Shoesandhose Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	What makes women attracted to men? It does! Pretty much the exact same as you feel. Just for dudes	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 11:39 PM
7	What makes women attracted to men? Alrighty so you’re describing sexual orientation. Why? Because they are attracted to them. Plain and simple. No need to overthink it. No need to make it a big deal. Most women I know are attracted to different qualities. Some of my friends like tall lanky nerdy dudes. Others care about a dude that makes them feel safe and makes them laugh. Some just want to be around a muscle head who is pretty to look at. Tons of reasons. As far as value. Companionship. That’s what relationships are about as a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/23 10:05 PM
4	CMV: Men today have a massive victim mentality, and it is holding them back from finding success. I think it’s just challenging to engage in this because the men in my family are not like this. They aren’t victims. They are truly good men. Who respect the women we have in our family. Like I don’t see much misogyny in my family. I think many men and women have victim mentality right now due to where the world is at socially. Socially I’ve met many “victims” men and women	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 05:47 PM
–	Self Improvement, what's the point? For your mental health. Seriously. I don’t recommend the gym. It’s so frickin boring. I recommend a new physical hobby. Like rock climbing! Or frisbee golf. Just something that gets you social and out of your daily routine. It’s super good for my mental health. Like super good. I think too many people make things about finding a partner or hooking up. Getting out of the house to do something that isn’t work is just plain good for you. I think a relationship can be an added benefit and bonus of t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/23 03:27 AM
2	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. Omg. This is gold. I love the absolute fantasy world you have goin on Lolol. Have fun bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 04:58 AM
2	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. Hahahaha dude I can’t even with you. What a fuckin clown	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 04:54 AM
2	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. Hahaha fuck that made me lol. omg you’re definitely a teenager or something that’s fucking hilarious. Did the group of tenants around your apartment all clap too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 04:53 AM
2	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. Have fun with a mail order bride lol cause that’s the only way you’re going to get any with these views	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 04:47 AM
1	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. Lol I’m sure it’s just one. Pedantic overthinking clown indeed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 04:44 AM
2	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. I’m not actually. I’m pointing out that you’re clearly obsessed and not a good man lol. And no it’s not all men. Because I actually have hobbies and friends. Who are men. Who also have healthy hobbies. Tell me how much is wrong here: You’re overweight or well on your way. Your main “hobby” is video games. You haven’t worked out in god knows how long. You mainly watch porn. You haven’t had any super close relationships. Or if you did it was pretty toxic. You think you’re super intelligent and jus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 04:36 AM
2	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. You can’t even answer that question because the answer is sad isn’t it? That’s the point dude. You’re obsessing over sex because you literally don’t have anything better to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 04:31 AM
2	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. Nope. That’s just not true. How many friends do you have?? Do you have hobbies? It doesn’t seem like it lol. Sad little teenager. Or adults who act like it. It’s a shame therapy and medication could help you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 04:27 AM
2	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. Right. That doesn’t excuse your shitty ass comments lol. You’re not a man. You’re a child and a clown. And when you find yourself beyond lonely, or still unhappy with a woman. Just remember this gal online literally told you so lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 04:13 AM
2	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. No. That’s not how decent good men think. That’s how small men who can’t improve themselves and make excuses think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 02:40 AM
2	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. Jesus Christ there is so much to unpack here I can’t. Get a therapist and toss this comment at em	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 02:30 AM
3	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. The first comment said “I love how you see women as: • ⁠can’t fuck them • ⁠want to fuck them • ⁠don’t want to fuck them • ⁠old. “ You then responded with “Mostly correct” And then went on to clarify that lol. You did that all on your own dude	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 01:56 AM
2	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. No. I’m treating viewing women as just something to have sex with as misogynistic. What I think would be healthy to do in your case is have actual standards. Like “Is she nice? Is she funny? Do I like being around her? Does she have red flags?” And I’d recommend women do the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 01:49 AM
2	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. Exactly. You’re getting it now! Women don’t want to fuck someone who doesn’t make them feel safe. They don’t want to fuck someone that they can’t trust. These are called standards. And that’s something everyone should have for themselves and others in their lives. Especially people they decide to be intimate with	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 01:21 AM
1	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. And you can’t read apparently lol. He even confirmed he views women as something to fuck. Which was my point to you! Wow. You were so close yet so far. And you can’t even address the point. Which based on your history and your lack of saying “No I don’t view women that way” Is your truth too. I’m done wasting my time here. Get help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 01:18 AM
6	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. No. No they don’t. Trust me. my friends are in relationships with dudes who I think are not super handsome . And they definitely don’t have money. Most women date men they view as safe. And men that won’t physically hurt them. Or be weird and off about things. Do you have friends who are women? Edit: fixed phrasing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 01:14 AM
2	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. I did. If you read the above comments. And the comment this was all based on :). But based on your history your mostly a troll. On this subreddit. Look. Get some help. Find some other subs to participate in. And good luck in your life viewing women the way you do. If you find someone who puts up with these viewpoints it’s still going to end in misery until you find a healthier way to view women. May you find peace.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 01:11 AM
3	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. What? When did I say that? Way to admit how you see women bud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 01:06 AM
13	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. It literally means nothing when someone doesn’t value women as people and values them as something to fuck like a teenager. If it’s valid to you, then you also have a problem my dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 12:50 AM
9	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. Viewing women as a whole of just “do I want to fuck them” reads super well. Like a teenage boy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 12:41 AM
20	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. This reads like someone who hasn’t been in many meaningful relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 12:30 AM
1	"Life stages" in women exist, but they're not what those opposing age-gap relationships think they are. I think you’re overthinking women. How about “that’s a child so thinking about this in terms of consent is gross” And after that someone is in whatever stage of life they are in. It’s pretty gross to think about things in terms of “do I want to fuck them”. I recommend therapy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/23 12:27 AM
1	Women should admit it is kind of a privilege that they essentially control the couple's social life I unfortunately agree :(	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/06/23 04:01 AM
7	Women should admit it is kind of a privilege that they essentially control the couple's social life I mean addressing the “friends choosing sides” if the relationship is healthy then they should both have their own friends. Friends they go do things with that doesn’t involve the other person. And friends they see together. But the man should also have his own friends. As well as the lady. Edit: also having your own friends and going out to do fun shit is a huge relationship tip. My therapist calls it “miss you time”. You get to miss the other person and come back and share all the fun shit you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 04:31 PM
26	Women should admit it is kind of a privilege that they essentially control the couple's social life Ahh yes. The privilege of getting myself therapy and making sure I’m in a happy relationship where we both contribute equally lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 03:42 PM
38	Women should admit it is kind of a privilege that they essentially control the couple's social life Correct. But in healthy straight relationships, no woman has to have the ‘privilege’ of controlling everything. In a healthy relationship, both parties have their own hobbies and usually even their own bank accounts. And both contribute to the relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 02:15 PM
87	Women should admit it is kind of a privilege that they essentially control the couple's social life In healthy relationships this doesn’t happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 02:13 PM
2	Women are valued for what they do You have the best point here. What’s also of note here is it’s who you’re around. For men and women. If you’re surrounding yourself with people who only care about looks… that’s on you buddy. If you’re surrounding yourself with people who don’t care about your hobbies, that’s also, on you. I have dude friends who got into their girlfriends hobbies! Like. Maybe in the 70s-90s. But these days I’m finding couples interested in each others hobbies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/23 05:22 PM
18	what's the deal with "nice guy" stereotype and why there isn't an equivalent term for women? Well. Traditionally men are taught they have to be tough guys. Tough guys don’t cry or feel anything. They are stoic. (According to that mindset) “Don’t be such a girl” for instance. Women are taught we are emotional and dramatic. An interesting thing though, ‘boys will be boys’ concept allows men to act out, where women are taught to mind their manners. Which feels..hmm.. opposite of what we are taught emotionally - you’d think if girls are emotional they would be the ones with a ‘girls will be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 01:44 AM
–	According to recent studies the majority of men are single but also a big majority of them were "getting some" during last year. Is this possible? I mean getting laid does not mean you aren’t single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/23 12:12 AM
–	People who say "Sex isn't a need" don't know how it is to be the average man This!! Exactly. I see too many people who don’t understand this. Especially in this Sub. Intimacy takes work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 05:45 PM
–	People who say "Sex isn't a need" don't know how it is to be the average man Please do	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 04:35 PM
–	People who say "Sex isn't a need" don't know how it is to be the average man Dating app data is not the best factor in “are men getting laid”. Many people are not utilizing it because it’s a cesspool. In fact there is a huge push to put the phone down and meet people normally. Have you ever tried to use a dating app to date men? It’s horrendous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 04:35 PM
–	People who say "Sex isn't a need" don't know how it is to be the average man Who are the women “sharing top men” 2/3 men are getting laid then. 1/3 is still the minority	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 03:55 PM
–	People who say "Sex isn't a need" don't know how it is to be the average man What? You’re literally using your own experience when trying to tell me women are more promiscuous. Which is just simply not true bud. And now you sum it up with “women lie” Not to be dismissive but I can’t handle confirmation bias lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 03:33 PM
–	People who say "Sex isn't a need" don't know how it is to be the average man Where are you getting “women are so promiscuous” most of my friends are women who don’t sleep around? Sure some rare women who are loud do. But past that you’re just creating your own confirmation bias. I’ve slept with 2 people. Most of my friends are around that same number. I’m always astounded that certain men seem to get it in their heads women are just sending it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 03:28 PM
–	The brutal truth behind female sexuality and the bisexualpill Your chart up top is not correct. The most watched porn category by men is Lesbians.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 03:22 PM
–	People who say "Sex isn't a need" don't know how it is to be the average man Sex and intimacy is not a need to stay alive and be a decent human. There isn’t some astronomically large difference between men and women. Women get just as horny as men do. It’s been proven over and over again. The difference is we are socialized to not admit it, we are taught to push those feelings down. We aren’t taught BS like there is some crazy animal within us. Now do I think most people need a partner? Absolutely. But saying you “need sex” like an ape that can’t be controlled , is liter…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/23 03:17 PM