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Same here, Ive always been left leaning on just about everything, but I’d have to have some sort of inner self hatred to support feminism. Their rhetoric has become increasingly misandrist, and it will only get worse with the way it’s spread on social media. The gender wars are just getting started.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:20 PM
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Right, thats why we had the “body positivity” movement that made 350 lb women think they’re just as beautiful as non obese women. Meanwhile those same women are repulsed by men their own size and go for smaller men in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:35 PM
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So you sleep with whores. Again, not the flex you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:37 PM
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Nobody’s asking yall to be their pity girlfriend, they just want their issues to be treated with respect instead of having it downplayed or denied all together.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:59 PM
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What do you expect? Women are told they’re perfect just the way they are while men are told they’re not doing enough and need to “work on themselves” and this process is never over, at no point are they ever told they’re good enough. They can go to therapy, go to the gym, build up their social skills, and will still be told they need to try harder if they’re not getting results. Its no wonder they’re giving up on life and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:38 PM
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The fact Roe vs Wade has been covered ever since it was overturned is proof that women’s rights are seen as a societal issue. Meanwhile men offing themselves increasingly every year is barely given an article or two. Women’s issues are societal issues while men’s issues are either their problem or “don’t exist.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:03 PM
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Redpill isn’t mainstream, feminist misandry is given platforms all over the internet. Redpill is a response to the feminist misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:45 PM
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Good, if they’re choosing the bear, why should men care?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:13 PM
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Lmao, you gotta be trolling. “Muh misogyny, accountability is so hateful”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 04:12 PM
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He’s left wing, they’re required to see men as less than human.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:51 PM
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This lack of empathy is exactly why more and more men are starting to hate women. Its has nothing to do with entitlement and everything to do with their “all men bad” narrative that they’ve spread over the last 2 decades. They choose dangerous men then treat all men as dangerous and predatory. They emotionally manipulate and lie, gaslight men into thinking their problems don’t exist. But when it comes to accountability, women will never own up to their own toxicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:47 PM
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That’s not usually what happens though, its usually when you’re going through something rough like a death in the family or losing your job. No matter how you open up about it, they see you as “less than a man” and lose all attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:55 PM
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You said you sleep with women this guy jerks off to. Most men jerk off to porn. Pornstars are just whores being filmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:12 PM
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Admitting you sleep with whores isn’t the flex you think it is lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:09 PM
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Hot guys can show emotions. Average men have their emotions treated like a burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:36 PM
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Plenty of high value men who refuse to settle for ran through women. Its usually after experience with promiscuous women and realizing how toxic and self serving they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:22 PM
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It shows the contrast of expectations put on autistic men vs autistic women. Emotional dysregulation is a common difficulty people with autism face.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:54 PM
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It shows the contrast of expectations put on autistic men vs autistic women. Emotional dysregulation is a common difficulty people with autism face.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:54 PM
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If they know, they wouldn’t have such a combative reaction when people say looks and money matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:22 PM
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Not really, the mainstream advice is to “work on yourself” without explicitly saying its all about looks and money. They use “the gym” and “your career” to say it without actually saying the real meaning behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:07 PM
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Neuoriticism is the most extreme form of emotion. Women are allowed to be neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:06 PM
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Your study is 4 years old, look up the 66/33 stats from last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:30 PM
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Exactly, and most men are not in relationships. 33% dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:13 PM
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Men who are not above average in looks, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:12 PM
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No, its just socially acceptable to spout bluepill talking points. You’ll never see a man in a relationship admit to utilizing redpill strategy in front of his gf/wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:09 PM
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Men who believe in the redpill, yes. Bluepill people never admit to the 80/20 rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:00 PM
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Most men who aren’t dating someone would agree with that. Its observable all throughout your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:35 PM
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No, most attractive men don’t have to use redpill strategy, they’re good enough by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:31 PM
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Yes, men who are aware of the redpill and have utilized it into having success.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:28 PM
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Not lying, they’re just not aware they’re in that bracket. Many attractive people believe they’re attractive because they’re a good person with a good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:26 PM
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Most of those 20% of men don’t even believe they’re the only ones getting dates. I wouldn’t say 20% only get dates though, that 20% is getting enthusiastic hookups on tap and can have fulfilling relationships whenever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:17 PM
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Not always, but most guys wont openly repeat redpill talking points in front of their partners. Bluepill talking points are the socially accepted way of talking about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:11 PM
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Both ND and NT go for men who lead them, it has nothing to do with being infantilized and everything to do with how women in general approach dating. That’s why many still expect men to be breadwinners, it comes from the mindset that men are the “leaders.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:09 PM
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Because many autistic women prefer neurotypical men because neurodivergent men have a harder time doing what neurotypical men do. Neurotypical men are more likely to be protectors and providers, they’re usually the one who leads the relationship while the neurodivergent woman follows along. Neurodivergent men are usually seen as a burden by neurotypical women, and many neurodivergent women have the same mindset because its the “man’s job” to take care of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:05 PM
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You’re more likely to be accepting and understanding of a neurodivergent man since you’re neurodivergent yourself. Many women who don’t have autism get the ick from men who express emotions. They approach dating expecting the man to be their “rock” that they can vent to and always expect him to be there when they’re upset/angry/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:02 PM
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Lmao that’s extremely doubtful and way less likely than women going on emotional tirades. Neuroticism in women is almost always expected and accepted. Stoicism is the preferred approach for men, just keep it in and suffer in silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:58 PM
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No, all women. Ive seen plenty of average/below average women go on emotional tirades aimed toward their husbands/family.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:56 PM
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Nobody is saying autistic women have it easy in general, they have it easier in dating because they’re a woman and all women have it easier in dating than men, especially neurodivergent men. Men are held to neurotypical standards while women are given more freedom on their emotional expressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:54 PM
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Honey, the BPD has way more to do with your problems than the autism. You think everything is an attack on your character.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:46 PM
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Go outside right now and practically everyone in a relationship will say the exact same thing I just said about what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:45 PM
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Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:44 PM
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Lmao whatever, there’s obviously no convincing you, even though literally everyone else agrees it’s about BPD. But keep believing you’re a victim, even though you still found a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:42 PM
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That has nothing to do with autism, the manic pixie dream girl refers to women borderline personality disorder. Literally no men think about autistic women because autism in women is so underrepresented they don’t even know what to look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:37 PM
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Lmao what? Nobody has an “autistic woman” fetish, Ive never heard that in my entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:29 PM
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Never said it did, I said autistic women could be neurotic and it wouldn’t matter because neuroticism is acceptable in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:28 PM
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Red pill exposes men to women’s nature and what they’re attracted to. It goes against the blue pill narrative of “oh women just want a nice kind hearted man who will treat them right, if you cant find someone then you obviously have a bad personality.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:24 PM
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Autistic women are more likely to be accepted for their quirks than autistic men. Autistic men are expected to act the same way neurotypical men do while autistic women can be full on neurotic and still find someone willing to accept them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:22 PM
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Most men will never have a “proper” relationship, they’ll either be ignored in their 20s and settled for in their 30s for their money, or ignored altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:21 PM
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Ive never seen an equal 50/50 relationship, its at least 60/40, always leaning in favor of the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:16 PM
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So women are just animals and should be treated as such, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:02 PM
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Do they get partners at the same rate ugly women do? We both know the answer to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:01 PM
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The way I see it, personality matters more the less attractive you are, while your personality matters less if you’re more attractive. It still matters, but you really can’t “personality” your way into a fulfilling relationship without at least average looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:10 AM
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Probably comes from a scarcity mindset caused by the modern dating scene. Kinda hard not to keep up with who has more and who has less than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 12:25 AM
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And he mentioned abused women, I pointed out how abused women are usually abusive themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:14 PM
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You’ve obviously never dated one of these “abused” women, they’re toxic and avoidant, play mindgames, and only use you until their “abusive” ex wants em back.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:49 PM
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Id much rather be gay than deal with neurotic self serving wahmen, but sexuality isn’t a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:36 PM
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“Financial stability” yes, money, which is what all sugar relationships are built on. You’re paid to pretend you actually like the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:57 PM
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That doesn’t mean they’re equal at all. Just because a PB&J and tuna salad both go on bread doesn’t mean they taste just as good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:48 PM
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You’re the one claiming Im lying. You made the claim, prove how Im lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:45 PM
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Lmao if you actually think average men who can barely get dates are comparable to ugly landwhales who are so abhorrent nobody looks in their direction, you’re completely lost. There is an objective basis for looks, the majority of people of average looking. An ugly woman’s dating life is similar to an average looking man’s dating life. An ugly man is getting absolutely no dates, not even with ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:44 PM
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Prove how Im lying instead of just giving nonanswers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:26 PM
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You’re describing below average women, which was my entire point. Men have to settle for below average women because average women feel entitled to better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:24 PM
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Ive never met a man who was as repulsed by socially awkward women as women are with socially awkward men. Women outwardly hate and are repulsed by socially awkward men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:22 PM
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Men obviously fall in love, men go to great lengths to impress women, it’s always been that way. Women sit there with their hand out and just reap the benefits, expecting more and more just for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:21 PM
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They do, they just think any man less than an 8/10 is beneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:20 PM
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Socially awkward men are seen as worse than men who are legit criminals. Women prioritize shallow petty things and ignore dangerous qualities as long as their shallow petty standards are met. They put themselves in danger then play the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:20 PM
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Ugly chicks and old women still find boyfriends. Ugly men and old men die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:03 PM
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Not really, literally all women have dozens of options on dating apps. Women complain these men only care about sex. They have sex with dozens of those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:00 PM
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Sleeping with 20+ men and having no self control, cheating, using men for sex then ghosting, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:58 PM
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Nope, average looking man who’s slept with 4 women. Refuse to settle for single mothers or validate fat sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:57 PM
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Yes, men have to have both looks and money to be good enough for the average woman now. That’s where the complaint lies. Women bring nothing but their holes while men have to be the full package. It’s a bastardized form of prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:54 PM
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Contrary to popular belief, not all men are violent ticking time bombs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:25 PM
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Just world fallacy, plenty of fit average looking men dating fat women out there. Not nearly as many fit women dating fat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:22 PM
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For most men, substandard is their only option. That’s what you don’t seem to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:17 PM
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So fit average men should be happy settling for below average landwhale single mothers? That’s pretty much what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:15 PM
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I had empathy before dating women, blame these cunts who damage good men, not the good men who finally woke up and won’t put up with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:10 PM
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A looksmatch is a woman who has equivalent looks to a man. Average women think average men are beneath them, even when they’re undeniably even in looks. They only feel those guys are beneath them because they have chads in their inbox willing to pump and dump them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:10 PM
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Because men don’t have options to begin with other than single mothers and fat sluts. Enforcing standards rules out their only options, because wanting a normal woman who doesn’t have kids and isn’t ran through is just asking for too much in 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:07 PM
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The issue is all of our standards are pretty much unrealistic when even fat sluts have more options than an average looking man. That’s the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:05 PM
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Im alone right now and have no urge to date anymore when my only options are single mothers and fat sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:59 PM
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So they’re financially tied to their abusers? That’s probably the only time they can’t justifiably leave their abuser. If money isn’t involved, there’s literally no excuse to stay with them. And Im not mocking them, Ive dated women who claim they were abused and they’re just as trashy as their exes were, just as combative, just as manipulative, just as selfish. The difference is society caters to abused women, nobody gives a fuck at all about the men these abused women end up hurting. So yeah, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:59 PM
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Because in good faith, I can’t treat people like that, no matter how much it seems to bring success. I couldn’t stay with a woman I hate so much that I beat her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:56 PM
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I don’t abuse women, Im just indifferent about their complaints about their past because 9/10 they chose to sit there and take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:46 PM
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So you admit they settle for abuse? Most likely for shallow or financial reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:45 PM
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Doesn’t matter when your options are maybe 5 a year and having standards wipes them all out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:44 PM
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Because the majority of women expect more than they’re willing to give, especially when they only have their holes to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:42 PM
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Pretty much, and not only that, the gun is fully loaded while the women gaslight you and say its not that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:39 PM
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Yet you expect him to do more than you, an able bodied woman who could do just as much. You’re just not willing to because you feel entitled to more than you give. Typical female moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:38 PM
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And he still probably brings more to the table, otherwise you wouldn’t be with him. Literally everything is a transaction with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:28 PM
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Spoken like a true leech lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:38 PM
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A woman’s idea of romance is just being a leech who brings nothing to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:24 PM
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I agree with that, their abuser is obviously wrong for being abusive, but staying only enables it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:43 PM
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So you agree most of these women with this “toxic abusive ex” story are just as responsible for staying?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:29 PM
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There’s a bigger hivemind in women than men, they have a bigger sense of community and feel the need to defend all women no matter if they’re right or wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:28 PM
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The difference is men are punished for being socially awkward while plenty of socially awkward women still find partners and never face consequences for being socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:26 PM
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And you don’t think women hold the same sentiment? They’re literally repulsed by socially awkward men. Men aren’t allowed to be socially awkward, depressed, insecure, etc. in dating. Its not other men holding them to that standard in that regard, women reward toxic masculinity and promote it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:18 PM
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I mean power in dating. Women control which men have success and don’t, the men who have success can treat them any way they want and still be successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:15 PM
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Because women like to act virtuous, like they’re never shallow and like they hate toxic masculinity, when it’s one of the most attractive traits you could have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:14 PM
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You can find the nicest girl out there and she’ll still have a story about a toxic abusive ex that she went back to 3-4 times and never learned from her mistakes until after the trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:13 PM
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How are men getting in a dead bedroom situation similar to women getting beaten and turning the other cheek?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:12 PM
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Yes, and those same women will probably cheat on them, verbally abuse them, and treat them the way their abuser treated them. Coming from personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:11 PM
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Both abusive and abused women are repulsed by men who are good people. They’ll use you for awhile, but they’ll eventually cheat or leave you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:10 PM
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Women see no issue with using men for sex then ghosting them, normal guys may as well do it to them. Women hold most of the power now, men should exploit what little speck of power they get too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:08 PM
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Women don’t fall in love, they’re either in lust with you or want your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:07 PM
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More like they’re drawn to toxic men more than anything else. Literally every woman has a sob story about an ex who treated them “so bad,” yet they gave the guy numerous chances to abuse them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:58 PM
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Nah, it seems to be all women. Ive had women get with me and complain about their abusive ex, just up and leave to go back to their abuser. And I know Im not the only one. That’s why I’ll never feel sorry for women who reward toxic men, they made their beds, let em lay in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:53 PM
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The fact criminals have it easier than socially awkward men says everything about female attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 12:44 PM
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Most men would be more than happy with their looksmatch, some are even willing to settle for unattractive women, but you can only settle so much before you’re not attracted to them at all. What’s crazy is when you realize the women you settle for STILL have more options than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:29 AM
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I just dont see how you could work out weekly and still feel like applying makeup is the same as building muscle and maintaining low body fat. Would you think a fat woman painting her face is equivalent to a jacked dude just because they both take an hour to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:53 AM
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But most women aren’t putting on the same makeup every day, most do basic daily makeup and claim they go all out for dates. That’s like an artist painting on a canvas being compared to an AI artist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:49 AM
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One can be applied at any time. One takes consistent weekly effort to maintain.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:44 AM
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So physical changes to the body are equivalent to a painted face? Only one of those is still there after a shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:40 AM
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And what is the woman bringing to the table to justify her demands? Outside of looks and sex, there’s nothing of equal value there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:21 PM
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This is the part that gets me, there’s literally no way for men to go around the financial requirements put on them when the same people virtue signaling about how capitalism is bad still require a man to have 6 figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 11:20 PM
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I never acted this way, I always read their profile to start from there, but half of them had the exact same profile with a complete lack of personality. Guess what? Half the time, they don’t reply to that either. They only reply to the hottest guys, which is most likely what you do as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:37 PM
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Why does he have to be at your level to be good enough for you? How is that different from a man expecting you to be thinner to be at his level?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:38 PM
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That’s the thing though, it’s easy to dismiss all the options you’re unattracted to if you just label them all as sex crazed perverts. The crazy part is the men who are actually like that have the most success, yet average looking men get labeled as “only wanting sex” no matter if they actually want a relationship or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:55 PM
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Average women can download an app and have 100+ options. Hell, even below average women have the same results. Most men get maybe 1-2 matches per month, and most never lead to a date, or when they do agree to a date, they still end up picking someone else. Thanks to their unlimited options, theres always someone better looking or more successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:35 PM
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The difference is that women have way more options than we do so they could go for different types of men. Most men have to settle for whoever agrees to go with us, and half the time the women are settling themselves and will just leave at the first grievance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:31 PM
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I displayed none of these behaviors and still got treated like a weak pussy for having a bad day/going through loss. Weakness in men is punished more than being violent/aggressive. Toxic masculinity is rewarded by both men AND women alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:22 PM
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So 2/3 are still male focused. Not 1/2.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:21 PM
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Sounds exactly how women view men who make less than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:16 PM
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Lmao, that’s such a deflection and you know it. So tears are just the last straw after the physical/emotional abuse, aggression is easy to put up with, but crying? Too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:15 PM
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If that was the case, they wouldn’t date angry abusive men. Women are more repulsed by tears than getting yelled at or being beaten.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:12 PM
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That’s just not true, the majority of women date men who make more than them. A rich man could look at a cashier and still want to take them out, a rich woman would scoff at the idea of dating a broke man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:11 PM
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I’d much rather be with a woman who wanted to wait about having sex (as long as she wasn’t formerly promiscuous) as long as I knew she was actually into me and not just leading me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:10 PM
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The man is still expected to do most of the financial side of things. They also provide no emotional support while expecting it whenever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:07 PM
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Meanwhile they’re instantly repulsed if a man has depression or cries.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:06 PM
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Practically every average woman I know is in a relationship while not being any better than the average men I know who are single. None of the women I have dated have put even a quarter of the effort I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:03 PM
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Most women say they want things 50/50, when really what they mean is 50/50 when it comes to their gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:37 PM
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Most men would prefer things 50/50 as well, but its kinda hard to convince women to do their part when there’s enough desperate men out there willing to cater to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:33 PM
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Expecting men to be the primary breadwinner is still the most common relationship dynamic. Were also expected to have one specific stoic personality, cant ever have any moments of weakness or negative emotions. Along with receiving no emotional support, we’re expected to cater to all of women’s neurotic emotions, no matter if they’re valid or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:24 PM
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You chose to date bums, nobody asked for you to support men with no jobs. You chose to for shallow reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:19 PM
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And that matters why? Should white people hate white people because they commit the most crimes against each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:19 PM
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They’re not adhering to their traditional gender roles while holding me to mine. Either stop expecting men to provide, or start cooking and cleaning again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:15 PM
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You don’t think that has anything to do with the constant positive reinforcement they receive from being kind? Men are seen as trash whether they’re nice or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:08 PM
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Probably because men are more likely to face violence like physical assault/robbery. Men are more likely to be attacked physically in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:01 PM
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Their education and material achievements don’t matter to us, it’s women that value status and their image. Personality certainly matters, Ive met many women who either have terrible personalities or no personality at all because they never had to develop one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:32 PM
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Did I say only women treat minorities this way? No, Im compared their views on men to how racists view minorities as violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:01 PM
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Except many women don’t want kids and still hold this expectation. That’s understandable, the women who aren’t having kids and expecting to be provided for are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:50 PM
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It’s the same way people are “careful” around minorities, when women see a black man near them and pull their purse closer. It’s an implied sense of “you are a danger to me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:47 PM
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Except they say “we don’t know which men are like that” when like 0.2% of all men do that. So they’re pretty much being careful with the 99.8% who aren’t like that and treating them as potential monsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:42 PM
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When did I say I identify with predators and rapists? I said it was offensive to label all men as potential rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:31 PM
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The point is most of these young men are getting nothing, most are not having sex or only have sex once a year at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:30 PM
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Why are you labeling all men as potential predators and rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:30 PM
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Probably because being labeled as a predatory rapist and murderer is more offensive than being told you care about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:24 PM
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https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-young-men-are-single-most-young-women-are-not/amp/ I also forgot to account for the younger women who are dating older men. The stats were about men 18-27, not all men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:23 PM
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If women brought something other than looks and sex to the table, they’d be valued for such. Blame the women who fought to end women’s gender roles while still expecting men to protect and provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:20 PM
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Are you actually trying to say that spending years on gaining muscles is equivalent to spending an hour on painting your face?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:18 PM
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Because average women are going for above average men now? Are you seriously denying that above average men don’t have multiple women throwing themselves at them? Some of these women who said they’re in a relationships are in situationships with men who have multiple plates spinning. It’s really not hard to understand. And that’s because many men are pornsick and think pussy is the pinnacle of importance in life, they’ve never been with a woman and idealize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:16 PM
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If that wasn’t their motive, they wouldn’t require men to make more than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:09 PM
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Lmao so your stats are fact, but mine are false? I guess whatever reaffirms your biases. And I dont think “lazy men” are any worse than the entitled women who just exist and expect perfection. Id say the lazy women are worse since they actually bring nothing of value to the table. But keep talking down on your brothers so it keeps your dick wet lmao. Pussy isn’t nearly as valuable as you fratbros think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:06 PM
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Probably because most women spend their 20s being reckless whores and don’t start dating seriously until after they’re ran through and traumatized. And if you believe the lazy should fail, then you should believe lazy women should fail too, but they don’t and consistently have success. Maybe you should ask yourself why you hold men to a higher standard while women only exist and bring their holes to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:59 PM
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Ive literally never slept with a woman I was in a relationship with and they were all ran through whores that settled for me lmao. But keep believing all men can get into a relationship easily because your fratbros are never single.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:49 PM
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If they’re not willing to commit to you, they don’t genuinely desire you. If they’d rather keep their options open, you’re being settled for. Not that hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:44 PM
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Yes, dudes are getting laid, they’re not genuinely desired or lusted after. They’re good enough for one night stands, not genuine love or desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:38 PM
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Lmao keep telling yourself that, dude. Sounds like you’re a former incel that went full gymbro and think you know everything because you got your dick wet a couple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:29 PM
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66% of women in relationships, only 33% of men in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:22 PM
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People are lonelier than they’ve ever been, more men are single than women. Having some one night stand means nothing if they spend the rest of their life alone. 87% have sex once, that doesn’t mean 87% are pairing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:18 PM
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Lmao, not all of us are coomers just looking for a wet hole, Id rather have companionship than sleep with some ran through whore they had 20 other guys plow through her already. If you think sex is more important than companionship, you’re probably pornsick and overcompensating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:11 PM
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Yes, sex is easy and readily available, its relationships that require more effort/work to be put into yourself. I don’t put in much effort, but Ive slept with 4 women. I stopped putting in effort when I realized sex was overrated and wasn’t what I actually wanted. Its relationships that require 6 figures and jacked physiques, they’ll settle for less for a quick fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:06 PM
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If you actually think looks and money don’t matter and that it doesn’t make dating easier, your head is too far in the sand. You call it “lazy,” most men are just realizing the juice isn’t worth the squeeze. Why go above and beyond for a woman who thinks her makeup and dress are equivalent to your gains and career success?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:58 PM
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Except its not just an opinion, you can go outside and see plenty of fat ugly women with desperate boyfriends. Men are settling for women like this now more than ever before, because even average looking guys aren’t good enough for their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:52 PM
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No, Im saying average women nowadays feel entitled to six figures and jacked physiques. If you actually think dressing up and painting your face is even comparable to years of actual hard work, you’re delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:50 PM
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“Women need to be attractive, thin, under 25.” Those are your words. I said ugly fat women still find success while ugly fat men rarely do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:48 PM
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I meant the vast majority of ugly fat men. We were talking about how hard ugly fat women have it, I pointed out that a man in their same position has even less options than they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:46 PM
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Yes, until they can find a man who makes more so she can spend his money on bills and her money on herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:45 PM
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Lmao, so painting your face and waxing is comparable to spending years in the gym and building your career so you can earn as much as possible? Men put in much more work than women, women just exist and have options, men have to work out and have 6 figures to be good enough for a woman who only paints her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:44 PM
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No, the majority of fat ugly men are single. The fat ugly women are dating better looking men. Its that simple, an ugly woman’s looksmatch will always have it harder than she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:43 PM
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Not at all, I just dont fall for their lies. They’re basically labradors chasing the shiniest tennis ball.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:40 PM
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Men who are more attractive and thinner than them. Everywhere you look, you see a fat woman with a skinny man, and he’s usually more attractive than she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:39 PM
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I go out of my house too, and all I see are vapid materialistic leeches.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:37 PM
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Except there are plenty of ugly fat over 25 women who are never single. The same can’t be said for the vast majority of men because now even ugly fat women feel entitled to perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:36 PM
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Ohh, so you’re just a brainwashed male feminist, got it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:34 PM
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No, Im pointing out how women are entitled and want things they’re not willing to work for themselves. Men who just exist are no worse than women who do the same, its only men who are seen as lazy losers for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:33 PM
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Enjoy dating with your paranoia about being murdered/raped, you must be so fun at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:32 PM
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Ive met multiple ugly men who only had success because they had money. Your idea of golddigging is about women going for top tier 6 figures like CEOs, you’re ignoring the women who get with men in STEM because they make just over $100k.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:29 PM
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Women just exist and still have results. Its only men who have to “work on themselves” to be good enough for women who just exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:25 PM
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Of course a woman will say that, they can be cashiers and waitresses and will still find love. Men are only loved for what they provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:23 PM
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If golddigging was such a minority, the majority of women wouldn’t put so much weight on a 6 figure requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:20 PM
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When most women put “6 ft 6 figures” as their minimum requirement, its alot more common than you think. They’re just more likely to settle for a hot broke guy than an average looking middle class guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:17 PM
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Considering rape kits and DNA evidence are a thing, it’s sure easier to prove than a lying vindictive woman leeching off of men. Just because you chose your abuser doesn’t mean all men are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:06 PM
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Do you actually think women would admit that money is as important as it is? Women treat dating like its rainbows and sunshine, they’re never honest about their intentions. Show me stats that say the majority of men are all rapists/murderers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:03 PM
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Im not comparing the severity, Im addressing an issue that men face. Men are not inherently rapists and murderers, women are inherently golddiggers. Show me one woman who isn’t approaching dating with her hand out, Ive never met one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:59 PM
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Nice counterpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:56 PM
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Women are golddiggers by default when they require men to make a certain amount of money. The vast majority of men are not rapists. Its nothing but mental gymnastics to justify misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:54 PM
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But isn’t that proof enough that women are more likely to be golddiggers than men are more likely to be rapists/murderers? Women approach dating expecting 6 figures, they’re inherently golddiggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:54 PM
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You laugh, but your mindset is exactly how upper middle class racists see minorities. They see it as just being careful and “protecting their assets”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:47 PM
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Like women don’t hate men because their high school chad boyfriend cheated on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:45 PM
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I slept with a woman who told me I was “acting like a girl” for being upset that she was sleeping around behind my back. Then she tried saying I “didn’t treat her like a girlfriend” to justify why she did it. Another woman left me for the ex she constantly complained about, all while talking down on me and treating me like Im worthless. She treated me worse than the man who abused her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:43 PM
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They hide behind this idea of “being careful” so they can label all men as potential predators. Women are more likely to be golddiggers, yet when men are “being careful” about that, it’s seen as an overreaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:35 PM
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Most men will never meet a woman that genuinely desires them, they only desire top tier men. Average men are settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 02:33 PM
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Ive been with women who had BPD, they’re just as unreasonable and neurotic as the women who don’t have it, they’re just more open about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:06 PM
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Lmao men always have to settle, its women who have 20+ options at all times and always go for the hottest/richest one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 01:01 PM
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90% of women are neurotic so what’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:52 PM
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Id expect a child to take care of their own parents without needing compensation, but you need compensation just to feed your own child, so I imagine you must have a great relationship with your parents, especially your father.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:04 PM
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Good luck finding a man who wants to provide for a woman who has nothing to offer but her holes lmao. Its cheaper to pay a hooker than it is to take care of a grown ass entitled parasite.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:02 PM
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I don’t want kids, so I couldn’t care less about “muh legacy.” Women only bring their holes to the table, thats why they’re only valued for sex. Maybe if they actually had something of value to add to a man’s life, men would want to provide for them. But they’d rather be glorified prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:58 PM
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There are no facts or stats in your rhetoric, only feminist doomposting about women dying during childbirth like we live in the Victorian era. It’s also insane you think women actually work hard enough to earn $184k a year just for getting pumped and dumped. That’s astronomical levels of entitlement, and no man who isn’t desperate to get his dick wet will ever “compensate” a woman for that. No pussy is worth $184k.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:53 PM
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I mean, I can’t just shit out the amount of money it would take to provide those things. And, again, if mothers did their jobs instead of feeling entitled to compensation, then my infant/toddler wouldn’t be doing that. You’re obviously only here in bad faith, it’s funny how all of your posts here have been downvoted to oblivion lmao. Go be a femcel somewhere else, no man is going to compensate you for hatching his spawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:46 PM
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I literally said multiple times that I wont have that option. Most people in this generation won’t have that luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:42 PM
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Except I’ll never afford that and I’ll have to do it myself, uncompensated, and without complaining, unlike the wahmen who need to be paid not to starve and abuse their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:40 PM
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It’s not men claiming they need to be paid to take care of their kids. In fact, men are literally never paid to take care of their kids, they have to either pay to take care of them or pay child support and reimburse the mother for being a parent. Women see child support as a reimbursement for them being a parent, so they use it to get their nails/hair done or spend it on other vapid things instead of using it on their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:28 PM
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Do you believe women should neglect their children just because they’re not being compensated? Or do you agree its a parent’s job to be a parent, regardless of being paid to do it? If a woman has to be paid to be a mother, I wouldn’t want her raising my child anyway. Its crazy a woman has to be incentivized to raise her own child.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:12 PM
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Lmao, so all these mental gymnastics were just a way for you to argue that women deserve to also be compensated while already reaping the benefits of the man’s work, all because they could die. What if the man dies? Who will provide for this woman? Who will compensate this woman? Let me guess, daddy government?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:59 PM
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You keep repeating the same list yet haven’t made a single point as to what this has to do with women deserving to be taken care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:53 PM
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Im going to have to go to work to provide for them and then come home and take care of them. Ya know, kinda how you feel men should treat their wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:50 PM
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No, Im saying a woman who expects a man to provide for her AND pay her for being a mother is an entitled parasite. It’s crazy women are now so entitled they think they should be rewarded for being a parent, no wonder sons raised by single mothers end up being selfish criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:48 PM
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I just said I cant afford to pay someone to take care of my parents. And Im willing to put “muh legacy” on hold if it means I dont have to provide for an entitled parasite leeching off my resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:43 PM
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Im an only child, I’ll have to take care of my parents anyway since neither of us can afford to put them in a home and they wouldn’t want that anyway. My point still stands, women are not entitled to men’s provisions and its beyond entitled you’re actually trying to argue that they deserve to be paid for choosing to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:36 PM
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You act like we live in the 1600s where childbirth deaths are common lmao. Women are not entitled to being provided for, nor do mothers deserve to be paid $180k a year just for popping out babies. I dont make enough to pay someone else to take care of my kid, but I also don’t plan on letting some woman leech off of me all because she has a hole that kids come out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:29 PM
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What does that have to do with anything? If a woman is being provided for, the least she can do is care for the baby. Why should the man both provide for her and go 50/50 on her responsibilities? Thats more of a 75/25 relationship than 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:22 PM
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But if she’s tasked with that, she should do her part and not expect the man providing for her to go 50/50 on her responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:17 PM
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No, I think a grown adult woman shouldn’t need a man to provide for her if she’s “strong and independent.” That’s equality, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:15 PM
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Lmao, I dont plan on getting a woman pregnant because I have no desire to provide for a grown adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 05:08 PM
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As much as they charge? You’re really trying to victimize women as a whole with this childbirth death rant lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:59 PM
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Lmao, you’re making an argument out of nothing that was said. Motherhood isn’t a job when it isn’t bringing in income, the mother is leeching off the husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:39 PM
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That has nothing to do with on the job deaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:29 PM
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If worker A is working 8 hours straight chucking apples, yes, that’s harder work than dealing with paperwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:56 PM
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Okay, if they’re apple chucking for 8 hours straight, that’s hard work. Much harder than someone who has time to sit/rest multiple times a day before going back to their work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:44 PM
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Their job can be physically taxing, but it’s not exactly hard work. Doing anything physical for 8 hours straight can be tiring, its definitely more tiring than sitting at a desk for 8 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:38 PM
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No, you’re conflating your example as a representation of all physical labor. Im talking about construction workers, electricians, plumbers, welders, oil rig workers, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:28 PM
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The fewer hours of production is what makes them seen as less productive. The higher ups will look at the amount of work someone put in and compare it to the others, regardless of the reasoning behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:27 PM
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I define hard work as strenuous laborious work, to the point of your body being sore and being tired. That’s not to say others are not “working hard” in their field because different fields require different skill sets, but when I imagine hard work, I imagine feeling drained at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:24 PM
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Is it that being “feminine” makes them treat it as lesser, or that women are less productive than their male counterparts?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:14 PM
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Worker A is working a menial labor job, that’s not necessarily hard work. Of course worker B is working harder in this scenario. But the workers who helped build the hospital worker B works in worked harder than worker B.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 03:11 PM
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Yes, women have a narcissistic need to feel “important” and “valuable,” it has nothing to do with helping others. They use that opportunity to make themselves feel like better people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:53 PM
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So you would agree women don’t do these jobs because they’re physically weaker than men. So if a woman worked these jobs, she should be paid less for not working as hard as them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:47 PM
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Then why do they choose these fields knowing they don’t pay well? Teachers haven’t been paid well for decades, it doesn’t make sense to become a teacher then complain about it after the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:46 PM
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Physical labor is the purest form of hard work. Women don’t want to work these jobs because they don’t want to actually work hard, they want to get paid for sitting on their ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:38 PM
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Having a strenuous job that requires alot of physical labor is the definition of working hard. Most women spend their days working at a desk sitting in a chair for 8 hours a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:32 PM
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Except men make up the majority of blue collar jobs, as well as the majority of on the job deaths. So no, factually, women don’t work as hard as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:29 PM
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You made an argument out of a nothing burger just to attempt a gotcha lol, you keep saying “backtracking” like my initial meaning wasn’t implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:32 PM
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Not really, black men had it worse than white women. That’s a universal fact. But it sounds like you put womanhood over everything and want to victimize yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 04:17 PM
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I didn’t realize I had to be black to point out black men had it worse than white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:05 PM
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I assumed I didn’t have to specify American since most people here seem to be from America.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:19 AM
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Idk I think men ending their lives in increasing numbers deserves just as much coverage as women losing their reproductive rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:37 PM
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I was talking strictly from an American standpoint, I already knew there had been white slaves in other parts of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:36 PM
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I didn’t learn to be this way until I dated these women. I was bluepilled just like you and convinced women were the “fairer sex” and never treat men awful. The kinder you are, the easier you are for them to manipulate and abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:40 PM
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Correction, I sleep with women who complain about bums. That’s why I no longer feel sorry for them, because they treat bums like gold and normal guys like trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:37 PM
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How am I a bum when Ive never actually gotten anyone pregnant and never plan to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:27 PM
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Lmao, keep moving the goalpost because I don’t fit your preexisting narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:18 PM
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I literally slept with a woman who claimed I got her pregnant when it was the guy before me, it’s not pornbrain. Im not punishing anyone, I already said I support abortion. I just think most abortions are from recklessly sleeping with bums.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:11 PM
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Rape and assault are completely different from consensual sex, of course cases of rape should have access to abortions. I don’t feel sorry for women who consensually sleep with deadbeats and let them cum inside them. Some of them even try babytrapping deadbeats and it backfires on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:07 PM
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I don’t blindly nut in women because I don’t want a kid, its on women if they choose to sleep with reckless deadbeats. Women literally control access to sex, they let deadbeats and bums cum inside them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:03 PM
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You’re the only one bringing rape into it? Get over your victim complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:59 PM
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Women carry the ability to get pregnant, thats on them if they don’t want to get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:54 PM
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Do you actually believe that sleeping around recklessly never leads to accidental pregnancy? We’ve already noticed the rise in STDs spreading.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 03:51 PM
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Reproductive rights are important, but there’s no denying there’s been an increase in abortions for reckless sex acts thanks to the rise of hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:44 PM
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Im not voting against their rights, Im just indifferent on fighting for them. Im not voting at all because I hate the virtue signaling left and the fascist right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:10 PM
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Im not fighting to take their rights away, I think they should have bank accounts and abortion rights, and they exercise their right to vote. I just think their idea of oppression is one of the biggest examples of first world problems. Men are offing themselves increasingly every year, but let’s spend months talking about how women need their right to abort because they wont stop sleeping with deadbeats.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:51 PM
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Their biggest issues white women faced were bank accounts, abortion rights, and the right to vote. They still had all the same privileges white men had simply by association, while also being provided for by their husbands. They weren’t being enslaved or being driven off their land.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:46 PM
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Middle and lower class women still expect men to be breadwinners. I get they’ve faced their own challenges, but not enough to claim oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:34 PM
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Whatever you have to tell yourself to victimize the most privileged class in America. There’s no group more privileged than white women. They call cooking and cleaning “oppression” yet their husbands were dying in war and on blue collar job sites.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:53 PM
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Were white women forced to work plantations and getting their backs beaten with whips? No? Didn’t think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:24 PM
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You just said that because women also get robbed and assaulted, men being physically assaulted/robbed isn’t gender based. Men also get raped, yet women getting raped is gender based oppression. You’re changing the rules to fit your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:26 PM
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You just said that because women also get robbed and assaulted, men being physically assaulted/robbed isn’t gender based. Men also get raped, yet women getting raped is gender based oppression. You’re changing the rules to fit your narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:26 PM
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So because something happens to one gender more than another, that’s gender based oppression? You’re just playing mental gymnastics to label women as oppressed, we will never live in a world where rape and murder don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:20 PM
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That’s not oppression, it’s no different than men facing assault/robbery/murder. Nobody is claiming physical assaults are a form of male oppression even though they’re usually a primary target.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:15 PM
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Yes, they could have, but we’re talking about what happened to these minority women during racial oppression.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:59 PM
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Growing up in America, especially during the 90s/00s, you have all these messages about losing your virginity as soon as possible and I fell into that mindset myself. I pretty much tried finding love in easy women because the message about women sleeping with men was that they were saving it for someone special, so I thought it would lead to something fulfilling. They don’t prepare you for the fact women can want sex just as much as men, and will sleep with men while separating their emotions en…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:50 PM
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Do you believe these same women would have went through this treatment had they not been minorities? That’s the point Im making. Their minority status is what led to those atrocities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:47 PM
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You’re claiming that because some things mainly affect one gender over another, that any oppression a woman faces is gender based. Im saying that the racial oppression doesn’t discriminate and that it’s all race based, not gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:34 PM
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Im asking if you would say that that’s gender based oppression. It’s something only men have to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:28 PM
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I feel like alot of men have been coerced/talked into sleeping with women tbh, they get so much leeway when it comes to being creepy and coming on too strong. I know men play a role in that too, but men are so desperate, they’re willing to put up with it. I talked myself into it by saying I needed the experience for when I met a woman I actually liked. Ive never slept with a woman I was in love with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:27 PM
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By that logic, is it gender based oppression to force men to sign the draft?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:25 PM
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They were hookups. I was talked into losing my virginity by a woman I wanted a relationship with. I wasn’t ready and she pretty much forced herself on me and I went with it. Then she left for another guy. The other woman was a friend of my friend’s date and I guess she felt left out and started using this shaming language on me when I wasn’t coming onto her like my friend came onto her friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:13 PM
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Im not claiming black men were getting raped and forced to birth children, Im claiming both black men and women faced oppression, not gender based oppression. Women are more likely to get raped than men, of course an oppressed minority woman is going to face rape/forced childbirth because women are more likely to be raped in general. How is that gender based oppression?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:11 PM
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Or calls him gay/“not a real man.” Ive slept with 2 women who pretty much pressured me into it with phrases like that because I thought it was just normal and since Im a guy, Im supposed to always want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:00 PM
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I never claimed otherwise, only that the oppression minority women faced wasn’t gender based. Are we really trying to claim that female minorities had it harder than male minorities? It’s not a contest, they faced racist oppression, not gender based.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:42 PM
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Minority women are women, but minorities in general have been oppressed. Their minority status comes before their gender, most of their oppression had nothing to do with being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:37 PM
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Yes, minority women. White women were cooking and cleaning and claiming to be oppressed because they couldn’t vote or open a bank account. There’s nobody more privileged in modern society than white women. White privilege along with hand outs and scholarships just for existing as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:32 PM
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Okay, I agree with that claim. Still doesn’t mean women have went through even half the things minorities have went through. You’re trying to conflate a housewife cooking and cleaning to a man getting his back beaten with a whip and having his children sold off to work plantations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:28 PM
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What subject change? You claim women have been oppressed and compared it to minorities being enslaved.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:25 PM
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What oppression have women went through other than not getting to vote? We’ve always been a gynocentric society, women and children always come first while men are nothing but cheap labor and cannon fodder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:22 PM
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Comparing women to people who were forced to work on plantations and whipped/beaten? Sheesh, y’all want to be victims so bad. Who was it that got Emmet Till killed? A white woman’s false allegations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:16 PM
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Idk, I don’t feed a couch.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:09 PM
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Could say the same about someone who gets so flustered about explaining their broad statement lmao. Nice pfp, really hides the butterface.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:57 PM
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It’s not a misunderstanding to explain yourself. If I say cheese smells like feet, Im not going to get upset if someone specifies that not all cheese smells that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:54 PM
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So when men saying “women do this/women do that,” you never correct it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:51 PM
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No, you imply all by saying men in general. That’s what women who hate men do, then they backtrack when called out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:32 PM
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Some men. In fact, the majority of men don’t do those things. So again, a bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 02:21 PM
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The fact you instantly think all housewives were beaten and raped only reflects your own biases against men. Personally Id rather stay single than provide for a woman who doesn’t cook and clean, Im not gonna take care of a useless child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 01:40 PM
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Paying $3 for a slice of cheese isn’t being cheap, it’s idiotic to pay that much for a slice that’s less than a dollar.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:30 AM
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Even when they were “oppressed,” they were still being taken care of, had a roof over their head and food in their stomachs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 11:28 AM
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How does he view her as a piece of meat for not wanting to raise another man’s kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:54 PM
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Raising another man’s child is just another form of being cucked. You may as well call up her baby daddy and ask him to knock her up again so you can raise that kid too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:44 PM
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I mean, from what I’ve been seeing, haven’t these refugees been raping/sexually assaulting women rather than asking them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:48 AM
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Like women haven’t been doing the same with their “men are trash” rhetoric for the last 2 decades. Why would I bet the bigger person when they don’t give us the same benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 01:44 PM
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Because some men are desperate simps who have never had sex and don’t realize chasing pussy is completely overrated/unfulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:50 AM
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Right, because I definitely hated women from the start and it had nothing to do with my own experiences with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:09 AM
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Lmao, pussy only has as much value as a man is willing to give it. Keep telling yourself you’re superior because of your hole though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:38 AM
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But if women are putting on makeup for themselves, why stress themselves out over it? Sounds like they hold themselves to an impossible beauty standard and blame everyone else for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 02:40 AM
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And it takes more effort to fill up their wallet than it takes for women to open their legs. So, women expect more than they’re worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:51 PM
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Yet men are more shallow for wanting women who can actually have kids? The things women expect from men are mostly superficial and materialistic, all most women offer in return is pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:18 PM
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Lmao so when I answer how women are shallow, you answer with “well its biology, bro”. Isn’t it also in men’s biology to seek out fertile women and not dried up middle aged women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:08 PM
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Late 20s and choosing not to date. I tried for years and only ever found women who thought pussy was enough. I got tired of putting more effort into them than they’re worth. Id rather pay for pussy than jump through hoops to please a modern woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:35 PM
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Because it’s just true? Women in the past weren’t obsessed with height and bone structure. Women in the past didn’t demand a 6 figure salary. Women in the past weren’t only chasing chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 06:18 PM
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Im not even an incel lmao, I dated in my teens and early 20s and ALL of them only had one thing to offer: pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:50 PM
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Because its harder for men to get dates than it’s ever been before. Women are far more entitled and demanding than they’ve ever been while bringing nothing but pussy to the table. Men are expected to work 10x harder than their grandpa to get a date with women who are 10x worse and provide even less than their grandmas.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:32 PM
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Lmao, whatever you say. And you wonder why they hate women, when they get lumped in with the worst men anyway. Why should they like women when they’re assumed to be terrible people just for being virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:29 PM
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Not all of them, only the extreme ones celebrate mass shootings. Most of them are just indifferent and don’t care, like if a woman choose a man who abuses her and gives that guy numerous chances to beat her, why should they care? She chose him, not the incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:20 PM
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Okay? So now all single men worship this guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:17 PM
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Lmao you actually think all single men celebrate rape? You’re actually delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:47 PM
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Ohh, so a guy who hits his girlfriend just has some “shades of bad,” but he’s still a good person because he has a girlfriend. While single guys are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:45 PM
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And you also believe bad people never get dates? All those sob stories women have about how awful their exes were, those were good people?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:43 PM
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Do you believe anyone who is single is a bad person? Or that only good people get dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:41 PM
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Lmao, because simping and acting like they never do anything wrong is such an effective tactic to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:38 PM
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Nobody’s shitting on women, it’s just reality that most of them are more shallow and superficial than any other generation before.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:42 PM
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Right, and if you just eat your vitamins and say your prayers, everything will all work out because bad things never happen. Idk man, sounds like your head is in the clouds and you’re in denial about how materialistic and shallow the world currently is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:20 PM
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Right, just touch grass and a real woman actually worth dating will appear. I forgot this was a just world where everyone gets what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:10 PM
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Lmao its not incel logic, ask any guy on the apps, most of the women swiping on them are landwhales
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:07 PM
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The average man is only getting to sleep with women fatter than he is because their looksmatch chases chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 03:03 PM
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They’re sausage fests because women just exist and get dates. Even the women on these apps only give one word replies because they know they can get what they want no matter what. And maybe, just maybe, if modern women had more to offer than their holes, they’d be valued for more than just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:41 PM
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Its no different on Hinge, Bumble, OkCupid, etc. The women chase the hottest guys and are repulsed by their looksmatch. Anything less than an 11/10 adonis is settling to the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:32 PM
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Dating apps are reflective of women’s standards. When the majority of men are single and most women rate the average man as unattractive, that translates into the real world as well. Facts don’t care about your just world fallacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:30 PM
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Lmao, not at all. The 200 lb guy only gets women 250+ lbs and up if any women at all. Y’all want to act oppressed so bad and ignore all the 100+ swipes you get just from downloading Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:20 PM
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Lmao, you’re just inverting everything I say because you refuse to acknowledge the point. It’s not the 170 lb women going months/years without any sex/relationships because they literally have no other options. The women who go that long without sex/relationships usually do it by choice because they’re holding out for an 11/10 adonis. The men who go that long with sex/relationships either get no matches whatsoever or only match with women who are vaguely interested in them because these women ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:59 PM
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My point isn’t that they look like Jabba, my point is women are so shallow that they think their looksmatch is beneath them and chase 6 packs and 6 ft men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:32 PM
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Okay? The 170 lb woman would still rather chase a fit man than the 200 lb man, and that’s usually what happens. The 200 lb man is the safe option she settles for after racking up a double digit body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:30 PM
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I imagine most 200 lb men would happily date a 170 lb woman, expecting anything skinnier is hypocritical. It’s usually the women who have such an issue with dating fat men, even fat women don’t want a man in their same range.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 06:05 PM
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Nobody said they weren’t but a 200 lb man shouldn’t be equated to some 350 lb landwhale
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:55 PM
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Except men are rightfully called out when they feel that way. Women are applauded for their entitlement with a “yassss, queen, know your worth!” You’re trying to mirror my responses about women as men being the same way when our society doesn’t even treat entitled men the same way as entitled women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:27 PM
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Husky implied big. Ive heard many men who are fit/skinny complain that the only women interested in them are fatter than them. These men shouldn’t have to settle for that, especially when they have money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:16 PM
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Of course a woman says that when they think their looksmatch is a 6 ft tall chad lmao. And I have dated, I spent a decade dating and realized most women are entitled with absolutely nothing of value to offer. Most have the same cookie cutter personality and just approach men with their hand out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:14 PM
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If a man is fit and has money, or even just average looking with money, why should he settle for a woman bigger than he is? These “husky women” still have a far greater chance of finding a relationship than he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:12 PM
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Lmao most men admit they’d be happy with their looksmatch. Even when men want these things, the vast majority of men are willing to settle for less than they want. Women still have their needs met when they’re single so they refuse to commit to anything other than perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:10 PM
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The difference is men aren’t the ones demanding 6 packs, 6 ft, and 6 figures. Most men would be satisfied with their looksmatch. It’s the women who demand more than they’re worth. If I had 6 figures, Id rather provide for someone who isn’t an entitled princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 01:04 PM
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Because modern Western women bring nothing to the table other than pussy and trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:58 PM
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Why should he when modern women just exist and get rewarded with a man who had to put in effort to be good enough for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 12:55 PM
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What is a modern Western woman offering to justify his efforts?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:29 AM
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Like we don’t have Lilith making posts about men picking shitty women every other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:04 PM
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I’d say most women don’t ever really have to introspect, their feelings are always validated and the only time they ever look inward is when a hot guy cheats on them. Otherwise, they never consider that they could be the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:19 PM
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You assume those 100 options only care about sex because you see them as beneath you. But Im sure if it was a hot/rich guy who actually only cared about sex, you’d do everything to tie them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:45 PM
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That’s the burden of human emotion. Most other species don’t even have the emotional or mental capacity to even discuss hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:20 AM
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I think the biggest reason we have such a problem with each other is the lopsided access to options. If both sides had the same amount of options, we’d understand each gender’s problems easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:57 AM
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No, Ive only slept with 4 and don’t want to be with a woman with a double digit body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:45 PM
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Women don’t want men who slept with 20+ women, men are disgusted by promiscuity too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:55 PM
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*women fatter/uglier than me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:22 PM
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What’s pathetic is using year old pictures and gaining 100 lbs within a year because she chose a piece of shit who beat her and he left her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:07 PM
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Reality is cynical, not all of us get to live with fairy tale ideas in our head and coast through life on another man’s dollar like y’all do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:07 PM
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Because she catfished me and was like 100 lbs higher than her pictures looked. I was already there and had no other options, so we fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 07:05 PM
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Of course your life is great, you’re a woman who gets rewarded for existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:21 PM
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Not at all, they chase men smaller than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:20 PM
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I offer as much as any other average guy, which is more than the average woman offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:46 PM
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I don’t anymore, I gave up because that’s literally my only option anymore. My female equivalent is chasing skinny/fit guys and 6 figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:42 PM
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Okay, then Im fat. But landwhales are morbidly obese and beneath me. I shouldn’t have to sleep with a woman shaped like a beach ball when I can actually touch my toes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:41 PM
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You say keep saying fat, yet Im not morbidly obese lmao. Sounds like you’re a landwhale that’s mad I made the difference between the two. And it doesn’t matter what I say, you’ll still act like I have less to offer than a landwhale who only offers her holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:38 PM
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How did I shift the goalpost? Are you implying that wanting genuine care is asking for too much, but settling for just sex is just enough? And how am I any different from some woman working a retail job? The woman can find companionship while I have to have 6 figures. What is she offering to justify my bigger salary? Because Ive yet to meet a woman who offers enough to justifiably leech off of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:32 PM
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I want a woman who can provide companionship and genuine care, not a former slut who thinks men only care about sex so thats all she offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:22 PM
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Cope, women have it easy, men don’t. Therapy wont change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:20 PM
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No, landwhale implies morbid obesity. Im not morbidly obese and shouldn’t have to settle for that. Especially when these disgusting women have nothing of value to offer yet feel entitled to perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:20 PM
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Im in the 200s, but the only women who look my way are closer to 300 and Im disgusted by women like that. I can count on one hand how many women Ive dated who were smaller than me, the rest of the time, I had to settle for these fat women just to avoid touch starvation. Now that I know how easy they have it though, I refuse to participate in their buffet of options. And yall always bring up this point, yet ignore the fact that modern women require men to by 2-3 leagues higher than them before th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:08 PM
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I slept with these women and became disgusted with them when I realized they had more options than me and were uglier/fatter than me. That’s why I’ll never take a landwhales complaints about dating seriously because even as a fat woman, they have it easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:04 PM
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Landwhales still get laid and have boyfriends. The landwhales I slept with had more options than me, that’s why I’ll never give them my validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:02 PM
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I don’t require a woman to be skinny, I just don’t want her to be fatter than me. And its the audacity of a woman fatter than me demanding that I have a perfect body and perfect salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:01 PM
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And you really think asking for a woman to not be a fat bitch is considered equal to women requiring a 6 pack and 6 figures?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:23 PM
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When your conditions rule out the majority of the population, that’s unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:26 PM
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Same can be said about their expectations for men to replace their fathers, protect and provide for them while they do nothing but exist and suck dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:26 PM
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If women had more to offer than their holes, they’d be wanted for more. Most women are useless now, don’t cook, don’t clean. Just spend your money and let you fuck em.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:23 PM
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They’re conditions, but they’re actually realistic. Most women could meet these standards if they actually wanted to. Meanwhile women are only attracted to the top percentile men, but most fit men making 6 figures can do much better than some landwhale with a chip on her shoulder.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:22 PM
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TRP exists to warn men about female nature and to not be a spineless simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:21 PM
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I agree with that, men shouldn’t waste their time committing to terrible women, I just think most men would go years without finding another woman that’s interested in them so they settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:19 PM
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Because I could literally only get dates with hoes like this lol. I made it clear I was looking for something serious, but they just weren’t willing to stop sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:17 PM
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I stopped dating altogether because the only women willing to date me were whores in their hoe phase, none of them were open to commitment and they saw everything as a transaction. Men can have standards, but they’ll spend years alone if they do, and most don’t have the experience/ease of access where they can afford to be picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:57 PM
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Kinda hard to have standards when your options are either touch starvation or settling. Women hold all the cards now, average men can’t afford to have a list of standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:49 PM
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So again, it’s all a nothingburger. I feel anger, I can explain it. If I feel fear, I can explain it. But when it comes to love, it’s just some unexplainable magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:48 PM
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If you can’t explain what real love is, how can you say what real love isn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:44 PM
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And what makes your love so different from their’s? Statistics say your love has just as much of a chance as dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:40 PM
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Tell that to the people who married young and got divorced lmao. You won’t realize love is dead until it’s over, maybe then you’ll realize you’re being blinded by your tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:36 PM
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But what makes a man entitled for being upset that he has to have money to be loved? I’d say their frustration is justifiable when most women have nothing of actual value to bring to the table, only sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:35 PM
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But how are men more entitled when women have a huge checklist men have to go through to be considered enough? Most men just want a woman who isn’t fat and isn’t a combative bitch, we really don’t ask for much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:24 PM
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Lmao, this is what I mean when people in love can’t understand it’s not real. They rationalize anything that goes against the magic in their head. What if your relationship ends? Was that not real love? All those years wasted, that wasn’t real love?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:20 PM
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I have been in love. When it ended though, I realized it was just lust and they were exploiting me until someone better came along. People don’t have the ability to rationalize love when they’re in love because they can’t look at things objectively and feel there has to be some magic secret behind it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:16 PM
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And women will never understand this because they really don’t have to go out and earn anything to be considered lovable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:15 PM
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“Usually men who are entitled” it’s not men who require women to have a 6 pack and 6 figures before they even have the ability to fall in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:13 PM
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This is the same argument religious people use to prove the existence of God, “oh you can just feel his existence, just look around you.” If there’s no real concrete definition or explanation, it sounds like a nothingburger.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:11 PM
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So women who collectively made bad decisions and want to punish all men for the select few who hurt them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:08 PM
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How is love any different from tingles? It’s just lust and resource exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:05 PM
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Yes, he shot above his league thanks to his resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:30 AM
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I can agree with that, most men who get cheated on get cheated on with better looking men. She probably used him for his resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:20 AM
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Hypergamy is slowly transitioning from desiring upper level men financially to desiring upper level men physically, still a form of greed when the resource is so small.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:15 AM
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Yes, let me just switch my genetics with chad real quick lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 01:11 AM
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Because literally any woman can cheat at all times. Every woman I ever hooked up with had multiple other men they were also sleeping with, they have dick on speed dial. Maybe 2 out of 10 men have pussy on speed dial.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:57 AM
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Then she’s a slut, simple as that. All women have the option to cheat, lacking self control tells me they lack the ability to commit at all. Most men don’t have the options to cheat, and the ones who do don’t have to have self control because women want them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:54 AM
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If a man is cheating on you constantly, Id say he’s probably above your league, since he feels he can do better. If he stays loyal, Id agree they’re compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:51 AM
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Nobody’s saying they shouldn’t be attracted to their partner, they just require a man above their own league to even feel attraction. That’s where their problem is, that’s where most of their relationship problems root in, trying to tie down a man who can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:45 AM
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If I had the options women had, I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:43 AM
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If you’re only attracted to above average men when you’re only average at best, then maybe it’s time to lower your standards. Nobody wants to listen to a fatso complain about being hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:42 AM
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Simps exist, like I said, existing as a woman is enough to get a man. Women have tons of options then seek out violent men, its not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:43 PM
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I chose her, not another man’s kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:40 PM
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Name literally any woman who doesn’t have a boyfriend/husband. Existing as a woman is enough to find a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:40 PM
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When men have the options women have, I’ll take that argument seriously. Women have tons of options yet still choose abusers. If men had half their options, they wouldn’t have to settle for cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:39 PM
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I never see men saying they would want to marry or impregnate serial killer women, most just say she is hot and leave it at that. I assume any who are going to the lengths of writing letters might want to do that, you just don’t hear of this number of men going out of their way to contact these women, because most men acknowledge how reckless/dangerous it would be to get close to a woman like that. What gets me is the way women see serial killer men and are turned on even more by the implication…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:38 PM
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Not really, most of my male friendships have been surface level and the whole “bros before hoes” mentality dies once they’re married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:23 PM
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I just said “landwhales who don’t give a shit about me,” cuddling a landwhale is synonymous with cuddling a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 09:02 PM
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If I only cared about busting a nut, Id go back to fucking landwhales who don’t give a shit about me. I know y’all like to believe women are the only ones with any emotional depth, but seriously get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:58 PM
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Saying it’s sexual implies that all we care about is busting a nut, which is exactly the reductive argument y’all always try to use. Women want to feel wanted/desired too, yet nobody accuses them of making everything about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:52 PM
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Many men base their views of women off the women they met growing up, the women in their family, and the women they’ve dated. What they see online usually reinforces what they’ve already seen in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:49 PM
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Right, straight men should just stop being disgusted by male touch and hold each other, because that makes so much sense. You’re delusional, that’s like trying to convince women to date bi men when they’re absolutely disgusted of the thought of sleeping with a man who got dicked down.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:46 PM
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Men thirst after criminals, but it usually stops at just that: initial sexual attraction. These women want serial killers to impregnate them, that’s how far women’s attraction to violent men goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:44 PM
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The complete irony in that you see women drowning in options as victims when they choose to give their abuser 3 chances to abuse them again, yet men are playing the victim when their only options are crippling loneliness or emotionally manipulative baby trappers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:43 PM
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When men have even half the options women have, I’ll entertain that argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:16 PM
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It’s not only women who do it, they’re just more likely to do it. Let’s not forget, guys like Ted Bundy had women throwing themselves at him both before and after he got caught. If any women escaped from him, they’d still have the same sob stories of “oh no, I was manipulated!”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:15 PM
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The idea of cuddling another man is repulsive to 90% of straight men. We’re not like y’all, we don’t have 2 beers and start making out with our friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:02 PM
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Not at all, if you don’t like the man with you’re with, find a new one. They’re dating on easy mode as it is, it’s really not that hard. Ive seen them move on from a guy within a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 08:01 PM
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Most men swipe on anything with a pulse, of course they’ll try shooting their shot with an attractive woman who also swiped on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:40 PM
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Because this isn’t Ancient Greece, men aren’t getting together to cuddle and jerk each other off. When men want that, they seek women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:40 PM
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That’s exactly how it is. Most women’s complaints about dating are that their options are beneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:38 PM
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Masculinize women so they take responsibility for their choices instead of acting like helpless children who need daddy government to pick up the pieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:06 PM
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Because it’s true. Literally any woman can download an app and instantly have 100 swipes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:05 PM
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Expecting 80% of men to compete with 20% of the top men, then telling men they’re wrong for not wanting to compete lmao. Most people learn from patterns, if it’s a losing battle, why keep trying? May as well just keep exposing how shallow, self serving, and parasitic most modern women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:04 PM
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The fact you think a man should raise a baby that isn’t his because a woman CHOOSES abusive men just shows the complete entitlement modern women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 07:02 PM
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Reality is fragile masculinity? It’s almost like we were fed equality, yet were tired of being expected to cater to female trauma. When male trauma/male emotions are seen as an ick, why should I give a shit about their experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:53 PM
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She chose him, that’s her problem. Don’t wanna be beaten? Pick one of the 100 other men in your inbox. Im not responsible for another man’s actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:51 PM
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Do you have an actual argument or are you just going to deflect based on your own privileged female experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:50 PM
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More like they ignore red flags for hot guys and make excuses for their behavior early on. The fact so many women will simp for a man who murdered 2 women shows they throw out all morality in their decision making when it comes to hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:49 PM
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I love when women claim men aren’t taking accountability when they all have the same sob story that ALL the exes that they CHOOSE to be with were abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:40 PM
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Oh right, redpill vs female deflection sub
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:34 PM
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I love how women who have never experienced actual loneliness will lecture men on their feelings lmao. Download Tinder, tell me how “lonely” it is to have 100 options on tap.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 06:34 PM
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Lmao like I care what shallow vapid women think of me, I wasn’t even an option to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:52 PM
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Right, because people definitely don’t treat lonely men as a burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:52 PM
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Except this new trend has been observable over the last 4 decades and less men are in relationships, less men are having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:51 PM
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Except they can’t, unless you expect men to cuddle and make out with their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:51 PM
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Physical touch, physical validation that you’re wanted/desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 05:36 PM
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And they’re probably making more money than the women they’re with, because money is the only time women settle for average looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:01 PM
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Very rare, most women rely on preselection bias because they’re all attracted to the same handful of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:01 PM
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Most women don’t even have the ability to feel an emotional connection with an unattractive man, that’s why those guys are in the friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 03:58 PM
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Male friendships are usually vapid and have little to no depth. They usually bond over surface level things like having interests in similar hobbies, music, movies, etc. There’s usually no genuine care for one another. Relationships fill that void for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:48 PM
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So do you only get sex from a relationship? You reap absolutely no benefits from a relationship other than sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:45 PM
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Nothing said here is wrong though. Women need men less, resulting in less men in relationships, resulting in more loneliness. Women can be fat, broke, insecure, and traumatized and still get dates. Men don’t have that same privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:41 PM
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I rarely see complaints of male loneliness being conflated to only being about sex, that usually comes from people looking at it from the outside and labelling it as “all about sex.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:30 PM
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I love how yall always diminish men’s needs as “all about sex,” makes it easier to label all men as sexual deviants who have absolutely no depth as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:59 PM
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Because a male friend isn’t going to solve my touch starvation, a male friend isn’t going to genuinely desire me and make me feel wanted/needed. Most men put their friends in 2nd place when they get into a relationship, leaving their friends to fend for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 12:55 PM
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I just said not all hot guys have red flags, learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:00 PM
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Most men with red flags are obvious, women just put on rose tinted glasses for hot guys then act shocked when he cheats/abuses. Not all guys with red flags are hot and not all hot guys have red flags, but hot men with toxic tendencies are never going without attention, regardless of their toxicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:44 PM
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Yes, tingles means instant lust/desire for the man. Ive met many women who act like they found the one just because the guy was hot, it’s like they instantly fall in love and completely ignore all red flags with hot guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:40 PM
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Except when it came to the man who hurt you, right? Definitely had nothing to do with tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:57 PM
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Men think with their dicks when trying to get laid, Ive never thought with my dick when it came to choosing a partner. In fact, many women I slept with, I didn’t like them as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:49 PM
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Not really, women rely on their tingles to pick their partners. Men are accused of thinking with their dicks while people blindly ignore all the women who put up with deadbeats and physical abuse all because the guy is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:39 PM
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Women are by default more emotionally driven and neurotic. They conflate good feelings for someone to mean that they’re a good person. That’s why women are more likely to stay with abusive bums, they’ll ask themselves what they did wrong instead of seeing the guy as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:32 PM
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When men think with their dicks, they’re thinking about climaxing, not building a family and moving in together. When women think with their pussies, they’ll throw out all flaws the guys have simply because they’re attracted to them. In their minds, an attractive guy is automatically a good guy. In my mind, an attractive woman is just an attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:55 PM
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The difference is WOMEN CARRY THE BABY. As a man, I don’t automatically assume any woman that gives me tingles would make an amazing mother, I don’t get the urge for her to have my children. Meanwhile women will see hot deadbeat criminals and immediately ignore his past and TELL THEM to cum inside them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:48 PM
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It’s relevant in that if a man gives a woman tingles, she’s more likely to want to have his babies or view him in a good light and convince themselves he’d make a great father. Because of the tingles, she decides to keep the baby, even when the guy hasn’t been around for weeks. Why is that on the guy that she wants to have this man’s baby, even when he’ll make a terrible father?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:41 PM
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My point is women carry the burden of pregnancy, they should be more mindful of the men they choose to sleep with since there’s a chance it could end in pregnancy. They always use this excuse to justify being picky, meanwhile they’ll TELL a deadbeat to cum inside them then act shocked when he cums and goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:11 PM
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Plan B exists for a reason. Women have 9 months to do something about it, they carry these kids full term. Where’s the personal accountability as they sit there letting a baby grow inside them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:04 PM
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Men aren’t the ones who get pregnant and carry these mistakes full term. If you know you carry the ability to get pregnant, your decisions carry more weight than a man’s who just shoots rope and gets a woman pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:55 PM
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If men stopped knocking up women they don’t trust, half the population wouldn’t have been born.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:45 PM
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Except guys aren’t the ones giving birth, they’re justified in not knowing if their kid is theirs or not until after it’s been born. Look at France, where they pretty much force men to raise kids that aren’t even theirs. No man wants to be cucked like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:43 PM
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They have kids with guys who give them tingles, trust isn’t even involved in the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 01:40 PM
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The women I date never carried me in their womb or took care of me, sounds like you think men are dating their mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:50 PM
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They prefer hot rich men but will settle for ugly rich men. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:07 PM
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They’re attracted to money/resources and they don’t care where they get it from, as long as they get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:54 PM
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Women are attracted to these things and award these men with sex/have children with them. Other men see these men getting women and reenact the behavior they seen these men using to get success. The cycle repeats.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:29 PM
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Nobody implied it was always a safeguard, but comparing a man with many options to a man with less, doesn’t it make sense that they’re less likely to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:13 AM
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Did I ever imply otherwise? Attractive men have more of an opportunity to exploit their lack of morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 06:00 AM
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Men with looks and money don’t have to have morals to have success with women. Men with morals won’t exploit this power dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:53 AM
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Moving the goalpost by suggesting all men are not like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:48 AM
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The only thing stopping men *with low morals. Assuming all men are like that is where you make the mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:45 AM
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If he’s a passport bro, he’s obviously above average financially to even obtain that level of ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:31 AM
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Was the Trump shooter a small town chad? I haven’t seen any indications of this, what part of that article explains that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:45 AM
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Appearance doesn’t come up because the obvious answer would be, “why don’t you date different guys?”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:33 AM
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I feel like most of these women would benefit more from therapy than a relationship, because many of them end up seeking out familiar partners who end up doing the exact same thing, validating their experiences and continuing the cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:18 AM
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Women have more resources to escape this abuse now than they’ve ever had in history, with discrete battered women shelters. Im not saying its easy all around, but its easier now than its ever been.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:07 AM
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And I understand that, Im not saying all abused women are like my cousin. Im saying if I see similarities in their stories, I start to see them less as helpless and more as enablers of these abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:05 AM
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No, Im going from the things Ive heard women say about men in front of me. I have been friends with many women throughout my teens and 20s and they felt comfortable enough with me to shit on men in front of me. Once I relayed my own experiences to them, they got offended/defensive. Like I said, I refuse to be the bigger man when this is the environment we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:04 AM
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I wouldn’t openly patronize an abused woman, but looking at things objectively from the outside, I can still put some of the responsibility on their decisions. Women have agency in their decisions, unless they’re financially tied to the guy and their family hates them, they could easily get a restraining order on the guy and stay with their family until they can safely escape their abuser. Its shitty they have to go through all that, but it has to be better than settling for the abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 03:02 AM
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I dont condemn women who learned after sleeping with a few men, I condemn women who didn’t learn it wasn’t for them until after 20+ men already plowed through them. And looks and money matter more than anything else, height is emphasized online. A hot/rich short guy will still have more success than an average looking middle class tall guy. And I didnt start using disrespectful language towards women until I realized how little they see us. Im not gonna be the bigger man and still allow them to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:57 AM
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The fact that kids get involved is what reduces my ability to feel sorry for women like this. I know that sounds shitty, but even if I had the options that women have, I still feel like I’d have more self respect than to put up with such treatment, even if they gave me “tingles.” Some women do end up in shitty situations, especially when they’re financially reliant on their abuser, but others just settle for it for hedonistic/shallow reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:53 AM
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Id say most people are more frustrated with dating now than the last few generations. Many problems have risen since social media and dating apps took over. You didn’t have as many self important landwhales demanding 6 ft 6 figure chads as you do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:48 AM
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I have a cousin who had kids with an unmedicated schzio who refuses to get help, she’s been physically abused by him and the guy’s aunt assaulted my aunt when they refused to hand over her kids to his family (when my aunt now has custody of them because my cousin keeps failing drug tests). Sometimes, they just don’t want to be saved.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:46 AM
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Except online reflects what people actually feel but are too afraid to express in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:43 AM
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They’re less likely to, given their options are slimmer. A man who can’t fuck every girl next door is less likely to move on to the next one within a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:37 AM
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Probably, yeah. I think hookup culture has done more harm to relationships than anything else. That’s what has fueled this gender war, the people who experience hook up culture and the people being left out of it. Everything is one big transaction, people are no longer valued as people, but a means to an end.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:36 AM
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What does that have to do with betabuxx?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:35 AM
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I think people downplay it more than they outright deny it. They’ll admit that everyone does that, but will focus on how shitty a man is for doing that. Some women will even deflect to “well what about men?” when you point out terrible behavior you’ve experienced from other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:33 AM
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I settled for sex because that was literally all I could find. I went into dating with a relationship mindset and found out most women were just as promiscuous as the men they complain about. Its not like I went into it thinking “Im gonna fuck as many women as possible to ‘find myself.’”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:29 AM
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I would. I dabbled in sleeping around and found it very underwhelming/unfulfilling. If a woman wanted to build a deeper connection before sleeping with me, Id appreciate that much more than a woman who just saw me as a quick lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:25 AM
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I will admit “sob story” is a reductive way to put it, but from the outside looking in, it sounds like a sob story when they refuse to take advantage of every resource they can to escape it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:24 AM
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I wouldn’t say there is a specific number, for some women, they had a bad breakup and see sleeping around as “taking back their freedom” and never actually trust men again. For others, they think sleeping around will help them “find themselves,” then they start to see things as transactional/shallow. Either way, it comes with alot of baggage that most men would rather not deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:22 AM
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Women can sleep with whoever they want, but their decisions will make some guys turned off by it. If I know a woman spent her 20s racking up a double digit body count, I would assume Im being settled for and she’ll probably cheat on me, since promiscuous people are more likely to cheat and have a hindered ability to pair bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:18 AM
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When you’ve had enough women in your life repeat the same story and watch them go right back into these same situations, you start to question how much accountability they actually take in their decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:11 AM
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If the middle class guy wasn’t being settled for, he wouldn’t be a betabux. They spend their hoe phase getting plowed by chads, of course the average looking guy is being settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 02:10 AM
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Going from their sob stories, one could assume so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:33 AM
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The point is that they downplay physical attraction, especially when complaining about the things men (that they choose) don’t do. They amplify the importance of personality and rarely bring up the importance of appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 01:29 AM
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I never see it directed at actual incels, but you see it in comments on videos about them, and with the way people use it so liberally, even the less extreme guys are lumped in with these hateful psychos simply for having low success in dating. I could see why an unsuccessful guy becomes defensive about these incel comments when it’s used so much that even married men are called incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 11:49 PM
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And that’s understandable, nobody wants to be around someone that’s a constant downer. It becomes a self fulfilling cycle at that point, nobody wants to be around them so they become even more frustrated and angry. It doesn’t help when these men are used as punching bags and constantly get dragged through the mud simply for being virgins/unsuccessful. People will openly tell them that they deserve to suffer, that they deserve to hate themselves, and it only fuels their anger. Then when they go o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:46 PM
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Nobody’s denying men wouldn’t be different, the problem comes from women outright denying their shallow traits and labeling all men as shitty to justify their shallow traits. They try rationalizing it as a “safety issue,” while denying that they willingly choose toxic men for shallow reasons. If women would stop denying their shallowness, men wouldn’t have a reason to complain. Many men were raised on the idea that women don’t care as much about looks as men, that personality matters more than a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:38 PM
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But Ive also seen women who do know these things and still try claiming they were manipulated/lied to. That’s where the disdain for this type of thing comes from, because all the signs are right in front of their face, yet they keep going back.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:28 PM
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As for first time offenders, I cant say what qualities to look for in those guys. I wouldn’t consider myself incel since Ive had sex easily off the apps, I just never get commitment. I think the mistake these men make is that they see the type of men I just described having more success than them and are frustrated that these men can be so horrible, yet always have success no matter what. For these men, they have to put in twice the effort, sometimes triple the effort, to be good enough for thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:15 PM
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But what about the guys they don’t even have a conversation with? They’re assumed to be shitty just because they don’t have above average looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 09:04 PM
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But you just said all 10 of their options were shitty. Are you saying these women date all 10 of these options? Or do they just assume most are shitty and only date the hot ones? The data for dating apps sure seem to prove that’s what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:45 PM
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If he has multiple baby mamas and barely interacts with his kids, if he can’t hold a stable job, if he has a criminal record, etc. Not all of these are specifically for deadbeats, but these qualities overlap with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:33 PM
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Criminal records, stories from other women who have been with them, generally aggressive in nonaggressive settings, punching walls/throwing things when upset, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:31 PM
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Because the most attractive guys have the most success. If all their options are shitty and attractive guys have the most success, wouldn’t that mean they choose to ignore these shitty aspects for hot guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:27 PM
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You’re the one that said all their options were shitty, if that was the case then they’re obviously just picking the hottest shitty guy of the bunch, regardless of his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 06:57 PM
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No, it’s just common sense that deadbeat men are pieces of shit. Deadbeat men are dangerous and reckless, you wouldn’t put your hand in a bear cage and act shocked that you got bitten, so why would you let a deadbeat bust inside you then expect them to turn a new leaf and become a perfect father figure? And you’re ignoring the point, a good man WOULDN’T do those things, that’s why they’re a good man. Very rarely do toxic men actually hide their toxic traits, these women think they can change/fix…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:34 PM
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It doesnt make much sense to bash a group that’s universally seen as shitty. These men are going nowhere, it’s more mindful to avoid them than to just get with them anyway then play the clueless victim like the red flags weren’t blatant from the start. And a good man wouldn’t beat you, that’s the whole point of conflating between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:11 PM
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The fact you conflate deadbeats with all men just shows you’re too far gone. Plenty of men out there who wont beat the shit out of you and leave you as a single mother, they just don’t give you the same tingles a deadbeat chad does.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 05:05 PM
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No, what Im saying is deadbeats will always be a dangerous option. Women knowingly choose these men then expect sympathy when the guy turns his aggression towards them. That’s where the problem lies, they want to have their cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:55 PM
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So because they’re shitty anyway, they may as well pick the hot deadbeat? And y’all wonder why men don’t feel sorry for them lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:54 PM
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Women have more options than men. If they have 10+ men in their inbox and they just so happen to always pick shitty men, what do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:06 PM
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People don’t get mad at deadbeat men because deadbeat men are always going to exist. Knowing these men exist, why would a woman who presumably isn’t a deadbeat choose these men to father their children? That’s like hopping into a bear cage then being shocked that the bear treats you like a piece of meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:03 PM
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No, Im just pointing out how these claims that men are “deceitful” and only become friends for sex is more influenced by the way the guy looks than his actual actions. They’re offended this average/below average guy thought he had a chance with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:56 PM
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And there are some who develop feelings for their friend without even having ulterior motives, but they still get treated as a deceitful creep for developing feelings. It’s almost like it has nothing to do with only wanting sex and everything to do with their looks/status.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:52 PM
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No, they were born “well put together” and developed their social skills by not being constantly criticized for being “awkward/weird.” When Chad is awkward, it’s endearing, when some ugly beta guy is awkward, women feel the need to label them as a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:21 PM
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Meanwhile women openly complain about men who try being friends first then develop romantic feelings. If the numbers were so high, men wouldn’t be getting lambasted online for trying to be friends first.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:19 PM
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Then they should offer more to a man’s life than sex. Many of these women use sex as a way to manipulate men into doing what they want for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:16 PM
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Probably because women don’t need a strategy when they just exist and get dates simply for being born with a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:11 PM
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Lmao what do women do for men besides spend their money and emotionally manipulate them so they always get their way?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:09 PM
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Because they want superior men to treat them as their equal, above their own status.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:09 AM
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