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Redpill alpha boys can only pull whores, the rest of us are too good for you creeps
/r/TheRedPill11/09/23 09:24 PM
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Because "spinning plates" and using "dread" and "negging" tactics isn't a flex, it's psychologically abusive and shows low character and class. A real flex is building a life with a woman, cherishing her and treating her with dignity
/r/ExRedPill15/04/23 09:30 PM
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Run from this guy. Why are you lowering your standards? He sounds like trash. Lord only knows what diseases he has. And if he can Ross that many women our, do you think he's capable of loving You for you? No he doesn't need depth or intimacy, he needs power so he'll never liver you enough to truly commit to building a life with only one person. You know hes worthless. That's why you're here
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 08:22 PM
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Sex wasn't on my mind...I'm talking about communication. But yes technically it would require refraining from sex as you get to know him. Personally I don't believe anyone male or female should be so flippant with sex, it's not emotionally healthy in the long run.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/23 03:26 PM
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The solution is so easy girls... only coffee dates the first month. Get to know him and you'll be able to observe the red flags early on before getting emotionally trapped...seriously, coffee dates. Be very observing and if they seem redpilled just ghost block them.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/23 10:50 PM
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Treat the people you Date the way you would want to be treated. Realize that not everyone will be compatible in fact, few will but that doesn't make them bad necessarily. Get to really know th before you get physical. Lots of communication. The first several dates should be focused on getting to know each other. Have a list of boundaries and non negotiables. Stick to them.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/23 02:18 AM
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Hey! The British psychologist, John Bowlby, has researched and published his findings, if you want more specifics, he's the guy to look up. Attachment theory is well documented Xo
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 08:09 AM
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Girl I'm right there with you. Xoxo
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 06:43 PM
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Those guys are never right in the head so you can't build anything meaningful with them. Instead of doing inner work they get bitter and mean until there is no way out. Join meet ups with other people like you, make a tribe they will understand you, and you them. Organize a meet up on meetups...come if need be. Eventually in a healthy manner you will meet a great partner but enjoy the journey
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 06:41 PM
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This 100%
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 02:05 PM
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In general, if a guy talks about alpha stuff, he's far from it. Real men aren't concerned with alpha validation because they have more meaningful things in life that give them purpose. The most manly and dangerous man in the room is usually the quietest one in the back holding his wife's purse. That's the guy who goes from lamb to full on monster mode the fastest, ironically the same time the red pillers begin running away
/r/ExRedPill23/01/23 10:47 AM
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Well....I was a runway model when I married my husband. He askd me to quit I did. 5 Years into our marriage he became very red pilled. I waited two years, lived in hell and when i couldn't take it anymore, I left him started an etiquette business and am back to modeling. I'm breathing fresh air and he is bitter sad and lonely. I'm looking forward to my future got help with my emotions because he told me if I left no one would love me...I'm laughing to the bank on that because I could open up a f…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/23 07:19 AM
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You attract into your life who you are, like a mirror. Character is important, compassion too. Pride always goes before the fall so behave humbly. Treat people the way you want to be treated and walk away from people who aren't good to you. Don't treat a girl the way you wouldt want your sister to be treated. Remember broken girls are only attracted to broken men ...mirrors....you can't save that girl, only she can do that, but Don't shatter her more.work on being a good man not just a nice man,…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/23 07:10 AM
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Cruel people are cruel. It's just an excuse to cover up ones own short comings, income has nothing to do with it.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/23 03:56 AM
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If he had treated me with dignity and respect I wouldn't have left. A wife is a privilege, if you are cruel to her, that privilege can be revoked. Also he got another job and made me quit the business I'd started....I waited 2 year for him to change. I wasted my life hoping he would....people can't live like that even in love. Nice try
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 11:06 PM
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AMEN
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 08:53 PM
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Download duolingo and d the libravox audio book app. Both free. Use the internet as a tool but don't be it's tool. Limit your social media usage to 30 minutes a day. Get affordable hobbies that you can carry into adulthood one to do alone and one to do with others. Begin maintaining healthy habits. Learn to enjoy solitude because it will make you selective in who you let in your life. Trust me, it will.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 06:06 AM
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I'd tell him to choose rp or his family and remind him that if he touches you, he'll spend the rest of his life in an 8 by 10 cell. When he gets mouthy about it and he will. Take the baby and the keys and stay at someone's house. If he tries to keep you from going call the police because at that point hes kidnapping you. Let him send all the abusive texts. The more the better. Ignore him and let them pour in. Yo Put him on mute or give a friend your phone. Don't read or respond. Sleep well that …
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 07:31 AM
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She seems like she's barely hanging on to the last thread and has been swimming in this stress with no lifevest for too long. That will mess with a person's ability to cope properly. She should take the kid and start over
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 07:23 AM
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Yea take the baby and run. This guy sounds like a bad male figure for a child. Lord I hope she leaves
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 07:20 AM
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Let him have it. Give him the divorce and move on.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 07:15 AM
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There was a lot more involved....I was pointing out that my out earning him led him to the manosphere...I didn't leave him for hypergamy, I left him because he became cruel, belittling, angry, violent, and dehumanizing. He has apologized and I've forgiven him but he also understands that I'm not taking him back. Also I enjoyed being a housewife but I also enjoyed the discretionary income I was able to provide for us and as we had no children it made no sense for us to suffer to feed his ego. I'm…
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 06:49 AM
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That's how my husband got into the manosphere. He was normal but he lost his job and so I went back to work and made more than he ever had. Once he got another job he insisted i quit mine. It was insane and only got worse. after two years of that abuse I left him. Best decision ever.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 09:26 PM
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It's mind blowing that without shame, he publicly taught men how to keep sex slaves.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 01:20 AM
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Its a recovery forum for people who survived abuse...idiot
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 01:11 AM
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The 6 girls recently freed from slavery would disagree with you
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 01:10 AM
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You know it's a train wreck waiting to happen. Thats why you're here. If you stay, you will only have yourself to blame when the crash comes.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 01:04 AM
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These men will only see what they want to see and hear only what they want to hear. No respectable human, man or woman, no desent person with an esteemed reputation, would give a man from the manosphere the time of day. No mentally stable man wants anything to do with that garbage
/r/ExRedPill12/01/23 06:19 AM
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I practice abstinence. I don't "put out" or associate with low class men..many women are just like me ....so men in the manosphere are only attracting the bottom of the barrel and even that's better than they deserve
/r/ExRedPill12/01/23 06:07 AM
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redpillers only attract unstable girls. so yea. you cant believe the nonsense the manosphere puts out unless you have internal voids and are looking outward for someone to blame instead of looking within. so yea absolutely those are the only girls who will be desperate enough to waste their time on a man like that. we see what we want to see and we hear what we want to hear. followers of the mansosphere cult are no different
/r/ExRedPill29/11/22 05:13 AM
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Its just a support group. Many places offer them now, but they aren't connected or documented that I know of and definitelyword of mouth. You could try calling different churches and see if they can give you some more insight
/r/ExRedPill15/11/22 02:54 AM
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Because of how we view the church and god. We call the church "the bride of christ" christ died for the bride. The idea is that to create a balance of power, the man is the respected leader whose first earthly priority is to serve his wife. He must keep her on a pedestal just as christ did for man. It's a tactile representation of how we see gods love for the church. I wish I could explain it better sorry. Pretty much for a man to not adore his wife is just the same as spitting in gods face
/r/ExRedPill14/11/22 06:28 PM
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Obviously bad but support groups for women who've taken thier kids and left a freshly redpilled husband, are popping up all over the place. When I finally left mine, I joined a church bible study for women who escaped red pill and of the over 20 women, only 3 of us were without kids. Its destroying families all right and these were cookie baking soccer moms I'm talking about, not corporate women.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/22 06:10 AM
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You hit the nail on the head. Also, Evangelical churches blatantly shun red pill theology to the point that red pill coaches mock them for being "pussy whooped" evangelicals are the conservative base in the U.S and they reject the manosphere entirely
/r/ExRedPill14/11/22 06:06 AM
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Exactly except it gloriously backfires big time on them.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/22 02:47 AM
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No not at all. Mentally healthy men aren't interested in the manosphere at all. When I got divorced, immediately men came out of the wood work, sending me "thinking of you" flowers and such. I have a literal list of numbers on my counter right now of guys who say when I'm emotionally ready, they would like to pursue a relationship. Its just the mentally unhinged men who buy into rp
/r/ExRedPill07/11/22 02:43 AM
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This is gold
/r/ExRedPill02/11/22 07:27 PM
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no offense... but I have so many questions right now
/r/ExRedPill01/11/22 03:51 AM
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yes, thankfully, thats often how it works. boundaries make a great filter in that regard. block her from your life in every way possible. men and women should maintain strong boundaries because it really does separate the wheat from the chaff. you did good
/r/ExRedPill01/11/22 03:45 AM
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You misunderstand me. Please see my previous comments for clarification
/r/ExRedPill30/10/22 05:24 PM
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how old are you??
/r/ExRedPill30/10/22 03:37 AM
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I don't like the double standard rp puts out "rules for thee but not for me" but ironically the women they deem worthy, wouldn't give them the time of day
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 08:24 PM
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Hey girl! Thanks for your post. What this guy didn't tell you is that Christian women are taught that we don't have to submit to a man who doesn't submit to god. There's a lot more to it but that's in a nutshell.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 07:02 PM
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From experience after shes donebeing treated likea dog...she'll eventually leave
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 06:59 PM
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We aren't victims for stating plainly that man whores are beneath us.... im pretty sure thats why rp hates christianity, it empowers women because in order to have and keep a wife a man is expected to hold her above himself. Rp want to have thier cake and eat it too. When a woman clothes herself in strength and dignity, one of the perks is that she can demand her man display moral character.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 09:18 AM
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Exactly!!
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 09:12 AM
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Amen
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 07:37 AM
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That's my first thought!!! Amen. Men who've slept around to dirty to me
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 06:44 AM
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They believe all sorts of weird shit. Only a woman with psychological trauma would tolerate the horrible things they advocate for. Look into it... off the rails nuts. I'll give you an example. My ex husband was my everything. In 2020 he lost his job and turned to rp. He became a monster it was torture!!! No other way to describe it. I finally left and he said I was too old and had no market place value etc. Our divorce was fast because I said he could have everything. I left with 2 suitcases. He…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 05:40 AM
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I know imagine being such a pompous dick that you believe women's opinions on what they want in bed is wrong. Those guys watch too much porn
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 03:17 AM
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I'd take a man who needs help finding my clit but loves and adores me over an experienced man who believes in red pill nonsense. All women I know agree.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 03:14 AM
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Long term sexual desire is impossible for women without her emotional needs being met first. This has been scientifically proven repeatedly. It is the emotional connection she feels that allows her to achieve orgasm along with her feeling safe enough to voice her desires.
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 03:00 AM
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All the women I know want a man who cherishes her....not some loser collecting STDs
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 02:56 AM
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For the life of me I'll never understand why red pillars believe women are attracted to promiscuous men. But they also believe women enjoy emotional abuse, so nothing coming from them should suprise me anymore
/r/ExRedPill28/10/22 12:17 AM
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No he has just made it easier to spot and quickly filter out the losers. Most men are still good
/r/ExRedPill21/10/22 07:34 PM
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When in doubt, dump and block. Dogs have to be trained. Find someone whose mama made sure he was house broke before he left the den.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 01:18 AM
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Amen .my girl!!!
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 01:17 AM
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Because we avoid these kinds of women
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 08:48 PM
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Amen. Women have more to worry about other than whether a stranger is able to get laid. 15000 girls a year are raped in the back of a rideshare. We have enough on our plates as it is. I'm sick of men assuming I'm lying when I state clearly and decisively that I'm I'm abstinent. I've no pity left for these mentally deranged baboons
/r/ExRedPill28/09/22 05:38 AM
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This is an online support group....... not an echo chamber. Literally it is in the description
/r/ExRedPill28/09/22 05:26 AM
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Except that I'm in a massive support group with other women...
/r/ExRedPill28/09/22 05:17 AM
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No.... No we aren't. our personal boundaries are our own. Some women don't have boundaries and they are usually emotionally damaged.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 08:20 PM
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No way. Promiscuous men carry more diseases... monogamy protects you from physical and emotional illnesses
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 08:11 PM
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Red pill has destroyed countless marriages. I'm in a support group for women who've left thier redpilled husbands. The kicker...most have kids and the courts side with the mothers so those cruel daddys lose their wives AND kids over their horrible ideology. They literally chose to destroy thier families over rp. Mind boggling. Even after my husband said he would change I was like " no the respect and love I had for you is gone so I don't trust you will change....I need therapy and a fresh start …
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 07:57 PM
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They don't believe women have the mental capacity to be ethical and so since they dehumanize women, they can treat her like a dog. So, in thier mind, there are no good women so women should be used, abused, and tossed out. They want love but they are only more disillusioned as they see their methods don't work. This solidifies thier theories even more. Pretty much all you can do as a woman is establish strong boundaries to filter them out and avoid them entirely.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 05:25 PM
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But you are exactly the type of man women should avoid. Good men do exist and they have the emotional intelligence to cherish thier wife. They are worth waiting for
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 08:59 PM
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you should leave him. you wont. I can tell youre not at that point yet. It took me 2 and 1/2 years. you will be going through hell, but eventually you'll leave. right now youre thinking hes the only one for you and you cant be without him. you only want him. bla bla I get it. but as it gets worse, you'll either break completely or leave. some mistakes we just have to make on our own the hard way. any real advice anyone gives you at this point will be in one ear and out the other
/r/ExRedPill21/09/22 02:44 AM
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After leaving, I was diagnosed with complex PTSD and social anxiety. Never had either before my husband. Instead of medication, I'm in a support group. That was just one man....in my support group there are women who've only ever been with rp men...they are all emotionally messed up... there's no other way to put it.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 10:54 PM
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Girl when you look back you'll see you dodged a bullet. Not two months out and I am in the best years of my life. It will turn around for you. Let him sleep in the meaningless bed he's made. The best revenge is a life well lived
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 06:42 PM
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One what a nightmare. I'm so sorry girl. For you and your dad
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 05:38 AM
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We eloped when we got married. I'm a naturally frugal person.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 05:36 AM
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AMD you're back pedaling ...must suck to know you'll never be with a good woman I'm sure.keep spinning your plates. Die alone lol So cute you blocked me. I call BS on a good woman ever letting you within 10 feet
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 08:41 PM
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High value men cherish thier wives. Full stop. Also men chase...no self respecting woman will chase a man so congratulations you only get broken girls that you can break more
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 03:05 PM
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femal nature: According to rp, women are more like animals. only men love unconditionally but we women arent evolved so we can only love transactionally. In order to keep a woman and control her you must psychologically break her with a series of mind tactics that escalate over the years, and constantly keep her animal instincts in check. my husband employed tactics on me that would be considered abusive to an animal. he was able to do that because in my mind after he went down the rabbit hole, …
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 04:40 AM
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why do the rp coaches teach that: -less than 5% of women are decent human beings -women are incapable of love for a man -women only are with men for resources -relationships are transactional -women are relplaceable and worthless after 30 -women should be under the mans thumb or thrown out -mentally abusing the woman will make her stay -if shes had sex shes a whore -if she hasnt had sex shes a lying whore -intimacy is an illusion -behind every rock and tree is a woman waiting to eff up a mans li…
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 04:24 AM
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I wouldn't ever want an old man. I want someone I enjoy showering with and someone I can live a long life with. I remember once I was with some girlfriends at a Bar Luie (bar/restaurant) and this old man in his 50s probably all dushy and obviously showing off status tried to hit on me. I straight up told him I wanted to eat my dinner and hear the band in peace. He seemed shocked. that a group of beautiful young girls didn't want him and his friends to sit and chat with us. I dont know where rp g…
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 04:00 AM
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....again....it has been statistically proven, that the top 25% of women with the highest self-esteem dont use online dating at all. none of my girlfriends nor I would even consider it, so you're off the bat getting a skewed impression of women. high-quality women actively (and I truly mean actively) take drastic steps to avoid coming in contact with men who are into the "manosphere" we are above that garbage. believing women are soulless creatures incapable of love does not make you a man, it m…
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 03:43 AM
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My background is in etiquette education, so perhaps too formal for you. Ask the girl at least 3 days in advance and always have a plan to give her, whether it's just coffee, a picnic in the park, or dinner. After the date, if you still want to see her again, call within 24 to tell her you enjoyed the date and will call soon to set up another. Order her food for her with the waiter along with all the other basics. To find compatible girls, join hobbies and meetups that interest you. Stay off dati…
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 07:41 PM
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Yup. I'm way firmer and sexier than I was at 25. Women age slower than ever before so the age thing is a cop out.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/22 01:54 AM
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For starters stop placing yourself in a hierarchy used to define social status among ferrel dogs. We aren't animals only men who are losers follow that nonsense
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 11:10 PM
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A therapist told me that the way red pill works is similar to marine boot camp: they break the girl down and shatter her and after she's just an empty shell they recreate her into their own fantasy. That's the real reason they prefer young girls since older women reach a breaking point where they give up and leave
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 11:06 PM
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100% in a nutshell
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 05:19 AM
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My story w my ex husband iui s exactly the same he was a 10 and before you know it you're emotionally trapped. I'm the best I've ever been now that I'm out and next month my best friend and I are moving to la for 3 months. You'll find yourself again too girl. Xoxoxoxoxoxooxox
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 01:45 AM
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Exactly girl I agree!!! Im the most beautiful I've ever been too! My face my body I've never looked this good. Plus in your 30s you have more depth and wisdom. I feel my best years are ahead of me.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 12:31 AM
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Sweetie my husband redpilled and I left him. You know what? my life has drastically improved. One of our many problems was not being able concieve. I was heartbroken until now because I realize it was a blessing no to have children with that man. We are so much more than baby making machines. So much more we are eternal souls. Realizing that one fact has brought me more peace and ultimately joy than I've ever known
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 12:25 AM
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Amen sister!!!!!
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 12:18 AM
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No don't. If you ever meet her in passing, sure but make it clear you don't want anything from her, just a clear conscience. Other than that, leave her be. Some hurts just can't be fixed. Xo
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 12:16 AM
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Didn't you say earlier that you can't get a second date? First focus on getting better friends
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 05:07 AM
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But Women have nonnegotiables
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 02:33 AM
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Why? If she knows after talking that you aren't compatible. She doesn't owe you anything
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 02:25 AM
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Dating sites are a waste of time and energy. Hobby groups and through trusted friends
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 02:22 AM
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If you're a woman, hold off on sex for 3 months because rp men see no value in women beyond that so they will naturally filter out. Just meet for coffee and walks so you can get to know each other at first. Stay off of dating sites and don't give your number to guys in clubs
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 02:19 AM
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Broken girls are targets for bad guys
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 02:12 AM
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I left my husband over a month and a half ago over his redpilling. Its only in the last few days I realized I won't take him back. If you're ex is similar to me she may never fully recover from the psychological abuse. I think you shouldn't date at all for a full year to make sure you won't fall back and hurt another woman. When a woman dedicates her existence to a man and her reward is abuse, it changes her it makes her scared to give her full heart again. If you date before you're healthy, you…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 02:09 AM
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It's her body so you have 2 choices: accept her boundaries or move on. A womans body is a privilege not a right
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 01:57 AM
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It's crazy how fast he went from " you have no value if you leave no one else will want you" to " I'm sorry" I hear the same thing from so many in the support group I'm in (for wives who have left husbands for redpilling). They crush thier wives to pulp but then when she has enough karma hits them.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 07:01 AM
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Its unfulfilling so you're always going to be unhappy. We are all hard wired to love
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 08:39 PM
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Gaslighting
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 07:11 PM
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congratulations: you've won the dushbag award
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 07:21 AM
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Its HIS fear not mine.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/22 07:14 PM
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I'm not a feminist and if god forbid my husband died this week, he would die alone so you missed my question entirely. Also Christian's aren't rp it goes against the foundations of our faith.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/22 04:00 AM
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red pillers HATE church. just listen to them talk about it. all Christian men are betas etc bla bla bla because our wedding vows are literally the woman vowing to honor and the men vowing to treasure. it puts women on a pedestal to balance out the power as a symbol of Christ and the church. so in Christianity if you dont cherish and adore your wife you are failing as a man. thats why redpillers attack Christianity. my husband wanted me to quit going altogether but that's one of the few times I p…
/r/ExRedPill27/08/22 12:56 AM
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oh and the best part, they target you even if you dont have sex. I had a guy ( he took all this comments down conveniently) accuse me of being a "whore" and that I only left my husband so I could have lots of sex this summer when I explained that Ive only ever been with my husband, he told me I was lying. It was filthy the things he said to me. I realize that most people here arent religious, but its one of the few safe places I have to let out my feelings as I process. It shocked me that he att…
/r/ExRedPill26/08/22 07:10 PM
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exactly! except with the caveat that they don't believe in marriage or monogamy so the woman would be destined according to their theology to be a single mom anyway, no man like that could ever be granted 50/50. THe good news is, these idiots will breed themselves out of existence. I just joined a support group for wifes who have left husbands who redpilled. Its a massive group, most have kids.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/22 07:02 PM
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​ try meeting women in person instead. womens egos arent getting blown up, they are overwhelmed with messages from what im told and most of them are in the end for sex only so they are hesitant from the get go because rp has permiated the dating world to the point that women think if they dont have sex soon enough, the man will move on yet know that if they have sex they are forever branded a whore according to rp theology. they are damned if they do, damn if they dont and know full well that it…
/r/ExRedPill26/08/22 03:11 PM
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xoxoxo thanks!
/r/ExRedPill26/08/22 12:35 PM
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What is rule 0
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 03:39 AM
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I avoid both feminists and overdosed redpillers. Two sides of the same sick coin so....I wouldn't know
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:03 PM
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Rich cooper
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:16 PM
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In one video he said " less than 5% of women are decent human beings" direct quote
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:12 PM
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...no not at all. He's nuts and no, I'm not a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:56 AM
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Some of it is very much rooted in hatred of women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:55 AM
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I have a sig p365 that I carry most of the time and a s&w1522 as backup. They are in storage right now though.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 01:43 AM
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You are no man of God look at the godless things you've said to me. You are a filthy minded pervert.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 01:34 AM
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Ok. I serve jesus first. I've only ever been w my husband. I'm not ashamed of that because I am more concerned about honoring god than anyone else. It took 2 years of prayer before I left. I don't expect you to understand because you aren't a believer and you only see me as subhuman anyway. He is sad and I'm sorry for that but I know iij made the right decision
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 01:27 AM
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We're 30. I'm abstinent. Again you just know nothing. Y
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 01:19 AM
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Also we eloped because we couldn't afford both a wedding and a house. I left with my cat and a suitcase I left both cars and the house so I could prove to him he was wrong about hypergamy he's alonein that house he didn'tlose anythingother than his "depreciating asset" of a wife. So you know nothing.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 01:09 AM
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You recomend women stay in abusive relationships? I'm done with you
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 01:05 AM
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I'm not sure I understand what you're asking. If you're asking whether I love my husband, yes I do and have no desire to have another relationship. Leaving was for my health not from lack of love
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 12:53 AM
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ONLY BROKEN WOMEN WOULD TOLERATE THIS. GOD BLESS THEM BY THE TIME A MAN LIKE THIS IS DONE WITH HER, SHE'LL BE SHATTERED BEYOND REPAIR. iTS LIKE HES TRYING TO TEACH MEN NOT TO HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN AND INSTEAD MENTALLY TERRORIZE HER TO NO END.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 03:27 AM
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if a man ever used those lines on me, Id walk out the door without saying a word and block him from absolutely everything. I refuse to be talked to in that manner. and those arent examples of tests, those are examples of someone being vulnerable enough to express their concerns. LADIES. NEVER TOLERATE THIS. IF YOU MATTERED TO HIM HE WOULD CARE ENOUGH TO HEAR YOUR CONCERNS. THIS ISNT A GAME, ITS A MASSIVE DISRESPRECT. IF YOU CARE ABOUT YOURSELF, YOU WILL NOT ACCEPT THIS BEHAVIOR FROM ANYONE. MY W…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 03:24 AM

There was a pew research poll conducted several years ago and it assessed the 4 needs women and men need in a relationship one of the needs it concluded women have is someone who can effectively lead the relationship. Women: 1) non sexual touch 2) security 3) to be kept in the loop 4)someone to lead Men: 1)respect 2) sex 3)friendship 4) I forgot the fourth but it's a wildly researched poll so you could find it easy My point is a woman can be confident in herself but it's an indisputable need bac…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 02:34 AM
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You're intolerable. You deserve your karma
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 11:11 PM
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Because this is a group for people who have been psychologically traumatized by the extreme red pill. Not a place to justify abuse
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 11:06 PM
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I'm conservative don't put words in my mouth. Why are you on a recovery page bullying people
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 10:55 PM
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You're part of the fringe on the right...99% of conservatives think you've overdosed on the red pill. You will never convince healthy minded people (of any political persuasion) that it is ethical to dehumanize half the population based on gender
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 10:50 PM
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does it also teach you to cherish the woman? I think not, so in the end all that happens is you shatter an already broken girl. complete and emotionally whole girls would not have entered into such a relationship to begin with. my grandparents were married 72 years. their secret...My grandfather was the leader and my grandmother was utterly cherished. lived for her. She was not under his thumb he was her reason for getting out of bed and working to better their life. And she knew it. I understan…
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 07:16 AM
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OMG THIS IS PERFECT! If anyone ever asks me this question, Im going to use your answer! oxoxo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ​ also, I believe you were refering to radical feminists not the traditional feminist notion that women should be able to own property, vote if they so choose, have a bank account in their name etc. I think some people may have misinterpreted you.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 03:56 AM
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sweetheart im so sorry! Im just so very sorry.. Their karma will come. I've realized over the last few days of being on here, that in order for men to treat their partners this way, they must first dehumanize her in his mind. She has to not be fully human in order to feel ok treating her this way. that to me has been the hardest to grasp as Im planning my exit..the knowledge that Im no longer human in his eyes, that Im not capable of love or dreams or hopes. that I didnt have a vision of us old …
/r/ExRedPill01/08/22 12:06 AM
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this is the best advice I've received so far. Yes, Im a believer too and I dont believe in divorce either. so much to think about xoxoxo
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 11:06 PM
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She seens not right in the head. I would ask her bluntly "I would like to date and get to know you, are you open to that?" if she gives you a wishy washy respeonse then cut her out of your life becuase I think shell just hurt you.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 09:00 PM
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hygenic purposes, the lid should always be closed when flushed to prevent bacteria from flying in the air. thats why toilet seats have a lid.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 08:55 PM
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because it's addictive. Its not leaving their target audience satisfied because its not a fulfilling lifestyle. they see that the way they see the world now only attracts broken girls like them and it leaves them more depressed, opening up space for more content creators, so its just continues into a downward spiral to a dark place as it continues to leave the men who follow it more and more depressed at its failings, they become angrier and angrier until there is no way out. They focus on getti…
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 04:28 AM
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That is such a great point. Respect and love are both necessary for a lifelong commitment
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 07:46 PM
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Amen!!!!
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 07:43 PM
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?????????????????????????????????????????????? you've lived a sad life if you havent witnesses something as precious as love.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 06:21 PM
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I dont own a tv. I dont watch disney. ​ I think you dont believe you are worthy of love so you are projecting your feelings on others.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 06:19 PM
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omg Ive been talking to two people! Im still new to the set up. Sorry. I made a mistake. I owe you a double apology!!!
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 06:13 PM
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you dont owe me an apology. I need to practice patience and peace even though I dont agree. I think I feel a strong urge right now to undo all this sadness out there being caused by people peddling their jaded notions about love. I really just want to shake so many men and tell them to stop and to get out of the darkness they are swimming in. it makes me angry that they are only destroying themselves and others.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:46 PM
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​ thank you for sharing your own perspective. Its not easy to do when you know so many will disagree strongly. I appreciate you being willing to do that. While I dont completely agree with you, it is valuable to see a situation with different eyes. thank you. :)
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:25 PM
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when why did you...i dont know... bring it up??? youre right its not the norm by the way, because people like you said fall in love good bye
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 05:07 PM
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Hey my friend just sent me the link https://www.workaway.info/en/hostlist/northamerica/us when youre able maybe you could start with something here. you could find an online job for a few a hours a week for money. she teaches english online 15 hours a week and just traveles around. shes met so many people. there are lots of similar agencies but this one she says is the best becuase you can see reviews of previous workers.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 04:54 PM
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then I guess my folks were faking thier love jerk
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 04:41 PM
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fyi i feel i have to say it again so no one thinks they dont matter to me: pmeranian, I tried likeing this but my invisable troll cancelled me out. who ever it is they follow me and cancel out my stuff. I dont know why I dont know how they ahve the time but every single think I like gets canceld. its fine though as long as you know taht what youre saying matters to me and by the way, im getting super excited thinking about the places you could go as soon as youre able and all the cool stuff you …
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 04:36 PM
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omg if you ever moved to a city, you could easily get a job as a paraprofessional. another friend of mine is a para omg she loves it so much!
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 04:23 PM
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i mean making it richer and fuller. lol I have to say I hope you come to know jesus but Ill leave it at tht becuase I dont want to shut you down from your growth lol but I mean get out in the world a town of 2000 might not be the place to do it. see if you could find an adventruous random job, it might not pay much but gets you out there to see new people and places and expand your view of the world. make adventures live out of a backpack and take nomad jobs. so many places in the states have th…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 04:20 PM
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hey girl, fyi I tried liking your comment because It was extra information for me too, but ive got some troll following me unliking all mystuff. Ive only been on here a day so who knows what the deal is there. anyway. sorry :( youre awesome lol
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 04:12 PM
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have you considered volunteering abroad for a time? so many options and they pay room and board. YOu could see a different culture and feel good about doing good. come back with a new perspective!
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 04:09 PM
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Rollo is interesting to me. I used to overhear his name when my husband would watch those videos and ive heard him mentioned here so I looked him up. I really dont agree with much of what he says but I think its because Im from a circle that he would have not access to study. the stats he give seem impossible to me, but again maybe im just not out in the world enough. I really dont know. I dont know women like the ones he describes. But Im a puritan, I was raised in a very devout home that follo…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 03:38 PM
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​ Find hobbies, join meetups like board game clubs or hiking groups. dont try to read peoples minds, sometimes thier behavior has nothing to do with you at all and besides, whats going on in thier head is none of your business :) find a cause that you are passionate about bettering. volunteer and go from there. contrary to the redpillers out there, women are drawn to compassionate men and turned off by selfishness unless they are accustomed to abuse, they just arent drawn to that behavior. dont …
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 03:08 PM
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omg yes sorry I re read your age. dump him now babygirl
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 03:00 PM
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yes. yes . yes. take it from me, you dont want to be 30 years old and realize you wasted your youth on an animal and then have to rebuild your life. just leave before youre too emotionally involved
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 02:59 PM
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perhaps you could vlog about your own life experience and show how you are overcoming the hardship with strength and dignity. people relate to honesty. I think it would be very helpful to many men too.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 02:16 PM
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The toilet seat? That's basic etiquette among civilized people. Does he leave it up when he's at someones house for dinner? Zero class. Praise god my husband doesn't do that at least. Nasty
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 01:34 PM
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Not with your jaded attitude. My folks marriage was arranged....they fell in love. Take your insecurities elsewhere
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 01:18 PM
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I have a feeling that your folks make each other happy and they rely on each other emotionally. They need and deserve love same as everyone. Don't worry about that. Now I will say that it is scientifically proven that humans choose a mate that is close to equally attractive to them . Example: 5s choose 5s, 7s choose 7s and so on. I think they ve given you a great example of how to have a happy marriage. So, once and for all you can put that horrible idea out of your mind. Xo
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 11:58 AM
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how about we just lay off the pills? men. listen. MOST women are fairly simple: If they are emotionally stable, this is how it goes. 1)They think a man is attractive 2) he is kind, makes her smile, he makes her feel safe. romantic..all these feelings. 3) she isnt going to have to provide for him or support him. 4) there is something that he is passionate about 5) she looks up to him all this combined is needed for her to fall in love. screw the pills altogether. focus on achieving your full pote…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 11:36 AM
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sweety Im so sorry youve been led to believe otherwise. everyone falls in love. Humans have a biological need for a "life partner" with whom they can emotionally bond.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 11:23 AM
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just because they have never known a womans loyalty doesnt mean it doesnt exist. I know so many women who would never think of cheating on thier husbands and have stayed with thier husbands during times that it would have been better for her to leave. this infuriates me because these men are projecting thier own problems on loving loyal women. I am starting to believe that when these men die and they are in thier last moments and they look around with no one there but a paid nurse and they see t…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 11:03 AM
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sex for women is mostly about the emotional connection not the physical. trust me, if you both love each other, it will be good.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 10:52 AM
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My best friend is a psychiatrist and she believes that if rich cooper were evaluated, he'd be diagnosed as a sociopath. She says he shows all the signs
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 09:16 AM
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I overheard one stupid video about how to rev your car engine while talking on the phone to a girl. Why? He makes no sense.i don't understand what he thinks he has to offer a woman? He looks creepy he acts selfish he doesn't like women he doesn't believe in building a life with a woman or that we can love genuinely. It's as if he thinks that behind every rock and tree is an evil woman ready to hurt him. I think he claims to have multiple gfs that he sees once a week....no healthy minded woman wo…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 07:50 AM
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I see where you are coming from and it's a very good place, but I don't fully agree. When my husband discovered rich, we were still very intimate. Now hardly ever since I I sleep mostly in the garage
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 06:26 AM
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Hi! I dont fully understand feminists or alpha males, but I do know that they are two sides of a very toxic coin. in a wolf pack a real apha is nothing like what these creeepy guys say it is. a real apha will be appreciated by the right woman. the alpha of a wolf pack walks behind his pack, he has the elderly lead the pack to set the pace, with the pups behind, and behind them the strong. in the the back and side by side, he and his mate bring up the rear. alpha males are monogamous fyi and they…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 11:41 PM
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this makes me sad because neither of us grew up in homes that encouraged pursuing wealth, we were taught to achieve our full potential and open doors for others along the way and if you became wealthy while doing that, then it was a blessing from God but not the focus of life. YOu just explained so much to me about what must be going on in my husbands mind. I will pray on all this for sure. thank you!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 11:33 PM
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it started about 2 years ago and 4 months in, he was a different person. I didnt know about the laundry stuff til someone told me here, but yes, he was so mad that i asked him to try to separate and I tried to explain I didnt want his socks to turn grey but he lost it. now, I know why
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 08:19 PM
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I was just saying on another thread that "traditional women" intentionally keep themselves hidden from these types of men by not using dating apps and often even social media. My husband and I werent intimate until we were married. that being said most women like me dont mind if the man has a past provided he changed and has shown to be of higher character today than he was before. but generally speaking she wont be in situations where she meets those guys at least thats the goal. I know plenty,…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 11:10 AM
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Im a woman and there is no way I could possibly know if I want to sleep with someone within 30 seconds. thats assinine. love for women grows. Men are more prone to "love at first sight" but it doesnt happen like that for women. so yes its possible that a woman wakes up and realizes shes in love with a friend. my friend and her husband volunteered for 2 years at an animal shelter. they only saw each other one day a week for 3 hours. He later told her he was in love from the first minute but then …
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 10:53 AM
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Hello, I'd like to share my opinion that I think might be new. I'm married. All my friends, myself included have never used dating apps. we met our spouses at events; meetups, church, volunteering, hobbies, etc. There are many women out there who try to make themselves as hidden as possible from "players" for this reason they wont use social media. If you are looking for someone with whom you can build a life you need to search for the girl because there is a good chance she is hidden from the w…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 10:28 AM
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XOXOXO THANK YOU!
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 10:02 AM
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OMG. THANK YOU SO MUCH. THIS IS ALL GOOD INFORMATION. IVE BEEN THINKING TONIGHT ABOUT ALL THIS. HE MADE ME QUIT MY JOB AS SOON AS HE WAS WORKING AGAIN AND WE ONLY HAVE A JOINT ACCOUNT. i HAVE A CAT AND SO i THOUGHT OF LIVING IN MY CAR BUT i CANT WITH HER. THANKS SO MUCH AGAIN FOR THIS INFO ESPECIALLY THE PREPAID CARDS AND CASHIERS CHECKS. i ALREADY KNOW THAT WHEN i DO GO IT WILL BE WHEN HES OUT WITH HIS FRIENDS. OK XO. mY BEST FRIEND IS A FAMILY COUNSELOR, SO i DONT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT THAT PART…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 07:46 AM
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THANKS XO
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 07:21 AM
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I LOVE HIM AND I HATE HIM. I JUST WANT MY HUSBAND BACK. I FEEL TOO ASHAMED TO TALK ABOUT IT TO ANYONE SO IM ON A CHAT FORUM. I DONT EVEN USE SOCIAL MEDIA AND HERE I AM ON A CHAT FORUM IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT. I JUST WANT MY HUSBAND TO COME BACK TO ME. TO HAVE HIM GIVE ME A BIG HUG WHILE IM WASHING THE DISHES AND TELL ME "GOD, i LOVE MY GIRL" i WANT HIM BACK BUT THAT MAN IS DEAD AND THIS NEW MAN IS THE DEVIL.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 07:07 AM
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BE KIND TO HER. BE VERY GENTLE TO HER FROM THE FIRST INTERACTION. THE WORLD IS HARSH. WOMEN NEED A SAFE PLACE AND SECRETLY HOPE THAT IS IN A LOVING MANS ARMS. FROM THE BEGINNING TELL HER THAT YOU ARE INTERESTED IN HER AND TELL HER WHY YOU ARE. BE STRAIGHTFORWARD AND ASK IF YOU CAN GET TO KNOW HER BETTER AND ASK IF SHE WOULD MEET YOU FOR COFFEE SOMETIME. ASK LOTS OF QUESTIONS ABOUT HER LIFE. MAKE HER SEE THAT YOU GENUINLY CARE ABOUT HER WELL BEING AND WHAT MAKES HER TICK. USUALLY, NOTHING WILL PA…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 05:41 AM
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