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| 1 | What do you do when 'Chad' starts flirting with you and you are in a relationship? How do you feel?Are you being weird about her response? I’d love if my woman responded this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Both sides are offering a fantasy.If you just take blue pill then it will rock your world when you feel like you do everything it preaches but it doesn’t work out. But the blue pill still has truth in it that you need to have some intrinsic positivity to offer in a relationship to make it last. Cause not opening up will doom you to a woman who don’t trust you cause you are never vulnerable, trust me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Both sides are offering a fantasy.Agree. I followed the mystery method a little bit for a time and I think it in a lot of ways is more valuable than the red pill as far as getting women in the very short term if you are casually dating. It was the precursor to the red pill now, but to keep up the image of the mystery method will expose you as fake unless you can really back all that up. I went black pill for a time…and it’s not a good path at all. Got into redpill which helped pull me out of it but before all of this I was bluep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Why do men watch porn?I am a guy in his early 30’s. My journey to porn started in like the 5th grade to where a guy had drew a picture on the bus of chi chi from dragon ball z completely nude. It was probably my first exposure to a naked woman if I remember correctly and even a colorless drawing was pretty compelling to me. Pretty sad but that’s what it is. And by 5th grade I already knew about masturbation and how good it felt. Going from 5th grade till I was 16 I’d jerk off to random pictures of women on some magaz… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Andrew Tate: How to be a Real ManI posted this video from a channel of a guy I have learned to respect in his opinions. I am generally conservative and this YouTuber challenges my assertions on many topics in ways that don’t belittle my opinions and makes me critically think. The video is almost 40 minutes long, but talks about Andrew Tate from a perspective of someone first hearing about him and in a curious way and then goes onto his role and others in the Manosphere and to the greater topic of what are negative and positive … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:56 PM |
| 0 | What do you think of men wearing shoe lifts to appear taller?Strong disagree. I think in the women’s space taller women with longer legs wear fashion better, but most straight men don’t care about fashion much at all as long as she looks at least halfway classy. I mean yes, some men have a fetish for long legs on women but me personally (and I think many other men agree, even taller men) find long legs on the bottom list of attractive features compared to a pretty face, nice proportional boobs, and at least some redeemable qualities in a butt. I also thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 05:06 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of men wearing shoe lifts to appear taller?If you are able to get into relationships just fine at 5’6 then you are winning dude. I’m 5’7.5 and made some poor life choices to where I don’t really have many friends to go out with anymore and had some major insecurities which held me back from being intimate and being able to open up to women that’s held me back. I wish I could get into relationships easy like you. Now if you are saying you can get into relationships with women you don’t find attractive that’s different, but I envy you if y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 04:29 PM |
| 4 | What do you think of men wearing shoe lifts to appear taller?I respect the grind bro but I seriously thought about it but just can’t do it. The shame I’d feel around friends seeing my height change and me act like nothing happened would be too great. Maybe you will start a movement though to make it acceptable. But women who find this out are going to be confused. You say it doesn’t matter when you are naked but lol idk, taking your shoes off and your soles off and shrinking 3 inches is noticeable. Me personally I wear hiking boots and shoes with a decent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Statistics on single women buying properties on their ownYeah, women tend to score higher on agreeableness and neuroticism than men. But that’s of course just on average, and who knows, in this crazy world that might be changing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 11:34 AM |
| 2 | Are normie women really that oblivious to the struggles of (below) average guys?I think a lot of less fortunate men in dating just want acknowledgment and for the opposite sex to know how vain and judge mental they really are. Whether it’s because they are ugly or just don’t have the right social traits or because they are short or don’t make enough money or aren’t ambitious enough they want women to understand why saying things like “where are all the good men” or “the bar is sooo low for men to be an acceptable dating partner” or “all guys are insufferable assholes” is a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 04:34 AM |
| 0 | Statistics on single women buying properties on their ownIts psychology…it’s been well researched. Women on average feel negative emotions more frequently than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Are normie women really that oblivious to the struggles of (below) average guys?Was going to write a similar comment but saw this. Just want to agree and have that seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Are normie women really that oblivious to the struggles of (below) average guys?He’s joking lol now I smell the pasta | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Are normie women really that oblivious to the struggles of (below) average guys?This comment is going to get eviscerated on here LOL no you didn’t… First time here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Are normie women really that oblivious to the struggles of (below) average guys?The first decently logical answer I’ve seen and probably most likely one too. Women are just oblivious to it because they are not average men, seems like that’s reasonable although bad for understanding the opposite sex. Most on here would argue the only man they care about is chad which would also agree with this notion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Statistics on single women buying properties on their ownI guess the only thing I disagree with is the notion that men want to move around and explore more than women. Women seem to value traveling a hell of a lot more than the average guy. If I had a dollar for every machu pichu picture….or those stupid wings in random places. But I believe you are spot on about men being extremely worried about making a stake too soon. Women don’t seem to care as much for whatever reason which both helps and hurts them, but in this housing market it probably hurt a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Statistics on single women buying properties on their ownWomen on average trend with higher rates of neuroticism in the big 5. That’s not saying many men don’t have “propensities towards negative emotions”, but women as a majority do actually. But if we display emotions we only have a few to choose from that are socially acceptable, and most commonly that is anger. We can’t lose frame by looking like we are unsure or depressed outwardly and keep being attractive, women hate men like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Statistics on single women buying properties on their ownWomen give a large amount of damn about shelter. A lot of guys do too but are less concerned with having roommates and saving I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 01:27 AM |
| 2 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?Or they offer citizenship to that 6’2 Netherlands white dude with the good hair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 08:34 PM |
| 1 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?I used to worry about this, and maybe it’s because I’m out in the country now but I don’t notice a ton of Muslims anymore. But to think of it, they mostly were in the city I think. I also have to say, most African people I helped were very well spoken and trying to get an education or live a good life. There are differences especially when it comes to refugees from like Somalia or Haiti, but it’s not uncommon for African immigrants to be very respectful and courteous and studious people. Unfortu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 05:13 PM |
| 3 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?That is actually very interesting. Deserves its own post on here cause I’d love to hear thoughts about it. It’s all going to come full circle ⭕️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 04:23 PM |
| 1 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?MOST aren’t doing that….but they are taking up resources and I don’t understand how it’s financially beneficial to the country. Each immigrant likely needs an education, medical care, social safety nets, housing, etc….which all cost money. Seems like a crazy gamble to me to think immigration is a net positive. I’m mostly talking about border jumpers though. Merit based immigration is very different and universities are making money hand over fist taking over Indian and Asian immigrants for examp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 04:21 PM |
| 2 | What is the reason for why women find most men physically unattractive? What would we need to doI think your comment is important and thank you for writing it. I think a lot of guys just think they are immediately cast aside because of certain things, but if you are just a stranger you will always be expendable. Makes getting to know a woman beyond her physical traits an important factor in not being blankly discarded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 11:45 PM |
| – | Why is sex framed as something a woman “gives” and a man “takes”?I think the men you were trying to get with were better looking than you think or were more well adjusted than you think, or it’s possible that your personality was lacking some as in not being feminine enough. but most likely the former. Like my friend wasn’t attractive physically (to me) but she wasn’t “ugly” and she was feminine in looks. Maybe you weren’t feminine looking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 05:39 PM |
| – | Why is sex framed as something a woman “gives” and a man “takes”?I have a friend who’s a girl and she’s not attractive at all but she is feminine. Sort of bigger and just big boned. No boobs hardly and just (to me) no real assets that makes her physically attractive. She’s even 5’8. But she is nice and there are certainly uglier women, I wouldn’t describe her as “ugly” but…anyways She slept with so many dudes on tinder. Idk how but she did. We’d go to the beach and she’d match with someone the same day or a day later and meet up with them. Just so easy. This … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Displaying stereotypical gendered behavior is crucial to get laid as a manPrince music sucks? I wish you put that first so I didn’t have to read the rest cause I know your opinions are off! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 10:24 PM |
| 1 | For men who have opened up in a relationship, how did your SO respond?Just posting this cause I’d like some thoughts on this since I think this is related. Copied from my reply to another person… “I think women are more okay with crying when it reveals a passionate love for her if that makes sense, and maybe when it reveals a positive character trait, like tearing up over a movie character who finally wins or achieves something important to that character. But if the crying reveals a negative trait like anxiety or depression or a trauma that you don’t seem to have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 10:23 PM |
| 4 | For men who have opened up in a relationship, how did your SO respond?I think women are more okay with crying when it reveals a passionate love for her if that makes sense, and maybe when it reveals a positive character trait, like tearing up over a movie character who finally wins or achieves something important to that character. But if the crying reveals a negative trait like anxiety or depression or a trauma that you don’t seem to have an answer for or a way to get over, it alarms a woman. They are the far more emotional on average and that they (in turn) have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Do older women have less value in the dating market than younger ones ?Due to porn and beauty products older women can still enjoy plenty of sex and sexual attention from men of all ages, including younger men. The more jaded she becomes though the less attractive she is, which is the same for men as well I’m sure. No one wants to date a jaded superficial person seriously. Although harsh, the number one thing that lowers a woman’s value is her being a single mom, especially if it’s a mixed kid for some people. And the most likely cohort for single moms is older wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4A what are your thoughts on Deepfake porn?I bet many users on here use porn a lot, I certainly have. I think all porn is evil though, it can and will cause ED eventually, especially if you ain’t having regular sex or got mental issues or are depressed too. None of it is good, and deepfake is just another low. At the same time, anyone girl who uses onlyfans and ends up having her face in these videos I couldn’t care less about because they are part of the problem. Guys, do yourself a favor and get off porn. Look up Yourbrainonporn.com r/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Men of PPD, to what extent are you willing to sacrifice basic morality in order to win over/impress women?This monkey can only dance so much, and that’s not much at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 09:25 PM |
| 2 | When does dating market decline for men?This is cap. Hispanic and middle eastern people age noticeably on average. Asians definitely age gracefully and black people usually do if they take care of themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 01:38 PM |
| 0 | Study finds that being muscular does not increase attractiveness for short men.What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe himWhat kind of work do you do? My experience is similar to yours but I feel somewhat ashamed because i don’t have a health problem like you that held me back. My hands are very small for a guy (more specifically my fingers) which did make me feel weird and different from others but is not as drastic an issue as it seems like you have described. Read my comment on here if you like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe himHe probably has some trauma he can’t completely get over or that has shaped his personality too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Who is your most unsuccessful (romantically and sexually) guy you know? Describe himMe. I was born with small hands for a guy, which is actually due to my fingers (hence my username) and when I was in 8th grade I was made fun of by a couple guys for wearing a small size baseball cup. Looking back it was too small for me but I was very naive about things and just never thought to change it or that it would be a problem. If I ever got hit with a baseball there it wouldn’t have protected my balls at all. Anyway… Saw I couldn’t palm a basketball and then realized my hands are small… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 12:17 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Would you rather have casual sex with an average in his 20's, or a fit, handsome man in his 40's?Porn induced Erectile dysfunction is a real thing and will likely be an epidemic issue with gen z being raised on internet porn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 05:32 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: Would you rather have casual sex with an average in his 20's, or a fit, handsome man in his 40's?Porn is creating Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction in young men now too though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+.I have long suspected this myself. I think this is most important to immature women, which unfortunately is most women under 30 and before they become single moms to a 6 ft asshole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+.Wish I could give an award. Wow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever been interested in somebody you thought was well within your league and then they soon partner up with an objectively way more attractive person leaving you massively disheartened?I had this with a woman who wasn’t model good but she was hot hot to me, slim thick. But my porn addiction and her insecurities and actions fucked it up. She had a bad home life growing up and no father, and tons of speeding tickets and driving without a license. I still miss her a few years later but she really hurt me and my addiction to porn was causing a rift in our sex life sadly and I had to get away from her. Now she’s married and has a kid, got pregnant within 5 months of getting into he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/22 03:12 PM |
| 4 | Are ugly people attracted to other ugly people?Good and honest answer, thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Men over 30, do you filter out 30 year old women while looking for serious relationships?I’m 32 almost 33 and I want someone at least a year younger than me with no kids. I think the older I get the more younger I will look from myself but not drastic. Like at 40 I’d be looking 35 and less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/22 01:30 AM |
| 3 | If you only want intimacy through sex, you don’t actually care about intimacy. You just want sex.Yeah unfortunately it’s up to us guys to read this stuff…and I know it’s hard for women to open up about their bodies cause a lot of their self worth is tied to that no matter how important her career is or how many friends she has. They’ve probably been made fun of or critiqued about it by some guys and ex’s not to mention society and Hollywood. Us guys don’t really see that side of things and things are getting more competitive with looks for us but not near the level that women deal with. Wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 11:31 AM |
| 2 | If you only want intimacy through sex, you don’t actually care about intimacy. You just want sex.I mean us guys definitely have concerns too. At least i never wanted to get a woman pregnant unless I was in a committed relationship with someone I thought would be a good mom and I was ready. Lol. But I hear of a lot of guys knocking up a girl and leaving and idk how they aren’t financially tied to that child in some way or how a guy can just do that to someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 12:25 AM |
| 13 | If you only want intimacy through sex, you don’t actually care about intimacy. You just want sex.Just wanted to say that your comment is pretty eye-opening. Not drastically drastic but drastic enough to garner some sympathy! It’s the emotional side to it for a woman that is a mystery to most of us men cause we are way more simple minded when it comes to sex. Yeah it’s a way to emotionally bond with a woman but y’all have so much surrounding sex emotionally especially at first that I can see why walls are created. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/22 11:02 PM |
| 2 | What does Average Adam have to offer for ANYONEShe’s right to count porn just so you know…although most women haven’t caught onto how it can bend a man yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 06:53 PM |
| 2 | What does Average Adam have to offer for ANYONEYeah this is what single moms start valuing. What do single women with no kids value in their 20’s? 80% do not value these traits and maybe more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 05:41 PM |
| 1 | According to you, what does the "average guy"'s dating life look like, as well as the "average woman"'s?See your “picker system” is broken. Hell yeah men get bent out of shape about it. We are gaslighted all the time thinking women want men who appreciate and respect them. The brash A-hole who’s tall and don’t give a crap getting with potential women we’d like to date and discarding them like a used rag really hurts to see when you first figure out how the dating/sex game is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | According to you, what does the "average guy"'s dating life look like, as well as the "average woman"'s?In the days of internet porn we have now it’s not hard to see why guys are sucking at sex. We were all brought up on porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/22 05:33 PM |
| 0 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessMan never try to date a woman or have sex with one till you fix yourself. You are going to seriously hurt someone and maybe even yourself. Porn is an extraordinary visual stimulus that can really fuck up your brain and your dopamine system. It can make it to where you only objectify women and don’t seek new experiences with friends and women cause jacking off gets you that cheap high and makes you tired after. If a man isn’t getting morning wood in the mornings anymore and can’t get excited by m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 10:07 PM |
| 6 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessThe dude’s a coomer talking like that, ignore him. I feel sorry for women these days having to talk to porn addicted men. I was one and hurt a girl I loved because I was thinking about sex as a porno with her and I will always regret that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 10:01 PM |
| 3 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessDude you are a pornsick coomer talking like that. Please, don’t gaslight women into thinking the problem is them in the bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 10:00 PM |
| 8 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessNo it’s the former. Cheap dopamine. And thinking sex is going to be like a porn video when you have it. Lots of expectations that are not real (woman loaning 100% of the time), lots of porn angles you won’t see, lots of experiences and physical sensations that can’t be replaced by pixels on a screen and your hand, and the physical exertion of actually having sex instead of sitting/laying down using your hand. Sex is way different than watching porn and your brain doesn’t understand that when you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 09:57 PM |
| 5 | At least for heterosexuals, western society is going to become more sexually conservative, not lessIf porn is what has “enlightened” men’s preferences then that’s not good at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/22 09:44 PM |
| 2 | QW: For those women who didn't engage in casual sex do you think you are unicorn or more common than the manosphere believes?Wanting to hoe around for practice seems like an alien concept to me as a guy and probably for most men. Maybe for the sexual experiences with different women and the pleasurable memories it creates, but not for the practice. If this is because you are worried you might not be “good enough” for a future partner sexually then I hope you find solace in the fact that any man worth their salt isn’t going to be worried about that. If a guy is going to try to make you do things sexually you ain’t read… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Women do like nice guys. Only when they provide or have status though.A “nice guy” is more often a unexciting guy with good manners and is caring. Women love to be entertained or else they don’t think a relationship is worth it. I too believe the nice guy vs asshole debate is often not even about their attitudes but how exciting they are to women. The asshole guy is edgy but the nice guy is not. Sometimes they are edgy in personality or sometimes in their interests, and sometimes both. The nice guy is not edgy in either his personality or his interests, or both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/22 04:02 PM |
| 4 | How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up?You say this like adopted children will never have problems with not knowing their real parents or that they will always be adopted without significant issues finding a good family or any family at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 04:44 PM |
| 2 | How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up?“Wouldn’t tell the father and would give it up for adoption?” Holy shit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 04:34 PM |
| 16 | How much do you actually care about getting pregnant when dating or hooking up?She was complimenting you dude, chill… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Can you tell when you've encountered a "post-wall woman?" What are they like?A post wall woman is a jaded person I think first and foremost. She probably has a hard time finding a man to commit to her for different reasons, some of which relate to her looks fading some or her having kids with a deadbeat dad and being a single mom who finally realizes what the actual important traits are that she should have been looking for in a mate instead of just a man’s height and income and status in society. It’s like once a woman has kids and gets dropped she suddenly will date al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent of height on a guy?For me I think it’s boobs. Some guys say they love small boobs but I’ve always appreciated bigger ones. Small boobs are okay though, and I think women feel the same way about height to a certain point. No boobs on a woman = a guy shorter than her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Is the Threat of Young Male Syndrome Obsolete?What? Lmao That’s like .05% of the population of dudes doing that, especially after their full time job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 03:25 AM |
| 2 | The tinder cycle for the average man and woman and why you shouldn't get frustrated or take it personally.Never been that way for over 50% of men most likely. Certainly not for me. I got lucky a couple times but I’ve never just been able to pick a match and fuck that night. That’s the reality of the top 20% of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 01:22 AM |
| 4 | The tinder cycle for the average man and woman and why you shouldn't get frustrated or take it personally.Brilliant comment even though it’s infuriating. Time and pain has taught me that this is the healthiest way for your mental health. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/22 01:17 AM |
| 3 | What specifically is regularly seen in porn that women can't do/is broadly unpleasant?I had a girlfriend for 3 months, and she was the most beautiful girl I’d ever seen. Idk, I was just infatuated with her. She had some issues herself brought on by past childhood and sexual trauma, and i wanted to be her hero. Some things she did to me were toxic ngl, but we had a good core we could have worked it out. But there were times where I had trouble getting an erection caused by my own insecurities and the porn use I had over the years. This made her doubt herself…and she already has so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 05:29 PM |
| 3 | What specifically is regularly seen in porn that women can't do/is broadly unpleasant?I agree with your first point as well. The second point I think goes hand in hand. Porn in general is bad for both men and women, imo. Porn has damaged my life and my opportunities with women so I am a bit biased. But for men who don’t have healthy sex lives and that use porn as a crutch they may one day end up having PIED (porn induced Erectile dysfunction) and lose their motivation in life to accomplish things, cause porn when used often and hard enough can become a drug. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:49 PM |
| 8 | What specifically is regularly seen in porn that women can't do/is broadly unpleasant?You are correct. Most porn is completely centered around getting the man to cum but not the one in the scene. The woman I’d say 50% of the time or more in a lot of videos is completely faking the intensity and frequency of their orgasms, and it can be very damaging as a man to expect to make a woman feel that way constantly every 3-5 seconds. Sometimes just quiet thrusting is normal. She’ll make more and more sounds if it’s going well but it’s not going to be constant loud moans the whole time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 03:18 AM |
| 3 | Is it true that most women in college are promiscuous?No I have a few people I know who are gay and they get it on easily compared to straight people. Especially men. Maybe they want relationships but it seems hard for them. But most on here are only concerned about heterosexual relations, let’s be honest here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that most women in college are promiscuous?Idk, but I was friends with a frat guy who says he’s had sexual relations with over 100 women, and yes, most were in college. His personality is very rare though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Is it true that most women in college are promiscuous?Let’s be honest, no one cares about LGBT sex lives cause we already know it’s rampant and easy, especially for the men. The women are more relationship focused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Has PPD made anyone realize how bad dating could actually be?You’re a dude who has dated women in 25 countries? You are probably not the average person/male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 04:08 PM |
| 0 | Delight and Camaraderie in HumiliationI agree OP. I think it’s not in good humor to follow groups like that and bash women for likes even if it shows true events. Idk, I hate the way the dating market is and think women have blown out of proportion standards for guys they consider but I’d rather discuss it in groups like this rather than comment and like posts about it. I don’t like ANY of this, and I’ve not gotten to the point where all I can do is laugh yet cause I haven’t given up hope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the Piers Morgan/Andrew Tate interview?I haven’t followed him much but based on what I have seen from and heard about him, he is the living persona of red pill ideology philosophically and it makes women uncomfortable and some men too. Whether he is right or wrong about his opinions is endlessly debated everyday on this sub but he is famous because he holds to the ideology without wavering and he is liked by 3 (most likely crowds) 1) the crowd that loves to see liberals and feminists cringe and squeal cause they can’t cancel/silence … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 04:38 PM |
| 5 | The Future of dating for men is only gonna get much worse.With the housing market out of control it’s going to be even harder for most men to provide the value of owning a home. And with the societal pressure of needing home ownership and women not being able to afford it themselves it’s going to get crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 03:11 PM |
| 5 | Political polarization is a big factor in women and men being less compatible these daysRead Nockerjoe’s comment above. We’re all voting for things that either benefit us the most or that hurt us the least on both sides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 02:37 AM |
| 7 | Political polarization is a big factor in women and men being less compatible these daysYou deserve an award for that comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Do you care about whether the guy has a college degree?Yeah I agree the Middle eastern men over there are pussies who drop their weapons and let the taliban just stroll in unopposed once Americans leave. Men are supposed to protect their women, not put them in burqas and chains. They have deep cultural issues that make them so tribal to where they just fend for themselves and their groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Do you care about whether the guy has a college degree?Dude, relax. If I was a woman over there with years of indoctrination done on my gender idk how or what I’d do. The men are the real losers. It’s like they are so tribal over there they can’t band together for liberty or a greater good. Sad state of affairs for everyone over there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Do you care about whether the guy has a college degree?I have a bachelors (in psychology that I don’t use) and it’s never helped me on dating sites lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 09:17 PM |
| 0 | Which Would You PickI said it was hard not to pick 1, but I didn’t say I’d pick 1 lol. I pretty much provided a non-answer! If #2 has less than 10 sexual partners and I was physically attracted to her then as long as I could gauge her morality enough to show she wouldn’t cheat unless she left me first then I’d pick #2. If she’s had 20+ partners and questionable morals regarding monogamy then given the choices I’d go with 1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Which Would You PickIf I didn’t know that she didn’t love me but she acted like it at all times, it’s hard not to pick #1. She might lie to me which is terrible, but if she says she loves me and shows me in all the correct ways, then 1 is better than 2 in a ignorance is bliss kind of sense. But if she don’t love you then in real life you’ll feel it. :-( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 04:27 PM |
| 0 | Which Would You PickThat’s a well thought out response, bravo. Your conditions are also reasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...I guess the conclusion to all of this conjecture is that the red pill is exactly right about the nature of attracting quality women, apart from some misogyny which is to be expected from men who don’t measure up and/or don’t want to put in the work or think it’s unfair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/22 11:27 AM |
| 3 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...I’m meaning a long term relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...Any man can get A woman... but many men can’t get his equal in a woman or a woman he’s attracted to. A 5’7 guy who makes 40k a year may only get a 6 or lower despite he himself being not overweight and decent looking. A woman is automatically a 7 or higher if she’s not overweight or (if she is some) is proportioned well enough and if her face is mildly attractive. Her salary is largely irrelevant to most men as long as she has some boobs and some butt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 06:52 PM |
| 6 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...Have a source for this? That would support my hypothesis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...So you agree that men that make less than the median wage that are 25+ may have to be with women rated at 6 or less moreso than their counterparts? Which would imply that a man’s money he makes matters greatly in relation to how attractive the woman he can get is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...So you are saying women don’t care about a guy’s paycheck if it’s less than the median wage of the state they live in? Are these same women at least a 7 in attractiveness? I think a lot of women are very judgmental and not attracted to men that are not at least financially average. The median isn’t the average though so there are a lot of men below the median moreso than above but this sub commonly accepts that the men at the top get their picks before the men at the bottom. I’m guessing you dis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...Okay, well Im mostly talking about adults dating my bad, not the prime 18-24 years where the normal person has the greatest chance of meeting someone. We all know it gets harder later on to make friends and find someone, unless you are older but didn’t have problems and have tons of friends and relations already. So a guy age 25+ who makes below median wage for the state he lives in is largely the invisible, my b. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 04:23 PM |
| 8 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...Guys who didn’t meet their woman before age 24 (woman’s age) who make less than the median wage of the state they live in? Largely yes, unless the meet the physical requirements for casual hookups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 04:05 PM |
| 11 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...They do but likely not who they want. The obvious exception to this is a guy who gets with his high school sweetheart or someone before they graduate college. I envy them the most because they got a woman who knew the guy wasn’t well established yet and chose to stay with him. But having a relationship with a woman in college for a lot of people would be hard to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 03:57 PM |
| 36 | Women when a women expresses a preference: she can have whatever standards she wants. Women when men express a preference: he's misogynistic, insecure ect...I agree with this all the way. I was fooled for a long time and just didn’t understand why things didn’t work out with me. I thought women wanted a nice guy who values them. No, they want a guy who’s on or about his purpose that borderline tolerates her at first but she “wins him over” to make her feel more special than another girl. The guy can’t be too emotional except to support her emotions and if he don’t make above the median wage of the state he lives in and is renting he’s likely invisib… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Is there a married man that doesn't masturbate or watch porn?I’ve watched too much porn and masturbated too much in my life to where I have PIED so I don’t watch porn anymore and am still trying to do nofap. I haven’t made it past 10 days yet though but feel overall better when I abstain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 01:46 PM |
| 0 | What would equity in dating look like?I think this would lower the dating scale back to a more equitable and friendly dating culture sadly cause while OLD did help nerds like me talk to women without a ton of pressure it did help chad plow through fields of women just for having a boat and an active Instagram. Yeah Instagram and Snapchat and tik tok have all made the world worse not better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 05:28 PM |
| 3 | What would equity in dating look like?What is your day to day life like? And particularly on weekends. You go out with friends a lot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 05:25 PM |
| 4 | Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have funI agree with that too actually! A low n-count woman who condones promiscuity for single women as a healthy sexual outlet is alarming. I need to know that she thinks promiscuity is not good, both for men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 05:18 PM |
| 8 | Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have funTo be fair, you did say mock “promiscuous women”, not the behavior of promiscuous women. But to be fair again, I think thats a good tactic. I think to make it against someone on tv or a celebrity would be the first safe tactic to use instead of one of her friends or someone you mutually know. If that don’t work, then you can move onto a mutually known person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 04:43 PM |
| 8 | Women need to stop justifying their life choices and have funYou are not the normal woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 03:57 PM |
| 3 | Social proof seems much more important to women than innate/natural attractionYeah OP talking to e-thots on Instagram he might run into women worried about “brand” and stuff. But I do think women are more concerned about a guy’s friend group (or lack thereof) than a guy is with hers. That’s what he means by social proof. If a girl meets a guy with no friends but he seems okay in every other way then I think she still will be questioning him. I haven’t decided if it’s to make sure he’s not weird around other men (or people in general), if it’s to make sure he has friends t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....I’ve read comments saying it’s about controlling the pain physically. Processing the emotional hurt as a physical pain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/22 01:35 AM |
| 1 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....That last sentence tells me everything. Have a good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 01:21 PM |
| 2 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....It’s not as uncommon as you think at least in the south. If a dog makes a child bleed. But he’s a really good father to his kids and a good husband and friend. He views dogs as more like property but loves them to, but a lot less than his kids. He didn’t shoot him though. The dog is better off with them than how he was previously trust me. Before it wasn’t getting proper care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 11:56 AM |
| 1 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....I don’t believe changing your face and mouth into a inanimate sexual object is empowering or respectful to you but at least you are happy. Nothing wrong with blowjobs and some deepthroating but getting your face f***ed like in porn is just….alarming, even if consensual. If a woman asked me to facefu** her I’d know immediately I need to never see her again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 11:52 AM |
| 5 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....He didn’t do it. But unfortunately it’s not unheard of in the south at least to put down a dog that draws blood from a child. It’s stupid though. My friend didn’t do it he’s a little more even keel than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 02:02 AM |
| 3 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....If it’s not causing physical pain then I agree. Otherwise I’m kink shaming, respectfully. But there is no sex police so you can do it consensually all you want. I’m just saying it has root causes that probably haven’t been explored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 09:26 PM |
| 3 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....Emotions and thoughts of the mind manifest themselves physically. A person going through intense emotional trauma sometimes cut themselves to transmute that emotional pain into physical pain. It’s interesting that we say that a person needs therapy or help but is inflicting this pain upon themselves but then someone having someone else whip them while they are restrained or pouring hot candle wax on them and literally causing them physical pain is celebrated as a kink and glorified foreplay unde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 09:20 PM |
| 4 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....I mean, people who say they like getting restrained and completely controlled and whipped for pleasure often say it’s because in their normal life they feel like they have to be domineering in their careers and control freaks. I’m just saying if your pleasure is derived from pain in any other aspect in life (like cutting yourself) you’d say that person at least needs therapy. But if it’s construed with a sexual act involving pain it suddenly means it doesn’t deserve the same attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 09:08 PM |
| 0 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....Like brief deepthroating is okay but I’m talking like constantly gagging and spit flying out like porn. Also getting whipped and ballgagged and stuff means unresolved issues too. But that’s kinkshaming I suppose and people who have these kinks don’t like to be told they have unresolved issues so I’ll leave it at that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 08:48 PM |
| -3 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....She may be into it, but that don’t mean she don’t have serious issues…people that are addicted to drugs tend to really be into drugs and like some depraved things. If a woman gets off on physical pain to please their man then…yeah they got issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 08:29 PM |
| -11 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....Then she’s got issues. If she’s suffering to breath choking on your cock then she’s got unresolved issues man… (Edit: I’m talking about aggressive extreme gagging that literally hurts her to get you off, not brief deepthroating that may gag her some. I’m talking about the shit you see in a lot of porn. Or having a girl upside down on the bed getting her mouth fucked. That’s more than just a kink) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 08:18 PM |
| 11 | LOL Today's ridiculous post about porn being a a "great way for men to learn sex" is a perfect example of the whole "fish/fisherman" thing at work.....My buddy’s son who is like 5 or 6 recently tried to pick up their Labrador puppy and move him and got bit. My friend spanked the dog and put him out in the barn and thought about shooting him…and I know many people would but…the dog was reacting that way because the child is trying to constrict the dog and make it do something it doesn’t want to do or doesn’t feel natural. If you chase it down and corner it and try to pick it up when it’s not used to unpredictable behavior of a child…what do you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 08:17 PM |
| 2 | How common is this? "I have an amazing career, make almost 6 figures, have lots of friends and family, fit and physically active, many hobbies and talented, but I can't get a single date"I feel like they may be autistic or asexual at that poor cause they shouldn’t have any problems. They got to have some kind of social issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Women and men who don’t do hookups, where do you hang out?So us normie guys need to work for a hotel and probably the hotel bar area huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Yeah that’s a better metaphor. Seemed like the one I saw didn’t say swamp water but the one I did is kind of good to cause women have so much water that they have to get breaths of fresh air. Dating for them is much easier as far as having choices. Finding drinkable water in swamp water is about impossible, but it’s not impossible for a woman to find a partner it’s just they feel they can’t find a qualified partner cause they want a man who makes a good amount above the median wage of the state … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 06:41 PM |
| 30 | Why do women seem to be less bothered by being single than men?Probably means you have infinite chances at love even if it’s hard to find with a guy you like. I saw a metaphor on here that made a lot of sense. Men who want love and companionship but struggle to find it are wandering around in a desert searching for water, hoping to find a oasis but any water would be great. Women on the other hand looking for love and companionship are swimming underwater and need a breath of fresh air. They are lost in drinkable water but have too much of it. The guy would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 05:42 PM |
| 5 | South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The WestYeah a man being fetishized is welcomed cause we are wired differently than women. You must be new here cause that’s all this sub is about. There are cases where it’s no welcomed too though. Those white women probably think and hope you have a giant porn schlong and will dominate them cause you are personified as hyper sexual and even borderline dangerous. I’m pretty sure a fair amount of black men don’t like being considered dangerous and I’ve also seen subs for n Reddit where black men lamente… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 12:27 AM |
| 8 | South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The WestNotice I never said it was entirely wrong, but it is if you just want to hook up with them. You just want a short term sexual experience with women that are beautiful because they are Asian based on your own words. You know how weird and off-putting (and degrading) that has to sound to these women you are trying to game for sex? I think porn is seriously influencing you and you don’t realize it. I find latina and Asian women pretty as well also based on some physical characteristics and differen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 09:28 PM |
| 7 | South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The WestI fetishize women too, and I don’t think it’s right and it is influenced by porn for sure, but I’m just letting him know he’s absolutely fetishizing Asian women for hookups. Many guys on this sub (me included) would benefit immensely by laying off porn and semen retention. If you are fetishizing someone based on something then you are spending less time letting your energy flow with that person you might could actually hook up with. The women likely can tell you want them just because they are A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 08:53 PM |
| 12 | South Korea’s Gender War And The Future Of Gender Relations In The WestIf you are just trying to hook up with a certain kind of woman based on race…you are fetishizing them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 08:38 PM |
| 2 | This Subreddit Moving Forward: Incel/Race content, flairs, moderators, rules and moreYeah I think it’s in how someone says something that is important, which sometimes is hard to gauge over text. I agree with what you said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 04:11 PM |
| 5 | This Subreddit Moving Forward: Incel/Race content, flairs, moderators, rules and moreThe problem is you have to draw the line somewhere but that line is hard to see. For example, is it racist for someone not to want to date someone of another race? I hope the answer is no due to a right of personal preference and possible cultural issues, but I think a percentage of people feel that it is racist not to be considered a potential partner because of their race. Real life example: my sister was asked out by a guy (who happens to be black) at church a decade ago and when she declined… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 03:57 PM |
| 2 | This sub just doesn’t believe in loveI wasn’t sure about love and thought it was a choice. But after losing a girl that I did love but was so scared to tell her, I’ve determined its a decision and not just a choice. A choice is choosing but a decision comes from within and manifests itself as a choice. Sounds spiritual and stuff but I have regretted for over 2 years my decision not to love and after much pain and self reflection have realized that next time I meet a girl I really like and love then I’m deciding that love is possibl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 04:22 PM |
| 3 | This sub just doesn’t believe in loveThat love does exist for family members oftentimes that were done wrong. I mean short of killing a loved one with extreme violence and worse the love is basically unconditional for the “normal” nuclear family. Luckily most will never have their unconditional love tested like that. But in dating and relationships there are so many conditions that even if familial love isn’t 100% unconditional it’s still so damn close that it’s incomparable. Would like to add that most dogs show unconditional love… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/22 04:14 PM |
| 6 | The traits men want in a DAUGHTER vs WIFEYeah that last part I disagree with. If I had a daughter I’d want her to date a guy like me. I guess I’d want the guy to make more than me though lol, but I make okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 08:32 PM |
| 6 | QFM: If your GF/Wife said you had to go through a birth pain simulator in order to have kids (for anywhere between 2-30 hours randomly picked) would you do it?I would absolutely do that for my wife, in fact I’d wish I could take half for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/22 03:24 PM |
| 2 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceBut see I never said we need to do so because of women. I said BEFORE we can focus on women. That’s if we want to. The sigma male doesn’t focus on women, unless he wants to. I think it’s very unhealthy to focus on women truthfully, I’ve done that for far too long in my life. I’m lifting weights now, done about 10 days now in the course of about 17-18 days and I’m feeling better. But for maybe the first time in my life it’s not for women, it’s for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 10:46 PM |
| -2 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceWe really have to focus on ourselves first before we can focus on any women. We have to honestly ask ourselves if women even want to be with us. The truth is most of us really are not that special. Now neither are they oftentimes, particularly the instathots. But to find anyone worthwhile we have to work on ourselves too. And we need to work on ourselves FIRST before we can have any hope of finding anything good with a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 10:11 PM |
| 2 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceI feel you man. I felt this way. Unfortunately a lot of it was due to a bad experience in 8th grade where I was a little bit bullied to think I was different than others and then having an insecurity that sort of affirmed me being different than others (looking back It’s just a small difference and it shouldn’t have bothered me) and then developing a porn and compulsive masturbation habit to cope with feelings of inadequacy that were mostly based on a lie. Porn and compulsive masturbation (like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 10:03 PM |
| 1 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceI just need more friends. I’m 32 and trying to rebuild positivity in my life from bad habits and most of my friends are married or engaged and I live in a rural town about an hour from a major city so meetups aren’t really hitting much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 09:38 PM |
| 8 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceLmao. Except sex right? I laugh because it was so knee jerk for you to say that. Get healthy man, seriously. I’m trying to improve too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 09:36 PM |
| 30 | Is cheating and infidelity inevitable?For me personally right now, I benefit by not looking at this page. It gets me down about the current state of dating. I don’t want to think about a chad going to nightclub and fucking my future girlfriend and anyone else’s and the women not caring about being one of multiple fwb in a soft unspoken harem. I’m also 32 though. What is helping me personally is not masturbating or browsing dating websites endlessly and going to the gym almost every day early in the morning and improving myself in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 03:30 PM |
| 2 | On Height, Ethnicity, and Money: A study from the University of Chicago shows that a 5'6" man needs to earn $175K more a year to be as desirable as a 6'0" man. Asian men need to earn $309K more per year to be seen as desirable as white men.But at least in America many times those white women are not that good looking. Sometimes the are though. White guy black female pairing is more rare but when it happens usually the female is a bombshell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 12:20 PM |
| 6 | I don’t see anything wrong with pumping and dumping a womanIf a woman does go on dates with more than 3 men a month or is one of those women that goes on dates for free food and entertainment then yes them being used for sex is the least they can give back. However if it’s an actual good girl then I disagree completely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 05:26 AM |
| 26 | The Andrew Tate phenomenon shows that the mainstream responds very positively to "pill" ideas, but they are artificially suppressed by Western media companiesMy sister mentioned him today and said his views on women as property make him misogynistic. So if she’s seeing him then he must be getting out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Picking up women is probably the hardest skills ever to learn as a man.Most of the college clubs I’ve been to played rap that I remember but I didn’t go often. The more I think about there was some EDM. I just never went to those a bunch. I think a better scene would help. The “club” is possibly the most superficial physical place on earth, maybe even worse than that OLD. I’d recommend going other places where people meet including bars. And don’t watch those god awful tik toks and reels of dudes asking sexual questions to those clueless thots walking out of clubs.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Picking up women is probably the hardest skills ever to learn as a man.Well I’m talking about straight up clubs playing just rap music not bars. Granted this has been like 10 years ago but never really heard EDM in clubs BUT I know it’s gotten more popular now. I actually would like EDM much better than rap in clubs but at the time that’s what they played. I’m in America. I prefer bars with dance floors where you can hear each other and not just booty dance but actually dance and the focus isn’t solely on drinking and grinding. Just not my scene and I think when I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 11:37 AM |
| 3 | Picking up women is probably the hardest skills ever to learn as a man.I will say, you went in just watching these guys Ava without a self-confident presence and that’s what hurt you more than your height and looks. Unless you walked in looking unclean or unshaved/not-trimmed or have bad fashion. I’m not saying your friends don’t have a significant advantage but sounds like you went in not ready to talk to women and be positive. I remember going into a club like that one time and seeing similar things but I was also somewhat anxious and with only one friend from mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Picking up women is probably the hardest skills ever to learn as a man.Appreciate your honesty and acknowledging your discovered truth. The black pill is the hardest pill to swallow, but eventually you have to throw it up and at least take half a red pill as a guy. Incels will never win so guys cannot conclude that they are one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 11:10 AM |
| 0 | It's unfair for people to say it's important for a man with a small penis to go into a sexual encounter with confidence, but then make it impossible build or maintain that confidence by constantly dragging small penises down, mocking and ridiculing them as immoral, inferior and unmasculine.I’m a man with small hands (they are 7 inches long exactly which is 5th percentile or maybe less for men) and always heard throughout my life that small hands mean small penis. I’m also 5’7ish so somewhat shorter than average which doesn’t help. Well after college and with some sexual experiences I discovered that my penis is actually possibly a tad to decently above average if the average is in the mid 5 inch range in the US and a couple have said “I’m blessed” or “I’m big”. It’s hard for me to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 08:37 PM |
| -1 | Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLDHe wants a body positively movement for short men at best or it being claimed as a disability at worse but probably in between (some invisible efforts to normalize short men in romantic movies and other media, with possible state mandated education in public schools about being short not being a handicap). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 11:31 PM |
| 15 | Height statistics from Bumble; Is this your exp in OLDHoly shit hahaha I’m fucked at 5’7 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 10:12 PM |
| 7 | Jealousy drives much of the resentment displayed hereWth lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 03:36 AM |
| 1 | What issues do you actually feel for women about?That’s really interesting. But women do this before having sex with men often. So it’s interesting to see how led by emotion y’all can seem to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Men settle- women do notThis is one of the biggest differences between men and women when it comes to dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 02:09 PM |
| 54 | What issues do you actually feel for women about?Having periods that affect your moods and it being messy. Having to be cautious of men when you are by yourself. Maybe it explains why women are so enthralled by their girlfriend’s approval of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 01:24 PM |
| 6 | Modern Dating and the Giffen ParadoxThe exception would be average men who sleep with fatties and ugly women, which you are right there are a sizable portion of guys who do, to my shock. Posted a topic one time about this on here a good while ago about men being attracted to a wider array of women than Vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 04:22 PM |
| 17 | Modern Dating and the Giffen ParadoxI think OLD and social media has majorly F***ed up modern dating for the average and below guy in terms of physical looks and the more introverted guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 04:17 PM |
| 11 | Modern Dating and the Giffen Paradox“And lots of men do the same. Most women aren't just waiting on the hook for a fwb though. You'd need to prove even a large minority does lol” Only top men. Most men don’t have the ability to juggle fwb. Most women do. Whether they prefer to or not is a different matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 04:09 PM |
| 6 | Modern Dating and the Giffen ParadoxI think when you are 16-22 and a little after if you are in college it’s about vibes but later I feel like it’s not. Idk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Would you marry a chronically ill woman that may die at any time?I would not BUT if it happened after we were married I’d stay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Would you marry a chronically ill woman that may die at any time?Boosh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | What’s a low paying job for men that is so “cool” people don’t realize you’re broke?Well they take 6% out of our salary for the retirement, I’m not sure if that is what you are referencing? Can you be more specific for someone who is dumb? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 01:36 PM |
| 1 | What’s a low paying job for men that is so “cool” people don’t realize you’re broke?NC | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | What’s a low paying job for men that is so “cool” people don’t realize you’re broke?Yes the typical state benefits. Health insurance and retirement. I know it’s nothing to scoff at but I just feel an impending sense that I’m not in control of my destiny. When you say opportunity for promotion I must say there is little unless I move. And I probably would only get up to 48k if I’m lucky. The only promotions I would want would be at the headquarters at this point which is an hour and 15 away. I could move hopefully at the midpoint which is like 37 minutes away, I just don’t know … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 03:24 AM |
| 1 | What’s a low paying job for men that is so “cool” people don’t realize you’re broke?To my knowledge he doesn’t. 50k is more than I make at my boring office job with the state. I’m making like 41k. So another friend of mine co-owns a concrete company and I’m considering working with him, but it will be hard work. I’ll be actually working outside doing the concrete. But he said in 3 days he’d pay me $880 gross which is what I make in 5 days now so I’m considering it. He said they don’t work more than 40 hours too. I’m 32 and still single in a place that is quickly becoming HCOL a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | What’s a low paying job for men that is so “cool” people don’t realize you’re broke?Estimating in construction is pretty lucrative is it not? One of my good friends estimates for like asphalt and maybe concrete driveways and such and is living a real good life from it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | What exactly is a average guys "league" when skinny and plus sized women play on the same level playing field?CMB? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | What’s a low paying job for men that is so “cool” people don’t realize you’re broke?Bike messenger? Never heard of it. Reminds me of Peter Parker delivering pizzas in New York… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | What’s a low paying job for men that is so “cool” people don’t realize you’re broke?I feel like a lot are on adderall too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 10:15 PM |
| 1 | What’s a low paying job for men that is so “cool” people don’t realize you’re broke?But mostly singer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 10:06 PM |
| 1 | What’s a low paying job for men that is so “cool” people don’t realize you’re broke?Bro, the only one that gets the chicks is the freaking singer. I’m a guitarist but unless you are a guitar heavy band with tons of shredding nobody really really cares lol. But I mostly played acoustic shows too. I did do several full band stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 10:05 PM |
| 3 | What’s a low paying job for men that is so “cool” people don’t realize you’re broke?Damn a walking trap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 09:59 PM |
| 1 | What’s a low paying job for men that is so “cool” people don’t realize you’re broke?What a wild ride. I find such big career changes interesting because I may be doing that myself soon. If you don’t mind, how’d you get into construction estimating from journalism? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Getting Muscular Is A Terrible Return On Investment When It Comes To DatingDo you go alone? I went alone for a while and stopped. I think having someone to go with helps even if you workout on different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Getting Muscular Is A Terrible Return On Investment When It Comes To DatingGo to bed earlier and do it in the morning. I’m struggling with this too. I’m talking like I’m an expert but I’m not. It’s a huge mental thing and I think it also helps immensely to have someone to go with that isn’t an ass. Good sleep and really trying to stick to a schedule allows you to develop discipline needed to do this. Going to bed earlier is the key though and it’s hard for me cause I’m so used to playing video games till 11 at night and then trying to sleep. I’m 32 and need to put the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Getting Muscular Is A Terrible Return On Investment When It Comes To DatingPeople are forgetting how weight lifting makes you feel. You don’t really get confidence till a few weeks or month in when you start seeing results. It’s the endorphins your body produces that make you feel good and the increase in testosterone and mentally knowing you did something good for yourself today even though it wasn’t easy or that you stuck with your routine. It also helps you just work out stress physically, like taking your mental stress and turning it into physical stress. An extrem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 04:58 PM |
| 9 | For those who hook up/have casual sex often with different partnersIt’s demoralizing to hear stuff like this for people who can’t even get 1 woman. It’s why monogamy was put in place lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 03:18 AM |
| 1 | What is causing the rise in virginity amongst men? Is it too late for these men to reenter society after becoming a 30+ year old hermit outcast?I think the issue is deeper than that. I for one think religious upbringing in a secular world and general blue pill thinking messes up many a man. If I wasn’t brought up really Christian and so naive about how society really is I probably would have been better off in a secular hedonist sense. Mind you I might have been sexually active sooner and got 1 or more women pregnant but that doesn’t really make me a successful person. I’m thankful in some ways for how I was brought up cause it kept me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 08:58 PM |
| 7 | What is causing the rise in virginity amongst men? Is it too late for these men to reenter society after becoming a 30+ year old hermit outcast?Your bitterness is showing bad. I like his comments, don’t discourage them because you are mad about what he’s saying. It’s true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 03:50 PM |
| 3 | What does "having your shit together" even mean?100k is good money most places in the US besides some places in California and New York. Keep in mind the median income for a single person in the US is somewhere in the 40-50k range. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Why is it so hard to text women?Delete your dating apps and social media for a few days and then remember that life doesn’t revolve around these apps. When you are in the thick of them it doesn’t feel that way. It’s because a lot of us are addicted to them. Delete them and then you’ll realize how unhealthy they are to have and how much you start to base your self worth on whether these women match or respond to you. They need to be used in addition to your life but not BE your life if that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Not to take away from what women do, but I do think men do a lot of emotional labor than what’s saidI think women seeing there man emotional about anything other than their love for her makes her question his ability to provide and protect her…which is sad and unfair to most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Do most women acknowledge the fact they have very high standards and that the man they want probably has way less and doesn’t ask for much from a woman?The men who will more about those things will likely be men with less of an education and who make less money, thereby actually valuing your ability to hold your own. But most likely you don’t even notice these men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | New book "Don't Trust Your Gut" summarizes who OLD works for, and who it doesn'tOr just ban all men 6ft and over from dating apps since they don’t need the extra help 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/22 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t make less hot men wait more - women make men wait to make sure he is interested in a relationshipYet I think most women who reported ONS don’t cum? It’s like 70-8o% and maybe higher? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 11:34 AM |
| 12 | Women outnumbering Men in college.This is stupid thinking. There are so many people who went to college for the wrong reasons and got degrees they never did anything with. Going for women is possibly the #1 reason not to go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 08:11 PM |
| 0 | How do you think women spend their time?Not average in the sense of their income but in the sense of average boundaries with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 07:49 PM |
| 3 | if women value looks more than men(according to this sub) why are older male yoounger female couples much more common than the reverse?Gah so true and I hate it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 04:39 PM |
| -2 | How do you think women spend their time?I get the feeling these women weren’t the average women either, especially if they are rooming with a dude. Idk. Most women don’t room with dudes unless they are in a relationship or married. Many exceptions aside it’s not common. But with this economy things may be changing too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 04:31 PM |
| -2 | How do you think women spend their time?And actually looking for the man they should have looked for before becoming a single mom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 04:16 PM |
| 33 | How do you think women spend their time?Your comment should be at the top or near it. Definitely the main difference is how social the average woman is compared to the average man for a myriad of factors, some of which you mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 04:12 PM |
| 10 | How do you think women spend their time?And more tv series on average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 04:00 PM |
| 9 | How do you think women spend their time?Mobile games or actual console games? Cause for so many women to be put off by video games this doesn’t add up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Do you think in the next couple of decades MAINSTREAM discourse will be "don't encourage average/below average men to expect or seek sex, love and relationships"?I just feel outmatched. It’s definitely because I made the wrong choices in life. Whether it was not believing in myself or not dropping porn or just being naive about how things would turn out cause of blue pill tropes. I’m only around 5’7ish and not a bad looking guy but I don’t believe I make enough money to be attractive to most women. I feel like the women I’m attracted to are all going to ask me what my passion in life is and what have I been doing with my life and I don’t really have good… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Q4A At what height is a man’s dating life hindered?I’m a drivers license examiner and a decent percentage of men lie about their height by 1 inch going upwards while women on the other hand lie an inch and possible more in the opposite direction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUsually senior examiners which is basically the manager of a drivers license office, or they go to headquarters which moved to a city an hour and 15 minutes from where I am currently in a bad area. I kind of want to get away from this job and a senior examiner has a lot of headache for not much more pay. I applied for a headquarters job but it takes a while to hear back and is not guaranteed. :-/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHonestly believe I want to get away from computers though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol figured that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m doing data entry/customer service now basically. Drivers license examiner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah trying to stay away from pornographic content lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadInteresting, how long does that take to learn and is it a good payoff? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot great at many things except playing guitar and customer service :-( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo what should a guy who wants a better job but doesn’t want to get into sales, customer service, or being an account representative try to do? I make just above 40k in a state that has a median household income of 57k and a per capita median income of 32k? About $2,500 is taken out of my income for state retirement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 01:27 AM |
| 6 | who is this 'Chad' bogeyman guys have invented?It’s the guys single women in their 30’s complain about not meeting when they say “where have all the good men gone?” Because the men that are pursuing her then don’t look like or make the same amount of money as the guys that railed her in college and through her 20’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 09:10 PM |
| 2 | who is this 'Chad' bogeyman guys have invented?No I don’t think so. I mean, 10% of the population of men that are 18-35 years old is 10’s of millions of people at least so if that counts as a lot then yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 08:53 PM |
| 6 | who is this 'Chad' bogeyman guys have invented?I think most incels would want to be the top of the hierarchy if they could choose but would settle for equitable sex distribution which was what happened before women’s suffrage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?I’m just saying that for every negative there is a positive. Men value n-counts differently than women. Women don’t like high n-counts in men BUT it’s usually not a big issue because the type of men that can get high n-counts is what women are attracted too. For most women to level up all it requires is losing weight and not having acne and being a b****. For men, we have to make a lot of money and be extraverted and have big social lives. I apologize for making you feel bad and a woman having s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?I’m sorry you feel that way but I’m sure your husband loves the fact you haven’t given your body to 10 or 20 or 30+ men. Trust me I understand the lack of dating making you feel bad, but you’ve made it! You are right in that for us to be noticed we have to put effort into our appearance and fix what we can about it and our personalities. I think it’s easier for women to do so than men in these times but I agree with you on that and being proactive and finding someone you love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?A woman having sex with random men is not respected or valued either, at least for that fact alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?It’s just a question dude calm down… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 11:45 PM |
| 8 | Would you take a bcp for men if it was on the market ?I’m sure the alcohol companies and lobbyists had an opinion on this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Men care more about a woman’s career/social status than they like to admitYes it’s natural for someone’s livelihood to be solely in your hands to be felt as not a burden but as a weight on you. But you sound like you are doing the right thing and helping someone you love. BUT sounds like she may need to help you out more, even if she was just taking orders somewhere or cooking for a business. You sound like a caring person though OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?Well I’m pretty sure if I go I’ll probably lay too much out at once. Which is probably a good thing but…I’m glad you found it helpful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Men care more about a woman’s career/social status than they like to admitLol I’m sorry I was commenting thinking it was another post I was on that is similar. But yes, i wish I could be a provider but partnerships are just simply more realistic these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Men care more about a woman’s career/social status than they like to admitAnne to that brother | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?Well I grew up in church too and idk, I was very naive. At 18 I thought sipping on a beer would lead me to hell. Yet, I was making perverted jokes all the time with a friend of mine all the time. I was very different than I am now but yet I liked my old self better. He had way more hope about things and people than I do now, even if he was ignorant of the truth and extremely gullible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?Was the first step going into therapy difficult for you? I think i would benefit from it but I’m kind scared honestly to share my dark secrets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 08:24 PM |
| 6 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?4 makes me sad but I think at some point you have to try. It’s better to have tried and failed than to not try at all…I guess. Being loved is a fantastic feeling and I hope I can get that from a woman one day again. It’s just finding the right woman is the hardest part, almost impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 08:22 PM |
| 6 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?You sound very fortunate to have a woman invest in you like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 08:18 PM |
| 8 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?You ain’t a failure for not slooting it up in your 20’s. Maybe other worldy women will think that, but with the exception of some manwhores guys will appreciate and revere you for doing so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?That’s sad. I grew up thinking women were almost mystical creatures which made me have bad onenitis and made it so daunting to ever ask one out. Now because of reddits and just experience in general as I’m in my early 30’s I have very low expectations from women now which also predictably doesn’t help. Women aren’t the angels I thought they were like the women that raised me are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 08:13 PM |
| 5 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?Yes we all need to learn to be kinder to ourselves, me included! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?Seeing women as a different human species is actually quite a different perspective but in a good way. It encourages a guy to think that she isn’t going to be into the exact same things and mannerisms as one of you guy friends for example, which I think is important to grow attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 04:25 PM |
| 4 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?THIS 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?Can you go into more detail about your experience that changed you on that trip? Just curious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?I do miss being in a relationship for the same reasons. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?You seem very level headed and wise from your experiences even though that part was negative and I agree fully with you on needing 2 incomes these days to make it. Idk if a lot of lower income women share this sentiment but I appreciate your comment. If a guy is using a woman’s naivety and inexperience and youth against her it’s because he wants control and is likely insecure as well. Wanting a younger woman to control them is wrong. I think it’s mostly about looks/fertility and the woman not be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?Why do you hate yourself now I wonder? I’m genuinely curious. If it’s just a mental thing I can relate to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?I respect that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 02:14 PM |
| 4 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?I want to try shrooms one time for this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 01:51 PM |
| 5 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?So basically red pill is right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Men (and women if applicable) who became successful with the opposite sex after being unsuccessful in their young to adult life, did it make you bitter, cynical, or spiteful towards the opposite sex?!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 05:05 AM |
| 0 | Straight women are not attracted to men, they are attracted to certain men.False. Men may talk about it amongst there friends later but hardly ever to the face of the woman right then. Now if you are hitting on a know douche bag or jock in front of his friends then maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Do you give a flying fuck about anxiety over paternity uncertainty?In the age of dating apps, rampant social media use, moral decay/hedonism, and over half of couples divorcing, paternity testing should be mandatory and shouldn’t be taken personally by women at all. If there was a test for if a guy cheated in the relationship before engagement then as long as the guy has nothing to hide they’d do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Who are the low value men?How do you think I write it so well? I’m living it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Are younger man/ older woman relationships a potential answer to the imbalanced SMP/ RMP that men here rail against?Not always true actually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 02:49 AM |
| 2 | The "80-20" rule claim is incorrectTrue, no man wants to be settled for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 04:19 PM |
| 6 | What are these skills that sluts have that a chaste girl doesn't have or can't quickly learn?Bruh, you have porn brain bad. Porn stars are actors, even the amateurs are told to play it up. Yeah some are enjoying it but you really need to get out of this before it fucks up your brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 01:23 PM |
| 6 | The "80-20" rule claim is incorrectThe truth is probably somewhere in the middle. That being said, I have a friend who is like 5’10 and has these light green eyes and a good smile and is just charismatic and funny who said he’s been with over a 100 women, many during college but he was also successful on tinder too. He didn’t work out and drank a lot but the other stuff made up for it. He just had what it takes for casual sex, which is just being an entertainer. Except it came naturally to him. I haven’t met many people like him … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Men care more about a woman’s career/social status than they like to admitHell, let the wife be a nanny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Men care more about a woman’s career/social status than they like to admitKids go to school you dope. I guess you are talking about pre-school years. That’s what retired parents and grandparents are for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 12:32 AM |
| 5 | Men care more about a woman’s career/social status than they like to admitNot for a man who needs a partner in life to buy a house and build a family. It’s different if he’s able to be a provider. If someone makes the median salary of the state they live in or less then they can’t be a provider and will likely live in poverty unless their woman works too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 11:10 PM |
| 6 | Men care more about a woman’s career/social status than they like to admitFalse. Working class men do, at least moreso than someone making 6 figures. Like me for example, I at least want a woman who works full time in a job with at least SOME path to eventual upward mobility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 11:05 PM |
| 7 | Men care more about a woman’s career/social status than they like to admitI agree with you OP. I had a girl friend of a month who I dumped because she worked at staples part time and was 26 and lived with her parents. I was attracted to her but that and the fact that she was clingy af turned me off. I was thinking to myself, “if we were long term and got married would she expect me to take care of her?”. I also make a little less than the median salary of my state I live in which I think it important to note. I think if a guy makes 6 figures he cares less. But I think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 10:25 PM |
| 8 | The Arrival Of Male Birth ControlHaving sex and having a kid you don’t want is both a side effect and would harm your future. If you want want to use condoms fine, but if male bc came out and you wouldn’t even consider it but you make your woman do it while you go raw then you are a hypocrite. That option isn’t available right now so it’s up to both people to decide right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 03:31 PM |
| 16 | The Arrival Of Male Birth ControlI mean women are doing that now dude, and they can still have kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 05:53 AM |
| 6 | Keeping FWB while in a committed relationship?Sounds like she has no business being in a relationship unless it’s with him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Question for PPD. Do you believe dating is hard as men are making it out to be? Primarily the ones on this sub? Why or why not?Nah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 02:11 AM |
| 12 | The Arrival Of Male Birth ControlSo I would use the hell out of it personally as long as side effects weren’t debilitating. It is a little weird to me how some guys in here would be worried to death about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 02:06 AM |
| 6 | The Arrival Of Male Birth ControlThis is sadly the truth probably | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | The Arrival Of Male Birth ControlI would use the hell out of it personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | The Arrival Of Male Birth ControlI’d use the hell out of it cause condoms don’t feel good! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 01:53 AM |
| 6 | Societal Expectations of DicksReading that honestly makes me feel better because of how crazy and unattainable it is lmao. Thanks. It’s nice to know women can’t get everything they want sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Red pillers at their core have an issue with Western gynocentrism. This is too fundamental of a culture clash. If you don't like it, you just have to leave your countryI’m sure many of the women are grateful just to be out and away from the poorer conditions of their country. I think if a decent looking younger guy who wasn’t poor but wasn’t rich got a woman from a country with less opportunity then I think it would go a lot better than a 50 year old guy getting with a 20 year old where they are in completely different life stages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 10:09 PM |
| 5 | Red pillers at their core have an issue with Western gynocentrism. This is too fundamental of a culture clash. If you don't like it, you just have to leave your countryDon’t agree that reducing sex to a transaction is bad when the party getting paid is 3rd world poor? I’d have more respect if you paid a hooker in a 1st world country where opportunity is rampant but they chose not to go for it than someone who has little opportunity which lets you use her body to give her money that won’t last a day. Like maybe if you gave the woman a good amount that could help her for a month or more that’s a ton better, but I’m sure that’s not happening with these guys trave… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Societal Expectations of DicksYou must not live in America | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 09:52 PM |
| 8 | Societal Expectations of DicksBasically Bruce Wayne lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Red pillers at their core have an issue with Western gynocentrism. This is too fundamental of a culture clash. If you don't like it, you just have to leave your countryYou ever hurt animals? Just curious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 09:33 PM |
| 0 | Red pillers at their core have an issue with Western gynocentrism. This is too fundamental of a culture clash. If you don't like it, you just have to leave your countryNot if you find a good one not being used for prostitution like this guy above | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Red pillers at their core have an issue with Western gynocentrism. This is too fundamental of a culture clash. If you don't like it, you just have to leave your countryI wonder if Russia is more androcentric than we are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Red pillers at their core have an issue with Western gynocentrism. This is too fundamental of a culture clash. If you don't like it, you just have to leave your countryDo you feel bad in the slightest for using these women in these countries for sex? Assuming you are doing that. And you say you won’t do those other things for pussy but you will spend money to fly to these countries and pay them for sex, which is basically…prostitution? I’m no feminist but the whole idea of it is pretty disgusting to me honestly. I hate it for those women there. I’d rather pay to fly one of those women here and marry her and she actually be grateful for me cause I’d treat her r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 08:50 PM |
| 9 | Question for PPD. Do you believe dating is hard as men are making it out to be? Primarily the ones on this sub? Why or why not?“Where have all the good men gone” basically means where have all the successful very attractive single guys gone. This is popular for still attractive women to say when they hit their 30’s and still don’t have a family and after they probably rode the cock carousel for a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 04:40 PM |
| 59 | Question for PPD. Do you believe dating is hard as men are making it out to be? Primarily the ones on this sub? Why or why not?I think many of us guys in here have had issues of some type that caused us to not be as social and successful as what many women would consider “the average guy”. The “average guy” (in a positive light) is somebody who isn’t a chad but still dates here and there with many gaps of time between. And by here and there I mean short to mid length relationships of varying quality. Probably doesn’t get one night stands much if at all but dating isn’t the #1 problem in his life. His social life isn’t b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Men and women, have you ever been the "Chad/Stacy" who she/he was cheating with? What are your feelings on it now?Wow that’s crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Is it fair to say that BOTH men and women hit an "Epiphany" stage in their 30s?Well I have small hands for a man, but if I can get social proof it don’t matter! Yay. Thanks for the article. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Is it fair to say that BOTH men and women hit an "Epiphany" stage in their 30s?I’m saying this for anyone. Celebrities live completely different lives than we do. The only thing I think that can be pulled from celebrities is if they typically date attractive people vs non-attractive people, if they date younger or older compared to average non famous people based on if they are male/female, etc. But the thing is, maybe you are right about the age gap argument, but a celebrity man is different from an average guy making median income for the state he lives in who doesn’t lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 08:08 PM |
| 10 | Is it fair to say that BOTH men and women hit an "Epiphany" stage in their 30s?Using celebrities to prove your point is never a good comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Is it fair to say that BOTH men and women hit an "Epiphany" stage in their 30s?I hate to say it dude but he/she got you on this one. I know what you are trying to say but your example wasn’t good since women are less interested in marrying again if the stats are true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 04:23 PM |
| 3 | Is it fair to say that BOTH men and women hit an "Epiphany" stage in their 30s?I hate to say it dude but he/she got you on this one. I know what you are trying to say but your example wasn’t good since women are less interested in marrying again if the stats are true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 04:23 PM |
| 13 | Is it fair to say that BOTH men and women hit an "Epiphany" stage in their 30s?Yeah it’s not the n-count specifically but it’s his ability to get that high n-count. Women will still consider him despite the n-count over guys who pale in comparison in their own n-count, they just might be a little more “cautious” which honestly doesn’t mean much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 04:18 PM |
| 2 | A cool psychology article about how women underestimate men’s romantic interest in them and men overestimate women’s interest in them. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dating-toxic-or-tender/202206/why-first-moves-go-unnoticedYea that’s my problem I’m way too realistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 08:37 PM |
| 15 | Q4MEN: What are the clues a woman can use to tell if a man only wants sex and not commitment?This, and if he’s just generally pushy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | A cool psychology article about how women underestimate men’s romantic interest in them and men overestimate women’s interest in them. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dating-toxic-or-tender/202206/why-first-moves-go-unnoticedI am the same way haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail.I think guys care that a woman isn’t hanging with druggies or heathens and that she works full time somewhere. As long as this minimum is reached the guy can quickly resume to liking her body and appreciating any additional positives. Now for a super successful guy in life who has options these things will start to matter more because women come easy to him. But he will still most likely want someone who doesn’t make as much as him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 04:34 AM |
| 2 | Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail.Most guys don’t care how successful a woman is or how many people she knows…this is common knowledge. Most men just want a attractive unfat-woman with at least some boob and ass who is kind and loyal and doesn’t have too many sexual partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 04:15 AM |
| 4 | What about love?Being in love is one of the greatest joys in life. It’s best to give it a chance if you get to that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 04:07 AM |
| 0 | A cool psychology article about how women underestimate men’s romantic interest in them and men overestimate women’s interest in them. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dating-toxic-or-tender/202206/why-first-moves-go-unnoticedLol, thanks for sharing. Goes perfect with the article. Just be careful cause not all is what it seems. Some of your guy friends are probably good guys, but others may just be good to you but not others. I wonder for the latter situation if seeing how they treat other women or how quickly they get in and out of relationships and why the relationships ended could be clues to his likely intentions with a female friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 03:52 AM |
| 2 | A cool psychology article about how women underestimate men’s romantic interest in them and men overestimate women’s interest in them. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dating-toxic-or-tender/202206/why-first-moves-go-unnoticedYeah a large part of me doesn’t think women can be that oblivious to a man’s wants. I think they do kind of pick up on strangers advances but I think the guise of friendship with some guys can actually fool them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail.Maybe ONS, but FWB are not, and happens pretty often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail.I see them say they can get a brief fix from them at least, particularly through FWB. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail.Cause it takes a lot of f***ing work compared to women. The cost benefit analysis is done and the guy has to decide if it’s worth it or not. Meanwhile single physically attractive women in their 30’s wonder where all the good men have gone after riding the cock carousel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail.Maybe not attractive in personality or not attractive as they could be if they were an interesting person, but a woman with 2/3 of the following things: boobs, butt, and a decent face already has value to most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Women are attractive by default. But they can't do much to improve their given attractiveness, beyond makeup/surgery/clothes. Most men are by default unattractive. But on the flipside, through gargantuan efforts, they can build up their attractiveness through decades of effort, if they don't fail.Not really. Unless they were very heavy in weight and took years to lose that weight and diet properly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 02:10 AM |
| 8 | A cool psychology article about how women underestimate men’s romantic interest in them and men overestimate women’s interest in them. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dating-toxic-or-tender/202206/why-first-moves-go-unnoticedAhh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 01:33 AM |
| 12 | A cool psychology article about how women underestimate men’s romantic interest in them and men overestimate women’s interest in them. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dating-toxic-or-tender/202206/why-first-moves-go-unnoticedBut it should also be concerning to you as well. The men you consider friends really may not be in a purely platonic fashion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 01:17 AM |
| 8 | A cool psychology article about how women underestimate men’s romantic interest in them and men overestimate women’s interest in them. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dating-toxic-or-tender/202206/why-first-moves-go-unnoticedWhat does this have to do with anything exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible for a woman to be thin and below-average looking in today’s dating market like it’s possible for men?Most guys but definitely not me. Got to have something… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/22 12:15 AM |
| 4 | What makes women want to enter into a casual relationship?I hate to say it man but I think it’s just based on raw attraction for most women. They have to perceive you as high value or as someone who wouldn’t normally waste time on her. They have to feel like you are a prize of some kind. I’ve never really had hookups with women my age much (most were older) but I usually have to meet them first somewhere too for a date, even if it’s just one. I don’t like one and dones though, but maybe if I was a chad who consistently could hookup multiple times with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Would long term relationships flourish more if each person in the long term relationship deleted all their social media?You forgot porn, the worst of them all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of women who post sexy pictures on social media while in a relationship?I think it’s bad. They should be free to do it but that doesn’t mean it’s a good thing at all. Thirst trapping in relationships is wrong. Idk why modesty is such a lost concept. It can be sexy as hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameA relatively small number that continues to grow every month and year. It don’t have to affect libido and erection quality to affect people either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 03:13 AM |
| 0 | How Can The Gender Pay Gap End When Women Won't Date Men Who Earn Less than Them?A girl on my Facebook posted “A MAN is supposed to be a PROVIDER. idc what this generation think 🤷🏿♂️” and this was my long drawn out response. “Lauren Elise these times are going to be very challenging for relationships in general cause it’s no longer a time where men are off to work and women are delegated to the house. While the men were at war in WWII the women were recruited to work. When the war was over and the men returned, all of a sudden the workforce was doubled and inflated and the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Women are not the romantic gender, men are.Yes lol this all the way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Women are not the romantic gender, men are.The girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Women are not the romantic gender, men are.There were 2 women with bad pussy stank I went down on. One other one was after we went to the beach in the ocean lol, so I understood that one. But the rest of the pussy I ate was magnificent. If you don’t like giving a woman pleasure like that you might be gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Who are the low value men?2-3k is a lot to spend, especially 3-4 times a year like a lot of women desire. Growing up we’d take a trip to Myrtle beach once a year and small trips to a beach about 2 hours away. Now women compare with their girlfriends and feel bad if they do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 12:59 PM |
| 0 | Who are the low value men?And “fun” translates often to someone who can afford a boat or costly trips to Costa Rica, not just a good personality for many women in our modern dating culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Who are the low value men?It’s kind of weird because what you are describing isn’t a partner in life, but more like a trophy. Maybe someone else has a better word. You want a partner who is a source of entertainment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Who are the low value men?LVM that are not scum of the earth but just largely invisible to women are men who aren’t very social, don’t work out, don’t have many/any passions, make less than the median wage of the state or province they live in, and that have mostly solitary hobbies like gaming. They also probably live with a roommate at best. Things that might make them lower are if they have porn addiction or anxiety and are overweight or may have some other mental issues like depression that needs to be dealt with and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Large Metastudy Finding Masculine Traits Predictive of Mating OutcomesWell idk why I would be talking about people already paired off. The 99% I’m talking about the ones complaining about women’s standards. I’ll concede that I wasn’t clear enough about what I was saying so hopefully my last comment cemented that. Looks like your suggestion is to forgoe American women and move to Latin America or Asia. I guess that is the nuclear option. It’s funny though, guys that do that are judged harshly particularly by women here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameBe glad you are oblivious is all I have to say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Large Metastudy Finding Masculine Traits Predictive of Mating OutcomesWhen I said 99% I’m obviously talking about people that are single. I’ll concede that if the average height in America is 5’9.5 then maybe 30-40% of men are complaining that are in the 5’8 and below category without looking at actual height statistics. Out of this 30-40% I’m not sure how many are mad, but probably a lot of them when it comes to women only wanting men 5’10 that wear boots and lie about their height being 6’ and above. We’re talking mostly about single people here from 18-35. Idk … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Large Metastudy Finding Masculine Traits Predictive of Mating OutcomesYou sound very knowledgeable about the subject I guess. However, I don’t think 99% of men are married or have girlfriends bruh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameI’m all for legalization of weed and mushrooms. Heroine and harder drugs no though. Not really familiar with ketamine. I am against porn after seeing what it can do to me and after reading countless stories of what it’s done to others individually and in marriages and relationships. It’s ease of access to young people in particular is it’s biggest issue. When I get back from doing stuff today maybe we can debate more about why porn even in moderation is not a good thing, but for anyone who think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameYour argument is that porn is moderation is okay and apparently that in order for something to be addictive it needs a substance outside the body to make someone crave it. Is this your argument? The 1st part is more defensible but the second will be easy to pick apart if that’s the hill you want to die on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameWell sex releases other things like oxytocin, the love chemical. But my point is porn addicts and any drug addict replaces relationships, intimacy, sex, physical activity, etc with dopamine hits from porn and other drugs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 08:49 PM |
| 0 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameSome dudes post for attention but it’s nothing like women do dude…maybe some men with 6 packs do or post gym stories (I actually have seen a lot more of this lately honestly) but I overwhelmingly see women posting cleavage selfies or bikini pics while in long term relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameUhm, actually that’s all they are jerking off for. We do so many things for dopamine hits…including drugs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameWhich is easy to do. Like, most people can’t smoke a cigarette once in a while and stop. Same thing. And it’s not a subjective opinion when you have subreddits like r/pornaddiction and r/nofap and r/PIED and r/semenretention and sites like yourbrainrebalanced.com and etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameStudies. I’m at work so can’t tag it right now but porn shows similar dopamine levels to drugs like heroine. Not good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Men and women watching porn is not the samePorn is an objective harm to millions of people, atheist or religious. Plenty of studies are showing it’s harm on religious and non-religious alike. I’m not just speaking from a moral objection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Large Metastudy Finding Masculine Traits Predictive of Mating OutcomesI’m not sure man. 1% is a large number of people. I’m at work so can’t look up stats right now, but if the average guy in America is 5 9.5 and the most common way people meet now is OLD and we believe most studies about women’s preferences then it’s reasonable to say a ton of men have qualms about it. I think in America the issue is worse than other places though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 06:34 PM |
| 0 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameI guess for an atheist sure. Still doesn’t mean what he is doing is harmless at all and a bad deed against his fellow men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Men and women watching porn is not the samePorn > Video Games I’d like it more to cigarettes but probably worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameForget the afterlife. Do you have any shame at all? Do you feel like you are helping people? Do you think you are making money in a way that doesn’t exploit viewers and the people that participate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 05:07 PM |
| 5 | Large Metastudy Finding Masculine Traits Predictive of Mating OutcomesIf “taller than them” was the only requirement then 99% of men wouldn’t be complaining about women’s height standards. They don’t want just someone an inch taller, they want them at least 6 inches taller and more likely 8+ inches taller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameIn the afterlife you will have a lot to answer for man…..so many lives are being damaged by what you are doing/working for. It’s awful awful stuff and I wish I had never seen porn in my life cause getting addicted to it has in some ways ruined my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameFor now. Keep using it though. Go ahead. It is ruining men’s natural libido and erection strength. Leading cause of ED in young men I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameI partially agree with you, but only partially because as someone who has struggled with porn addiction I know firsthand it’s much worse than posting bikini pics on Instagram. I don’t think it’s healthy at all for women to do this however, and it affects lots of women who don’t live up to an ideal body type either. If a girl is in a relationship I don’t quite understand showing cleavage and bikini pics myself unless it’s with her man. Modesty hardly exists anymore yet it will always be classy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 04:16 PM |
| 0 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameJust be glad you never got too far into it. But you still have a lot of life to live. Porn isn’t just something that is possible to get addicted too though. It may be slightly harder to get addicted to than cigarettes but trying to come off of it is like heroine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameI’m living proof of what you are saying and anyone who disagrees with you are lucky they never got affected as badly as I did. It affects everyone differently based on what age they started, what they got into, how much prior sexual relationships they have had, and any number of other mental issues like depression or anxiety that make people go back to porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 04:04 PM |
| 7 | Men and women watching porn is not the sameWatching porn isn’t healthy man. Js. Get out while you still can | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?I guess the tone and word choice of your question confuses me. Oh well, I’m glad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Frankly idk what you are asking. My fingers are very skinny and short for a man. In the 5th percentile or less. My hand is 7 inches long, middle finger 2 3/4 - 2 7/8 I am 5’7ish and men shorter than me usually have larger hands that I can tell. Luckily penis size has nothing to do with hand size though. Hope your question is answered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Lol not true. The average penis length is in the mid 5 inch range and mine is at least an inch larger than that and I have small thumbs. Where do you even get this info | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 11:32 AM |
| 3 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?I mean, I’m 5’7ish and don’t really want to date a woman less than 5 for the same reasons but I can’t imagine also being worried about my daughters being too tall either lol. Sounds crazy for you. I just want my son to at least be my height. And hopefully have longer fingers…hence my name lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 01:45 AM |
| 10 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Honestly this is weird. Your best chance is with women with the same skin color and social-economic background as you that are shorter than you for the most part… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 01:43 AM |
| 6 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Do you actually worry about this? God society is fucked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/22 01:38 AM |
| 4 | Romantic successes and failures can have profound impacts on how men thinkYeah I imagine if you are a guy who gets sex easily that the current paradigm is something they don’t ever want to stop and the opposite if it don’t work. Match this with dying religious mores and more secular outlooks and you just have more reinforcement if you benefit from this paradigm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 10:15 PM |
| 6 | will the Gym help his dating life?Watch comedy shows? Did it actually help you get a better personality? Curious because I’ve had this same thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 09:15 PM |
| 2 | The major difference between male and female sexuality is: Women are turned on by being desired.I was someone who hadn’t dated a lot due to insecurity and anxiety. I do wonder a lot if I had fixed these issues early on. Dating is minefield when you are young. Probably 95% relationships don’t last and hearts get broken. At a glance dating when you are young doesn’t seem smart if you are in it to find someone long term. But after having dated and being a in a relationship, it definitely is one of the greatest joys in life. It’s unfortunate if you find someone that has their own issues and yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 06:53 PM |
| 9 | What are the steps a guy takes before you sleep with him?That is so fucked up dude. Lots of women have been hurt by this shit. AND many men too. My ex was messed up emotionally by some past abusive relationships where I know this took place. Yea, fuck you. Learn to have some empathy for people. We all are struggling with some kind of battles so why make it worse for others? If you want a lot of casual sex join some druggie scene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 04:10 AM |
| 6 | What are the steps a guy takes before you sleep with him?You’re just trying to manipulate women to having sex with you if you are not genuinely interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 04:06 AM |
| 0 | Women of PPD. How many of you are single?Older women are amazing ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Women of PPD. How many of you are single?Older women are amazing ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Women do not have an inherently deep or complex sexualityOr just chasing novel sexual experiences with different women, even if most are just vanilla. A woman reading an erotic novel is about a mysterious tall and muscular successful entrepreneur knowing her inner desires and fantasies and bringing them to life while ignoring other women…lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 12:37 PM |
| 3 | Women do not have an inherently deep or complex sexualityJust because it’s a fantasy doesn’t mean it’s not what you seek? Guys seek porn in real life by seeking hookups and enacting sexual acts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Women do not have an inherently deep or complex sexualityDamn what a great comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Women do not have an inherently deep or complex sexualityBasically men are Pokémon. The rarer the Pokémon the more clout she gets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/22 01:58 AM |
| 2 | In Defense of Being a Square.This is helpful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, men are only thinking of a small subset of women, which is why they think that women have it easier in datingDid they ever act strange towards you or act in ways that caused you stress/emotional pain? Just curious cause I still think about what I could have done better or if I could have just understood her better and not took her flipping out on me so personally the night we essentially broke up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 08:16 PM |
| 2 | When discussing dating, men are only thinking of a small subset of women, which is why they think that women have it easier in datingI appreciate your reply and that makes total sense. I live in the southeast US so you probably know there’s still some stickiness there but it’s certainly less and less than it used to be. It’s crazy how things carry over from generation to generation. Makes total sense about older black generations being wary about it though. Idk if you notice but a lot of black guys get jealous when black women get with white guys, especially the more attractive they are. And it’s the same with whites here too… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 08:14 PM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, men are only thinking of a small subset of women, which is why they think that women have it easier in datingI hope not…it hurt to let her go but I had to protect myself. (Inserts lol) I wasn’t perfect but I treated her good but “her past” caused her to act in peculiar ways sometimes. I can’t imagine being brought up in an unstable house so I’m Sure it wasn’t easy for her. But yeah lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 07:52 PM |
| 2 | When discussing dating, men are only thinking of a small subset of women, which is why they think that women have it easier in datingI appreciate your reply and understand you. I don’t have any easy answers for you. Some black women are very attractive to me but most the time I don’t feel I can relate to them and my family would be a little shocked and curious if I brought one home… even more so with my sister bringing a black guy home. I think black parents feel the same way many times if the opposite happened. I guess it’s a sticky subject that I think goes both ways and is at least halfway due to the old darker times in ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 07:22 PM |
| 2 | When discussing dating, men are only thinking of a small subset of women, which is why they think that women have it easier in datingI guess you have stats on that? I’m talking about as far as sex goes. Marriage maybe not. Maybe. But also, maybe it’s just a regional thing. I’m from the south East and I don’t see a ton of white guys with other races compared to white women with different races. But cause of the pandemic and just being more introverted I haven’t been going to parties and stuff lately. But that’s what I always noticed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, men are only thinking of a small subset of women, which is why they think that women have it easier in datingMy ex had an absent father and some sexual trauma so it wasn’t because of racism, just wanted to add that in. Haha that’s weird. I’m sure it wasn’t cause your Hispanic though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, men are only thinking of a small subset of women, which is why they think that women have it easier in datingActually I have to say I think you are right if I remember the statistics correctly. I think it’s more nuance though. Brazilians are all considered Hispanic basically yet they are extremely diverse. Puerto-Ricans supposedly have a lot of “black” intermixing in their populations compared to other Latin countries. I think in the US though I never knew many rednecks to get with Hispanics or even black people to get with Hispanics or Asians getting with Hispanics. They seems to be their own group in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, men are only thinking of a small subset of women, which is why they think that women have it easier in datingAt the very least I find it interesting that black men are way more open to dating outside their race. Probably something to do with just being dudes and having more libido though. I think white women are more open to dating outside their race than white men on average as well. Seems like Hispanics are the most close-knit group for dating each other which is probably in part to language differences but it’s interesting at the very least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 03:10 PM |
| 0 | When discussing dating, men are only thinking of a small subset of women, which is why they think that women have it easier in datingAsian women in particular have to worry about being fetishized by white coomers because of porn and hard core red pill rhetoric. I find it unfortunate because they may be too defensive against a white guy who just thinks they are attractive and have good values. The bad white guys are ruining that for the good white guys. So In response to your comment, yes a weird preference to only prefer Asian women (for example, predominantly by white men) because of a perceived idea of them maybe being more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | When discussing dating, men are only thinking of a small subset of women, which is why they think that women have it easier in datingGood for you? Seriously, if you found your niche good for you. I think it’s good to note (to) that black women are the least likely to date outside their race compared to other women anyway. They as a whole are less open to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 02:44 PM |
| 3 | A Discussion of the responses to my “how attractive does a a girl have to be for you to approach?” thread.Maybe we should lower the scale to 1-5 Probably more accurate cause it forces people to say if they are actually a decent catch at 4 or if they are closer to average at 3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 02:31 PM |
| 5 | When discussing dating, men are only thinking of a small subset of women, which is why they think that women have it easier in datingIt’s not racist to not want to date someone of a particular race. Lots of things can come into play like cultural differences and different upbringing. Also, people may not be attracted to the features of a race of people, mainly being skin color obviously but other features as well. I say this as a guy with little luck on apps myself, but it’s not racist to not want to date someone of a particular race from a dating app. It’s a little more different if you know the person in real life and think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 02:11 PM |
| 3 | When discussing dating, men are only thinking of a small subset of women, which is why they think that women have it easier in datingThey just need to limit like to 5 or 10 a day. Then everyone would be more selective and it would increase the chances you match with someone who actually wants to meet you. But tinder and others aren’t about that, they benefit by keeping people on the apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 02:04 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion if a guy doesn't initiate sex even though he enjoys being with you giving you kisses and cuddles but isn't thirsty for the sex?Well now you have to tell your tactic even if it hurts. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:55 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion if a guy doesn't initiate sex even though he enjoys being with you giving you kisses and cuddles but isn't thirsty for the sex?They may be incompatible currently but with a little work and encouragement…. I agree with the 2nd part though 100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:55 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion if a guy doesn't initiate sex even though he enjoys being with you giving you kisses and cuddles but isn't thirsty for the sex?That’s great for you! Maybe you can help other women find that guy then, no joking here. You probably are attractive, a well to do person, and reasonably social at least which helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:25 PM |
| 2 | What is your opinion if a guy doesn't initiate sex even though he enjoys being with you giving you kisses and cuddles but isn't thirsty for the sex?If a guy is having problems with his libido or having a sexual dysfunction, maybe the woman can help him figure it out first before just throwing him in the trash? That’s all I’m saying. I’m not saying sex isn’t important but life is rough. Maybe that guy has been through something in life that affects him sexually and needs help. Idk, just seems cold to discount a guy who you otherwise click with in every way. If it’s a long term issue that’s different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion if a guy doesn't initiate sex even though he enjoys being with you giving you kisses and cuddles but isn't thirsty for the sex?That’s one of the most common women’s complaints is finding a guy that will commit to them that has options but only chooses her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Men with college degrees have far wider and more frequent dating options.I agree. I have a degree that didn’t help me though so I’m just screwed again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 07:31 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion if a guy doesn't initiate sex even though he enjoys being with you giving you kisses and cuddles but isn't thirsty for the sex?It’s not your beeswax, but it sounds like you prioritize sex above near about everything in a relationship. No doubt sex is important and something I hope I get daily in a long term relationship/marriage however I think it’s kind of bad that if you liked a guy a lot in every other area but he had some sexual issues that you would just immediately discount them. It’s like women are only allowed these problems. You could miss out on a great partner cause of this. It’s just interesting is all. I wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion if a guy doesn't initiate sex even though he enjoys being with you giving you kisses and cuddles but isn't thirsty for the sex?This is what men on here say about women waiting for men at the finish line just so you know. Maybe this guy needs a little more encouragement or is dealing with something and could really benefit having you help him, you know…as a partner… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 11:57 AM |
| 2 | What is your opinion if a guy doesn't initiate sex even though he enjoys being with you giving you kisses and cuddles but isn't thirsty for the sex?Six months is a long time. That being said, women check if your man watches a lot of porn if he has erectile dysfunction and/or low drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 01:26 AM |
| 2 | What is your opinion if a guy doesn't initiate sex even though he enjoys being with you giving you kisses and cuddles but isn't thirsty for the sex?If he’s a otherwise good guy…oh yeah that’s right men are expendable and as a woman you have plentiful options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 01:24 AM |
| 3 | What is your opinion if a guy doesn't initiate sex even though he enjoys being with you giving you kisses and cuddles but isn't thirsty for the sex?I thought it was hard for women to find a “great guy” in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 01:23 AM |
| 0 | What standards do women have that are “too high”?Wanting men that make far above the median wage of the state they live in while they make at or below the median wage. Or only wanting 6 foot or higher men when they are 5’2 or less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?Yeah, but I still think women naturally tend towards people despite nurture too. Of course a young girl can be groomed to be a plumber or electrician but if left to her own choices she’s not going to get into those fields the majority of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?I was in a weird spot myself. They had regular classes and honors classes at my high school in America. I moved up to honors classes (except in math) by choice because most of my friends were in them and the level of general attitudes of my classmates towards education and respect towards teachers and others was waaay different than in the honors classes. I wasn’t particularly thrilled for school and didn’t really apply myself like I should have but I was always brought up to think education was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 04:27 PM |
| 0 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?I too believe (on average) women are way more likely and suited to classroom settings than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?I recently looked into possibly going back to college after getting a useless degree. ALL the scholarships were for women, minorities (many just for black people), and especially minority women. Guess as a white male you only get one chance. Maybe if I changed my sexuality I might could weasel out a few bucks. Ain’t right. They told us to go to college to make a million more bucks than someone who doesn’t but then the college offers degrees and programs with little future potential, unless you p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?Can confirm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?Most women tend towards people and guys towards things. This is well established. Nurture can only account for 50% at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Do you think it's a good thing or a bad thing - or neither - that women dominate college and already have a foothold in dominating the economy? And why?As a man I never was either…:-( Honestly I can only speak for 2005-2008 but trades were never pushed on us and it was encouraged for everyone (men and women) to go to 4 year university because they make “a million more dollars than a non-graduate” over their lifetimes. What a lie that was, unless you got a STEM degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Why do women often hate men playing videogames?Sounds so exhausting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 04:12 PM |
| 6 | Why do women often hate men playing videogames?I think that’s it. A guy who doesn’t camp every weekend or do some kind of sports where the woman can mingle with the other friends and their girlfriends is more likely to bore her. I say that as someone who plays video games like the average nerd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do women often hate men playing videogames?37-40? Really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Why do women often hate men playing videogames?That’s what I’m saying! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Men's sexual desirability almost entirely attached to "the important stuff", aka how awesome you are is not always fun.Had an ex who was like that about not being used to emotional stability. Can confirm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Men's sexual desirability almost entirely attached to "the important stuff", aka how awesome you are is not always fun.Great comment wow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Men care about n-count:The MoratoriumYet men and women (on average) are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Men care about n-count:The MoratoriumThe ability to pair-bond? Men want a woman who will have his kids and not other men’s kids. I mean, there are some men who don’t care. I’m not sure being “secure” is a prerequisite of caring about it or not. I’m sure many secure men care about it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Men care about n-count:The MoratoriumWhy would a man (especially a HVW) want (to be able to hold and/or tame) a woman prone to being hypergamous and/or promiscuous? I guess some men get off on being so high value they can tame a wild woman but idk, I don’t think most men want to put up with that. I think most men who desire long term relations don’t want a challenging woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men.But this is fundamentally different than men who desire sex or at least 1 sexual partner (whether in relationship or fwb) but can’t get them. Women only have this problem if it’s self-imposed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men.Women are only sexless if they choose to be…merely opening her legs on tinder is enough to get her laid. Even if she’s gross. Some guy will want her and that’s just how it is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Introversion as a character trait seems to make relationships difficult to find for men.That would be an interesting PPD topic and book/movie theme | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | How could OLD be improved?Hinge before I got banned had the best idea. You only get like 10 swipes a day and then that’s it. Maybe they should make it 20-30 swipes a week and thats it. It encourages women to actually talk to who they swipe on and actually have conversation. Maybe just 10 a week would be better honestly. This would force guys and girls to actually have meaningful and descriptive bios because they only get a small chance to make an impression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 11:45 PM |
| 1 | What are the professions of the men on this sub?I feel like a lot of people aren’t commenting, or only people with good jobs are commenting. I would say mine but it’s for state government so I’ll just say mostly customer service. All my coworkers are old and unattractive and I’m one of the youngest in my position. I only make around 40k a year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 01:15 AM |
| 1 | What are the professions of the men on this sub?You have to get a masters for that career field right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 01:10 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Black women are the least desirable in the dating world today.What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 10:41 AM |
| 3 | Purple pillers, How do you deal with the entitlement mentality from guys in various aspects of relWell it depends on your age I think but 50 is a pretty high number. 30 is a high number. 20 might not be high if you are older but is still kind of high which is crazy to think cause that’s where I am but I’m also 32. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 02:45 AM |
| 7 | Purple pillers, How do you deal with the entitlement mentality from guys in various aspects of relMy high n count friend (guy) got with a high n count woman. In my friend groups it seems that most people got with similar n counts actually, though most of my friends have low n counts. My only friend who is a girl is about to get married to a guy with a lower n count (I think) and she has a high one although she’s shaped like a pear and not attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 02:31 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.The frontal lobes of our brains don’t fully develop till 25 or 26 last I remember. Not sure about the other parts but the frontal lobes deal with decision making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 01:04 PM |
| 4 | What do you think is the solution to most of the guys struggling immensely with womenThere’s so many distractions now (porn, video games, tv) that weren’t there in there past that can cause a lot of us on here (imo) to miss out or ignore the struggles that help us level up in life since we chase those instead due to different reasons (being introverted, being bullied, having a traumatic experience, being unlucky, being neuro-divergent, having the wrong mindset towards socializing for too long, developing unhealthy coping strategies, being legitimately deformed, undiagnosed menta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 11:32 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of men even want that "High Value Male" lifestyle?I was dating a woman that was pretty enough for me but besides her being clingy she worked part time at a staples, like once or maybe twice a week and not even 6 or more hours on those days. I was making like 37-38k and was thinking that if I got with her I’d be the sole breadwinner with a not so fantastic salary but not poverty wages. This was back in mid 2019 too before this crazy inflation. So to an extent she’s right, what a woman makes matters. At least to a guy with any forward thinking. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of men even want that "High Value Male" lifestyle?40k-50k used not to be a bad wage but sadly everything is so expensive now. Used to one person could support a family. After WWII women entering the workforce killed that for most people now which is a whole other subject but just sucks men are expected to work 50-80 hour weeks to make 80k+ and support a family and kill themselves while women complain about a wage gap receiving maternity leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of men even want that "High Value Male" lifestyle?Yeah working more than 40 hours a week was NEVER a goal of mine. Unfortunately seems like that’s what it takes today to make it as far as materially and getting a very attractive woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 04:36 PM |
| 2 | What is an average guy?Yes comparison is a (huge) thief of joy just wish it was easier to turn off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Men are constantly reminded that “women are not a hive mind” yet they consistently demonstrate the exact opposite when it comes to mate selection - they are heavily influenced by their peers and base their opinions of men on what their friends and other women thinkEye opening. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 04:05 PM |
| 5 | Dating is moving on a minefield for womenThere’s a lot of women I would date if they didn’t have kids. These women may not be high earners or in “careers” that are attractive but they are single mom’s and already had kids, an experience I want to have with someone for the first time as they are too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 03:30 PM |
| 7 | Dating is moving on a minefield for womenYou are saying most women would date a guy with average to slightly below average looks who makes less than the median wage in the state they are dating in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Men are constantly reminded that “women are not a hive mind” yet they consistently demonstrate the exact opposite when it comes to mate selection - they are heavily influenced by their peers and base their opinions of men on what their friends and other women thinkI think this is why women are so keen to gossiping/talking with their friends about their sex lives with their boyfriends and just talking about other women in general that they know. They seem far more interested and likely to do this than men. Mostly to grade their man against their friends’ expectations. Constant checking and balancing. It makes no sense to me and I think a woman’s friends can many times complicate an otherwise good relationship. Naturally friends CAN give good advice but Bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 02:06 AM |
| 29 | Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless?Blunt but correct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else observed that women tend to characterize men they find cute or wholesome as being... sexless?That was a really thoughtful answer, have my upvote | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 09:19 PM |
| 2 | What are the life stories of the people in this subreddit?32 and pretty much same story | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Men will do whatever is required in order to obtain sex, and perhaps not a great deal moreActually she did say 25-34 is 50% later, which is more inline with my observations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 12:18 PM |
| 0 | Women say most men are “awful,” toxic or undateable, or that “the bar is so low” which is such a joke. Most men worship the ground women walk on, even attractive ones, and women are ridiculously selective.My ex didn’t. I was a good guy to her, different from her past 2 abusive ex’s. Unfortunately she still was unstable and I had to end it sadly. Albeit she had childhood traumas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Men will do whatever is required in order to obtain sex, and perhaps not a great deal moreYeah the stat is referencing the total women’s population, not just a stat for young women. There needs to be a cut off at like age 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Women really don't like men who LOOK YOUNGER than themDid you accept? Can’t leave us hanging like that lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Men will do whatever is required in order to obtain sex, and perhaps not a great deal moreIdk if it was intentional by her honestly but it didn’t seem completely right or a complete statistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Men will do whatever is required in order to obtain sex, and perhaps not a great deal moreYes thank you that skews it pretty heavily | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 11:10 AM |
| 2 | Men will do whatever is required in order to obtain sex, and perhaps not a great deal moreVery cool! Enjoyed your replies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 12:45 AM |
| 3 | Men will do whatever is required in order to obtain sex, and perhaps not a great deal moreAmong my friends I’m about the only one not married or been married but of one friend group of mine which was 3 guys and 1 girl, only one married early about 7 years ago. 2 are engaged and one is married a year ago and all are close to 30 or at least 30. I guess including me then it’s a group of 5 and I’m 32. But my other friend group it’s more accurate. They all got married I think by 25 but 3 of them are brothers. 2 of them are still married (1 is not a great marriage though honestly but 3 kid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 11:50 PM |
| 12 | Men will do whatever is required in order to obtain sex, and perhaps not a great deal moreWow. Pretty crazy. That was in 2012 though, wonder if it’s changed in 10 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 07:58 PM |
| 11 | Men will do whatever is required in order to obtain sex, and perhaps not a great deal moreThis seems sus and shocking. 83% of women over 25 have been or are married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Men will do whatever is required in order to obtain sex, and perhaps not a great deal moreThis is why people jack off instead and coom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to one night stands do you care about your partners sexual gratification?Lol you definitely are impassioned about Gary Wilson and not the content he’s brought to light. Idk about Gary Wilson’s credentials and honestly idc as long as he’s using and discussing scientific studies and demonstrating why they are false. He does this in the video by the way in a clear and concise matter. Another thing he mentions is that just because something isn’t in the DSM doesn’t mean it’s not real. Science is supposed to grow and discover. Porn makes a ton of money off honey teens and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 08:50 PM |
| 1 | What causes women’s height preferences to be so disproportionate to reality?Actually it is, thank you. People without options care greatly about why they don’t have options, an experience you’ve lost sight of. If your post is shallow people meet shallow people and get what they deserve then cool, I’d agree. But you having the success your having/had must mean you situation wasn’t as bad as many others after all, you just lacked the internal factors back in college to help you and you luckily gained them afterwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 08:46 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to one night stands do you care about your partners sexual gratification?Whatever. Me and many others have not been affected by porn because we were brought up religious. That is 100% laughable. If you want links to the studies then you’ll have to watch the video cause I don’t think the poster posted them, but I’m sure can be found by looking up “perceived addiction pornography” or something like that. But we already know you don’t really care so I’m just posting for people that do. Try spewing your nonsense in r/PIED or r/pornfree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 08:39 PM |
| 1 | What causes women’s height preferences to be so disproportionate to reality?These “short” men, are they lamenting to women or men? What are you basing all this off of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | What causes women’s height preferences to be so disproportionate to reality?You think there are abundant women willing to fuck you or something? Are you asexual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | What causes women’s height preferences to be so disproportionate to reality?Oh I’m sorry, I was just adding my 2 cents. I think a lot of shit testing is done in beginning of relationships/dating for whatever reason. Women’s height preference being a shit test I’m not sure. I think it can be a form of shit test used but not every woman will do that. Being put down for something you can’t change though is difficult to make amends for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 08:11 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to one night stands do you care about your partners sexual gratification?That first part is completely false and if you are legitimately interested in learning something new and potentially changing your viewpoint on that then watch this video. https://youtu.be/ZLtSoWrEplM But since you won’t, the short stick of it is that the studies about “perceived addiction” thwarting actual porn addiction are demonstrably false when changing the criteria and factors, even in their own studies. The guy that came up with “perceived addiction” was grant funded as well and wasn’t ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | What causes women’s height preferences to be so disproportionate to reality?You talking about on here or in the real world? You hear short men lamenting in the real world? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | What causes women’s height preferences to be so disproportionate to reality?I think it happens more in the beginnings of a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 07:01 PM |
| 1 | What causes women’s height preferences to be so disproportionate to reality?What is BTS? Behind the scenes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | What causes women’s height preferences to be so disproportionate to reality?This guy fucks…I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 06:55 PM |
| 1 | What causes women’s height preferences to be so disproportionate to reality?The chad might would at the top if it were a filter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 06:46 PM |
| 2 | What causes women’s height preferences to be so disproportionate to reality?His IQ can be 70 and as long as he’s 6’5 and decent looking women will like him sadly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 06:43 PM |
| 1 | What causes women’s height preferences to be so disproportionate to reality?Heavy wishful thinking here. Short of a governmental ban in a dystopia online dating is here to stay. (sadly) I believe it’s detrimental to women and men’s happiness though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 06:41 PM |
| 5 | Despite advances in birth control technology, the unintended pregnancy rate has remained steady in the US over the past 40 yearsI had a ex that faked a pregnancy test on me just to see my reaction early when we started dating (crazy and a whole other subject) but when it happened I didn’t blow up on her cause I’m literally half the reason it’s possible. Her taking pills helps both of us but if I’m not using a condom I have no grounds to stand on myself. Thank God she faked it but some guys on here have to realize if they ain’t using a condom then they are always taking a chance a long with human error. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 04:11 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to one night stands do you care about your partners sexual gratification?I strongly doubt it. If men can get erectile dysfunction from jacking off to porn too much and death grip women can too. Certainly more rare but definitely possible. Women don’t have to go months or even years without sex though like men, particularly young men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to one night stands do you care about your partners sexual gratification?Unless it’s more compulsive than once a week or once every couple days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 04:01 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to one night stands do you care about your partners sexual gratification?Masturbation works on the skin but porn can work on the sensitivity in your brain. Trust me on that. Go to r/PIED or r/pornaddiction or r/nofap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 03:54 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to one night stands do you care about your partners sexual gratification?I mean, how could a man’s fingers and tongue compete with a machine that vibrates 1000 times every 30 seconds lol. As far as sensitivity it makes perfect sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 03:52 PM |
| 4 | Despite advances in birth control technology, the unintended pregnancy rate has remained steady in the US over the past 40 yearsYes it takes a man and woman to have a kid. If a guy is depending on his girl to take pills all the time yet he skeets inside her every time they have sex then it’s still both their faults. Yes the woman should take her pills regularly though until having a convo about it if she wants to stop. But the guy is still responsible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?Where are you from? This is crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | What eventually happens to most of the single men on online dating?I got banned from hinge cause I replied to a horny bot (lol) but I think that’s the best app right now cause they limit your swipes making people actually think about their swiping. Bumble tries this now but for whatever reason I’m just not attractive on there lol. Tinder is definitely not great but it is simple and easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 09:20 PM |
| 1 | What eventually happens to most of the single men on online dating?No, this is a off the wall take. I thought e harmony was for old people growing up and I’m 32 now and just missed tinder in college when I left at 24. Tinder was fresh and exciting/new when it came out but had never ever considered or thought about online dating till 2014. Actually I was on POF now that I remember but it wasn’t an app I don’t think and it was mostly weird people on there (which is the same actually now haha). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 04:42 PM |
| 2 | What eventually happens to most of the single men on online dating?Good lord man. You need to talk to someone and be more vulnerable with others. The average person does not have all these issues. Maybe in attractiveness (especially in OLD) but not making friends and such. I hate to say this but if you don’t have friends and at least 1 or 2 social outlets then that’s below average my friend. I say this as someone who has made mistakes too. You got to pull yourself out of this existential rut man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 04:32 PM |
| 1 | What eventually happens to most of the single men on online dating?I’m a dude and if I could pick other women I thought were attractive other than a model on a conveyer belt then chances are I wouldn’t pick the model, if they all look like the ones on America’s next top model for example. My sister watched that show all the time and the average one on there wasn’t good looking to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 04:26 PM |
| 0 | What percentage of single men are losers? What makes them losers?Right now a loser guy is probably someone without a house who makes under the median wage of the state they live in who doesn’t have many interesting hobbies or who doesn’t have a good social life, particularly if they are over 25. If they are under 25 then take away the house and median wage part…or actually leave the median wage part. This is unless they are in college. That’s a whole’nother ball game I don’t care to get into. I am fully aware of house prices right now but I’m just saying it h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 11:28 PM |
| 3 | [CMV] Telling men that relationships aren't a source of happiness is bad advice and invalidates their feelings.Low libido is a medical condition that can have many causes. It’s not a normality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 03:49 PM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.Lol what does the socialization part mean? You may be right though. You like microdosing? I’m too square to get a hold of stuff like that but I’d try it someday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 03:38 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.Just haven’t found the right one yet, or given the opportunity to quality potential suitors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 01:17 AM |
| 0 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.Sounds like not a lot. Later in life your tune may/probably will change. But live it up hun while you got the goods I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.More commitment from more men. Yes even attractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 03:24 PM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.No it’s just guys want women with similar n-counts. There are a lot of guys that don’t care, and a lot that worry about being worse than others. But don’t think there are not many who just don’t think a high N-count woman is attractive based on its own merits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/22 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Would you date or marry a single mother or father?No, I want that opportunity to have kids with someone for the first time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 03:37 AM |
| 2 | the problems in modern dating between the genders are actually Darwinism in actionI think that’s why women like guys with dogs, especially big dogs. Big dogs require a lot of commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 03:22 AM |
| 7 | the problems in modern dating between the genders are actually Darwinism in actionI’d give you an award if I could. The worthless peacock analogy is fantastic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.I suppose the order changes then when you get older. Most men on here complain that they can’t get sex and who a woman gives her sex to matters more in those 20’s than their 30’s when the women settle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDI think I’ve learned that red pill doesn’t have all the answers and won’t all your bitterness. At best it may empower your bitterness and ability to dish it out. Someone shared a video about it that changed my perspective on it basically. Red pill has a lot of people trying to exploit you in it. The pick up community actually had a more positive attitude towards women than red pill. Basically red pill is too calloused towards women to help over half of guys who just want a meaningful relationshi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone had their view changed bc of a debate here on PPDThey USED to think this, and I think more trad women still do. It reversing for the rest of us though. Most women feel more useful now even to the point of inflation and men are falling behind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 06:36 PM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.People are not just blank slates that culture shapes 100% Most people agree it’s about 50/50 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 01:46 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.1st of all: you edited your previous comment to include more stuff. Secondly: if you are saying sexual pleasure is desired over kids due to purely financial reasons (cost of surgery) in spite of the possibility of having kids due to cost benefit analysis and risk then being snipped or having tubes tied is by far the least risky and most cost effective strategy to not having kids, permanently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 03:38 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.I firmly believe people do not seek these permanent solutions for far more common reasons that that and think most people would agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:53 AM |
| 0 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.If we didn’t want kids then as soon as we are sexually active we’d ask doctors to make us infertile and then pursue sex for pleasure only. Why are the vast majority of people holding out from doing so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:47 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.What is representative of the world’s opinion on these matters? Genuinely curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:46 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.Not trying to be disingenuous. Just saying we all biologically seek to promote our genes and legacy in the world through offspring. Sexual pleasure was extremely effective at promoting this. We may seek sexual pleasure over having kids in modern times but that was not it’s biological purpose for the overwhelming majority of human history is my main point. Perhaps if we biologically are supposed to want kids and have them, we may have to “evolve” a different reward for doing so besides sexual ple… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.Sex traditionally leads to having offspring and is why we pursue sex. The pleasure we derive from sex is a reward for having sex and helps us seek it more. Birth control helps us keep the pleasure without the offspring. So what you are saying is that we prefer sexual pleasure over having kids. I suppose this is true but this ignores the purpose of sex in the first place. The pleasure part of sex was just to reinforce us to have kids and feel closer to a partner and make those feel good chemicals… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.I didn’t change it but included an explanation under it of what I meant to say. I agree that there are some sorry men out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:23 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.Care to explain more? I’m curious your outlook and think many men on here would benefit from reading it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.Due to lack of resources or funds (aka resources) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.You know this isn’t true though. If it were then as soon as we would all be able we’d snip ourselves as men and tie our tubes as women. Most people (as in the overwhelming majority) want kids one day. They might not want it now or with certain people, but most everyone wants kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.I guess the bigger question is why some men don’t think like you do and think in ways like this post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:18 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.I appreciate your comment and outlook. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.The invention and improvement of birth control and its importance cannot be understated in why people in the west are having less kids. Most people want kids when they are ready to have them, both men and women. Most people don’t want kids when they are not ready to have them, both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:15 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.You don’t agree this is why N-count for women is such a big deal on this forum? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.I want to hear your outlook. I’m not trying to debate you, I’m genuinely interested. I identify as being purple pill. I don’t want to be red pill so I’m genuinely interested in your outlook on this subject. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:11 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.That is given to men when the women reach their late 20’s and 30’s then. I feel like men dating women less than 25 years old for loyalty is a monumental risk that leads to terrible heartbreak for most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:09 AM |
| 8 | Male tiktok user tells women to not go for men like him (basically virtually every red flag you can think of) and go for nice guys instead... women double down.Strange. I think love is just as much as choice as it is a feeling at worst. At best, love is 100% a choice. Okay maybe 80% choice 20% feeling. But in the later years feelings ain’t going to keep people together probably…feelings seem to fade cause the tingles occur less and less…unless there is a better way to look at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:06 AM |
| 6 | Male tiktok user tells women to not go for men like him (basically virtually every red flag you can think of) and go for nice guys instead... women double down.I understand why women want a guy who makes a lot of money for the reasons you said although it rubs many men the wrong way. Not every man can make killer money these days, and women are making as much and more than many men now. This wasn’t the case back in the day before WWII and some after. Now everything is confusing. It’s almost as if only men who make a certain amount of money should have kids now. Problem is in a monogamist society there will be a ton of women who have to have kids with m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 02:02 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.I edited my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:55 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.I’m going to have to edit the comment cause it sounds worse than I meant to portray. I replied better to someone else before you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:48 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.Please help me understand a better outlook then. This sub has daily discussions on matters like this. Women are valued or devalued based on how many men they slept with prior to the man they end up with. Why is this such a hot topic on here? Daily? I’m merely giving my opinion on why that is. If you have a healthier outlook on the alpha fuck bets bux I’m sure many on here would love to hear it including myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:46 AM |
| 0 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.If men didn’t want offspring then we’d all get snipped as soon as we get sexually active, but alas this does not happen. We value our ability to have offspring so much that we usually want women to take pills and get IUDS or get their tubes tied before we snip ourselves. So forgive me if I don’t agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:42 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.Sorry, but the main point should still be clear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.Would you agree most men on this sub do not think like this? Would you agree that most men on this sub are far too focused on women instead of their own self-improvement and caring about themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:40 AM |
| 6 | Male tiktok user tells women to not go for men like him (basically virtually every red flag you can think of) and go for nice guys instead... women double down.Cause even men desire companionship despite the circumstances. Companionship and loyalty are closely related and is pretty much one of the greatest things a woman can give to a man, particularly in a long term relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:38 AM |
| 3 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.I honestly wish I rephrased my comment you replied too. It’s not that men don’t want to care for kids, it’s just we’re not nurturing by nature as much as women are. To disagree with this is to disagree with biology, exceptions aside. I’m not saying men shouldn’t be able to help out though. There shouldn’t be excuses, but I genuinely believe women take more pleasure and less pain in dealing with kids and people in general. This is why men have professions in dealing with things more than women do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:37 AM |
| 5 | Male tiktok user tells women to not go for men like him (basically virtually every red flag you can think of) and go for nice guys instead... women double down.You read a ton into my comment… I never said I wouldn’t support my hypothetical wife and mother of my hypothetical children…there is no greater calling for a man. I hope whoever I marry will continue to work though after her maternity leave. It’s hard to make it these days. She don’t have to make a ton or the same or more than me, but just help support the family some too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.What are the greatest gifts a woman can give to a man? I’m just identifying why the majority of men are not happy with the terms they are given. It’s regularly debated on this sub everyday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.Okay, what are the greatest gifts a woman can give to a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:26 AM |
| 0 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.It’s an analysis of why so many men on here are frustrated with women sleeping around and then settling down with them later. What is the greatest gifts women can give to men if you disagree? Is this approach too pure a take to debate for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:25 AM |
| 1 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.I take it you object to something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:22 AM |
| 3 | The top 3 things a woman can give to a man are Kids > Sex > Loyalty in that order.Lots of dudes don’t particularly care about caring for kids. But most men absolutely want offspring. Just because it’s not in our nature to caretake as much as women doesn’t mean men don’t want kids. Edit: I’m not saying men don’t want to care for their offspring, it’s just that it’s not as biologically imperative and rewarding as much as it is for women. Women are nurturing (on average) by nature compared to men and this is widely accepted as true. Caring for children (and people in general) is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Men who can’t recognise or understand sarcasm are gonna have a rough time when approaching womenIdk, but I’ve always hated people who are “sarcastic”. I tried to stay away from people like that. Instead of running from people like that though, I wish I had embraced it to learn how to be sarcastic myself. Cause people who like sarcasm interpret sarcasm as being “witty”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 12:56 AM |
| 10 | Male tiktok user tells women to not go for men like him (basically virtually every red flag you can think of) and go for nice guys instead... women double down.The greatest thing a woman can give a man is kids > sex > loyalty This is why men on this sub are angry. Women want to give you the loyalty after they fucked the chads. To make things worse, often times later in life they have the kid from the chad before seeking loyalty from someone they never would have noticed before. Being a step-dad is perhaps the cuckiest thing a man can do if he knows she was alpha-dumped and wishes to be with that type of guy but is settling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Male tiktok user tells women to not go for men like him (basically virtually every red flag you can think of) and go for nice guys instead... women double down.I think “niceness” would actually be closer to trait agreeableness. “Nice men” don’t rock the boat. Men (on average) score lower on agreeableness than women. I think that’s the issue. If “nice” (agreeable) men are neurotic (women score higher on this on average as well) then they are mirroring a woman which is unattractive. I guess there is a fine line between “asshole which gets all the chicks” and “self-confident man who can delay gratification”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 11:59 PM |
| 13 | Male tiktok user tells women to not go for men like him (basically virtually every red flag you can think of) and go for nice guys instead... women double down.Damn this is deep. I know there are some fake nice men who just friends women to get in their pants but it’s not as prevalent as they say. You’d think it’d be every man who acts nice and not like a douche. I think the woman’s attraction to the guy matters most. What these “nice men” are lacking isn’t honesty and good values it’s the ability to activate a woman’s more primal desires and lizard brain. Nice men have to become less reliant on other people’s approval to subvert this I think. But the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Male tiktok user tells women to not go for men like him (basically virtually every red flag you can think of) and go for nice guys instead... women double down.You are a very dense individual today. Put the phone down and get some sleep man…your missing the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?What a perplexing thought by your friend’s mother. This has to be anecdotal only and a very personal experience with an individual man. That’s so weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?This makes perfect sense and I’m sure we all appreciate your comment but most men are concerned about women less than 5’6 wanting men 6 foot or greater only or subconsciously. 95% of men fully understand why a tall woman would want a tall man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?Lmao Steven Seagal here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?I am purple pill for sure and don’t agree with red pill on some things (mostly it’s misogyny and general negative attitude and manipulative goals which will never lead to happiness) or black pill (cause that leads to death itself) but large percentages of women do seem to care a ton about a man’s “status” which is basically the sum of many things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?I’m saying I could be wrong. Certainly less mature and younger women talk about everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos?I’m a dude and have no tattoos and 100% wish to have someone without tattoos. 2 things though. 1 my ex of only 3 months had no tattoos and had a ton of problems…I miss her, the sweet side of her but not the side that came out when she drank. She had been through a lot in her life and I hope she’s doing good now. So a woman without tattoos can still have a lot of issues. Some her fault, and some that happened to her that she has to get over 2 my sister has a couple tattoos (like 2) but all are ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Divorce attorney says that in 13 years of practice, the women who were her most difficult or litigious were the SAHMs.It is. But 30 years? Most average lower 40’s after 5-15 years. Maybe 20. And this area is quickly changing to HCOL in North Carolina with all the people moving here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Divorce attorney says that in 13 years of practice, the women who were her most difficult or litigious were the SAHMs.Teachers in my area after 30 years would be lucky to make 60k…maybe in HCOL areas they make more. But everything costs more too… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 09:17 PM |
| 2 | What trust issues do you have when it comes to women?I mean I just took a tape measure and did it. Top of middle finger to bottom of palm. The average male hand is 7.6 inches and a woman’s is 6.8 I think the average male middle finger is about 3.75 inches. Mine is 2.75 I’ve seen thinner hands than mine as I believe my palm is pretty normal. But it’s extremely rare to see someone with “smaller” (shorter) hands than mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 01:40 PM |
| 2 | What trust issues do you have when it comes to women?I liked Trump for his policies (I’d hate working for him as a person or disagreeing with him as a friend or colleague) but I will readily admit he brought much trouble upon himself. I’m glad that despite your beliefs towards trump that you can notice at some of that blatant hypocrisy from the left, a party that is supposed to be the most “understanding” of the two main choices when it comes to individuality and the celebration of it. And I am working hard on it man. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | What trust issues do you have when it comes to women?Not great actually. My hand is just slightly smaller than his, but I’m 5’7ish and he’s 6’1 I think. It was through looking at articles about this actually that I found out his hands are in the 15th percentile (I believe I read) for men. Mine are I believe 5th percentile. My hands are exactly 7 inches long (I think, could possibly be .1 less) when the average male hand is supposedly 7.6 inches. A woman’s is supposed to be 6.8 If you pull out a ruler or tape measure you’ll see that’s an incredibly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 11:48 PM |
| 7 | What trust issues do you have when it comes to women?I consider myself purple pill but definitely not blue pill but delete if you wish. I think I had the realization today that I MYSELF am afraid of being vulnerable to a woman because of a couple of fucked up things that happened to me when I was younger and a unique issue I have (insecurity of my hand size as a man). I think my inability to be vulnerable and open up wasn’t an issue towards women and my worries of what they may do to me as warned by redpill after all, but it is all of my own insec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Older women, well into their late 20s, 30s and even 40s are often as picky as hot 21 year olds, expecting you to put in the same amount of work for them. This proves that dating is heavily tilted in women’s favor.Not in my experience. At least in the upper 40’s and beyond lol. They are way more chilled out than 20 and 30 year old women. When women have kids their priorities change when it comes to the men they choose. It’s a bitter truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn?https://youtu.be/ZLtSoWrEplM He gives 50+ citations and debunks others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?Lol. As long as you don’t edit your comment it’s literally the one I’m replying too. “Look at someone who is 6’5 versus 5’3” In a comment before this one you said 6’1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 11:55 AM |
| 7 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?I think this is probably the least relevant thing a woman thinks about in tall men vs short men but could be wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 11:52 AM |
| 0 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?You are extremely bitter and need to chill out some (Source: unsuccessful 5’7 man) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?I disagree, it’s just porn has focused on those without big vulvas. They don’t bother me and actually are hot. Probably now most dicks in porn are bigger than average. All porn is terrible btw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 11:37 AM |
| 6 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?You went from 6’1 to 6’5 now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 11:33 AM |
| 3 | Is height preference more than just physical attraction?Shorter guy wins at least 8 out of 10 times still. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/22 11:31 AM |
| 2 | People who were bitter but eventually found love, what was the beginning of you losing that bitterness?Gives me hope…at 32 lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 07:15 PM |
| 0 | Are bluepilled man still more redpilled / based than women?I just hate to see this example used. Since this convo is bordering race I wanted to point that out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Are bluepilled man still more redpilled / based than women?“White people are the biggest beneficiaries of welfare” Duh, we make the majority of the population. I would hope so. What people never talk about is the statistical probability that white people vs black people vs Asian people vs Hispanic people vs green people are on welfare compared to their respective total population. Even if numerically there are more white people on welfare it’s not telling the full picture. Statistics are far more important when discussing this and it’s ignorant to not a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/22 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Have any men here been a beta bux and if so how did it go?I think most in here that are guys are not in relationships lol. I remember your story, seen it many times on here. Definitely an unusual one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 11:20 PM |
| 10 | Comparing Height Preferences to Expected Baseline - A Simulation vs. Surveyed DataI would say women 30 and above start to lower their standards for marriage as far as physically (on average), especially if they have bachelors degree or higher. So I think education and age play a big factor, but alas I have no proof. Certainly for hookups and casual sex height is a huge factor unfortunately. Women around 25-28 start looking for more meaningful relationships (on average) for potential marriage potential unless they met someone at a younger age organically and had a friendship w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn?Yeah, totally wasn’t accounting for 50-60 year olds and higher. But for most people in their teens and early 20’s, the 30’s are later in life lol. People in those age groups needs to not waste their time jacking off to porn multiple times a day or even once a day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 08:32 PM |
| 0 | How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn?If someone is 60 then sure, but most people on this forum don’t have to worry about that for 30-40 years so that’s not really relevant to most people’s concerns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 07:47 PM |
| 4 | How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn?I have no experience being 60 yet but being in my early 30’s…porn is no replacement at all for a real woman and social interaction. People can/do use porn as a crutch for other problems in their life just like drugs and alcohol. The addiction is real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 07:46 PM |
| 2 | How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn?I would say it plays some role. I also predict we will see many more porn addictions around now and more r/PIED | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 06:37 PM |
| 10 | How much can young people having less sex be attributed to porn?Porn is terrible for everyone. No citation “needed”. Maybe wanted. Getting off to pixels is nothing close to fulfilling especially later in life trust me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How many "Chads" did you sleep with before you met your current partner?I can’t remember what the average girth is but yeah. No my fingers are extremely rare for a guy to have. And yes I’m in my early 30’s so they ain’t growing. Brachydactyl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: How many "Chads" did you sleep with before you met your current partner?Ok. I’m just saying this myth personally gave me a TON of insecurity in my life in high school cause my hands are exactly 7 inches long and my penis is about 6.5-6.7 inches and I was thinking everybody was walking around with dicks and inch bigger than mine because I thought the myth might be true cause my dick is about the same size as my hand. Turns out I’m actually at least slightly above average. My fingers are just short af, in the 5th percentile of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]Do you think it’s possible to be unsuccessful in romance/dating and be happy/ok with it?Do I think it’s possible? No. Do I think it’s possible for others? If they are neurotypical then it’s possible but certainly not the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | The eastern reaction to Will Smith demonstrates how traditional masculinity is treated so differently in our modern societyI actually thought what he did was pretty brave but as he even said himself in their line of work you have to be able to take the criticisms and jokes. But will smith is cucked out of his mind too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 03:38 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: How many "Chads" did you sleep with before you met your current partner?The average hand length of a male is 7.6 inches. The average penis size is supposedly in the mid 5 inch range. The penis being the size of the hand is a bull shit myth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you think your parents would ever have paired up in the context of the modern day dating market?I had asked this before a while back and seems like 60-65% of people that responded thought their parents definitely would have met and everything would have been the same and they would have procreated and made them. This time the responses seem to be 50/50 or maybe even leaning more 40/60 in confidence that they would have worked out so it’s interesting to see. My folks? My parents both had married someone for about a year and divorced them without kids before they were set up on a blind date.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: What is your motivation?Don’t have to curse about it. Also, most people on here wouldn’t be here if it won’t to improve their outlooks on life and the opposite sex. A notable exception is people who come here to just complain and be nasty to others. I get your point and enjoy or appreciate the super scientific studies I truly do. But then you scroll down and see a lot of bitter comments. That bitterness is not coming from just wanting to debate and posts like these among a familiar community may actually provide an alt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: What is your motivation?Someone complained this is off topic but I actually think this and more posts like it are sorely needed on this sub as I believe a ton of people on here (including myself) need to see what truly helps and drives people to improve our own lives. I think many of us on here need more than just tireless debating cause sometimes it’s downright depressing. I still love this sub though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 12:44 AM |
| 0 | There is something wrong with RP mentality.I apologize if this comment is considered incel content. I was just thinking of factors that may be at play as to why many struggle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | There is something wrong with RP mentality.A lot of people in this sub are not properly socialized and are addicted to porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 04:41 PM |
| 2 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.I generally agree with you but it’s hard for guys who weren’t brought up with the right mindset and had bad experiences to leave their porn and video games and if they are not careful it can really mess up their life. Someone good looking who never had bad experiences (or as many of them) tend to get more positive feedback in their life which helps them be more interested in other people which does expand their interests and social circles. Porn and video games can be a surrogate for those thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 09:06 AM |
| 1 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.She’s right though, there are many men just playing video games too much, whether with friends or by themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 08:58 AM |
| 4 | What can we unanimously agree are dealbreakers in a relationship?I actually think most women do agree with that though, at least 90% would on a survey probably | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 03:57 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of this behavior?True, and sucks for that guy if he knew that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 12:41 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of this behavior?What’s in it for men if most women do this but most men can’t? We’re talking about this scenario hypothetically, IF indeed most women are actually this way. We’re not talking about men who never ask to be exclusive with a woman and/or stringing them along. It’s a tricky situation cause if she tells the guy she’s got 1-3 fwb H will definitely lose interest yet he morally should know if it’s been 2 months or more if she knows/sees his intentions. Honestly they aren’t compatible anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Women feel safe, men feel hornyDescribes my ex almost to a T I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 04:16 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of this behavior?But most men can’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of this behavior?Not the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 02:31 AM |
| 5 | Women do care about about male body count.I didn’t mean it in a bad way I promise, it just doesn’t make sense to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 12:01 AM |
| 5 | Women do care about about male body count.The only way I could see a man ever shaming a virgin is if he is insecure about something or trying to “impress” her by showing that he’s more progressive and cool than she is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Question for men and woman: why dont you use Instagram as a dating app?I feel like I’d be truly desperate to go to Instagram, and I’m not a flashy person at all so it’d all be fake anyway. I’m 32 though so idk if I was in my early 20’s or teens if I’d be more inclined to use it but probably not unless it was for creative purposes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Quesiton for Older Members: What changes have you observed in the dating market; has it gotten better or worse; and what solutions do you have?Easier for conventionally attractive men and 80% of women yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Quesiton for Older Members: What changes have you observed in the dating market; has it gotten better or worse; and what solutions do you have?Yeah think that has to do a lot with your age range. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | I'm looking to make a calculator/algorithm for figuring out "market value" for men. Looking for input.The race one might depend on what region of the world you are in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 04:02 AM |
| 0 | I'm looking to make a calculator/algorithm for figuring out "market value" for men. Looking for input.For RMV yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 04:01 AM |
| -1 | Women who’ve dated tall men. Are you able to go back to shorter/average height men or have you?What a freakish difference. It has to be a unchastized fetish at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Lesbians, how hard it is to date women?These threads are always interesting cause it’s like women figure out that maybe women are a bit “crazy” for lack of a better term. Especially in 2022. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 01:30 AM |
| 2 | How long do you see yourself invested in a purple pill debate?I really liked this site at first, and I still do. But it can suck you into negative outlooks on everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 08:00 PM |
| -1 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingThat’s fantastic and I believe makes you one of the few women who would do so. Your guy is likely a lucky man cause you see him for more than a wallet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingThank you for the honesty! I know many women agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?What is a boring person to you? Is it someone without hobbies? Someone who doesn’t go to the club? Doesn’t go to the bar with friends? Doesn’t have friends? Doesn’t travel every month somewhere more than a couple hours away to the mountains or the beach or a different state? I’m curious what every woman’s opinion of this is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 05:02 PM |
| 5 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?Are you in your lower 20’s or upper 30’s? And there are so many factors at play here that would matter. I do think the average decently attractive extraverted woman in her 20’s is like this though. Even introverted women find value in it too I’ve seen and can be coerced to get with a guy who they should know ain’t good for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Social skills are really important for menI agree with this but also agree that more conventionally attractive guys have more positive feedback loops too with women So an more average or ugly guy who is good with women socially is someone to truly respect and learn from cause their advice won’t be just pure blue pill propaganda. As for me, I’m a decently attractive guy I think but I’m 5’7ish and work a state job making just barely over 40k now in a smaller town. But even when I was in a big town making slightly less I just feel a bit un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?Well, would you agree? And if you are older, would you agree that when you were younger this was the case? I’m not really making a statement, I’m wondering if this is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 11:24 PM |
| 4 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?I think women prioritize the excitement a potential partner can bring to her life (at least in the short term) over finding an actual partner that has no plans to cheat on her and wants to treat her right. I get that women don’t want a boring man as a partner. But in between exciting and boring isn’t what 75% of women want either I think, at least when they are younger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 11:21 PM |
| -1 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingBullshit. At least for women with options, which is most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 11:14 PM |
| 0 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingAh that explains some things. This is why I wish we all had subtitles about where we live and how tall we were and what gender we are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 08:45 PM |
| 8 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingWhy aren’t women saying it? any job that makes less than me or is below the median wages of the state you live in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingI’m hoping you mean jobs that involve a gun. Cause if not, thats a very limited pool of people. Even liberals have guns half the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Question for men and woman: what careers do you view as a redflag or dealbreaker in the opposite gender when it comes to datingAgree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | How many of you would be pleased or displeased if your son or daughter married or seriously dated someone like you?I’d think he’s a good guy who needs help and guidance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 11:10 AM |
| 3 | Girls wouldn't sleep around/have hoe phases/rack up high body counts if they knew guys had no standardsI hope you don’t…porn is very damaging to men who view it a lot and a lot of women get abused and groomed into it too. But that’s a whole other conversation even if it’s kind of semi-related. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 08:16 PM |
| 9 | Girls wouldn't sleep around/have hoe phases/rack up high body counts if they knew guys had no standardsIt’s not that simple and all depends on the girl. Many absolutely get validation from sleeping with someone above their league, and even more if they can land a relationship with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 07:08 PM |
| 0 | Girls wouldn't sleep around/have hoe phases/rack up high body counts if they knew guys had no standardsThis guy fucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Girls wouldn't sleep around/have hoe phases/rack up high body counts if they knew guys had no standardsI’m a guy and think women do use casual sex for validation. They like to know they can get that 10/10 even if it’s just for sex. That’s why the validation of a relationship with that type of guy is even more validating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 07:04 PM |
| 0 | Girls wouldn't sleep around/have hoe phases/rack up high body counts if they knew guys had no standardsBecome a pornstar? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women are having fewer kids now because of preference, economics or irresponsibility?It would be harder anytime a kid is involved but at least a parent can sympathize with their partner who also had a kid…I’d think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women are having fewer kids now because of preference, economics or irresponsibility?I both understand and don’t understand that lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women are having fewer kids now because of preference, economics or irresponsibility?And that’s all they’ll be offered unless she makes good money and doesn’t expect eventual support or finds someone with kids already of their own. And eventually a lot of these entanglements the single mom has with men can get more serious and that’s when the guy may fly away unless he’s just hooked. The guy’s that involve themselves with a single mom have the extra consideration of a child in the picture to contend with if things ever got serious or if they just want to fool around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women are having fewer kids now because of preference, economics or irresponsibility?They’ll find dates but…they’ll find dates | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 04:02 PM |
| 8 | Do you think women are having fewer kids now because of preference, economics or irresponsibility?Single moms definitely have a harder time finding somebody who wants that responsibility. While true that she MAY have a support system, many guys factor in that a potential partner has a child already. There will at least be a significant percentage of men without kids who won’t consider her. Me personally I want that chance to have kids with someone for the first time and them be the same. If I already had kids of my own then it wouldn’t matter at all then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: How many "Chads" did you sleep with before you met your current partner?I think 6 foot and without being pudgy or fatter works too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 03:55 PM |
| 9 | Q4W: How many "Chads" did you sleep with before you met your current partner?Never change. And if you do end up having sex don’t go off the deep end of the relationship doesn’t work out. Most sane men respect a woman who doesn’t have sex outside relationships! But you sound like a great woman and glad things are working out for y’all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 05:19 AM |
| 8 | Q4W: How many "Chads" did you sleep with before you met your current partner?I feel like the 6 figures part is the least necessary for the guys trying to make a point about what women find attractive in casual sex but it definitely completes the package. The 6 foot and 6 abs are valued more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How many "Chads" did you sleep with before you met your current partner?Sounds like type A extraverted but neurotic men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 05:15 AM |
| -2 | Q4W: How many "Chads" did you sleep with before you met your current partner?You’re a guy. Women probably find you more attractive for having that many partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 05:09 AM |
| 6 | Q4W: How many "Chads" did you sleep with before you met your current partner?At least you met them through mutual friends. I think one of the things that bothers a lot of guys is women just window shopping for a chad on tinder and hooking up with them just because they are attractive and it’s purely for carnal reasons, especially if they hate the guy or think they are incompatible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How many "Chads" did you sleep with before you met your current partner?Unfortunately after college I bet at least half of women have done this. Especially if they are extraverted, but even the quiet ones can too. It may be worse than this honestly idk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How many "Chads" did you sleep with before you met your current partner?That’s tough for guys that want a relationship with someone like you for them to hear. But basically it all comes down to women being able to explore all sexual options easily with the most attractive dudes because they don’t care since you are giving it up and you not caring that he’s probably got 5 other women lined up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 04:59 AM |
| 5 | CMV: The only reason women claim that men only want to fuck them and not be in a relationship is because the bottom 80% of men that DO want a relationship are invisible to womenIdk, every adult job I’ve had just about so far I’ve been under a woman manager. Maybe not the top top over me but yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 09:02 PM |
| 11 | CMV: The only reason women claim that men only want to fuck them and not be in a relationship is because the bottom 80% of men that DO want a relationship are invisible to womenIt’s more than #2. It’s that on the fringe end of the bell curve, men are more pathological when it comes to ambition and long hours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 08:47 PM |
| 34 | CMV: The only reason women claim that men only want to fuck them and not be in a relationship is because the bottom 80% of men that DO want a relationship are invisible to womenJordan Peterson talks about this. On a bell curve it’s mostly men who desire to work that much. They are rare but the types that make it that far are usually men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do young, urban people have such a hard time comprehending that not every girl wants to throw herself at every man she meets on a night out?This | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: how far are you willing to travel to meet a girl for a first date?I drove 2 hours once while on vacation in the mountains to see someone, but I had already done it with her once so I knew it’d be worth it. Other than that an hour tops. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | How has mommy issues or daddy issues impacted your relationships,My ex had a bad father I think…she didn’t talk about him. She had some issues because of it and it bled into our relationship. I felt guilty for leaving but I don’t ever want to have trauma to bond with a girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 03:29 AM |
| 2 | How many of you would become stepparents?In a woman’s golden years no. Maybe in my late 40’s or 50’s I would become serious with a single mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 07:54 PM |
| 5 | Redpillers/blackpillers are doing exactly what they complain aboutThe social contract is broken. No longer one woman for every man. Men should be able to be good to woman too and prove they should be able to have one and treat her right. But treating a woman right is the lowest bar possible now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 05:27 PM |
| 0 | CMV - Women are more shallow than MenAs a guy I agree that as long as the woman is not fat and not deformed then there is a good chance she is somewhat attractive. “Fat” literally means (to me) no or little shape to her body. I love nice thighs and hips. Don’t have to have a perfect stomach, just not a thick pillow you know? Fluff is okay but a girl has to have some form or curve. My 2 caveats is I have to be at least somewhat attracted to her face and that she has to have SOME boobs however. They don’t got to be big but am not att… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill and Blue Pill Are Both Correct Part 3: Men, Get Off Online Dating - An Analysis of Sex RatiosYou probably have more going for you than the average guy then so bravo to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: If you were given a clean slate tomorrow, what would you do with it?Well some of us watched Disney and rom coms too…lol. Maybe I just wasn’t socialized enough with others. I had friends but most colored inside the lines. And if they didn’t I thought they were dangerous or bad people so I didn’t hang around them long. I literally used to think all women were innocent and almost mystical creatures waiting for a good guy to sweep her up and love her forever. I can see now how that made me so insecure to talk to them in a romantic way. So much pressure. I was incred… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Men here really act as if they wouldn't take advantage of their youth and good looks by sleeping around when they're young, like their female counterparts (if they could).Many women report having a orgasm when rape happens too I’ve heard…I don’t believe we should take much stock in things like this though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 06:49 PM |
| 4 | Q4All: If you were given a clean slate tomorrow, what would you do with it?Men come to women, women do not come to men. Women get approached, 95% of men do not. What grandma said was true for her and she meant well by what she was saying but it doesn’t happen for us guys, especially guys less than 6 foot tall that are not chad. I’m not 100% red pill but they have that part right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: If you were given a clean slate tomorrow, what would you do with it?I grew up in Christianity and I think it gave me a solid moral framework and kept me from getting into drugs and such. Still got into pornography though. I was very naive about the world and how many people just weren’t raised like I was and it hurt me too. I was extremely blue pilled and thought women really did want good respectable men. But church never taught me to be assertive and fend for myself too. Grandma used to tell me the right girl is going to come into my life one day. It works tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 03:46 PM |
| 7 | Q4All: If you were given a clean slate tomorrow, what would you do with it?I wouldn’t have went to university, it just wasn’t for me. Got a psych degree cause I thought I wanted to help people but didn’t realize that I actually don’t want to help people on THAT kind of level. And social sciences are so political now. There are so few conservatives in psychology like Jordan Peterson. Knowing now what I didn’t know then (reminds me of Toby Keith’s song) I would have really tried harder to be that x-ray tech in community college. But more likely, I would have just worked … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 03:29 PM |
| 1 | The reason women appear like vapid whores is due to statistics, most women are decent just like men.My sister did. She had a good upbringing though and a solid Christian background. She has only really had sexual relations in relationships which averaged over a year long. I know plenty of women, especially younger women, are not like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 02:15 PM |
| 1 | The reason women appear like vapid whores is due to statistics, most women are decent just like men.666 is what they want. Just below that is okay. Anything else…it gets difficult | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 02:12 PM |
| 1 | The reason women appear like vapid whores is due to statistics, most women are decent just like men.I don’t know for sure but I bet women get on tinder and find a guy and get off moreso than men. Men stay on longer or get back on after a relationship ends. I’d be curious to see if women are more or less likely to get back on tinder or other dating apps after a relationship from online dating doesn’t work out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 02:02 PM |
| 3 | What brings a rise in wishing for a more trad lifestyle?I know her/him saying that gives away so much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 06:57 PM |
| 12 | What brings a rise in wishing for a more trad lifestyle?You just gave away the foundation upon which all your opinions source from. Privilege (I hate saying that but definitely true in your case) and ignorance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 06:56 PM |
| 13 | What brings a rise in wishing for a more trad lifestyle?You barely read anything he said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Why would you expect women to be attracted to guys who do the easiest thing, live the path of least resistance?That’s what happened to my ex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Why would you expect women to be attracted to guys who do the easiest thing, live the path of least resistance?I agree with some of this and some of this I don’t. But we need to strive to be better as men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 10:13 PM |
| 3 | There’s really no reason to ever show weakness“20m” You don’t jack about life yet. I’m 32 and still don’t know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 04:45 PM |
| 3 | There’s really no reason to ever show weaknessI don’t know if it was intended but I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 04:43 PM |
| 1 | The reason most women get used for sex is because, under hypergamy, most women have nothing to offer men outside of their vaginas at any given SMV exchange.Love comes after attraction, not before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 03:14 AM |
| 0 | The reason most women get used for sex is because, under hypergamy, most women have nothing to offer men outside of their vaginas at any given SMV exchange.But do people pick others on love? No… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 01:21 AM |
| 0 | The reason most women get used for sex is because, under hypergamy, most women have nothing to offer men outside of their vaginas at any given SMV exchange.One of the best posts on PPD I’ve seen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 12:33 AM |
| 1 | To what extent is society aware of how much drugs like birth control, weed, and antidepressants affect women's mate selection?That is very interesting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 11:37 PM |
| 4 | Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be inYou are saying men can get attention and support whenever they want. That ignores the masculine imperative to have shit together and not have problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be inI concede that you are correct about that and I was wrong in that the 62.8% chance would apply to the man to woman ratios, you are correct. My point is still correct though, that in a neutral forum (if it exists on Reddit since the gender ratios are about 63% male and 37% female) it will be mostly men on it. But most forums are pretty niche or tailored to a certain demographic, which is the beauty of Reddit. Your point is that Reddit is not skewed towards men (63% is close to 66% which would be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | What evolutionary reasons would make a beautiful face more important than a strong body ?Sorry, MOST men don’t seek out taller women. Particularly women taller than them. Just like women prefer taller men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 10:48 PM |
| 5 | Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be inAmazing isn’t it lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 10:40 PM |
| 7 | Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be inWhat kind of attention does an average guy or lower get from using Instagram or Snapchat or selfies on Facebook? And do you think men or women value validation more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 10:30 PM |
| 0 | Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be inWrong. If there is a room with 10 people in it, there is a 62.8% chance that 6 or 7 of those people will be men and a 37.2% chance that only 3 or 4 (at most) will be women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 10:28 PM |
| 3 | What evolutionary reasons would make a beautiful face more important than a strong body ?Or men having babies with small women. Wouldn’t men want taller offspring too? You’d think tall women would be the most sought after but they are not. Guess we men are just stupid lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 12:14 PM |
| 1 | What evolutionary reasons would make a beautiful face more important than a strong body ?Either it was because 1) women used to be controlled more Or 2) evolution is a crock | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Your opinion of men who watch porn in relationship?Not for a long time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 11:46 AM |
| 6 | Your opinion of men who watch porn in relationship?Edging, before you know what edging means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 04:42 AM |
| 3 | Parasocial relationshipsI worked with a guy in his upper 50’s who sends hearts to some tik tok women. Yes, I’m in America. He’s overweight, bald, and pretty ugly. Edit: should have said stars. I think they cost money but idk. He definitely pays them some though no doubt in my mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 09:43 PM |
| 11 | Your opinion of men who watch porn in relationship?Because many men use it as coping for negative emotions in their life and get addicted, affecting their erections later in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Your opinion of men who watch porn in relationship?You should not watch it, and especially in a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 07:26 PM |
| 42 | Your opinion of men who watch porn in relationship?Be glad that was never you. Many men watch a couple hours at a time some days. It’s coping for times of sadness, anxiety, or boredom though. It’s f’d up many a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 07:26 PM |
| 15 | Realistic relationships that you see day to day is often confused for settlingYeah I mean most of her post was okay but that part looks awful. If you are married you don’t cheat. Period. If you are in a relationship you don’t cheat. Period. And I’m so old school despite being in my early 30’s that if you are going on dates with someone you shouldn’t be dating someone else. Period. Definitely not sleeping with someone while dating till they decide to be exclusive. Leaves such a bad taste in your mouth thinking about it. Could you imagine going out with somebody and the che… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 05:33 PM |
| 0 | Realistic relationships that you see day to day is often confused for settlingThis indirectly helps me a little bit understand why my ex treated me so bad before we broke up. Short story, I was pretty good to her and she had been through a lot and when she drank it just got worse. She was deeply sorry about it but I couldn’t look past it at the time and felt guilty for leaving her many months later. I think I provided a lesson for her at the least and I enjoyed the short time we had together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Do you think people pick partners based on how good that partner would make them look?This | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Do you think people pick partners based on how good that partner would make them look?Almost every woman I’ve been half serious with showed me to her friends for approval. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men?I think she was trying to make me feel jealous…it was a picture of her nude though. I really don’t know if it was just an old one on her phone or if she was sharing it on Snapchat or maybe even onlyfans or whatever the F*** but it was definitely a red flag. She had a few of those…she had been treated bad/went through traumas in the past and carried a lot of that with her which ultimately drove us apart. Yes mutual respect is huge for me. And don’t think I’m trying to put down women when I say va… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 11:39 PM |
| 2 | If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men?I think my ex had me see this in a bad way. I don’t really know but she acted like she was posting on Snapchat nudes and stuff. I think she was. I also think she was faithful to me but saw it as harmless. I don’t have much proof but one night she acted like she was sending stuff on there and didn’t want me to see. I think I saw her nude on there. I actually have been off Facebook for almost a week and I don’t use Instagram or Snapchat. I don’t think it’s healthy. And I think it plays to women’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 09:21 PM |
| 2 | If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men?Unrelated question real quick, how do you single out things like that to reply to? Idk how to do that yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 09:17 PM |
| 2 | If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men?My thing is I want a woman I can build with that I’m attracted too. I would share in equal housework and I just want her to have a full time job. She don’t have to make great money, just decent money. I’m talking like $30,000 or more with some hope of eventually advancing. I admit I need to get out more and have more of a social life. It doesn’t help. I have friends but all of them are either married with kids or engaged. It’s tough. I also want a woman who believes in being faithful and not get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 08:12 PM |
| 0 | If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men?That’s a bad example, but men 18-25 have to register for selective service here. You need better examples. I think society caters to women more than men though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 07:45 PM |
| 4 | If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men?Surprisingly based post? You think men should look outside the country for a more traditional woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that you're the prize?Not by herself or with just her girlfriends if she’s in a relationship she cares about. And this is also why a lot of women have a decent amount of debt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Why are women so much more content to be forever alone than men?Women (on average) have much better social circles is my guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 11:48 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Do you believe that men are becoming more attractive or less attractive?I was out downtown once in our capital city and heard an overweight girl talked to her friend while drinking that she couldn’t date some guy because she couldn’t date blue collar. It was ridiculous lol. I have to say though dude, I think most of those women don’t realize how much a blue collar worker can make. Your job title won’t appeal to many for casual sex but it will make a quality woman happy, and I’m not talking about just money but a guy being self sufficient. That’s what’s truly sexy to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 02:24 AM |
| 10 | Q4W: Do you believe that men are becoming more attractive or less attractive?I just turned on my tv and the first thing that popped up in shows to watch was “The Sex Lives of College Girls” or something like that. This society is all about the glorification of sexually liberal women now. Or at least hot ones. Men with anything other than high confidence are going to be discouraged and get less attractive cause they don’t feel valued anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you believe that men are becoming more attractive or less attractive?Jesus dripping with negativity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 01:55 AM |
| 7 | Dual Mating Strategy: Why men need to be aware of TRP it's teachings even if they don't agree with it.And this is why I’m afraid to get married. And if I do I’ll probably push for a pre-nup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 10:17 PM |
| 3 | How many people in FDS and TRP have sociopathic leanings?I wonder did he ever get tired of putting on a front or not? If he’s a male model type guy though that certainly helps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | How many people in FDS and TRP have sociopathic leanings?I think I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe that you're the prize?This is exactly how I feel, only I’m not married and I’m single 🥲 All these women want these days is fun and excitement and that’s expensive. A good time for me doesn’t always require money! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 04:58 PM |
| 7 | How many people in FDS and TRP have sociopathic leanings?I think the Pick-Up community attracted more autistic or serious minded but socially unaware men, especially the classic pick-up community. The red pill community is far more cynical and likely to use women. What pick up artists in the beginning like mystery we’re doing for men was helping them be more attractive to women without a ton of negativity. They didn’t (at least publicly) make grand notions on the dark side of women’s hypergamous nature and instead just focused on what works. The red p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Why is everybody's Ex 'abusive'?I saw a post on a baby shower list on target for the baby with both of their names as the parents. My birthday is Feb. 2nd and her due date was November 2nd on the website. It’s crazy I know but the coincidence is also so crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Is Male sexuality broken ?I think you are downplaying the issue. I’m not disagreeing that I’ve had a problem. But there is science that backs up what I’m saying. Jacking off to porn everyday affects millions of men worldwide in negative ways. Used to…erectile dysfunction was only a problem for older men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | "Treat men like garbage and they will love you and respect you"Sure didn’t work with me! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Is Male sexuality broken ?Using tools to bind people up to reach a sexual high is dopamine chasing. Losing your virginity in that manner is, “interesting”. I think understanding why you have these needs is important to discovering things about yourself. For sure, most people didn’t lose their virginity needing or using tools. Defending kinks with terms like kink-shaming discourages the question of why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Is Male sexuality broken ?If that’s true then that’s good for you. But still, needing kinks to get off…something’s wrong with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Is Male sexuality broken ?It’s not uncommon for a lot of people to have issues these days and share the same issues. None of it is healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 03:28 PM |
| 0 | Is Male sexuality broken ?You’ll watch more intense stuff to further your dopamine hits. It could lead to PIED so watch it. I say this as a friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Is Male sexuality broken ?Violent kinks? Are you being for real? If you are inflicting pain on your partner and wanting pain back there is a deeper psychological thing going on there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Is Male sexuality broken ?I jerked off too much to alleviate feelings of sadness, negativity, or boredom. A lot of it to porn early on too. It’s definitely affected me. I rarely watch porn ever now but I can’t stop masturbating at least once every day or every other day and I want too. It’s desensitized my penis and my dopamine receptors. Visit r/pornfree or yourbrainrebalanced.com I would say r/nofap but I think porn is the real problem. But most guys use porn and masturbation to get off and it can really F you up. I kn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Is Male sexuality broken ?Wth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 03:10 PM |
| -1 | Is Male sexuality broken ?Did you watch a lot of porn? It’s not natural to have kinks like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 03:01 PM |
| 7 | Is Male sexuality broken ?Idk a lot of the penises on the men are larger than normal. The angles definitely sell the big perception too though and the women being small as well. There’s a lot of black dudes that have some major complexes from seeing mostly large cocks on videos with black guys. It affected me too but I can’t imagine how it affected a lot of them with average or lower sizes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Is Male sexuality broken ?But not about the negative effects, particularly with porn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Why is everybody's Ex 'abusive'?When she told me that I told her that makes me feel really good but I didn’t know if I was ready to say that yet. Naturally she felt bad from that and acted like she wanted to leave but I stopped her and had a heart to heart for a minute and told her what I told you about love being a choice not just a feeling for me and that I wasn’t ready to say that yet but that she was the only girl I’m paying attention to and that I didn’t want anybody else and that I really cared for her. Obviously all of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Why is everybody's Ex 'abusive'?That’s really nice of you to say. I have questioned myself a lot. We were only together 3 months but I felt we had something good and meaningful. I like to think I helped her out in the long run. I really don’t want to dwell on it much more but I wasn’t perfect but felt like I treated her pretty well. I’m not the most outgoing social fun guy and who knows if we would have worked out but the memories hurt because we had a good thing and maybe I should have just told her I loved her earlier but I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Why is everybody's Ex 'abusive'?I know. Looking back I wish I didn’t take her drunken mental state so personally but I had to protect myself and leave. If I ever get in a similar situation next time I’ll need to just leave and take a walk by myself, even if it’s 2 in the morning. She had been through sexual traumas in the past and a couple abusive relationships she said and I did love her but she hurt me real bad the way she talked to me the last night we were together. She’s married now and had a baby so I hope she can live h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 10:43 AM |
| 5 | Why is everybody's Ex 'abusive'?No don’t take words out of my mouth. No one ever deserves abuse. Someone should end the relationship if they ever feel they want to abuse their partner. I ended the relationship because she was causing me too much emotional pain. What I was trying to say is that if she was with a guy who didn’t know how to handle that pain it might come out at her physically which is never okay but I could see someone with abusive tendencies being triggered by the pain she causes them. It’s never okay to hit a w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Why is everybody's Ex 'abusive'?My ex of 3 months said she had been in a couple abusive relationships before me. She definitely behaved in ways at times that I could see why it would bring out bad qualities in her partner, especially a younger more immature partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 08:40 AM |
| -1 | Men are better off not watching and avoiding porn altogether.I have watched a lot of porn and it definitely messes up your brain. Your brain gets used to pixels on a screen and struggles to give you an erection with real people. I used to watch it when I felt sad or bad about something or even just bored. Many people are saying they only watch 10 minutes a day and don’t have time for it. If you are telling the truth and you’ve only done that much for a long time then that’s great but for many of us it becomes a thing you start to look forward to and make … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Men are better off not watching and avoiding porn altogether.It can get there… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 07:48 AM |
| -4 | Men are better off not watching and avoiding porn altogether.That’s not normal and this attitude will cause you to be addicted to something you don’t want to be addicted too. You don’t got to be a sex crazed tik tokker like OP is saying but you have to quit watching porn to have a life you want, trust me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 07:44 AM |
| 4 | Men are better off not watching and avoiding porn altogether.I feel this. But honestly, we weren’t meant to be watching tik toks all day or be on social media all day either feeling bad about ourselves seeing other people. The OP also is blind too b/c we ain’t supposed to be chasing sex like that either but he’s right about porn being horrible for you, trust me. It’ll make you anti-social and alone with erection problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 07:42 AM |
| 4 | Discussions on this subreddit would be much more clear if in addition to age and gender, users revealed their weight as well.And height too But you know you are going to have some people faking their stats just for the hell of it and to live vicariously through a Reddit profile | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 01:51 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Women are awful friends to one another, and they carry that over into their relationshipsJudging by some of his comments towards you and others he’s being a bit dense. I think a problem for us guys is that we are very uncomfortable sharing emotions with even our friends for fear of embarrassment. Women don’t really have this with each other, which is an advantage for y’all. When men do open up to their friends I think they are more likely to get practical advice though than when a woman does it to hers, but for him to say it doesn’t happen because he’s never seen it is too dense. I’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 08:17 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women are awful friends to one another, and they carry that over into their relationshipsWell she has a point though, you can’t just shoot some one when they are down. I understand consoling someone who is emotional in the moment and then later talking to them when they calmed down so they can actually hear you. I’m a guy and understand that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 07:25 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Women are awful friends to one another, and they carry that over into their relationshipsThat’s a bad faith argument. He was saying their friends don’t tell them the things they need to hear (lose weight) not media. He’s not talking about instances of women needing to lose weight, he’s talking about friends offering helpful advice instead of just validation and manshaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 07:12 PM |
| 3 | With access to easy sex, it is up to women to control their n countsThere is one woman I know who one of my friends had slept with and told me about the conquest. They went to our old high school and she let him c** in her cause she had an IUD. I matched with this girl online and she looks pretty good and we might would get a long. But I couldn’t bring myself to talk to her because I know the reasons she hooked up with him. My friend has had sex supposedly with over 100 women while in a frat in college. He’s got adhd and tons of energy and light green eyes and j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Does sex change things?Dude you are caught up in porn bad I’m guessing. You don’t want to end up with an addiction and PIED one day so I suggest you take a break from it for good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Men who see prostitutes: What's your preferred flavor of sex worker?Women suck sometimes and can be very stuck up pretentious creatures, but I hate to see men exploiting women in 3rd world countries and even bragging about it. My Christian upbringing never prepared me for all this growing up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Age is an incredibly important and overlooked part of attractiveness/value.Yeah scars never really bothered me with the older women I’ve been with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Q4W (30 years old and younger only): would you have preferred to have been born a male?I say at least because a woman on Reddit said you are supposed to bone press to get the accurate measurement which would give me like maybe .2-.3 more. I halfway think I’m still measuring wrong but it might be from all the jacking off I did as a kid lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Q4W (30 years old and younger only): would you have preferred to have been born a male?🤣 hahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Age is an incredibly important and overlooked part of attractiveness/value.I think women hit the wall at any age after they have a kid. Some may take a little longer but they realize no guy really wants the hassle and responsibility of raising another man’s child with his resources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Age is an incredibly important and overlooked part of attractiveness/value.It could be better. No offense taken. I wish to be more attractive to women a little younger than me though cause I want a family. It’s hard to find. Need more social activities. I don’t want to be a stepdad but I messed up this long it’s going to be harder to find a good one the older I get. I’m not super ambitious which hurts me the most but I am trying to get a better job. My job isn’t BAD but it has no sex appeal and I only make $40,000. I have state benefits that would be useful if I was ol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Q4W (30 years old and younger only): would you have preferred to have been born a male?My penis is 6.5 inches long at least and I’m 5’7. The height thing is weird in your example. Oh yeah, and I have short fingers too. Hands are in the 5th percentile for men supposedly so hand size don’t mean anything either. Used to bother me a lot cause women would judge me on that cause of that old wives tail. Sorry, just hate seeing your post correlating height to dick size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Age is an incredibly important and overlooked part of attractiveness/value.That’s awesome man, hope it works out and congrats to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Age is an incredibly important and overlooked part of attractiveness/value.I dated a 23 year old when I was 30 2 years ago and found out later that she had probably 12 infractions on her driving record. The whole time we were dating she didn’t have a license. She also had a lot of traumas from her past… (sexual trauma from a sister’s boyfriend one night who tried to get with her younger sister and possibly her dad she never talked about that wasn’t in her life, and she said she had been drugged a raped by 2 guys in her social circle…I’m not judging her on any of this a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Age is an incredibly important and overlooked part of attractiveness/value.I like older women. They are more understanding and as long as you’re not a creep and look okay you will have a positive experience. At least in my experience they are just happy to have someone to talk to and be with, and many look great. Not all, but a lot more of them are mellowed out and value less superficial things which is infinitely hotter than someone who wants you for your bank account and how tall you are. But even then, once a woman has kids even when they are young it’s like they su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 11:27 PM |
| 7 | Age is an incredibly important and overlooked part of attractiveness/value.How much are you providing for her though. For it to last probably a lot, if not now eventually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Age is an incredibly important and overlooked part of attractiveness/value.I have the opposite problem. Have had way more sex with older women than younger women or women my age. Mostly casual/fwb though. If that’s all it is I prefer older women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 11:07 PM |
| 0 | Realistically speaking, what kind of women do men here expect to even get?The difference is from a purely evolutionary standpoint even the cave chad had to give some women to the others in order to run a tribe, or else “et tu brute”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 09:32 PM |
| 7 | Realistically speaking, what kind of women do men here expect to even get?THIS. It also has to do a lot with how we were raised. Being raised on blue pill and having to swallow pieces of the red pill or black pill hurts. That being said, a lot of us men could benefit from being more social and working on our personalities too. Too much of this negative thinking can really wear you down even if some of it or even a lot of it is true. I believe it’s social media bringing out the worst qualities in a ton of women and the fact that women are INCREDIBLY picky in online dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 09:20 PM |
| 0 | What men lose in the open sexual marketplace is gained back in serious LTRBe glad you don’t have too. I agree a lot of these guys have unhealthy outlooks and need to make efforts to get away from it for mental health but there is truth mixed into these things too. The problem is guys dwell on it and you simply can’t, even if partially true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 05:02 PM |
| 9 | What men lose in the open sexual marketplace is gained back in serious LTRYes this is what all the research and surveys have said normally for those that don’t know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Men here are always talking about not wanting to date women with high n-counts. So what's an acceptable number?Wonder what things will be like in 50 years. Will only tall rich athletic men have kids and families? It will take longer then that but if enough men are unhappy and disgruntled then that’s a lot of energy not being spent that has to go somewhere….may not see it in our lifetimes and it’s impossible to predict. If the trends continue it’s not looking good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 03:20 AM |
| 2 | A liberal upbringing better prepares you to exist in the current dating environmentFrequent enough to see once in a while | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | A liberal upbringing better prepares you to exist in the current dating environmentGuys definitely don’t think about it like you are saying lol, BUT I have thought that women think like that if they are allowing you to have sex with them. It’s kind of hot but also kind of sad if they are having sex with a lot of guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | A liberal upbringing better prepares you to exist in the current dating environmentI without a doubt agree with you and think my ultra conservative upbringing vastly affected my outlook on sex and relationships and being 32 now I still find myself trying to catch up with this crapshoot today. I was woefully unprepared for this sexual marketplace. I’m not a red pill enthusiast but I certainly OD’d on blue pills when I was young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 10:13 PM |
| 5 | Q4M What are your physical preferences and what are your physical requirements?Yeah he’s probably watched a lot of porn. Ladies, if a guy isn’t happy to see your pussy you deserve better, unless it’s blue waffle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4M What are your physical preferences and what are your physical requirements?My preferences as a 32 year old male who is about 5’8 would be a woman who is my height or less no shorter than 5 foot, nice hips, real hair that is long. Her boobs don’t have to be huge but she has to have boobs. Her butt I prefer to be easy to see that she has one but it don’t have to be big. Oh yeah; prefer she be thin or slim-thicc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Men here are always talking about not wanting to date women with high n-counts. So what's an acceptable number?I think there is a story that needs to be shared in a case like that. Was she a prostitute in Thailand or a sex hungry teenager? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Men here are always talking about not wanting to date women with high n-counts. So what's an acceptable number?I fear getting into a marriage with a woman who thinks like you about sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Men here are always talking about not wanting to date women with high n-counts. So what's an acceptable number?I think it’s funny you say it “didn’t work” yet…well, here we are. What’s happening right now is a grand social experiment and judging by this sub and the amounts of divorces, single parent homes, foster kids, suicides, etc it ain’t like what we have now is exactly working either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Men here are always talking about not wanting to date women with high n-counts. So what's an acceptable number?I’m not a good example of someone who dates a lot cause I don’t have many relationships but the ones I’ve had I’ve never asked them. My ex probably had at least 10 but idk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 08:57 PM |
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