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I'm helping men by dispelling your bullshit claims more than you are. You and your type are hell-bent on making men view all women as evil witches. When reality, is people are individuals and there are asshole men and women. Interesting that you read the lefty mouthpiece, the Guardian, given your opinions. Nothing you sourced backs up your generalisation about Indian women.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 11:54 PM
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Bullshit. Do you know the stigma that surrounds divorce/sexual abuse in Indian society? Vast majority of women would hide it. Same with rape.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 11:11 PM
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It's not like the men leaving the country have a crowd of women to fight off in their home countries. They're leaving because not many/no women in their own countries want them. And in other countries, there are a lot of women that will take the hit for an upgrade in lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:30 PM
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I mean Crystal, the second one, was in Playboy so I don't know if that counts but she didn't have money. Models actually don't make that much money unless they're well known.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:03 AM
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Hugh Hefner, most NBA players, most rappers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:36 PM
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Stop saying fornicating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:30 PM
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The word fornicate would give me the ick. But, I wouldn't mind a certain level of directness if I am attracted to you. That's the key thing, really. Whether I'm feeling it too. If it's obvious that that's what you want, I kind of find it manipulative for you to go through the motions of the whole courting thing. I actually think if men were more direct it would save a lot of hurt feelings for women. Can't think how many times I've heard women say they spent time chatting and dating and then got …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 05:24 PM
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You hit the nail on the head with "unstable". They often prey on vulnerable women because that's the only options available to them in that age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:20 PM
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I don't think that is an easy route at all. That is a crazy length to have to go to for anyone. Plus a lot of legal stuff and paperwork involved. So I still stand by it not being easy for the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:17 PM
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The vast majority of men wouldn't even be able to obtain a younger woman to trade you in for. Generally the guys that have the opportunity to do this are wealthy or very, very charming/handsome. So, I would say to most women. Do you and don't let this hang over your head as a worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 02:07 PM
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Social media and porn
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 11:19 PM
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Then just say that. "I'm enjoying your company right now and we'll see what develops from here". This was what me and my bf said 6 years ago lol and it all worked out. We didn't rush it or put pressure on it. Just let things unfold and enjoyed each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 07:30 PM
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Yep I agree completely. I don't think a person should have to explicitly say either "I just want sex" or "I just want to be friends". I just think it's shitty if they say the opposite and lead someone on intentionally. And then the onus is on the other person to say if they want more from the baseline of just friendship or just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:15 PM
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I agree but I think in both scenarios, transparency would go a long way. If you're not interested in having anything more than friendship then you shouldn't intentionally lead someone on. Same with just sex, don't dangle the relationship carrot in front of someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 12:43 PM
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Lol this is not how it works. General patterns of abusers is to lovebomb first. Could last months or even years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 02:41 AM
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This was reassuring, thank you. A lot of people act like having children sucks all the joy from your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:59 PM
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You can't be serious. You think SAHM use men for money? Who the hell do you expect to take care of the child?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 11:30 AM
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I know a lot of women with a lot of friends who still feel lonely because they don't have a romantic partner. A friend can't do what a partner can.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:55 PM
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This is weird. You can't expect somebody to change their appearance just because you don't like it. You sound controlling and perhaps even abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 12:41 PM
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Wait, whose pornhub account? Yours?
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/21 11:20 PM
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When I think HVM I think more well rounded. I would definitely put successful/relatively wealthy on that list but I think a lot of women would "give up" some of that wealth for other things such as charm, good looks, good physique etc. I'm thinking mainly actors, singers, male models etc who generally do go for above average looking women. I guess the men you've mentioned (or the ones I know from that list) will have higher than average IQs so in order to form a connection with a woman and be ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 10:16 PM
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I don't know how you're defining high value men but none of these guys (or at least the ones on this list) would be my idea of HVM. I'm not trying to be nasty just want to add another perspective. They're not great looking or especially masculine. They don't seem especially funny or charming either. They're just smart and rich. I think it's understandable they would want their intellectual equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 09:08 PM
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Yellow teeth, greasy hair, smells bad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:46 PM
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They do. I'm Indian and pretty much all of my generation of females in the family are majoring in stem subjects. Same with female friends and classmates. It's very common in India.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:55 PM
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I disagree. I don't think porn is a replacement for sex. They're two completely different experiences. Sometimes I'm in the mood for sex but sometimes I just want to masturbate because it's quicker and way less effort. So it depends on which demographic you're discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:33 PM
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My favourite people in life are men. My dad is my best friend. My partner is my favourite person on Earth. I love how men socialise and bond. I love their loyalty to their friends and their love for dogs (don't ask - I just find it wholesome). I love how they want to figure out how things work, take them apart, perhaps modify them and put them back together again. I love how men are solution oriented. They'll give practical advice rather than just a shoulder to cry on. I love how much men enjoy …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 12:11 PM
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What are people saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 08:51 PM
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Not true. My entire family and the community I live in is comprised of non western women who were born in India and moved to the west. I know how they think and operate. There is no "threat" that you implied that's "keeping them in line". Yes, things are more stigmatised than they are in the west in the community I live in but there is still freedom of choice and women could, if they wanted to, do what they want. I was born in Britain - I'm free to live life as I wish. I choose to live life as m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 11:57 AM
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Some things I agree with: A lot of women don't consider how tough it is for men (collectively) to get with women. I think there's obviously some men that find it easy to gain access to sex/relationships but there's a whole load of other men who really struggle to get much luck in the dating game. I think women generally don't know that this is the reality for a lot of men. I think some women have unfair requirements when it comes to height and income. When they talk about the things they want ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:43 PM
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They'd accuse you of being a gold digger if you asked for someone with a job
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:51 PM
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I think it's unfair for you to say "what men are seeing is..." I think the post should be taken for what it is. OP has said that is what she wants in a relationship. I'm sure if you were asked to list some things you would want in a relationship there would be attributes that you want but would be willing to compromise on? Also, out of interest what do you think is conducive to a good relationship and maintaining it long term if not what OP has listed?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:50 PM
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No. My boyfriend is half an inch shorter than me at 5ft 5 and we play fight all the time. He totally dominates me. He also has to take on all the tasks that require strength that I can't do. But to be fair he's worked out consistently for over a decade so I'm not sure if it's the same for all other guys of the same height.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 09:37 PM
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Yeah I get as an outsider it's difficult to understand. I'm sort of an outsider too as a British-Indian but I obviously visit so have an insider's look on the country and culture. They have this weird combination of being ultra respectful to women but also having men in the country that are extremely disrespectful. For example, if I was on a train and a guy said something slightly disrespectful to me, he'd probably get jumped by the whole train. Whereas in England mostly no one intervenes. It's …
/r/PussyPassDenied15/12/20 09:22 AM
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Wrong. I out earn my "older guy" and contribute way more to the finances of the household. I just so happened that the guy I liked was older. That simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 03:41 PM
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This is why I'm always surprised when some men act like only women are gold-diggers. In my personal experience I've known more men to mooch off women than the other way round.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 03:33 PM
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For me, it's not about men who treat you "bad". That's just the perception of them. I like assertive, dominant men. You don't have to be a dick to be dominant and assertive. I also like men who are direct and upfront. I don't like people pleasers who are sickeningly nice to every girl they meet because ultimately I just see it as them playing the long game. It makes me feel like they're not sincere and are just after anyone who wants them. These guys also show they're not nice after all when the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 03:31 PM
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That's not playing mind games that's straight up bored and disinterested.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 03:25 PM
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Oh sorry
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/10/20 10:18 PM
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Yep honestly I was having panic attacks daily after it happened and I had to drive on the same route the accident happened and kept reimagining my car spinning out of control. I'm glad I'm okay too - thanks
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/20 03:14 AM
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I agree! Even my family said I'd dodged a bullet after we broke up. I won't be giving to someone who doesn't give back anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/20 01:31 AM
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Thank you - wish you the best too. My friend explained it best. She said in life there's givers and there's takers and you just need to find your tribe. After the breakup I became very cynical and kind of self loathing because I blamed myself for being too giving. But I realised it's just who I am as a person and it's fine as long as I meet people who are the same way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/20 01:29 AM
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I had an ex BF do the same. I supported him financially for five years as he had depression. I was ok with it at the time until I ended up getting into a bad car crash and got PTSD. I told him I wanted to get a lower paid job closer to home because I was having severe anxiety driving and he left me. People suck.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/20 11:51 PM
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Lol I supported my ex bf who had depression for five years while he didn't have a job and I did. He had the audacity to ask why I wasn't taking on overtime instead of wanting to relax at home on weekend as he wanted "fancier" holidays. If you give someone an inch they'll take a mile. I'm never financially supporting a partner again. I got burned badly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/20 11:48 PM
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I've only seen it on reddit. Haven't seen it in real life nor have I seen it on other social media platforms. In fact, it came up at work about short men and I was the only one who said it wasn't nice to body shame yet there was roughly 10 men there so idk. Maybe just my experience.
/r/MensRights29/08/20 12:05 PM
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I think a big issue is that men don't band together and speak up on these issues. I've heard women of all shapes and sizes speak out against fat shaming, boob size shaming etc. but don't see men ever speak up against height shaming/dick size shaming (if they're not short). Why is this?
/r/MensRights29/08/20 10:45 AM
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Sex is one of the last natural fun things we can do. So no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 11:01 PM
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Well I'm not from America so not sure. I guess we'd say one night stands or FWBs
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 09:40 PM
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I'm very curious. What is the spring and autumn of homosexual relationships? What is it like
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:06 PM
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I'm guessing when you say "average woman" you mean white. I'm British Indian and it's very normal in my circle for women to only have been with one man ever. That's true for pretty much every female in my family. My parents got divorced in 2009 and my mum has never dated anyone new. I guess it's just not what they do. With my generation, we probably would have more than one partner in life because we live in a western culture but I don't think I know anyone close with a higher count than 4. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 12:10 PM
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So you're saying men are only motivated by what women want? Oh gosh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:00 AM
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Out of interest why is that some men don't want to get into a relationship with a woman who has had a lot of sexual partners in the past? Is it out of a fear that they'll cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 10:47 PM
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Yep like that. But as I said in my post, I don't think it's fair to generalise like that. It's stupid to deny people their individuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 11:23 AM
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Mine is depth and intellect. I've been with poor guys who had nothing to offer but depth and intellect and I was happy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:34 AM
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This isn't going to sound very PC but the first time I met up with my now bf, he picked me up and threw me across the room onto the bed. It wasn't even in a sexual way, more we were being playful and drunk but it made me horny af lol. We've been together five years now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:33 AM
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I've been with my partner for five years and have never done anything I would feel guilty for if he were to find out. But for me, I would feel uncomfortable if he went through my phone (going through my phone is different to being on my phone - he always uses it if he needs to for any reason). I don't know, I just do silly Google searches sometimes or my camera roll will have 20 takes for a selfie. Just normal stuff you'd want to keep private. I'd never ask to go through his phone for the same r…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:24 AM
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My boyfriend has packed on some timber during lockdown and I'm loving it even though he's not. He's usually super ripped. I just low how everything is bigger. His shoulders, chest etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:16 AM
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Rubbish
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:08 AM
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If you generalise when it comes to the opposite gender you have no right to complain when someone does it your gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:08 AM
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I don't see any support for her. She's getting dragged by women.
/r/MensRights15/07/20 09:08 AM
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How does it benefit women's dating strategy? And out of curiosity what would you consider a high body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:11 AM
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Just seems like a massive waste of time trying to guess who will and won't cheat. You could get with a woman who's not been with many men and she later feels like she wants to explore because she "might be missing out". Shitty men cheat, shitty women cheat. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:01 AM
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Lol one Indian friend does not an expert make
/r/MGTOW210/07/20 05:53 AM
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Lol are you even Indian to make that assumption? From what you've said it doesn't sound like it
/r/MGTOW209/07/20 01:41 PM
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I've seen a lot of posts above explaining that men will "get with" better women too, it's just that they'll keep the old one in the rotation. I'd argue this was worse? You're essentially keeping someone else trapped with your lies and wasting their life when they could be moving onto someone who doesn't cheat. Why is that not worse? Can someone please explain this to me as I'm genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 01:44 PM
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No I get put off when a guy is taken
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 08:48 PM
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Why can't the proposed action be banning porn or banning social media? Or other stuff that organically help the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 08:37 PM
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Do you not think it's to do with them saving on taxes? Not sure how taxes work in US
/r/MGTOW211/06/20 06:44 PM
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