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| 8 | I’m looking more into the female gaze, what is the main thing that you love in movies/ books that are more oriented to the female gaze?An undying love!!!! A pure undying love and being loved for who you are as a human deep within. A love and attraction that could never be stolen from by another woman. The way the man looks at the woman with raging desire and he has and will never look at another woman the same way! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 12:18 AM |
| 3 | How many times in your life have you became attracted to an "ugly" guy AFTER he opened his mouth? And how about the opposite?I’ve liked so many unconventionally attractive guys because they were naturally funny and had a lot of confidence with the lack of an ego. Also very smart passionate guys. And with attractive guys, if they have that look in their eye where he thinks he can swoon you with that cheesy side smile and “seductive” eyes, immediately unattracted to him. Or gosh, an attractive guy who gets offended easily? SUPER huge turn off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 12:16 AM |
| 2 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillWell based on your personal experiences, I see why you chose that path. Also, 30 YO sugar daddy? Also a huge W | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 01:22 AM |
| 1 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillAny reason why you didn’t want kids and a wife/family life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 01:12 AM |
| – | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillI guess at the end of the day the sugar babies are winning. Living a promiscuous life but making enough money to retire early off of their sugar daddies. Now that’s a W. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 12:54 AM |
| – | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillDo you think men are free to fuck around and live their youth and still be able to marry a “good girl”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Men are more likely to divorce a sick wife.I mean like literal nurses sharing their experiences of what they witness and hear from patients. I’ve heard it happen to my friends mom too. It’s a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 06:16 AM |
| 5 | Men are more likely to divorce a sick wife.I’d still take it as fact though. Many medical professionals report witnessing this phenomenon with their sick/terminal female patients. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 05:38 AM |
| -1 | my boyfriend of 2 years jokingly talked about engagement and I'm terrifiedYea but encourage a woman to settle for a guy she’s having mixed emotions about because he probably wants to propose and telling her to go with it because she’s still young is toxic. There are usually underlying issues happening if you’re having reservations about your SO proposing and you’re on this thread. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/22 09:03 PM |
| 1 | my boyfriend of 2 years jokingly talked about engagement and I'm terrifiedTo all the women reading this comment. Our value does not completely lie in our youth. The vast majority of divorced middle aged women I know found new partners or got married to a great guy not that long after. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/22 06:55 PM |
| 4 | most men don't want vanilla sex from their wivesYou’re sick. If someone did something sexual and they were traumatized by it, would you still feel obligated to that experience from your partner again? Believe it or not, a lot of women (and I’m sure men) have done things sexually that they did not want to to because they felt coerced into it or they were desperately trying to find love in the wrong places. A lot of the sex stuff women don’t want to do that they’ve done before is a trigger, not to mention that there’s definitely a correlation w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Working in a female-dominated profession as a young woman has really shown me that women are our own worst enemy.Yup! I’ve had to experience this at work. They try to find your insecurities or something imperfect about you and then try to use it against you. They HATE to hear people say good things about you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.I should’ve clarified then! Confident funny ugly guys have a charm about them! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 08:01 AM |
| 1 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.Nah. Facial expressions are there to show your personality and emotions. I suppose this obviously only helps people that have the ability to read emotions through eyes and micro movements. You can see confidence in the eyes. Always diverting your gaze? Obviously not confident. Able to look people in the eyes and have a friendly feel about them? Confident Looks you in the eyes but way too intensely to the point of making you uncomfortable? Obviously arrogant and too aggressive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 07:59 AM |
| 1 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.Are you funny as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 07:47 AM |
| 1 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.You’re looking for any way to discredit peoples personal experiences as well. From what I can see, you post a lot of pity posts for yourself. I hope it works out for you one day man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 07:45 AM |
| 1 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.THERE WE GO!!!! See, you get it. The less you care about feeling bad for yourself, the more you start actually attracting. People sense genuine confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 07:42 AM |
| 1 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.Having a natural air about you that exudes that you’re sure of yourself and comfortable with yourself vs. someone who thinks they deserve someone’s attention because they think they’re better than the rest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 07:37 AM |
| 0 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.I think it’s because men think they can become the version women are talking about not realizing that it ends up coming off very disingenuous because that’s just not who that person is. Do I think any unattractive guy who has confidence will do well? No. I only think the funny ones will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 06:46 AM |
| 0 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.Did you have random girls that had a crush on you or grew a liking to you because you were the class clown? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 06:39 AM |
| 1 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.Ok, here listen to the opinion of other men instead of women telling you different. 👏🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 06:38 AM |
| 0 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.Oh and me.bean, had a huge crush on his character since I was probably 9! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 06:35 AM |
| -1 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.The characters he plays? Yes! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 06:27 AM |
| -1 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.Who are you talking about? Girls from the age of 12-22??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 06:27 AM |
| 1 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.Yeah I don’t disagree with you but ONCE again, there is a lot of benefit to confidence If you are unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 06:26 AM |
| 2 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.Once again, it’s true If he’s not funny. He has to be naturally funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 06:12 AM |
| 0 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.Unfortunately, a lot of attractive men lack SO much personality it’s painful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 06:11 AM |
| 0 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.If you come at someone with a genuine lack of confidence then yes I’d agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 06:06 AM |
| 0 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.That is generally true yes, but your statement saying there’s no point in having confidence if you’re physically unattractive is not true. If you’re physically unattractive but you’re confident and exposed to the same women on a daily basis, you definitely have a chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 06:05 AM |
| 1 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.Point made by me. It seems that a lot of non attractive guys have this “whoa is me” attitude and feel so sorry for themselves or even end up feeling bitter towards women in general and it’s the most off putting thing in the world. Seriously, if you don’t give an F that you’re ugly, and women see that you’re confident and don’t take yourself so seriously, you’re going to be a very likeable person. If you’re unattractive and people can sense that they can easily hurt your feelings because they can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 05:58 AM |
| 0 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.Ok. So you’re one of those people that have their mind made up. It doesn’t matter if 50+ women commented on here to agree with me. You came here to state your opinion and leave with it. Ok. Because as a woman who HAS been attracted to confident ugly (really important that he’s funny) guys, apparently it doesn’t happen. Ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 05:52 AM |
| 0 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.There’s just something about a guy that knows he’s unattractive but he could care less, devoid of a sensitive ego. That is so damn attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 05:48 AM |
| -1 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.I find them attractive, a lot of my girl friends also find them attractive and it’s all because of the characters they play and the way their personalities come off in a lot of their movies/shows. I’ve had coworkers and classmates that I was just SO drawn to because they were so funny AND confident. You never went to school with an ugly but funny class clown that ends up getting a decently good looking girlfriend? I’ve seen it plenty of times and guys always wondered how that guy got that girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 05:47 AM |
| -2 | There is zero point in being confident as a man if you’re physically unattractive.I’d disagree with that statement. It matters what kind of confident you come off as. Generally speaking, most unattractive men that display “confidence” ARE a little arrogant or learned their confidence through dudes like the pickup guys. If you’re funny confident, you’ll definitely catch positive attention from women. There’s something about an ugly confident funny guy that makes an ugly guy cute. Danny Devito, Steve buscemi, mr.bean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 05:35 AM |
| 6 | Who is the most charming/charismatic person you've encountered?There was this guy that I met through friends. He wasn’t particularly attractive, shorter than average and not generally my type. Now what made him so charming were his facial expressions and the way he talked to you. He had a very refreshing way of talking and looking you in the eyes while displaying a natural smirk. He was also very unpredictable. If you were sitting down, he’d unexpectedly sit next to you side by side, arms folded and saying something silly. I suppose charm is a little hard t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Men are only forgiving of a woman's past if she's hot (or hotter than him)Nope! That’s why I said it’s funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Chasing women is idiotic and unnecessary.Yeah you’re not wrong, it definitely is flattering AND an ego boost. Idk I think of the whole count vronsky (from anna karenina) trope. Other examples are cry baby (Johnny depp) the notebook, 10 things I hate about you etc. some men have a natural instinct to chase and that’s the only way they will ever fall for a girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Chasing women is idiotic and unnecessary.Honestly, as a woman, I love being chased. I don’t even care if he moves on after. It’s the passion of the moment. It’s exhilarating and adrenaline inducing. I feel like men and women enjoy the concept of the chase equally. I like to jump off cliffs into the water in the summer time. It loses the thrill after a while, but I still enjoyed it. Also, for some reason, I’ve noticed that men who chase have a very natural charm and charisma to them. It makes the chasing all the more fun, romantic, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Men are only forgiving of a woman's past if she's hot (or hotter than him)The funniest thing about this comment is that I was all of those things when I finally lost my virginity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Women, what exatly do you feel when you see a naked man?Yes women and men cheat for different reasons, it’s STILL just as bad either way. Cheating when emotions are involved? Ok. Cheating just because of the need for sexual release? Might as well be a turtle humping a rock. You are no longer a human that can make your own choices, you’re a baboon in the tree that can’t resist a swollen ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Women, what exatly do you feel when you see a naked man?Throughout history, whether you were a successful man or not, cheating happened. Influential women in history did not have that luxury because that would mean execution…lol women did not have the same rights as men obviously in history but that is changing now. As with kings, that’s very much specific to only certain kingdoms and specific periods of time and did not apply globally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Women, what exatly do you feel when you see a naked man?I don’t see how that’s a justification for it being worse when women cheat. They cheat for different reasons the majority of the time sure. I don’t see how emotional cheating is worse than a man that happens to be your partner when he can easily be disloyal without what seems to be a 2nd thought in his head. Clearly not alpha male behavior either when you can’t control your impulses. Imagine If women cheated when the opportunity presented itself to her and she wanted sexual gratification. I’m su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 07:21 AM |
| 3 | If women generally want the best guys, they should be more willing to accept them having multiple wivesIf he’s not loyal, he’s not a high value man. A high value man also has morals, And a woman that deserves a high value man should also have morals. A rich unfaithful man is not a high value man, he’s just rich. Would you consider Jeffrey Epstein to be a high value man just because he was rich and successful? Hell no because he lacked morals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Womens body countWhy is that? What makes that unbelievable? I’m a woman with absolutely no hint of daddy issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Do women ever think that the high value dude they are going for can pretty much leave at any point for someone better?I just try to be a good human. I don’t focus on just trying to be the most physically attractive or what I can do for him. I try to be as good natured and loving with pure intentions that I can. A lot of people lack humanity and pure intentions now and people don’t get to feel that from others very often. At the end of the day, whether you’re a high value man or not, anyone can decide to leave for someone else whether they’re better or just different. People are always free to leave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 03:54 PM |
| 6 | Womens body countIt’s so interesting how men think. I’m in my later 20’s, have only had one sexual partner (current partner) and above average. Now I know no one would believe me.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 03:50 PM |
| 7 | Womens body countWhat if you were in a very experimental long term relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 03:44 PM |
| 11 | Why Andrew Tate is so popularIt makes sense! He stated that if his girl has an only fans, all that money belongs to him because his girls body is his property. Pimp mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 03:40 PM |
| 7 | Women, what exatly do you feel when you see a naked man?Maybe if the majority of people are disagreeing with you on this topic, it could be that you are….wrong? Honestly depending on a women’s cycle, whether in a relationship or not, they can be hyper focused on MEN They find attractive, not just a man. It’s so bizarre that men (comedians etc) joke and talk about a womens sexuality not understanding that women have had to hide their true thoughts,intentions, and desire to fall into the male gaze. To think that women don’t experience sex and desire th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 03:34 PM |
| 0 | “When men sleep around no one cares, in fact, it’s almost applauded. Yet when women sleep around, she’s considered promiscuous and shamed for it.” Sorry ladies, it’s not the same thing, no matter how much you want it to beOr another example, men are exceedingly more likely to resort to rape to quench their impulses compared to women. That’s a complete release of ones impulse control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 02:22 AM |
| 0 | “When men sleep around no one cares, in fact, it’s almost applauded. Yet when women sleep around, she’s considered promiscuous and shamed for it.” Sorry ladies, it’s not the same thing, no matter how much you want it to beYou have the impulse to NEED to have sex with a woman to the point where you are willing to pay for sex is poor impulse control. You are acting on impulse when you lower your standards for the sake of sex! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 02:19 AM |
| 6 | “When men sleep around no one cares, in fact, it’s almost applauded. Yet when women sleep around, she’s considered promiscuous and shamed for it.” Sorry ladies, it’s not the same thing, no matter how much you want it to beSoooo…are you trying to say that when a man sleeps around, it DOESNT demonstrate that he has low standards and poor impulse control? Taking your theory into play, wouldn’t a woman who sleeps around have a lot of good options? Therefore having the ability to have high standards in who she allows to sleep with her? I think we all know and agree that both men and women have sexual desires and needs. It’s more easily accessible for women and they don’t have to settle for just any guy that wants to h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do men tend to have a more varied taste in the opposite sex?As a woman in my 20’s, I would say that a large group of guys will typically agree with each other on whether a woman is attractive or not. In a large group of women, there will always be a very varying opinion on whether they agree if a guy is attractive or not. I don’t think I’ve ever heard any of my girl friends describe their taste as being “muscular, tall, broad men”. A lot of women like the Pete Davidson type (so many men cannot understand this attraction and that just shows they have a fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 01:03 AM |
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