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LTR/MARRIAGEShoshaMosha/r/RedPillWomen22/05/19 10:58 PM
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My answers are in bold. What are his fantasies that you're unwilling to fulfill? The threesomes and the anal? Yes, threesomes & anal. What (honestly) kind of shape are the two of you in? 2019 our fitness goal was to work on getting our abs to show before our birthdays (end of June). So far not looking like I will (only some definition) but his progress looks promising (he is harder with his workouts & more restrictive with carbs than me). What can you honestly admit that could have attributed to…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/19 02:18 PM
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I am a highly sensitive person. I don't think its possible for me to split and start looking for potential mates so soon. If things don't work out in my marriage then I think I will just focus on my career. I'm weary and hesitant to even think about getting into another relationship after this.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/19 11:43 AM
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He treats me in a hostile way whenever this topic comes up. Other than that, we are normal and get along fine. I understand what your saying about the mediator and i'm going to think about it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/19 11:22 AM
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Thank you. I'm going to have a listen to the podcast.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/19 11:17 AM
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I don't think he is dangerous. He has never yelled at me before. It's like his anger comes in waves. We'll be fine for a few days living our normal daily life and then out of the blue we're back to arguing again. About the same damn thing.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 06:49 PM
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I'm going to take your advice.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 06:45 PM
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Thank you so much. I appreciate you.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 06:43 PM
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I don't see myself with anybody else. I thought we were going to last forever. Our close knit community will shame my parents and I don't want them to hear taunts from others over me. Especially since they've been so against my marriage since the beginning. You don't understand the social implications that will happen as a result of this. Besides that, I don't want to start all over again, not at this age. I don't know the answers to a lot of questions but one thing is for sure, I'm not in a goo…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 06:41 PM
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If things don't start to look up by the end of this year then I'm going to start researching freezing my eggs. This thought hasn't crossed my mind so thank you for bringing it up. Its not that he wants to cheat but he wants to have the option is what I understand from his explanations. I may be okay with a threesome in the future but I am definitely never going to be okay with him sleeping around with another girl. Even if it is with my knowledge (he said I will always know & he would even let m…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 12:20 PM
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You're right, I should have clarified that he isn't rude or mean to me in our everyday life. He just rants and rages when topic of threesome and anal is brought up (usually by him wanting to understand my reasoning).
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 11:44 AM
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I've built a life with him. He is all I know. Divorce will be the last resort if we don't sort it out. I'd rather go to therapy and work on our marriage before calling it quits. He is a good man and I know he loves me. We both have issues stemming from our childhood and swallowing the RP has been hard. I know hes angry. I just don't know how to make him understand that I hear him but I have my own integrity to maintain. We both need to compromise but I'm not sure how.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 11:40 AM
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100%. I don't know if this is a phase or if things do need to change drastically within our marriage. But I'm willing to do the work to save what we have. Divorce would just confirm the fears our parents had about marrying outside of our race. Divorce is unheard of within our family and if we do get one it will be a tragedy on both sides. I know we both don't want it to end if we can help it but this is a sensitive time. Of course, divorce will the last resort if things don't work out. I want us…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 11:34 AM
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I've asked him to clarify what he means by wanting other girls. He's saying his desire for threesome always includes me. He wants me and another girl, he wants us to experience this together because its his fantasy. He said it might lead him into wanting a girl alone if one day I'm not in the mood. He wants me to be the type of wife that is down to please him in whatever he requests. He let me know that if things don't work out with us then he most likely won't ever get married or have kids. He …
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 11:31 AM
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Ding ding ding. His parents are narcs and so is my dad. I was sexually abused as a child and have abandonment issues due to my parents. He has abandonment issues on his side as well from being dumped in boarding school his whole life. We both were each others first and we never dated or had relationships before getting together. We've talked about therapy, individual and couples. Just waiting for the house to sell for now.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 11:20 AM
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I still don't understand most of this. But he has told me that he's upset with himself for not speaking up sooner. He said he just didn't know any better. How was I supposed to know something was wrong if my husband never had any complaints about the way our life was? I was blissfully unaware.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 11:12 AM
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I was honestly unaware that anything was wrong in my marriage. He has never expressed complaints or had demands for me. I thought everything was fine and we were happy. I was wrong. I need to put in work. It's not a good feeling to know that he thinks he got the short end of the stick by being with me.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 11:09 AM
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Thank you for saying this. I was genuinely confused as to why some people would think this is a troll post. The advice I've gotten was worth the label. I won't hesitate to post in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 11:06 AM
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This isn't a troll post but my current reality at the moment. This whole situation made me realize that I have been a mediocre wife. You're right there is no reason for him to react so strongly if he was happy with me. I'm clearly not the kind of wife he wants. I'm going to work on myself and improve in this aspect. I want to save my marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 11:04 AM
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I had to look up what MRP was. I'm going to bring this up to him. Thanks for the info.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 10:58 AM
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I hear you. I’m just so scared that this may really be over. 10 years of investment. Never in my wildest dream did I think we wouldn’t make it. After all we’ve been through. Can’t help but think that this whole journey was all for nothing.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 03:14 AM
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Thank you. I’m just trying to survive each day with sanity. All I do is cry lately. I’m trying to adopt a stoic way of thinking. It’s probably the only thing that has made me stop being an emotional wreck. I will continue to work on myself.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 03:11 AM
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We were both virgins and each others first everything (kiss, holding hands, sex). We didn’t believe in sex before marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 03:07 AM
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