rights that ended Jim Crow abuse is bad because some of the proponents hated their oppressors after those same oppressors engaged in decades of systemic domestic terrorism on top of two plus centuries of slavery? Look how angry you are right now. Ask yourself how angry you would be if you were blocked from the best schools, best jobs, from having your own insurance or bank accounts … all because you are a man. Don’t you think you might not like your oppressors either? Look how angry you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:09 PM
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We need: Encouragement of men entering the teaching profession particularly at younger grades. Reintroduce gym More vocational training Cells out of schools More taxpayer funded support of third places. Educational training on boy issues. They get punished - especially black boys - far more aggressively. Men already get affirmative action for college: https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:49 PM
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I don’t get it. How is it that women have so many more options if the population of dating age singles are 50/50? I supposed this is where the harem theory comes from but most women don’t like being part of a harem. That’s what “are we dating the same Man” exists
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:22 PM
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I donno - ask all those fat overweight men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:59 PM
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Sounds like you don’t have any skills but to be a tradwife yourself email boy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:57 PM
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I wanted to be a plumber. Mom wouldn’t let me. Women built the equipment that allowed the US to wage WW2. We aren’t scared of hammers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:56 PM
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There are SAHM now, men get alimony and men get child support and most courts default to 50/50 custody. Seems like it’s helping men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:51 PM
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Equality means “women have to fuck me?” No I don’t think so
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:50 PM
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Citation please? It’s bullshit IMHO. It isn’t here in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:48 PM
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So something that hasn’t happened in 50 years? NOW supports including women in the draft. It is male legislators that usually refuse to pass it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:46 PM
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Bull shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:34 PM
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The bechel test is not forced. And yes it says a lot if all women are just talking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:32 PM
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No one has been drafted in the Us in 50 years. I’m fine with extending it to women. Israel does great with that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:31 PM
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I disagree. I slept around at certain age. It didn’t “hurt” me - it actually helped me. Feminism allows women the same legal and social freedom as men. That means they can be promiscuous or not. Many women I know were never very promiscuous - far less than me in fact. And sexual activity is actually reducing among GenZ and Gen alpha. I realize there was a slew of think pieces in mainly very liberal coastal towns about young women feeling used, but they also had the full capability to make differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:30 PM
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Facts not in evidence boyo. Your “feelings” aren’t reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:40 PM
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So voting is a privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:37 PM
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Abortion and birth control was not invented by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:33 PM
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And it’s going to fuck over Genz so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:30 PM
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Are you kidding me???? The Republicans have ended abortion rights, are threatening to end access to birth control, and threatening to end no fault divorce. My kids have LESS equality now than I did in the 90s and 00s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:21 PM
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Snork. Okay, no Bible then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:17 PM
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I am fine with changing the law of the SA victim. No parent - including the mother - can put a child up for adoption without the consent of the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:16 PM
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You all really can’t differentiate between money and the body can you? No one stops you from donating - you have bodily autonomy. Ta da!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:11 PM
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This really is tiresome. Women are usually careful. That’s why the fertility rate is under 2
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:06 PM
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The most stable marriages are with college educated. They have - male and female - largely turned toward democrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:04 PM
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And my point is that ticking time bomb will really hurt those same men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:56 PM
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I actually agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:55 PM
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Doctors prescribe certain antidepressants to address perimenopause. I specifically had to reject them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:52 PM
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Lmao. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:51 PM
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Lmao. You see so much misogyny here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:50 PM
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There are several responses here that show misogyny. Where is your condemnation of all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:49 PM
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My daughter was stalked by a kid at school. She told him she was gay and not interested. He didn’t stop. It required the invention of counselors on several occasions. It says a lot that your sympathy is with the guy terrifying the girl instead of the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:47 PM
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Prime example of no empathy . Way to make OP’s point So OP should feel complimented that a mentally ill and smelly and disgusting man wants to drag her into an alley, jam his smelly dick inside her body, expose her to STDs, and splooge inside of her where she can’t easily clean off, threatening her with pregnancy, injuring and hurting her, and she’ll have to face uncaring cops? And might not get the abortion care she needs? I wonder if you’d feel complimented if some man dragged you into an alle…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:38 PM
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Dan Savage once made the comment that the fathers of gay sons needed to be as protective of them as daughters because men can be predators. Savage fucks men and is married to a man. He relates being cornered as a young man by a much older and bigger man. He is very good about telling straight men how to feels to be the target of their attention. He has other problems but he was one the few guys who seemed to really “get” it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:37 PM
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No dear. Unhealthy women are attracted to those people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:32 PM
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Right? Like women are very empathetic to Mike Arrow on here in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:31 PM
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Yah I’ve had and continue to have great men in my life. I’m a feminist but I actually tend to get along better with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:29 PM
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As a woman, I have never rejected a man as a friend based on looks- ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:28 PM
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This is psycho language. Look everyone - the “rational” and “analytical” gender! They never reason from emotion. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:25 PM
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Like dude I’m married to a short man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:22 PM
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Being nice isn’t the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:20 PM
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I’m sorry that has happened to you. I’ve been lucky in my encounters with homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:19 PM
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Once again, a man who thinks he built civilization single-handedly. We did step up - we kept the war engine going at home during world war 2 while our men fought abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:17 PM
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God you picked one of the hardest careers dude
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:15 PM
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Man, I always feel for you. You are the kind of guy I’d want to introduce to my single friends who are DnD girls. I feel like you are super self aware
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:14 PM
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This is dead on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:11 PM
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A friend of mine is struggling with this. My friend is heavy but attractive - 6? Her husband is okay -he’s poor and a cop. He’s six feet and reasonably in shape. He’s cheated on her a bunch with women that aren’t really that attractive. They are available.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:10 PM
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Nah you are right. Cheaters are about opportunity not necessarily looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:06 PM
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And they usually do cheat down
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:05 PM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:05 PM
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Yah I bet if you hit on every 1/10 you’d get laid a lot too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:04 PM
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Oh well. She takes the same risk on you - that you’re pining over some unattainable hottie
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:03 PM
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Once again- it’s always a woman’s fault if her husband beats her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:02 PM
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Pot kettle dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:01 PM
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Lmao - thanks for proving her point - if a man beats his wife, it’s her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:01 PM
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Oh yes there is. Old women, especially when they have no kids. Very unattractive women. And men relish it here - they shit all over land whales and post wall women and spinsters with their cats. They relish telling women how disposable they are. And women have gone on to their own devices - forming communities and friendship groups. They aren’t disposable to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:00 PM
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Right? Sexual activity is down among GenZ.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:56 PM
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“ It’s interesting I noticed how a good share of single women I know look for love and committed relationships, but would tell how they pick up tall guys in the clubs or had a threesome.” Sure. Women are all having threesomes 🙄 If you spend your time focusing on party girls this is what you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:55 PM
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Luck = prepared + opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:53 PM
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Uh no. The one who asks out requires less luck. The one who doesn’t vastly to wait for what comes her way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:52 PM
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It’s about bodily autonomy or they’d just give birth and adopt out the baby
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:38 AM
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What a load of shit. You can quit your job. I can’t quit pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:37 AM
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They really believe this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:35 AM
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Nah. But if im forced to carry a pregnancy I don’t want, you can be a slave to the state just like me. No quitting your job. No getting paid under the table
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:34 AM
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And your body, your choice and YOUR responsibility. Dont go giving your sperm to other people if you don’t like that what they do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:30 AM
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It really isn’t. Sometimes - very rarely - a man who CAN pay will get held in contempt to discharge a court order to pay over due child support. It takes a lot of violating court orders etc to end up there. But if he can’t pay he isn’t getting thrown in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:27 AM
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And here is the thing - men are just as likely to monkey branch as women. You see men advocating for it here - “starter girlfriends!” A little trip around this sub or retroactive jealousy sub tells you exactly how some low n count men seethe with jealousy and anger that they couldn’t be chad. The second they get a chance to fuck around they go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:25 AM
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Your grandma didn’t WORK full time either
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:55 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:50 PM
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Lmao. But that high quality man just wants to fuck around and not be chaste
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:49 PM
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Well good on them beating the stats. On average those are the marriages more likely to divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:48 PM
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But he isn’t a chad and is never going to be a chad right? Like I am never going to know what it is like to have men just randomly buy me flowers and drinks and dinner because I’m not Stacey. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:47 PM
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Lmao. No. It means no marriage and no kids. I know you all are so hopeful that the biological clock will go off in our ears and make us stampede toward marriage but I’ve been hearing that since I was a tween. And the end result has been lower and lower birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:44 PM
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Right? Like less kids and less SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:42 PM
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Same same girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:40 PM
6

So what you’re saying is no fuckboi can turn over a new leaf and become a husband, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:40 PM
10

Why would I submit?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:38 PM
7

Weird. Lawyer and happily married. How did that happen? Oh yes, I don’t act adversarial to my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:37 PM
7

But the most stable marriages happen at 28-30 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:35 PM
2

Ass man nails it! (And I am not ashamed)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:32 PM
15

Monogamy isn’t the same as patriarchy. And patriarchy is not the foundation of civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:31 PM
5

Dude seriously thinks pretty poorly about men doesn’t he
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:28 PM
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First, nah our daddies and mommas have been telling this to us FOREVER. Second, man, you’ve got a poor view of men. Look, 100 years ago, we didn’t have any CHOICE in the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:27 PM
6

Find me a place without large scale intervention in the economy? Where? Name the countries? Which one should the us emulate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:25 PM
1

Agreed. My first husband - the first man I was ever intimate with - wasn’t a chad. He still did a number on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:22 PM
3

And I’m glad you are eating your heart out in envy right now
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:26 PM
5

I’ve several late millennials that I’ve known for over a decade. So at 28-30 the two ladies I’m thinking about wanted to marry. Now at almost 40 they are glad they didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:23 PM
4

Yup and your feudal overlord starts a war and sends you to die. Maybe you need to look at the real power brokers here instead of blaming women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:21 PM
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Sure, that’s why people are abandoning Christianity and religion - particularly women now. Don’t blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:19 PM
2

Yes and sending good thoughts - my brother’s second marriage was to an abusive woman. He was the victim and he was drawn in by broken winged bird syndrome based on his upbringing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:57 PM
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“ Red Pill Man 💯 true. Woman back in the day 90s and early 2000s woman still had high standards and expectations BUT THE DIFFERENCE is that those woman didn’t have dating apps and social media platforms which give woman thousands of dating opportunities nowadays (hoeflation) compared to back then when women had maybe 1-3 guys to choose.” Why don’t you guys do a MODICUM of research. Hon, I met my husband in 2004. On Match. I have several friends who met via e harmony. And there were these HUGE si…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:50 PM
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He thinks you are going to be a lonely cat lady wishing you’d just given that mid-nerd a chance back in high school, been his adoring girlfriend, fucked only him, and you’ll be so so sorry now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:46 PM
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You all really could serve taking a class in family law/or the history of family formation. Maybe not as exciting as military battles but then you’d learn quite a bit. Social classes marry social classes. Read the subtext behind Pride and prejudice. It was not enough for a man to have a paycheck as some of you say - give me a break. Families allied to improve their social economic standing. As an example William Ford married Martha Firestone. Go back to the tradesman/guild days, and you’d have m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:43 PM
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Also people tend to marry in the same socioeconomic band. My parents and family went over my now husband with a critical eye when they first met him, as he hadn’t finished undergrad and I had a doctorate under my belt. He passed but they wanted to make sure he was “their sort.” By and large I don’t know that many of these “unaccomplished women” marrying accomplished men. I know lots of college grads marrying the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:28 PM
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Sure….
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:23 PM
2

But that’s for sex, not for relationships right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:22 PM
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Because you are taking on the responsibility of financially floating the kids and relationship if you marry a poor woman. And that’s the talk of standards being lower outside the US. I visit the passport bro website. They are just using financial arbitrage to push themselves into a higher status - just as if they were far richer here in the US. It’s just betabuxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:22 PM
2

Damn what an adventure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:02 PM
1

I’m glad it worked for you but I disagree. It was when I started to be happy alone that i did much better all around
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:02 PM
3

Most women aren’t that naive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:39 PM
10

That’s how it always was.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:38 PM
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“ Bonus of being a man: We have np marrying a nice poor girl and living happily ever ever. Tons of them.” But being a betabux is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:34 PM
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Yah you’re in for a big big surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:19 AM
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Oh you sweet summer child. You fuckers never ever research. I’m in ga. We supercharged our system to push out illegals. The farmers lost their asses. https://www.forbes.com/sites/realspin/2012/05/17/the-law-of-unintended-consequences-georgias-immigration-law-backfires/ And then this: https://www.npr.org/2024/04/26/1242236604/florida-economy-immigration-businesses-workers-undocumented You have fun with all the higher prices.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:18 AM
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No we aren’t. Because we don’t waste our times with losers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:15 AM
2

So like have you seen men? They are equally as fat muchacho.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:13 AM
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No it really isn’t. Men will fuck dead women and women in a coma. They’ll fuck sheep and dogs and animals - it’s so bad that Bible had to impose a rule against it. But we are supposed to feel lucky that man will cum inside us??? I had casual sex in my past, but there is no fucking way it feels good to be used by some greasy smelly man to be his cum receptacle. And bet men would feel a lot different about the wonders of sex if they were getting pegged every time. Lots of gay men don’t bottom ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:12 AM
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Lmao. And you think that’s some kind of privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:05 AM
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Right? They do it here every time they scream about purple haired fat cat women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:53 AM
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Bahaha meanwhile all your brethren will get on here and tell us how you e got to be skinny and no tattoos and agreeable and submissive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:51 AM
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I’ve been chunky and I’ve been glowed up and skinny. Let me tell you how much better men treat me when I am prettied up. You guys constantly tell women that WE don’t understand that a man will use us and dump us because men will sleep with anything, so we shouldn’t get our heads all inflated… But then turn around and claim that all these men don’t have standards and dating is super easy for women. So which is it? For actual dating, men have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:50 AM
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So no decent girl should touch you either right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:45 PM
2

And smoke - wrecks that skin
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:43 PM
1

You all keep saying this but the stats do NOT support this view.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:40 PM
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I kinda agree that Americans of all genders tend to be pretty classless - loud rude and crude
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:34 PM
2

I agree it’s smart to think about the long term financial and educational value of one’s spouse, male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:33 PM
1

I read that. Punching above his weight isn’t an insult but the rest are really mean. The internet is mean. They look like a cute couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:30 PM
1

I actually applaud you for this - and for pointing out that you the man did it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:49 PM
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Nah, we just have enough toxic men trying to date women over here. PS madre es cubana y madrastra es alemana. Me gustan mujeres europeas y extranjeras. Pero las estadounidenses están educadas y quieran carreras. Estoy abogada. Mis niñas quieran ser médicas.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:17 AM
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Heheheh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:02 AM
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Jfc. Stereotype much?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:02 AM
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Oh lord . Other countries are far more racist in that respect
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:14 PM
16

Classic Greek fables are a myth?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:10 PM
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Wow. Yah. Stick to those foreign women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:09 PM
4

We get it. There are some beautiful areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:08 PM
2

That isn’t about expectations - that’s about being turned and treated like a media trope
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:50 PM
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I apologize. I missed my husband’s birthday and in mortification apologized and gave him a special BJ. I also apologized over some negative things with Covid and worked with him to get an exclusion. He however cannot apologize for almost anything and tries to buy me stuff so I’m less angry. There are men who apologize. But there are some men who really struggle when it comes to apologizing to women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:37 PM
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Always a threat of violence huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:32 PM
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Lmao. One day you guys will learn that ideology isn’t inheritable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:32 PM
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“ While messages like "the world is dangerous" or "men may take advantage of you" carry some truth, these messages can become exaggerated, cultivating a sense of distrust toward men.” My oldest was stalked by a boy for almost a year when she was 13. It required substantial intervention. I’m married. I have a great brother. My dad was a lousy father and husband, but no predator. The world is dangerous. Men will take advantage of you. Not all men, but you can’t always tell the good from the bad of…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:31 PM
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Trump called me and my kind all sorts of names, including the enemy within. Do tell me when Harris or walz called Trump voters or republicans evil. “ Also women aren't really gonna lose right.” Abortion was legal in Georgia (where I live) in 2016. It was also legal in 2005, when I had a miscarriage and I didn’t need to worry about it. Now it’s illegal after six weeks (many don’t know if they are pregnant at that point) and I could be arrested and charged with a felony if I take my 16 or 14 girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:20 AM
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This needs to be pushed up higher - it shows how influencers will use extreme rhetoric to drive clicks when they don’t even believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:00 PM
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“I’m going to strip you of your legal rights because my feelings were hurt.” That isn’t the winning argument you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:57 PM
1

I’ve known two.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:55 PM
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“ Gen Z got hit way harder by inflation, so they vote out the incumbent to fix the economy with tariffs lol.” That LOL for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:54 PM
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“ Queen Elizabeth of England oversaw the greatest period of imperialist expansion of human history.” Wow. The opposite, my dear - both for I and II. Do you mean Victoria?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:53 PM
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“ Men kill themselves 3.5x more and 7x more post divorce.” And why is that due to misandry? “ don't have access to homeless shelters.” This is false. I worked near a man’s homeless shelter. They exist. More men than women are homeless by a large amount: https://endhomelessness.org/demographic-data-project-gender-and-individual-homelessness/ I do think we need to focus on male homelessness but I don’t see that as a consequence of misandry. Would you care to make a connection? “ any major war will…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:51 PM
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“ Also, he can’t ban abortion, that overrules the Supreme Court decision…” This is absolutely wrong and yes I am a lawyer. All SCOTUS did was strike down Roe. SCOTUS did not say that the federal government does not have jurisdiction over abortion regulation. This is why Graham immediately proposed a 15 week abortion limit. As to an abortion ban being “unpopular” that didn’t stop many red states from enacting such bans immediately. Red legislatures in places like Arizona and Ohio did everything t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:41 PM
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I appreciate it, lady, and your wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:56 AM
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Do fathers guide their sons to make a good choice? Like wtf? The number of men here who “don’t care” about their potential wife’s long term financial viability is extraordinary. And yet that is the ticket to a more stable long term marriage. Maybe men should focus on guiding boys and leave their daughters alone. My dad was a shitty husband and father. I’d never trust his taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:14 AM
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I absolutely know a woman with a libido that puts a teenage boy to shame and she has had two dead bedroom events - one long term boyfriend has untreated hypertension that killed his boner. And the other she’s with right now and he’s always “too tired.” She tells me because she knows I don’t judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:10 AM
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“ It's not "fun" to be the sole provider of a household or family working 50+ hours a week and come home to it being a disaster for days on end” This isn’t about your personal complaints regarding your wife. Most mothers work so that means de facto this is a minority - and assumably a minority of a minority since some of those SAHM are doing the full gamut
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:07 AM
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Check out Deadbedroom. Look at the women complaining. And women complain nonstop about how little men help, yet you don’t believe them and insist men wait on their wives hand and foot. L-M-A-O
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:04 AM
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No. I was being hyperbolic because I’m very salty. He is a very good man and love him very much. But there needs to be an apology because I’ve made it clear at several points that when I make an effort I need some appreciation. He’ll usually devolve to “you always look good!” But it is true the lingerie is tucked away for a while. I’m not making an effort FOR HIM over looking as attractive as I can. I generally do dress nicely anyway but I have more comfy undies. I won’t be flashing anyone else …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:00 AM
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Nope. That is closed down
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:32 AM
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“ Never any issues with men supporting their partners, wives & children for several years on end financially with no help there. No one talks about that shit.” Most mothers work, first. And, asshole, those kids are the man’s too. He better support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:20 AM
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Men ALSO experience a drop in libedo too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:16 AM
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And I’ll point out - I got in some hot red lingerie yesterday, I’m almost as skinny as I was when I met my husband, and I got dressed up to the nines for a dinner date… And we came home and he said “oh let me finish this game” and then two hours later couldn’t figure out how angry I was. Next time I dress up in red lingerie it won’t be for him. Women post in dead bedroom all the time. We don’t have a dead bedroom but he just did a fuck ton to cause one last night.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:13 AM
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Omg! Right outside Chattanooga! My grandad lived there until he passed!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:53 PM
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I love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:49 PM
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“ Combination of historical rates for developed countries and modern rates for failed states, courtesy Our World In Data.” So not premodern rates. This is called guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:34 PM
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“ Pre-modern human historical baseline norm is 1-2% of pregnancies resulting in maternal death” I spent a very long time on accumulating documentation and studies on this exact question. And it’s incredibly difficult to determine for “premodern” times. It depends very much on location, etc. so I’m going to want a citation on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:33 PM
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In both my first and second pregnancy, I developed gestational diabetes and then pre-eclampsia. Luckily I didn’t need anything more than care with my diet and an early induced delivery. I wouldn’t show up in your stats because my situation was dangerous, could have gone wrong, and could have left me with life long injuries like stroke that didn’t kill me. When you talk about birth complications , all of a sudden all these horror stories pop out. My coworker nearly lost his wife to sepsis that de…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:24 PM
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There you go - scratch the surface and out comes the patriarchal religion
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:32 AM
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I worked on my career. I met my now husband at 28. We married. I had two kids. I have my career. I have an active sex life with him. He makes more than me. I got it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:23 AM
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But women don’t want casual sex like men either. That’s why women on average have fewer sexual partners
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:18 PM
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This. This happened to my now 16 yet old when she was 14. All she learned was to fucking HATE men. And she does. Good job guys! I’m having to spend a lot of time working on my oldest to convince her not all men! All because another kid harassed her sexually so bad that she stated to wear a coat in August in Georgia and we had to get the school heavily involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:15 PM
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Bull shit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:13 PM
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Are these fourteen year old girls in the room with you right now? A shit ton of 14 year old girls are NOT dating and not having sex. I’d say most are not. That stuff is usually happening with disconnected parents. Source: middle school teacher in a poor area is a very good friend. This is crazy making. And certainly doesn’t justify a dude at 32 dating a 22 year old because “she’s so mature.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:13 PM
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“ And at the same time, boys of the same age of 14 are deprived of romantic experience.” Ooohhh noooessss a boy might have to wait to date a girl for a few years!!!! Until high school! What about MEEEE. I didnt date until 19! How dare I be deprived of all that experience. Do you know how you sound? Nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:09 PM
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My fifteen year old (now sixteen year old) has a sixteen year old GF. My fourteen year old was asked out by a kid in her grade. She still thinks boys are gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:07 PM
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It’s like redlining - the actions of misogynists from 100 years ago can have effects that echo long after they are dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:58 PM
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Best estimates put it at around 20 % musk said 33% https://blog.twitteraudit.com/how-many-bots-are-on-twitter/ https://techcrunch.com/2024/01/10/it-sure-looks-like-x-twitter-has-a-verified-bot-problem/ https://www.gzeromedia.com/amp/musk-promised-to-rid-x-of-bots-but-they-love-his-tweets-2669551405
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:56 PM
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I think this is true and it needs to stop
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:49 PM
1

China
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:49 PM
2

I’d say that Reddit is the left wing cesspool
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:47 PM
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This. I’d say that Reddit is a cesspit of left wing ideology. I get tired of all the hate capitalism gets as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:46 PM
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Right? I am a feminist. I have no boys but I have a great husband, great male peers, and great men around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:48 AM
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Bots are a massive problem on Twitter and have worsened under Musk. https://arxiv.org/html/2304.04129v3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:46 AM
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Or you know, instead of being so emotional, you could do some independent research into the idea of “dead internet.” Or the number of bots and artificially generated content on Twitter. It is lousy with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:40 AM
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There is. Google DEAD INTERNET - so much of what is driven is bot pushed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:34 AM
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Twitter is a cesspit of right wing ideology right now. I wouldn’t believe one but that these are real women at all. But as a feminist and a woman , I think it’s great Margot Robbie had a son! I wish I’d had one too. I like men. I am married to one. My brother is awesome. Four of my bosses are men and awesome. People are way too online and they don’t seem able to realize that much of the commentary is driven by bots or hostile entities. Google “dead internet.” So much of activity online is comput…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:32 AM
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It is old fashioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:20 PM
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I have never been criticized for baking my man his favorite banana bread, making him his special chili, or scratching his back. I’ve never been criticized for detailing him his car or washing his clothes. He in turn has vacuumed my office and planted my roses. You people are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:19 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:02 PM
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That hasn’t been my experience but… I guess it’s the same as the AF/BB. The Beta Bux consider it a bad deal. I wonder how the girls next door feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:56 PM
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lol - the Madonna/whore complex, aka the male version of AF/BB. I think a lot of young people have fun being crazy and wild and then realize that certain attributes a fun time (gal or guy) may have are not conducive to long term relationships or children. And so you pick better. What those here seem to miss is that people aren’t static. The guy here has CHANGED what he is looking for - likely with changing goals. That’s fine. My now hub did some crazy stuff with strippers. He changed. What some …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:36 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:33 PM
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A lot of women marry into dead bedrooms. So I guess men just use sex to trick them into marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:04 PM
5

Boy this tells us exactly what girls you are after
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:01 PM
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“ some women don't, some women do. not everyone thinks like you” Ah so you’ll stop saying that women think that if they can bed Chad, they can date Chad, right? Because if I can’t make sweeping generalizations, neither can you. “ especially if they grew up without solid male role models.” I had shitty role models, thanks for asking. My dad was a cheating bastard who abandoned the family. But boy that was an early learning experience. “ there are plenty of women who conflate the two distinctly di…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:59 PM
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I wonder if they’re spending money to find a LTR or to learn how to be a Chad to hit it and quit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:54 PM
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Lmao. The irony of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:24 PM
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“ Everything that gets tried to make people meetup only allows women to leave more guys left out.” I’m curious. Do you want to have your options limited to who society decides you should fuck and have kids with? Don’t you want the option to steer clear of the ugly fat girl? Or the cheater or the liar or the nut who tracks you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:23 PM
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No it isn’t. Poster said “casual dating.” So he is offering exactly what Chad is offering.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:21 PM
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“ casual romantic interest.” But why would a women have ONS or FWB with someone they aren’t attracted to? Sounds like you want to pump and dump like a chad when you aren’t a chad. Women don’t engage in as much casual sex. Sex has a lot more downsides for women, especially in red states. Why would they risk sex with a man that doesn’t get their motors running enough to outweigh the downsides?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:19 PM
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But women not dating you isn’t the same as telling you you are subhuman
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:16 PM
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Snork
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:09 PM
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“ Too many women confuse the willingness of men to sleep with them with committing to a partnership.” We really don’t. You all say this all the time, but every woman has been told since they were little by their parents, their older siblings, their friends, and now social media that men will fuck anything. And this is why I only ever engaged in casual sex - the rare times that I did - with men that I found very attractive. I was under no illusions that a man that fucked me would marry me, so I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:56 PM
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But if we have too many different dicks we’re for the streets
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:50 PM
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Did you see where she stated men avoid those women who make more than them? That is also ruling out options
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:15 PM
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I think that’s a pretty small set of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:21 PM
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And guys wonder why there are so many more men on dating apps than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:20 PM
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I’m sure he’s had that experience in a very specific market and very specific kind of girl. But most women aren’t super hots and most women aren’t online
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:40 AM
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Same same dude. Same same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:32 AM
1

Because clubs and bars are where the music is at.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:32 PM
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I do. But there aren’t a lot of places where you get to go dance with a bunch of your friends
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:30 PM
0

Why don’t I get a say in my husband’s body. I should be able to demand he get a vasectomy no matter how he feels right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:48 PM
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500 a month. And you have no idea what life is like disabled - I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:47 PM
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Uh dads receive that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:40 PM
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“Men's Risks: Men are shying away from getting married because family law favors women in areas of spousal support, dividing marital assets, custody, and child support. It's much "easier" to just be engaged forever and pay child support if things don't work out vs. losing your house and car.” And this is why is I advise women to never give their boyfriends or husbands heirs absent an agreement ahead of time that secures her financial recompense out of the marriage assets should the marriage go s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:18 PM
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This is really interesting. My MIL has pet parrots. I’m not sure what kind, but the long living kind. She is devoted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:08 PM
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The stats show men tend to benefit more from marriage than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:06 PM
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Yes, you are quite weak. But I’m sure you sprang fully adult, mature, and perfect from your father’s forehead.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:03 PM
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Sounds like you STILL haven’t grown up since you continue to attack a woman over an error she made many moons ago (and rectified without too much hurt). But unlike you, I won’t assume that most men are petty vindictive children venting their spleen at anonymous women on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:01 PM
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Sounds like a great result
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:59 PM
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Funny, let me tell you what a friend of mine said to me unbidden yesterday, “like most good things in my life, it came to me through my wife.” I’ve been married twice. The first marriage was terrible. My second - still going strong after 17 years - has been sooo much better. We’d been married maybe two years when I had a lucid dream - I thought that I was still married to husband one and my life with my now husband had been a dream. The darkness that swelled over me at that moment is a testament…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:59 PM
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What is a high body count? Most z-gen aren’t having sex nearly as much
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:58 PM
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My daughter plays the violin WELL. You should see her fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:54 PM
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My daughter plays the violin WELL. You should see her fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:54 PM
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If dancing with my friends is unacceptable in a relationship, I’d stay single. Glad my now husband doesn’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:50 PM
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I dance because I love dancing. I’ve never been picked up in a club.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:48 PM
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Lmao. No. God there weren’t even clubs in my old home town - except an old country bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:45 PM
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Both my now husband and I specifically agreed to go monogamous and get off the dating sites. That said, I think this question is about changing hobbies like - dancing. I LoVE dancing. I go out dancing because I love how it makes me feel. I also dance with my kids in the house, go to dance classes and sometimes just DANCE. Had my now husband insisted I stop going out with my friends to dance, it’d be a problem. Btw neither I nor any of my friends got picked up at the dance club. I also never stop…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:43 PM
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And men can ALSO safeguard his own interests. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:04 PM
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No men don’t lose bodily autonomy. They can work whatever job they want. They often will get paid under the table to avoid it. They can not work or take a lower paying job and get their requirements reduced. That isn’t a loss of bodily autonomy anymore than working to pay for taxes or your car note is a violation of bodily autonomy. Just ridiculous. Maybe if you were enslaved to work off the debt, you’d have an argument. And women also must pay child support, so it isn’t misandrist. Jail time - …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:00 PM
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To me? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:48 PM
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Pretty sure the court would agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:45 PM
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Please think, some women are prolife, some women don’t realize that they are pregnant until after the deadline, some live in states where abortion is banned. Men should be sensible and ask questions before sticking their dick into women. For me? I would never sleep with a guy who wasn’t prochoice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:40 PM
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No to the latter. My husband was very cut from boxing when we first met. He packed on the weight. I stayed with him. I love him. He’s back to slimming down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:30 PM
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I’ve known people to fail the surgeries which is just shocking to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:27 PM
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That you equate money to bodily integrity/autonomy. It’s you who doesn’t understand. After birth women are also obligated to child support just as much as men. So? I guess we are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:03 PM
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Only for people who cannot understand the difference between bodies and money
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:58 PM
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“ Just admit you don't want men to have the same rights as women; we all know it is the case anyway; your wordplay does not fool anybody.” Do you understand how babies are made? They develop in the woman’s body. Her right to abort the pregnancy arises from her right to control her own body. Once out of her body, she too is financially responsible. If you are confused, I refer you to the Alien movie. During childbirth, a woman either has to be sliced wide open or suffers significant tears to deli…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:56 PM
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You think paying money = being a father. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:49 PM
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It’s a black humor name - like ankle biters
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:47 PM
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Love the European
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:46 PM
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Do you understand that the reason that women can have abortions is because of her rights to bodily integrity, not money?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:45 PM
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Women also have to pay child support
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:43 PM
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It always amazes me that men can’t distinguish between human bodies and money as if these are fungible. I now have type 2 diabetes due in part to gestational diabetes. No amount of money will replace my pancreas. I’d have gladly paid 500 bucks a month - the average child support award - or more for 18 years than what I have now. It makes me want to ask men - would you rather lose your hand or have to pay money. And if you lost your hand, would 500 a month replace it? It isn’t the least misandris…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:43 PM
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But women engage in far less casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:59 PM
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BINGO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:57 PM
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“ If you are a shy, reserved, yet friendly - men will think this is a wife material and try hard with their efforts.” Lol - try shy, reserved, friendly, and at least a seven.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:57 PM
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Damned straight
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:55 PM
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I agree with that last paragraph. “ If a man can't attract women, society jumps to unwarranted conclusions about his character. ” No. Bachelors are rarely criticized like spinsters or old maids. Just look at the connotation in the language.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:53 PM
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He’s referring to another poster
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:39 PM
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God those women are living rent free in your head. They are shitty women who took rejection badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:36 PM
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YES. Ugly women are treated like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:04 PM
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Here here dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:03 PM
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So … none.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:00 PM
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YES. And they are hyped focused on a certain kind of girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:58 PM
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I actually disagree a little bit. I think what’s going on is that there is a difference in messaging due to a difference in Historical context. For years and I think I’m at the last of this generation that is happened, Women, success, and having a good life, depended, and entirely on the man she married. I mean, my mother was all over me about dressing in a way that men like, Pursuing certain activities so they could be done with men, getting myself specifically in front of high-quality men. I m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:35 PM
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I didn’t find it that way - “oh I love you even though this is going to be a one night stand?”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:10 AM
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I had trouble being a virgin. Virgin women have the reputation of going nuts and getting clingy to the first guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:09 AM
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Men have control over virginity too for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:06 AM
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Men have control over it. What? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:05 AM
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You were smart to drop them. Bravo. Do you think women think all women make an effort? Do you think we don’t know there are users?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:58 AM
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Do you think foreplay lubes the dick? My ex did it without lube. It was terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:55 AM
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Agree with all of this. I will also point out that I think for women, they all tend to be a little more bisexual than men. Well, certainly there are bisexual men in general you either see straight up gay men or straight up Heterosexual Men. I myself am generally straight, but have dated and I’ve had sexual relations with women previously because I can swing that way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:08 PM
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“Made lesbian.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:05 PM
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Oh lord. I had a friend in HS like that. She married the dude right out of HS and it was a train wreck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:04 PM
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So “checklists” are a thing and have been for a very very long time. Way back when I was dating in the early days of online dating sites, both my brother and my now husband brought up concerns that women were dating based on a checklist, as if they were ordering a car. It’a like the earlier version of the 6,6,6. Bro was dating at the time as well and so we shared notes. My hub said to me that he was concerned that I was dating him because he met all my preset criteria, not for himself. I think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:56 PM
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(It was documented)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:54 PM
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And they don’t talk about it - women don’t - they go and vote
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:34 AM
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She was the DA of San Fran and then the AG of California, the most populous state in the goddamned country. And then Senator. No lawyer - NONE - is coasting doing nothing. And she was E L E C T E D. Brown didn’t get that job for her. And she dismantled Trump on stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:34 AM
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The least likely to divorce are college educated women. So no “traditional marriages” aren’t the most successful
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:25 AM
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Because it demonstrates this dude is completely ignorant and never bothered to research the origin of feminism. He just watched some curated videos and is now spouting off to women as if we aren’t very aware of the issues
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:23 AM
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Yes because these posts are so patronizing and ignorant. If the poster - one goddamned moment - had researched the roots of the feminist movement and why women demanded to enter the work force, he’d know this. Instead he mainlined bullshit social media, ate it up, and now is telling women here how we are all ignorant and don’t understand what we are missing. P A T R O N I Z I N G
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:21 AM
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And I love it. Women do so much of the volunteering and backbone work of the church while being treated as second class citizens
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:13 AM
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Wait wait wait - so you want to PUSH all the media and narrative in a GOOD light, but Most can’t provide her PERSONAL experience with the Tradlife because it went badly. “ Idea is to let the women make a choice and share notes with each other.” But she IS “sharing her notes.” And it is the HEIGHT of stupidity to select an economic pathway without ANY investigation. Did you do that when picking out a career? I didn’t. Did you do that when researching houses? Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:10 AM
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Lmao. Those silly little brainwashed women- they need to just listen to what the menfolk say. Listen, our mothers told us the score.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:05 AM
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Weird, because I see ooodles of women here that SAY they want to work and specifically do NOT want to be a SAHM. So I don’t think women are hankering after all these conservative men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:03 AM
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My secret is I like detailing my husband’s car. Mine too. Relaxing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:57 AM
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“Nothing but a career.” How fucking dismissive. Does she tell you she’s just waiting it until she retires and dies??? I mean she’s done so much for so many kids, including yours, but you are so dismissive and derogatory, seeing no value in her life simply because she didn’t procreate. I really wonder if you even ask your male pediatricians about where they have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:50 AM
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Most tradwife influencers are rich. And they have a job - their social media crap. And when it goes wrong, it’s awesome /s https://msmagazine.com/2024/04/10/tradwife-feminist-divorce-women-home/ We had teadwifery. It sucked. That’s why women went to work outside the home
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:37 AM
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You all WAY over estimate how much nookie unattractive women get. And if unattractive girls were out there wanting sex, guys would be getting it. They aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:49 PM
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On your knees Macedonian!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:31 PM
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But does he do the same for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:27 PM
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Goddamned that’s some dusty old put downs, son. You are three years out of date
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:20 PM
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Goddamn you stud ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:12 PM
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I know quite a few women who out earn their husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:12 PM
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Lmao. But men who are told to make money aren’t materialistic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:10 PM
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“ Women's mindset seems to be more fear mongering.” It isn’t fear mongering when we saw it happen to our mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:09 PM
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Holy shit, we watched our mothers be victimized - unable to leave bad marriages because they had no money. WTF are you talking about! I’d give the same advice to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:07 PM
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An so a man being financially independent is just fine and it doesn’t mean that he isn’t fully committed to his family, But if a woman does the same, she isn’t committed to her family…. And it’s just an unexpected side effect that financial independence allows men more agency to leave a bad marriage while women who forego it are trapped. Do you all ever think things through? Or are you Polly Annas who believe nothing ever goes wrong in a marriage. Sorry I watched my mom struggle after divorce an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:06 PM
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Like OP
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:59 PM
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Are you saying that no court has ever ruled in favor of a good man?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:59 PM
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Courtney Cox would disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:56 PM
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Broader access to well paying jobs without college degrees
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:55 PM
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Upvotes on all of this and I hope you are being kind to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:55 PM
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“ ...Where do you think concepts like "women and children first" come from if not for valuing women above men?” It’s generally bullshit. The British Navy has put it in action a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:46 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:43 PM
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I thought we were talking about love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:42 PM
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“ Valued for being attractive is still love.” No that isn’t love. Sweet god
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:41 PM
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Isn’t it men who point out they’ll use anyone for sex but are selective for relationships. Are you now saying that men are desperate for relationships Seems whenever it’s convenient, men just change their argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:37 PM
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“Men should abandon their kids.” Courts step in and force child support. “Wahhhh, the courts are biased!” I see your job doesn’t require logic there Mr. Manly-Man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:34 PM
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“ A job that only men are hired for and reliable for.” Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:30 PM
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To quote, “ those who demand respect are the most unworthy of that respect.” You aren’t worthy of respect, then. And you didn’t build civilization. No one respects someone who demands it for work they didn’t even do. You’re just another trust fund kid squealing, “do you know who my daddy is!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:30 PM
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So it’s women’s jobs to make fathers step up? Men are whiny little children that must be parented? Seems like men should be treated as children and remain under the control of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:25 PM
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God I hope you haven’t had kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:23 PM
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Hey guys, when you all scream about how the courts are sooooo biased against men, remember this post and ask yourself how prevalent this view is among men, even subconsciously. Men should be able to just dump their kids on the woman. After all, if that woman isn’t fucking him and washing his socks, who the fuck cares about the kids. He can just spread his jizz elsewhere. All a do over. Oh and whine about child support. And I’m going to be honest, I’ve seen this play out way too much. Maybe it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:22 PM
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You are the moron who said men love “unconditionally.” Just admit you don’t know what the word means.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:07 PM
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Ah so the bullshit ravings of Bronze Age sheep herders
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:03 PM
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“ He will love her forever & unconditionally.” Hahahaha. Snoorrrk… HAHahah. Watch how fast they move on when there is a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:48 PM
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So men are unworthy of respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:46 PM
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“ Also if woman leaves her husband, she is assured that her ex will give his support to her children equal to possible new chidlren he has with his new wife. So he is made to reward children of his ex wife at the cost of children of his new wife. So he has to reward woman who left, otherwise people will call him a bad person.” in sum, your opinion is that the children should be punished for the sins of the mother? Wow, way to continue on with the stereotype that men are selfish shitty fathers wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:45 PM
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I’ll point out that in the professional world, men aren’t expected to be leaders per se. So sure some men and/or women rise to the level of running the business but usually men are leading in some capacity AND are also followers - ie middle management.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:36 PM
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Only if you haven’t read any of the responses
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:28 PM
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Male and female roles are equally important but conveniently the feminine is supposed to follow the masculine…. But they’re equal. Like I’m equal to my boss. Lmao. Nah dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:28 PM
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I live in suburbia too. I mow because I enjoy it, but my husband usually wants to do it, though so I let him. With our old neighbors, the woman always mowed. She found it very zen. Around here, most people have lawn care services - neither the men nor the women are doing it. Or people are out on riding lawn mowers. I used to shovel snow for my mom. No husband to do it. We don’t really get snow where I now live. And most women are working FULL time. “ drives her 3 hours through traffic because sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:26 PM
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Oh really? Because I’ve sure heard plenty of guys joke about vags as big as a bus or call it a clown car.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:45 PM
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He isn’t 6 feet and he pointed out that a lot of women don’t necessarily like a dick bigger than 6
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:44 PM
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Big dicks can be seriously uncomfortable. It really needs to match the equipment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:43 PM
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Because 6-6-6 isn’t a standard that the majority of women enforce. Men shorter than 6 feet and making less than 6 figures get married all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:41 PM
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Lol - well if we are using insults…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:39 PM
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And HEIGHT is also a “nice to have” but not REQUIRED either. I know many a woman that PREFERS taller men but only one woman who said it was a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:38 PM
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Money? Lmao, you can change that. And as far as weight - why don’t you look at the success rates for men and women losing weight before the new set of weightloss meds?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:35 PM
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You are dead on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:55 PM
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The chase was always exciting to me, too. And yup
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:55 PM
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What do you think sex is mostly about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:54 PM
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And if Betabux has to Betabux, he’s been passed over by a ton of women. Sounds like they are equally yoked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:13 PM
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Most men. I only know of a few getting married right out of college even. But hey a lot of Mormons do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:11 PM
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No. But guys here sure are here. That’s the point - I was the female version of the BB. I was the so called betabux for women. I’m good looking above average but totally not the trashy type. I’m wasn’t what the guys wanted in my early twenties. Boy howdy did that change when the guys started looking to settle down. I’m not even close to as good looking as the GF my first husband had before me - I went to school with her and she was really a beautiful girl. Just a bit of trash. So? It was me that…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:10 PM
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It’s that what you say to women who are lied to and pumped and dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:57 PM
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“ All we are asking for is consistency” So you want the be the dick like her first partner and left as a consequence? Because that’s the consistency you are demanding
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:51 PM
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Are women NPCs or are they people with feelings? If you love someone why would you hurt them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:50 PM
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LMAO. And I told him long before we married. IF he hated it, he could sashay out the door. But I want a man that respects ME and MY pleasure during sex and wouldn’t pressure me into sex I didn’t like. What kind of person enjoys fucking while knowing his woman - the person he loves - is in emotional pain because if it? I know what kind of person - I was married to it - and within six months of being treated as if my feelings didn’t matter, I was out the door and my first husband was crying for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:47 PM
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Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:40 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:16 PM
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“… to follow and defer to his judgement in certain circumstances.” This is a normal give and take relationship, right? I am not submissive. I absolutely defer to my husband’s judgment (not blindly) in certain areas. He is far stronger than I am on long term investment strategies as an example. But he also defers to me on certain areas. I’m honestly curious. It’s not a model I think would work for me, but different strokes/folks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:15 PM
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I’m copying this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:09 PM
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But those terms don’t meet the definition of submissiveness. “ ready to conform to the authority or will of others; meekly obedient or passive. "a submissive, almost sheeplike people" Saith Oxford Languages. I’m not arguing with your view of what men want or mean. It’s more a question of whether they’re being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:09 PM
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Hehehe - PPD in a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:04 PM
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I upvote because I agree with your view on submissive in the bedroom girls. Guys who are captains of industry can really enjoy a dominatrix in the same situation. But what OP is talking about is the man who will say they want a submissive woman to marry, who is submissive all the time not just in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:00 PM
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“ on men to act first” Welcome to being a leader! Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:09 PM
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“ When you are receptive, yielding, agreeable, poised, soft, and compassionate, that’s what submissive is.” The only word in there that could be read as “submissive” is yielding. Really I wonder about you all. Why are you so desperate to re define the word?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:07 PM
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Weird - why are you required to be submissive to get a man who looks after you, but he doesn’t need to be submissive to have a wife that looks after him. “ Your getting someone you can rely on. If you have kids they are getting a father they can rely on.” So rhe only way a man will be a decent father to his own children is if his wife is submissive to him? I’m sorry you think you are earning a good man here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:05 PM
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It’s just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:02 PM
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You know, you can have a competent and intelligent man - I do - and not hand over the reins of your own independence. Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:01 PM
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Why the fuck would I want a man to guide me? And if I’m working, I’m contributing too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:00 PM
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And we now have hope because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:56 PM
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This is what we do in my marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:54 PM
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THANK YOU. My husband and I both have forceful personalities. We neither are subsmissive. We work cooperatively. There are some areas where I give him free rein (so good at investments) and he gives me free rein. Im very good at running the household budget, picking cars/houses/locations to suit our lifestyle and desires. So he leads and I lead. And where we clash, we discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:52 PM
12

Are you going to follow her lead?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:49 PM
12

“ for a woman to trust his leadership and guidance.” That isn’t much better, muchacho. I respect my husband’s opinion and his decision making. But he also respects mine. I don’t “let him lead.” I don’t need a boss .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:49 PM
2

To all the guys saying “well at least the woman gets sex.” Women DO NOT look at sex the same way as men. It is not validating to have a person who would fuck anything fuck you. Unless you think fucking a prostitute is validating? But there is a fuck ton of guys who say it isn’t. You think it’s better to be with someone who destroys your self esteem than to be alone, you’ve got problems. You CAN’T say “men will fuck anything” and then complain when women tell you that sex with men isn’t some priv…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:46 PM
1

Yup! I had that happen to me too. Luckily I never fell for it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:36 PM
-1

Men say “men will fuck anything. They will fuck you even if they hate you. They’re desperate.” Men say, “wait why don’t you see being fucked as a privilege!” No more self awareness than a dog licking his own asshole - SK
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:29 PM
2

“ For the vast majority of (men), all they need to do is be (rich) and boom, they’re attractive. (Salary) is something you can control.” So just get rich. And, note, it was a lot easier for me to land a 6 figure salary than keep my weight down. There is a reason why most MEN and women are fat in the same percentage and diet fails 95% of the time. So just get rich dude
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:26 PM
0

Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:22 PM
3

They don’t. And the number is dropping: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/2378023121996854#:~:text=The%20decline%20in%20casual%20sex%20is%20apparent%20for%20both%20women,to%2024%20percent%20in%202017.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:22 PM
-1

And every time you take a drink it poisons you. Because as men love to tell women here, women having casual sex are whores and sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:20 PM
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“ sex is both pleasurable and validating.” Hahaha omg - way to prove you have never ever listened to women EVER. Sex is often not validating at all for women. To the contrary, society calls her a whore for having it. MEN call her a whore. They are doing this right now on a separate thread a PPD. And if you know that a man who thinks you are ugly and doesn’t even like you will still stick their dick in? Wow! A dude can close his eyes and use me as sentinent flesh light - that makes me feel so val…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:16 PM
2

Because women don’t shame them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:09 PM
1

“ They don’t think that all they were was a live masturbation device . Which is what they were. Chad has zero feelings for them.” MOST Women really aren’t that stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:04 PM
4

Less high count men, the more stable the relationships. Tell men to keep it zipped up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:02 PM
5

“ So yes she is more privileged than the man.” Smh. Being pumped and dumped and called a whore it isn’t a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:01 PM
7

An excuse? That would require women to be acting badly. Turning you down for dates is not something a woman needs an excuse for. She has no reason to apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:57 PM
4

Lmao. “Those sluts, letting themselves get pumped and dumped - no man wants to wife a promiscuous woman!” And now, “hey what do you mean I’m the baddy for hanging around implying I want a ltr when I just want to be a pump and dump like Chad?” And then. “Why won’t ordinary girls give me the time of day?” No more self awareness than a dog licking his own asshole. Look maybe you are one of those upfront only interested in casual and don’t slut shame women, but there is another active thread right n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:56 PM
2

YES.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:50 PM
5

This is what I did. I was a virgin for my first serious boyfriend who I later married. It was a disaster. I’d always been high libido. It was such a relief to not have to worry as a divorcee over whether someone would consider me a slut for having sex too soon - I wasn’t a virgin. I just did what I wanted to do when I did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:47 PM
4

Lmao - you think men abandon those standards? The only girl I knew who had a hard standard of over six feet was 5-8 herself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:44 PM
5

Feminists never made this promise
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:41 PM
3

“ good enough to try a relationship with” After three dates? No. No one is ready for a commitment after 3 dates. You people are nuts. What happens is that they date for a couple of months, it doesn’t work out. They move on to different people. But do that over a couple of years - and the numbers go up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:39 PM
5

I was ignored as a virgin. Guys don’t want virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:37 PM
2

Lmao - I got commitment from guys I wanted. The only reason my n wasn’t higher is that I was snatched off the market fast
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:36 PM
5

Lmao. Yah no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:35 PM
8

And men have the same attitude - it’s called the broken bird or white knight syndrome. My bro has it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:35 PM
6

When I wasn’t wifed up, I was promiscuous. Not awful. I didn’t do ONS. Got my Prince Charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:26 PM
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Sure, whatever. Like all men, a hypocrite to the core: “I won’t date a girl who won’t put out by date three” but “I don’t want a promiscuous girl.” Even better “I married a girl that wouldn’t have sex until the wedding night and now I’m in a dead bedroom!” I’m so glad I didn’t worry about what “men” want and did as I felt comfortable when dating. Jump in bed right away? Sure. Wait a few dates. Sure. And I married my Prince Charming
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:24 PM
1

Dead on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:21 PM
6

You are insane: no one is talking about fat girls but you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:21 PM
4

Oh well. Women don’t labor under the misapprehension that men are often sluts and if they are easy for you, they are for everyone. You should also recognize that if a woman sleeps with you quickly she probably does other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:20 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:18 PM
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“ They mean super unattractive women while we are talking about 6s & up.” So you are mad that women are like you - will fuck the hot guys and leave the mid in the dust. So sad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:17 PM
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Nah. It’s simple for a lot of guys here: all women should want to fuck him immediately as a Chad, but not fuck anyone else. But girls that indulge in ONS or quick set are generally like that with all guys they are interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:16 PM
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Uh, it isn’t the chicks complaining. It’s the guys
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:13 PM
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Yes. Women want that - and that’s called having high standards. Fuck the hot ones. Leave the ugly ones for the street. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:12 PM
2

Wishing you healing from that train wreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:02 AM
2

“ Women never question themselves on the matters of their partners finding them attractive or not. Society tells them they are desirable since they hit puberty.” Hahahaha snork lolol omg are you KIDDING ME? Tell me you never see the wallflowers, mousy girls, or far girls. My god. I have to work hard to keep the self esteem up on my two daughters because they think they have weird noses or their skin is terrible. Women abuse their bodies suffer bulemmia etc because of all the pressure to maintain…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:24 PM
1

“ Or why would she not have a threesome with him when she did with another guy before? This discrepancy is the issue, not insecurity.” I hate this reasoning. My first husband pressured me into threesomes and a lot of sex I didn’t like. It was one of the final nails in the coffin. If my now husband said I didn’t love him because I won’t do threesomes there will be hell to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:11 PM
1

“ On the other hand, with women it's seen as perfectly acceptable to be with a man they barely care about because it's a good idea on paper.” Women don’t look fondly on gold diggers?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:07 PM
3

Sex is down among the younger generations
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:03 PM
4

“ There is zero benefit, or even a net loss in being a husband.” married men make more money married men live longer -married men are on average more happy -divorced men usually get remarried more quickly. If being a husband is a net negative, in what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:01 PM
8

100% agreed to the Red Pill Ripper.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:59 PM
8

But for it to be called a ball and chain, men had to have thought about it that way all ready
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:58 PM
2

“ . "Nah bruh, just be happy alone". Wonder how often women get this advice...oh wait.” all the fucking time. It is the go to advice after a woman has a line of terrible boyfriends. “ Didn't amber heard open her mouth and Johnny Depp lose nearly everything including his role I'm Fantastic Beasts all the while Amber kept her role in Aquaman all the while he had to go to a court in order to prove his innocence?” Before the US case there is this: https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-61673676.am…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:50 PM
2

“ Therapy for a man who is ugly, too short, having a small penis which have contributed to those things fucking up his chance at a love life is in fact completely useless.” You are really wrong about this. Stoicism could really help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:46 PM
1

That’s pretty awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:44 PM
1

White papers are bullshit. Give me studies. Black boys are treated terribly. https://insights.som.yale.edu/insights/black-boys-face-double-jeopardy-at-school#:~:text=Teachers%20tend%20to%20blame%20Black,to%20have%20more%20punitive%20cultures. However, boya also just show more conduct disorder than girls https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3082278/ On the other hand they also receive more punishment. https://www.seattletimes.com/education-lab/same-behavior-problems-hinder-boys-more-than-girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:40 PM
6

Yet so many men are denying it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:25 PM
3

“ distrustful of most things women are attracted to…” Just wow. That’s sad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:24 PM
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Oodles of guys say this - just look for one more of the “age gap shouldn’t be shamed” posts and look for a freaking litany of men saying that they want to date 20 year olds to avoid baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:23 PM
-1

You are a lot younger than I thought. You are wild
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:22 PM
1

Isn’t that what eharmoney or chemistry does?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:19 PM
4

You can’t find a girl who doesn’t like to swing dance? Shit. I’d slay on the current dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:21 PM
1

Yes. Men do. Oh you think only women are PC - lmao .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:18 PM
2

I’ve seen your posts - you clearly have little experience and no idea of what women “used” to be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:18 PM
1

What happened? And I’m sorry for whatever it was
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:15 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:12 PM
3

My hub and I met through Match. He looked at the first profiles that popped up at the time - I mean the newest ladies - and also their height requirements. He approached me within a few days because I set mine to… I think 5/5 or 5/6 and said my best feature was my ass. He said that fat girls would say their boobs or their eyes. Lmao. Sorry, like you care. I’m glad you’ve got a great girl. I think my hub was glad to get off the apps too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:12 PM
3

This is such a smart comment and smart view
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:05 PM
0

Yup. All the time. And he’ll whine that the best one got away and all that’s left are the rejects post 30. How do men KNOW that they have the best option? By dating around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:51 PM
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The stats show that Gen z - men and women - are having less sex than generations before. So no I don’t think women are out there riding the cock carousel more than in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:48 PM
3

Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:39 PM
3

That’s a you problem then
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:06 PM
1

If that’s what you think it means to be “grown up traits.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:06 PM
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It’s a guaranteed way to make yourself miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:02 PM
6

Sounds seriously immature. Here is the deal - very few people marry the first person they seriously dated because we don’t always know what makes a good partner - and that goes for men and women, too. My parents (in their 80s) didn’t. My grandparents (all born turn of the century) didn’t. In fact people who marry really young have less stable marriages. I married the first man I was with and early, at 22. It was a disaster. Afterwards, I dated a bit, met my now husband and we snatched each other…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:02 PM
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“ Men sacifice themselves for their family. Women sacifice their family for themselves". This is utter bs. Women give birth to the kids. That is a massive sacrifice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:10 AM
1

The five love languages are bullshit yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:08 AM
12

I feel you. I painted stupid little clay hearts for my husband and kids at one of those pottery places. Imagine my surprise when I found my husband kept the heart on his laptop. I was surprised how much he appreciated it. He’s such a stoic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:05 AM
3

Sorry man. Those - even coin collecting - are all my hobbies. It’s weird you couldn’t find a girl interested
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:01 AM
4

Because women are willing to have kids with the relationship partner
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:58 AM
2

Like - yes this is life. My first husband’s girlfriend was a HOT piece of trailer park trash. But he wanted to marry me because I had so much more to offer than just sex. My second (now) husband hung out with strippers. Lot hotter trashier etc. he put the ring on me. Because I am the good mother and life long companion. Men always sow their oats if they can. All through their early twenties. Most aren’t interested in serious commitment until 30 and then they date different. Now they’re just piss…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:53 AM
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You just put your finger on the imbalance. The truth is a woman bring willing to have kids with a guy is a huge investment in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:39 AM
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Your best chance is with an educated women. https://divorce-education.com/divorce-rate-by-education-level/ 25% divorce rate with a bachelors
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:38 AM
-1

You want to be the last. You get that? She married you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:34 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:33 AM
1

Hehehe, I know where this is going - as a woman boy do I know how much we hate our bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:21 AM
3

I actually agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:17 AM
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What a joke - thinking the world “manifests” for women. I worked my ass off for my life. No one “gave” it to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:31 PM
2

I wouldn’t date a giggalo. I don’t buy that women tell you you should date a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:09 PM
2

My abstinent father made me more likely to emphasize masculine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:08 PM
3

God yes. I am pretty intense as a woman so I work very very hard to tamp it down. And I hate crying - like HATE it like a man might be so trained. But man does my man swoop in the second there are tears.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:07 PM
0

Thanks for pointing this out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:06 PM
2

People have called me picky like I'm some peasant demanding a princess but I think I'm a good looking respectful guy who has a lot to offer so I don't feel entitled by wanting to meet someone who has a lot to offer as well. (Sounds smart and great to me. I 100% agree) I also can't shake the idea that there could be someone I'm better suited to just around the corner because frankly it's possible, and I want to commit to someone wholeheartedly without having an eye out for anyone better (Well, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:00 PM
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I didn’t. You just showed your biases. And you did it again - single women with three kids don’t deserve to be treated like gold. And if she has that standard it’s unreasonable. I had two kids that I had in an established marriage. So tomorrow if he dies - god forbid - I don’t deserve to be treated well by another man for daring to have kids with my husband? Jesus fucking Christ. I guess ugly short men don’t deserve anyone to treat them like gold right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:48 AM
2

Bless you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:52 PM
3

I mean it is true that men are more desperate for sex than women on average. And that will skew the market because men will value having sexual access higher than a woman will. I mean, my husband loves me - no question - if I turned off the sex without a good reason for a very extended period of time it would cause issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:49 PM
15

You guys always say, what is it? Oh yes “pick better.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:36 PM
7

It’s really sad that you think wanting someone to treat her life gold is an unreasonable standard
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:29 PM
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Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:28 PM
6

Nah. My husband and I are equally yoked
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:24 PM
7

It’s the men complaining, not women. And you think women didn’t used to compete - lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:23 PM
7

Accidents happen. Got pregnant in the pill. I know people who’ve gotten pregnant after a tubal ligation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:06 PM
7

Yes we do get to decide who gets to be inside our bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:05 PM
4

Nah my dad made me hold the light too as he worked on his cars. I’m a chick. It was one of the few bonding experiences we had.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:08 AM
1

I’m sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:05 AM
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“ t's possible even christian women would seek abortions if something collectively caused most women to no longer desire motherhood.” Christian women already seek abortions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:04 AM
2

Ha high five dude. I actually agree that we can mix and match. I dated a very dominant man. In a lot of ways we worked really well, but god we could not get married. My husband now is … not submissive but is laid back. We respect each other’s turfs. I don’t run him - he has a will of iron. He doesn’t run me, either. We are good at asking each other nicely if that makes sense. Works for us. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 08:09 PM
2

I wonder how on earth I got married - twice! And I was asked. I am not submissive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:49 PM
1

Not for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:16 PM
0

This is good
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:15 PM
4

They absolutely did work - they were just kept out of the good paying jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:13 PM
3

Lmao. I am feminist and I find both DeCaprio and the girls he dates gross. And I doubt any of those girls are virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:10 PM
2

Yah I find those girls gross
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:14 PM
1

Really? I don’t. I find DeCaprio squicky but I don’t care one iota about any of his girlfriends. They know the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:14 PM
1

Did he say he would cheat on her?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:11 PM
1

Me neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:11 PM
1

Smart take
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:09 PM
1

Smart take
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:09 PM
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Many women based their ideas and thoughts on their emotions. Many PEOPLE are emotional reasoners boyo. Men are not the logical gender. That’s why they are so expensive to insure, are involved in far higher risk taking, and do crimes. Oh and simp. Jesus, men here talk about dating low lifes and bad people for a shred of pussy. That is completely illogical and fully emotionally driven. It's why it's often excused behavior when women change their minds on their perogative. I recommend you read Thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:28 PM
1

“Generally a women's word doesn't mean much where as a man's word does.” And yet on the other hand you’ll complain that women keep dating users and pump and dumps, who lie about wanting something serious when they only want sex. You see men here admitting it. You can’t have it both ways. You can’t pretend that men “keep their word” and then bitch at women for believing them. Men lie just like women, to get what they want. And our daddy’s have told us that for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:23 PM
3

“ women have been ones viewed as more carnally inclined.” This was the view of women in the Middle Ages fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:13 PM
1

If that’s how you see women. Jesus I don’t even see men as that bad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:10 PM
0

I try to be a better person to be a better person, not for any man to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:08 PM
-1

It’s lower than that. If you are a bit older and marry a college girl
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:07 PM
1

Yes but it is what the stats say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:06 PM
-2

A medieval myth that never existed?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:05 PM
-1

Lmao. It never existed, give me a break
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:04 PM
3

“ Majority of guys would lock down one woman and marry her after dating briefly.” But they don’t. At least not in my experience. And I’m not talking chads either
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 09:03 PM
2

Sure women worked in the 1950s in dead end low paying jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:05 PM
0

“ Feminism IS religious indoctrination.” Only if you have no idea what any of those words mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:03 PM
3

God yes. GOD yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:03 PM
1

Sure I bet they told you all about it - a guy and a kid. My grandparents encouraged their daughters to get an education and a career in the 60s, not to just be pretty and get married. I wonder why. My mom sat me down as a kid and told me to get a career and never rely on a man. Why if it is so great to be a SAHM did women leave the kitchen?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:02 PM
2

He says, ignoring that men are also part of this scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:51 PM
5

“ the career women of the world substitute a husband for a boss to whom they are endlessly submissive to…” Hey you want to submit to your boss knock yourself out, but I sure don’t. And since I have marketable skills I can give two weeks notice and be gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:51 PM
3

And being locked in mental institutions by your husband for hysteria!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:49 PM
3

🎶🎶She goes running to the shelter of her mother’s little helper to get her through her day. I’ll take more stress for more freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:48 PM
4

This dude thinks working women don’t have kids - lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:46 PM
5

Women like that just ruin it for others
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:39 PM
1

It depends. I’ve known spouses so that would include women who are married to somebody who is gravely ill and or dying and or Parkinson and or mentally disabled and I’m not going to judge them if they see companionship, somewhere else so long as they are being a supportive and wonderful spouse. However, I also had a friend who was old enough to know better and kept cheating with the guy who she had been hung up on for years, even after he was married. I never covered for her, I told her it was n…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:37 PM
1

Damn girl slay
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:56 PM
1

Because it all comes down to their desire to have the option of multiple hot girls riding their dick AND they don’t care whether one iota over whether those girls are good people or toxic, emotionally in good working order or not. Those girls can be POS so long as they are riding his cock. So all this “wah women keep picking bad guys and are shallow, they sulks like me as a good guy.” Is nothing but grade A bull and hypocrisy. Those guys aren’t picking women based on whether those women are good…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:51 PM
1

Casey Anthony had tons of male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:29 PM
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“ Because instead of comparing them to men, and getting mad they don’t act or think like me…” But men are lOgIcAl. Remember, men, anger is an emotion, always.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:24 PM
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Because it isn’t true - and we see it by the angry men who post here every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:21 PM
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Ask yourself why women are concerned about appearing “good girls”. Could it be years of shaming by society and their husbands? The Madonna whore complex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:16 PM
1

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:14 PM
1

So you are a rapist? I mean some men are rapists so they all must be, right??? Or is it that maybe men are different - and so are women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:11 PM
0

This is wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:08 PM
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My ex-husband pressured me into all sorts of sex acts I didn’t like. I’d do them all in a heartbeat for my now husband. It isn’t that my my husband is more gorgeous than my ex (I mean he is, but that isn’t it), it’s because I love him and I trust him implicitly to care for my body and my heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:08 PM
1

Rolls eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:57 PM
1

Don’t - I and my husband make more than six figures each and have two kids. We are pretty happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:57 PM
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High end escorts make bank. I wish it was legal btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:53 PM
1

Sure. That is true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:53 PM
1

See I’d have dated a single mom with kids as a woman. I probably wouldn’t have dated a single dad. Maybe that’s some latent bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:07 PM
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“ Women are decimating you by getting dates, then asking if you got kids, then not responding and bailing on the date.” As versus lying and using you like men do with single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:06 PM
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That’s sweet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:09 PM
2

Citation: my ass
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:07 PM
0

I agree on not letting someone in my house again if my current marriage breaks down. I don’t think it will tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:06 PM
1

Wow. My husband is 5 years older. I admit to dating a guy 20 years older at one point. Fun and good in bed but not for the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:05 PM
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You are wild - I love that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:04 PM
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It’s called the mother tax boyo - if you look at the data, men and women earn comparably until the thirties - and then women have kids. Someone has to pick them up. Someone has to get them to school and after school and the doctors and help them with homework.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:02 PM
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Okay but don’t whine about birthrates
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:59 PM
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“ The average reddit feminist would rather serve drinks or burgers just so she can say she's iNdEPenDeNt rather than have kids from a millionaire 😆” Yes I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:59 PM
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And being a female PROSTITUTE is equally as sinful in those same religions. So sorry, that cuts both ways. I got news for you - I’m MOSTLY straight - and having some man put his dick in me or suck his cock is disgusting if I don’t want it. I bet you think you are logical too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:58 PM
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“ Throughout history many men have married into money.” Hell yes - all the English nobles that married American heiresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:55 PM
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God poor woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:53 PM
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“ Women being sex workers is easy life, I dont know why feminist dont admit it, sex workers earn x3, x5, x10 or more than the "aVeRage" salary in any country.” You are twelve - just f- admit it. And get the F off only fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:52 PM
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You may feel that way about yourself - and I’m sorry for it - but no that isn’t the truth. All you need to do it go outside and look at all the short men who are married and dating. My Tio, that old Cuban bastard, had a carousel of women on his arm -young old and all fairly good looking. He was like 5/6 My husband is 5/7. And no I didn’t “settle” for him. Let me spell it out to you - influencers make money by driving eyeballs to their site. One version peddles outrage. The more outrageous and an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:49 PM
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JFC, you guys are gullible. This is why I roll my eyes over men bragging about being more “logical” and less “emotional.” If I thought all men were like the AHs who post here, I’d never go near one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:37 PM
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Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:35 PM
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Yes. And men got very offended at times when I offered to go Dutch. My now husband and I decided to switch off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:32 PM
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“ A man also dont have the courts and society in his side.” You all keep saying this like it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:29 PM
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Nah, give me money. You all still expect women to be fools.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:28 PM
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Oh you think female prostitutes are ATTRACTED or want to fuck the Johns? No. So seriously, go have sex as a male prostitute. Fuck a bunch of men and maybe a few women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:27 PM
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It took me six months to love my now husband. A year before I knew I’d marry him if he asked. And I was nuts about him within the first hour that I met him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:24 PM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:17 PM
1

But women want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:31 PM
1

Right there with you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:22 PM
1

Yes we know that - guys lie about being “nice” all the time just to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 11:57 AM
2

He says women in their 40s will date him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 11:53 AM
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“ most of heavy lifting is already done.” Lmao. You don’t think teenagers require heavy lifting? Snork.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 11:36 AM
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No they don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:41 AM
2

“ solipsism” I swear to god so many of you have no idea what this world means
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:40 AM
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No, she didn’t get this from Chads. She got this from men who post here every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:03 AM
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I’m going as Lilith of Babylon for Halloween cause she is terrifying and dropping truth bombs all over the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 02:00 AM
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Rosie the Riveter built the f-king equipment that fueled the US’s war effort muchacho. How ignorant can you be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:40 AM
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Men like you get poisoned by their wives after a stronger man comes in and beats them senseless.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:28 AM
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Lmao. You sound like a pathetic little boy who’s never thrown a punch. You ain’t shit when you get old
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:27 AM
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I live just north of Covington and own land in Oxford. It isn’t that rural - give me a break. Guy makes it sound like Rabun county and banjo country. Poor everywhere are procreating and so right on that last paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:08 AM
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“ We can appreciate a 5 girl as much as a 9 and in a relationship will treat them the same” Haha as a mid girl BULLSHIT.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:16 PM
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Many men don’t marry the best lay they’ve had. Plenty of people who are great in bed make terrible partners. There is even a “male”‘saying for this - crazy in the head, crazy in bed. But no one wants to marry crazy and raise little crazlettes. Are YOU going to marry the best lay you’ve ever had even though she can’t hold a job, screams at you and throws things, and would be a terrible mom? If yes, you deserve what you get. I don’t know if I’m the best lay my husband ever had. He did date crazy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:07 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:51 PM
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Sure. He should
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:43 PM
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This is extremely common. I had a very wild sexual past because I was pushed into it by my abusive ex. The idea that I would have to do anal again (despite the pain) or threesomes irrespective of the damage it caused me…. My husband now has never made those demands. He never would.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:42 PM
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All of that. I’m the child of a woman with CP - it is very very verboten to discuss how tremendously damaging that was as a child. The concept of the glass child syndrome is very apt for me as well. And it’s hard when you are “normal” to ever speak out because people see you as a selfish viper
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:40 PM
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Sharp engineer is sharp. She’s said some things about neurodivergence that blew my mind and actually helped me BIG time in the real world. I am all in on Sharp’s comments
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:37 PM
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Bad and sad. After all, a great relationship isn’t just about who is the best in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:32 PM
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I agree with that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:30 PM
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“ All of the men I’ve dated have reacted quite poorly any time I displayed a negative emotion, even in appropriate and controlled ways, seemingly expecting me to always be upbeat and positive.” If I am pissed my husband is immediately pissed. If I cry, he gets pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:53 AM
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“ There were a few comments earlier in the thread making fun of how when some men are angry there's dents in the drywall. What no one can see is when some women are angry there are dents in their husbands and children's souls.” Anyone putting dents in drywall is AT THE same time leaving dents in people’s souls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:51 AM
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I married a Russian-Irishman. Fucker looks super young for his age and drinks. It’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:21 PM
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“I live in a gladiatorial arena,” screams Bob the book keeper as he closes that excel spreadsheet, gets in his pristine late model F150, drives home in rush hour traffic, and waddles to his lazy boy to veg with a bag of Doritos in sweatpants that can barely contain his beer belly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:15 PM
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Shorter answer - Redpill is revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:00 PM
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lol love how you changed your name
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:45 PM
2

Lmao no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:41 PM
2

In what planet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:40 PM
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A man who falls in love is more likely to leave than a man who’s just having extramarital sex. A woman having sex is potentially bringing back a baby which is a serious financial investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:38 PM
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They do all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:01 PM
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A lot of women won’t date fat women! The world is so unjust!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:59 PM
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I mean, thems the fucking breaks. There are a ton of men that won’t date me. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:56 PM
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“ Woman's physical appearance is her primary asset.” If men are going to be shallow, oh well. “ Having sex with a fat woman is equivalent to being in a relationship with an unhygienic, emotionally immature, creepy 45 year old minimum wage earning male.” Fat women are disgusting but fat men aren’t because I say so. LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:52 PM
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“ The same exact thing happening now happened during the collapse of Rome” Only someone incredibly ignorant of Roman history - whether you are talking about the collapse of the Republic or the Western Empire - would claim it was lack of intimacy and sex that caused the collapse. Roman society was good with sex slaves, legal prostitution, and had “monogamous” (in the sense of one wife-one husband) marriage for its existence. Christianity hardly changed this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:46 PM
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What bullshit. Otherwise “are we dating the same guy” wouldn’t exist. Women don’t want to be in harems. And when a wife or gf finds out the guy is seeing someone else, it is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:42 PM
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lol. Gotta stat to prove that 50% of the female population obsess (as in want to fuck) serial killers?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:39 PM
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But that’s literally what these guys complaining that serial killers get love letters are doing - whining, bitching, and claiming all WOMEN are bad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:37 PM
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Some men love fat girls. Ergo, you must love big fat girls and if you say you like fit girls or fit girls are more attractive, you are lying. Right? Because that’s your “reasoning.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:35 PM
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Yah she’s been on fire recently. No wonder you want to stick your head in the sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:33 PM
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The proof is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:33 PM
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I don’t know of any women attracted serial killers. I do know some women - usually trashy - who have dated criminals. The one I am thinking of tho knew him and dated him before jail. I know of two women who were married to people later jailed. I helped one of those get divorced because she didn’t want to be married to a criminal who went to jail for sexual assault. So this horse manure of painting ALL WOMEN as a monolith or hive mind when it’s just a small subset of ALL women out there. In fact,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:32 PM
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You are who the term “touch grass” was made for
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:54 PM
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Are you kidding me?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:52 PM
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I think you are correct but my brother was the victim of DV. It was corrosive. One day after a fight he just ran from the house. The guy is 6 feet and athletic. She was like 5/2 and 120. I’m the one he told before this and I’m the one who told him what he’d say is the genders were switched. Women can do far less damage physically - I 100% agree - but men still need escape plans too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:39 PM
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To get even. And they expect us to bridle at the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:26 PM
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Sure. I’ve known men to have go bags. Not a lot but some. They also should have money saved just in case
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:25 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:24 PM
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It’s a direct result of what some men say on this sub all the time - usually to diss older women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:22 PM
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Men, note, (1) this is what many of your kindred push all the time here - men only like 20 year old women, it’s just nature, women hit the wall, just got to accept men are this way it’s biology. If this post is misandrist, ask yourself what those guys are pushing. (2) also note all the women coming in to defend men. Add me to the group to say I have had great men in my life who aren’t like this. I married one. Bravo to OP for flipping the script and spelling out exactly where this type of thinki…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 01:20 PM
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Uh my sister is around my husband all the time. But then again, my sister is an ethical woman, and my husband is a trust worthy man. He used to hang out with friends in strip clubs and was utterly trustworthy. Really just a solid man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:49 AM
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Too logical - you are banned
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:17 AM
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Soft traits doesn’t mean a baby face - it means charisma. Soft skills. If you had girls interested tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:17 AM
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Lord, no they don’t wife the first one who comes along. Plenty of guys who post here have dated before and dumped them. Or decided not to marry them. As guys say here all the time - men gatekeep the relationship. All the guys I dated had relationships before me- some that they ended and some that others ended. My first husband dated several girls before me. I’m the one he decided to wife. He then dated several girls after me and finally wifed one and then divorced her. My now husband dated a few…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:14 AM
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Yes. That’s what it sounds like to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:09 AM
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I’m a chick with a solid six figure career married to the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:59 PM
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Most women worked in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:46 PM
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They never counsel or pressure men to devote their lives to raising kids and let the woman worry her head about finances
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:45 PM
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What always gets me is this - why aren’t men begging their twenty year old boys to settle down and have a gaggle of kids and rely on the wife to do the work. That’s always the give away. They are always preaching to women to give up the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:42 PM
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Snork. Here is why I won’t answer - you aren’t describing reality. Why would anyone living in the real world pick a fantasy? my sis is mid-fifties, devoted her life to her career because a husband never worked out, and is all over the world.m traveling. She never “rode the CC,” and isn’t pining for a man. She rarely dates. I can count on one hand the number of boyfriends she’s had. And she isn’t alone despite your fear mongering. She has me and my kids and several close friends and cousins. and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 09:40 PM
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If you were one of them would pick you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:57 PM
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“ Exactly, and ask yourself why this is so normalized and acceptable for women to be this entitled and delusional?” Imagine being so entitled and delusional that you think women are NPCs who should just hunger for your cock because you have a good job and send her flowers occasionally. Women are PEOPLE. We aren’t entitled just because we don’t fall in love with every man with right resume. And MEN are the same way. They don’t fall in love just because Jenny is a size six and makes good burritos.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:39 PM
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That doesn’t mean you are better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:33 PM
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Because they are only focusing on a subset of women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:33 PM
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You are upset about settling but you are mad that another girl won’t settle for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:32 PM
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Yes. Me. I was an ugly duckling girl. No boys ever wanted to date me. Imagine being told over and over that boys will sleep with anything but no one would give you the time of day. I did eventually find a relationship. It didn’t make it better, it didn’t end the depression, the insecurity, or the other issues that made me an undesirable relationship companion. It was after a lot of counseling and working on me that I became much better. I glowed up and it wasn’t only looks. It was everything. Le…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:27 PM
1

Oh you don’t see abortion as a need huh? I guess I’ll sign you up for nine months of liver, blood and marrow donation. You don’t need those either
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 08:06 PM
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I’ll add a caveat to this - imagine you are told over and over again, men will f-k everything…. But they won’t f you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:46 PM
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Oof the definition of being alone in a relationship. I can’t imagine not hugging my husband or kids
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:40 PM
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I am with you until this - “ frustrated and angry young men who have felt rejected by Society.” Why don’t we worry about women being angry and frustrated?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:39 PM
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Ostracizing people is a very effective social punishment for humans. As a woman ignored by men until she glowed up in her twenties (and still struggles somewhat with friendship relationships) I get it. I’m fine with legal sex work btw. But the danger with “need” is that this translates into requiring someone else to supply it and when it comes to sex… oof. We are very puritan in this country and all about righteous denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:37 PM
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We have vacuums on every level - courtesy of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:18 PM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:17 PM
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That is such a load of horse manure. Or your wife is disabled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:16 PM
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Not in my family. The men were always the cooks. My dad is good too. I wish my husband cooked more but that’s okay
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 04:11 PM
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Oh bull - that’s why guys here have starter girlfriends and starter wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:33 AM
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I do too. And people here are delusional that it’s so easy to lose weight. I did better making money than losing weight. So did my husband. Look at the stats regarding how often people fail st losing weight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:30 AM
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Love how that number keeps climbing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:28 AM
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A lot of us live in red state hell
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:19 AM
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Right? Mid women are kindly told by their friends to drop the desire for a 6-6-6
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:18 AM
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And the very extremely beautiful women won’t have issues either. Are you kidding me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:16 AM
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Lol - and then men here will complain your sister is settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:10 AM
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I know quite a few women who are single now in their fifties and above. Not going mad. Having a great time. Go on trips all over the world etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:07 AM
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Any woman who allows her pussy to lead her to write letters to psychos is mentally ill. She’s asking to die
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:04 AM
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Why did Casey Anthony get attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 12:00 AM
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“ Women like them BECAUSE they're a killer.” Prove that. Casey Anthony was a fucking child killer but man came after her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:58 PM
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“Moral grandstanding” please
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:57 PM
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“ Things like this undermine the validity of women's selectiveness in men as a whole.” Women’s selectiveness is not up for you approval
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:56 PM
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And you dated a pathetic cheater. I hope you’ve picked a better lady this time around
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:46 PM
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Show me where feminists said you only need to be a good man to be attractive because no one ever sold that. Nah it was mom telling me to pick the good man over the hot AH
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:42 PM
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Bull f shit. It was always Han Solo. Kyle Ren is a whiny manchild.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:38 PM
2

I don’t want people who commit violence at far higher levels than women to vote - obviously that makes those people irrational and poor decision makers. Sound good to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:38 PM
1

Oh please “crazy in the head is crazy in bed” is a male saying
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:36 PM
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You are talking about a small subset of women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:33 PM
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Because a lot less women are felons with life long sentences
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:32 PM
1

All I have to say is CASEY Anthony
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:08 PM
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Men do that too - spend money, write letters, and try to wife prisoners. I am telling you, because I’ve seen it IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 11:06 PM
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No they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:58 AM
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Men live longer and make more money when married. They also are faster to remarry
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:12 PM
2

Like really? I’m not picking on you but you had a girlfriend for a while and you both agreed it didn’t work out. So were you really in a rush to commit to just anyone? No judgment btw
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:11 PM
1

Boy you are in for a real surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:43 PM
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Only if you are hot and skinny. If you are hot and skinny, all that nonsense about being soothing and kind goes right out the door. That’s why high maintenance women exist. I tried the nice and sweet virginal girl routine. No one gave me the time of day. I ended up being used. I got hotter, sluttier, got a career, and I got mean. Well, not mean but a lot less willing to be sweet and giving. Man did many men look at me as a potential wife. And I ended up marrying a great guy. And men reject women…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:41 PM
2

I mean people love the cyber truck and I think it’s hideous. Different strokes, different folks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:16 PM
1

I largely agree with this. I think you have it nailed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:13 PM
3

Ultimate in video game mind
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:08 PM
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No. Because I don’t want to live in China. Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:07 PM
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Like what a great attitude. Serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:02 PM
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2. You can be heavy handed in some contexts, such as when alcohol is involved When men whine about why women take precautions, just remember this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:58 PM
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Omg I really did LOL. Thank you kind lady on this Friday morning
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:48 PM
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I mean, it’s a classic abusive cycle. But here is the thing - neither person in the cycle is living a happy life usually - not the abuser or the abused. It’s a lot of overwrought emotional and chaos.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:47 PM
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It does in men too, sweetheart - you ain’t immune. They also are usually pretty broken people who wise up. If they don’t they bring chaos to your life. It ain’t great to you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:46 PM
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“ Her sister was the same. Moved from bad bf to bad bf, before ultimately settling for boring hard working good guy who she has no excitement with.” You see how that undermines your entire point, right? The sister married and committed to the “good guy” for the long haul. The other relationships didn’t last. I married a guy who treated me like shit because I was really really broken. It was a terrible marriage that lasted six years. I left him (he didn’t want me to leave). Got better and am now …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:42 PM
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(Men and women have always needed a spine)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:59 PM
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And right to travel - see Texas
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:28 PM
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Because his housewife was working too and also dying early. Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:28 PM
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Because we don’t have it better than man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:24 PM
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Sometimes I love your comments and sometimes I think you are crazy making. This is both. Thumb up on stoicism, meditation, and learning to differentiate between wants and needs. That type of thought has really improved my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:03 PM
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“ rather than them just settling for a guy they have mid attraction whose likely doomed to a dead bedroom or divorce. ” The stats show that men in marriages are the ones having the most sex. So sounds like your engineer is doing better. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/psymon-says/202303/how-often-do-couples-really-have-sex?amp It does appear people are just generally having less sex all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:58 PM
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The shy boys aren’t the nice ones. One of the nicest guys I knew was an extrovert and a Chad. My husband’s best friend. He slayed with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:21 PM
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No. To the contrary there is a reason why predatory men target girls with daddy issues - they get into relationships but bad ones, not good. (Not all men are predatory)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:14 PM
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I don’t see women complaining about not being approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:51 PM
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That is sick
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:48 PM
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We have a Reddit thread that reappears regularly on this sub to discuss high n count (usually women). And men regularly trash women there for having sexual experience as not worthy of a relationship or marriage. Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:47 PM
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I am a woman. I masterbated early - prepubescence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:29 PM
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BC men will use women for sex and lie about wanting to be in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:26 PM
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Oh yeah and shaming the shit out of women for expressing their sexuality - ie high n counts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:21 PM
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Yes today. You see men here shaming the f-k out of women for having a high n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:18 PM
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Oh please. Women are far less likely to get around than men. Why don’t you read about sexual dysfunction in the bedroom where women have been shamed. And I know plenty of men who aren’t affected by culture around Me Too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:16 PM
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Lmao. “Those unhealthy neuroticisms that society presses on women is fine, but it’s bad when it’s done to men.” Purity culture teaches girls that sex, sexuality, and expressing their sexuality is bad. And women who are very sexual, who do express that sexuality, and who sleep with men are dirty sluts. You see it here consistently with men telling women that if they are high n-count they aren’t worthy of the a good man and are for the streets. It is exactly the same as calling men pigs for lustin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:14 PM
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And why should women date men if they are told that they see stupid or illogical for expressing emotions? You see it every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 01:08 PM
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Nah that’s JDVance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:36 PM
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The studies show that women are actually wired for analytical thinking more so than men. https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/how-mens-brains-are-wired-differently-than-women/ We exceed men on average for reading comprehension and writing (men are better at spacial recognition) https://stanmed.stanford.edu/how-mens-and-womens-brains-are-different/ As to who is better for emotional regulation - it may be men but the studies very ambiguous. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC593725…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:38 PM
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I don’t know. It’s hard to say. Newton I believe was. The point is that they didn’t reproduce. I mean - look at Alexander the Great. He had a kid very very late relatively speaking. All I am saying is that humans give back to society in other ways that just kids. And it’s always been like this. Hildegard is a female example - an abbess. Many monks - Gregor Mendel. Maybe they would have been successful if they had sought to marry - I don’t know. But they benefited society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:07 PM
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You guys need to see what happens to low status men when society collapses
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:01 PM
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Humans are social creatures
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:59 PM
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Too great for women - lol. Nah he just didn’t swing that way. Which is fine! Ghengis Khan put together the largest land empire known to man and the father to huge chunks of the Asian population
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:59 PM
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Once upon a time a tiny mouth, blonde hair, and super pale skin was considered attractive. That was entirely societally driven.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:56 PM
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Yes it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:56 PM
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They aren’t. These guys are telling on themselves. They never paid one iota of attention to girls or girls interesting going up. The single most successful man I knew with women was an old short (like 5/6) Cuban electrician. He SLAYED because he’d go wash the dishes with the women. He’d take them out to dinner and wait on them when he came back, take them on motorcycle rides. He had my man hating sister eating out of his hand. He’s being toys into the bedroom and rescue you at 2 am if you needed…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:52 PM
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Lmao. The only reason you could possibly think this is if you IGNORED teens and women growing up, spent all your times playing video games, and never actually spoke to women. If you ever paid ATTENTION to the women around you and what they liked, you’d know. Just like I knew from a very young age what men like.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:45 PM
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Because personality DOES matter. The fact you think it doesn’t probably explains your dating problems
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:43 PM
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Agreed. And there have been many many people - men and women - who have made amazing advancements to humankind without kids. Tesla and Newton come to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:37 PM
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I think a huge barrier between male-female relations is sex and the respective value that men and women place on it. I am a very HLW. I told my now husband when we were dating that I wanted to sex regularly. I ve gotten lady boners - ie instant sexual attention to a few men in my life. But I know that it really is still lower than what many teen boys go through. Honestly it sounds like a nightmare to have your dick pop up without your control. On the other hand, do you want to know how exposed y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:46 PM
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Lol, so we are abandoning the 20% and now down to 8%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:31 PM
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Because men are hornier on average
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:29 PM
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Snork. Have you been a tall woman? One of my friends is 5/10 and struggled dating. Struggled. I’ve known plenty of 5/8 men who have had no problems getting married several times or doing well with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:27 PM
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Thank you! Look at lesbian women- they are notorious for jumping into relationships super quickly and moving in together. For women to get into an actual relationship with a man, it takes far longer - usually because the man doesn’t want to commit. Men here tell on themselves because they constantly confuse relationship with sex. I could go out - as a middle aged married woman - and find a random dude to have sex with me. But a relationship? No. This is the lament of every husband in an open rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:23 PM
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We don’t have it easier for dating or relationships. We have it easier for SEX. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:18 PM
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Lmao. Why does legal equality require women to become the same as men or vice versa?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:16 PM
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It’s actually bad advice - because as men point out here, men will screw women even if they aren’t that interested in them. So it’s a recipe for a woman being strung on until the guy meets someone he really likes. I’ve seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:15 PM
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100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:59 PM
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It also doesn’t test EQ or other interpersonal skill sets which are essential for success. My husband is off the charts IQ wise but it was also his work on soft skills and politics which helped him finally break through the barriers holding him back at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:58 PM
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Ah referring to average intelligence people as hamsters or pets isn’t “bragging” but a point of reference? And you want to say I make clown comments? And then attack me for hypocrisy when I point out that your attitude toward those with lower IQ is exactly the problem - do you know the definition of hypocrisy? Your post reeks of hubris and distain for those less intelligent than you - and you are completely blind to it. Instead, you elect to attack me on irrelevant comments like having an IQ of …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:56 PM
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I love ice skating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:31 PM
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I am sorry you’ve been having such a rough year - sending loving kindness
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:30 PM
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Then don’t whine when you pick shitty women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:23 PM
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lol. “I don’t care about you personally at all.” And you wonder why you keep picking lemons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:22 PM
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Yah, I am NOT submissive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:49 PM
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Oooo do you like women? I am a cheap date and interested in almost anything, so said one of my best friend’s moms. I’ll ride bikes with you in the park, I’ll play WOW with you, I’ve gone to short track racing, and I’ll go to a monster truck rally. I also will go to museums, symphonies, and art shows. I’m really just interested in almost everything. I love to travel. I can dress it up for a cocktail party and charm your boss. I can hang in a biker bar. I’ve done all these things. Now you can’t tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:45 PM
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This attitude is why highly intelligent people struggle with dating. Imagine referring to those with lower IQ like this. Anyone who brags about Mensa is pathetic. It’s like bragging about being in a club of those six feet tall. What have you actually accomplished? (And yes dear, I scored just as high as you).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:55 PM
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I work full time. So does my husband. Your attitude would not fly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 07:03 PM
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I’ve had that experience too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 06:59 PM
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I’m very glad you’ve found someone like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 06:55 PM
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I’m well in the gifted range. I married a man also in the gifted range. That’s the answer. One of my friends - oldest and closest - is a smidge above 100. She is far far more intelligent when it comes to dealing with people than I am. I mean it. I stood up as her MOH and praised her intelligence and her forthrightness straight in the face of her awful (and very high IQ) brother and father. She’s built a joyful successful life with a great husband. People with with high intellectual capabilities …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 06:51 PM
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Only a subset of women are willing to just do a hook up no matter what? It’s supply and demand
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 10:25 PM
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No. Heck my husband has gone out to strip clubs without me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:05 PM
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Lmao “my irrationality is normal because someone cheated somewhere” but their irrationality is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:56 PM
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Woman here. You’ve never given birth have you? The substantial negative impact having a child had on my autonomy, career, and long term financial viability meant that I wasn’t willing to go through the tremendous effort of having one except for the most extraordinary of men. I was exhausted, I was ill, we spent thousands of dollars seeing doctors. There is a reason the fertility rate is low. The entire process of cooking a baby is a labor of love that ONLY the wife/mother carries. If after doing…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:54 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:46 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:44 PM
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I wanted to upvote this a million times. My brother had his first and only at 48. Kid is like 8 now when my brother - a skinny runner his whole life - had a heart attack at 56. My bro survived and recovered very well. He’s running again too. But recently he’s been having brachycardia and he passed out in front of his kid and wife. She’s a doctor btw. They thought he’d had a widowmaker right in front of them. It scared the living hell out of everyone, me included. I love my brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:55 PM
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You should look into dead internet theory. There are a lot of chatbots out there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:48 PM
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Your aunt is amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:44 PM
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When I was a teen and young adult, men avoided virgins because they’d fall to hard too fast. Women did get shamed for being virgins. They were seen as naive, childish, and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:42 PM
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Lmao. Being a whore or a slut isn’t shameful. Most men high-five each other over it. Being a virgin for a man is shameful, at least according to men. You should go complain to men about that. Homewreckers are something else. Male or female they are trash. But I’ve known some very low n count home wreckers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:40 PM
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To my recollection, I’ve not heard any of my female friends IRL insult men for being virgins. Instead the insult was small dicked. I know that women do levy virgin as an insult but men more so. As to not wanting a virgin. As a young person and virgin at the time (teens early 20s). I was fine with virgins. When I divorced and dated, I didn’t actually ask. I was dating guys in late 20s early 30s, so if they were virgins, I’d want to know why. That was more important than the virginity. I think to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 07:36 PM
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I agree with a lot of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:21 PM
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It says a lot that your answer is to subjugate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:13 PM
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Read game theory. Tit for tat is one of the most effective methods
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:02 PM
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Which is pure unadulterated bull. (Which I know you know)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:58 PM
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Right I already own several
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:32 AM
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My hometown is Charlottesville. My family was there when the white nationalists and fascists came. My sister knew Heather Heyer. Plenty of Antifa and students went toe to toe with the white nationals. And close friends of mine hid out at the synagogue. But Examples: https://youtu.be/nUv7hIVXKFQ?si=tOPd5__ngt84zmxP https://youtu.be/HFHOHfnYruI?si=DK6CCEwig2aMaTDf https://youtu.be/q6i-Rsjd8YU?si=oShIQ4GSqdvWiWnu Students held their own despite being outnumbered. https://youtu.be/DkY7KlQ5CHI?si=dDX…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:27 AM
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We don’t need to choose. Plenty of liberal guys are also physically strong as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:53 PM
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Just because your “partner” has some weird ass Nazi kinks doesn’t mean all women do. And plenty of hotshot men love a dominetrix - kinks are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:52 PM
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I am a feminist. I have no interest in bigamy. WTF are you talking about? Another person that needs to touch grass. Lawd
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:51 PM
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You should talk to people who have spent their lives in heavy manual labor or to peak athletes at forty. Anyway to each their own. That is the beauty of the US. Good luck (srsly)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:29 PM
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Anyone who knows about hominid development knows that our effective hunting technique is long distance running.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:03 PM
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I mean it’s pure emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:01 PM
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Have you seen a Trump rally? Snork.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:00 PM
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And Nazi Spencer getting punched out. You were saying? https://youtu.be/aFh08JEKDYk?si=8k4NEExtbwd1fkFO
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:58 PM
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I had to log in to laugh at this. Your first two sources are a Twitter feed and the CLAREMONT institute…. No wonder you think some TikTok engagement farmer somehow represents “all women.” You need a class on vetting sources. Sweet Jesus. First, my brother and father are both liberal. My dad - over 80 - was LGBTQ tolerant in the late 80s and early 90s before it was cool. They are both prochoice and positive toward social safety nets. They are both fit as hell, run (well dad doesn’t anymore), camp…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:54 PM
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