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| 1 | How to not overlook good guys?If you consciously know this, but still act in a way that doesn’t serve you, then how would you consciously work your way out of it? Well, you can’t. That’s why all the people saying “work on yourself” aren’t really helping. Obviously work on your physical self by becoming fit and being stylish and friendly, but how to deal with your mental issues? Therapy, specifically hypnotherapy is your best option. If your subconscious is what’s really driving the bus, it needs to be spoken to directly and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/20 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever been with a man that grew into a captain over time?Being feminine is one thing, being submissive is another. When you have a man who cherishes you like he does, doesn’t he deserve for you to show him that he has the lead in those ways? Because as you put him in that role in your life, and choose to take your submissive role, you’re free to only be submissive to him, the one who is fully deserving of that level of devotion. Now you can’t be that way with anyone else, so you’ve gained that power for yourself, and you’ll get to watch him grow into … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/20 10:52 PM |
| 4 | How to avoid turning bitter when in the presence of women more attractive than you?You’re 22 and you’re slim. Smile and be friendly and almost all men will be attracted to you. Obviously do what you can with makeup and hair. There are subreddits where others can help you with that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/20 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach levels the playing field.And I’m saying you’re not fucked, all you need is a little shift in mindset. We change our minds all the time. Think about what you really want in a relationship. What kinds of experiences really satisfy your most important needs and wants. Look for a woman who wants to fulfill those things for you, and for whom you want to fulfill her needs. I know almost nothing about you, but you write well, and you are here which means you have an interest in self improvement and a drive to be in a fulfillin… | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Cold approach levels the playing field.Thank you for sharing all of that, I think the men here can learn one thing from it that could be helpful. Maybe the girl you approached, who just rejected you rudely, was just trying to find her most efficient way of getting out of the interaction because it’s her 5th one today. It isn’t about you. In the right circumstance she might even like you and find you attractive. Read her reactions and just let her go if you get that sense. For both of your sakes. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Cold approach levels the playing field.I can already tell you write very well, and I appreciate your perspective. It makes me curious, can you please explain in more detail what someone can do at those different levels to increase their success? Maybe a couple examples? | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 02:37 PM |
| 6 | Cold approach levels the playing field.You know how much it sucks to be judged by your looks, so judge girls by their personality. Sort for girls you’d like to hang out with. Work on your game, your clothing, and your fitness, and approach ugly girls. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 02:34 PM |
| 1 | I’m going to get good with women!I can see why girls are mean to you when you’re rejected. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 02:52 PM |
| 1 | I’m going to get good with women!And it helps to ask to do something. It’s a direct confrontation to say “will you go out with me”, it is much smoother and a lot more likely to get an agreement to offer to let them accompany you to something interesting. The time spent with you is what builds the attraction. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 02:49 PM |
| 1 | I’m going to get good with women!Once you absorb some of that material and find it to be true in your experience, you no longer need to quote those masters, it just becomes the way you think. Inspired by many: Strauss, Mystery, Mark Cunningham, Ross Jeffries, David Snyder, Robert Greene, David DeAngelo. And I still need work. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 02:46 PM |
| 13 | I’m going to get good with women!A safe way would be the same as if it was a guy you met. “Hey dude, I know of this party tonight, why don’t I pick you up at 8 and we’ll check it out?” Attractive girls are hit on all the time. Don’t compliment their appearance. You’ll stand out just by not kissing their ass. Act indifferent to their appearance. Be cocky-funny. Tease them (reasonably). They’ll be intrigued, they’ll take it as a challenge to try to figure out why you aren’t hitting on them and telling them how hot and pretty they… | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 04:29 AM |
| 161 | I’m going to get good with women!You don’t have to hit on them. In fact you will probably get better results if you don’t. Just chat them up about something common to the scene you’re both in. Remember, they’re just girls, just people. Once you establish rapport, then gauge their interest and move on from there. | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Finally got my first sexual activity at 23Thanks very much for the female perspective. If I meet someone out and we start getting along and flirting I can understand not kissing upon that first meeting. If I have met someone, and planned a date with them and we meet and spend the date together and get along and if she won’t kiss me even a little kiss at the end of the date to say goodbye, I would not pursue another date. That would be a strong signal of disinterest. We aren’t in middle school, it isn’t your first kiss, so if you like me… | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Rejection is just soul-crushing for meDrop the soul, get some hole. But seriously don’t hit on women. Not directly. Go in indirectly. Sincerely just go in with curiosity, just wanting to ask a question and have a nice normal conversation. Conversation is a skill that can be easily learned. Search YouTube for David Snyder’s 3 Magic Questions and Echo technique. That’s all it takes. Now, imagine how great it will feel, not long from now, maybe a few weeks or a couple months, when you look back on this post, on this moment and grateful… | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Lifting is more than working-out: releasing stress and building mental health through physical exerciseDon’t do bench press at all. This exercise causes more injuries than any other in the gym. I learned this from Dante Coleman, trainer for professional bodybuilders. Do dumbbell bench instead. Follow up with a weighted chest stretch. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/19 07:06 PM |
| 9 | I have a bit of a porn and masturbation addiction and I’m kind of struggling with it.Read Napoleon Hill’s “Think and Grow Rich”, even if you only read the chapter on the power of sexual transmutation. Your libido can be a great source of strength. You’re just pointing your power in a direction that currently doesn’t move you further towards your goals. Now, what if you were to take that great energy and use is as fuel to create your dreams? It can be a great problem to have. It’s harder to create new energy when you have none. You have an excess, it just needs a little focus and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/19 08:25 PM |
| 8 | Boyfriend cancelled date to play videogamesWould you really want someone so dependent upon you that all he wants to do is be with you? No, that would be oppressive. You want a man who loves spending time with you, but also has his own interests. Seems like you’re really lucky that his interests are playing video games, when a lot of guys like to go hang out at the bars or strip clubs or lots of other things that cost a lot of money. Enjoy your time to yourself, and enjoy your time with him. You sound like a very caring, compassionate per… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/19 10:00 PM |
| 4 | Peacocking still worksModern Tokyo Japanese style is really fresh right now. Not the goth version, but the more classy/flashy version. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/19 03:08 PM |
| 5 | New relationship: Our first vacation togetherThanks so much for sharing! You’re a very conscientious partner! You’ll both be very happy together. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/19 02:57 PM |
| 7 | Older 50+Ms find me(22F) attractive but not men my own age. WHY?Why wouldn’t you? What if you were to be the one who gets to choose who they hang out with, and date instead of having to choose from the very few who are willing to invade your space? You’re in the lucky position of being able to talk to guys and gauge their interest, knowing that most of them will be interested. Guys have to have the courage to ask someone out who will almost certainly reject them. Remember all the times you were in a social situation and wished someone would come up and talk … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/19 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Older 50+Ms find me(22F) attractive but not men my own age. WHY?Don’t wait to be hit upon. Talk to the guys to whom you are attracted, be flirty, and ask them out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/19 11:32 PM |
| 1 | [Male 26] I have never had a sexual relationship (virgin). I do not smoke, drink, eat out, or attend places with loud music. Where can I meet women?If you force yourself to go out to places you don’t like to go to just to meet someone, you’ll meet girls who like to do things you don’t like to do. Online dating. Take some good pictures of yourself, even if you have to hire a photographer, and make a dating profile. Girls who are also homebodies like you use online dating even more than other girls. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 06:28 PM |
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