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Because they aren’t pursing their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:12 PM
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No it’s unethical
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 09:01 PM
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You wanna talk about bias against women in divorce? Watch what happens in the woman moves out and leaves her kids with the father. She will be fucking crucified. But a man moving out, leaving kids with mom. Sure whatever. I’ve seen this happen personally. The way the judge and the family berated that woman. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:58 PM
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Anything and everything. A woman flashing ankles 200 years ago was SSSSOOOOoo risqué, the whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 08:46 PM
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Thank you windmill. You are awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:53 PM
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110%
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:51 PM
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Isn’t this amazing??? I give high fives to windmill for posting this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:50 PM
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This was incredibly revealing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:48 PM
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Not horrible. Just a poor choice to date
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:47 PM
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This right here is AWESOME. The idiot women’s cry “but I can fiiiixxxxx him.” And you all mock her and say “choose better.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:46 PM
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Not really. It’s illuminating, considering how loudly you all will yell at the divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:45 PM

Great! This is a fabulous attitude!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:32 PM

I agree with this. I went 50/50 and made sure to split with my husband when we first stared dating. I then bought him a 100 bottle of scotch. He spoils me now
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:23 PM

I 100% agree with this as a woman. And I always split the bill
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:20 PM
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Ghibli rocks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:19 PM
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Well since I do…. I guess I’m unique and special. You didn’t love that girlfriend - that’s why she’s an ex - you just loved what she did for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:16 PM
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Maybe your family was immature and couldn't get gold in single attempt. Don't project it on others ffs. (Not just my family. I said I can only think of two in my wide acquaintance who married their high school sweethearts or their first serious boyfriends. One marriage is on the rocks (he cheated). Two are divorced (one was me!). One still happy. Oh wait, five - Shannon from high school. She’s also divorced. You didn’t prove at all that people just married the first person they dated. And - not …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:15 PM
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“The same woman who lusts after you, cooks for you, washes your car is the one who also wanna marry you. The one who is asking for dates and all that, is just using you…” But I do that for mt husband and he takes me on dates. Maybe you can have both???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:01 AM
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“Those people usually married the first girl or guy they dated.” Oh sweet summer child no they didn’t. My mom was engaged to someone else before my dad met her. My dad dated several girls long before my mom. My grandad and grandmom were married to other people when they met. God I can only think of a few people who married their first serious boyfriend/girlfurnd and it was a disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:00 AM
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That first five - ten minutes was fucking brilliant
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:55 AM
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The guys here who claim somehow they were lied to and thought women didn’t care about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:53 AM
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Agree with all of this. I don’t like rom coms myself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:49 AM
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If you note, no one is advocating that women threaten to leave. That’s bullshit too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:44 AM
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He’s proving Lilith right. It’s hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:42 AM
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If you force someone to an ultimatum before you heed their concerns, don’t be surprised when she says fuck it and walk out the door. And you will like so many other men, whine “why didn’t she tell me it was important.” God did you set this up to prove Lilith right? Because you are proving Lilith completely right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:40 AM
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“A microscopic percentage of men get a thousand women a day despite openly…” Sure. How you can say shit like this with a straight face
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:34 AM
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I shave my husband’s back - lol. But no I don’t think he’s ever trimmed armpit hair. He has otherwise manscaped for me tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:45 AM
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Me neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:44 AM
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Maybe they don’t actually expect men to do all the work. Or the decent ones don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:42 AM
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So? Those husbands should divorce those women. They are awful people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:39 AM
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“ Nagging is ineffective communication. If you complain about the same thing multiple times without taking any action you are communicating that you can tolerate the thing you are complaining about.” THIS IS IT! This right here! You don’t CARE that she’s expressing a concern, even tho you understand it’s a concern, until she actually takes action. Let me tell you what happens - she gets pissed and walks from the relationship. And she’s OUT - it’s called the walk away wife - and it doesn’t matter…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:36 AM
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He can leave too - this applies to him - a tolerable level of unhappiness
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:32 AM

And who keeps trying to get rid of no fault divorce, so people are trapped together no matter how miserable they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:31 AM

Girl same. I spent years trying to get my first husband into counseling for HIM. He was severely depressed and had been for years. He also refused to do anything around the house - not pick up, not clean, and expected me to bring home all the money. He also said that I should be responsible for all childcare when we discussed kids. Because his mom did. I walked out and THEN he went to counseling. He promised to do better. Nope. It’s called a tolerable level of unhappiness. It’s on TikTok and is …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:30 AM
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So? But fat people can’t demand skinny ones. And maybe - just maybe - they value other things than her waist line.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:43 PM
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Bzzzzzpppp sorry, Judgey, but you’re not nearly as smart as you think you are. I’m married, middle aged, with two children - both his - and a lawyer. We make bank. 💅 I have the American dream. But I also grew past middle school and am not so empty that I need to seethe and shame other women or men. If that girl is as bad as you say, then your little cousin has no self esteem. No doubt because you are just like the rest of your family and have been tearing him and everyone else down for years. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 10:41 PM
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So 1 is status seeking. Is that a problem for women doing the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:46 PM
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I never measured a man’s biceps
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:45 PM
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Why? Like I don’t rage at short or fat men having standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:43 PM
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People are always nicer to people they know or meet. They see them in their entirety. It’s one of the problems with the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:01 PM
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Serious - gallows humor from med providers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:59 PM
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Not when I was there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:58 PM
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I wish I spoke six languages. I’ve been working on my Spanish. One of my girls speaks Japanese tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:57 PM
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My single friends and sis are like this - late thirties to fifties
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:52 PM
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God that is terrible. I feel for that dude
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:51 PM
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Men don’t want to marry in their early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:44 PM
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“ For women there is only one goal due to women peaking in sexual/romantic market value earlier in life.” Sorry, I get to set my own goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:42 PM
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Dude I’m white. In my socioeconomic group, brains are highly highly valued. Pretty waspy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:40 PM
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Wow. Glad I’m not related to you. I texted a friend this weekend saying I was drunk and angry. She immediately offered to come get me, even though it was late at night. I don’t expect her to fuck me or Vice Versa. And I’d do the same for her. Like people help people and people help family. I helped my neighbor get a snake out of her garage. She didn’t fuck me either. I was robbed. It should be mutual- cuz should help you out too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:39 PM
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God I see you. I have had similar experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:32 PM
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It’s just so interesting how the only person you are interested in shaming is the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:27 PM
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Facts not in evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:26 PM
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Here is what you guys are missing in your hatred of fat women: Men are JUST as fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:25 PM
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Like why are you bitter toward women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:13 PM
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But watch men bitch about a celebrity woman daring to get old or gain weight or lose too much weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:13 PM
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Move those goal posts. So you admit that men do hold rigid standards about women. Look at the studies of how often people fail to lose weight - male or female- and tell me how actionable it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:12 PM
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Snork. Men constantly tell women what a real woman is. That said, women do it too and it’s bullshit no matter who does it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:09 PM
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Agree 100% but don’t put the blame on proggies. That type of policing comes from society at large - men and women of all shades do the policing. I think it’s be good if men also were allowed out of their gender roles too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:08 PM
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I donno, since I’ve never been broke. But I do know that my husband was really concerned about marrying anyone who would sit on the couch eating bon bons. I think he had really bad memories from his parents’ divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:03 PM
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I was going to give you shit over that first paragraph but the last part is right for me. No way could I love my husband if I didn’t also respect him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:59 PM
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And people are describing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:41 AM
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Oh yes - hot chips babe!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:40 AM
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The point is muchacho, that most became celebrities while bald. Bruce Willis was a bald tv actor in moonlighting and then became a celebrity. So was Stewart and Statham. Fame came AFTER baldness.. They were bald as poor mutherfukkers. Statham, while bald, became a swimsuit model. Being bald didn’t stop them from becoming sex objects. I’d argue that being fat would have stopped them, but not being bald. And of your friends over there get cut like Statham, it’s not going to hold them back. I do ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 02:39 AM
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And men want women who are pretty looking than them. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:47 AM
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So prove them right huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:47 AM
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Well that censorship is pushed by republicans and Trump
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:43 AM
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It isn’t women trying to outlaw porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:42 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:39 AM
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So? Sounds like men need to stop being so thirsty
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:38 AM
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You know, women aren’t shitty like that to men with kids. Why is it your job to berate some single mother? Jesus her life is already hard enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:37 AM
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“ so easy for women that they don't even put any effort, so difficult for men that sometimes it seems impossible no matter how hard you try.” No. It’s easy to get sex as a woman, not a relationship. This is so tiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:36 AM
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Really? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:31 AM
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Here? None at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:31 AM
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But why are you criticizing fat girls. Why do you care? I don’t waste my time bitching about fat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:29 AM
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So that’s a shitty person. Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:22 AM
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Sure. Let me know when you start shaming Chad instead of wishing you could be him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:19 AM
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Less psycho than the guy telling some random commentator on the web that she’s gaslighting herself with zero evidence. The lack of self awareness you display is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:12 AM
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Honestly you sound miserable. Must be why you are so desperate to insist you are happy and accuse others of lyin.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:11 AM
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“ 3- deep down nobody is happy being single….” Well that’s rather convenient isn’t it. Allows you to just ignore what everyone says. But the stats show that women are slower to remarry so maybe they are fine alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:10 AM
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“ Literally the only thing she has to do to be attractive is “just don’t be fat”. That’s it. Just eat less and work out more, can’t be simpler.” This isn’t true, just so you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:06 AM
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Oh so shitting on old cat ladies, fine, but never men. Ps dying single isn’t the same as dying lonely - she didn’t say there weren’t more single ladies, but that they are happy and aren’t miserable, despite what you claim. Damn she hit a nerve.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:03 AM
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My sis is mid 50s - never married, no kids. She was able to really build up wealth faster than me because I elected to have children with my husband. She goes on trips. She pays taxes. She’s healthy. Spent Thanksgiving in Costa Rica with some female friend. And she’s got me and my kids as family.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:02 AM
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Damn nailed it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:00 AM
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“ One end of the spectrum is a great grand(father) sitting surrounded by (his) 17 direct descendants at a family gathering. The other end is a single old cat (man) complaining and siphoning taxpayer funds to continue being able to afford to exist.” So why is it that men don’t get punished for having kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:59 PM
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College educated voters voted Harris
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:56 PM
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I cited hard data of what happens when we get rid of illegals - and your answer is that I’m emotional. But you rely on trash like Tom cotton’s personal opinion. And you have the nerve to claim I haven’t researched.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:56 PM
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Get ready for those numbers to go up and Trump locks them all up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:52 PM
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lol “Breitbart.” Tom Cotton is a politician. What makes you think a politician is telling the truth about a state that isn’t even his?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:51 PM
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Further infrastructure (primarily male) construction Continued gradual insourcing through CHIps act rather than aggressive tariffs Small business support Continued roll out of broadband to rural areas Continued support for labor unions Expanded veterans benefits Allowing young men to stay on their parents health insurance All of these are now at risk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:47 PM
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“ Excellent, in addition workers will also have 100% health insurance coverage, paid maternity/paternity leave, and several weeks of PTO.” Lmao. No one in America has that. Why would they? Unless they’re union. And Trump intends on neutering the unions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:33 PM
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“ Kamala was telling me I'd never see a vagina again if I didn't vote for her. Childish.” No, you were listening to what people told you she was saying. What she actually was saying was small business loans, improving housing costs, continuing with insourcing via chip acts, but I’m sure indiscriminate tariffs will help. How many small farms collapsed last time? How much did we have to bail them out? Did they get their soy bean market back? Did that farmer suicide drop?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:30 PM
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And they fucked him over for it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:22 PM
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Serious. As a woman, I also didn’t get great experiences until I got some self respect, acted as if I was the prize, and also worked on body, skin, and dress. Like it really isn’t that different. RP advice works for women too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:09 PM
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Those young men are competing for money and good jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:00 PM
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THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:59 PM
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Still showing up or NOT showing up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:59 PM
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No. Most states don’t have lifetime alimony. Florida was an outlier, like New Jersey and West Virginia. California prohibits lifetime alimony. https://divorce.com/blog/what-states-do-not-enforce-alimony/#:~:text=State%20laws%20for%20permanent%20alimony,states%20that%20allow%20permanent%20alimony. However it can end up being lifetime if the ex happens to die while it expires. Nice little explainer: https://farzadlaw.com/california-spousal-support/how-long-you-pay-alimony-after-divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:58 PM
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And what about all the white men who’ve been shits? Why is it that one trans man acting like a dick proves that DEI bad but a white man acting like a shit doesn’t make you say, fuck no more white guys DEI good? Because you understand that one bad white guy doesn’t mean all while guys are bad. But you seem to think that one trans being a dick - and being fired - means all trans are dicks and should be fired
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:51 PM
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Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:47 PM
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“ American MEN are top 1% earners compared to the rest of the world, live in one of the safest countries on earth, with great infrastructure, nature, and endless opportunities, and you feel bad for them? Time to wake up, seriously.” So why is it you are bitching huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:45 PM
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Why shouldn’t men face repercussions for being sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:43 PM
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So, you haven’t researched and just hate illegals. Here is some EVIDENCE: Most US agriculture is mechanized. What happened when Georgia and Alabama aggressively cracked down on illegals: https://www.forbes.com/sites/realspin/2012/05/17/the-law-of-unintended-consequences-georgias-immigration-law-backfires/ And it isn’t just for agriculture: https://www.npr.org/2024/04/26/1242236604/florida-economy-immigration-businesses-workers-undocumented https://www.wsj.com/us-news/dalton-georgia-trump-jobs-de…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:38 PM
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Most women do have to work. Like what? And sure, my entire family and my social circle are “outliers.” /s. Or you just are basic yourself and that’s what you hang with. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:39 PM
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You know, you don’t need to get shitfaced. Ever watched a wine testing competition?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:36 PM
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How cool is that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:35 PM
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You literally protected negative traits on BP in your post? If you give out hate why are you surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:31 PM
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He also claims most women are shallow and only want to brunch and chat. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:29 PM
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Counterpoint: the Rock, Statham, Bruce Willis, Patrick Stewart, Montel Williams (damn my teen dream right there). I’d want to see a stat that young women consider baldness a negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:28 PM
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Actually yes. 14/15 boys and girls need physical exercise. That’s what I mean when I say recess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:21 PM
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I agree with focused effort for boys, but I didn’t get special policies in public school to get into college.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:20 PM
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You already have that right. You have the same right as a women with abortion rights boyo. You get to do anything to your body you want to stop a pregnancy. But once you put sperm into some else’s body, sorry, you don’t have any rights to control their body. I mean, do you want ME to control your body? Do you want your sex partner to be able to say, “nope, I get to force you to get snipped?” You’re just pissed that once you GIVE your sperm to someone else, you don’t get to choose what to do with…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:18 PM
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“ listen to a lecture about why white men are bad, which much of the humanities have become, then I agree.” But this doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:10 PM
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No, but you sure are.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:09 PM
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No. All of my female friends have deep interests and not from men. And no, not just “chatting” and brunch. What bullshit. Don’t believe me? Who volunteers more? Women. https://americorps.gov/about/our-impact/volunteering-civic-life/demographics
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:07 PM
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I was a tomboy too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:27 PM
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Grant men equal rights to control their reproductive cycle by giving them equal access to “paper abortions” in places where medical abortions are viewed as a right. Paper abortions are not the same as medical abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:23 PM
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Joint custody is the default in most states I do agree with focusing on men’s health too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:22 PM
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I think that would be great for both sexes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:20 PM
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Men don’t want to find wives, that’s the thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:18 PM
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Funny how all your suggestions are about freeing men of any responsibility - they get to shove even more of the costs of children on to mothers. And people wonder why the SK birth rate is under 1. If that’s what you want, okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:18 PM
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Wanna know how many kids I would have had without child support in the background? ZERO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:14 PM
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“We don't need more children, we need stable families, such families generate more children by default while also not having a massive negative impact on society.” Facts not in evidence. Lots of marriages have zero, one, or two kids. “ Maybe women should only reproduce with men she know is a good parent, It would be a plus to everyone involved.” Maybe men should only reproduce with women they are willing to commit to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:12 PM
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Not at highschool level.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:10 PM
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Here here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:10 PM
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They are still around but not like they used to be. They need to be expanded
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:09 PM
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This is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:07 PM
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Isn’t that how chemistry and eharmony works?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:04 PM
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Seems you also weren’t interested in anything serious since you engage in casual sex too. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:00 PM
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Put that in your bio then. The end
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:59 PM
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YOU care. YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:59 PM
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No system is full proof
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:58 PM
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He also espouses forcing Christian values - not because Jesus was awesome but so he can get his dick wet with hot girls
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:57 PM
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We get it - you hate fatties.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:56 PM
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It used to be like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:55 PM
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You are like the first guy I’ve seen who’s said that. I will point out that I would have missed my husband had I done that myself. Although he now has a DSc after completing his BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:54 PM
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“ The independent voters decide elections. These are thinking voters. ” The studies show the reverse actually. The most politically astute and educated went for Harris in a landslide. I’ve been amused by those in shock over Trump’s threatened tariffs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:40 PM
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Let’s see how hungry people get when no one is in the fields picking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:39 PM
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Are there laws that slut shame or fat shame men? And no one has arrested you for hating on women. Sounds equal to me .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:38 PM
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So you got nothing- just your raging feelings that you deserve hot women when you aren’t hot yourself. And I bet you tell your buddies how women are all emotional and men all logical. Yet here you are, arms crossed, raging because your feeeellllinngggs tell you life is sooo unfair because you don’t have hot women riding your cock. You really are proving the worst about Trump voters and young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:33 PM
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He’s sad. He wants to be gigachad and score hot women when he himself isn’t hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:30 PM
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States with equal custody law: https://www.custodyxchange.com/topics/research/dads-custody-time-by-state.php More BLUE states give equal custody than red. So sounds like Dems have done quite a bit, you just failed to research and don’t know it. Permanent alimony, which Florida just got rid of: https://divorce.com/blog/what-states-do-not-enforce-alimony/ Most states have outlawed permanent alimony. In fact, Florida was an outlier - one of just a few states (a mix of red and blue) that still allow…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:28 PM
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Nope https://www.cepr.net/bidens-record-on-income-growth/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:18 PM
5

We fucking made BANK during the Biden years, husband and I. We made - I shit you not - 500k more than we spent this last year. We’ve always been pretty tight with money. My girls’ education is paid for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:15 PM
4

Dems do offer more in concrete matters. Seems to me that men want to be praised rather an actual support
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:14 PM
1

Nah they won’t. Trump deliberately disavowed 2025. And he doesn’t push Christianity at all. Cruz and DeSantis do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:12 PM
4

You should visit the Trevor project. See what happens when Christian “values” are promoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:08 PM
2

Liberals don’t promote that behavior. And more liberal/democratic states have lower divorce rates and fewer out of wedlock kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:07 PM
7

So Christianity is just a front to get your dick wet. I LOVE this. All you care about is access to pussy. Feeding the poor, taking care of the lessor, treating others with basic humanity and worth - the amazing and wonderful part of Christianity and Jesus’s main message - you don’t care about. It’s all about getting some woman legally tied to some man so she’s forced to fuck him and have his kids. Are you advocating for better marriages? What about mandatory premarital counseling? No? Are you ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:05 PM
1

No it wouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:00 PM
5

“Give me my bang maid.” You’ll ensure that no one wants to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:00 PM
4

“ Do as I say, not as I do.” the definition of hypocrisy. And you think this is a good thing. “Jeffery Epstein didn’t kill himself so I would be careful pointing the finger at just one party.” Do you understand which administration was in office when Epstein died? Trump’s administration. Barr - TRUMP’S attorney General - removed the director of the BOP (again federal) because of it. This just demonstrates how utterly emotional and illogical you are. You are blaming democrats for actions under GO…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:58 PM
2

“ I see men upset with SBMM when it comes to sex and relationships yet, most young men are single and barely getting laid.” Ah more of those Christian values, right? Right? It’s all about fucking women. “ The MAJORITY of men will benefit. That’s what I’m focused on. The data speaks for itself. Most men are not winners and will continue to lose in the current landscape.” Not under Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:52 PM
5

So what you consider “winning” is to fuck tons of women? Ie do what Chad does? So much for those Christian values.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:50 PM
5

Right? Love this version of RP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:48 PM
9

I’d rather be single than be in a shitty marriage and I make bank. Why the fuck should I be forced to marry someone? You want more miserable marriages for men and women? Or you just want to be sure that people never goddamned marry And fuck Christianity. I was raised in the church but FUCK Christianity. I am done with it and all religions. It doesn’t belong in the public sector. It is ABSOLUTELY misogynistic and preaches that men are first class citizens and women second. No fucking way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:43 PM
7

See I as a woman could get behind most or all of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:33 PM
7

Because he correctly knows that the draft won’t be instituted again. I support banning the draft or including women in selective service, but 70% of the time it’s dragged up by men, it’s merely used as a cudgel to force women into giving up bodily autonomy or stripping them of the right to vote, not to actually change anything to benefit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:31 PM
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“ etc), remove any social safety net for single mothers, enforce additional income tax for women who choose to be childless etc enforce additional income tax for women who choose to be childless etc….” The sheer disconnect in these two polices demonstrates how your emotjons and personal animus against women completely run you. Nothing you say has any worth because you hate women for being unwilling to touch your penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:29 PM

I couldn’t do a man who couldn’t hold a conversation, had no hobbies, and didn’t ever pick an activity, but that’s me. Note, I absolutely do spend quiet time with my husband - I don’t need to always chatter and we are both introverts (I appreciate restful too) - but I also want to hear about the interesting things he’s doing, the dead internet, and the degeneration of AI. But that’s me. I agree with you philosophy of a cost benefit analysis - I’m big into Stoicism which is about appreciating wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:32 AM
7

Men too. That average guy should have given up on new hotness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:20 AM
8

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:19 AM
1

One of the nicest girls at my HS (and still friend ish with) is beautiful and funny and sweet. Even after all these years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:15 AM
1

This cracks me up. My first husband pressured me into swinging, anal, and BDSM. And threesomes. I swore never again. It wasn’t fun. And yet these guys would tell my husband that I don’t love him because I won’t let him abuse me like my ex. What they ignore is that I’d never have dated him had he wanted to abuse me like my ex. I’ll probably get him a threesome one time just to let him say he’s done it, but he’s never put any pressure on me nor would he.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:13 AM
1

Smart people learn the meaning of comparison is the thief of joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:01 AM
1

They both need to walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:00 AM
1

Here man - you want the r / retroactivejealousy sub. You can see lots of women mad their bfs fucked other women before. Here is the thing - my husband? I never asked him what he did with his prior gfs. He may have spent more money on them to impress them as a young and insecure man. As an older and confident man, maybe he decided he wouldn’t let any woman pick his wallet. But I didn’t quiz him on his past. And now I don’t care. I’ve got the love, the ring, the marriage, the kids, and the bank ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:59 AM
1

Fuck that. I’m middle aged and have been married 17 years. We fucked three times this weekend. Loved it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:54 AM
2

Oh we do? Nice to hear that from a red pill rather than the screeching over us hitting the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:51 AM
1

Women have retroactive jealousy too. This is what you are talking about. But men are FREE to walk out on a shitty relationship just like women are. And here is the thing - “well women can get dick anytime-“ no they can’t and MORE IMPOrTANTLY there is little to no guarantee it be better than what she’s getting now:
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:50 AM
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Comparison is the thief of joy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:46 AM
2

Where you are - purple pill debate - ppd
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:41 AM
9

Adults don’t get unconditional love. Period. I love my husband. He lays a hand on me and we are done.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:39 AM
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“ he wants his woman to love him by the example of like a loving compassionate warm and caring mother….” Vomit vomit vomit vomit …. My father never wanted to fuck me, make me scream, or engage in pregnancy kink with me. Hell yes I want my husband to want me like that. And as a mother, the love I feel for my children is zip zero nada bit of sexual anything at ALL. For fuck sake I was wiping their asses. They came out of my BODY. There are many different types of love. I don’t want mommy love with…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:34 AM
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“ alot of woman actively say they want their man to lead in the relationship.” Facts not in evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:30 AM
1

You in Russia?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:08 AM
1

That’s right
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:06 AM

Sure. I didn’t want to date a man with kids either. But there is a difference between saying “not for me,” and treating them like trash or without value. Edited to add - I came from a broken home myself. I’m not sure why that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:58 PM

See here is the thing. No. Not for me, but I really appreciate your philosophy and I’m so glad it works for you and your lady. She sounds very restful to be with - and that’s no small thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:56 PM
1

The average body mass index (BMI) is 29.23, just shy of obese. (Eh. If I am already in a relationship and love the person, this isn’t a deal breaker, but not the start. Friendship don’t care.) Only one in three adults meet the recommended amount of physical activity each week. (Won’t date or have sex) The average American adult plays more than 5 hours of video games per week (Eh so long as it doesn’t interfere.) ~Half of Americans read four or fewer books per year. (Won’t date or fuck. Sure be f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:36 PM
3

I bet she is awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:30 PM
9

Dude I am so with you over picky eaters
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:26 PM
5

I think that number includes kids and retirees and those who cannot actually work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:25 PM
4

This is a good point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:19 PM
1

So women shouldn’t give any chances to any man less than top tier men, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:15 PM

It’s just porn
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:59 PM
2

Name checks out :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:57 PM
1

Lmao. I’m a lawyer. No man needed to pay for me. And people like you are why I wanted my own career. You see money as leverage
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:52 PM
1

I’ll note that men regularly tell women here that her interests, her career, are all irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:50 PM
0

Chris Rock was wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:42 PM
3

Have you seen the studies about the dangers of unrelated men being brought into the home?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:39 PM
2

Pass that on to your buddies
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:38 PM
6

So you just decided to make this post to shit on single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:37 PM
3

So not only are you ignorant about where single mothers come from, you are also ignorant of how alcoholism occurs. It isn’t one sip and they go nuts. It’s usually a gradual process. And yes I’m related to quite a few alcoholics
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:36 PM
2

“ OR....she can raise her kids with the child's father....that she chose.” Man here thinks all men are pussy whipped NPCs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:35 PM
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No there aren’t a lot of guys like that lovely man you met. Why do you see so many men here speaking so badly of single moms. That dude sounded like a gem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:34 PM
2

“ The put abortion clinics on every corner and let the government pay for them.” Not in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:33 PM
1

So men are children who can’t ever be accountable for their actions and so can be locked up inside the house as her serf and made to work for her and the family?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:31 PM
3

So men have no agency?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:29 PM
2

Thing is that men wouldn’t be losers unless they chose to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:29 PM
2

Aren’t men fully adults responsible for their own actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:28 PM
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No you don’t. You are unbelievably naive - you think birth control never fails - it does. And you think that men never ditched their families. I’ve watched it happen with my dad. I’ve watched it with others. And despite what you think, it’s really easy for a man to take off to another state, get paid under the table, and avoid child support obligations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:27 PM
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Wasn’t a planned child. Accidents happen, even in marriages. My fiancé knocked me up on the pill. Ask my dad. Dude decided he was unhappy with my mom and cheated on her with her best friend. Broke up two marriages. And when he took off, he decided he wasn’t going to pay child support. Three kids. And my teacher mom had to fight him all the time. Made sure to shame his ass up and down the wall with his siblings tho. ‘Twas fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:23 PM
1

Lmao. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:09 PM
0

That is kind of you. I’m not even taking about emotional connection necessarily. I mean as an example my ex tried to fist me and then yelled at me for crying because it goddamned hurt. I don’t think men understand that inexperienced women not connected yet with their sexuality often don’t feel pleasure having sex, particularly in a ONS situation. And it is very easy for a man - intentionally or not - to hurt her. Even when experienced, they can get hurt depending on what the guy does. My now hus…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:14 AM
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It helped me a lot. And here is the thing - social skills help you out everywhere, not just dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:21 AM
0

You had a girlfriend tho right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:49 AM
1

Always depends if there are buyers
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:48 AM
0

Here is what I wonder: I was never willing to lower my standards. I had a terrible first marriage. That made me have hard standards. I wanted a man that was smart, competent, had his life together, and was fiscally responsible, and shared certain similar values. Here is the thing - I’m average to just above average in looks but I am wicked smart. I have a graduate degree. I do very well. If a man was Ike sorry; you have to be an eight to get a commitment out of me, I would have just opted out ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:46 AM
1

Only if you don’t know history. Men always were able to pay for domestic labor if they made money. Thad’s why money is freeing. I will never give up my salary
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:28 AM
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Fuck no. Women and men whether in or outside of marriage should decide when they procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:26 AM
1

I was a (b). He treated me badly. I did well on the “market” in my late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:11 AM
1

Go buy yourself something really nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:08 AM
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You don’t get physical pleasure. And in fact can get really badly hurt. And yes that happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:31 PM
4

I’m so glad for feminism. It allowed me to be independent, have a great career, get out of a terrible marriage, marry a wonderful man, and have two kids. Feminism is wonderful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:24 PM
2

Shouldn’t the average man be marrying the average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:23 PM
1

It makes sense when you realize intermarriage was how you moved your family forward in life. It’s not simplistic - it’s long term planning over generations
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:21 PM
1

That’s the grifter right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:20 PM
3

Lmao. What how fast a man dumps a wife when she stops having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:14 PM
1

Women do love. Like WTF?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:12 PM
1

In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:11 PM
2

I never signed up to be mid. Tough shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:11 PM
1

That’s the point. And wow, way to point out how you guys are a bunch of 5s thinking you deserve an 8
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:10 PM
3

But that’s what they are. And they’ve ALWAYS been part of the scene. WTF. Like in the 60s too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:08 PM
4

“Imagine that happened.” Stop basing your world view on your speculations and fantasies Drake isn’t DMing 32 year old Chrissy who’s short and a size 12 and has a big nose
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:07 PM
1

Um, no. Not unless the girl is a 10/10 or 9/10. She’s got to be early twenties, skinny, and very good looking - hour glass figure, fit but not too fit. Etc. Like top 5% and be in a place like la or Miami etc. where the super rich party
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:06 PM
1

I think you are dead on
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:02 PM
1

You always are pretty thoughtful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:02 PM
4

So men want women to be men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:01 PM
2

This is called not taking responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:57 PM
4

Curious - do your male friends listen?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:50 PM
1

“ He does not see anything undesireable about her. Hell, some men will consider her perfect and go directly at her to solve every issue she has.” Then he’s deeply broken in a white-knight broken winged bird situation. It’s also not really true. This actually describes a good friend of my mom - she was huge, agoraphobic, on disability. Only man interested in her was married to someone else. She was only good enough to be a random hole. She never got a man who wanted to take care of her or any of …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:44 PM
-2

Have a relationship or have sex? There is a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:13 PM
-1

Most women (and most men) aren’t thin in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:10 PM
1

No they couldn’t. That’s the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:10 PM
0

I agree. I was one of those women for a while. They are sidelined because men insist that it isn’t really that bad for them because they can “get sex.” But sex isn’t this great validating experience for women as it is for men. There are women who will have sex just to feel wanted but they tend to be looked down on, right or wrong. And how do men talk about them? Town bicycle? Not worth a relationship? Used up? And again, men can’t say - as they often do - that men will fuck anything, including a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 08:07 PM
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This is that annoying part where people say “go be friends with women and treat them like people.” Look, just be an anthropologist. Serious / helped me out when I used to have social anxiety. Go find out about people. Don’t think about “making friends” per se or even “can I date this person.” Chat up the 50 year old lady at the cash register. Go join a volunteer group and talk to the 30 year old married woman with two kids. Just talk. And listen. Take internal notes. I’m a writer in my spare tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:52 PM
1

It is really good isn’t it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:40 PM
1

Nah. I have two female friends - millennial women - who haven’t been on dates in like a decade. They are in their late 30s now. We tried setting one of them up all the time in her late 20s. She just stopped being interested and really likes her freedom. Both seem just fine without kids, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:37 PM
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Because being interesting is part of attractiveness. As an example, dumb men bore me. Not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:35 PM
1

Nut in a hole in a tree…. Jees, don’t you women know how privileged you are???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:34 PM
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Right. One of the things that my mom used to do that pissed me off was push me to be “interesting” to men. She was born in 43 and was raised where marriage to a good WASP was the best chance at a good financially secure life. She still had a career tho as a teacher and was very smart. But she wanted me playing an instrument, learning to ride, to appreciate classical music, play tennis and golf (I mentioned WASP right?), ski, and do well in school so I could “go on any kind of date with man and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:33 PM
2

No they won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:24 PM
0

Oh and the super model is a virgin and only wants to have hot monkey sex with him alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:23 PM
0

Right? I was married to a man with depression. He engaged in a lot of self destructive behavior. I begged him to get help for years. He did it a month after I left and couldn’t understand why I wouldn’t come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:20 PM
2

Yes we can and do. Just like men can love non-Stacies. This is pure black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:19 PM
1

Ha I saw that part. You are the one married to the military dude. Competence. That is what I’d teach men to exhibit and many military men have it in spades - competence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:08 PM
1

Love a ginger :) especially when the have beards!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:05 PM
2

Japan is a skinny country
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:03 PM
-1

This is so gross
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:03 PM
3

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:03 PM
2

100% agree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:00 PM
1

And I’m sure the men also want some super model hottie but can’t settle for that either, so?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:59 PM
2

Women are not happy to share.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:55 PM
0

Uh I sure as fuck turned down men who didn’t know how to cook and clean
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:54 PM
1

Yah no woman is too ugly to be treated as a disposable flesh light - hell a few perverts (very few) will fuck a corpse. Women are sooo privileged that one of those might fuck her. Jesus even the original sleeping beauty story from the 16th century had a king fucking a corpse (she wasn’t but he thought she was). No im not kidding - Google it. So many men here will insist that women should be flattered that a man will fuck them but then say “men will fuck anything.” But then they trash the town bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:52 PM
1

I have a GREAT husband. He gets the entire month of December off - good for him - but I don’t. He just sat there watching soccer as I spent four hours getting crap put away from Thanksgiving and Christmas debris. He did try and help. It’s … infuriating. He did try and help getting stuff together. And he’s an excellent man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:48 PM
-1

Listen, it isn’t the privilege you think it is. I know you don’t believe me but it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:45 PM
0

Why? I’ve known plenty who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:43 PM
-1

Men get remarried faster than women. This is particularly true with widowers. Like you guys say - look at actions rather than words. As to the rest of your comment, I’d like data for that. I will say, if something happened to my husband (god forbid), I won’t be remarrying. I might date but that’s it. I’d rather live with my sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:43 PM
1

Omg as a teen I remember hanging out in the goddamned Giant parking lot and doing donuts. We were such losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:38 PM
1

You know, you just assume all women are lying and then wonder why you have problems
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:33 PM
3

You mean the value looks like men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:31 PM
8

“ Sadly a monogamous nuclear family unit is the optimal way to build society.” When most of human society has NOT worked this way, maybe a nuclear family unit really isn’t the way to build society. Most family structures were actually extended
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:30 PM
2

Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:44 AM
2

He’s literally why women avoid the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:43 AM
1

God yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:38 AM
1

Yes. You’re just swiping
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:37 AM
1

I was on match for about a month and then deleted. Found my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:37 AM
5

I live in Georgia. I’m surrounded by conservative women. This is pure cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:20 AM
7

He hates everyone. The left doesn’t hate men. Thats why they saved the pension of the teamsters. Fuck those assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:15 AM
7

Donald Trump is nothing but a trust fund baby. He didn’t earn shit when it comes to money Musk was a lib/libertian most of his life when he was making that money. How much is Twitter worth now? Are you following the cybertruck “success”?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:14 AM
0

Hey now, I’m good with a gun
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:11 AM
4

100+ bodies??? That’s not common at all
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:10 AM
8

Rises hand. Same same girl. Married. Like men. And progressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:08 AM
5

I always went 50/50 on first meet ups with a guy - usually a coffee or a beer. After that I switched off
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:06 AM
7

Right? I’m liberal and I like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:05 AM
1

lol. No. I’m surrounded by conservative women; they aren’t against premarital sex or casual
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:01 AM
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Snork. Living in Georgia this is not what I see at all. I’m surrounded by plenty of “conservative” women having no strings attached sex, getting knocked up, and having serial marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:59 AM
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I’m a liberal married to a “classically liberal” (ie conservative) man. I’ve never had a man - Republican or not - turn me down for a serious relationship. I’m in Georgia, so they were everywhere. I’m a lawyer, I’m not afraid of conflict, but I don’t want it in my personal life. I’ve noticed conservatives don’t necessarily try to trigger the libs that they consider part of their group (friends/family) but there is a desire to antagonize the “faceless” libs. And by the way, plenty of Trump suppor…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:57 AM
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You’re…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:33 AM
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No moron, people refusing to date you because they don’t like your ideas isn’t censorship. They don’t like your ideas. Thanks for proving the stereotype that conservative men are snowflakes who are too fragile to handle the word “no” and too dumb to understand what words mean. Thank god I’ve married a smart conservative or I’d think they were all like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:31 AM
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I can’t tell. The whole thing is weird. As people say, feels like bait. It does feel like a set up to knock someone down. On the other hand it also feels like she had it all choreographed out. They don’t seem right for each other at all/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:34 AM
2

Those are awful
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:18 PM
2

There is no way on planet earth that I would have turned down my now husband if he had proposed to me in a different way than I had been imagining. It’s the philosophy of it - we are choosing to move forward as a project. And that means things are never going to be exactly the way I want them. I mean I’d love a coupe, but I have a four door because I have kids. I love my house in certain ways, but I had to flex to make it work for him. The proposal is the start of that journey - and so it might …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 09:16 PM
1

You know I am staunchly prochoice - I rarely discuss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 08:14 PM
2

That’s interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 08:13 PM
1

Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 08:13 PM
1

This is dead on. I will say that as a liberal, I’ve drawn far more conservatives as dating partners. And that as even after I said I wouldn’t go on a date with anyone raised in a Baptist church, attending a Baptist church, or Muslim. If they were atheist, I’d still question them closely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 08:07 PM
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No it’s conservative men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:59 PM
1

Right there with you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:59 PM
2

You know, maybe if men have no control of their base animal urges, they shouldn’t be given the right to vote or leadership positions
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:58 PM
2

But you were - about liberal women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:57 PM
2

Sure that’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:53 PM
1

“Women make me lie because they won’t sleep with me if they find my ideas abhorrent.” That is some juvenile thinking right there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:53 PM
1

Sounds like conservatives are too fragile to stand up to the market place of ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:51 PM
3

Snork. I live in Georgia. I’m surrounded by fat tatted up conservative women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:50 PM
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So one flake did that for attention, therefore, all libs are that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:49 PM
1

I’m married to a conservative and I’m liberal. When I was dating I seemed to draw in conservative men a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:48 PM
1

Hilarious!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:21 PM
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Dude, everyone - female or male - should step back like this when they are burned out by dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:19 PM
1

The US
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:46 PM
1

Sadly many LGBTQ end up here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:43 PM

“ Women should not get a child tax credit, welfare, paid abortion or a state funded bounty service for neglectful fathers (child support).” Why should children be punished for lousy men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:08 PM
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The biggest problem here are the ones I’ve been alluding to: post-modern feminism encouraged women—indirectly—to be women men don’t want to marry: -casual sex is now meaningless and any man who cares about a woman’s past is just insecure (Women still have less casual sex than men. And you don’t get to complain that women ARENT sleeping with average men (ie be more promiscuous) and complain they are promiscuous too. This all comes down to “women are whores unless they are f-king me.) -cooking and…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 06:49 PM
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Wow. Yah no wonder you are having problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 06:35 PM

Yes. Far later than that. My mom was not allowed to attend UVA even though she had a perfect 4.0 as an undergraduate. Women weren’t. She was allowed in as a third year but only for nursing or education - low paying jobs relatively at that time (nursing pays much better these days). When I went to UVa, I got in as a first year and could take any course I wanted to. I went to law school and now am in the top 20% of American taxpayers, entirely on my own merit and work. It enabled me to get out of …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 06:27 PM

Down voting me doesn’t change the facts, snowflake. Wanna lower your chance of divorce? Marry a college educated woman: https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2015/12/04/education-and-marriage/ https://divorce-education.com/divorce-rate-by-education-level/#:~:text=If%20you%20said%2C%20%22Bachelor's%20degree,with%20lower%20levels%20of%20education.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 06:09 PM
1

I wonder about that - I’ve been legit mistaken for my husband’s daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:54 PM
1

Women do not in fact file for divorce 80% of the time, so what else are you exaggerating?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:52 PM
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Right? Like if a man wants a wife, he really does need to consider her interests and earning capacity but men here will say that’s useless. It isn’t for a life built together
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:27 PM
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That isn’t the impression I get. I see two people who are getting a tingle over being better than her friends, enjoying some self righteous schadenfreude. Same thing that drives r / hermancainaward and r / leopard eating faces. It’s something ugly that women more than men tend to do, but these women are just entertainment for you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:22 PM
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You don’t pity them, you are angry. Tell your wife you don’t want to hear it. Jesus. She needs to tell them to shut it up if it’s so distressing for her. Frankly I think you both enjoy having these women to look down on otherwise you wouldn’t encourage it. You all get pleasure from watching the shit show, just like those libs that hang out on leopards eating face Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:16 PM
2

A shit ton of women are invisible to men. Ask black women about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:11 PM
1

Because women were forced to marry Jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:08 PM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:00 PM
3

I agree with legalized prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:59 PM
3

The only way you could possibly my think we don’t promote healthy body size is by willful blindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:59 PM
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“ college-educated women, I feel like feminism has created an undercurrent of "If you're not needlessly antagonizing your husband from time to time, you're a dupe of the patriarchy," which is not great for relationship harmony, to say the least.” College educated women are the LEAST likely to divorce. Do you ever ask yourself why if we are all man haters that don’t treat our husband’s right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:52 PM
1

So let women be women and fuck around
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:49 PM
1

Men never stopped. You see it here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:48 PM
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No it’s men who do that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:47 PM
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Bullshit let em fail - men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:46 PM
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Your wife is a wimp. Tell her to grow a pair of ovaries. I say this as a woman. I had a friend like that - just tore herself over a useless man. Eventually I told her that if she needed help moving out, I would and we could talk about other things but I was done with it. I realized after a bit the relationship was really one sided and dumped her. Men and women are stupid in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:46 PM
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Why are you so angry about it? Why do you care? It’s your wife’s phone. They aren’t your friends…. I mean, I’ve known some stupid men who insist on going for train wrecks who are hot. 🤷‍♀️ oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:42 PM
1

This is really good
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:20 AM
1

Which is crazy because we had more time to work out
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:13 AM
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I agree with a lot of this But here is my question - what about all the guys who are unhappy with the idea that he might not be the most attractive man she could get or has slept with?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:11 AM
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“ Even when we have looks on our side…” Yah well, I don’t care how hot you are, I’m not going to be your plain but smart girl that you fuck while you also fuck dumb blonde two. You aren’t - for a lot of women - worth wife investment, ltr, or kids. I don’t care how hot you are. And there is a saying about hot women - no matter how hot she is there’s some man sick of her shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:06 AM
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Me. And I was ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:02 AM
2

Yah I like hair
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:00 AM
2

This is literally the way it has always been.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:54 AM
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I feel so bad for you guys. You all are miserable unless you can be number one in sexual attractiveness department - the best she’s ever had - and that is misery making
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:50 AM
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Oh yah for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:48 AM
1

What the fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:47 AM
2

Oh well. I wish I was a Stacy too. I’m not. Grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:45 AM
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Married men are more satisfied with their sex lives and get more sex than single men. And you missed the third option - Man 3 gets the relationship and enthusiastic sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:43 AM
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Me neither. It’s like, I love someone based on our chemistry, not whether he bought some prior girl a full course meal on date one and we only shared some beers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:38 AM
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But what if you love her???? Like who cares when she started to fuck you… but once you moved to that level and the relationship is going well and you care about her??? I mean, I never worried that much over how fast my now husband gave other girls presents etc. and I didn’t ask. What mattered is what I felt about him and what he felt about me and treated me, not whether he did dumped too much money on another girl as an inexperienced early twenties guy. Comparison is the thief of joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:37 AM
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What you don’t get is this - women don’t rank looks as quite as important as men do for long term relationships. Note, this doesn’t mean that looks aren’t important, just maybe not as important as how men value that. For some reason, when you guys hear that, you think looks don’t matter at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:31 AM
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Right? One guy I dated was fun and perfectly fine, but not for marriage. He as significantly older. He’s had his kids. I wanted kids, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:28 AM
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Sure. Why is this a revelatory surprise?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:27 AM
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Agreed all around. And i find bras comfortable. I don’t like em bouncing around
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:19 AM
1

Me too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:56 PM
1

Nope not for me. I love wearing a bra.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:54 PM
8

My 13 girl was stalked by a boy for months
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:42 PM
7

This deserves all the upvotes. I dealt with a lot of prison related issues and 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:41 PM
1

A friend of my husband’s met his wife at one of those events
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:31 PM
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“ to a society that increasingly treats men as expendable.” I don’t think this is objectively accurate. We ditched the draft. Where else are men “expendable?”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:30 PM
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This is a good point. My job will also wipe out my people energy so not super interested in super social things
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:28 PM
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I do this. It can take hours on a Sunday
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:35 PM
1

“ Ok well, if you believe that. Maybe that's true, maybe you would regret being lonely and childless when you reach the autumn of your life.” This is such a tired outdated threat. And it goes for the guys with the AI girlfriends, too, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:38 PM
2

“ Yes, the role reversal is a cock sleeve. The entire point of this post is as a response to the expectation for small-dicked men to either wear a cock sleeve or forgo penetration entirely (solely using toys and fingers/oral) in the relationship, and men who have a problem with this are shamed as insecure losers.” Where is this happening? On porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:27 PM
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Look at the matching energy thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:23 PM
4

Oh I am. He’s a good person. I’ve had several platonic good male friends through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:21 PM
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It is tho. This is how women bond. Or one of the ways
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:19 PM
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Like European men do this really well. And men used to here in the US. I hope it does come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:18 PM
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Just wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:13 PM
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In my family, the men all live to 99, 94, etc. And then my brother had a heart attack at 55. And he wasn’t a fat shlub. But when you said you were older and mentioned women in their fifties, I did assume the same age. After all - you’re talking perimenopause which is late forties. I don’t think you understand nuance (and considering your extremely emotional reaction, I’d say you are pretty sensitive). Pointing out that most men also age out of fatherhood (and pointing out the real life example o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:09 PM
2

So why would any woman partner with you? And it says something that you feel the need to lie
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:01 PM
0

You really shouldn’t count on this
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:58 PM
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Non sequitur to the prior comment but that’s awful for her and for you. I hope you don’t feel guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:56 PM
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Lmao. The hypocrisy. You really don’t see how hard you got owned do you? RP men talk about women in general in the most derogatory terms like hypergamy, but then turn around and whine when they are lumped into the same category as all those dead beat daddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:54 PM
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“ Don't tell me what I value. And don't lecture men about loyalty. Men die for loyalty.” Another man trying to ride the coattails of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:51 PM
1

“ When several women chased me down the block screaming and demanding that I fuck them?” Sure that happened - lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:46 PM
2

Uh huh. Citation?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:41 PM
2

Really interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:39 PM
4

You understand that older men also have baggage? I mean oodles of men post on here with serious hang over from prior relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:26 PM
0

Eh, you ended up ahead in that one. Women can be shallow fools too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:00 PM
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I was a SAHM. I became severely depressed after a few months and had to go back to work full time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:57 PM
1

Dicks aren’t that attractive. Try pecs or abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:27 AM
1

Men regularly go into McDonald’s. They are sound that group.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:25 AM
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He wants to leverage it. There are also tells - where you went to school, etc. I’m related to money (not me personally)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:24 AM
1

And? Men shouldn’t be so thirsty. It’s funny how men never ever have any agency, only women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:07 AM
1

You are just too smart, Dallas. Hope they listen
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:06 AM
0

Don’t sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:55 AM
3

But him dropping dead and leaving his child without a father - eh not an insignificant risk Whatever, not my life. Hope he has good life insurance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:55 AM
3

Lmao. You guys pointing to Uber rich men as if you are comparable always makes me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:52 AM
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You are fifty - you squandered your most fertile years, bring increased risk of birth defects, and are likely to be unable to meet the physical demands of fatherhood. My bro had his first and only at 45. He is a runner, been skinny all his life. Had a heart attack at 56. Almost left his kid w/o a dad at age 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:51 AM
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Do you think he’ll be satisfied with just one vagina after having many his life?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:47 AM
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“ If a woman wants a relationship and to be married.. It takes NO effort. She has everything she needs given to her by simply existing.” No. Most men I knew, whether blue collar or white, were uninterested in getting married until later twenties or early thirties. And you’ve already pointed it out yourself - men want to get married when they’ve got the money/established career.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:43 AM
1

Does she spank you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:39 AM
3

Sorry. That’s bad behavior. I always try to be there for my friends, male or female. I also hate that “disappear when dating” shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:36 AM
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My relationship with my brother is NOTHING like this - we supported each other through our divorces
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:31 AM
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This is sad if this has been your experience. I have had several great male friends over the years. Right now I’m texting a good friend. I know his secret crush, his issues at work, and the struggles he has had with his daughter. I have no idea what his car is. A civic I think?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:27 AM
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I married another man before him - at 22. He was 6/2, svelte, blond, blue eyed, with a business degree from a top Uni. I point this out because he would be what people here would call a 6/6/6 (although he never really made the money - I did.) yet he was an asshole. And I did what all men here said I should - was a virgin, etc. Didn’t party, was a good girl. I was back out on the market at 28. And had to keep the men off. I had no kids, no debt, and only an ex husband in the rear view. And I’m cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 08:45 PM
2

Hay complicado.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 08:40 PM
2

You didn't respond to me, and I can guess why. This was your question: “So with that in mind, if Ai proves to be a better partner than you, then why would a man choose you?” The vast majority of my response is exactly WHY among a million reasons my husband chose me. So I guess you can’t read for shit. “Have you married in late 20s or 30s?” I married a 6/2 guy at 22 - blonde, blue eyed, slender, right out of business school from a top U. Not a chad but easy 8. And I divorced him. I was on the dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 08:38 PM

Nice non sequitur
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 08:14 PM

And yet you aren’t calling out OP for an entire post calling all “modern” women trash. I don’t see any posts calling all men trash. OP’s post is up. Seems like he isn’t being “shunned.” In fact you are here defending him. You should look in the mirror.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:06 PM

“ Alternatively, he could choose to go down the AI girlfriend route. His AI girlfriend doesn't care that he's ugly and low status, she'll still speak to him with excitement/enthusiasm and be willing to have deep conversations late into the night. She'll be willing to talk through his problems and fully accept him as a human being, rather than treat him as an accessory whose only purpose is to entertain her and impress her friends. Seriously, which would YOU rather pick?” This literally says that…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:11 PM

You treat all modern women with contempt. I quoted you. And that says all that needs to be said about you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:58 PM

Gawd that was horrifying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:53 PM

Smh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:53 PM

I think you are dead on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:52 PM

Yawn. Whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:49 PM

Right - makes an awful negative sweeping generalization of women and then is like, what did I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:48 PM

Is that… sarcastic?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:47 PM
5

I married a 5/7 tall man who was never a chad. I remain married to him. We have two children together. We both do very well financially. Despite what you say about women just “trading a man in to get better,” I didn’t refuse to marry him even though he packed on 75 lbs and I could have done better. I didn’t divorce him even tho I am financially independent and the dude voted Trump three times and I despise Trump. I didn’t divorce him when he went back to school while I worked and took care of tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:45 PM

https://apnews.com/article/chatbot-ai-lawsuit-suicide-teen-artificial-intelligence-9d48adc572100822fdbc3c90d1456bd0 Sure. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:30 PM

Gee why would people react badly to women being called slut, narcissist, gold diggers who can be replaced by an algorithm? Seems super respectful to me! 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:27 PM

I did read the entire thing - including the screed essentially calling “modern” women slut, narcissists, and gold diggers who will divorce men and take their money. Natch - you are the one saying a woman can be replaced with an inanimate object. That shows me exactly how much you dehumanize women. My husband - any of the men I have dated - never could have been replaced by a robot, and no I don’t need their wallets. Never did.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:26 PM

You are defending a post that says women are trash…. And you are butt hurt people are responding in kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:22 PM

lol - the OP posts this as a revenge fantasy against women, which he paints in the ugliest light, and you are mad that woman won’t rise to the bait. “ The systemic misandry in the west is only reaching new heights day by day, and modern women are becoming increasingly narcissistic and entitled. The standards and expectations on men are only becoming higher, while western women are becoming worse and worse. It's actually insane if you think about it. A man today is expected embark on the Sisyphea…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:21 PM

Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:18 PM

I know you want us to really care and be hurt that some emotionally undeveloped man doesn’t want us, but that’s your revenge fantasy, not reality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:17 PM

Live out my life alone. And? So will the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:08 PM

“ But we are talking about what makes you more attractive, not the other way around. If Ai can behave just like you, and is definitely much cheaper to maintain, what do you believe you bring to the table better than Ai other than your physical body?” Guys, when you make this statement, you really are proving the RadFems right - that men don’t see women as people but just appliances. And - let’s try the concept of empathy here - is that how you want to be viewed? Do you want yourself to be tossed…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:07 PM

Right? Every time someone posts something like this, they demonstrate exactly why women don’t want anything to do with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:04 PM
2

Grrrr brakes ….
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:59 AM
3

Oh he did. But that’s also a slice of my personality. I’m not a damsel in distress type. I will say that I do turn into jello when something threatens my kids. We were in an accident when I creamed* a deer at 60 miles an hour. Bless that Lexus, it saved me and my kids that day. Never lost power never lost breaks. Safely slowed down to the side of the roads. Kids fine in back seat. Adrenaline drops. And I turned into absolute jelly. Boy goddamned he has calm in crisis, bless that man. We work wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:58 AM
5

You just trashed all of modern women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:44 AM
1

“ guns or World War 2 with him, that’s what his buddies are for…” And yet I can do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:43 AM
5

Why isn’t he offering breakfast then?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:37 PM
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And this is the attitude that runs head on into the “just don’t have sex” of abortion bans.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:01 PM
5

Girl we are unique. I grew up half country/half city. My dad wouldn’t know what to do with me if I couldn’t shoot or take care of a snake
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:53 PM
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My hub’s neighbor came over crying there was a snake in her garage. She was really used to relying on him for the manly things. I went over with a shovel and took care of it. He married me not her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:51 PM
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God, I hate this stuff. As bad as the religious “the man is the quarterback” crap. I donno, my husband really admired how I got the black snake out of our neighbor’s garage (lol she came to him with that damsel in distress nonsense). My hub feels like a man when i go to him with questions in his expertise - like guns and electricity. He likes that I talk him up to my friends and family and brag on him. He loves what I do to him in bed. He loves when I am appreciative of what he does - like diggi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:49 PM
1

Oh women know about it. The trophy wife was a thing in my mom’s generation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:27 PM
2

Your hysterics over conservative bullshit memes aren’t facts. You know what we remember the renaissance for? Double entry book keeping and extraordinary art and literature.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:25 PM
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You are getting value - you are getting roads, medical research, a military, expensive planes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:22 PM
1

Lmao. Women should be compelled to give men sex!!!! No wait, ED meds are for women!!! Men don’t need sex!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:21 PM
1

You are right - let’s make it so men are legally compelled to provide other men sex, since uoh both want it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:20 PM
2

No it isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:19 PM
2

This WAS the structure. Maybe you want to go look up why it didn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:16 PM
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So starve the children. And you all wonder why people don’t want to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:15 PM
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CHILDREN are the largest beneficiaries. CHILlDREN
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:13 PM
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Fascinating - so the idea of limiting men’s freedoms any way is “bad,” but let’s limit women’s freedoms instead. You are wrong btw. A man may have more that one sexual relationship but that’s generally SERIAL. Of course in the beginning he may date several (and so would the women) but for the vast majority, they’ve settled to one generally monogamous relationship. That means all those other women are available to other men. in addition, a man can only marry one. So even if that man could have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:09 PM
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Lmao. And there is zero indication it is working
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:01 PM
1

Birth rates are dropping in Muslim countries too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:54 PM
1

“ A heterosexual (man) no longer needs a (woman) to survive or even thrive, (he) can obtain a degree, a six-figure salary - and if (he) fails the social safety net will catch (him).”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:54 PM
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The Biden economy was better than every other developed nation’s, that’s why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:50 PM
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I look to what he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:48 PM
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But republicans keep voting for republicans. Unless they choose to punish republicans for a national ban, why would the GOP care?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:46 PM
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You don’t get it- the rules never applied to the rich. He and his cabinet know they can just send their mistresses and daughters to special clinics or Europe or Canada. The rest of us? Lmao. One more dead woman in Texas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:45 PM
1

“ Trump refused to accept the results, not Republicans.” A whole lotta Republicans did too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:43 PM
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I’m a feminist. And I also know how expensive and time consuming little kids are. No way would I have made it through undergrad with my pregnancy. I’d have had to work full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:42 PM
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One person apologized to me - one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:39 PM
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Women do not hate men with low body counts. My husband had a low body count. I want to say four? I donno. I love him. Like maybe it’s changed - but people didn’t really ask after the Virgin question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:37 PM
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No. THIS right here - this socialization - is why women choose badly. And then if after taking a gamble with him, instead he gets more controlling, people like you will shit on her and tell her she should have chosen better and that all she wants is a chad and should have known better and look how ShAlLoW she is. Fuck that. I am tired of this bullshit - “oh he just needs the love of a good woman.” And god knows I’ve heard women, including my own mother, say that type of toxic shit. If he wants a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:27 PM
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No. THIS right here - this socialization - is why women choose badly. And then if after taking a gamble with him, instead he gets more controlling, people like you will shit on her and tell her she should have chosen better and that all she wants is a chad and should have known better and look how ShAlLoW she is. Fuck that. I am tired of this bullshit - “oh he just needs the love of a good woman.” And god knows I’ve heard women, including my own mother, say that type of toxic shit. If he wants a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:27 PM
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Awww you like curvy ladies. Lil’ bit of the kardashian. (I realize this could sound snotty - it’s not meant to be. I’m being serious)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:08 PM

Because men don’t want the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:53 PM

Are you fuckkng comparing pregnancy to a little reversible snip (unless you leave it in for a long time)? I ended up with life threatening preeclampsia TWICE with my pregnancies. It’s still the same - it’s that WE ALL have the right to dictate what happens to our goddamned bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:52 PM

Do you want women to control what happens inside your own body? Do you want women to have control over whether you get a vasectomy? No? Then you don’t get to control what happens to another’s body. Why is this so hard to understand? You get to control what happens inside your body. That means you get to decide if you come, if you take the male pill or if you get a vasectomy. But once you put sperm in another person’s body she gets to control what happens to her body. If you can prove rape I’m fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:50 PM

Oh it’s here all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:46 PM

Men here say that women should be stripped of their rights to vote. And they don’t get banned. so bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:42 PM
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This whole conversation was just great and normal. I am pulling for you both in your lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:47 PM
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OP’s envy is dripping.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:38 PM

When ever you move past empathy, the ask is always placing limits on female agency
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:25 PM
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Replying here as well - no, I never have to my knowledge. That said, I was rejected for being a virgin myself when I was an older teen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 02:22 PM
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Man the biases these types of statements reveal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:58 PM
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Men do hypergamy and serial monogamy. Like is this upside down world?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:57 PM
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It can be both. And yes women can start dialing it in too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:48 PM
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Bullshit. You have perception bias. Women tell other women all time that if all your exs are crazy, you are the constant factor. Maybe women don’t admit to YOU that they make errors of judgement, but women sure as hell talk to each other about it. Why would any woman admit it or discuss accountability with men? When they get raped “what were you wearing?” When they get hit “pick better.” No woman goes to a man for comfort unless they know that man very very well. But women? Holy shit do we warn …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:46 PM
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Alpha fux beta bux. Ie the young hot girl will screw all the alpha hot men in her twenties - and even carry his kid! But then will look for a mid man with money to marry in her 30s. I guess the male version is the girl you screw and the girl you marry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:47 PM
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Like men don’t search for their best options. Like wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:45 PM
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Aw! She sounds like a gem!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:43 PM
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Why would I wreck my body having kids if that lowers my value and my husband could then walk off? Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:41 PM
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“My internal assessment just so happens to align with my pre-existing biases and now I’m going to make up more “just so” stories to explain why my assessment is because women bad.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:32 PM
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So fucking glad I didn’t marry that one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:30 PM
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We do all of those although 5 is something we have to make an overt attempt at since both my H and I are introverted and independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:28 PM
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Yes you are like that. And good on you. Other men aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:26 PM
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I am a woman and really feel your first two paragraphs. I can and do run over people. I need a guy who can stand up to me. I like that my husband does.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:26 PM
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Youth and inexperience. Poor self esteem. The men get comfy in a relationship and stop trying Btw these apply to men too. Young men will get so entranced by sex that they’ll ignore the GF insanity and then wake up and say WTF. 1&2 led to my first disastrous marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:22 PM
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Goddamned - crazy making
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:20 PM
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Damn straight and this woman does not support it. She’s has to be young and dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:15 PM
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This comment is hilarious and I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:07 PM
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I mean I think the point is that relationships run their course for whatever reason
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:02 PM
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Age gap relationships aren’t the most stable. Neither are very young relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:01 PM
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Right? It sounds like these relationships lasted just long enough to get past the lust phase (or NRE - whatever name you give that early heady hormone driven time). When you are past that you have to see whether there is something more there to sustain it - do you LIkE this person even when you aren’t having sex? Do you enjoy their company? Do you all work through issues together? I don’t know how it works exactly - I’ve been married now 17 years - we’ve had highs and we’ve had lows. But we turn…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:00 PM

“ they know they never would get these guys attention before.…” So apps made MEN drop their standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:53 PM

“ Since value is subjective (men) can use plausible deniability to value themselves whatever they want (Infinity Value!) and craft any narrative they want about the dating market.” Sounds like OP, who declares who women should value
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:51 PM

“ More girls,lie,cheat, and have multiple partners. We're seeing more girls act like the men you look down upon.” Casual misandry right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:50 PM

No. You are thinking about only sex. When it comes to relationships, men have high standards. Stop confusing Sex with relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:43 PM

Happy birthday, man. Hoping the next turn around the sun brings you more
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:39 PM

Sounds like a lot of women went off the tinder market - they married, stopped dating in general, or bailed from tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:31 PM

Can’t be fat = minority of men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:19 PM

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:14 PM

This entire discussion, starting with your comment here, needs to be pinned at the side. One of the best discussions of relationship formation from top to bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:14 PM
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God, you are really pretty insecure aren’t you. That must be the braggadocio, obsession with male genitalia, and random insults. The smallest dogs bark the loudest. I bet were an awful nag.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:59 PM
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Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:19 PM
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My dad cheated on my mom with her best friend. Does that mean all men will be cheaters?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:17 PM
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Good god. I know who is on the power trip here and it isn’t the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:08 PM
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NOW supports adding women to selective service. And it’s conservatives that oppose women from joining the military in combat roles
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:04 PM
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Your entire post is that man hating is part and parcial of feminism because some of the proponents also hate men. So which is it? Is man-hating bad and it sucks that some of those are involved in feminism or is feminism bad because some of the thinkers were also man haters? I’m a feminist. I don’t hate men. I’m married to a pretty stereotypically masculine guy - think guns, games, stoicism, and physical. He wants equality and respects me for more than my nice ass. But that doesn’t blind me to sy…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:58 PM
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As if you guys don’t nag and manipulate. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:46 PM
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No I don’t “demand” anything from my gfs. I’ll ask them out and we’ll talk. If I get turned down enough I withdraw. I ended a friendship about a year ago for that stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:44 PM
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Uh no. We just don’t want to be the mother to our husband
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:35 PM
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Then don’t get into a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:34 PM
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You sound like a great dad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:33 PM
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You don’t unless she wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:26 PM
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Women confronted the same issue. So they decided to not marry
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:26 PM
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Snork. No. You are all free to not marry. No one is making you do it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:24 PM
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So civil rights that ended Jim Crow abuse is bad because some of the proponents hated their oppressors after those same oppressors engaged in decades of systemic domestic terrorism on top of two plus centuries of slavery? Look how angry you are right now. Ask yourself how angry you would be if you were blocked from the best schools, best jobs, from having your own insurance or bank accounts … all because you are a man. Don’t you think you might not like your oppressors either? Look how angry you…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:09 PM

We need: Encouragement of men entering the teaching profession particularly at younger grades. Reintroduce gym More vocational training Cells out of schools More taxpayer funded support of third places. Educational training on boy issues. They get punished - especially black boys - far more aggressively. Men already get affirmative action for college: https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/08/magazine/men-college-enrollment.html
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:49 PM
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Right. Men here tell us how they’re desperate for a crumb, that we should know they’ll just pump and dump, and that they’ll just use women they don’t even like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:17 PM
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It isn’t murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:23 PM
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I don’t get it. How is it that women have so many more options if the population of dating age singles are 50/50? I supposed this is where the harem theory comes from but most women don’t like being part of a harem. That’s what “are we dating the same Man” exists
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:22 PM
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I donno - ask all those fat overweight men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:59 PM
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Sounds like you don’t have any skills but to be a tradwife yourself email boy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:57 PM
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I wanted to be a plumber. Mom wouldn’t let me. Women built the equipment that allowed the US to wage WW2. We aren’t scared of hammers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:56 PM
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There are SAHM now, men get alimony and men get child support and most courts default to 50/50 custody. Seems like it’s helping men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:51 PM
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Equality means “women have to fuck me?” No I don’t think so
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:50 PM
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Citation please? It’s bullshit IMHO. It isn’t here in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:48 PM
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So something that hasn’t happened in 50 years? NOW supports including women in the draft. It is male legislators that usually refuse to pass it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:46 PM
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Bull shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:34 PM
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The bechel test is not forced. And yes it says a lot if all women are just talking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:32 PM
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No one has been drafted in the Us in 50 years. I’m fine with extending it to women. Israel does great with that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:31 PM
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I disagree. I slept around at certain age. It didn’t “hurt” me - it actually helped me. Feminism allows women the same legal and social freedom as men. That means they can be promiscuous or not. Many women I know were never very promiscuous - far less than me in fact. And sexual activity is actually reducing among GenZ and Gen alpha. I realize there was a slew of think pieces in mainly very liberal coastal towns about young women feeling used, but they also had the full capability to make differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:30 PM

Facts not in evidence boyo. Your “feelings” aren’t reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:40 PM

So voting is a privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:37 PM

Abortion and birth control was not invented by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:33 PM

And it’s going to fuck over Genz so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:30 PM

Are you kidding me???? The Republicans have ended abortion rights, are threatening to end access to birth control, and threatening to end no fault divorce. My kids have LESS equality now than I did in the 90s and 00s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:21 PM

Snork. Okay, no Bible then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:17 PM
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I am fine with changing the law of the SA victim. No parent - including the mother - can put a child up for adoption without the consent of the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:16 PM
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You all really can’t differentiate between money and the body can you? No one stops you from donating - you have bodily autonomy. Ta da!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:11 PM
1

This really is tiresome. Women are usually careful. That’s why the fertility rate is under 2
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:06 PM
1

The most stable marriages are with college educated. They have - male and female - largely turned toward democrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:04 PM
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And my point is that ticking time bomb will really hurt those same men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:56 PM
4

I actually agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:55 PM
3

Doctors prescribe certain antidepressants to address perimenopause. I specifically had to reject them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:52 PM
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Lmao. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:51 PM
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Lmao. You see so much misogyny here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:50 PM

There are several responses here that show misogyny. Where is your condemnation of all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:49 PM
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My daughter was stalked by a kid at school. She told him she was gay and not interested. He didn’t stop. It required the invention of counselors on several occasions. It says a lot that your sympathy is with the guy terrifying the girl instead of the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:47 PM
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She had to get away from a risky man. WTF? If she had cleaned it up and he assaulted her, you’d all be like, “why did you clean it up?!”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:45 PM
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Prime example of no empathy . Way to make OP’s point So OP should feel complimented that a mentally ill and smelly and disgusting man wants to drag her into an alley, jam his smelly dick inside her body, expose her to STDs, and splooge inside of her where she can’t easily clean off, threatening her with pregnancy, injuring and hurting her, and she’ll have to face uncaring cops? And might not get the abortion care she needs? I wonder if you’d feel complimented if some man dragged you into an alle…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:38 PM
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Dan Savage once made the comment that the fathers of gay sons needed to be as protective of them as daughters because men can be predators. Savage fucks men and is married to a man. He relates being cornered as a young man by a much older and bigger man. He is very good about telling straight men how to feels to be the target of their attention. He has other problems but he was one the few guys who seemed to really “get” it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:37 PM
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No dear. Unhealthy women are attracted to those people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:32 PM
1

Right? Like women are very empathetic to Mike Arrow on here in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:31 PM
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Yah I’ve had and continue to have great men in my life. I’m a feminist but I actually tend to get along better with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:29 PM
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As a woman, I have never rejected a man as a friend based on looks- ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:28 PM
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This is psycho language. Look everyone - the “rational” and “analytical” gender! They never reason from emotion. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:25 PM
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Like dude I’m married to a short man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:22 PM
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Being nice isn’t the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:20 PM
1

I’m sorry that has happened to you. I’ve been lucky in my encounters with homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:19 PM
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Once again, a man who thinks he built civilization single-handedly. We did step up - we kept the war engine going at home during world war 2 while our men fought abroad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:17 PM
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God you picked one of the hardest careers dude
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:15 PM
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Man, I always feel for you. You are the kind of guy I’d want to introduce to my single friends who are DnD girls. I feel like you are super self aware
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:14 PM
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This is dead on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:11 PM
1

A friend of mine is struggling with this. My friend is heavy but attractive - 6? Her husband is okay -he’s poor and a cop. He’s six feet and reasonably in shape. He’s cheated on her a bunch with women that aren’t really that attractive. They are available.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:10 PM
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Nah you are right. Cheaters are about opportunity not necessarily looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:06 PM
1

And they usually do cheat down
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:05 PM
-1

Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:05 PM
1

Yah I bet if you hit on every 1/10 you’d get laid a lot too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:04 PM
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Oh well. She takes the same risk on you - that you’re pining over some unattainable hottie
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:03 PM
2

Once again- it’s always a woman’s fault if her husband beats her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:02 PM
2

Pot kettle dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:01 PM
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Lmao - thanks for proving her point - if a man beats his wife, it’s her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:01 PM
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Oh yes there is. Old women, especially when they have no kids. Very unattractive women. And men relish it here - they shit all over land whales and post wall women and spinsters with their cats. They relish telling women how disposable they are. And women have gone on to their own devices - forming communities and friendship groups. They aren’t disposable to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:00 PM
2

Right? Sexual activity is down among GenZ.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:56 PM
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“ It’s interesting I noticed how a good share of single women I know look for love and committed relationships, but would tell how they pick up tall guys in the clubs or had a threesome.” Sure. Women are all having threesomes 🙄 If you spend your time focusing on party girls this is what you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:55 PM
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Luck = prepared + opportunity
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:53 PM
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Uh no. The one who asks out requires less luck. The one who doesn’t vastly to wait for what comes her way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:52 PM
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It’s about bodily autonomy or they’d just give birth and adopt out the baby
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:38 AM
2

What a load of shit. You can quit your job. I can’t quit pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:37 AM
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They really believe this bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:35 AM
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Nah. But if im forced to carry a pregnancy I don’t want, you can be a slave to the state just like me. No quitting your job. No getting paid under the table
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:34 AM
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And your body, your choice and YOUR responsibility. Dont go giving your sperm to other people if you don’t like that what they do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:30 AM
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It really isn’t. Sometimes - very rarely - a man who CAN pay will get held in contempt to discharge a court order to pay over due child support. It takes a lot of violating court orders etc to end up there. But if he can’t pay he isn’t getting thrown in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:27 AM
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And here is the thing - men are just as likely to monkey branch as women. You see men advocating for it here - “starter girlfriends!” A little trip around this sub or retroactive jealousy sub tells you exactly how some low n count men seethe with jealousy and anger that they couldn’t be chad. The second they get a chance to fuck around they go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 12:25 AM
3

Your grandma didn’t WORK full time either
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:55 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:50 PM
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Lmao. But that high quality man just wants to fuck around and not be chaste
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:49 PM
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Well good on them beating the stats. On average those are the marriages more likely to divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:48 PM
3

But he isn’t a chad and is never going to be a chad right? Like I am never going to know what it is like to have men just randomly buy me flowers and drinks and dinner because I’m not Stacey. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:47 PM
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Lmao. No. It means no marriage and no kids. I know you all are so hopeful that the biological clock will go off in our ears and make us stampede toward marriage but I’ve been hearing that since I was a tween. And the end result has been lower and lower birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:44 PM
4

Right? Like less kids and less SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:42 PM
7

Same same girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:40 PM
6

So what you’re saying is no fuckboi can turn over a new leaf and become a husband, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:40 PM
10

Why would I submit?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:38 PM
7

Weird. Lawyer and happily married. How did that happen? Oh yes, I don’t act adversarial to my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:37 PM
7

But the most stable marriages happen at 28-30 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:35 PM
2

Ass man nails it! (And I am not ashamed)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:32 PM
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Monogamy isn’t the same as patriarchy. And patriarchy is not the foundation of civilization.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:31 PM
5

Dude seriously thinks pretty poorly about men doesn’t he
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:28 PM
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First, nah our daddies and mommas have been telling this to us FOREVER. Second, man, you’ve got a poor view of men. Look, 100 years ago, we didn’t have any CHOICE in the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:27 PM
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Find me a place without large scale intervention in the economy? Where? Name the countries? Which one should the us emulate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:25 PM
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Agreed. My first husband - the first man I was ever intimate with - wasn’t a chad. He still did a number on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:22 PM
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And I’m glad you are eating your heart out in envy right now
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:26 PM
5

I’ve several late millennials that I’ve known for over a decade. So at 28-30 the two ladies I’m thinking about wanted to marry. Now at almost 40 they are glad they didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:23 PM
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Yup and your feudal overlord starts a war and sends you to die. Maybe you need to look at the real power brokers here instead of blaming women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:21 PM
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Sure, that’s why people are abandoning Christianity and religion - particularly women now. Don’t blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:19 PM
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I agree with you - men absolutely support abortion and prochoice stances
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:17 PM
2

Yes and sending good thoughts - my brother’s second marriage was to an abusive woman. He was the victim and he was drawn in by broken winged bird syndrome based on his upbringing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:57 PM
1

So you are a virgin too?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:48 PM
1

As I too do the work that keeps society running you can thank me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:46 PM
2

Thank you for pointing out the misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:40 PM
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“ Red Pill Man 💯 true. Woman back in the day 90s and early 2000s woman still had high standards and expectations BUT THE DIFFERENCE is that those woman didn’t have dating apps and social media platforms which give woman thousands of dating opportunities nowadays (hoeflation) compared to back then when women had maybe 1-3 guys to choose.” Why don’t you guys do a MODICUM of research. Hon, I met my husband in 2004. On Match. I have several friends who met via e harmony. And there were these HUGE si…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:50 PM
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He thinks you are going to be a lonely cat lady wishing you’d just given that mid-nerd a chance back in high school, been his adoring girlfriend, fucked only him, and you’ll be so so sorry now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:46 PM
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You all really could serve taking a class in family law/or the history of family formation. Maybe not as exciting as military battles but then you’d learn quite a bit. Social classes marry social classes. Read the subtext behind Pride and prejudice. It was not enough for a man to have a paycheck as some of you say - give me a break. Families allied to improve their social economic standing. As an example William Ford married Martha Firestone. Go back to the tradesman/guild days, and you’d have m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:43 PM
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Also people tend to marry in the same socioeconomic band. My parents and family went over my now husband with a critical eye when they first met him, as he hadn’t finished undergrad and I had a doctorate under my belt. He passed but they wanted to make sure he was “their sort.” By and large I don’t know that many of these “unaccomplished women” marrying accomplished men. I know lots of college grads marrying the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:28 PM
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Sure….
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:23 PM
2

But that’s for sex, not for relationships right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:22 PM
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Because you are taking on the responsibility of financially floating the kids and relationship if you marry a poor woman. And that’s the talk of standards being lower outside the US. I visit the passport bro website. They are just using financial arbitrage to push themselves into a higher status - just as if they were far richer here in the US. It’s just betabuxxing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:22 PM
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Damn what an adventure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:02 PM
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I’m glad it worked for you but I disagree. It was when I started to be happy alone that i did much better all around
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:02 PM
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Most women aren’t that naive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:39 PM
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That’s how it always was.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:38 PM
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“ Bonus of being a man: We have np marrying a nice poor girl and living happily ever ever. Tons of them.” But being a betabux is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 06:34 PM
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Yah you’re in for a big big surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:19 AM
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Oh you sweet summer child. You fuckers never ever research. I’m in ga. We supercharged our system to push out illegals. The farmers lost their asses. https://www.forbes.com/sites/realspin/2012/05/17/the-law-of-unintended-consequences-georgias-immigration-law-backfires/ And then this: https://www.npr.org/2024/04/26/1242236604/florida-economy-immigration-businesses-workers-undocumented You have fun with all the higher prices.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:18 AM
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I had a hell of a time getting clothes for my girls - tweens at the time - a few years ago. Booty shorts and spaghetti straps and skin tight pants. I would regularly exchange notes with other mothers of ideas where to shop. But I like to look nice and I like to look attractive and I have news for guys here (women already know this) but society (men and women) treat attractive people (men and women) better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:28 AM
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No we aren’t. Because we don’t waste our times with losers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:15 AM
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So like have you seen men? They are equally as fat muchacho.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:13 AM
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No it really isn’t. Men will fuck dead women and women in a coma. They’ll fuck sheep and dogs and animals - it’s so bad that Bible had to impose a rule against it. But we are supposed to feel lucky that man will cum inside us??? I had casual sex in my past, but there is no fucking way it feels good to be used by some greasy smelly man to be his cum receptacle. And bet men would feel a lot different about the wonders of sex if they were getting pegged every time. Lots of gay men don’t bottom ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:12 AM
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Lmao. And you think that’s some kind of privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:05 AM
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Right? They do it here every time they scream about purple haired fat cat women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:53 AM
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Bahaha meanwhile all your brethren will get on here and tell us how you e got to be skinny and no tattoos and agreeable and submissive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:51 AM
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I’ve been chunky and I’ve been glowed up and skinny. Let me tell you how much better men treat me when I am prettied up. You guys constantly tell women that WE don’t understand that a man will use us and dump us because men will sleep with anything, so we shouldn’t get our heads all inflated… But then turn around and claim that all these men don’t have standards and dating is super easy for women. So which is it? For actual dating, men have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:50 AM
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So no decent girl should touch you either right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:45 PM
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And smoke - wrecks that skin
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:43 PM
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You all keep saying this but the stats do NOT support this view.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:40 PM
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I kinda agree that Americans of all genders tend to be pretty classless - loud rude and crude
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:34 PM
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I agree it’s smart to think about the long term financial and educational value of one’s spouse, male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:33 PM
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I read that. Punching above his weight isn’t an insult but the rest are really mean. The internet is mean. They look like a cute couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:30 PM
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I actually applaud you for this - and for pointing out that you the man did it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:49 PM
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Nah, we just have enough toxic men trying to date women over here. PS madre es cubana y madrastra es alemana. Me gustan mujeres europeas y extranjeras. Pero las estadounidenses están educadas y quieran carreras. Estoy abogada. Mis niñas quieran ser médicas.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:17 AM
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Heheheh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:02 AM

Jfc. Stereotype much?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:02 AM
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Oh lord . Other countries are far more racist in that respect
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:14 PM
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Classic Greek fables are a myth?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:10 PM
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Wow. Yah. Stick to those foreign women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:09 PM
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We get it. There are some beautiful areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:08 PM
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As a woman I have NEVER approached another man or woman to demand that they do something like smile more or stop smoking or pull up your pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:54 PM
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That isn’t about expectations - that’s about being turned and treated like a media trope
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 10:50 PM
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I apologize. I missed my husband’s birthday and in mortification apologized and gave him a special BJ. I also apologized over some negative things with Covid and worked with him to get an exclusion. He however cannot apologize for almost anything and tries to buy me stuff so I’m less angry. There are men who apologize. But there are some men who really struggle when it comes to apologizing to women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:37 PM
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Yes - an idea that men came up with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:50 PM
3

And men want to looksmatch. Is that less shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:40 PM
1

lol. 70s porn for you huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:39 PM
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A bunch of people had no idea how tariffs work. Lawd
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:37 PM
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Or both work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:36 PM
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Rich people have kids. Shocking
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:35 PM
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Always a threat of violence huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:32 PM
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Lmao. One day you guys will learn that ideology isn’t inheritable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:32 PM
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“ While messages like "the world is dangerous" or "men may take advantage of you" carry some truth, these messages can become exaggerated, cultivating a sense of distrust toward men.” My oldest was stalked by a boy for almost a year when she was 13. It required substantial intervention. I’m married. I have a great brother. My dad was a lousy father and husband, but no predator. The world is dangerous. Men will take advantage of you. Not all men, but you can’t always tell the good from the bad of…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:31 PM

Trump called me and my kind all sorts of names, including the enemy within. Do tell me when Harris or walz called Trump voters or republicans evil. “ Also women aren't really gonna lose right.” Abortion was legal in Georgia (where I live) in 2016. It was also legal in 2005, when I had a miscarriage and I didn’t need to worry about it. Now it’s illegal after six weeks (many don’t know if they are pregnant at that point) and I could be arrested and charged with a felony if I take my 16 or 14 girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 02:20 AM
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“ and if you still somehow end up pregnant, carry the child to term and put him/her up for adoption.” No. It’s my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:02 PM
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Very few people - democrats included - support open borders
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:01 PM
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This needs to be pushed up higher - it shows how influencers will use extreme rhetoric to drive clicks when they don’t even believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:00 PM
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“I’m going to strip you of your legal rights because my feelings were hurt.” That isn’t the winning argument you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:57 PM
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I’ve known two.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:55 PM
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“ Gen Z got hit way harder by inflation, so they vote out the incumbent to fix the economy with tariffs lol.” That LOL for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:54 PM
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“ Queen Elizabeth of England oversaw the greatest period of imperialist expansion of human history.” Wow. The opposite, my dear - both for I and II. Do you mean Victoria?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:53 PM
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“ Men kill themselves 3.5x more and 7x more post divorce.” And why is that due to misandry? “ don't have access to homeless shelters.” This is false. I worked near a man’s homeless shelter. They exist. More men than women are homeless by a large amount: https://endhomelessness.org/demographic-data-project-gender-and-individual-homelessness/ I do think we need to focus on male homelessness but I don’t see that as a consequence of misandry. Would you care to make a connection? “ any major war will…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:51 PM
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“ Also, he can’t ban abortion, that overrules the Supreme Court decision…” This is absolutely wrong and yes I am a lawyer. All SCOTUS did was strike down Roe. SCOTUS did not say that the federal government does not have jurisdiction over abortion regulation. This is why Graham immediately proposed a 15 week abortion limit. As to an abortion ban being “unpopular” that didn’t stop many red states from enacting such bans immediately. Red legislatures in places like Arizona and Ohio did everything t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:41 PM
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I appreciate it, lady, and your wisdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:56 AM
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But then when we do select more on character you scream at us over AF/BB. No. Win.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:34 AM
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We aren’t allowed to go after Billy Beta for showing wonderful character and compromise a bit on our looks standard because Billy isn’t alpha.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:33 AM
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Oh boy it’s gonna be fun in a year for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:25 AM
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Tell men to detox from porn then as well
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:23 AM
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Do fathers guide their sons to make a good choice? Like wtf? The number of men here who “don’t care” about their potential wife’s long term financial viability is extraordinary. And yet that is the ticket to a more stable long term marriage. Maybe men should focus on guiding boys and leave their daughters alone. My dad was a shitty husband and father. I’d never trust his taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:14 AM
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I absolutely know a woman with a libido that puts a teenage boy to shame and she has had two dead bedroom events - one long term boyfriend has untreated hypertension that killed his boner. And the other she’s with right now and he’s always “too tired.” She tells me because she knows I don’t judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:10 AM
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“ It's not "fun" to be the sole provider of a household or family working 50+ hours a week and come home to it being a disaster for days on end” This isn’t about your personal complaints regarding your wife. Most mothers work so that means de facto this is a minority - and assumably a minority of a minority since some of those SAHM are doing the full gamut
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:07 AM
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Check out Deadbedroom. Look at the women complaining. And women complain nonstop about how little men help, yet you don’t believe them and insist men wait on their wives hand and foot. L-M-A-O
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:04 AM
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No. I was being hyperbolic because I’m very salty. He is a very good man and love him very much. But there needs to be an apology because I’ve made it clear at several points that when I make an effort I need some appreciation. He’ll usually devolve to “you always look good!” But it is true the lingerie is tucked away for a while. I’m not making an effort FOR HIM over looking as attractive as I can. I generally do dress nicely anyway but I have more comfy undies. I won’t be flashing anyone else …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:00 AM
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Nope. That is closed down
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:32 AM
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“ Never any issues with men supporting their partners, wives & children for several years on end financially with no help there. No one talks about that shit.” Most mothers work, first. And, asshole, those kids are the man’s too. He better support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:20 AM
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Men ALSO experience a drop in libedo too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:16 AM
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And I’ll point out - I got in some hot red lingerie yesterday, I’m almost as skinny as I was when I met my husband, and I got dressed up to the nines for a dinner date… And we came home and he said “oh let me finish this game” and then two hours later couldn’t figure out how angry I was. Next time I dress up in red lingerie it won’t be for him. Women post in dead bedroom all the time. We don’t have a dead bedroom but he just did a fuck ton to cause one last night.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:13 AM
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That’s because you are right outside of Chattanooga. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:54 PM
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Omg! Right outside Chattanooga! My grandad lived there until he passed!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:53 PM
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I love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:49 PM
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“ Combination of historical rates for developed countries and modern rates for failed states, courtesy Our World In Data.” So not premodern rates. This is called guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:34 PM
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“ Pre-modern human historical baseline norm is 1-2% of pregnancies resulting in maternal death” I spent a very long time on accumulating documentation and studies on this exact question. And it’s incredibly difficult to determine for “premodern” times. It depends very much on location, etc. so I’m going to want a citation on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:33 PM
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In both my first and second pregnancy, I developed gestational diabetes and then pre-eclampsia. Luckily I didn’t need anything more than care with my diet and an early induced delivery. I wouldn’t show up in your stats because my situation was dangerous, could have gone wrong, and could have left me with life long injuries like stroke that didn’t kill me. When you talk about birth complications , all of a sudden all these horror stories pop out. My coworker nearly lost his wife to sepsis that de…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:24 PM
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There you go - scratch the surface and out comes the patriarchal religion
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:32 AM
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I worked on my career. I met my now husband at 28. We married. I had two kids. I have my career. I have an active sex life with him. He makes more than me. I got it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:23 AM
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But women don’t want casual sex like men either. That’s why women on average have fewer sexual partners
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:18 PM
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This. This happened to my now 16 yet old when she was 14. All she learned was to fucking HATE men. And she does. Good job guys! I’m having to spend a lot of time working on my oldest to convince her not all men! All because another kid harassed her sexually so bad that she stated to wear a coat in August in Georgia and we had to get the school heavily involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:15 PM
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Bull shit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:13 PM
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Are these fourteen year old girls in the room with you right now? A shit ton of 14 year old girls are NOT dating and not having sex. I’d say most are not. That stuff is usually happening with disconnected parents. Source: middle school teacher in a poor area is a very good friend. This is crazy making. And certainly doesn’t justify a dude at 32 dating a 22 year old because “she’s so mature.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:13 PM
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“ And at the same time, boys of the same age of 14 are deprived of romantic experience.” Ooohhh noooessss a boy might have to wait to date a girl for a few years!!!! Until high school! What about MEEEE. I didnt date until 19! How dare I be deprived of all that experience. Do you know how you sound? Nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:09 PM
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My fifteen year old (now sixteen year old) has a sixteen year old GF. My fourteen year old was asked out by a kid in her grade. She still thinks boys are gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:07 PM
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It’s like redlining - the actions of misogynists from 100 years ago can have effects that echo long after they are dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:58 PM
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Best estimates put it at around 20 % musk said 33% https://blog.twitteraudit.com/how-many-bots-are-on-twitter/ https://techcrunch.com/2024/01/10/it-sure-looks-like-x-twitter-has-a-verified-bot-problem/ https://www.gzeromedia.com/amp/musk-promised-to-rid-x-of-bots-but-they-love-his-tweets-2669551405
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:56 PM
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I think this is true and it needs to stop
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:49 PM
1

China
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:49 PM
2

I’d say that Reddit is the left wing cesspool
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:47 PM
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This. I’d say that Reddit is a cesspit of left wing ideology. I get tired of all the hate capitalism gets as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:46 PM
1

Right? I am a feminist. I have no boys but I have a great husband, great male peers, and great men around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:48 AM
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Bots are a massive problem on Twitter and have worsened under Musk. https://arxiv.org/html/2304.04129v3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:46 AM
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To the contrary, those of us who follow AI and bot activity are aware of research indicating it has gotten much worse since Musk turned over. https://amp.theguardian.com/technology/2023/sep/09/x-twitter-bots-republican-primary-debate-tweets-increase https://arxiv.org/html/2304.04129v3 Matthew Binder is a good source.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:45 AM
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Or you know, instead of being so emotional, you could do some independent research into the idea of “dead internet.” Or the number of bots and artificially generated content on Twitter. It is lousy with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:40 AM
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There is. Google DEAD INTERNET - so much of what is driven is bot pushed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:34 AM
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Twitter is a cesspit of right wing ideology right now. I wouldn’t believe one but that these are real women at all. But as a feminist and a woman , I think it’s great Margot Robbie had a son! I wish I’d had one too. I like men. I am married to one. My brother is awesome. Four of my bosses are men and awesome. People are way too online and they don’t seem able to realize that much of the commentary is driven by bots or hostile entities. Google “dead internet.” So much of activity online is comput…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:32 AM
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Scheming and paranoia. Look in the mirror. You know why there is a block button? So people - men and women - can block people like you who don’t accept the word NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:41 PM
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Stop using autism as an excuse to ignore social rules. You wanna participate in society, learn the fucking manual.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:39 PM
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OP, I have a daughter who is on the spectrum. I’d tell her to stay as far away from you as possible. Why? You don’t accept the word no. You don’t understand boundaries. You would be a SHITTY boyfriend who would constantly pressure and push a girl to do thing she doesn’t want to because he wants it. You are sitting here trying to push yourself into these women’s lives even tho they’ve sent a clear message of NO. That is bad news. You are ENTITLED. You think you have a right to a stranger’s time. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:37 PM
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It is old fashioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:20 PM
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I have never been criticized for baking my man his favorite banana bread, making him his special chili, or scratching his back. I’ve never been criticized for detailing him his car or washing his clothes. He in turn has vacuumed my office and planted my roses. You people are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:19 PM

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:02 PM
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My dad was pretty terrible but gave me the single most important bit of advice ever for men or women - never ever get involved with someone who can’t accept the word “no.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:02 PM
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That hasn’t been my experience but… I guess it’s the same as the AF/BB. The Beta Bux consider it a bad deal. I wonder how the girls next door feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:56 PM
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lol - the Madonna/whore complex, aka the male version of AF/BB. I think a lot of young people have fun being crazy and wild and then realize that certain attributes a fun time (gal or guy) may have are not conducive to long term relationships or children. And so you pick better. What those here seem to miss is that people aren’t static. The guy here has CHANGED what he is looking for - likely with changing goals. That’s fine. My now hub did some crazy stuff with strippers. He changed. What some …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:36 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:33 PM
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A lot of women marry into dead bedrooms. So I guess men just use sex to trick them into marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:04 PM
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Boy this tells us exactly what girls you are after
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 11:01 PM
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“ some women don't, some women do. not everyone thinks like you” Ah so you’ll stop saying that women think that if they can bed Chad, they can date Chad, right? Because if I can’t make sweeping generalizations, neither can you. “ especially if they grew up without solid male role models.” I had shitty role models, thanks for asking. My dad was a cheating bastard who abandoned the family. But boy that was an early learning experience. “ there are plenty of women who conflate the two distinctly di…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:59 PM
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I wonder if they’re spending money to find a LTR or to learn how to be a Chad to hit it and quit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 09:54 PM
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Lmao. The irony of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:24 PM
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“ Everything that gets tried to make people meetup only allows women to leave more guys left out.” I’m curious. Do you want to have your options limited to who society decides you should fuck and have kids with? Don’t you want the option to steer clear of the ugly fat girl? Or the cheater or the liar or the nut who tracks you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:23 PM
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No it isn’t. Poster said “casual dating.” So he is offering exactly what Chad is offering.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:21 PM
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“ casual romantic interest.” But why would a women have ONS or FWB with someone they aren’t attracted to? Sounds like you want to pump and dump like a chad when you aren’t a chad. Women don’t engage in as much casual sex. Sex has a lot more downsides for women, especially in red states. Why would they risk sex with a man that doesn’t get their motors running enough to outweigh the downsides?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:19 PM
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But women not dating you isn’t the same as telling you you are subhuman
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:16 PM
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Snork
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:09 PM
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“ Too many women confuse the willingness of men to sleep with them with committing to a partnership.” We really don’t. You all say this all the time, but every woman has been told since they were little by their parents, their older siblings, their friends, and now social media that men will fuck anything. And this is why I only ever engaged in casual sex - the rare times that I did - with men that I found very attractive. I was under no illusions that a man that fucked me would marry me, so I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:56 PM
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But if we have too many different dicks we’re for the streets
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:50 PM
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Did you see where she stated men avoid those women who make more than them? That is also ruling out options
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:15 PM
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I think that’s a pretty small set of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:21 PM
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And guys wonder why there are so many more men on dating apps than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:20 PM
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I’m sure he’s had that experience in a very specific market and very specific kind of girl. But most women aren’t super hots and most women aren’t online
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:40 AM
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Same same dude. Same same.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 01:32 AM
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Because clubs and bars are where the music is at.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:32 PM
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I do. But there aren’t a lot of places where you get to go dance with a bunch of your friends
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:30 PM
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Why don’t I get a say in my husband’s body. I should be able to demand he get a vasectomy no matter how he feels right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:48 PM
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500 a month. And you have no idea what life is like disabled - I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:47 PM
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Uh dads receive that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:40 PM
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“Men's Risks: Men are shying away from getting married because family law favors women in areas of spousal support, dividing marital assets, custody, and child support. It's much "easier" to just be engaged forever and pay child support if things don't work out vs. losing your house and car.” And this is why is I advise women to never give their boyfriends or husbands heirs absent an agreement ahead of time that secures her financial recompense out of the marriage assets should the marriage go s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:18 PM
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This is really interesting. My MIL has pet parrots. I’m not sure what kind, but the long living kind. She is devoted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:08 PM
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The stats show men tend to benefit more from marriage than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:06 PM
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Yes, you are quite weak. But I’m sure you sprang fully adult, mature, and perfect from your father’s forehead.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:03 PM
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Sounds like you STILL haven’t grown up since you continue to attack a woman over an error she made many moons ago (and rectified without too much hurt). But unlike you, I won’t assume that most men are petty vindictive children venting their spleen at anonymous women on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 02:01 PM
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Sounds like a great result
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:59 PM
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Funny, let me tell you what a friend of mine said to me unbidden yesterday, “like most good things in my life, it came to me through my wife.” I’ve been married twice. The first marriage was terrible. My second - still going strong after 17 years - has been sooo much better. We’d been married maybe two years when I had a lucid dream - I thought that I was still married to husband one and my life with my now husband had been a dream. The darkness that swelled over me at that moment is a testament…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:59 PM
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What is a high body count? Most z-gen aren’t having sex nearly as much
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:58 PM
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My daughter plays the violin WELL. You should see her fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:54 PM
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My daughter plays the violin WELL. You should see her fingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:54 PM
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If dancing with my friends is unacceptable in a relationship, I’d stay single. Glad my now husband doesn’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:50 PM
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I dance because I love dancing. I’ve never been picked up in a club.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:48 PM
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Lmao. No. God there weren’t even clubs in my old home town - except an old country bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:45 PM
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Both my now husband and I specifically agreed to go monogamous and get off the dating sites. That said, I think this question is about changing hobbies like - dancing. I LoVE dancing. I go out dancing because I love how it makes me feel. I also dance with my kids in the house, go to dance classes and sometimes just DANCE. Had my now husband insisted I stop going out with my friends to dance, it’d be a problem. Btw neither I nor any of my friends got picked up at the dance club. I also never stop…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:43 PM
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And men can ALSO safeguard his own interests. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:04 PM
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Why don’t you just change the law in that narrow exception
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:02 PM
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And they do. But it’s just like any debt. Gotta pay it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:01 PM
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No men don’t lose bodily autonomy. They can work whatever job they want. They often will get paid under the table to avoid it. They can not work or take a lower paying job and get their requirements reduced. That isn’t a loss of bodily autonomy anymore than working to pay for taxes or your car note is a violation of bodily autonomy. Just ridiculous. Maybe if you were enslaved to work off the debt, you’d have an argument. And women also must pay child support, so it isn’t misandrist. Jail time - …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:00 PM
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To me? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:48 PM
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Pretty sure the court would agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:45 PM
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Please think, some women are prolife, some women don’t realize that they are pregnant until after the deadline, some live in states where abortion is banned. Men should be sensible and ask questions before sticking their dick into women. For me? I would never sleep with a guy who wasn’t prochoice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 03:40 PM
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No to the latter. My husband was very cut from boxing when we first met. He packed on the weight. I stayed with him. I love him. He’s back to slimming down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:30 PM
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I’ve known people to fail the surgeries which is just shocking to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:27 PM
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That you equate money to bodily integrity/autonomy. It’s you who doesn’t understand. After birth women are also obligated to child support just as much as men. So? I guess we are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:03 PM
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Only for people who cannot understand the difference between bodies and money
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:58 PM
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“ Just admit you don't want men to have the same rights as women; we all know it is the case anyway; your wordplay does not fool anybody.” Do you understand how babies are made? They develop in the woman’s body. Her right to abort the pregnancy arises from her right to control her own body. Once out of her body, she too is financially responsible. If you are confused, I refer you to the Alien movie. During childbirth, a woman either has to be sliced wide open or suffers significant tears to deli…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:56 PM
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You think paying money = being a father. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:49 PM
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It’s a black humor name - like ankle biters
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:47 PM
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Love the European
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:46 PM
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Do you understand that the reason that women can have abortions is because of her rights to bodily integrity, not money?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:45 PM
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Women also have to pay child support
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:43 PM
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It always amazes me that men can’t distinguish between human bodies and money as if these are fungible. I now have type 2 diabetes due in part to gestational diabetes. No amount of money will replace my pancreas. I’d have gladly paid 500 bucks a month - the average child support award - or more for 18 years than what I have now. It makes me want to ask men - would you rather lose your hand or have to pay money. And if you lost your hand, would 500 a month replace it? It isn’t the least misandris…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:43 PM
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But women engage in far less casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:59 PM
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BINGO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:57 PM
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“ If you are a shy, reserved, yet friendly - men will think this is a wife material and try hard with their efforts.” Lol - try shy, reserved, friendly, and at least a seven.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:57 PM
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Damned straight
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:55 PM
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I agree with that last paragraph. “ If a man can't attract women, society jumps to unwarranted conclusions about his character. ” No. Bachelors are rarely criticized like spinsters or old maids. Just look at the connotation in the language.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 10:53 PM
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He’s referring to another poster
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:39 PM
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God those women are living rent free in your head. They are shitty women who took rejection badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:36 PM
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YES. Ugly women are treated like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:04 PM
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Here here dude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:03 PM
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So … none.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:00 PM
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YES. And they are hyped focused on a certain kind of girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:58 PM
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I actually disagree a little bit. I think what’s going on is that there is a difference in messaging due to a difference in Historical context. For years and I think I’m at the last of this generation that is happened, Women, success, and having a good life, depended, and entirely on the man she married. I mean, my mother was all over me about dressing in a way that men like, Pursuing certain activities so they could be done with men, getting myself specifically in front of high-quality men. I m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:35 PM
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I didn’t find it that way - “oh I love you even though this is going to be a one night stand?”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:10 AM
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I had trouble being a virgin. Virgin women have the reputation of going nuts and getting clingy to the first guy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:09 AM
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Men have control over virginity too for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:06 AM
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Men have control over it. What? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:05 AM
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You were smart to drop them. Bravo. Do you think women think all women make an effort? Do you think we don’t know there are users?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:58 AM
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Do you think foreplay lubes the dick? My ex did it without lube. It was terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:55 AM
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Agree with all of this. I will also point out that I think for women, they all tend to be a little more bisexual than men. Well, certainly there are bisexual men in general you either see straight up gay men or straight up Heterosexual Men. I myself am generally straight, but have dated and I’ve had sexual relations with women previously because I can swing that way too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:08 PM
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“Made lesbian.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:05 PM
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Oh lord. I had a friend in HS like that. She married the dude right out of HS and it was a train wreck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 06:04 PM

So “checklists” are a thing and have been for a very very long time. Way back when I was dating in the early days of online dating sites, both my brother and my now husband brought up concerns that women were dating based on a checklist, as if they were ordering a car. It’a like the earlier version of the 6,6,6. Bro was dating at the time as well and so we shared notes. My hub said to me that he was concerned that I was dating him because he met all my preset criteria, not for himself. I think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:56 PM
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(It was documented)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:54 PM
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High five
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:42 AM
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This is fucking gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:37 AM
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And they don’t talk about it - women don’t - they go and vote
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:34 AM
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She was the DA of San Fran and then the AG of California, the most populous state in the goddamned country. And then Senator. No lawyer - NONE - is coasting doing nothing. And she was E L E C T E D. Brown didn’t get that job for her. And she dismantled Trump on stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:34 AM
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The least likely to divorce are college educated women. So no “traditional marriages” aren’t the most successful
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:25 AM
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Because it demonstrates this dude is completely ignorant and never bothered to research the origin of feminism. He just watched some curated videos and is now spouting off to women as if we aren’t very aware of the issues
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:23 AM
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Yes because these posts are so patronizing and ignorant. If the poster - one goddamned moment - had researched the roots of the feminist movement and why women demanded to enter the work force, he’d know this. Instead he mainlined bullshit social media, ate it up, and now is telling women here how we are all ignorant and don’t understand what we are missing. P A T R O N I Z I N G
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:21 AM
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And I love it. Women do so much of the volunteering and backbone work of the church while being treated as second class citizens
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:13 AM
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Wait wait wait - so you want to PUSH all the media and narrative in a GOOD light, but Most can’t provide her PERSONAL experience with the Tradlife because it went badly. “ Idea is to let the women make a choice and share notes with each other.” But she IS “sharing her notes.” And it is the HEIGHT of stupidity to select an economic pathway without ANY investigation. Did you do that when picking out a career? I didn’t. Did you do that when researching houses? Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:10 AM
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Lmao. Those silly little brainwashed women- they need to just listen to what the menfolk say. Listen, our mothers told us the score.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:05 AM
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Weird, because I see ooodles of women here that SAY they want to work and specifically do NOT want to be a SAHM. So I don’t think women are hankering after all these conservative men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:03 AM
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My secret is I like detailing my husband’s car. Mine too. Relaxing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:57 AM
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“Nothing but a career.” How fucking dismissive. Does she tell you she’s just waiting it until she retires and dies??? I mean she’s done so much for so many kids, including yours, but you are so dismissive and derogatory, seeing no value in her life simply because she didn’t procreate. I really wonder if you even ask your male pediatricians about where they have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:50 AM
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Most tradwife influencers are rich. And they have a job - their social media crap. And when it goes wrong, it’s awesome /s https://msmagazine.com/2024/04/10/tradwife-feminist-divorce-women-home/ We had teadwifery. It sucked. That’s why women went to work outside the home
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:37 AM
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So good, we won’t hear any more whining about how women have it easier since they get sex. And we wont hear men bitching about how they can’t get subpar starfish sex. Pass that on to your bros
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:53 PM
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You all WAY over estimate how much nookie unattractive women get. And if unattractive girls were out there wanting sex, guys would be getting it. They aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:49 PM
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On your knees Macedonian!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:31 PM
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But does he do the same for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:27 PM
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Goddamned that’s some dusty old put downs, son. You are three years out of date
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:20 PM
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Goddamn you stud ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:12 PM
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I know quite a few women who out earn their husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:12 PM
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Lmao. But men who are told to make money aren’t materialistic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:10 PM
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“ Women's mindset seems to be more fear mongering.” It isn’t fear mongering when we saw it happen to our mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:09 PM
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Holy shit, we watched our mothers be victimized - unable to leave bad marriages because they had no money. WTF are you talking about! I’d give the same advice to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:07 PM
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An so a man being financially independent is just fine and it doesn’t mean that he isn’t fully committed to his family, But if a woman does the same, she isn’t committed to her family…. And it’s just an unexpected side effect that financial independence allows men more agency to leave a bad marriage while women who forego it are trapped. Do you all ever think things through? Or are you Polly Annas who believe nothing ever goes wrong in a marriage. Sorry I watched my mom struggle after divorce an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 07:06 PM
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Nice diversion - can’t answer the question can you - why we impose such different duties. You’ve now run to something entirely different - financial support. No, you gotta confront the actual question - why does the mother and ONLY the mother lose her bodily autonomy and must donate, but not the parents outside the body. Your argument is a tautology - “we don’t hold parents responsible because we don’t hold parents responsible.” Well for most of human history we didn’t insist that women had this…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:59 PM
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Lmao? That’s just an appeal to nature. Nature imposes no duties, only society. And for a long time parents had no duty of care to their fetuses or children - that’s why we have always had abortion and we committed infanticide. So the mere fact humans gestate imposes no duty. So it has to be a social duty. And donation is absolutely “ordinary” and “foreseeable. And blood donation is absolutely foreseeable - surgeries are quite common. It’s completely foreseeable that a child gets cancer and needs…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:40 PM
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I mean, he spews, bitterness, and self loathing nonstop here. He clearly despises himself and thus despises women? Unpleasant people are unpleasant. I was a shitty angry person for a long time. It really screwed my ability to be friends with people or attract mates. My dad is perpetually angry. So is my sister. And they don’t understand why people just don’t like being around them. He needs to talk to someone. He needs to get okay with himself. My ex is also a very broken man. Here is what I fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 09:22 PM
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Like OP
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:59 PM
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Are you saying that no court has ever ruled in favor of a good man?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:59 PM
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“Parents are already legally required to care for their born children, gestation is just another example of that but for unborn children.” Please advise one situation when the parents are forced to donate blood, marrow, platelets or body parts to their children? I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 06:12 PM
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Courtney Cox would disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:56 PM
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Broader access to well paying jobs without college degrees
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:55 PM
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Upvotes on all of this and I hope you are being kind to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:55 PM
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“ ...Where do you think concepts like "women and children first" come from if not for valuing women above men?” It’s generally bullshit. The British Navy has put it in action a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:46 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:43 PM
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I thought we were talking about love.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:42 PM
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“ Valued for being attractive is still love.” No that isn’t love. Sweet god
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:41 PM
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Isn’t it men who point out they’ll use anyone for sex but are selective for relationships. Are you now saying that men are desperate for relationships Seems whenever it’s convenient, men just change their argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:37 PM
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“Men should abandon their kids.” Courts step in and force child support. “Wahhhh, the courts are biased!” I see your job doesn’t require logic there Mr. Manly-Man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:34 PM
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“ A job that only men are hired for and reliable for.” Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:30 PM
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To quote, “ those who demand respect are the most unworthy of that respect.” You aren’t worthy of respect, then. And you didn’t build civilization. No one respects someone who demands it for work they didn’t even do. You’re just another trust fund kid squealing, “do you know who my daddy is!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:30 PM
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LMAO. Money is not bodily autonomy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:26 PM
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So it’s women’s jobs to make fathers step up? Men are whiny little children that must be parented? Seems like men should be treated as children and remain under the control of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:25 PM
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God I hope you haven’t had kids
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:23 PM
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Hey guys, when you all scream about how the courts are sooooo biased against men, remember this post and ask yourself how prevalent this view is among men, even subconsciously. Men should be able to just dump their kids on the woman. After all, if that woman isn’t fucking him and washing his socks, who the fuck cares about the kids. He can just spread his jizz elsewhere. All a do over. Oh and whine about child support. And I’m going to be honest, I’ve seen this play out way too much. Maybe it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:22 PM
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You support financial abortion - you can’t even handle the idea of being financially obligated to care for a kid, but you don’t understand why women value not giving up their health and bodies AND finances for a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:12 PM
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Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:07 PM
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So, it just so happens that those who want to ban abortion also share misogynistic beliefs? “ A Supermajority/PerryUndem survey released this week divides respondents by their position on abortion, and then tracks their answers to 10 questions on gender equality more generally. On every question, anti-abortion voters were significantly more hostile to gender equity than pro-choice voters.” And it’s been consistent over several studies. So I think we can say it’s at least correlated If not animat…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 04:04 PM
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But they aren’t necessarily if you are referring to women. Look when we pick a representative, we have to choose one that represents our most important values. For some they will consider lower taxes or a better economy more important than abortion. This is especially so when the voter isn’t at risk or does not appreciate the risk of abortion. A lot of young women haven’t run into their friend being pregnant and nearly dying due to preeclampsia as an example. Old women sometimes forget. With the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:55 PM
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I know a lot too. We all aren’t in a liberal bubble here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:49 PM
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“ No fault divorce bans would go both ways.” But the reason people are pushing it is because of how often WOMEN chose to leave. Look at the debate when ever it’s raised here - it is always coupled with the stat that women by majority are the ones filing for divorce. When no fault divorce was instituted, women’s suicide dropped.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:47 PM
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The murderer here is you pookie. A third pregnancy would have cost me my life and the fetus’s. But who gives a fuck about my kids or my husband right? As long as Old Desk can call women that he deeply deeply hates, like the misogynist he is, “murder mommy.” Here is the thing - that self righteous thrill you are getting right now? That flush of righteous anger that gusses your floppy dick? God sees it. God knows what is in your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:42 PM
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So I had my last kid 14 years ago. I’ve just hit perimenopause. Do you think I’d still be married if I’d said to my husband, no sex for 14 years, dear? And again, it isn’t that I wouldn’t want a third kid, but that a third pregnancy would have posed a severe health risk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:37 PM
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Liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:33 PM
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Ah yes, op, here is your misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:32 PM
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Oh yes, doctors who have devoted their entire careers to the practice obstetrics are ignorant, not the buffoons without medical degrees who passed the law. Tell me, you’re having a heart attack. Are you going to the cardiologist or the state legislator for treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:31 PM
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“But rare.” Why do you think so many others think this is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:28 PM
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And all you are demonstrating is that you’ve never been in a LTR and definitely don’t have children. You don’t know who is having abortion or why it happens. You don’t understand the difficulties of obtaining or maintaining long term effective bc. Note condoms aren’t that effective. I bet you don’t even realize that women can get pregnant even if the man doesn’t ejaculate inside them. I bet you’ve never heard of reproductive coercion And as a SOCIETAL policy, expecting everyone to stay abstinent…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:27 PM
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“ It’s why I’m gonna vote third party instead of the democrats.” Somebody was mean to me online so I’m going to vote third party? That baby is the definition of feelings over facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:20 PM
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I cited above quite a few
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:18 PM
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Studies and surveys show the prolife movement is animated by hostile sexism. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11199-024-01467-0 https://amp.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/aug/22/a-new-poll-shows-what-really-interests-pro-lifers-controlling-women https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/politics-and-gender/article/hostile-sexism-and-abortion-attitudes-in-contemporary-american-public-opinion/2D1648FC0F7157B9AA7CF053C34AA003 https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/politics-and-religion…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:17 PM
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I live in a PL state. We know
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:10 PM
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Right there with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:10 PM
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They are generally the same group trying to strip BC and also no fault divorce. If you control a woman’s fertility, you control the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:09 PM
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You are the moron who said men love “unconditionally.” Just admit you don’t know what the word means.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:07 PM
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Ah so the bullshit ravings of Bronze Age sheep herders
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:03 PM
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“ He will love her forever & unconditionally.” Hahahaha. Snoorrrk… HAHahah. Watch how fast they move on when there is a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:48 PM
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So men are unworthy of respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:46 PM
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“ Also if woman leaves her husband, she is assured that her ex will give his support to her children equal to possible new chidlren he has with his new wife. So he is made to reward children of his ex wife at the cost of children of his new wife. So he has to reward woman who left, otherwise people will call him a bad person.” in sum, your opinion is that the children should be punished for the sins of the mother? Wow, way to continue on with the stereotype that men are selfish shitty fathers wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:45 PM
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I’ll point out that in the professional world, men aren’t expected to be leaders per se. So sure some men and/or women rise to the level of running the business but usually men are leading in some capacity AND are also followers - ie middle management.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:36 PM
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Only if you haven’t read any of the responses
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:28 PM
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Male and female roles are equally important but conveniently the feminine is supposed to follow the masculine…. But they’re equal. Like I’m equal to my boss. Lmao. Nah dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:28 PM
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I live in suburbia too. I mow because I enjoy it, but my husband usually wants to do it, though so I let him. With our old neighbors, the woman always mowed. She found it very zen. Around here, most people have lawn care services - neither the men nor the women are doing it. Or people are out on riding lawn mowers. I used to shovel snow for my mom. No husband to do it. We don’t really get snow where I now live. And most women are working FULL time. “ drives her 3 hours through traffic because sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:26 PM
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Throw that bomb, girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:10 PM
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It is not entirely preventable. I know women who have tubal ligations fail. Are you saying married couples should stop all PIv sex? Boy, deadbedrooms is going to be hot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:09 PM
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“ Also I’m pro choice, but it’s near the bottom of my list of things I care about in this election which is entirely at odds with the party I have been voting for since in came of age.” Because you’re a mutherfukking man and clearly don’t have kids. Let me spell it out to you. I used protection. My fiance still managed to knock me up. It was fine. We were getting married anyway, although I lost the pregnancy. I then had two kids - both pregnancies resulted in pre-ecclampsia, a life threatening c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:07 PM
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I’m sure you won’t run crying to the dead bedrooms Reddit when your wife says, no more sex because I don’t want any more babies!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 02:01 PM
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The ability to determine when and how to have children is so exceedingly important to a woman’s long term financial stability that your comment only demonstrates your lack of understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:59 PM
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God - do yoh all refuse to understand how much higher the risks are to women from sex???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:51 PM
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Oh really? Because I’ve sure heard plenty of guys joke about vags as big as a bus or call it a clown car.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:45 PM
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He isn’t 6 feet and he pointed out that a lot of women don’t necessarily like a dick bigger than 6
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:44 PM
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Big dicks can be seriously uncomfortable. It really needs to match the equipment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:43 PM
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Because 6-6-6 isn’t a standard that the majority of women enforce. Men shorter than 6 feet and making less than 6 figures get married all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:41 PM
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Lol - well if we are using insults…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:39 PM
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And HEIGHT is also a “nice to have” but not REQUIRED either. I know many a woman that PREFERS taller men but only one woman who said it was a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:38 PM
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Money? Lmao, you can change that. And as far as weight - why don’t you look at the success rates for men and women losing weight before the new set of weightloss meds?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:35 PM
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I said six figure, pookie. You should learn to read. 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 03:37 AM
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You are dead on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:55 PM
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The chase was always exciting to me, too. And yup
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:55 PM
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What do you think sex is mostly about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 11:54 PM
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And if Betabux has to Betabux, he’s been passed over by a ton of women. Sounds like they are equally yoked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:13 PM
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Most men. I only know of a few getting married right out of college even. But hey a lot of Mormons do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:11 PM
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No. But guys here sure are here. That’s the point - I was the female version of the BB. I was the so called betabux for women. I’m good looking above average but totally not the trashy type. I’m wasn’t what the guys wanted in my early twenties. Boy howdy did that change when the guys started looking to settle down. I’m not even close to as good looking as the GF my first husband had before me - I went to school with her and she was really a beautiful girl. Just a bit of trash. So? It was me that…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 07:10 PM
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It’s that what you say to women who are lied to and pumped and dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:57 PM
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“ All we are asking for is consistency” So you want the be the dick like her first partner and left as a consequence? Because that’s the consistency you are demanding
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:51 PM
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Are women NPCs or are they people with feelings? If you love someone why would you hurt them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:50 PM
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LMAO. And I told him long before we married. IF he hated it, he could sashay out the door. But I want a man that respects ME and MY pleasure during sex and wouldn’t pressure me into sex I didn’t like. What kind of person enjoys fucking while knowing his woman - the person he loves - is in emotional pain because if it? I know what kind of person - I was married to it - and within six months of being treated as if my feelings didn’t matter, I was out the door and my first husband was crying for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:47 PM
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Gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:40 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:16 PM
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“… to follow and defer to his judgement in certain circumstances.” This is a normal give and take relationship, right? I am not submissive. I absolutely defer to my husband’s judgment (not blindly) in certain areas. He is far stronger than I am on long term investment strategies as an example. But he also defers to me on certain areas. I’m honestly curious. It’s not a model I think would work for me, but different strokes/folks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:15 PM
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I’m copying this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:09 PM
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But those terms don’t meet the definition of submissiveness. “ ready to conform to the authority or will of others; meekly obedient or passive. "a submissive, almost sheeplike people" Saith Oxford Languages. I’m not arguing with your view of what men want or mean. It’s more a question of whether they’re being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:09 PM
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Hehehe - PPD in a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:04 PM
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I upvote because I agree with your view on submissive in the bedroom girls. Guys who are captains of industry can really enjoy a dominatrix in the same situation. But what OP is talking about is the man who will say they want a submissive woman to marry, who is submissive all the time not just in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:00 PM
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“ on men to act first” Welcome to being a leader! Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:09 PM
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“ When you are receptive, yielding, agreeable, poised, soft, and compassionate, that’s what submissive is.” The only word in there that could be read as “submissive” is yielding. Really I wonder about you all. Why are you so desperate to re define the word?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:07 PM
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Weird - why are you required to be submissive to get a man who looks after you, but he doesn’t need to be submissive to have a wife that looks after him. “ Your getting someone you can rely on. If you have kids they are getting a father they can rely on.” So rhe only way a man will be a decent father to his own children is if his wife is submissive to him? I’m sorry you think you are earning a good man here?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:05 PM
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It’s just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:02 PM
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You know, you can have a competent and intelligent man - I do - and not hand over the reins of your own independence. Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:01 PM
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Why the fuck would I want a man to guide me? And if I’m working, I’m contributing too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:00 PM
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And we now have hope because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:56 PM
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This is what we do in my marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:54 PM
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THANK YOU. My husband and I both have forceful personalities. We neither are subsmissive. We work cooperatively. There are some areas where I give him free rein (so good at investments) and he gives me free rein. Im very good at running the household budget, picking cars/houses/locations to suit our lifestyle and desires. So he leads and I lead. And where we clash, we discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:52 PM
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Are you going to follow her lead?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:49 PM
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“ for a woman to trust his leadership and guidance.” That isn’t much better, muchacho. I respect my husband’s opinion and his decision making. But he also respects mine. I don’t “let him lead.” I don’t need a boss .
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:49 PM
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To all the guys saying “well at least the woman gets sex.” Women DO NOT look at sex the same way as men. It is not validating to have a person who would fuck anything fuck you. Unless you think fucking a prostitute is validating? But there is a fuck ton of guys who say it isn’t. You think it’s better to be with someone who destroys your self esteem than to be alone, you’ve got problems. You CAN’T say “men will fuck anything” and then complain when women tell you that sex with men isn’t some priv…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:46 PM
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Yup! I had that happen to me too. Luckily I never fell for it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:36 PM
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And then men whine when the girlfriend can’t carry her own weight
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:33 PM
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Men say “men will fuck anything. They will fuck you even if they hate you. They’re desperate.” Men say, “wait why don’t you see being fucked as a privilege!” No more self awareness than a dog licking his own asshole - SK
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:29 PM
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“ For the vast majority of (men), all they need to do is be (rich) and boom, they’re attractive. (Salary) is something you can control.” So just get rich. And, note, it was a lot easier for me to land a 6 figure salary than keep my weight down. There is a reason why most MEN and women are fat in the same percentage and diet fails 95% of the time. So just get rich dude
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:26 PM
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Nah you didn’t get it. Just lose weight you say to women? Well then men just make more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:23 PM
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Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:22 PM
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They don’t. And the number is dropping: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/2378023121996854#:~:text=The%20decline%20in%20casual%20sex%20is%20apparent%20for%20both%20women,to%2024%20percent%20in%202017.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:22 PM
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And every time you take a drink it poisons you. Because as men love to tell women here, women having casual sex are whores and sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:20 PM
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“ sex is both pleasurable and validating.” Hahaha omg - way to prove you have never ever listened to women EVER. Sex is often not validating at all for women. To the contrary, society calls her a whore for having it. MEN call her a whore. They are doing this right now on a separate thread a PPD. And if you know that a man who thinks you are ugly and doesn’t even like you will still stick their dick in? Wow! A dude can close his eyes and use me as sentinent flesh light - that makes me feel so val…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:16 PM
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Because women don’t shame them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:09 PM
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“ They don’t think that all they were was a live masturbation device . Which is what they were. Chad has zero feelings for them.” MOST Women really aren’t that stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:04 PM
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Less high count men, the more stable the relationships. Tell men to keep it zipped up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:02 PM
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“ So yes she is more privileged than the man.” Smh. Being pumped and dumped and called a whore it isn’t a privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 04:01 PM
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If you have a mid fat girl or a very hit girl asking you for a date, which one are you willing to risk it on?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:59 PM
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An excuse? That would require women to be acting badly. Turning you down for dates is not something a woman needs an excuse for. She has no reason to apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:57 PM
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Lmao. “Those sluts, letting themselves get pumped and dumped - no man wants to wife a promiscuous woman!” And now, “hey what do you mean I’m the baddy for hanging around implying I want a ltr when I just want to be a pump and dump like Chad?” And then. “Why won’t ordinary girls give me the time of day?” No more self awareness than a dog licking his own asshole. Look maybe you are one of those upfront only interested in casual and don’t slut shame women, but there is another active thread right n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:56 PM
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YES.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:50 PM
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This is what I did. I was a virgin for my first serious boyfriend who I later married. It was a disaster. I’d always been high libido. It was such a relief to not have to worry as a divorcee over whether someone would consider me a slut for having sex too soon - I wasn’t a virgin. I just did what I wanted to do when I did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:47 PM
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Lmao - you think men abandon those standards? The only girl I knew who had a hard standard of over six feet was 5-8 herself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:44 PM
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Feminists never made this promise
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:41 PM
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“ good enough to try a relationship with” After three dates? No. No one is ready for a commitment after 3 dates. You people are nuts. What happens is that they date for a couple of months, it doesn’t work out. They move on to different people. But do that over a couple of years - and the numbers go up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:39 PM
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I was ignored as a virgin. Guys don’t want virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:37 PM
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Lmao - I got commitment from guys I wanted. The only reason my n wasn’t higher is that I was snatched off the market fast
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:36 PM
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Lmao. Yah no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:35 PM
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And men have the same attitude - it’s called the broken bird or white knight syndrome. My bro has it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:35 PM
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When I wasn’t wifed up, I was promiscuous. Not awful. I didn’t do ONS. Got my Prince Charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:26 PM
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Sure, whatever. Like all men, a hypocrite to the core: “I won’t date a girl who won’t put out by date three” but “I don’t want a promiscuous girl.” Even better “I married a girl that wouldn’t have sex until the wedding night and now I’m in a dead bedroom!” I’m so glad I didn’t worry about what “men” want and did as I felt comfortable when dating. Jump in bed right away? Sure. Wait a few dates. Sure. And I married my Prince Charming
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:24 PM
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Dead on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:21 PM
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You are insane: no one is talking about fat girls but you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:21 PM
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Oh well. Women don’t labor under the misapprehension that men are often sluts and if they are easy for you, they are for everyone. You should also recognize that if a woman sleeps with you quickly she probably does other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:20 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:18 PM
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“ They mean super unattractive women while we are talking about 6s & up.” So you are mad that women are like you - will fuck the hot guys and leave the mid in the dust. So sad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:17 PM
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Nah. It’s simple for a lot of guys here: all women should want to fuck him immediately as a Chad, but not fuck anyone else. But girls that indulge in ONS or quick set are generally like that with all guys they are interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:16 PM
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Uh, it isn’t the chicks complaining. It’s the guys
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:13 PM
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Yes. Women want that - and that’s called having high standards. Fuck the hot ones. Leave the ugly ones for the street. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:12 PM
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Wishing you healing from that train wreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:02 AM
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“ Women never question themselves on the matters of their partners finding them attractive or not. Society tells them they are desirable since they hit puberty.” Hahahaha snork lolol omg are you KIDDING ME? Tell me you never see the wallflowers, mousy girls, or far girls. My god. I have to work hard to keep the self esteem up on my two daughters because they think they have weird noses or their skin is terrible. Women abuse their bodies suffer bulemmia etc because of all the pressure to maintain…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:24 PM
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“ Or why would she not have a threesome with him when she did with another guy before? This discrepancy is the issue, not insecurity.” I hate this reasoning. My first husband pressured me into threesomes and a lot of sex I didn’t like. It was one of the final nails in the coffin. If my now husband said I didn’t love him because I won’t do threesomes there will be hell to pay
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:11 PM
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“ On the other hand, with women it's seen as perfectly acceptable to be with a man they barely care about because it's a good idea on paper.” Women don’t look fondly on gold diggers?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:07 PM
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Sex is down among the younger generations
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:03 PM
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“ There is zero benefit, or even a net loss in being a husband.” married men make more money married men live longer -married men are on average more happy -divorced men usually get remarried more quickly. If being a husband is a net negative, in what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 10:01 PM
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100% agreed to the Red Pill Ripper.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:59 PM
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But for it to be called a ball and chain, men had to have thought about it that way all ready
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:58 PM
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“ . "Nah bruh, just be happy alone". Wonder how often women get this advice...oh wait.” all the fucking time. It is the go to advice after a woman has a line of terrible boyfriends. “ Didn't amber heard open her mouth and Johnny Depp lose nearly everything including his role I'm Fantastic Beasts all the while Amber kept her role in Aquaman all the while he had to go to a court in order to prove his innocence?” Before the US case there is this: https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-61673676.am…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:50 PM
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“ Therapy for a man who is ugly, too short, having a small penis which have contributed to those things fucking up his chance at a love life is in fact completely useless.” You are really wrong about this. Stoicism could really help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:46 PM
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That’s pretty awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:44 PM
1

White papers are bullshit. Give me studies. Black boys are treated terribly. https://insights.som.yale.edu/insights/black-boys-face-double-jeopardy-at-school#:~:text=Teachers%20tend%20to%20blame%20Black,to%20have%20more%20punitive%20cultures. However, boya also just show more conduct disorder than girls https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3082278/ On the other hand they also receive more punishment. https://www.seattletimes.com/education-lab/same-behavior-problems-hinder-boys-more-than-girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:40 PM
6

Yet so many men are denying it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:25 PM
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“ distrustful of most things women are attracted to…” Just wow. That’s sad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:24 PM
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Oodles of guys say this - just look for one more of the “age gap shouldn’t be shamed” posts and look for a freaking litany of men saying that they want to date 20 year olds to avoid baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:23 PM
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You are a lot younger than I thought. You are wild
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:22 PM
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Isn’t that what eharmoney or chemistry does?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:19 PM
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Right? You described marriage one for me. People would probably call my first husband a chad - at least when I met him - he’s 6/2 and was lithe. Blue eyes blond hair and beach boy golden tan. Graduating from business school at a top state U. And a bit of an ass. He was the only one I had ever been with. A chad but he wanted to marry me? Does that make me a Stacy (fuck no). It ended bad. I grew up. He fell to pieces after I left: I remarried and am very happy. My husband now is shorter. Is he a B…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:16 PM
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I haven’t asked my now husband what he spent on women before me. But if you want an interesting sociological study, look at the adultery or other woman subs. Those women get the dick but they want the wife’s position. They want the husband at home, investing into them and their marriage, and their kids. So maybe my husband sent roses every day to some past girlfriend, but he put the fat diamond on my finger, he invested in my house and my happiness. He may have a one night stand somewhere else (…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:10 PM
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Thanks for this. And good on you for your success in MMA. One tries not to stereotype but those very heavily involved in IT often have por communication and interpersonal skills. They just don’t practice it and they often don’t value it. You see why it is so so important. My husband had climbed the IT ladder specifically because of his soft skills on top of his hard skills as a mathematician.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:02 PM
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But the data do not support your view for the vast majority of marriages. Most men aren’t raising other men’s kids unknowingly. I mean our fertility rate per woman is less than 2 anyway. I’ve seen that the best estimates of paternity fraud is like tops 3%. So 97% are his kids. Most men have a better more regular sex life in marriage. I’ve read deadbedrooms - it’s not a statistical sampling and plenty of women are there too. Men seem to report that the woman was always a cold fish OR she was red …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:27 PM
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You can’t find a girl who doesn’t like to swing dance? Shit. I’d slay on the current dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:21 PM
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Yes. Men do. Oh you think only women are PC - lmao .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:18 PM
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I’ve seen your posts - you clearly have little experience and no idea of what women “used” to be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:18 PM
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What happened? And I’m sorry for whatever it was
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:15 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:12 PM
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My hub and I met through Match. He looked at the first profiles that popped up at the time - I mean the newest ladies - and also their height requirements. He approached me within a few days because I set mine to… I think 5/5 or 5/6 and said my best feature was my ass. He said that fat girls would say their boobs or their eyes. Lmao. Sorry, like you care. I’m glad you’ve got a great girl. I think my hub was glad to get off the apps too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:12 PM
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This is such a smart comment and smart view
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:05 PM
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“ Men try to fuck their way up to marriage. They marry their best option.” Gee so they just keep jumping around until they find their best option? And women aren’t also looking for their best option? You think a 22 year old guy is interested in stopping the search for his best option? Hell no, there is a name for it - starter wife or starter girlfriend. They’ll say sure I have this but I’m 23, too young to marry, I’ll keep dating around. And then those guys run into the same problem women do - t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:01 PM
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Yup. All the time. And he’ll whine that the best one got away and all that’s left are the rejects post 30. How do men KNOW that they have the best option? By dating around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:51 PM
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The stats show that Gen z - men and women - are having less sex than generations before. So no I don’t think women are out there riding the cock carousel more than in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:48 PM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:39 PM
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Yes, it does. That’s why I cited it. Perhaps you should keep reading: Our results are in line with Doepke and Tertilt (2019), who provide evidence that female empowerment increases investments in human capital but decreases capital accumulation. The authors also emphasize that the impact of female empowerment on long-run economic growth is contingent on the economy’s productive structure. While a reduction in savings might be harmful for economies heavily dependent on physical capital, the oppos…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:36 PM

It’s a biological clock. My bro got very anxious in his mid to late thirties wanting to have a kid. He had one at 45/46. He then had a heart attack at 55. Its led him to have early retirement to spend a lot of time with his kids. You think being a dad is just cumming and it shows. And it’s really sad. The kid needs to be raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:29 PM
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This is so laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:25 PM
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Yes men are famous for long term thought. That’s why insurance rates are higher for men. Another view on the saving aspect of women. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0305750X20304691 My dad could pinch a penny. It also meant I didn’t get to the doctor very often. He also made my sister live in a bomb shelter and develop life long respiratory issues because he refused to look for a house big enough for us all or add to the house. And yes he had the money. My mom invested mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:24 PM

You think popularity is superficial - LMAO what an autistic take. Popularity is one part good looks and one part skills. I’m thinking of one of the most popular kids I knew in HS. He was short, gay, and an amazing soccer player. Good looking but not amazing. He was funny as hell, very social, so helpful, and he knew how to get on with people and be a pleasure to be around. Women too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:12 PM
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Piv and missionary
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:09 PM
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So the guys habit the most sex (in marriages) and the ones having the kids are getting the bad deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:08 PM
1

But women don’t usually have babies with Chad and expect Beta to raise it. It’s beta having the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 02:05 PM
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Like dude - many MEN aren’t interested in LTRs in their early 20s. I was mostly ignored until my late 20s and then got a slew of dates with early thirties men who were ready to settle down after none serious dating and building a career. You all act like all these men - even the beta bucks - wanted to marry Susie Homemaker at 22. No. They think they did because they got no play. But if they had play they didn’t. The one thing that I really agree with red pill is this idea of having an abundance …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:17 PM
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Look - I get you and I have compassion for you. I was pretty mid until I glowed up a bit in my 20s. It’s hard to be the less attractive one. I saw girls get songs and romance and I saw the really pretty girls have men willing to do anything to get them. I get you too. You saw the Chads get all the girls. But we realize that we aren’t the very best looking but we are the very best all around person for someone else beyond just raw sex appeal. And for the long term, that is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:18 PM
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That’s a you problem then
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:06 PM
1

If that’s what you think it means to be “grown up traits.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:06 PM
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It’s a guaranteed way to make yourself miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:02 PM
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Sounds seriously immature. Here is the deal - very few people marry the first person they seriously dated because we don’t always know what makes a good partner - and that goes for men and women, too. My parents (in their 80s) didn’t. My grandparents (all born turn of the century) didn’t. In fact people who marry really young have less stable marriages. I married the first man I was with and early, at 22. It was a disaster. Afterwards, I dated a bit, met my now husband and we snatched each other…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:02 PM
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I am a liberal woman. So’s my mom. She told me to stay away from bad boys. Jesus we’d tell our friends to watch out about that guy - that he whores around. There was a whisper network at the U to avoid certain fraternities. Wanna example? “Are we dating the same man” websites. You guys rag each other? Don’t fuck that crazy ho? We set up fucking Internet websites to warn each other off bad dudes. Ps - sleeping around doesn’t mean a woman is sleeping bad guys. Your bias is showing. And you don’t k…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:23 AM
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“ Men sacifice themselves for their family. Women sacifice their family for themselves". This is utter bs. Women give birth to the kids. That is a massive sacrifice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:10 AM
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The five love languages are bullshit yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:08 AM
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I feel you. I painted stupid little clay hearts for my husband and kids at one of those pottery places. Imagine my surprise when I found my husband kept the heart on his laptop. I was surprised how much he appreciated it. He’s such a stoic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:05 AM
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Sorry man. Those - even coin collecting - are all my hobbies. It’s weird you couldn’t find a girl interested
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 05:01 AM
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Because women are willing to have kids with the relationship partner
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:58 AM
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Like - yes this is life. My first husband’s girlfriend was a HOT piece of trailer park trash. But he wanted to marry me because I had so much more to offer than just sex. My second (now) husband hung out with strippers. Lot hotter trashier etc. he put the ring on me. Because I am the good mother and life long companion. Men always sow their oats if they can. All through their early twenties. Most aren’t interested in serious commitment until 30 and then they date different. Now they’re just piss…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:53 AM
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Life isn’t fair. I wasn’t the woman anyone sent 12 dozen roses or recited poetry to either. Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:46 AM
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You just put your finger on the imbalance. The truth is a woman bring willing to have kids with a guy is a huge investment in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:39 AM
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Your best chance is with an educated women. https://divorce-education.com/divorce-rate-by-education-level/ 25% divorce rate with a bachelors
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:38 AM
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You want to be the last. You get that? She married you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:34 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:33 AM
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Hehehe, I know where this is going - as a woman boy do I know how much we hate our bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:21 AM
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I actually agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:17 AM
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Cope
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:11 AM
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The point is that Harley Quinn topped the list
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:11 AM
3

The Maquis de Sade is still published.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:08 AM
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Sorry for your buddy there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:05 AM
1

And we women tell women to watch out for the bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:03 AM
0

“ and that men are simple creatures who couldn't dissemble on such matters even if they wanted to?” Lol. No way in hell or high water that you made it through school believing this? Or you have no idea what the Dark triad means.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 12:00 AM
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So men are attracted to broken abused women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:42 PM
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Bad boy types who are good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:23 PM
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Women aren’t taught how to treat men??? Lawd my mom and teen vogue and cosmo sure hammered it into me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:21 PM
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Oh hell yeah. I know a little blonde like that - hot and slender and good looking and fucking NUTS. As in abusive but apparently hot in bed too. And had a line of men out the door. She’s on husband number three or four. And then my FIL got entangled with a woman. Good looking, slender, druggie with one POS kid (and one gem of a kid). In and out of jail all the time for shop lifting. And she had a line of men right out the door. We had to do some investigation on her. The number of fucked over me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:17 PM
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Bingo -
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:10 PM
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I found Fifty Shades revolting and many women did. I would joke with friends of mine that Fifty Shades in a trailer park is a regular Saturday DV call. But f-k wasn’t there a flock of middle aged biddies at my office all into that. Gods they would just hang out at the lunch table and cackle over it. You can see my lack of respect. I’ve done BDSM. That ain’t BDSM. There is a whole set of media that preaches really unhealthy views on relationships and it does warp us. Belle never should have falle…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 10:03 PM
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What a joke - thinking the world “manifests” for women. I worked my ass off for my life. No one “gave” it to me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:31 PM
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I wouldn’t date a giggalo. I don’t buy that women tell you you should date a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 08:09 PM
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