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| 1 | Attempting to talk to girls in the high school between classesSince you say that it is difficult to approach them in the hallway, occasionally wave and say maybe hello to the girl that you do know. This establishes a better relationship with the girl that you do know, and also shows the "other girl" that you are "trustworthy" (which makes it easier to talk to her individually); Having a mutual friend is social proof. Then, whenever you see those girls outside of the classroom-exchanges (when you are not in a rush), you can actually actually start a convers… | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 06:52 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with envy?Yeah. Sometimes conversations do tend to die out. If it does not happen regularly, then it's probably incompatibility. It's quite difficult to converse with someone who doesn't share many hobbies/similarities. The closest things I've found to "polishing up your personality" would be guides on how to make your conversations last longer like this or this. Nothing super in-depth or out of the ordinary though. | /r/seduction | 04/09/15 06:33 AM |
| 1 | How do I wake the fuck up?Are you always quiet? Or are there certain situations where you are talkative? Try to figure out what makes you comfortable, and what makes you shy, then improve upon that. Some people, at first, aren't able to talk in every single situation - for me, I'm quiet in groups but decently talkative in a 1-on-1 situation. Try working on your confidence by paying more attention to yourself (food, gym, hygeine, haircut, clothes, etc). Remember, change doesn't normally happen overnight. Don't expect peop… | /r/seduction | 04/09/15 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Starting University, any good topics to talk aboutI started University a few days ago. Generally I introduced myself to them, shook their hand, and asked what high school they were from. If you know people from their high school, then you may have mutual friends which helps in establishing a connection (at least in my experiences). Then you can ask about their University life; aside from what courses they are taking, you can ask what club they're planning on joining. Just remember that most freshmen are fairly nervous, and want other people to … | /r/seduction | 04/09/15 06:13 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with envy?Well it's not that looking nice is "complete bullshit". It's just that when some people start dressing up fashionably, they use it as a clutch for their unpolished personality. They think that, just because they have a nice watch, they can act smooth with women. Changing your physical appearance can definitely help with gaining self-confidence, but it won't make a drastic effect towards one's personality by itself. There needs to be a balance between appearance and personality. | /r/seduction | 04/09/15 05:52 AM |
| 3 | Success Transformation/Stories? (Need reference/advice)Back in Junior High I used to be fairly unattractive, quiet, and unsociable. Part of my shyness was because of my stutter, which severely impact my confidence. However, once I got into high school I realized that I needed to change. I started to dress better, which helped improve my self-confidence, and challenge myself by talking to people. I also started to take of myself more by going to the gym, and I became less of an " unhealthy gaming basement-dweller". When I went to University, people f… | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 04:58 AM |
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