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| 1 | Is there a good Feminist discord server I can educate myself with that I won't be banned from for being an MRA?Haven't been banned yet, although I'm an egalitarian so whatever I say tends to be nuanced in and of itself. I just messaged the mods with a reason of why I want to participate | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/10/20 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Is there a good Feminist discord server I can educate myself with that I won't be banned from for being an MRA?There is r/feMRA debates. Actually I found this subreddit from on there | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/10/20 08:37 AM |
| 0 | Search results for "mens rights" google compared to duck duck go, you can see a clear difference, one is all articles about it and the other is the actual websites for itIf you think that and want to be blind to all the crap that really goes on, then fine mate. Not saying I hate everything about this country, but there certainly are parts that are concerning and wrong. If being a critic and pushing for improvement makes me that, then fine. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/20 08:30 AM |
| 0 | Search results for "mens rights" google compared to duck duck go, you can see a clear difference, one is all articles about it and the other is the actual websites for itYeah can confirm I'm Indian, most people left leaning are hated. Just check out r/librandu where all the liberals who are hated come together lol. Its freaking hilarious when they call out shit by the major right wing government | /r/MensRights | 22/10/20 05:47 AM |
| 9 | Ladies of exredpill, do you like the strong, sensitive type of man?I want someone who I can just connect with. Their gender to me is irrelevant(I'm bi) just that our personalties should connect that's it. My personal type is actually the exact opposite of what the redpill community would have you believe. I love it if I'm the decision maker and the "strong sensitive woman" of the relationship and the person who I'm dating is vulnerable and sensitive and emotional; because I tend to naturally be the dominating person in any relationship, regardless of the gender… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/10/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Women who make false rape allegations should be sent to prison. For life.Better get ready to be accused of "internalized misogyny" now. (Source, I was) | /r/MensRights | 14/10/20 08:21 AM |
| 8 | I feel like RP is the worst thing I discovered.Its a cult, that's what a cult exactly does | /r/ExRedPill | 11/10/20 06:31 AM |
| 2 | What got you into the men's rights movement?Sending love and support from here, I hope you get through this, be strong! I know you will get through. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/20 06:11 AM |
| 1 | What got you into the men's rights movement?Used to be a very vocal feminist in my university. That is, until I got accused of "internalized misogyny" by my own peers by just simply trying to argue that saying "all men are dogs" and "kill all men" "boys are born rapists" is wrong and sexist. Then, I founded a very small men's support group in my uni where men can just come and discuss things, but then my old feminist peers turned very salty and branded it as a "club of misogynists" and that I have a "rape fetish, and wanna be raped" yeah.… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/20 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Google India only selected girls for internship | Sexism in TechIf only it were that simple here...my life would've been way easier hahaha. A lot of people don't even know that actual trans people exist, and homosexuality is heavily ostracized as is in most Asian countries. (Even tho both are legal on paper, its not really accepted) | /r/MensRights | 28/09/20 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Google India only selected girls for internship | Sexism in TechLegally yes, the country is still a lot better than the ones in the gulf in terms of equality. Its just Asian culture overall that does cause inequality in some aspects. | /r/MensRights | 28/09/20 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Sure, let's ignore men's mental health because apparently it's men's fault.Tbh what I want is toxic masculinity, i.e. that mindset that men are always the providers and the ones who sacrifice, to be changed. Sadly society forces men to be toxicly masculine, in a sense that "you can't cook because you're a man, you can't wear pink because you're a man", "you don't need metal health because you're a man". That is what I view as being toxic. You can be effeminate and still be male, and you can be boyish and still be female. Sadly society as a whole doesn't want to accept … | /r/MensRights | 13/09/20 06:40 AM |
| 3 | Sure, let's ignore men's mental health because apparently it's men's fault.Its not created by males, it is caused by toxic masculinity which causes all of this. And that toxic masculinity is forced on men by society as a whole. Last I checked society has both males and females and everything in between. But no, man = bad, so let's just blame them for all of society's problems, including their own | /r/MensRights | 13/09/20 06:33 AM |
| 2 | Physical punishment is only allowed against boys in SingaporeThe state where I'm at (Maharashtra) has actually made it illegal since the year 2000...but tbh no teachers in school follow it. Its just on paper. However both girls and boys get physical punishment equally at schools...and if not schools, they definitely do get it at home. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/20 11:51 AM |
| 12 | I hate the "Women are afraid to walk alone at night" narrativeSays the person who's so insecure and desperate for self-validation that they need to prove a point by arguing with a BS statement. Oh and they also contradict themselves in basically two comment replies. I'm getting redpillwomen vibes from you lmao | /r/MensRights | 23/08/20 01:34 PM |
| 6 | I hate the "Women are afraid to walk alone at night" narrativeLol all you feminazis the same | /r/MensRights | 23/08/20 01:32 PM |
| 5 | I hate the "Women are afraid to walk alone at night" narrativeOf course she does. However this kind of does have a negative side effect. It pushes the narrative of women being less dangerous, which is terribly exploited. In the modern day street world, most late night muggers are women who are armed with a gun. The gangs use women precisely because society perceives them as harmless so a female mugger will score more victims. This is why if I saw a random woman late at night, I would probably run. Its most likely that she would be a mugger I say everyone s… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/20 01:29 PM |
| 3 | I hate the "Women are afraid to walk alone at night" narrativeYour height or strength won't matter when you have a barrel of a gun pointed at you. Actually in the modern day street world most late night muggers are armed females who precisely look helpless to get victims easily. And believe me, its irrelevant of how strong you are if you're outnumbered by even two females...street fights are never fair. Doesn't take a lot of strength to stab someone in the heart with a switch blade. No amount of muscles or weight can stop that. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/20 01:19 PM |
| 5 | I hate the "Women are afraid to walk alone at night" narrativeYup, unless you're the one robbing people, or know the local punks personally; best to avoid those areas. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/20 01:14 PM |
| 7 | I hate the "Women are afraid to walk alone at night" narrativeTbf this applies to any stranger I see at night. It doesn't take a lot of strength to pull a trigger of a gun or stab someone in the chest quickly with a knife. I'm afraid and keep away from any stranger I meet at night, man or woman their gender is irrelevant to me tbh. I won't like magically trust a random stranger I run into at night just because she's a woman. I would probably get away asap though in fear of getting kidnapped or murdered. This rhetoric of most muggers being men just gives fe… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/20 01:10 PM |
| 2 | She called out her privilege as a woman.That's a biased opinion. Do they mean to say the father has nothing to do with raising children and that he's unimportant? What if its a stay at home dad? What if the mother is incapable and an alcoholic? I think personally both parents have an equal hand at raising and parenting. Simply assuming that women should get more custody and have more responsibility "because they are women" is extremely sexist. Ironic that feminists themselves are trying to promote sexism and gender based stereotypes. … | /r/MensRights | 22/08/20 06:48 AM |
| 2 | She called out her privilege as a woman.I could give you a brief idea of how it is in India, and most probably other democratic Asian countries too... The main problem is that the cultural blindfold here worsens men's issues even more so just like you mentioned. Gender biased laws and decisions get absolutely no resistance because men and women have both been indoctrinated from the start that "women are oppressed" Women of course do have an unfair advantage in false sexual abuse allegation cases, and even more so here than in the west… | /r/MensRights | 21/08/20 12:47 PM |
| 2 | She called out her privilege as a woman.Depends on the situation. But I would like to bring this via another perspective of their advantages Women of course do have an unfair advantage in false sexual abuse allegation cases, and even more so here than in the west. Partly because the men hating culture in the country is really very prevalent even among the younger generation of the country(as is evident by the comment you just replied to) But, I digress, the amount of genuine cases of sexual abuse is also a tad bit higher, however it h… | /r/MensRights | 21/08/20 12:39 PM |
| 3 | Who hurt Karen? (From another subreddit)"Males cannot experience emotions such as remorse and generosity" ...yeah right. Just turn all men into robots. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/20 10:14 AM |
| -4 | Reproductive rights for all.Of course I totally understand what you say about the woman having to undergo the whole brunt of the pregnancy. It just seems heartless and inhumane to take away a child from someone who really wants it badly... (I'm female myself, just to make that clear) but if I cared about my partner enough I wouldn't want to take away his child from him if he really wanted it that badly. This is provided I'm not able to raise the child myself due to fininacial issues, etc. And of course provided the father … | /r/MensRights | 17/08/20 10:47 AM |
| -10 | Reproductive rights for all.Of course I totally understand what you say about the woman having to undergo the whole brunt of the pregnancy. But it just seems heartless and inhumane to take away a child from someone who genuinely wants it (I'm female myself, just to make that clear) but if I cared about my partner enough I wouldn't want to take away his child from him if he really wanted it that badly. This is provided I'm not able to raise the child myself due to fininacial issues, etc. And of course provided the father ta… | /r/MensRights | 17/08/20 10:46 AM |
| -6 | Reproductive rights for all.Of course I totally understand what you say about the woman having to undergo the whole brunt of the pregnancy. It just seems heartless and inhumane to take away a child from someone who would genuinely want one (I'm female myself, just to make that clear) but if I cared about my partner enough I wouldn't want to take away his child from him if he really wanted it that badly. This is provided I'm not able to raise the child myself due to fininacial issues, etc. And of course provided the father … | /r/MensRights | 17/08/20 10:44 AM |
| 6 | Reproductive rights for all.I'm not taking about force...it just seems heartless and inhumane to take away a child from someone who wants to sincerely raise it (I'm female myself, just to make that clear) but if I cared about my partner enough I wouldn't want to take away his child from him if he really wanted it that badly...it just seems heartless and inhumane to do that to someone This is provided I'm not able to raise the child myself due to fininacial issues, etc. And of course provided the father takes care of the ch… | /r/MensRights | 17/08/20 10:43 AM |
| -14 | Reproductive rights for all.Of course I totally understand what you say about the woman having to undergo the whole brunt of the pregnancy. It just seems heartless and inhumane to take away a child from someone who so badly wants one (I'm female myself, just to make that clear) but if I cared about my partner enough I wouldn't want to take away his child from him if he really wanted it that badly. This is provided I'm not able to raise the child myself due to fininacial issues, etc. And of course provided the father takes … | /r/MensRights | 17/08/20 10:43 AM |
| 21 | Reproductive rights for all.What if its the other way around? What if the woman wants to abort but the man doesn't? It just feels wrong that the woman has the right towards the baby being born or not. What if the man agrees to raise the child by himself but just wants her to give birth? That's why I think both the father and mother should have equal say whether to abort or not | /r/MensRights | 17/08/20 08:17 AM |
| -5 | Reproductive rights for all.What if its the other way around? What if the woman wants to abort but the man doesn't? It just feels wrong that the woman has the right towards the baby being born or not. What if the man agrees to raise the child by himself but just wants her to give birth? That's why I think both the father and mother should have equal say whether to abort or not | /r/MensRights | 17/08/20 08:14 AM |
| 5 | disgusted and afraid of the sexual fantasies of my girlfriend and women in generalHaving a fantasy and acting on it are two very different things... | /r/ExRedPill | 16/08/20 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Half of Generation Z men ‘think feminism has gone too far’Yup, it is because of the cult mentality that follows these radical feminist icons. Nobody questions them because they have turned more into a cult leader than a normal person stating an opinion. This is why they are being supported by radical feminists. But I have hope, once the newer gen-z feminists come up, I really really hope that they will completely dissolve radical feminism altogether. The newer gen-Z feminists will expose their cult and push forth for equality. Anything radical is bad. … | /r/MensRights | 11/08/20 07:27 AM |
| 2 | Half of Generation Z men ‘think feminism has gone too far’Tbh a lot of gen-Z feminists don't see eye to eye with the older radical feminists either. I'm a gen-Z girl, also a feminist...but what happens to me when I bring up this issue of radical feminism being biased towards women to my feminist peers? I get blamed of "internalized misogyny" Yes men and women both have issues and problems of their own...but trying to cause men more issues is not the solution to equality. But no, I'm just an "internalized misogynist" because I believe in gender equality… | /r/MensRights | 10/08/20 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Half of Generation Z men ‘think feminism has gone too far’I'm a gen-Z girl, also a feminist...but what happens to me when I bring up this issue to my feminist peers? I get blamed of "internalized misogyny" Yes men and women both have issues and problems of their own...but trying to cause men more issues is not the solution to equality. But no, I'm just an "internalized misogynist" because I believe in equality. Radical feminism at this point has turned into more of a cult. You get shamed for having anything else other than a radical opinion. In other w… | /r/MensRights | 10/08/20 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Half of Generation Z men ‘think feminism has gone too far’I'm a gen-Z girl, also a feminist...but what happens to me when I bring up this issue to my feminist peers? I get blamed of "internalized misogyny" Yes men and women both have issues and problems of their own...but trying to cause men more issues is not the solution to equality. But no, I'm just an "internalized misogynist" because I believe in equality. Radical feminism has turned more and more into a cult. But not all feminists are like the radicals. Its because of them that feminism gets sham… | /r/MensRights | 10/08/20 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Half of Generation Z men ‘think feminism has gone too far’I'm a gen-Z girl, also a feminist...but what happens to me when I bring up this issue to my feminist peers? I get blamed of "internalized misogyny" Yes men and women both have issues and problems of their own...but trying to cause men more issues is not the solution to equality. But no, I'm just an i"nternalized misogynist" because I believe in equality | /r/MensRights | 10/08/20 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Half of Generation Z men ‘think feminism has gone too far’Maybe you're just an a**hole? Sorry that was mean, but like seriously dude? (How does someone's physical appearance have anything to do with a false rape accusation?) | /r/MensRights | 10/08/20 05:38 PM |
| 7 | Half of Generation Z men ‘think feminism has gone too far’Not all Gen Z women are like that and want privelge for free. I want equality, the shit feminism is doing is trying to treat me like a princess, at the cost of the well-being of men; which I don't want. What happens to me when I say that exact same thing in to my feminist friends? I get accused of "internalized misogyny". "Internalized misogyny=equality" according to them | /r/MensRights | 05/08/20 01:47 AM |
| 29 | Half of Generation Z men ‘think feminism has gone too far’There's a reason why its called "femi"nism and not egalitarianism | /r/MensRights | 05/08/20 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Am I less valuable?Hahahah, thank you for this. I might ask my boyfriend too, lol | /r/ExRedPill | 01/08/20 02:10 PM |
| 6 | Am I less valuable?You know what, I would apply the same to you and say that I don't want a man who will go and stick his d*ck in the closest whore. But no, men like that are celebrated and women like that are treated inferior. Sex is a human thing, everyone does it, everyone has the urge to do it equally. Its society and people like you who overshadow this one simple human fact. Stop treating people as superior/inferior because they had sex | /r/ExRedPill | 01/08/20 10:55 AM |
| 6 | Am I less valuable?Because its enforcing the shitty double standards that exist | /r/ExRedPill | 01/08/20 10:52 AM |
| 3 | Am I less valuable?You know, I hate the double standard. Why is a man who has a lot of sex celebrated, and a woman who does treated as inferior? Would you leave him if he's not a virgin? No, right? So why should he leave you? Women are NOT a prize or a commodity for a man, but are just humans as much as a man is. Stop seeing that BS on YouTube made by people who don't understand anything of what they're saying themselves. Sex is a positive and human thing, and nobody should feel superior or inferior for it. There'… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/08/20 10:48 AM |
| 3 | Another girl flirted with me but I got scared to approach.Why didn't you ask her out? I'm pretty sure she would have agreed. Or why didn't she ask you out? If I met someone who had the same anime interests that I did(especially a guy, that would be EPIC) I would be all over them lol...probably because nobody is into shoujo anime/manga a lot these days. Maybe this is an unfortunate situation where you both were reluctant to make the first move. Just leave it aside and move on, and try making the first move next time if the person in front is not making … | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/20 11:45 PM |
| 2 | What happened to “My body, my choice?”Bah, I'm gonna wear cargo pants, a t-shirt full of misogyny with the logo of I'm hot, look at me girlies and have a cringey boy cut. Anyone one of those young "LOOK AT ME I AM FEMININE" women on buzzfeed who don't like that can go screw themselves | /r/MensRights | 20/07/20 03:49 PM |
| 2 | What happened to “My body, my choice?”Ha, exactly. | /r/MensRights | 20/07/20 03:47 PM |
| 4 | What happened to “My body, my choice?”Bah, I'm 19 and a woman and I'm gonna wear cargo pants, a t-shirt full of misogyny with the logo of I'm hot, look at me girlies and have a cringey boy cut. Anyone one of those young "LOOK AT ME I AM FEMININE" women on buzzfeed who don't like that can go screw themselves | /r/MensRights | 20/07/20 03:43 PM |
| 1 | What happened to “My body, my choice?”Ha! They're all just jealous about the carrying capacity. (I am too, and to any fashion designer out there, you'll make millions on female cargo shorts) | /r/MensRights | 20/07/20 12:42 PM |
| 1 | 80/20 is bullshit, women don’t have high standards, they aren’t that different from us, and they don’t care about anything TRP or PUA want you to think they doIdk which world you're living in, but I want to be a part of that world honestly. The grass always looks greener on the other side, but in reality both are yellowing and almost dead. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/20 02:50 PM |
| 1 | 80/20 is bullshit, women don’t have high standards, they aren’t that different from us, and they don’t care about anything TRP or PUA want you to think they doDepends on the person, regardless of gender, if you're selective and not good looking, you're most likely gonna get rejected or worse, used Why would someone who's a 9 (man or woman) date someone who's a 4? Just because the person who's 4 is selective and only goes for 9's doesn't mean that the 9 is gonna agree. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/20 05:38 AM |
| 2 | 80/20 is bullshit, women don’t have high standards, they aren’t that different from us, and they don’t care about anything TRP or PUA want you to think they doIf you don't have the looks yourself, then you can't be selective. You'll have to go for someone in your league regardless of gender. Otherwise you're just gonna get rejected...or worse used. This is true for both genders. Men just act as if the women who don't look good are invisible, so they come to these lopsided conclusions | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/20 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Can I just mention here about how isolated and closed off to discussions these red pill sub-reddits are on here?(My own short single day adventure into the red-pill wonderland)Ahahaha. These people have such a short-sighted and backward mind that its hilarious. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/07/20 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Can I just mention here about how isolated and closed off to discussions these red pill sub-reddits are on here?(My own short single day adventure into the red-pill wonderland)Lol, as expected. They're terrified of getting into a discussion and potentially losing members of their cult | /r/ExRedPill | 12/07/20 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Can I just mention here about how isolated and closed off to discussions these red pill sub-reddits are on here?(My own short single day adventure into the red-pill wonderland)I don't think red pill would work in the dating culture that exists in Asia. If you're a millennial in Asia, and assuming that you're going in a heterosexual relationship, then the problem with the red pill logic is that, 1) If you're a man most women will be TERRIFIED of you, because first off they have been brought up to believe that a 'man is bad'. So if you act aggressive and dominating on purpose then you're just gonna scare them all away. Unless you manage to meet someone rare with a diffe… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/07/20 08:44 AM |
| 3 | Yet another woman responding to her boyfriend's rape trauma by questioning his manhood and losing attraction for him. I've said it once and I'll say it again.. women do as much (if not more) to create and perpetuate harmful definitions of masculinity as men do.Can I just mention how much of an a**hole your ex was? She put her own fetish of "strong, invincible man" over your trauma. Not all women are like this, not all of them have this sick fetish either. Its a**hole women like these who ruin it for all other women out there. Just like how feminists generalize all men based on a few a**holes. Sometimes I really wish I had an a**hole detector machine, then I could just shoot them all and then both genders could live happily ever after without fighting. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/20 05:16 AM |
| 5 | Can I just mention here about how isolated and closed off to discussions these red pill sub-reddits are on here?(My own short single day adventure into the red-pill wonderland)Lol, exactly. This is so typical online, many groups follow the exact the same rhetoric of,"I'm a moody teen, I need to vent my frustrations by believing something totally ridiculous; because it makes me less sad." Ahaha, yeah that's the beauty about websites like incels and stuff. The entertainment value is so real because their thinking process is so deranged and unbelievable, its hilarious. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/20 10:35 AM |
| -1 | Can I just mention here about how isolated and closed off to discussions these red pill sub-reddits are on here?(My own short single day adventure into the red-pill wonderland)If you need to assume that to satisfy your mind that what you're doing, and thinking is right in order to sleep better at night; then sure, you're always right; you do you fam. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/20 10:30 AM |
| 5 | Can I just mention here about how isolated and closed off to discussions these red pill sub-reddits are on here?(My own short single day adventure into the red-pill wonderland)Never really paid attention to the account names, but if that is true its just manipulating and desperate lol. As if they NEED women to agree with their twisted philosophy so that they can shove it in people's faces that,"LOOK THESE WOMEN AGREE TOO!" They sound more and more like immature teens to me, lol | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/20 08:49 AM |
| 5 | Can I just mention here about how isolated and closed off to discussions these red pill sub-reddits are on here?(My own short single day adventure into the red-pill wonderland)Okay, ya, I'm new, and didn't know that was a thing on here. Also, I don't think having a healthy discussion and socializing is tied to a particular gender. Everyone has a brain to think, everyone has a voice to speak | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/20 08:27 AM |
| 5 | How to be vulnerable / build an emotional support system?I might not be qualified enough to answer this because I'm not "exredpill" by any means, but I would advice you to get a diary, once you do that I want you to write something that you love about yourself everyday in that. It could be anything, from how you feel you did well on your job, to how you really appreciate your family members, etc. Just one thing everyday. Then whenever you feel like you are in need of support, just read through the diary. Basically, you have now formed an emotional sup… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/20 08:03 AM |
| 1 | 35+ wants kids someday WTF?Sounds more like a specific fetish than a popular one imho. Kind of like how some people like feet. Sure...you do you, I don't judge, but that doesn't mean everyone has it. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 02:54 AM |
| 1 | 35+ wants kids someday WTF?So if that means I have to be a working woman and my husband has to be a stay-at-home dad? So be it. Because my family comes first before myself; and I am sure my husband would think the same in this situation. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 02:34 AM |
| 1 | 35+ wants kids someday WTF?I don't want to use my vagina here to gain special attention, as it was so eloquently put in one of the rules of the now quarantined redpill subreddit, but I'm sorry that I have to. If you ask me personally that mindset only exists in western women, me personally, in that situation, raising a family would be my top-priority. My culture, (I am Indian by the way) kinda enforces that more than anything else. Family comes first, for both men and for women. Always. No exceptions. Would I be unhappy? … | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 02:31 AM |
| 1 | 35+ wants kids someday WTF?I mean that is basically how arranged marriages work, you do not necessarily want your spouse, but you make do with it because you and your family and they and their family benefit. In this case its just an arranged marriage minus the families. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 02:14 AM |
| 1 | 35+ wants kids someday WTF?Not even if the woman had a high paying job from a career she was working for fifteen years in? All the guy would have to do is learn how to be good at parenting, and be a loving husband. If we take into the fact that the primary aim here is that both the husband and wife want to have a family. The husband is good at parenting but he doesn't have a high status to get a wife through normal means. The wife has passed the appropriate age of marriage and isn't going to find a husband anytime soon. B… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 02:12 AM |
| 1 | 35+ wants kids someday WTF?I think that is a more gender neutral feeling imo, I mean in some animals like bears the male just simply leaves the female and the child. But for humans, evolution decided that to not be feasible and bringing up the offspring by using both the genders was much more practical. So, both genders should from this logic feel equal affection for their offsprings. But, yes, on the other hand I have noticed this mindset you described in some women, but I would argue that its more of a personality thing… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 01:57 AM |
| 1 | 35+ wants kids someday WTF?Well...I'm not a man, so I was imagining myself as the woman in the situation. But idk I look at parenting as more of a skill that can develop over time, rather than a gender specific thing. Yeah, maybe being a woman helps in nurturing kids from a biological standpoint, but it isn't the only part of the equation. I personally know of many incapable mothers who are high 90% of the time. If my husband could read up on many parenting sources in today's day and age, and learn about it then eventuall… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 01:46 AM |
| 1 | 35+ wants kids someday WTF?Wouldn't it still be better than just the woman, alone, out there nurturing and hunting? Sure...maybe both would be bad at their jobs but something is better than nothing, right? Two people working together is better than one imo | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 01:39 AM |
| 2 | 35+ wants kids someday WTF?Eh, better than raising children and managing a career all by herself. At least there would be someone to help. I mean, maybe I'm just the exception idk; but I wouldn't mind a stay-at-home husband if I imagine myself in this situation. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 01:06 AM |
| 3 | 35+ wants kids someday WTF?Why not? This is intriguing, having a life where all I had to do was focus on my dream career while my husband took care of the kids most of the time sounds like the best of both worlds for me. A happy family, and a career I love. Sounds pretty nice to me. Heck I would sign up for it right now if I could. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 12:56 AM |
| 2 | 35+ wants kids someday WTF?Or yeah, forgot to add this in my first comment but, maybe if as the OP mentioned she managed to find a husband who isn't really an earner, but she does have a high paying job. So why not just make the husband a stay at home dad, and keep the mom working? I could see that work. She'll have all the time in the world to focus on her job and career; and live the fantasy suburbia life she always wanted to live. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 12:20 AM |
| 1 | 35+ wants kids someday WTF?Why not just adopt or something if she wants to be a mother so bad? Or go the in-vitrio fertilization route with the help of a sperm donor if she's of the stupid, age-old mindset of "I only want a blood related child." I mean if she spent that time on her career then she most likely has the means to bring up a child by herself. I don't get it, does she dream of a " happy wholesome suburbia life with a loving husband a son and a daughter"? That's just childish imo | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 12:05 AM |
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