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Who the fuck is getting drunk and sending dick pics at 9 in the morning 😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:23 AM
153

You know what IS a sign that someone is insecure? Having zero fucking boundaries. Putting up with endless male depravity because you think that not having a man is a fate worse than death. I don’t tolerate pornography use. That is a boundary I will never compromise on. If someone in a relationship with me can’t handle that boundary, ok, I will leave. I’m not gonna beg you to change your mind. How is standing up for your ethical beliefs insecure? I never fucking understood this argument
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:01 PM
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I can’t visualise anything more pathetic than a man sat there with his tiny dick out watching virtual porn on an effing headset. Like it’d be humorous if it wasn’t so disgusting, how can these men not be fucking EMBARRASSED🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 09:11 PM
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You know what I always thought I was a pickme when I was younger (and I was) but some of the stuff I see on Reddit makes me realise I was actually nowhere near as bad as I thought, I was just young and naive. Not even in my worst pickme days would I have tolerated a man watching VR porn, let alone be an active participant in it 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:58 PM
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Literally, these women are sooo fucking angry at OP for not being okay with porn. ‘My boyfriend loves porn and watches it every day! I love porn too, who doesn’t love exploitation of women 😍🙏 I even let him use my body as a fleshlight while he watches women get beaten!’ Like no one cares about your pathetic excuse for a relationship. I’m telling myself most of these posters are actually men because I don’t want to believe that this many women are deeply brainwashed 😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:36 PM
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Or when they reset their matches 😂😂 like no I still don’t want you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:22 PM
86

If women have traditionally feminine hobbies (makeup, gardening, creative stuff) men will say they are not real hobbies. If women have traditionally masculine hobbies (sports, video games) men will say they are just doing it to impress men 🤡 you cannot win lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:20 PM
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Omg the comments on OP’s other post have just put me off eating dinner lol. One of the top replies is literally a pick me bragging about blowing her boyfriend while he watches VR porn like wow you’re so cool 💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:13 PM
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Their age gap is literally bigger than the gap between mine and my parents ages 🤮🤮 speaking of, where are this girls parents?? If I started dating someone who was 3 decades older than me my parents would go fucking mad and I’m a grown woman 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 01:07 AM
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The good old days were definitely not the good old days. The beauty of the choices we have as women in contemporary society is that you can remove yourself from the dating scene entirely. Women used to be completely stuck in marriages. Marriage was the only hope most women had of a better life. We can get mortgages by ourselves, we can have our own bank accounts, we can have our own careers. The fact that men used to pay for dates and provide for women financially doesn’t cancel out the fact tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 01:02 AM
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If you love someone, you shouldn’t even be able to imagine choking them or hitting them or WHATEVER. If someone I was in a relationship with asked me to hurt them I’d be absolutely fucking horrified. People need to take into account most of the women who are ‘into’ this kind of stuff are either a) doing it because they want to make their partner happy at their expense, or b) have serious unresolved trauma or mental illnesses. Drug addicts like getting high, but if I injected someone with heroin …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:33 PM
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Booty shorts are one thing but I don’t think it’s particularly fair to say that liking pink and makeup means you’re brainwashed by the patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:09 AM
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I mean OLD as a whole is inherently shallow. If you’re expecting to find real intimacy and a serious relationship through OLD, you are likely going to be disappointed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:40 PM
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If someone is speaking to you for 2 weeks they have no intention of meeting you. Giving someone your phone number is something else (there’s no reason why they can’t continue talking on the app, it’s safer and they generally can’t send you dick pics etc), but no it isn’t a red flag to ask you on a date. It’s more a red flag if they want to talk for ages. Not saying that they should be asking instantly, but after a few days, yes. But in general none of this matters anyway because you shouldn’t be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:27 PM
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Yes 90% of men are LV but the proportion of LVM to HVM on dating apps is much higher than 90/10... More like 99.999999% of men on dating apps are LV
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 08:48 PM
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In my opinion HVM aren’t on dating apps. Yeah I know people will probably reply oh well I met my HVM on a dating app but generally no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 08:10 PM
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Sis... No. Its better to have no friends than keep this guy around. And he's obviously not your 'friend' anyway. You could still have no friends in May, then what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:56 AM
129

Most 'doms' are just fucking losers in real life and the only way they can feel any type of power is to beat a women. Because they know they are absolutely nothing and will always be nothing. Like that's why you hear all those stories of high powered businessman visiting dominatrixes and shit. Not that that is any less weird, but the reversal of power dynamics is worth noting. The average 'dom' doesn't look like some Christian Grey fantasy, they look like someone who was beat up in high school a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:13 PM
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Men: pls gf buy PS5 Also men: More than $250 on a ring you have to wear the rest of your life? BE GONE GOLDDIGGER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:10 PM
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Women will literally say shit like 'my boyfriend is a PATHOLOGICAL PEOPLE PLEASER!!' ignoring the fact that he treats you like shit, and therefore does not care about pleasing you. Also I stop reading posts like this when they say 'don't tell me to break up with him because it's not happening'. Like why are you even asking then? What do you expect to hear? If the idea of breaking up is so abstract to you you can't even imagine it, you need an intervention. I could be with the most perfect HVM an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:34 PM
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I like not getting slapped or spit on so I'd rather a man didn't get any ideas from porn. And if a man needs to watch porn to get turned on BEFORE SEX his dick is broken. You're about to have sex with a real woman ffs, that should be enough of a turn on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 10:16 PM
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There was a post the other day about a guy leaving pieces of literal shit in the bed he shared with his wife
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:13 PM
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The guy running over to help (I assume) hits HARD because I can't tell you how many situations I've been in where I really need support or help from a boyfriend and they haven't given it to me, but a complete stranger or just an acquaintance has been there for me. Like every single time I sat there and thought 'this person who is basically no one of relevance to me and owes me nothing is willing to help me but the person who's supposed to love me does fuck all' 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:11 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:38 PM
51

Get new friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:04 PM
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I think ideas of sexiness are inherently linked to the male gaze, which I have zero interest in, so I don't do anything to feel 'sexy'. Sexy = sex and I've been celibate for 6 months, so I just... Don't. I wear nice clothes, I do face masks and hair treatments, I put on makeup, but these things are just to make me feel 'nice' (or look more presentable if I am on Zoom calls etc), not sexy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:25 AM
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Yeah that part sounds really pickme tbh 😬 don't feel sorry for women bc they're single lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:32 PM
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Anyone I've ever known who says they have a dark sense of humour is always the least funny person lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:19 PM
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These people will say 'it's just a fantasy' but then slap their girlfriend during sex, spit on her, want to do anal, etc. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 12:38 PM
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You have to censor usernames and subreddit names, to prevent brigading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 12:33 PM
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Wanting a man THIS badly is surely not in line with FDS values. You're making it sound like The Hunger Games or something - 'leftover women'?? Sis, get your degree, have a career, have fun. If a suitable man comes along great. If not, great. Stop putting so much of your energy into men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:27 AM
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I'm 25 and the same. When I was a teenager I was DESPERATE to be a grown adult. It's such a weird thing to gaslight women into caring about. Like, the alternative to aging is death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:20 AM
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I watch the BBC for official government press conferences, otherwise I tend to avoid it. It doesn't have the integrity it used to. I suppose the difference is that you aren't forced to pay a TV licence for fox news. For the BBC you are, whether you watch it or not. I have a major issue with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:44 PM
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And by that logic, you shouldn't disregard fox news just because it posts things you don't agree with 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:29 PM
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It makes them less respectable, because they're pushing an agenda. The BBC also posts a lot of pro sex work articles. Guess this sub isn't as anti sex work as I thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:28 PM
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Yes? It really depends on your definition of identity politics I suppose, maybe you're referring to something else. I think voting for someone because they're black or a woman without any thought to their policies is an issue. I think politicians basing their entire persona on some sort of demographic such as race or sexuality or gender identity is an issue. I think ticking boxes to appeal to the woke crowd while ignoring actual problems in society is an issue. Do you really have a problem with …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:14 PM
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Just making a point about something I've seen a lot on this subreddit 🤷🏻‍♀️ Kamala Harris clearly has views that are problematic, but she automatically gets praised because she's a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 01:58 PM
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Worrying how many people buy into identity politics on this sub 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 01:52 PM
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Citing a more biased news source doesn't prove that the BBC is unbiased lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 01:46 PM
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The person you replied to didn't link to fox news though. BBC news is SUPPOSED to be unbiased, but it's become increasingly obsessed with identity politics and fake woke shit in recent years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 01:42 PM
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The BBC is not an unbiased media source lol, not even close.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 01:35 PM
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I agree with you and I'm sorry that happened to you. Her stance on sex work is gross. This sub needs to remember that just because someone is a woman, doesn't mean they should be praised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:38 PM
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Ngl I'm ashamed of it but when I was in my teens/early 20s I was quite homophobic specifically towards lesbians and it was 100% because I like women and was too scared to admit it 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 10:38 AM
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I completely agree with everything you've said too :) I've lost so much because of lockdowns. Businesses shutting down, mental health suffering, kids missing out on their education... THOSE are reasons to be critical of lockdown measures. People whining that they can't go on dinner dates with random strangers? I don't fucking care. Get over it. If you can't cope with the idea of being single for a year, youre not following FDS. I don't see how 'putting yourself out there' is any different to cha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 01:13 AM
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I'm not terrified of the virus at all lol. I've been critical of lockdowns since the very first UK lockdown. Its your overwhelmingly strong focus on getting a man that concerns me, not your lockdown skepticism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:32 AM
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You too sis! You've got the right mindset ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:28 AM
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Online dating to me is a form of chasing men, and the entire point of FDS is we don't chase men 🤷🏻‍♀️ I really struggle to have sympathy for the women who come here and complain about constantly coming across NVM then admit they use OLD. To quote another post I saw here... 'if you look in the toilet, you're going to find shit'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:18 AM
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I think you missed the entire point of FDS tbh..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:10 AM
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You could spend those two years dating and not find someone🤷🏻‍♀️ I'm not trying to insult you, it just sounds like you're really willing to settle. I'd get your point about babies if you were like 45, but you're 30... You got time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:33 PM
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Like your idea that being single is wasting time is a little concerning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:22 PM
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There's nothing wrong with it sis, but you do come off sounding kinda desperate, like you think you're on the shelf or something. Don't lower your standards just because you want to get married and have a baby 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:22 PM
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If you really want a baby that bad you can use a sperm donor or adopt. Don't settle for a man just because you want a baby...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:07 PM
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I feel like a lot of people really need to reevaluate and reread the handbook. Assuming that someone is unaccomplished and traumatised because they choose to stay alone (especially in a fucking pandemic) is just absolutely shocking and not something I expect from this sub 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 10:32 PM
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I complete agree lol. In all honesty I think a lot of women on this sub are happy to use FDS values until they actually start talking to/dating a man and then it all goes out the window. I know it's hard in a society that tells women having a boyfriend or husband is the most important goal in life, but the number one value of FDS should be the ability to be happily single and not settle. If you still feel the need to date in a time where most government officials and scientists are advising you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 10:05 PM
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I'm in a great place in my life. There's also nearly 2000 people dying a day in my country of covid 🤷🏻‍♀️ I can wait to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 09:55 PM
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We were the first country in the world to approve a vaccine for use and have already vaccinated over 4 million people. We can have every adult in the UK vaccinated by September (or earlier). I don't know why you think we'll be in lockdown after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 09:54 PM
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I didn't say anything about healing. Who are you calling traumatised and unaccomplished anyway?! 😂 What the fuck sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 09:52 PM
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Yeah, it's a virus, we've only ever eradicated one(?) virus in history. I'm not implying its going away. My point is we're not going to be in lockdowns in 2025 because people would fucking go mad. Taking a year or two out of dating, pandemic or no pandemic, isn't the end of the world. It's actually a good thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 09:29 PM
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Covid is not gonna go on in its current state until 2025 lol. And like... Yeah? Working on yourself isn't just something you do to pass the time until you get a man. I swear there are so many women on this sub who are terrified of being single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 09:23 PM
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Yeah that's fine. If there's high amount of cases and deaths wherever you are it's still kind of tacky though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 09:20 PM
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It seriously depends where you live. In the UK it's basically illegal to date right now lol (yes I realise that sounds crazy). If some dude is willing to break the law to date then I'm not really interested. Also everything is shut, which means your date options are going for a walk 🤮 (legal but youre supposed to stay 2m apart) or going to their house 🤮🤮🤮 (not legal). If you live somewhere where there aren't restrictions, yeah it's a bit different maybe. I've been against lockdowns for a long ti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 08:29 PM
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You're not going to find a HVM during a pandemic because a HVM wouldn't be dating during a pandemic in which most countries have social distancing restrictions. Don't get me wrong, I fucking hate lockdowns, but dating in a pandemic is pretty stupid. So many men are just desperate and lonely (news flash, we're all lonely rn) and will get into a relationship with the first woman who comes along so they're not alone in these lonely times. I've seen so many women get into relationships during the pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:34 PM
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😂😂 Oh my god, that's my favourite Harry Potter quote. Honestly I read about 100 books a year on top of all the reading I do for my degree and I've never been in a relationship with someone who reads. It's kind of sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:09 PM
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It's so funny how it's apparently insecure to have boundaries and standards, but being a fucking pushover and letting a man disrespect you makes you secure 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:06 PM
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Go through a man's bank statements and say just checking to make sure you can provide 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:07 PM
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For me it's the fact that men think women are calling them out for glancing at an attractive woman for a split second. No ones reflexes are good enough to pick up on something that subtle lol. If your girlfriend (or the woman in question) notice you looking, you are STARING. You are being a fucking creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 06:07 PM
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I think it is mostly bullshit.. If I am in a relationship I can find someone attractive as in, I can look at them and say 'yes they are attractive' but I don't actively think about having sex with them or being with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:37 PM
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Masturbation (within reason) is healthy. Porn isn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:36 PM
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Yeah, but men will literally wank over random women on Facebook or Instagram. They didn't give their consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 05:22 PM
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Sims 3 is the best 👍 and yup I would rather read or paint or play piano most of the time. Games are just for weekends when I want to turn my brain off for a few hours. Idk how people can do this shit all day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:05 AM
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What are all these bogus charges...like what kind of shady website are you buying from for this to happen 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:40 PM
96

You can just tell this guy has terrible hygiene
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:31 PM
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I'll take a pass on both
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:02 PM
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Ngl I do it on weekends but I play for maybe 2-3 hours, during the week I don't have time at all. And I only play the sims and animal crossing which most men don't even consider 'real games' 🤪 and when there isn't a lockdown I play them WAY less because I'd rather spend my weekends with friends or family. But yeah, in my experience with men who spend hours playing games they either don't work, or they come home from work, eat some sort of microwave meal and play til the early hours then sleep. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 06:06 PM
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That comment literally shows men don't give a shit about your personality outside of being 'low maintenance'. Oh you've got dreams, hobbies, interests, a distinct personality? Idc you're my dream girl if you only expect a card and a cake for your birthday 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:31 PM
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I'm sorry and I hope you are better now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:10 PM
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Ugh. I hope Ghislaine Maxwell rots in prison. Also I didn't know this until recently but apparently most women on onlyfans only make a couple hundred a month. You could literally make more money working part time at mcdonalds, and working at mcdonalds also comes with the benefit of not destroying your future and reputation. Like is your body and soul really worth so little?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:59 PM
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Why would you ask someone to a fancy restaurant if you can't (or don't want to) afford to cover the whole bill? Weak energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:55 PM
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It's grooming/trafficking. These women are no different than pimps and they are disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:20 PM
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I like that you put college grad. A lot of people get called shallow for having that as something they expect in a relationship. I'm getting my masters degree and in my experience men hate it when a woman has more education than them, that's why it matters to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:50 PM
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Don't entertain them if they're paying you good money either lol... That's what we call sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:46 PM
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Yeah, I don't see why any rape victim or abuse victim would benefit from reenacting their trauma rather than idk, going to therapy and practicing actual self care. 'consenting' to a man beating you isn't self care. These women truly have been groomed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:06 PM
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I'm not trying to shame them because I feel sorry for them in a way, but a lot (I'd say most) of these women who are into BDSM either have mental illnesses or trauma. It's just self harm. Just because it gets pp hard doesn't mean it's OK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:48 PM
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I don't get how this isn't considered a form of... Murder? Something? Idk but if you put a small amount of poison in your partners food everyday.. That's attempted fucking murder. Because eventually they will probably die. Anorexia is the deadliest mental illness on the planet. If you encourage your partner to slowly starve themselves to die, how is that not ALSO ATTEMPTED MURDER??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:47 PM
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I nearly died of anorexia and this is so fucking sick. The worst part of it is that many anorexia sufferers enjoy being thin because they feel like it makes their bodies look less womanly and sexualised. But women can't even have a fucking mental illness without men making it about their dick🙄 Also a lot of anorexic bodies just look like children's bodies, so let's call these men what they are - PEDOPHILES!! Imagine if women fetishised mens mental illness? Like imagine if we started commenting o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:37 PM
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They look like this now. 99.9% sure this is just a photo of my ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:08 PM
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Sounds like she was never his girlfriend in the first place.. And never trust a man who says he has a crazy ex 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:01 PM
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Jesus christ that is crazy.. Every woman should know this advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 10:04 PM
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True I've always been told to aim for the balls when it comes to self defence lol. I wonder why its so painful, a lot of nerve endings I guess?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:59 PM
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That's the kind of thing men would say lol. I see pretty often men saying that 'withholding sex' is literally emotional abuse 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:53 PM
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🤞🤞 Let's hope so. Roll out the covid vaccines and sex robots for 2021
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:51 PM
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Do you think injuries to the balls actually hurt as much as men say? Always wondered 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:50 PM
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"nice guys like myself" calls women offal Lmao okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:03 PM
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Thank you 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:04 PM
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I would be throwing hands if someone said this to me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:49 PM
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I play golf and I don't even watch golf lol. Boring as fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:35 PM
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Aw that post history actually broke my heart. That poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:01 PM
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Man their obsession with being below 5'5 is fucking WEIRD. I get it's because they're probably short but I'm 5'5 and no one would ever call me tall. That is the average height in my country
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:32 PM
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I totally agree I was actually diagnosed with anxiety disorder a few years ago. I'm not an anxious person at all, I just spent years and years dating absolute losers who made my brain stop functioning lol. Why the fuck would i wanna go anywhere near men when they literally make me mentally ill 🤒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:54 PM
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Whenever I read shit like this I wonder where they find the time. Like do you not have a job sis? How are you finding the spare time to be a full time sex slave?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:51 PM
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What are these STUDIES exactly? I'm a social sciences student and it's fucking hard to get approval or funding for a lot of studies. Do you really think research councils are funding studies about 'how many cocks a woman has had'? Where are these studies conducted, Playboy University?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:49 PM
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I love how many women here are actively avoiding dating. It is so funny how people whine about FDS teaching women to manipulate men when most women here are just straight up ignoring men 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:38 PM
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Part of the reason why I'm trying to get my PhD lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:36 PM
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Yeah I had this issue but I realised its because I'm not straight lol. Admittedly a lot of men are really ugly so it's not necessarily that but have you considered the fact you might prefer women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:32 PM
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'nothing sexual going on' 'asked a 15 year old to wear a butt plug'. Does this woman have brain damage? Ugh. I fucking hate nonces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 10:49 PM
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I can't deal with mummy's boys like I am done dating these Norman Bates clones 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 12:38 AM
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As a 25 year old I am thankful for this cut off point lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 12:27 AM
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Watches porn, has no hobbies, has no friends, overbearing mother, overweight, uses drugs, lack of education, part of the woke brigade, unemployed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 12:22 AM
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Does anyone else find it really weird that people talk to their partner about things like the dick size or breast size etc of their ex partners?? Like not only is it really fucking weird but also kind of disrespectful to your ex partner? I seriously do not want any man I've ever been with talking about my body to a new partner, and it would never cross my mind to say to a man yeah I've been with guys who are pretty big. Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 12:19 AM
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The worst part is she is probably still having sex with him 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 12:16 AM
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Fortunately celibacy is an option no matter what your sexuality is 😁💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 12:03 AM
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'not every woman is like you 🥺' yeah, thankfully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 12:00 PM
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Posts like this make me so fucking glad that I'm a) celibate, and b) bisexual with a preference for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:52 AM
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An xbox (cost £400) 🤡 when I was 18 years old 🤡 and worked full time at a minimum wage job and he didn't work 🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 11:27 PM
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Literally men on that subreddit will send cringey pick up lines or sexual innuendo to probably their ONE tinder match they were lucky to get, post it to a sub full of weak jawed NVMs for fake Internet points, and then be angry that they can't get a girlfriend. It fucking baffles me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:53 PM
196

That subreddit is so fucking gross. Its just men making sexual comments to women and other men finding it absolutely hilarious for some reason. Why the fuck do women reply to this shit? Are they on crack?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:43 PM
8

I want your life 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 10:34 PM
36

Meh... I know you're talking about men here, but I swear quite a lot and don't really care if its classy or 'hot' 🤷🏻‍♀️ but I'm also working class and from the UK... That's just how my people talk lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 10:28 PM
36

Life coaches are a scam and even if they weren't, who tf wants to be coached by someone who took back their cheating husband lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:43 PM
13

Why the fuck would anyone buy a house with someone they aren't married to? It's like you're begging to be fucked over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:41 PM
3

It's just a poor excuse. Like a guy can throw out hey sorry I didn't buy you any gifts this Christmas, but I don't speak that love language! 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:44 AM
6

I LOVE animal farm. All of George Orwells books are great. Celibacy is also great!! I have been celibate for... 6 months? I don't even notice it so I'm not sure. Its unreal how people think sex is 'a need'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:41 AM
5

I don't get how people's love languages isn't ALL of them??? Like I want a partner who cuddles me, makes me coffee, buys me nice gifts, spends time with me AND compliments me. Why the fuck would i settle for just one of the love languages??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:39 AM
8

Congratulations :) I am a grad student too. Even if I found a good man I wouldn't have time for dating anyway!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:36 AM
3

I'm in tier 4 and I can't even see my family for Christmas, why the fuck would anyone go and meet some random guy in tier 4?! The absolute fucking audacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:28 AM
11

Love languages are an excuse for men to be shit. Like this guy, if his love language is quality time, why the fuck isn't he actually spending time with his girlfriend? It's fucking weird how Reddit is 99% militant atheists but then they're constantly spouting this love language crap🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:27 AM
23

What a loser. I don't know what tier you're in but in tier 4 it's not even a case of 'if you feel safe enough to travel' it's the fucking law lol. Are people really that desperate, even in what is basically a THIRD lockdown in this country?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:38 PM
47

I absolutely suck at wrapping and I HATE IT. But yeah just pay someone else to do it, seriously. Gift boxes are great too. But then you have people who just give it to you totally unwrapped because they 'are bad at wrapping' 🙄 not an excuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:36 PM
117

Damn I'm 25 now. Why didn't anyone tell me I'm dead?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:56 PM
21

Oh no, I'm so sad 😢😢 it was so wrong of me to criticise men, I take it all back! Honestly why do these meh even lurk here if they hate it so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 01:33 AM
39

These men don't even know what abuse is lol. They define abuse as 'shit I do not like, ESPECIALLY calling me out on my own shit'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 01:15 AM
6

What was the context of talking about white male privilege. That is kind of a red flag to me because men will say unlimited amounts of fake woke shit just to get you into bed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 01:13 AM
8

I hate it when sex workers act like they are better than someone working in a bar or restaurant or shop. Um, no, you are not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 01:09 AM
29

Omg YES. My ex (we broke up literally 4 years ago) posts poetry on social media (lol) about how I abused him and manipulated him. They are so often projecting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 01:01 AM
33

Thank you you are very sweet 💖💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:33 PM
79

Ngl this happened to me a lot when I was younger, I really regret having casual sex and I know it was wrong, but sometimes I find it really hard to get over the trauma of it, really struggling with this. Does anyone have any advice 🥺💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:21 PM
15

Well there are different reasons why people may be against porn. The primary reason is because the porn industry is disgusting and exploitative. Go and look at the most popular videos on any porn site, they are generally degrading, violent, or incestuous. Women who make porn are treated disgustingly. Pornhub has a history of not deleting videos of real rapes, or videos with underage girls. By watching porn you are directly contributing to human trafficking and abuse. Secondly, porn is extremely …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 06:24 PM
65

"picky" sorry do you mean "don't want to support human trafficking?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:44 PM
12

Yeah exactly, it's a last resort survival option, not something to be fucking enthusiastic and 'curious' about! And if it was a loved one I'd rather just die than eat them tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:42 PM
22

I totally understand having weird hypothetical conversations when drunk, I've done it a million times. But this is NEXT FUCKING LEVEL. Honestly I think a lot of people would say they'd eat human flesh if they had to in a life or death situation. BUT who the fuck says to a loved one, if you lost a body part in a traumatic accident I'd take advantage of that and eat it??? With specific thought to what body part and how they'd cook it?!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 12:39 PM
16

They are definitely hard to find but it is 100x better to be single and happy than in a relationship with a porn watcher! 😊 If someone comes along who is amazing and doesn't watch porn then I will be happy. But if I never find someone like that then I will still be happy. I have zero respect for anyone, man or woman, who watches porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:12 AM
194

Guess what.. Nearly all the comments tell her she's overreacting 🙃 apparently 'interest in human flesh' isn't a valid deal breaker. Are women really more scared of ending up single than ending up a serial killer victim?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:09 AM
61

If someone even mentions porn I just act really shocked like you actually watch PORN?? Like people still watch porn in 2020??? Obviously I'm not shocked at all but it really throws them off lol. People in modern society will boycott amazon for ethical reasons but then watch porn 😂 it's absurd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 12:33 AM
107

God there are so many lol. One I believe strongly in is I will never date someone who watches porn. Whenever I say this men tell me I am never gonna find a man like that. OK guess I'll just stay single then 🤣 idk why they think I NEED a man to live
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 11:29 PM
98

The thought of wearing jeans without underwear makes me feel ill 😷 how is that remotely comfortable for men or women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:25 PM
12

Most people wear their engagement ring with their wedding ring so you wear it forever. Honestly I'm not super hung up on rings (probably will never get married anyway and I do think there are ethics issues around diamonds) BUT it's just an act of showing how much you care. I actually agree with you that spending like 20k on a ring is absurd (but I also grew up in poverty so take that as you will). But 100 dollars? Its too low. Proposing to someone implies spending THE REST OF YOUR LIFE with them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:19 PM
21

I hate it when people complain about being told to break up lmao like WHAT ADVICE WERE YOU EXPECTING?? Your relationship is absolute trash, what did you want to hear? Keep calm and carry on?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:12 PM
193

It gets worse: she has a post in her post history where she admits she basically nagged him to propose and he still hasn't 🤡 she told him SHE was gonna propose and he gave her a long list of reasons why they shouldn't get engaged, and now she's still waiting🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:14 AM
38

Bisexual who prefers women 💞💜💙 but I still like to read here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 10:13 AM
23

She said in another comment their relationship has had 'a heavy focus' on her mental health and now she wants to shift it to his 🙄 like Jesus christ people. If your relationship is a constant back and forth of dealing with each others mental health problems you're not in a good place to be in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:09 PM
42

I had to go to the hospital because of a UTI my ex gave me from his gross hygiene 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 10:37 PM
30

Even little kids when they get to the age of dressing and cleaning themselves do not need to be 'communicated' with to wash their ass or change their underwear daily. Imagine actually dating someone, having sex with someone, who has less mental capacity than a CHILD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:13 PM
37

I also hate how people play the depression card when it comes to bad hygiene. A LOT OF PEOPLE HAVE DEPRESSION. I used to have absolutely terrible depression and I never in my life, not once, went a day where I didn't change my underwear. These people are just not fit for society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:12 PM
43

I guarantee this woman has frequent UTIs and can't figure out why...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 09:05 PM
9

I think people should just not be dating in a pandemic. Like.. Come on. People are so terrified of the idea of being alone that they are even trying to date/hook up with covid going on. In my country there a second lockdown, I don't understand why people are dating during this shit. There has never been a better time to take a break from it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:33 PM
19

They'd argue that gaming helps you gain skills 😂 had men say this to me before!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:28 PM
61

Bring back kink shaming! 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:04 PM
13

If you want to be put off dating for life, yes. If not, no. I appreciate there are covid restrictions right now in a lot of countries but honestly you are so young, I don't get why young adults use OLD at all. Age 18-25 you are most likely at university, maybe working part time, you are going to meet so many new people and you have more time to socialise. I kind of get OLD for adults who are in full time work and maybe don't have as much time to meet new people but even then it's terrible. Don't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:25 PM
1

Online sex work is no different than being a prostitute. Idk why you think the majority of people in society don't think it's disgusting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 09:13 AM
3

'I have my shit together' but 'looking for someone to split bills with' lol...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 10:16 AM
1

Whether it's easy or not isn't the reason why people judge it. Only fans is judged because it's degrading, will negatively affect your future most likely, and shows you don't have much self respect. Not because it's easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 10:20 PM
5

Blue collar work isn't remotely comparable to doing only fans and idk why you're making that comparison. Blue collar work isn't shameful and generally requires a level of actual skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 09:26 PM
42

She probably bought the coffee 👀 he feels like a million dollars but probably didn't spend 5 dollars on a latte for her lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:53 PM
34

Sounds like the plot of a horror film lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:52 PM
18

'you are stupid' savage, I love it 😂😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:54 PM
14

My country just went into a second lockdown 😿 feeling very pessimistic about the future rn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 10:26 PM
74

Argh I just turned 25 and the thought of dating a 19 year old is so gross to me! They are just kids!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:28 PM
4

Honestly being banned from r/sex is an honour lol. It's such a messed up community.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 08:14 PM
12

For them, it pretty much is. Of course they want equality if it comes to splitting finances 50 / 50. When it comes to splitting childcare, cleaning and emotional labour 50 / 50 they suddenly lose interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 05:43 PM
25

$2000 dollars is literally more than my tuition fees for this term lol. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 05:30 PM
93

Idk if you were joking but it's literally associated with reduced grey matter in the brain lol, so technically yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 05:10 PM
120

Lol same, if the metoo movement is really putting men off approaching women, that movement is doing great work 😂🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:34 PM
26

Is it just me or is EVERY post on that subreddit just absolute TRASH?? Like there is a post on the front page where a girl says she is addicted to sending nudes and sexting with strangers (while she has a boyfriend!) and half the comments are 'you should post them to reddit' or 'start an only fans' LIKE WHAT THE FUCK. If a drug addict posted saying they have a problem would you say hey lol you should start a YouTube where you post videos of you shooting up!! It's totally empowering!! And the ABS…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:30 PM
35

I just got permanently banned from that subreddit for 'kinkshaming' 😎❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 03:56 PM
7

Imagine if a man had lost his job and his girlfriend said hey I think it would be really hot to degrade you during sex and call you an unemployed loser 😎😂 (not comparable to abuse obviously just an example I thought of mostly based on my unemployed exes lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:39 PM
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There are some good replies in that post actually, a lot of women saying they've done this before and it never ends well (I completely agree). But there's also a reply saying that men are PARALYSED WITH FEAR because of the metoo movement and too scared to approach women in case they get accused of rape. Won't someone please think of the poor men? 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:01 PM
9

I'm gonna be that annoying armchair social scientist right now and say that I'm SHOCKED everyday by how people just don't have any critical thinking skills. I've spent four years studying sociology and psychology so obviously I'm a bit biased but it's crazy to me how people don't take into account deeper reasons behind sexual attraction. To just say 'some guys are just turned on by beating a woman, it is what it is! So weird, right?!' like, no, it's not JUST THE WAY IT IS. There are deep seated …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 11:56 AM
4

You did entertain him. Not entertaining him would be not reply to him at all. When are women going to realise that sending 'sassy replies' is just as satisfying (if not more!) for these men as sending chill pickme replies?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 11:16 PM
6

Just went and read this thread and it's sooo cringey. How do people have literally no hobbies? How can anyone go out with a man who does NOTHING but play video games and watch Netflix??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 03:02 PM
1

I did but I got banned lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 07:13 AM
28

We live in a fucking crazy world when incest roleplay is just a casual way to spend your time but a hug is too intimate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:27 PM
11

I feel so sad for her. I'd give her a hug :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:03 PM
55

Why do people even use the terms friends with benefits?? You aren't friends ffs. None of my friends use my body to masturbate. None of my friends only spend time with me when sex is involved. Call it what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 06:37 PM
3

Not brushing teeth, not showering, picking his nose (and eating it) 🤮🤮 the fuck was i doing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 10:17 PM
2

I'm on the Libra cusp 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 10:16 PM
18

What fresh pickmeisha hell is this... You expect people not to judge you yet you're shaming the WIFE, who is the victim in all this? She's a clown for wanting to work things out for the sake of their child? She shouldn't do that, but the fact that you think she's the clown and you're not is hilarious. HVW do not sleep with married man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:05 PM
17

I get breakups are hard but you're being way too nice to him. He's the one doing something wrong and you're telling him you're there if he wants to talk and giving him space?! Sis, NO. Give him space FOREVER and cut him out. It kind of sounds like you're hoping you'll get back together. Leave him be, I'm sure him and his porn will be very happy together!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:02 PM
15

If I used emotion instead of logic I would have never broken up with any of my exes 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:53 PM
21

That subreddit is going to shit. There's another post on there where a woman says she masturbates with people on omegle and feels disgusting about it, and one of the replies was 'have you thought about doing sex work?' like, what the actual fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:56 AM
41

I was fine with it when it was a term used for entitled retail customers lol. Now it's just used anytime a man doesn't like something a woman says
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:21 PM
100

It's the 'Karen' for me. 99% of the time that's used by misogynistic men 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:39 PM
22

Lmao my NVM ex defended video games when I called them an unproductive hobby by saying 'they improve hand eye coordination' and 'they improve your reflexes'. Like he made it try to sound like a sport or something when he got out of breath walking up the stairs 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:25 PM
52

I feel really sad that this woman has lived like this for TWENTY YEARS :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:21 PM
224

The chances of this woman's boyfriend looking down on her while she's swallowing and thinking 'wow, what an empowered woman' are absolutely fucking zero lol. Liberal feminism is a curse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:18 PM
96

Gonna start charging men an hourly rate when they complain about their problems to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:13 PM
2

Yeah exactly. I see gross scrotes walking around in public with their shirts off ALL THE TIME where I live. I wouldn't go to the police and file a sexual harassment claim. Breasts aren't fucking genitals ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:12 PM
334

Men refuse to do any emotional labour but want us to hold them for hours while they cry about their loneliness and trauma? I HAVE OTHER SHIT TO DO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:11 PM
24

There's also multiple comments acting like it's their fucking human right to send pictures of their gross dick and that's its 'censorship' to say otherwise 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:31 PM
75

I did this too!!! Got told I was full of hate and sexism and that my 'posts have been archived' (??!) because I called someone out for defending masturbating in front of their baby 😐😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:05 PM
34

And so, so true. I'd be interested if there is some part of the brain that is missing in men when it comes to this. It is a wonderful feeling to do something nice for a loved one. The fact that men go to such lengths to avoid doing nice things is just not right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:58 PM
4

I have golf lessons, French lessons and teach myself piano 🤗 I also like to work on my scrapbook and paint (and draw but I'm not very good). I am also working on a book about masculinity in the 21st century and radicalised groups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:33 PM
36

This is why I don't tell hetero men that I'm into women, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:30 PM
231

Looool one of the top rated comments 'WHAT ABOUT WOMEN WHO SEND UNSOLICITED TOPLESS PICS?!!!?' 😂😂 who does this?? Like yeah I'm so sure you have women bombarding you with tit pics everyday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:45 PM
70

Calvins are not even that expensive and I say that as someone who is broke 😂 you can buy packs on sale for not very much. And we all know most men don't even buy their own underwear anyway.. Their mother or gf buys it for them 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:44 PM
5

I feel sick every time I think of that post, absolutely heartbreaking. I am really empathetic and I constantly get my heart broken reading about the way women are treated by men every single day :( these poor women deserve so much more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:54 PM
5

Reminds me of a post I saw here before where this guys girlfriend was sick and therefore didn't want to have sex.. So he masturbated to a video of him and his ex and made her watch 🤢🤢🤢 men are not worth it AT ALL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:31 PM
29

Read this when I was an undergrad, I can't remember the exact wording but there was a line I liked, something like 'a man will crawl through miles of shit if he thinks there is a warm hole to fuck at the end of it' 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:30 PM
2

Why the fuck would you be responsible for someone else's debt😂 the audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:51 PM
20

Yes and that's why I'm very grateful to be bisexual 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:50 PM
28

Yeah I don't like this. You can bring someone up without putting others down. I'd be pretty annoyed if I found out a woman and her husband were using me as a comparison to make her feel beautiful🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:47 AM
23

HE LOOKED AT HER AND KEPT GOING TIL HE FINISHED? Like, obviously masturbating in front of your baby is the worst part of this post, but the fact that he got caught and didn't even stop is fucking me up! This man isn't even human and the scrotes who defended him are vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:31 AM
12

Completely agree but of course its impossible to talk about these things without being called bitter or jealous.. Lost many good friends to their scrote boyfriends :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:47 AM
84

Also I have always, ALWAYS gotten more male attention in public when dressed casually with no makeup. A lot of women experience this. If you look casual they think you're an easy target, if you're dressed up they are intimidated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:09 PM
14

To impress people with my money? I'm literally broke and most of my clothes are from H&M 😂 no one is impressed by that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:07 PM
43

Loool why do they always wanna move the chat to social media. Some guy told me on tinder it was because 'replies are slow on here' and I just said 'I'm not gonna reply any faster on anything else' 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 10:30 PM
6

Where did you find this guy? The streets? 😭 I've seen homeless people who give off better vibes than this collage lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 10:25 PM
22

EXACTLY. I don't understand how women can post shit like 'found my boyfriend masturbating to some girls Facebook pics, BUT I'M FINE WITH REGULAR PORN'. Like there's literally no fucking difference, both are gross!! Women in porn are human, they're not fucking androids!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:42 PM
74

Can we also talk about the fact that men will say shit like 'it's just a fantasy, it's not real, it means nothing, it's just sexual'? It's disgusting! It shows that they see women in porn as pure sexual objects. And is further proven by the fact that women are 'OK with normal porn' but not with only fans or reddit gone wild because its 'too real, too personal'. Like, the women in commercial porn are STILL REAL PEOPLE. THEY'RE NOT FUCKING MADE UP. It disgusts me when people have standards like th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:24 PM
41

If you asked a straight woman to describe her perfect man in detail, I can guarantee 'watches porn' would not make the list. Women who say they're okay with their boyfriend watching porn are absolutely kidding themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:06 PM
1

You're literally the one who called someone bitter because they didn't have the same values as you? I'm tired of women with low standards infiltrating FDS. Go read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:48 PM
1

If you don't like the values of this sub, then yes, you should leave. This sub is a safe space for so many women and I'm sick of pickmes ruining it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:35 PM
3

This guys out here thinking wow its great I can still keep my ex on the back burner in case I need free sex or emotional labour 🤩 and she's like my SOulMaTe🥺🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:21 PM
4

That doesn't make her bitter. If you don't like it, you know where to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:19 PM
8

Exactly... Why would your soul mate break up with you, or vice versa? 😂 I doubt he's calling her his soul mate lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:11 PM
1

Calling someone bitter because she's not impressed by a man doing the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:10 PM
3

Literally so many pickmes here lately... Where are they coming from? If you have 'fairly low expectations' for first dates then why are you even here 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:38 PM
2

You sound like a pickme 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:35 PM
3

Seriously, what is going on in here lately? Like it's a good thing more women are coming to this sub but please don't post shit praising men for doing the bare minimum. I've been seeing a huge increase in that the past couple weeks!! Posters saying they're OK with non monogamy, OK with sex work, OK with low effort dates??! This isn't the place for that shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:34 PM
25

My dad brings me home better stuff from the store nearly every day 🤣 this sub is getting so pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:33 PM
9

LOL, your ex is NOT your soul mate 🤣 this ain't it. Edit: your post history says you're a sex worker? I don't think FDS is for you, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:29 PM
8

Then you're in the wrong sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:54 AM
2

Omg I bought my ex an Xbox one when it first came out and I was like 18 or 19 and I cringe so much thinking about it 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:52 AM
6

You're supposed to let a man chase you, not stroll along by his side. Read the handbook please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:46 AM
10

It is the lowest possible effort date with the possible exception of 'Netflix and chill' 🤮 it's free. You don't have to dress nice or put in effort to your appearance for a walk. It's fucking boring, like walking is something that you do everyday for the purpose of getting places... How's that a date. Someone asking you to go for a walk (as a date, not saying there's anything wrong with going for a walk with a family member or friend) is them telling you you're of basically zero value to them. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 08:09 AM
1

I feel like FDS has genuinely saved my life. I have been out with some AWFUL men and have with some of them honestly felt a vibe that they might kill me one day. If it wasn't for FDS I'd still be going out with absolute degenerates and ruining my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:08 AM
17

Looool when an animated giraffe is a better man than actual, human men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:03 AM
18

Ehhh no that's a shitty first date. You don't go to some guys house on a first date unless you want to be murdered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 08:49 AM
145

I can walk around my house without having to interact with a scrote... Honestly how tf is walking a date. Walking is barely even an activity. Next men are gonna be asking women on sitting dates or breathing dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:05 AM
40

I wouldn't because he will probably expect you to pay as its his birthday. I guess it depends where you live but in my country you tend to pay for someone's meal on their birthday, pay for their drinks, whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:04 AM
39

Melman the HVM 😫🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:01 PM
64

Imagine bumping into your mother while she's on a date and she's just like idk her 😂 she's from the PAST
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:57 PM
27

Literally all men on tinder look the same aka ugly. I saw a guy who's bio was 'growing a beard is easy than growing a personality' and that honestly applies to about 80% of tinder men 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:57 PM
453

From the past?? Wtf does that even mean. If my dad ever said this about me I swear to god 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:55 PM
17

Breaking up is literally always an option. I've broken up with men over far, far less than the type of shit that gets posted on relationship advice... I hate how people complain that the advice on that sub is always 'break up'. Like, of course it is. Your relationship is shit and has crippling issues. He is not going to change. What else do you want people to say other than breakup? Also this woman is kidding herself if she thinks they're ever getting married 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:47 PM
5

GOONING 😭😭 That word makes me laugh so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:42 PM
2

Can mods get rid of this scrote? They literally post on a sub called 'sinkpissers'...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:51 PM
2

😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:50 PM
46

Why do women call themselves needy for wanting their boyfriend to pay attention to them? Or expecting basic human decency? Like a man will expect a woman to cook, clean, have sex, do emotional labour, have their kids, pay half the rent, look like a goddess 24/7 and they never refer to themselves as NEEDY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:11 PM
2

Yeah, don't get me wrong I wouldn't pay all the time or put in 100% of the effort with a woman. But I won't do 50/50 with a man, I expect a man to chase me. Not sure why I've been downvoted 🤷🏻‍♀️ straight women need to realise that LGBT relationships aren't exactly the same as hetero relationships and therefore not all FDS principles can be applied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:07 PM
5

You do you but I'd rather have a man who's not ugly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:20 PM
17

Don't say obese, the correct term is DAD BOD 😤😤😤😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:29 AM
4

I'm bisexual and prefer women and I don't have the same expectations for men and women 🤷🏻‍♀️ like I still expect effort and kindness but I will happily pay on a date with a woman whereas I would never on a date with a man. I don't expect a woman to chase me as much because they're the prize as much as I am, whereas a man... Well, he's just a man 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:28 AM
17

Fuck, someone arrest me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:11 AM
5

Literally. If I wasn't bisexual with a preference for women I'd 100% accept my forever single status because its almost impossible for me to be attracted to men at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:11 AM
76

Everyone knows wearing sunscreen automatically makes you homosexual🥺 it would be an actual hate crime to expect a straight man to have a skincare routine 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:05 AM
41

😂😂 Have you seen the unaired one on YouTube where the guy turns up in a cowboy hat and a coat like something out of the Matrix? Chris hansen is yelling at him and he's just crying and going 'I'm fat, I dress like shit, who would want me?' they're becoming self aware lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:04 AM
21

What the fuck 😂 like just a plain t-shirt with BACON written on it? Why does that even exist and who would buy that? I'm dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 10:00 AM
40

Oh things like this genuinely make me cry. How crazy. You are having a baby!! How amazing is that? You're gonna have a baby to love and take care of and you're thinking of your dick?? It's fucking disgusting! 6 weeks is nothing, idk much about childbirth but I honestly thought the recovery period was longer than that. Physical recovery aside who even has sex in their mind when you've got a newborn baby?! That poor woman. You know she won't leave :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:55 AM
9

OK but seriously I get so annoyed at men who are obsessed with tRaVEl and all they wanna talk about is what countries they've been to. Like I had a guy ask me once where I've travelled to and when I said he went 'is that it?' yes that's it, I grew up in a working class family so I didn't get taken on holidays every year. Then I worked minimum wage jobs and got my bachelors degree and now I'm getting my postgrad degree. Sorry I don't have parents who paid for me to do a gap year in Asia 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:51 AM
38

'you have left the country in the past 2 years'? Whys this guy out here sounding like a visa application rather than a dating profile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:26 PM
29

People who blame you for your own sexual assault are not people you need in your life. Have u been to therapy for this trauma at all? I'm so sorry this happened to you and you are not wrong at all to be angry 💐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:25 PM
3

This sub is barely even about dating at this point, most of the posts are saying to stay away from men 😂🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:33 PM
6

One of my exes suspiciously stopped being as interested in our relationship when I started recovering from anorexia 🤔 men are whack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:18 AM
81

I love it when people on reddit call me a radfem thinking ill be offended... Like I literally identify as a radfem, its not an insult 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:49 PM
33

Get divorced like, yesterday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 11:47 PM
26

Imagine being that much of a pickme at nearly 40... Driving 1 and a half hour for a man? NEVER.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:26 PM
7

I really think it depends. I don't think it's unreasonable to eventually seek a new partner after a previous partner has died, unless it's like, straight away without anytime to grieve. I don't think that makes your fiance a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:25 PM
35

Porn should be banned 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 01:13 PM
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