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Shroomer14/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 03:52 PM
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Shroomer14/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 06:01 AM
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Yeah I just quit nicotine finally too. Just recorded a new song with a buddy as well.
/r/ExRedPill03/03/21 03:47 AM
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Look I’m just hurt right now, don’t fucking mind what I say right now. I’m going in patient soon, thanks for your kind input (not sarcastic).
/r/ExRedPill03/03/21 03:45 AM
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Yeah I realized I was the problem. I stopped acting like a schizoid and got out there. I will call women shallow because we’re all shallow, the number one determiner of attraction is looks, I’m no exception. Yeah I’m not ready for romantic relationships, because most people care for promiscuity nowadays. Anyways, talking to some hoe on snap now, I’m over her. But I’m not the one not ready for romantic relationships, I’m not the one who cheated. Yeah I’m the problem smh. I never said I genuinely …
/r/ExRedPill02/03/21 08:39 PM
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Stfu I have a bad relationship with my sisters and mom, and I got bullied by girls. Yes I hated women, but I’m rational enough to realize how my biases shaped what’s I believed to be true. Yeah one showed me affection, when none other did, so that one anecdotal experience changed my perspective. Well actually she just cheated on me so... Still don’t hate women tho.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/21 06:59 AM
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I mean, most relationships I’ve seen end are ones where the women breaks up and then coincidentally finds a guy right after.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 02:05 AM
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Most men are the same too... we’re all shit. Men just don’t have the opportunity to find a “better” partner in a relationship like women, cause we’d have to manage the relationship and searching for another. A girl could be in a relationship and then have a “better” guy come to them. Doesn’t make them has less moral value, just makes them have the opportunity. At least that’s the way I see it. I accidentally wrote are instead of arent in there my bad.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 01:23 AM
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Ik, it just hurts so bad man. Hurts your self worth and confidence, like “is he taller than me, hotter? Maybe cooler personality? What does he have that I don’t?” This just caused me to regress back into self harm and cigarettes but I’m back to nicotine gum and well half a day clean from self harm. Been hitting the gym. Maybe I just need to be alone for a while, just hurts while she’s happy with some other dude.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 11:32 PM
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Right. Hypergamy exists, I don’t hate anyone for it though, we’d all do the same.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 11:29 PM
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Just got cheated on. It fucking kills bro. Everything was fine she acted like we were all good then next thing I know there’s another dude. Just don’t commit too much till you know for sure she’s good, even then just keep in mind it’s a possibility. This is how people are.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 08:31 PM
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Yeah people need to realize just because we say a lot of girls are the same doesn’t mean a lot of men aren’t the same, it’s just that’s not relevant to us. Hypergamy is real for anyone who has options, which is typically more often women. My trust is shattered, I don’t know what some girl is going to have to tell me to make me feel think they really do love me. Cause this time, I had every sign and word of affirmation and yet she immediately left for another dude.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/21 04:04 PM
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Nah you good you just got me confused. Well ima drink it off now. Thanks for the kind words.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 10:20 PM
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Yeah lol. It applies to men too but only the ones that can. I think there’s a difference between being realistic and being red pilled.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 10:19 PM
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Bro she cheated on me bro. I’m mad at myself for being dumb but I didn’t do anything wrong wtf.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 09:21 PM
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I just feel like an idiot. And I’m off to a bad start with women. I don’t hate them, I hate everyone, we’re all shit.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 09:20 PM
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Lol the blame lies somewhere in the middle. Explain bro
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 06:08 PM
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Dude idk it’s hard not to feel like it’s me. I feel absolutely worthless. I meant so little to her that she went from 100 to zero with her. I’m nothing to her now, and perhaps always was. I’m done working out everyday, eating well, doing a shit ton of therapy, all just to waste money. I’m tired of doing anything anymore. This is how people are, and I’m no better.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 01:59 PM
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Also you’re contradicting yourself. You said it’s not that the next guy is better, and yet said he was more balanced. That is a way of being better. Being neurotic is undesirable. So by extension I am too, I need to accept this. As my mom said once, no girl wants a guy who came out of mental hospital.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 01:55 PM
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I’m just sad about it now. Makes you feel worthless for them to instantly change to a better dude. This didn’t happen slowly. Then night before she was sexting me about how much she wanted to fuck me and see me. The next day I got the news. She’s a hoe, she wanted to fuck me and validation from me she’s never gave shit about me and that’s the worst part. I already had trust issues about when girls or platonic relationships say they like me in any way, I doubt it, I think it’s some sort of game t…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 01:46 PM
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Dude I don’t know what was smart but any of what I did.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 01:26 PM
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I mean she literally was acting like she was wanting to fuck me and tell me how much she wanted to see me and how she missed me. Then instantly the next day she found a higher value dude and all attraction ended. I just feel utterly worthless.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 01:26 PM
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Yeah. I’m a dumb ass, it was nice to have someone to empathize with though.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 01:22 PM
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It just hurts really bad man. Like she knows I’m mentally ill (we met at treatment) and that I was going through a tough time. She could’ve at least had like a nice phone call and let it down easy (she did it knee text), and slowly show less interest. But no the night before she was sending me nudes and saying how she wants to fuck me. Then boom the next day she says there’s another guy, which she also didn’t have to mention. I’m just so fucked up rn. I still care about her for some dumb reason.…
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 06:35 AM
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My plan is working on my health and building mastery to gain confidence. Being bullied, having events that induced self loathing, and probably looksmax have really hurt my confidence. It’ll just take time.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/21 02:29 PM
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Wdym I just explained
/r/ExRedPill19/02/21 03:24 PM
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I was already a cynic but still saw some meaning. Now I’m total nihilist. I can only run from it. Doing things that seem meaningful help. Being with my girlfriend, making songs with my friends in the garage, doing the schoolwork that I find interesting, etc. And just improving my health by exercising and diet (doctors think I’m too worried about contamination though better safe than sorry imo). That’s how I cope.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/21 12:51 AM
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Made me feel like I was going insane and going to be trapped in a sort of purgatory with no escape. Was almost convinced I went to another world that was hell. Made me feel like attacked and stripped of those rose tinted glasses and any sort of hope or idealism. Made my existentialism go from wonder and curiosity to crippling nihilism.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/21 09:47 PM
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Yeah. The acid trip did cause genuine and I mean diagnosed PTSD. I’ve been sober for a few months except for my birthday party. Just not fun anymore.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/21 01:10 PM
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I’ve just realized it’s all about balance. A wise guy once told me “Don’t be a fucking incel, but don’t put on a pedestal either”. Basically treat them as equals lol.
/r/ExRedPill17/02/21 03:55 PM
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I can’t answer for TRD but here’s my opinion. I think it’s reasonable for both men and women to be weary of someone with a high body count in the context of dating (not just hookups). Because a high body count male is often a “fuck boi” or “player” and he’ll go to the next best thing, my best friend is like this and has cheated on every girlfriend because a hotter girl comes up and he leaves. Obviously it’s not impossible for these people not to cheat and be faithful but I’d say it’s less likely…
/r/ExRedPill17/02/21 02:45 PM
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Oh my bad. Dialectal Behavioral Therapy. You do it in a group setting, actually where I met her.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 05:30 PM
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I really fucking hated DBT and found it patronizing but one skill on there is really good: building mastery. That’s kinda what I’m doing with guitar. Nothing better to boost your self esteem than getting good at something.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 05:18 PM
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It’s been a long journey of forgiving myself. Still hate myself but I’ve stopped self harm. Time will heal. Thanks for your thoughts man.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 05:04 PM
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Of course I do, my perspective was just that women were extremely shallow and had extremely high standards. I also resented the fact that society acts like personality as a guy can get you the girl (cliche in movies, nerdy guy gets the girl) when in reality women care about looks a lot too. I also meant like shallow in general, meaning not vapid. And also I would’ve been fine with a far less attractive girl, I don’t feel I’m in any position to have high standards. And yes there is an element of …
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 04:38 PM
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Ik im sorry I got defensive. Word got out in highschool that I did acid (the trip traumatized me), I was called “acid kid” and it ruined my reputation. It gave me HPPD. I went over year of being sober because of how freaked out I was. Was such a hypochondriac about substances that I wouldn’t even drink caffeinated green tea. So I’m so fucking upset that when I got drunk (something I allow myself to do sometimes it was my birthday) my friends gave me a whippet. Anyways, drugs don’t even phase me …
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 03:32 PM
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?
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 02:42 PM
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I’ve kinda had body dysmorphia problems. I’ve been called Holocaust survivor due to my weight, idk why I just can’t put on any. I’m 5’9 but it’s like idk, I just don’t feel like a man especially with my narrow shoulders. Hell some girl told me at treatment “you’re not a man”. I’m working on these issues. I just feel utterly unattended and unworthy of my girlfriend. I’ve never talked to my therapist about this kind of stuff and I think I might mention it.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 05:13 AM
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Yeah that was kinda my point, that it’s wrong. Sorry.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 04:29 AM
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My relationships with my sisters is getting better too. Fortunately my misogyny has always been kept inside, always have had good relations (platonic) with female peers. But yeah all I can think about right now is her, she’s amazing.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 04:27 AM
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Feels good man, feels good
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 02:10 AM
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Well makes sense in my predicament
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 02:10 AM
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Dude I was shitfaced. Yeah well never go to the dentist then or you’ll become a vegetable. It’s bad but overblown. I did one balloon. I have my shit together, I’m a great student. She hasn’t even really drank, I stop smoking weed on the weekends, I’m trying to be a good dude.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 01:14 AM
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Bruh stfu bot
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 12:36 AM
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It’s a long story. Basically I have really bad hypochondria. The night before I partied for my birthday (which is Valentine’s Day actually) and I got really fucked up. Some friend had a whippit and being out of control I took a hit. The next morning I remembered and was freaking out thinking I fucked my brain. I calmed myself down and went to see her but I thought about it again and fucking panicked.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 12:35 AM
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Idk I’m still kinda black pilled but like idk, it’s just the resentment and the us and them mentally that is mostly dangerous. Black pill emphasizes looks, which honestly is true, looks are the number one initial attraction. But it’s just dangerous when it’s like, you have to be all of these or as they say, “it’s over” “rope”. So a lot of this is like common sense but made into a hateful ideology. And that’s what I’m trying to climb out of. Anyways, I’m glad I’m out of that. I’m tired of being s…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/21 12:33 AM
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Yeah I think that’s me, that’s why the whole hookup culture bothers me.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 11:04 PM
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Unfortunately I think that’s what it takes when society judges you for lack of experience.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 11:04 PM
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Yeah I kinda screwed up our date last night. I had a panic attack about something and that ruined our date. Tried to ignore it at first (at like the onset of the panic, not full blown) and be with her but i just couldn’t keep my cool. I told her what was going on but it ruined the date and now I’m left on read.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 11:03 PM
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Yeah, my nihilism just feeds it. Going to therapy for this kind of stuff and trying to get the meds figured out.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 10:35 PM
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Yeah mastery is great, started guitar last summer and might be starting a band, idk it would be shitty but fun. Oh also funny thing about the mental health treatment. At first it made me hate women so much more because multiple girls bullied me there.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 10:33 PM
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Yeah I guess.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 07:54 PM
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Yeah let’s just hope she tolerates my autistic behavior lol.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 07:39 PM
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Yeah it was mostly the black pill to be honest. I’ve also made more female friends. I’m not putting them on a pedestal, but maybe this one a bit. I’m very afraid of that outcome which is inevitable. Idk just sucks man, almost no one dates now, it’s all promiscuous, I’m like borderline asexual, I really don’t care for sex it unless it’s her cause I really want to please her. I only like it with people I care about. But I’m pretty black pilled and honestly it sucks cause I’m pretty insecure about …
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 07:38 PM
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Yeah it all works out.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 05:56 PM
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I feel like the biggest problem is guys failing to get any for whatever reasons. And from that, society shames them for being virgins (happened to me when I was one). This builds a huge resentment against society and women as a result.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/21 04:15 PM
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