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| 1 | 22 M conversational skills lackingHow to Win Friends and Influence People. | /r/seduction | 15/08/15 04:57 PM |
| 1 | 50 Takeaways from ModelsMeditation is turning the mirror towards yourself. You watch your thoughts objectively, without identifying with them, then let them pass just as they came. Detach from paradigms, social programming, influence from others, giving a fuck, and fear. Cut the mental clutter and sharpen the mind through conscious thought. Read critically. Write consciously. Speak clearly. Tell your truth. The universe is change. Be an agent of it. | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 09:45 PM |
| 7 | Stop Calling Them Shit Tests: A Real Guide to Passing Any Test a Woman Gives YouA lot of guys are missing the point while arguing the semantics inside the OP. It's great entry level advice written from an experienced individual. Read critically to understand the Why. Disregard the What. | /r/seduction | 29/07/15 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Women don't want to BE the adventure.Focus on being a superior man in life. The rest... Only details for your primary mission. | /r/seduction | 05/07/15 06:52 PM |
| 1 | The best way to boost your inner game every day.Take a cold shower to wake up too. The colder the better. | /r/seduction | 01/07/15 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Is this a shit test? How would you have responded?"You're hot. I'm hot. Lets be hot together and grab a drink." | /r/seduction | 13/06/15 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Not in the side bar so I thought I'd just ask- Best books about pickup?The 4 Elements of Game by Robb Judge. | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 03:44 PM |
| 1 | I have a boyfriend syndromeGreat summarization of the truth. | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Approaching girls who MIGHT have a boyfriend?To answer the title, because honestly everything else after that is just rationalization and trying too fucking hard, every woman might have a boyfriend. They also may come with these features as well: possibly married, lesbian, grieving a loved one or their dog or their cereal tasting bad, on their period and in a fit, not in the mood to talk, has two boyfriends at the same time, or may just want someone to say "Hello, I'm SixxEros. What's up stranger?" The point is just go find out and don't p… | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Mark Manson readers, how many of you write?I journal every day and have been doing it for years before I read models. I find that it works best if you do it consistently. Every day, write down at least one original thought and expand on it until you're satisfied. | /r/seduction | 31/03/15 07:19 PM |
| 6 | PSA, or: what I wish I could have read as an 18 year old reading this shitHighly recommend The Way of the Superior Man and Models as complementary reading to expand on the lessons OP touched on. | /r/seduction | 26/03/15 01:53 AM |
| 2 | When a girl is very aggressively approaching you first, isn't that a sign of some emotional issues she has?No. She is simply very forward | /r/seduction | 22/03/15 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Where to talk to girls?Define your ideal demographic and then find where that group enjoys hanging out. | /r/seduction | 22/03/15 07:34 AM |
| 1 | How do I invite myself into a girls house after a date?You leave opportunities for them to invite you in. | /r/seduction | 22/03/15 07:33 AM |
| 3 | I need an opinion on making eye contact with women.This is all pseudo science but fuck it. 2 seconds or less, not interested. 3 seconds she's interested and confident in herself. Anything longer and it's time to get a condom. This is only from my own experience. | /r/seduction | 12/02/15 02:31 PM |
| 1 | When I was younger and more insecure, I would break eye contact immediately when an attractive girl looked back at me. Now, how do I tell if a girl I'm checking out isn't interested, vs nervous and shy and just afraid to make eye contact?Women will make eye contact with you when they want to show desire. They will also go out of their way to try and get it. Whether that is walking past you a few extra times, playing with her hair only when you're looking in the general direction, or blatantly staring... If they want to make eye contact they will. | /r/seduction | 12/02/15 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't I attractive to the girls I WANT?In short, it's because you give a fuck that they like you or not. I'm sure some other guys will fill in all the details after that. | /r/seduction | 07/01/15 02:42 PM |
| 24 | Those who opted out of social media, how's it going for you? How has it changed your dating/social life?Like I tell every woman I've ever dated that asked why I didn't use Facebook... "Life with Facebook is an 8 at best that slowly degenerates the more one cares about updates, likes, shares, and comments. Life without Facebook... A 10. Why? I keep my circle close and the only people who matter to me are those that actually use my number." In college I wrote several papers on the negative effects of social media. Depression, anxiety, external validation-seeking behavior, and neurosis all have conne… | /r/seduction | 06/01/15 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Will boot camps help with social avoidance and anxiety? if so which of all the boot camps is right?The best boot camp you can go through is to walk out in public, take a deep breath, and go start conversations with strangers. Whether it's walking toward a woman or commenting on what a guy is doing, all conversations are practice. | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 03:26 PM |
| -1 | Is it a bad idea to date women with low self esteem?Duh and or obviously. | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 02:48 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to a girl apologizing?Don't say it in your voice. First sentence and second tell my mood and set the tone. Second, puts the onus on her. Third, sets a timeline and fourth that we'll get together but I'm in no rush. Been doing this for years, kid. | /r/seduction | 23/12/14 02:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to a girl apologizing?Conversational gold. Think outside your box. | /r/seduction | 23/12/14 12:55 PM |
| 1 | How should I, as a complete beginner, deal with the fact that if I screw up I could hurt someone else?Lol you're not that important bro. | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 11:57 PM |
| 1 | How do I get a girl to be a Friend with Benefits?You don't convince anyone. You speak your intention to only be fwb and that you're comfortable with things staying casual. Assume they're seeing other men and ask that safe sex is practiced or its friends only. If they're not down for that then you friend zone them and focus your sexual energies elsewhere. | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 11:54 PM |
| 1 | What kind of bodytype do you think has the most success with women?The walking tripod. | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Provoking meaningful conversation"What are you doing to break your routine today?" | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Her: You aren't the only guy that I've gone on dates with or possibly will be going on dates with.Personally, I'd just keep her number and relegate her to booty call status. To answer your question my response to that statement is "Me too, babe" and nothing else. | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Getting Ex-Diva back? (Seducing her?)Forget about the past. That's the first part. Acknowledge that the woman who shows up to grab a beer with you may be polar opposite of "your slut." Go there with zero expectations, especially sexually, and keep only one goal in mind: discovering who she is NOW. Not to see if you can "get it all back." Second, if sex is in the script it's not going to happen with you fretting over it like a little boy who just got his first nut during his sleep. Treat it like discovering an old friend and focus o… | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Can you reverse the process of escalation?Research push pull. What you're asking is the physical piece to it. | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 11:38 PM |
| -1 | What are your favorite openers?Hey. Beautiful day out. What you getting into? | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Jason Capital on never running out of things to sayThe dude comes off very fabricated. | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 11:36 PM |
| 0 | Going out solo for the first time.. What are some rookie mistakes to avoid?Rule 6: Don't be a bitch. No phone calls, no texts, no crutches. Leave the drink and go somewhere with more than just a dance floor and alcohol. Pool tables, arcade games, whatever. One activity you may find beneficial... Go to a bar with a view. Stand outside and take in the city life. You went to that bar to enjoy the sounds of the nightlife and to find an adventure. As you look around at your environment, if there is an attractive woman, you must speak to them within 5 seconds. Don't rush as … | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 11:31 PM |
| 3 | How to tell if waitress at bar is legitimately interested.Just ask her. "So are these the tricks you use to fill the karma jar or is it my charm? Before I get your number curious minds want to know" | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 11:19 PM |
| 1 | How to MAINTAIN Confidence? Mine constantly fluctuatesCreate physical anchors. I have two major ones I use throughout my day. First, I rub my thumb and forefinger together and remember times I've been in pure ecstasy (125+ on my bike, skydiving, military triumphs, powerlidtimg success, etc). It always brings me back to my center. Another is a breathing meditation that has astounding and immediate effects. Essentially, I do ab vacuums and force extremely deep inhalations and exhalation while standing against a wall. I feel my posture settle into per… | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Trouble closing the dealBreathe deep. Then go for it. Something like... "So after this I'm headed to X. If you're down for an adventure that probably ends with a few drinks and even fewer clothes... Simply take my hand and clear your schedule." | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 11:12 PM |
| -1 | How do you respond to a girl apologizing?"Stuff your sorries in a sack, girl! Haha all good, just make it up to me whenever. Hmu later this week. We'll make plans." | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 11:08 PM |
| 1 | What is your number? [Rant]I love this question. "Somewhere between none and the one." Don't over think it or let it trip your ego up. Remember, partners are just like age.. Nothing but a number. Respect to Aaliyah. | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 11:01 PM |
| 1 | How to get a cashiers number when you can't pick the till?I'm assuming that you'd be able to walk over when you're finished with your register. Ask whoever for a receipt paper to jot your number down. Write.. Name, number, description (cute guy with the beard). Walk over to the register girl and say "Hey, I'm SixxEros. I'm about to leave but wanted to make sure you had your receipt. Hit me up." Don't forget to smile and act as if this is just a normal day. | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 10:58 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Had a fun night with a crazy girl, but need advice on closing.Thanks bro. It's an organic response showing exactly how I'd handle this situation. A woman like that in the bar is acting that way for one of two reasons... She just wants attention OR she is looking for the man who knows how to handle her and this is the only way she knows how to filter the boys out. Nonsense gets no-nonsense to reframe the interaction and put the ball back in my court. Want to play games? Cool. It was cute for a minute and for now you have my interest... (Who doesn't love a g… | /r/seduction | 20/12/14 11:56 PM |
| 46 | [FR] Had a fun night with a crazy girl, but need advice on closing.After the lip bite... "That's going on your tab." whatever her response is yours is... There's only one way to clear it. Cash, Visa, or full frontal nudity. I choose full frontal, thanks. When she asks what you want... I want two things. I want to wake up tomorrow morning and repeat what I'm about to do tonight. Two, for you to finish your drink and get out of here with me because we have a tab to clear. Let's go. Over the top women respond best to cooler than ice men who treat these women like … | /r/seduction | 20/12/14 06:39 PM |
| 1 | One of my confidence tricks.Read 7 Habits of Highly Effective people. It will help you develop your mantra and develop an even stronger sense of self. | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 03:17 PM |
| 10 | Going out alone sucks! - Find A Wingman In Your CityFuck that. Own yourself. Go out solo, find new spots you want to experience, and invite attractive women you find to join you in your adventure. You don't need another dick nearby to help you be an attractive man. Unless that's your thing then go for it. | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 01:09 PM |
| 1 | What is the most impressive seduction you have seen with your own eyes/know about? Did you learn anything from it?See what you just did there? You say you're going to try... then you validate externally why you may be able to get there... and then you give yourself the door to walk right the fuck out if you fail. From now on, stop that thought pattern at "I will try" and mentally bitch slap yourself whenever you attach your personal worth to an external source. I know nothing of your life situation except what you've already told me. Yet, I know there are qualities to your character that make you the most b… | /r/seduction | 09/12/14 02:26 PM |
| 1 | What is the most impressive seduction you have seen with your own eyes/know about? Did you learn anything from it?Believe what you want. No difference to me. | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 04:28 PM |
| -2 | What is the most impressive seduction you have seen with your own eyes/know about? Did you learn anything from it?Little column A, little column B. Keep in mind before I became confident I received zero attention. Frame of mind is KEY. The whole story is too long to type before I leave for work but here's the quick and nasty. It started with a friend mentioning his sisters friend was coming into town with her team for a local qualifier. They needed a gym to work out at and since I ran my own personal trainer gig outside of military hours, I offered to help. Found a gym, coordinated with their coach, and set… | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 03:47 PM |
| -5 | What is the most impressive seduction you have seen with your own eyes/know about? Did you learn anything from it?The most impressive seduction I know of is my personal best. Hooked up with half the team of an Olympic-hopeful figure skating team in one night. | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Best way to respond to "you're going to have to work harder than that" when asking for a girl's number?"Lol, I'm off the clock. Nice try though." | /r/seduction | 29/11/14 04:20 AM |
| 1 | I'm abstaining from watching or reading seduction-related self development content until I get laid, and perhaps you should too...Don't think so deeply. A woman is a woman. Remember, at least once a month they go temporarily crazy and won't make any sense... Even to themselves. The sane ones are those who admit it. A woman's perceived hotness matters fuck all, bro. We're all on the same level... One person making their stake in life talking to another doing the same. The different paths we take and viewpoints we see are just perspectives of the same tale called existence. What's more awesome than going up to an attractive … | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 06:33 AM |
| 0 | How do you guys Kiss Close on dates?Create a fun vibe build attraction and then... Stop. Look her in the eyes and at her lips and tell her you "got lost in her beauty." Then you say... "Come here" and kiss. Voila | /r/seduction | 23/11/14 01:20 AM |
| 1 | I'm abstaining from watching or reading seduction-related self development content until I get laid, and perhaps you should too...I picked them up in various places. Bars, libraries, the park while shooting hoops.. Shit I remember one girl who was at the gas station. Her jaw dropped so I walk over and tell her it's my birthday and she's my gift. Wrote down my number, told her to call me, then headed to my next appointment. 3 days later I had a 9/10 who rocked a fucking corset and loved it when I picked her up above my head. My logistics were shit. I had zero friends. No life outside of trying to hit the ground running afte… | /r/seduction | 22/11/14 08:33 AM |
| 8 | Girls Displaying Subconscious KinoIf you're speaking with a woman and there's physical contact then.... Act as if. Act as if she touched your forearm because she is throwing subtle cues. Act as if footsy was on purpose and she's trying to get your attention. "Hey, I'm trying to learn over here. smile Write your number down. We'll continue this conversation later." If you're speaking and she touches herself... Act as if it's from your words and mannerism. Assume that you are an attractive man who causes reactions in women. Assume… | /r/seduction | 21/11/14 02:24 PM |
| 6 | I'm abstaining from watching or reading seduction-related self development content until I get laid, and perhaps you should too...Years ago I was in a similar situation. I found myself reading, perfecting, critiquing, and then applying... Very little. To fix this I gave myself a small, simple, set of rules. If I see someone attractive and and want to know what she's like I MUST answer the question through personal interaction. No expectations. No judgements. No boundaries. Always push the interaction forward. Open - build rapport - find commonality - contact info - date/activity - bed - set future date anticipation - repea… | /r/seduction | 21/11/14 02:03 PM |
| 1 | I'm abstaining from watching or reading seduction-related self development content until I get laid, and perhaps you should too...Living with your parents is not an excuse. I lived in my parents garage for a few months after I got back from the army. Had a small love seat I brought back from New York and hooked up with women no problem. It's not the situation. It's how you frame it. Make your reality the strongest reality in your existence. | /r/seduction | 21/11/14 01:52 PM |
| 0 | Can someone PLEASE help me with kinoThink of kino like the climax during one piece of a story. Romantic connotations or otherwise, the moment touch is initiated you have momentarily connected with this other human being. So, allow me to tell you a story. You hear a car pull into your driveway. The following slam of the door tells you your date is nearly at the door. Ding-Dong. You open the door, smiling, happy to see this beautiful woman. You welcome her inside and shut the door behind. You need just a minute to put your shoes on … | /r/seduction | 19/11/14 08:03 AM |
| 6 | What are some good open-ended questions to ask a girl you've just met?"You interest me... Tell me more." Said with slight smile, eyes on theirs, expectant of an answer. Better than any open ended questions. Leads the conversation and sets the tone of you as a leader and a man. Questions follow... Statements lead. | /r/seduction | 17/11/14 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Anyone here who *didn't* grow up being social and mingling with girls (i.e. hard-mode seduction)?Fifty shades of Grey. Aristotle. Plato. Nietchze. 48 Laws of Power. Tao te ching. On killing. Psychopath test. The gunslinger series. The 4 E-G method. Spiritual books on chakras, lucid dreaming and how to induce it's occurrence... Regularly. Autobiographies from our greats in history. The game. Art of seduction. The stand. Of mice and men. Sperm wars. Fight Club. American psycho. Arnold's encyclopedia of bodybuilding. Watership down. Biology 101. A comprehensive anatomy and physiology book. The… | /r/seduction | 14/11/14 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here who *didn't* grow up being social and mingling with girls (i.e. hard-mode seduction)?I was an antisocial ass hole that had zero confidence and even fewer social skills. I am a dangerously beautiful man and as I grew older this helped me get women insofar as the first conversation. After that things would tank. The seduction community helped me make leaps and bounds to being a better man in all aspects however it contributed the least. I found my success reading other areas of study and applying those principles to the flow that early seduction gurus posited as the most efficient… | /r/seduction | 10/11/14 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Phone number management? 10 numbers in ONE night. How do yall remember? Whats your phone number management system?After you get the number call them so they have yours... Protip: Take a selfie with then and set it as contact photo. Silly, sexy, mean face, whatever. | /r/seduction | 30/10/14 03:32 PM |
| 6 | Need help changing my perceptionYour reputation is only at stake if you give a shit what people have to say. Focusing on the what if, hypothetical, bullshit is a waste of time. No one cares about you or how many women you walk up to talk to. Period. Now, if you walk up every time with the intention of simply getting a number of trying to bang the girl.. And you fail often... Then yes you may "feel" like you have a bad rep. It doesn't matter though because unless you are a serious creep or asshole these women won't even remembe… | /r/seduction | 30/10/14 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone ACTUALLY seen the kind of results they want?Yes. I went from having no dates or attractive female friends to dating the hottest women you've ever seen. Did the dating/hookup thing for a while, got bored, and eventually turned to online dating, and found a 10/10 in allu aspects. We've been married almost 4 years now and she gets hotter by the year. Some food for thought: If you apply what you learn with a sole intent of getting women then you will hit a wall. Sooner or later, using women as a barometer of your personal success will only le… | /r/seduction | 30/10/14 03:03 PM |
| 2 | The Origins Of A Strong Identity And How To Recreate Yourself in 7 PhasesIt's not a "bad" article... very superfluous and expands simple concepts into redundant repeats. I take issue with some of the suggestions to perceive the world. Watch out for pitfalls? Wrong. Plan for success and you will have it. Focusing on avoidance of pitfalls or awkward situations only reinforces their impact and merit. Plan for success. So nice you gotta say it twice. | /r/seduction | 15/10/14 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Contraverstial amounts of eye contact.If you hold it continuously it makes people uncomfortable. It's harder to hold a person's gaze while talking than while listening. | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 02:31 PM |
| 1 | How I feel when im aware and blocking shit testsImagine your mind as a bubble to be viewed from without. In this bubble are all of your minds thoughts. At any given moment your focus is either inside the bubble or looking at it as a scientist to an experiment. You may take away thoughts that do not make you happy. In their place you may fill it with positive images and thought patterns. The deciding factor of what this bubble contains is your ego and your ability to separate yourself from it. Bubbles are naturally fragile so constant awarenes… | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 03:09 AM |
| 37 | How I feel when im aware and blocking shit testsTake it a step further and become like that to your own minds bullshit tests and thought patterns. Go deeper into the rabbit hole. | /r/seduction | 11/08/14 05:55 PM |
| 1 | So, what do you guys do in your free time? Hobbies/Passions/LifestyleWhen I'm not being a superhero I like to push my body and mind's limits. Motorcycle trips Weight training Yoga Learning the guitar Creating music in the studio Basketball Sky diving Rock climbing Smoking a fuck load of blunts Writing introspective pieces Teaching my son all that he needs to know to be a man Teaching myself a second language Reading science fiction Battlefield 4 NBA 2k14 Work hard play hard. Truck don't stop. | /r/seduction | 29/07/14 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Approaching groups, any good ways to do it?Think of it this way. What does it matter if it's one or two or ten? The situation is the same - new people, new conversation. The odds get much better with the more girls around. There's more opportunity for your jokes to hit, girls to be interested in the new guy, and if you can hold all of their attention someone is fucking you that night. Try this opener: hey girls whats up? I have a question that needs some fresh perspective. What do you think is more romantic: 1) laying on the beach with s… | /r/seduction | 29/07/14 02:52 AM |
| 1 | How do I exit after a # close?This conversation was a beautiful detour to a busy day which I must get back to. Well set up plans tomorrow. I'll hit you up | /r/seduction | 29/07/14 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Should you open up on first dates/first coffee with a girl? Is it attractive?Yes. Telling stories that show a deeper piece of your personality create sparks of genuine attraction. | /r/seduction | 29/07/14 02:38 AM |
| 16 | So, lets say all your contact stopped for about 2 months with a girl whom you were close with. How do you continue next time you start meeting again?"Hey stranger" | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Should you add tinder girls on snapchat before you even meet?Video chat is a great bullshit filter before ever meeting up | /r/seduction | 20/06/14 10:29 PM |
| 0 | Always initiating the conversation first? (Text Game)It doesn't mean anything. I've always initiated the texting with pretty much every girl I've dated. Focus more on transitioning from text buddies to fuck buddies (IRL). | /r/seduction | 18/06/14 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Picking up Customers?my general rule is never to fuck where I work. Things could go south and it's better to have zero drama than the possibility of zero drama. | /r/seduction | 14/06/14 10:25 PM |
| 2 | I live in Europe and people in their 20s don't go on dates. What do you do when you get a girl's number?Stop putting limits on yourself. Do YOU want to go out on a date? Then have an idea of what you'd like to do, plan the logistics around it, then invite a woman out. Plan, execute, fuck. Also, read the Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. This will answer much of everything else you're about to ask me. | /r/seduction | 14/06/14 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Next Move after #-closingLol I don't give a fuck about her agenda. If I offer a time slot it's because that's what fits my schedule. If that date doesn't fit there are backups that I'll choose from. Logistics are the easiest part of all this | /r/seduction | 14/06/14 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Next Move after #-closingI would have set up the second meet right then. "Great! I know this amazing hole in the wall spot that has some of the best [food/drink/midget dancing]. Encore at 7pm on Wednesday?" | /r/seduction | 14/06/14 03:54 PM |
| 1 | When you have no other choice but text/messages what's the best thing to do?Fuck the "only for logistics" bullshit. As long as you're not texting "noise" it doesn't matter if you have a text convo once a day or once every week. Be funny and always text for a purpose. | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 01:31 PM |
| 1 | I know you're not supposed to beat yourself up/dwell on failures but how do you not?Keep a journal. Change the vocabulary you write and think with so that words such as need, want, can't, won't, all that shit leaves your mind. If a situation arises then write about it, figure out what you could have thought or done differently and move on. It starts by writing down "I don't dwell" | /r/seduction | 16/01/14 02:13 PM |
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