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| 8 | First post, early days. | Shot-Lingonberry-804 | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/03/26 09:41 PM |
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| 9 | The emotional backlash of divorce and dating?Hey man -- thanks for sharing. I am much newer to this. Only about two months in, and very much still in the shock/pain mode. On the advice of a (female!) friend I jumped right into dating apps because her advice is that when it happened to her, she found it helpful just to get out and meet new people, etc. even if those people just ended up being friends. So long story short I signed up for Hinge, etc. and got a few connections right away, including a couple of very attractive women. Chatted a … | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/26 05:58 PM |
| 2 | One of the strangest parts of this process is how normal you still have to look while your life is under pressure.Man -- I hear you. Took a pretty high-level job a few months back, wife lost her job a while ago and hasn't gotten anything real back, now I'm expected to carry the financial burden on top of an emotional burden that at times I can hardly bare. Also hard as others have noted that the one person in your life who you need to care at the hardest time ever simply doesn't anymore. Lonely as hell and all I keep telling myself is one step at a time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/26 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Online Dating after SeparationHang in there, man. I signed up for a few, Hinge seems to be the best. It has gotten me a couple of dates and more recently a couple of connections with women who I can at least chat with on the phone, even if just to talk about being the same boat with separation/divorce etc. Bumble has been ok as well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/26 03:42 PM |
| 3 | How to be aloneSame here man. 24 years and ended out of the blue. I am living in a different city, alone, after taking a job and commuting back in forth for the reason (I thought) of supporting the family after she lost her job and never got back into something stable. The lonliness is definitely the hardest part, the distance from my kids, wondering what they think, wondering what she's up to, and worrying about what my future might look like. I've been connecting with women via dating apps and that's somewha… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/26 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Broken heart needs reassuranceJust weighing to say hang in there, man. I am only a month and a half in and it can be paralyzing. I am alone on this Easter in a new city because of a job I took that I thought I was taking to take care of the family. My ex and my kids were in town this weekend for my 50th, I had a bunch of friends here too. It was one of the hardest weekends of my life and today is even harder. I just know, and I think you know, it's a long road. There is no getting past that. One step at a time, one day at a … | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/26 05:46 PM |
| 1 | How do you forget her?It's very hard. I just got off a call with my STBX. It is too easy to get pulled back into what was. But you need to focus on what will be. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/26 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Day 4, just need to writeI'm just over a month in. There are good moments and bad moments. The bad will outweigh the good. It was only yesterday that I truly came to terms that she is done, that there is no good in me talking to her, texting her, etc. I had a scary traffic incident late last week, out of habit she was the first person I reached out to. Her response was cold and calculated. It took a few days to sink in. She doesn't love me anymore, that's over. So yesterday I decided that I am not going to connect with … | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/26 03:39 PM |
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