Shotsnshots Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	How do I not care about whether I fail or not? You're turning the entire scenario into an outcome dependent one. This is bad. "I didn't say", "I could've said", or "I should've said" are all great ways to improve future interactions, but what's done is done and fretting over what you've done, good or bad, is unhelpful. Start cutting yourself off from over-thinking. Open a few sets? Fine, you have an hour to look at both the positive and the negative, then get over it and do it again. How to take on abundance mentality starting out: Saying th…	/r/seduction	28/08/11 08:15 AM
2	[FR] AMOG'd for the first time Hey that's awesome, you're the cockblock in this group. I'm the cockblock in my group. We should go out together sometime, we can cockblock together! This sounds utterly bitter. Try in a similar tone to the conversation: "Oh, that's sweet, look at him try and get your attention. Wait for it; I bet he'll try harder now, lets watch." and then stare him right between the eyes, not gazing away at all.	/r/seduction	14/08/11 05:32 AM
1	EPIC night with seddit's own naga14 Awesome FR, best part: they said bye. we said bye. we didnt stand up.. and neither did they. A++++++++ would read again. As far as: "oh we have an english menu!" we ignored her, but the staff member would not go away. Maybe casually taking the menu in a "sure, whatever" kind of way (to suppress the AMOGing), and then going back to the "I need help reading" bit, in a way that says "It's not always going to be this easy" would've fixed that?	/r/seduction	10/08/11 02:56 AM
8	Thanks to Seddit, I manned up and asked a girl out for coffee. This is where abundance mentality shines. Lets think about this in a tangential way for a moment: instead of asking a woman out for coffee, what if it were one of your friends? You: "Hey, want to go grab a cup of coffee?" Friend: "No, you go ahead." Would you be heartbroken then? I'm going to wager not. Why? Probably because you have a fair amount of friends. Or, you know there will be another time you can ask. I think the most anxiety-filled part about talking to someone new is that you don't k…	/r/seduction	05/08/11 02:57 PM
1	AskReddit thread: "What's the worst way you found out someone you were interested in wasn't interested in you?" Yes, actually it does mean what you think it doesn't. Instead of pointing to the problem, point to the solution. Instead of saying "...you're an idiot because you took her out and didn't escalate, didn't kino soon enough..." Why don't you contribute something constructive? Put out a field report that's filled with good concepts. When someone's stuck, be a bro and help them become a better person. I'd recommend reading this, it should clear things up.	/r/seduction	03/08/11 10:02 AM
3	I don't drink and I'm young. Where do I take the ladies for a good time? I think you're missing the point here: the enticement is you.	/r/seduction	28/07/11 04:42 PM
1	Organic Seduction: Boyfriend Least Favorite Quotations: "If she isn’t your dream girl then she’s pretty damn close." and "Why upset a pretty girl for no reason." The whole thing puts her on a pedestal and reeks of AFC. Just as much as the goldfish reply will hurt you, so will the boyfriend's name response. The question here isn't about content but about delivery. Sure, maybe this ONE woman has heard it over a dozen times, but that shouldn't mean the tactic is invalid; nor does it mean that you shouldn't experiment and try d…	/r/seduction	24/07/11 07:04 AM
5	Common shit tests and how to defuse them I think you're too young. Yeah, you probably couldn't keep up with me. Would be fun though.	/r/seduction	15/07/11 12:39 PM