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You want it to happen but are pretending like you don’t care. Opening Reddit and typing up this post just screams how you care about your virginity. You state how you have a line up of girls to hook up with but don’t know how hooking up happens. It just sounds like bullshit. To address your question, it is ok to be a virgin at any age. What is not okay is not being honest with yourself. You say you you have other shit to worry about but come here asking this sperg question. You want to lose your…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 08:56 PM
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Yea after he messages them constantly and "pings" them. Yikes
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 07:34 PM
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How is this a top post. This is a bad article.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 03:21 AM
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Oneitis is common. Don't sweat it, it happens. However the way your defining your self worth is disgusting. I understand you want women's attention. It's ok. But the way you are prioritizing women is fucking you up. Women are a supplement to life not a priority. Based on your description, you have a set path and work on yourself. Instead of letting a fat girl define your self worth, take ownership and define it yourself. You are dropping frame. Letting a women fluctuate your emotions just shows …
/r/askTRP14/01/20 02:13 AM
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I dont understand your question. You fuck her and talk to other girls. Or drop her and talk to other girls. I don't understand the issue. Read sidebar.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 11:07 AM
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You are being a fucking bitch. Wake up. At some point in time this girl was your oneitis. she was special and you decided that commiting to a ltr was a good idea. Girls like mystery. Most ltr fail because once the mystery is over and she knows more about you she gets bored, on to the next one. Now stop complaining. You are jealous. You have her bored out of her mind. And you are frustrated that she's not giving you attention like before. The only thing keeping her entitled with you is the title.…
/r/askTRP25/12/19 07:53 PM
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Stop the insults. He already acted upon. Just wait for the response and let him learn from his mistakes. At least he is taking some type of action, unlike 95% of this sub.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 06:36 PM
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Work out, focus on your career. Or make a career. Socialize when you can but don't focus on it. Once you get your shit together it's easier to carry yourself.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 06:30 AM
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Finances are extremely important. You shouldn't drop lifting. You do need a good diet to make the most out of lifting. Any lifting is better than no lifting!!!
/r/askTRP24/10/19 05:43 AM
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I began to do ice cream fitness program and its great. If I could go back to when I started I would give myself some advice. Stay consistent with the program. Take progress pictures NOW to see where youve gotten. Leave your ego at the door and focus on form before you start adding good weight. Don't stress it, it takes time. Relax and lift, the results will show.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 07:14 PM
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Lifting for average builds is not worth it???? BAHAHAHAHA
/r/askTRP26/08/19 11:54 PM
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I appreciate the feedback. This is definitely the answer I was looking for. Oneitis blinds you. It always sucks when you must let something away without claiming victory. But this is definitely the correct approach. One must continue to move forward at all times.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 08:01 AM
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I'm living a similar example. I've realized that the issue is worrying about getting results. The fact that you worry about getting results brings a needy personality. Your purpose to talking to girls is to plate. Talk to girls for fun. ALOT of girls. Don't take it seriously and keep focusing on your other goals. It gives the appearance as if you live in an abundance reality. The moment I would realize I was plating and would actually try to plate I would kill attraction instantly. Weird shit.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 09:30 PM
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I had questioned your comment, but you mentioned some very strong points. I respect your answer. If she was as into me as I described I wouldn't have this worry. You're right about digging my own grave. Before discovering the red pill I had a highschool crush on this girl but never did anything . I don't believe im obsessed with this girl. But more of the idea of proving that after trp I can get this girl. I'm a competitive person. Leaving this situation without getting rejected or fucking seems…
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:43 AM
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This girl could be leading to oneitis. However just because I failed to kiss close on the second date dosent mean I failed and built oneitis. I struggled to escalate quicker. Shes attractive. She went out twice. And shows several IOI's. Shes obviously intrested, third time is a charm.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 06:21 AM
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I had a similar experience. She had a boyfriend. Do you mind sharing your thoughts on this. Are women with beta boyfriends more needy for sex? Is this due to a shitty boyfriend or is it just the woman's way of being? Edit: great job and observation! Enjoyed the read.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 12:44 AM
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That was the response because of the way you worded your text. There was no need to say "so when are we gonna fuck". Not only do you seem needy but you are writing the text as a question. You must be assertive and escalate in person. You should've said "Im going to go xxx tommorow, come along". In person you escalate and lead to the "fuck"....
/r/askTRP17/08/19 03:25 AM
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How would you respond if she is busy that day but free the next?
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 11:08 AM
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Seems like your frustrated that things aren’t the way you want them to. Do something about it, girls won’t always be easy. You have to approach many women, escalate and assume attraction. I know your frustration but eventually you’ll get better. Look up the law of averages.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 09:36 AM
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If you eat at home it can be hard getting a caloric surplus. I'm vegetarian and avoid junk food and I have to constantly think about eating more as it is something I have to put effort into.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 06:35 PM
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I agree with this. However you also have to be conscious as to were to stop building comfort. Too much comfort kills tension. Tension is good.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 09:19 AM
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Agree and Amplify. Flavor of chips is a very simple and absurd topic. As long as you keep your opinion stable and say the stupidest thing to back it up your solid.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 09:15 AM
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The red pill never says that you should improve your life for the purpose of getting your dick wet... Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP05/08/19 12:35 AM
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I second this. If you had used texting for logistics only it wouldve been different. This is an unescessary problem you came across because of misuse of text.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 12:34 AM
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There is no right or wrong way. Giving your number does a very strict filter. It filters all girls that weren't intrested enough AND the girls that are intrested but timid to reach out. If you get their number your not filtering out the girls that are timid. Up to you really.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 12:31 AM
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When I started I began doing ice cream fitness. It's been working miracles with me. Went from a 75lbs Bench to a 205lbs Bench. Give it a shot. As long as you stay consistent, have a caloric surplus and have progressive overload you'll grow.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 12:29 AM
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Bulk until you hate the way your body looks, and cut until you hate your strength.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 12:27 AM
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I'm not trying to show that I don't have time. Just that I'm not intrested in texting. Not intresting for me. That's not my purpose nor priority.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 12:19 AM
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I try to run in this mentality which is why I didn't set up a second date. I would mention ideas of fun shit she hadn't experienced to get her thinking. The majority of the time I do this and she ends up messaging me. I give her a bomb first date and forget and she comes back. However on this case where she messaged me after first, I get the feeling that this girl dosent have the courage to message me after that message. What would be your approach?
/r/askTRP04/08/19 11:41 PM
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Great advice, I had some idea of this. During the date I would bring up ideas of what we could do "next time" as if I was suggesting there was going to be a second. Both being students and it being summer the schedules are very flexible. I didn't want to set up an exact next date on the first date as I thought it would be needy and I didn't know what day I would be free. Is messaging her spontaneously and inviting her ineffective?
/r/askTRP04/08/19 11:09 PM
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Youre only starting, you look great for only 2 months of progress. You gained 17 pounds in a month. That is a lot. Count your calories for a month to get an idea of how much you eat. No matter how big you get there will always be something you wish was bigger. I'm vegetarian and managed to pull it off for 2 years now. It's all time, don't lose motivation. It's working keep it up.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 02:18 AM
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How long have you been lifting? How old are you? Many people over complicate lifting. All you should focus on is having a caloric surplus, progressive overload and consistency. Trust me on this one If you follow those 3 fundamentals there is no going back. Stop worrying about the results and trust the process. Your shoulders look great, you look fit. Keep it up. Youre worrying too much.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 02:10 AM
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Yea avoid texting. Use it only for logistics. Texting kills attraction. Setup a date, lock it, and escalate. Based on the context it'll be a breeze. Good luck.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 02:04 AM
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It seems she is trying to trying to play hard to not seem easy. Your response was unnecessary and confusing. Yet she responded positively and leaving you in a maybe. This whole conversation seems like she is the prize. Switch it up, don't forget you are the prize.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 01:55 AM
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Lift. Abundance. Self validation.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 01:42 AM
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That dosent look like newbie nerves to me. It's just a simple text to seem she won't go off that easy. The simple "I'm going to [place] this [day], come along " should do the job. Shes intrested if she wants it she'll take the offer. If she dosent take it just forget about her for a weekish and ask her out once more. If you fail move on.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 01:39 AM
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This is vital. When I was improving from a beta to trp and I began getting results I was flattered with compliments from girls and envy from my friends that I thought I had "made it" it makes you not find a need to try no more. It can be dangerous watch out and keep improving. Don't get fooled, There isn't a finish line.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/19 08:30 AM
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You: Hey I'm insert name nice to meet you! What's your name? Her: my name is insert name You: cool, that's my mom's name It usually builds rapport as we have something in common already as if we are meant to be. But if she asks "no way really?" I respond with no I'm just kidding and move on. I usually get a laugh from her which also builds rapport.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 02:07 AM
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How old are you? Im 17 and 5'5 aswell. FeelsBadMan ;(
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 01:53 AM
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What is short to you? What height and below is considered "short"
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 01:21 AM
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I'm 17 and my hight really brings me down. Im not in college yet but I'm really afraid that will prevent me from having game.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 12:01 AM
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Yes please, I'm only 5,5 leave some short girls for me.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 11:22 PM
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As short as I can say it, the "friendzone" only happens when you don't make your intentions clear enough. Make it clear that your not looking for a friend but something further. If she dosent react well, move on, she wasn't the one. A huge misconception is that your not the only one looking for an attractive girl to sleep with. Girls dream of sleeping with the perfect guy. Don't forget your the prize as well. So if you set your standards and make your intentions clear you will ultimately avoid t…
/r/seduction25/06/18 11:19 AM
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I dont fully comprehend the ideologies of the red pill. Sounds like you guys believe men are superior. and you need to be a full on champ to get bitches. Can you fix my perspective of the red pill plz.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 12:01 AM
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Yes thank you. It took me 16 years to finally realize this.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 03:08 PM
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Uhhh I even stated it was a shit post because of that I just typed whatever was going through my head. To be honest I haven't even read the complete post myself so of course it will have grammer errors. And everyone keeps saying I'm a pussy because I texted her. How the fuck was I supposed to talk to her again if I never see her in person NEVER! She's not very far but after she moved our paths don't interfere. And no I did not ask her out because even though I felt something for her I didn't kno…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 03:06 PM
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Yea like somebody said "its more about becoming the better version of yourself." There is no such thing as being normal. Because everyone is normal. You are you and no matter what you do the beautiful thing is that your yourself. And yea you should definately approach her. Its not like there is any romantic relationship now and if she happens to say no its not like anything changed. Just remember that a no is not something against you.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 05:28 AM
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Hahaha I can still remember back when I was 14 I would not be able to sleep to the idea that this is all a game like the sims and we coild be unplugged at any moment hahaha.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 04:52 AM
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Thanks just like any other post ive been getting compliments and hate. I really appreciate your reply. I dont think people understand that I'm still under 18. They hate but they dont realize happiness is the best thing you can get out of this crazy ride. I know this post might disagree with the red pill but this mentality worked for me and made me reach a peak in happiness. I thought maybe others can pick something up from this. Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 04:48 AM
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Idk what your talking about. I wrote this post to show how I boosted my confidence. Having the mentality that everyone is perfect allows you to see everyone as equal. Your not better than her nor is he better than you. You are both perfect because you are yourself. I find myself approaching all girls now because we are all playing this same game. I do hit tje gym. But most importantly I give less fucks of what people think of me because I realized people dont care as much as they think they do. …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 04:40 AM
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I disagree, a couple beers should do the job. Haha. No but seriously your right. Ever since i tried to implement this mentality a "no" dosent feel that harsh. I've realized its not against me its not that I'm not good enough. However hell yea there is always anxiety when approaching that girl you have been thinking of all day.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 02:35 AM
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Yes I completely agree that you should always keep going forward amd taking daily steps to become a better person. But only of it comes from your will. I believe trying to get fit to impress that girl your into is not an optimum decision. Becoming fit should be something that comes from your own will. I feel that happiness comes at accepting who you are.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 01:32 AM
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Yes we are all extremely significant and at the end of the day it only matters if you enjoyed the fucking wild adventure. It wont matter if your crush thought you were cool. The only thing that matters is if you were happy.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 11:36 PM
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I was just typing what came through my mind. The tl;dr summarizes the main points
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 11:24 PM
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Yes thank you I agree to this. Ive only used my own advice once when it comes to girls and its been working fairly well. A new girl sat next to me, I used this mentality and started the conversation in person. She catched on pretty quick and now she is the one that starts the talks when I sit down. But then again being with her is not something I have planned in my future. I truly enjoy talking to her and it makes me happy. Then again another example is the gym I used to be afraid to go to the g…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 11:10 PM
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Exactly, thanks for picking up the point!
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 10:57 PM
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I never really said I agreed with the red pill theory couldnt find a habitat for this post so posted here. Haha if you think its cringe because it dosent relate to the red pill, I dont care haha. I'm very happy right now which in my opinion is the only thing that matters in life . Pronanly happier than you. But if you think you can male me happier go ahead and convince me.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 10:40 PM
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The amount of dislikes is just as crazy as the amount of likes. If you disagree with this please reply to this comment as to how you disagree. I love criticism it just leads to sharper points.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 10:14 PM
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I cant quite understand the cringe. My existential crisi happened way back. This is not the first girl I text in my entire life. I just realized how nobody cares as much as you think they do. I realized I am perfect the way I am and every girl is perfect as well. But rejection dosent mean I'm disgusting or an idiot it just means I'm not part of her plans. What makes this so cringe?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 10:03 PM
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Yes thank you. I actually go to the gym as well. I was not very strong and most people in the gym were rather muscle I was again worroed people would laugh or reject me. No one even bothered to look at me everyone minds their own business and no one cared about me. It really helped me realize no won cares as much as I think I do. That time I couldnt lift a plate was just in MY head no one else remembers.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 09:54 PM
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Yes I was looking for validation, I wanted to hear her tell me I'm beautiful, I'm the most perfect human being. But I learned it dosent really matter. I'm perfect the way I am. If someone dosent like me it dosent mean one of us is imperfect it just means they werent planning to have me in their life.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 09:48 PM
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What do you mean an excuse? Excuse to not talk to woman? If I'm myself ill still talk to woman but I will first worry about being happy myself.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 09:37 PM
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Yes your completely right I was trying to make her say "your perfect i really like you be with me forever" but she made me realize I dont need that. Life is short girls come and go. But as long as I know I'm perfect and realize no matter what I do I'm perfect thats all I need. Happiness is bliss. I learned that everyone wants happiness. I can guarantee girls are attracted to guys that are always happy in comparison to guys that are always sad and unhappy.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 09:35 PM
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Yes romantic fantasies are dangerous they usually tend to end up in sad times and makes rejection harder. But I just realized women come and go. Its good talking to her because life is short and if it works out great if it doesn't WHO cares move on there are too many women out there as long as your happy your winning.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 09:29 PM
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Yea I totally understand were you are coming from. I actually do work out one hour a day and I'm still a student. I have a job. You could say it was a pussy decision to drop the attempt after being left on seen. But I didnt tell the full story. Before the party I messaged her and I was left on seen. I decided to double dm and she did answer but it wasnt the same. She had changed I had changed. I was trying way too hard to rebuild the relationship but it was just me asking questions and carrying …
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 08:28 PM
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Thanks! I appreciate the feedback! Wasnt very sure if posting. I just spaced out and wrote my mind out. I wasnt sure if it was a shit post. I really appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 07:49 PM
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Thanks I'm glad you enjoyed it, I've been llenjoyin life with this new mentality and thought some people might like reading this shit post. Can you give me some feedback as to what you did and didnt like about the post.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 07:07 PM
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I never really talked how Olivia's story relates to this post. She helped me conclude that time flies, life is very significant but extremely insignificant at the same time. One day I was eating next to her and the next I was struggling to talk to her. It didnt really matter she never answered my message, the fact she took some of her precious time to answer my couple of messages made me smile enough. She was not right for my and that completely fine. she made me realize nobody really cares abou…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 07:01 PM
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