Shyseaninabox Archive

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3	[Advanced guys] Have you ever felt guilty because you didn't having feelings for a girl? It's tough. You're expected to justify it. I had a woman I was seeing for 3 months, super cool, funny etc. Just didn't fall for her. Sex wasn't that great, as the physical attraction wasn't quite there. At the end of the day I had to cut it off completely for her sake. Zero contact. It was what was best for her, and for me. You can't feel guilty though, connections can't generally be manufactured.	/r/seduction	16/08/16 06:13 AM
1	Having trouble finding fulfillment in my life outside of women. Glad I could help! Inexorably, ENFJs rely on connections. Basically the strength/intensity of those connections give us life, we feed off them and gain energy from them. It can be exhausting for a partner. Essentially to counter this, we need to be constantly improving ourselves, reaching consistent if low level acts of self actualisation to stimulate the buzz/energy we need (in our self esteem) instead of from a partner/person. Even in a relationship we can't be lazy, and need to work hard at t…	/r/seduction	29/07/14 02:28 AM
2	Having trouble finding fulfillment in my life outside of women. You sound like an ENFJ on the Myer Briggs. Research the shit out of it. If you are indeed an ENFJ, self actualisation is uber important in regard to your issue. Hope it helps mate!	/r/seduction	28/07/14 11:43 AM