Shpox Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
61	My understanding of seduction put in perspective		Shpox	/r/seduction	03/07/12 05:27 AM

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2	[FR] "They all have boyfriends" Also try the 'What's his name?'. If she asks why or gives a name, mention that you'd most likely know him and get along great because you have the same taste in women. If she doesn't give a name, call her out. Carry on the conversation in both circumstances.	/r/seduction	23/03/13 04:40 AM
3	Psychological (childhood) roots of AA I agree. OP's theory is widely popular among many, re: Sigmund Freud's theories about Subconscious and Unconscious mind, but the sole reason they remain theories is based off the consensus that it was based off one individual. As far as practical psychology goes, I've heard these theories are largely discredited. Certainly, this might be the case for OP, but I believe AA is part of a bigger realm of social-cultural factors. It certainly seems less prevalent in certain subcultures around the glob…	/r/seduction	22/11/12 11:46 PM
3	(FR) # close at a sub-shop, stumbled upon a great, multi-use pick-up line ... getting sandwiched?	/r/seduction	12/10/12 10:18 AM
1	[FR] HB 9.5, successes and failures I think a big root to this is overthinking. Can I ask you what you actually want from HB 9.5? A number? A romp? Even to me, you're intentions seem blurry, especially when you might mention you're disinterested. Don't feel bad though. When you're new to this seddit, it's possible to fall into the situation and try to follow exact advice e.g. how to diffuse shit tests. Take the advice here as a mantra and not so much of a 'this is how to get babes' advice as it differs for every person, context an…	/r/seduction	09/09/12 01:28 PM
8	How useful is a hot female wing(wo)man? You've struck pure gold my friend.	/r/seduction	28/08/12 05:50 AM
27	Awkward silences 30 minutes in Some women are not talkers. I've recently had this with a girl I've been seeing. I'm super talkative. Sometimes I struggle to even talk at an understandable pace because I'm so eager to talk. This girl loves it but she hardly reciprocates. I stopped talking to her for a bit only to have her come out of her shell a bit saying 'I love talking to you, you're hilarious and I can't wait to see you'. It's a bit unusual for me as the girls I click with usually share the same sort of eagerness to commun…	/r/seduction	28/08/12 01:35 AM
2	got friend-zoned and still confused. The best thing you can do is forget about her and gauge over time how that develops. If it fizzles out, then you were in the right. If she keeps hounding you after 2-3 weeks and will die if she can't see you, perhaps consider proceeding.	/r/seduction	27/08/12 02:46 PM
1	How do you go from casual flirting to hooking up? Kino. I really like this series: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RV4A9KKjb3I This may sound odd, but imagine you're a girl. You like a guy but then he goes straight up for a kiss or stops short (Seinfeld reference) without any build up. That'd be quite unpleasant. You need to build tension. Eye contact is okay, but touch is paramount. Why? Because most people don't do it often to strangers. Get comfortable with touching her but as others have mentioned, 2 steps forward, 1 step back. Keep dismissi…	/r/seduction	25/08/12 12:35 PM
2	Gents, let's talk about gaming up girls on FB you don't know. Best advice here. Let them make the move and draw her into the world from there. Game is weak over FB and can end in endless messages / fizzle.	/r/seduction	22/08/12 01:56 PM
4	girl wants to meet but with her friend,how should I deal with this? Wow, risky situation gollum styles. I'd test the waters with both but make sure to convey interest. The problem with both there is the friend-zone potential but I think it's okay to get the approval from both instead of telling her to keep her friend at home. She obviously wants the friend there for either support/verification or to show she's only looking for friends. I'd flirt with both and then ask one of them out for your next outing. If she insists to bring her again, show intention. If thi…	/r/seduction	22/08/12 01:54 PM
2	questions regarding eye contact. It doesn't, but what KKK might be insinuating is don't look too far into it. It puts in you in brain-loop mode where you might bail out because you tried to read a signal wrong or some other silly reason. Eye contact isn't supposed to be complex. Og the caveman probably made some eye contact before he got up to fuck something eight thousand years ago. Maintain eye contact until she looks away but don't try to old-person stare her. When talking, if you struggle with eyes, look in the middle of th…	/r/seduction	22/08/12 03:31 AM
2	Small/short FR. Saw girl in dining facility, sat and ate with her You did well son. Opportunities like that don't arise for most of us, and when they do, few take them up. Now get that number.	/r/seduction	22/08/12 03:28 AM
2	What I've learned from failure I view life as a parabola my man. There are ups, and there are downs. The difference between some people is sometimes they think there's neither or one is longer than the other. The rise and fall of empires all ways to success in seduction. Sometimes you hit red, other times you fly through green. You don't HAVE to endure pain, but it sure has fuck helps when it's gone.	/r/seduction	22/08/12 03:26 AM
1	Alpha Male Accessories Tattoo's, A Beard, A thick wrist band, A watch, A belt, Rings (multiple), Good shoes with a platform or wooden sole (the sound you make when walking over wood will make others look at you. Above all this muscles. Above muscles, confidence.	/r/seduction	22/08/12 01:18 AM
6	How NOT to chat up women (with real example) Wow this made me cringe but we all have to start somewhere. This is how I would have played this: 1. Him - You have a nice weekend? Her - yes i had a lovely weekend thank you, was great fun. Him - I bet it wasn't as good as mine though... (thread conversation about why you're awesome, joke) 2. Her - if you have a weekend free come and visit Him - How about next weekend? I'm actually free then. (get straight to meeting) 3. Her - Come to visit, make sure you get a break. Him - I will, I look forwa…	/r/seduction	22/08/12 01:11 AM
2	A couple years of this material helped me travel from SAP to generally cool guy. Still never been in a relationship and I know why - would like advice. Best of luck my man. It looks like you have all the girls you need on your plate. Just eat them up until you find one you like :)	/r/seduction	20/08/12 10:53 AM
2	A couple years of this material helped me travel from SAP to generally cool guy. Still never been in a relationship and I know why - would like advice. Wow. Reading this was like reading a story about myself. As others have said, man the fuck up, but what this really means is risk. You have either escalate physically or just simply, ask them out. It's really as simple as that. Women won't wait around unless things escalate physically and you won't get there unless you just pop the question: "Hey, come out with me for dinner on Friday". Notice how I phrased that? That's enough to convey your intentions without even escalating. Off she'll go to t…	/r/seduction	19/08/12 11:24 PM
20	[FR] just had the 2 most fucked up rejections I've ever had within 2 minutes of eachother Clubs man. Alcohol plays on inhibitions are they aren't always the best places to work your magic. The best club sets I've had are either early on the night or outside of the club at 3am in the morning. Don't take it personally.	/r/seduction	31/07/12 07:05 AM
1	How do I get rid of this thirst for validation? Ah excellent little picture. I forsee it being taken over by the tumblr girls however. Wish they referenced him.	/r/seduction	07/07/12 09:57 PM
9	How do I get rid of this thirst for validation? I going to agree strongly with Bromo here. Another way to understand the DK effect is to break it down from its origins. Bertrand Russel says it very concisely through the words "The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt.". What this basically means is don't revel in ignorance. I'll mention this in a design sub-context because I, as an individual see my work as quite poor as I compare it to a level much higher than myself. I am not content. …	/r/seduction	07/07/12 01:40 PM
2	My understanding of seduction put in perspective No my man. I'll check it out now! Thanks!	/r/seduction	04/07/12 12:23 AM
3	Seddit, what have you all found as the best advice for staying out of the friend zone? Escalate. You're playing it safe because I think you're afraid of losing these women in your life. Even if you escalate and things don't work out, THEN you can be content with the friendzone. Just escalate. You need to chose whether you want a relationship or a friend and be okay with one or the other. Think about the situation you described. What did your friend do that you didn't do? Clue: Looks have very little to do with it.	/r/seduction	26/06/12 12:34 AM
3	I'll be your nemesis. Down low, like a bro.	/r/seduction	06/06/12 02:58 PM
2	I'll be your nemesis. While you were fucking the teacher, I was fucking your mom. So and and so forth.	/r/seduction	06/06/12 07:04 AM
1	The "Bitch Shield" is just a screener "Stop being her mum and let her have some fun".	/r/seduction	11/05/12 09:29 AM
2	Experience with an older women (FR) Paragraphs man, Paragraphs.	/r/seduction	13/04/12 12:18 AM
15	Do you think it's a bad idea to tell your girlfriend about being into the Seduction Community? The first rule of Fight Club is: You do not talk about Fight Club. Being serious, I wouldn't say it was a terrible idea but I wouldn't really mention it that often unless it's a mutual interest you'd like to share with her. Some women do read seddit as if they genuinely want to seek out these things they will. Seduction is nothing new for women but I suppose it is a phenomenon/concept that's new to me and possibly of lot of men. I supposed we aren't programmed to understand these things naturall…	/r/seduction	25/01/12 03:47 PM
1	How to: NEVER get Rejected. Interesting approach. I don't think she may show interest can be considered sexual or on relationship terms, but at the very least, you might be able to use this to expand your social circle. A new friend acquaintance in class. I know by not texting a girl back (I hate texting, prefer voice calls) was met with a prompt '...playing hard to get?'. It's the age old rule, women want reasonably what they can't get. By showing your cards or hitting on them prematurely, you show early interest. The met…	/r/seduction	08/10/11 03:43 AM
1	How can I stop getting instant friend zoned? "I'm so glad we're just friends".	/r/seduction	20/07/11 05:50 AM
11	A slightly embarrassing facebook trick that has been surprisingly successful. I hope so. I've been looking forward to being Cecilia Baker for sooo long.	/r/seduction	05/07/11 11:46 AM
1	My epiphany about escaping excessive humility Very coherently expressed. Most of us spend time to working up this ideal image of ourselves when where projected to others can sometimes bend actuality or 'the truth'. You can see this in Facebook a lot with the whole mirror shot, bent over photos bimbo hot girls etc... I used to be like a few months into university but I realized about a year in it's okay to acknowledge what I like to call 'self-respect'. I think the key to it is being truthful to your modesty. Don't be modest because it's soc…	/r/seduction	04/07/11 09:27 AM
0	Hey seddit any good movies/documentiares I should watch? 400 Days of Summer	/r/seduction	20/05/11 09:06 AM
1	Why you shouldn't fap. Goodbye Tanner Mayes then. What I found interesting was if I'm in social environments or engaging is all of which the article outlines, MY desire to fap goes to down. I simple don't have time for that shit. Might be the first step rather than putting down the fap.	/r/seduction	12/02/11 12:54 PM
2	Trying something new (Ways to make your eyes look sexy) Best look to give is one that's imagine your potential SO masturbating to you.	/r/seduction	06/02/11 02:59 PM
1	How do counter women being bitchy in a casual setting? Excellent my good sir.	/r/seduction	28/01/11 03:58 AM
0	How do counter women being bitchy in a casual setting? I think this might be a bit cliche. Agree on making her look stupid but from a girly point of view. I'd take this bitch down piece by piece. "Righto. Number one, that barely conceivable figure you call your ass looks like nothing but a piles of bones. I'd mistake it for the leg of table anyday. Number two, this isn't STD101, we treat people with respect in this class. Number three, looks get you through the door honey, but my door becomes well and truly bolted and barred up over the course of wi…	/r/seduction	28/01/11 03:50 AM
1	Who thinks we need a list of "dismantled shit-tests?" The classic 'I have a boyfriend' with 'Well just because there's a goalie, doesn't mean you can't score goals'. Not likely to win her over but the response is always interesting.	/r/seduction	22/01/11 04:11 PM
1	Write this down guys: how to dismantle a shit test "Who is the hottest girl in our group?" In reference to the O.P, this sounds pretty good. "Well it can't be you anymore after/if you're asking that question". Defuse and move on.	/r/seduction	22/01/11 04:07 PM
1	How do you respond to a girl who insults you? This one.	/r/seduction	19/08/10 06:26 AM