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ShouldIBeRedPill/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:21 PM
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Sounds good, thank you
/r/askTRP22/05/21 04:51 PM
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Makes sense. I like the notebook idea. Do you put notes about how you felt and everything? Like “more confident this time” etc.?
/r/askTRP22/05/21 04:11 PM
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I used to get a lot of matches back in the day before I could even game them (used to just ask if they were down to fuck) but I had to update my pictures because I didn’t wanna have years old pictures and I just put mirror selfie’s and some low quality pictures. I’m gonna have a friend take more pictures. Will cold approaching be just as good as now when online dating takes over the market?
/r/askTRP22/05/21 05:11 AM
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That is hopeful. What are the reasons for this?
/r/askTRP22/05/21 04:16 AM
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No I’m saying girls can nitpick over looks on there. Yeah, good pictures will help so I’m going to take better pictures, but the top girls probably already have attractive guys they’re banging so they’d want someone who stood out. Or maybe it’s just my pictures. I’m having a friend come take better pictures. My pictures weren’t great back in the day, meaning I wasn’t on a yacht or anything, but they were better than the selfies and poor quality pictures I have now.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 04:04 AM
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Makes sense, can I pm you about more questions I have? And yeah, I have noticed decent looking guys getting with pretty unattractive women. I think it’s a shame. At least I’m trying to realize my potential.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 11:14 PM
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Yeah, maybe I’m misunderstanding the message because of the fact that I see losers who just drink and work a shit job and don’t workout saying shit like that. In your second to last paragraph, which starts with “Slow status man” (I assume you mean low status?), are you saying that low status men aren’t going after top tier women and women think those men can? I don’t follow that part, but the rest makes sense. I’m probably misunderstanding the whole “they don’t deserve you” think because I liter…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 10:19 PM
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I think many people are misunderstanding me here. I am pulling something from mainstream-motivation that spreads this philosophy around. I do not agree that someone not being interested = them not deserving you. That type of advice is part of why I looked into the redpill. I thought it was dumb that people say “their loss” and everything with a woman who can probably do much better than the guy the advice is given to. This post is to discuss that advice and see what people here think, because th…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 08:41 PM
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This is a discussion on a common thing people say. I’m done engaging with you.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 06:41 PM
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I get what you’re saying but this post wasn’t about that. I agree that you move on when they’re not “seeing your worth”, but to make it a them problem and to say they “don’t deserve you” just because they don’t have interest in you is pretty dumb. The point of this post is to discuss the fact that these self-gratifying methods of coping with rejection just cause complacency and cause people to neglect to better themselves.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 06:12 PM
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I don’t think you’re getting the point of this post. This Is a discussion about whether or not this blanket motivational-speaker mentality is a bad mindset.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 05:48 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/askTRP17/05/21 04:55 PM
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You’re totally right. I’m not saying the guy isn’t at fault for being so... patient, for just one out of a billion women, and also for putting this woman on a pedestal (chasing like this probably leads to acceptance of any other annoying behaviors of hers. Spending too much money, yelling, whatever - he’s already put up with too much before the relationship even starts so it’s indicative that he’ll do the same for all of this one “special woman”’s flaws). I’m just saying I can see a scenario whe…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 04:42 PM
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I just find it funny how you see this type of stuff shared on Facebook/Instagram all the time. It might help people move on, but it is completely untrue and it’s manifestation of the participation trophy society in most cases. When someone who is a single Mom at age 20 is sharing shit like this, it’s kind of retarded. What you said is spot on.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 04:31 PM
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To your first point, I’d argue that some women will genuinely pretend to be interested and act like it’s just circumstance keeping you from being together. Some women will proclaim interest, without the man asking for that, yet never prove it with their actions. Yes, experience shows that they are not interested if actions don’t prove they are, BUT, some take it too far. In this case, those women really aren’t deserving of someone who is not deceptive. The average man will not pick up on the fac…
/r/askTRP17/05/21 04:21 PM
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Very true. I forget that something being common does not equal it not meaning promiscuity. Promiscuity is just as common as belly button piercings.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 01:24 AM
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The more I read, the more it’s “who considers girl wife material” 😂
/r/askTRP15/05/21 01:23 AM
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Agreed.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 11:13 PM
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So I would assume nose piercings are “alternative piercings” for this argument but belly button piercings are not alternative piercings? Or are belly button piercings also “alternative piercings”?
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:58 PM
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Agreed. Though I think small tattoos are a middle ground red flag or maybe a yellow flag. You couldn’t put your money down that that girl is unstable or promiscuous just because of that alone (anymore than you could put your money down that any girl is), but you should proceed with caution.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 08:14 PM
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They’re all fuckin nut jobs, just wondering if these are the type to quench their boredom with dick or not
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:51 AM
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One thing to put “Forever in my heart, 3/12/20” or something. Totally different thing to get a sleeve.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 11:49 AM
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So women who defy the culture are likely slutty then?
/r/askTRP13/05/21 02:37 AM
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But a girl who is that insecure would jump at the chance to get male validation with sex, right?
/r/askTRP13/05/21 02:17 AM
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Kick yourself in the ass then weirdo.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 01:41 AM
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I don’t see how that takes away from the point. Of course most 30 year olds will be married and either not cheating or will say they aren’t. Whether tattoos increase likelihood of cheating or they just increase sexual activity while single, I don’t want to LTR anyone who has ever been a hoe.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 01:15 AM
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No problem.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:28 AM
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There actually is evidence on the tattoo thing, not sure of the weed thing. Read the comments. Only thing that makes me wonder is the fact that tattoos are more common nowadays.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:00 AM
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I read an article stating the same thing. It was funny because they said women with tattoos lost their virginity earlier too, but the article stated that it may be because tattooed women are approached more, so they did a study by placing tattooed vs. non-tattooed women at the beach and seeing how much they were approached. Tattooed women were approached more. I was sitting there thinking, “Most girls lose their virginities before they’re old enough to get tattooed anyway so that’s not the reaso…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:58 PM
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That makes sense, thanks. I appreciate that
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:53 PM
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I edited my comment a lot; just telling you in case you didn’t read the edit. So thinking about why people do things isn’t a part of vetting? And don’t you think sleeves are distasteful? I mean, it’s not as bad as a tat that says “gang shit” but still.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:42 PM
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Eh, the ones that get those sleeves seem to plan them out for a long time in a lot of cases. I’m not even talking about impulsivity in terms of cheating or an impulsively rising n-count, I’m talking about the possibility that they are just hoes in general. Like, I can’t fathom how a girl who actually controls herself enough to not be a hoe, knowing that she could have fun but she will regret it and agreeing that promiscuity is a negative, would be okay with having a bunch of shit that makes her …
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:35 PM
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Thanks. I am trying to increase my SMV and have been lifting and getting better with diet, which was my main struggle and cause of lack of gains. Also finding things I like outside of women so that I can have a great day regardless of what women think.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:03 PM
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That makes sense. So being rejected by one hot girl doesn’t make you think the next hot girl will also be disinterested? I’ve never heard of that book, I’ll give it a read. Thanks
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:01 PM
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That makes sense. Yeah, I’m definitely not a social person really. I did approach a girl at the club last time I went. It was fucking awkward because I felt creepy, since she was just sitting on her truck bed outside and I went over and all I could think to ask is “are you okay?” Then she acted like it was a weird question and I’m like “alright cool, have a good one” and then she got more friendly and was saying she was watching YouTube but at that point I felt weird lol. Not sure if that one co…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:00 PM
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I do think you’re right about the fact that I’m getting in my head because I feel sexual desire on top of it. I talk to some people sometimes that work at the gas station or something. I used to be terrible at talking to people, but six years at my job (started at 18) and having to not only talk to customers, but give them news that they don’t want to hear, without sounding like I’m afraid of their response or being afraid of their response, has helped me talk to people in a non-sexual way. It’s…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 10:58 PM
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Sounds good, thanks. I guess I’ve just got a mental block but I guess I’ll try more. There was a hot one at the gym and I looked at her to ask if she was done with a machine and she started nodding a whole bunch and smiling. Idk if that was an ioi or just being friendly but I got nervous, thinking too much about the rejection part. Plus I didn’t know what to say. Edit: that was before this post.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 10:53 PM
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Idk, I think if we’re comparing Emma Watson to Lizzo, there is an objective hierarchy. I get what you’re saying though, don’t treat the hot ones any different. Good philosophy.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 12:13 AM
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Thanks man, that’s solid advice. I’ll repeat that in my head
/r/askTRP30/04/21 03:10 AM
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Oh ok, thanks. So by “don’t be the feather”, you’re saying to control my life as much as I can, right?
/r/askTRP30/04/21 02:27 AM
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What do you mean rules? Like, no disrespectful or hard to get behavior?
/r/askTRP30/04/21 02:22 AM
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I was able to squat 210 x 5 x 3
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:36 PM
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Makes sense. I should stop caring. Thank you
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:31 PM
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Okay thank you
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:30 PM
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Thanks man, solid tips. Yesterday was very successful. Succeeded in my 210 for five reps, 3 sets, squat PR.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:30 PM
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Yeah I hear you. I’ve been rejected before, just completely taken off guard as to the depths someone’s facade can be. Like I said, either in the OP or a comment, I’ve had girls say some shit like, “I have a boyfriend” or whatever. Or that they’re busy. I’ve just NEVER had a girl say, without me asking, “...but don’t EVER think I’m blowing you off; everyone always thinks that but I do have my breaks (she meant from school) and my free time so don’t EVER think I’m blowing you off if you can.” I me…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 02:40 AM
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Great post. I remember you saying this but I failed to internalize it and forgot it. I think I remember you saying to walk like James Bond though. Except, I chose to walk like this: https://i.pinimg.com/originals/fb/b4/64/fbb464d2093ddc3e7d09bb4229774257.gif Here is an interesting read that ties into thoughts in relation to the state of mind: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.huffpost.com/entry/how-your-thoughts-change-your-brain-cells-and-genes_b_9516176/amp
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 02:30 AM
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To your first point > if I had actually met a girl I liked then I’d have dated her. I was pretty shy growing up and so I didn’t have a popular social circle. I didn’t want to be in a LTR with any girl from tinder. Your other points make sense. I will say that this girl was so dedicated to her bullsthit that even now if there was an explanation, then I wouldn’t doubt it. It’s actually possible that she is just the most ditzy person in the world and never learned to respect anyone’s time and every…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 02:22 AM
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Thanks man that all really makes sense. I’ll keep trying
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:57 PM
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Yeah I’ve always wanted a motorcycle but am only now getting one. I recently took the course and got my license and am picking up my bike from the dealer this week. It’s a Kawasaki Vulcan s. It has the ninja 650 engine in it. It’s more of a cruiser style but some hardcore cruiser fans don’t like it because it’s “trying to imitate a sport bike”. I don’t get that impression and I like it. I see what you’re saying. I’ll focus more on other things. I have a lot of things I want to do. I should ignor…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:55 PM
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I’m still working on TRM and have only read some of the sidebar; “How to open and close” is my favorite so far. I’m going for 210 x 5 x 3 today for squats btw. Didn’t mention because I was driving.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:48 PM
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I haven’t done 1RM. In high school I took a weightlifting class and ONLY focused on bench and then I did 1RM because I had spotters. It was 200 back then. Most I’ve benched now is 165 for two sets of five and one set of four. I do RDL, 185 3 sets of 5 is my max. Squat is 200 pounds 3 sets of five.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 08:20 PM
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Yeah I did that and look how it turned out. I could do it more I guess but now I don’t trust these women. What if I get five girls’ numbers and talk to them all and they’re all just bullshitting me?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 08:06 PM
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Alright man that’s good advice, I’ll work on internalizing it and put it into action, thank you!
/r/askTRP27/04/21 06:03 PM
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I hear what you’re saying but she really laid it on thick without me even asking. Telling me her life was complicated and she isn’t blowing me off and all that. Yes, you can say that was bullshit but you can’t blame me for thinking she was being truthful. She was very deceitful. My issue isn’t that I obsess over it. I find happiness in many things these days but I have severe approach anxiety, because of this situation. I don’t sit around not doing anything; I go to the gym and am on a program a…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:34 PM
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When you say “go fuck ten other women” - that’s really the whole issue; I have a lack of confidence.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:31 PM
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So it’s cool for her to be dishonest with me and hold a “vendetta” yet I’m supposed to think it was all fair game, and I’m supposed to drop my “vendetta”? It’s not like I wish her bad, I’m just sharing my experience and asking how to get over it.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:26 PM
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Well I do lift and I have a mortgage. I don’t have six figures but I’m not a loser in that regard. No, I don’t lift heavy. I’m still working on that. My bench Max was 165 for 2 sets of 5 and 1 set of 4. I’m reloading since I stalled. Squat max is 200 x5 for 3 sets. Going for 210 today. I’m struggling solely with women. I don’t see how having six figures or a house fixes that. I am getting a motorcycle though but not because of this situation, just because I like them. I’ve heard those are someth…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:23 PM
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It’s not like I am prone to chasing though. When I asked her out she said she was busy but she’d give me her number, so I considered that a rejection and then she went on and on about how she wasn’t blowing me off and to never think that and all that stuff, when I didn’t even ask or act like I felt rejected. That’s what makes her “evil” in my mind. I never asked to be deceived. Good comment though, thanks
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:12 PM
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What do you mean if people knew the power of words they wouldn’t do the same? What do you mean by “the same”?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 01:51 PM
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Yeah it makes sense how just being on tinder seems less personal I guess
/r/askTRP29/03/21 08:58 PM
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Ohh man, the only times I’ve ever met with girls from tinder, I either got their number or Snapchat. That’s crazy, I never put that together, that’s gonna be one of my habits now, great tip
/r/askTRP29/03/21 05:55 PM
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That’s a good idea, thanks
/r/askTRP29/03/21 04:12 PM
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Oh that sounds good. And if she’s not available this week, she’d tell me she’s available next week? Would it be better to just say “what’s your availability”?
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:33 PM
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Lmao I was probably drunk
/r/askTRP29/03/21 02:14 AM
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Alright so how’s this: “Hey fam, you tryna go get litty?” Seriously, what am I supposed to say in this exchange? Apparently exclamations points show insecurity, so do too many emojis, so what could I have said in my 3 messages?
/r/askTRP29/03/21 02:13 AM
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Thanks for the tips, I wasn’t aware about the need to delete so often. I did delete once but I thought I was shadowbanned so put it on a different phone I have. Yeah I agree that there is always room for improvement, thanks again
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:20 AM
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Yeah that’s true but tinder hasn’t given me many matches for a long time. Now today I got 3. I think it’s the algorithm. But what you’re saying is true
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:54 AM
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Don’t think anything here illustrated a texting game that sucks.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:49 AM
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Makes sense but I’m not chasing, I just messaged her without re-reading my previous messages and didn’t know I’d messaged her twice.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:49 AM
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I didn’t know she was a mom, she doesn’t have that look. I’m trying to practice game.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 12:41 AM
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I like that, makes em feel unreliable.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 10:58 PM
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This hasn’t happened to me recently, I’m just saying it’s fuckin dumb
/r/askTRP23/03/21 10:57 PM
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It’s a spectrum and I’m all the way to the extreme side
/r/askTRP13/03/21 06:35 PM
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I’m more concerned with the vagina, but I like the brevity.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 02:43 PM
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I’m trying to practice game, I only included the finger part because I sent the message to someone and they told me to post that on the sub. She was decent other than that issue so I don’t really care. But it’s not like I’m chasing her, just trying to practice game when she texted.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 02:32 PM
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🤗
/r/askTRP05/03/21 04:46 AM
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I think it was written fine but then again I am a product of the American public school system.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 04:46 AM
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So I said the second possible answer already, but if she says my dad I’ll just say, “Well too bad you’ve got my number, wanna meet up on X day?”
/r/askTRP05/03/21 04:10 AM
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Lmao if she really wanted him I’d just ghost her
/r/askTRP05/03/21 03:58 AM
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Thank you
/r/askTRP26/02/21 06:37 PM
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Thanks for your response. I’ve been ghosted already but I’ll use this tip for the future.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 06:37 PM
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Makes sense. The girls always seem to ride with their friends
/r/askTRP22/02/21 01:12 PM
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I’d sleep with the girl. Should I text her? I was the last one to text her that night so I’m not sure if it’d be a bad move to text her again. At the same time, if she doesn’t text me then it’s game over anyway so I’m not sure if I have anything to lose.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 10:16 AM
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That makes a ton of sense, because yeah I found it very telling that she was at a club without her husband. She was with friends but if it was just a friend’s night she wouldn’t be dancing with random men. Thanks man Also, should I drive separately from whoever I go to the club with? I’ve gone with my friend before to a different club and it always seems like it’s a pain to try and leave because I’d have to go to the girl’s car and the girls are always there with friends.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 10:15 AM
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Nah I am attracted to her lol I just was very surprised. Only reason I included that was because I sent that in a PM to someone to tell the whole story. It seemed relevant at the time but I could’ve left it out
/r/askTRP22/02/21 10:13 AM
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Gotcha My dad and I went out to a club. A girl was dancing in front of us and flirting with both of us. I think she was shit testing me because she said “your dad is hot as fuck”. So I just said “yeah that’s where I get it” She said whoever came on the dance floor would have more fun. So I danced with her and we made out. We danced a couple songs and I grinded up on her. Then I noticed (and I’m not making fun of her but it freaked me out a bit) that she was missing her fingers on one hand. I did…
/r/askTRP21/02/21 10:49 PM
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Got it, I’ll try and push more (to a reasonable extent, not gonna go rapey of course) next time someone says they’re married. For girl #1, should I text her again? I’ve edited my comment to include our text exchange, if you didn’t see it already.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 10:25 PM
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Need feedback. What to do with girl #1... should I have handled it differently with girl #2 (after she said married). I figured “I’m married” = time to walk away, but also “I’m dancing with you while married” may = be covert? Text conversation with girl number 1: Me: Where ya at? My name’s ___ btw 😏 Her: You’re sweet I Still here Me: We’re about to get out of here, you need a ride anywhere?
/r/askTRP21/02/21 10:19 PM
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So a better scenario would’ve been my first message, her response , then, “Let’s get together at X on Y”?
/r/askTRP19/02/21 04:51 PM
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Makes sense and LMAO “I have pole dancing”
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:36 PM
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That’s what I’ve thought too, but I guess that it kinda depends. Like, when you say “Do you wanna get drinks?” She may be thinking “Well I’m not sure because Brian is gonna hit me up or Tony or Sam and we’re already fucking” so she just says “Maybe”. But if you say “Let’s get drinks” I think it might kind of make them feel like you won’t hang around as an option. But this is all just speculation since everyone here says the way you word it does matter. I personally have no clue.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 01:53 PM
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So are you saying I should try that approach now or in a couple days or what?
/r/askTRP19/02/21 01:32 PM
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Haha yeah I’ve used the calling method before. But I’ve heard it should be a ten minute conversation, correct?
/r/askTRP19/02/21 01:30 PM
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What do you mean something benign? Can you give an example because I don’t know if you mean just “hey” or what. And when I say “she fucks” I mean a lot lol.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 01:24 PM
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Lol I could see that working, but just so we’re clear: you don’t actually say “humor goes here”, right? 🤣
/r/askTRP19/02/21 04:32 AM
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Gotcha, someone said something along those lines, which is why I reworded my message for Monday/Tuesday. What do you think about sending, “Let’s get drinks on Friday” on Monday or Tuesday of next week. Edit: Maybe I should add a location too? Like, “let’s meet at hooters on Friday at 8”?
/r/askTRP19/02/21 04:07 AM
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I made a post about what happened, check it out if you’d like.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 04:05 AM
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Interesting. Any tips going forward?
/r/askTRP19/02/21 04:01 AM
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Too late but not too far off. After the 8th.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 12:11 AM
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Makes sense. I asked her after the 8th message. I’ll return here for interpretation if she gives an ambiguous response. I’m a bit traumatized with vague, open-ended answers after getting led on. Of course, I think the getting led on may have been because I didn’t play the game right. Regardless, I’ll come back and let you know what she says even if it’s no. Thanks man Edit: and for clarity, she seems to have thought we knew each other better than I did. My sister in law said she always asks them…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 12:10 AM
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Oh okay thanks, yeah I feel like “I feel like” might make me sound obligated or something. Probably overthinking again but the way I suggested is how I’d say it so wanted to kinda have my words in the mix if that makes sense.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 11:50 PM
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Thanks for your advice - is it cool if I leave out the part about feeling like I have to take her on a date? Could I just say “you wanna get drinks and catch up?” Or is that not clear enough?
/r/askTRP18/02/21 11:42 PM
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I want a family and kids and a girl with low n count. Not too much to ask. I agree that you don’t really know if they’d change after you wifed them up. An 18-21 year old is definitely different than a 30 year old. I know a religious family and the daughters are dancing to “brand new Lamborghini fuck a cop car” on TikTok with one of the parents in the background. Seems like something evangelists wouldn’t encourage, so it’s definitely disappointing. Like the parent is mentally hoe mode now. I’d wa…
/r/askTRP06/02/21 02:26 AM
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We aren’t under lockdown in my town; the big towns maybe but I think you just need a mask. Thing is just that most people don’t really seem to want to go back to normal yet, so that’s why it’s online. I’d drive out to do speed dating an hour away if it were open but don’t go to clubs because I always like to drink and I’d really only be going to try to get laid since I don’t even like the music. Don’t want to risk a DUI just to get laid; if I lost my license I’d lose my job and house. I’ve been …
/r/askTRP06/02/21 02:04 AM
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So if you’re like 30, can you get a girl like this or no? I’m only 24 but just giving myself a grace period because I’m not that great right now Edit: not quite 24 but close.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 01:52 AM
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Awesome sounds good, there’s one thing for something I actually am interested in for myself (and not to get women) too, so maybe I’ll check that out. Too bad they don’t have good bars around here for bar crawls but I’ll try to find things like that as well. Thanks man Edit: only problem with the speed dating is it’s all online, at least at the moment. I could still try that though, just won’t get me out of my comfort zone.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 01:39 AM
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I’m nearly 24 and feel like I’m never going to bang a girl that’s hot. I don’t think it’s my looks, I think it’s the fact that I have no social circle. I’m gonna stop worrying so much about sex and start worrying about the things leading up to it, like talking to random women
/r/askTRP06/02/21 12:49 AM
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And women go on there just to get validation so they can feel good. Meetup.com may be different though, perhaps. Tinder sucks.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 12:37 AM
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So there were none that followed the rules?
/r/askTRP06/02/21 12:36 AM
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That’s good advice actually. Only thing is there legitimately isn’t shit to do. Maybe I can throw a house party?
/r/askTRP06/02/21 12:32 AM
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Not really ask cheeks hanging out. Just below ass. Why are you so angry?
/r/askTRP05/02/21 09:42 PM
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So you’re saying they sometimes just dress slutty and aren’t actually sluts?
/r/askTRP05/02/21 04:31 PM
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Interesting, thanks for the info. Reason I ask is because everyone here wears them when it’s hot outside. I don’t think they don’t wear them in the winter just because they aren’t hot in the winter, but rather just because it’s too cold in the winter. I wear jeans all the time (I’m a guy) and it’s never hot. So it’s not a necessity to wear short shorts.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 12:24 PM
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What do you mean by hot pants? Like sexy pants (short shorts) or warm pants (jeans)?
/r/askTRP05/02/21 12:18 PM
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Haha haven’t seen too many wearing shorts lately but that’s actually a good tip
/r/askTRP05/02/21 12:12 PM
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What can you read from?
/r/askTRP05/02/21 01:35 AM
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I mean if we’re talking about a serious relationship then it matters whether that is a red flag to me, so that I can avoid even getting deep into the vetting process with a girl. Then she can just be a plate. Do you think it’s better to just not care and then whenever you want to settle down, you do it with a Sasha Grey level slut?
/r/askTRP05/02/21 01:25 AM
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Idk people are giving differing opinions and I also don’t know that much. This question is similar to a non-lifter asking if muscular people can run faster than skinny people.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 11:52 PM
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Tattoos definitely scream red flag to me too. I don’t understand why a pretty girl would wanna ink herself up. Doesn’t look badass on a girl, doesn’t look feminine, just rubs me the wrong way. Also lip piercings, and nose piercings somewhat but less so. Edit: I guess it can look badass on a girl but who wants a “badass” girl?
/r/askTRP04/02/21 11:40 PM
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So it is a sign?
/r/askTRP04/02/21 11:37 PM
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What? Are you saying it’s insecure to not like past promiscuity in a serious relationship?
/r/askTRP04/02/21 11:36 PM
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So you’re saying it is a gateway?
/r/askTRP04/02/21 11:35 PM
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That’s good advice, thank you. I’ll re-read the sidebar/finish what I haven’t read. Where should I meet these women? I really don’t meet women, at all to be honest. It’s okay to approach them at the grocery store and places like that? What about ones at their work? My job is pretty solo, and the only time I meet women is some customers, and I don’t want to cross that line because I don’t want to lose accounts. I could try to put more effort into Tinder but I feel like, in addition to the above m…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 04:55 PM
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Thanks man good advice
/r/askTRP04/02/21 03:46 PM
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I appreciate the info. It’s pretty difficult to be confident right now but the reality is that even before the situation in the OP that I said made me feel worthless, I wasn’t confident. I’ll work on being confident, that’s my lesson I guess. Once I become confident then I think I’ll be better off. I don’t have much reason not to be to be honest. I just overthink everything. No problem.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 03:04 PM
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Okay thanks for your time. I can take some more interesting pictures, like me hanging from a pull-up bar (I do workout but I don’t look like it yet. It’s been quite a while, wasn’t eating enough until lately.) I can also take a picture of me playing my guitar if that works? And I have a picture of me standing by my boat at the sandbar, but it’s a jon boat. It’s 16’ so not small but these girls don’t seem to like Jon Boats. I have it on there already though, but my subscription isn’t active anymo…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 02:22 PM
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The problem is definitely me in real life (not approaching, not being confident, etc.) but wouldn’t you agree that tinder offers less attractive women due to the fact that everyone is hitting on them? It’s frustrating too because tinder seems to ban me for certain periods. I won’t get matched for months and then I’ll get several matches a day for a week. Even bots won’t like me while I’m not getting matches. And I’m not saying that a less attractive girl ghosting in itself means that tinder is a…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 02:05 PM
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I think I’m just gonna try to have a few FWB at a time. Worst cast, my future wife will fool me but I’ll still be above n count of the average guy, best case, I’ll get a good girl for a wife and she’ll see she’s got a prize. Middle ground is that I’ll get a good girl wife and she’ll think I’m a bit of a player and have a small issue with it but understand lol But yeah I shouldn’t focus all of my energy on the idea of a perfect woman, just being the best I can be. Also I pm’d you, thanks man
/r/askTRP08/01/21 03:01 AM
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All we can do is pray haha, like finding hay in a needle stack where you’re getting stabbed in the back constantly lol I also am more traditional. I’d be fine remaining abstinent until I find one for a serious relationship than to sleep around. But it’s like, with this society, you’re likely to end up with a girl with a 10x n count of yours if you do that.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 02:32 AM
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Makes sense. Very insightful. I could forgive a girl sleeping with one or two guys while singe but not sleeping with 10. At that point you’re just banging on a whim and that’s gross. A 6 could get a 10 that would bang her a couple times a week. No excuse
/r/askTRP08/01/21 02:17 AM
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Oh and you do think you girl you mentioned has ever gone through a hoe phase or will?
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:27 PM
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I hate cottage cheese too man
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:50 PM
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That’s good that there’s one out there like that. Yeah, Gweneth Paltrow and Jada Smith and two that really get on my nerves. Don’t know much about them other than Gwenith’s candle and Jada telling her 14 year old daughter (I think) about masturbating. I’m sure they think it’s good lol. I don’t get how that’s seen as good but all I care about is finding one that isn’t promiscuous but also being good with women first in case it ends. I’m 23 and feel like I’m late to the party. Thanks for all the i…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:44 PM
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Interesting, is this a religious thing when you say “traditional” or just raised on those beliefs in general? Reason I ask is because it seems like most people aren’t super religious even if they believe in God, so I’m wondering if it’s the very religious that only have a hope of being high value women. Of course there are the “preacher’s daughters” but you know what I’m saying.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:11 PM
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Interesting, well put. But what length do you define as the longest break that you’d believe?
/r/askTRP07/01/21 08:49 PM
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But if they’re high value women and are single then they’re having sex still? Like if you’re saying a high value woman is going to be in a relationship, what about the ones who were in a relationship and maybe got cheated on? They’re going to need to take a break from dating (meaning a relationship), and if that means being promiscuous then they’re not high value after all. So my question is whether or not the ones in this position, assuming they are the high value ones you mentioned, will take …
/r/askTRP07/01/21 08:39 PM
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I’ve heard that in regards to things like consolation or something but if we’re talking facts about women’s habits, aren’t they the best to ask?
/r/askTRP07/01/21 08:19 PM
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Well what about the ones with upbringings that showed not to be promiscuous but it’s not like they’ll confront them for it; those girls don’t care?
/r/askTRP07/01/21 07:05 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/askTRP07/01/21 07:03 PM
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Thanks, I figured people would tell me I’m foolish here. Had to check to make sure I didn’t post in the wrong sub.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 05:05 PM
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Oh good idea thank you!
/r/askTRP07/01/21 02:56 PM
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Ok, do you think it’d be better to do it in a phone call or a text?
/r/askTRP07/01/21 02:38 PM
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Oh okay, thanks. So some of them simply don’t have casual sex? It’s frustrating because many will say they don’t but will, so I’m curious how many legitimately don’t and would turn down a hot guy for casual sex (ONS or FWB or anything less than a relationship). And I’m talking for a long period of time, like a year or two, not just a month.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 02:38 PM
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I’m only 23, hopefully I could find a 21 year old virgin lol. Nearly 24 though. And I’m not a virgin if that’s what you’re thinking, just haven’t been with a lot of girls and wouldn’t choose that over finding one that’s never been promiscuous.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 02:29 PM
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Well people on RP say things like that so I am trying to get a better understanding. I’m new to RP.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 02:24 PM
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I mean it’d be cool if I could get one that wasn’t promiscuous for a serious relationship, but you’ve given me insight so thank you!
/r/askTRP07/01/21 02:23 PM
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Hmm okay that’s interesting. Can I pm you?
/r/askTRP07/01/21 02:16 PM
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My question is more for the girls that are mercs (taking your word lol) who then have a break up. Do they have casual sex?
/r/askTRP07/01/21 02:15 PM
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Are you a woman? If so, how do you know your friends don’t sleep around? Asking genuinely, not doubting you.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 02:14 PM
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Well I know that some girls don’t lose their virginity until way later in life, but do you think they go without sex after that? They all want to act like they don’t do casual sex, but RP acts like they all do for the right guy. Obviously the ones who keep their virginity until 25 don’t have casual sex before that, but after they’ve had sex, do any of them stand to their morals and not have sex when they’re single? Because many of them will say they don’t have sex but many that say that will, an…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 02:06 PM
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Not all do what? Ride the CC or have a fwb or both? Thanks for your comment.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 02:02 PM
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