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Haha it’s rare for sure so thank you! I take pride in being able to do that sometimes. Especially online, mostly too because you responded normally so there’d be no reason for me to get pissed lmao But yeah at this point you’re right, clock to a time zone not existing.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/24 07:27 AM
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Okay yeah ill check him out! Thanks! I appreciate it, I've been trying to find someone whose not clearly redpill/misogynist/pua type that can help. And I have gotten shit for asking too...but it's fair since especially PUA types, a lot of it is straight up manipulation or abuse that will get you rightfully slapped across the face or in jail.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/24 12:03 AM
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However, I will admit, I could be wrong about even the beginning of things. Idk if these were just random women he met at a bar one night then somehow went from there or if he put some fake online ad or what exactly the details are. Regardless though, my point was just that dangerous people can know what they're doing. He def IS guilty 100%. I don't mean to sound like im justifying or defending him. I apologize if I did and now that I mentioned I dont know EXACTLY how he got them to fly over or …
/r/ExRedPill27/03/24 12:01 AM
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Yeah that's fair, i'm talking about the very very beginning of the interactions. I'm not denying it's trafficking or that he then put them in a situation where it was almost impossible to exit. I mean just in the sense of even finding a woman who he talks into somehow meeting him and him being able to convince them to like him enough to the point where then he does what he did. ​ But again, i'm not denying he's trafficking, im not saying it's good at all. The evidence is all there, him and his b…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/24 11:55 PM
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Ohh I see, yeah he seemed left wing. I think I'm prob more left wing than him but yeah the things i've seen when he calls them out is funny and they ALWAYS bring up him having been in a poly relationship which ended...they act like monogamous relationships never end. But then again that's why I believe most RP types dont want "love" they want a sex servant... But that's another reason why as someone who does suck at dating, charisma etc I wish there were more sources that were better for that be…
/r/ExRedPill26/03/24 11:39 PM
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True, not saying it works because it doesn’t. But that’s WHY they listen cuz they think so. I’ve listened to Todd v whose kinda decent teaching or charisma on command but yeah most main RP don’t. Like sneako how he was found out to be a cuck. It is funny tho when I talk to redpillers or incels , I had a friend who denied he was but somehow knew the specific terminology and watched”wheatwaffles”. He call me a simp or say I’m too “nice” to women…yet I was the one whose gone on dates(not many past …
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 10:38 PM
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Oh wait so he’s actually okay to listen to then? Because I found it helpful but I’m always suspicious and don’t wanna fall into RP shit because it doesn’t work or be a scumbag PUA who’s all creepy. That’s good to know! And I guess true cuz I have seen a vid where he says to treat them like people, which is SO basic but most redoillers or PUA don’t believe that
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 10:34 PM
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Fair cold approach is hardest. But sometimes necessary, for me at least it is and it’s worked with making friends LOL but unless it’s a club and you’re randomly making out then I wouldn’t count it as too successful. But I empathize with feeling like shit cuz if it, but then again, to me them replying after I get their number after a “cold approach” is success enough.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 10:32 PM
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Yes and no because I’ve worked on myself and goals but it doesn’t help me attract beautiful women. Like I’ve looked for non red pill advice on YouTube and it’s helped me with charisma etc but just working on your goals won’t really do much. Because it IS important for men to be successful with women. In my experience if I was still a virgin I’d probably not be here because getting with specific women DID boost my confidence, it did make my life better etc. it’s natural for humans to want sex. I …
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 10:29 PM
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He was good at being a criminal and bringing people in. That’s why it’s dangerous idk why I’m being downvoted for basic facts. He did it for years with the most powerful people, he clearly knew what he was doing and to downplay intelligence because they’re bad people is dangerous because psychopaths ARE usually intelligent. You can’t just money launder, traffick and do all those hardcore crimes for decades if you’re stupid. It’s like calling El Chapo stupid simply because he’s a bad person, like…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 10:26 PM
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Trafficking requires them trusting you to get them. Like if he approached a woman and she rejects him, there’s not really any trafficking that’s gonna happen unless they forcefully grab them which didn’t happen. They flew to Romania to see him. If a woman is repulsed by a guy she’s not gonna go near him or “fall in love” like he claimed was a way he did it. I’m not saying it’s good but it’s dangerous to downplay these types of people. Yes they got caught but most criminals do when it comes to th…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 10:18 PM
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True, my friend I cut off was like that. I gave so many chances but honestly he was a bad dude. He’d say I’m too nice to women…because I’m normal, like I don’t think I’m too nice I just don’t think it’s cool to go around insulting people. But his ass thinks degrading and saying stuff like “ur not even cute” works…which ironically he’s never gotten laid, I’ve seen him fail but he’s got mad at me cus him and my other friends witnessed me. Like I’m bad at it but holy shit yeah red pill guys are odd…
/r/ExRedPill18/03/24 04:47 AM
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lol I see that too and it’s sad. Or “military men, be masculine” BUT usually I’ve found it’s women I don’t find physically attractive so I don’t care.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/24 04:43 AM
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The one night stands wouldn’t make them dweebs or women repellant. If there’s a PUA who gets those results for their audience then isn’t that good? Like me personally I’ve watched some vids by this Todd v guy, I’m sus but some their tips have helped me in dating. Like if I had a choice between sleeping with someone I find attractive for a night or be alone then I’d do the former.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/24 04:08 AM
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To be fair most their audience just wants to get laid and short term which is still better than being alone lol
/r/ExRedPill18/03/24 04:05 AM
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Yeah idk why people down voted you when it’s true. Like if they were THAT bad with women I doubt they’d be able to do what they did. It’s like with Epstein, horrible human BUT if we said he sucked at what he did then that’s just dishonest? Idk what the term is but it’s like why can’t we admit someone whose evil CAN be successful in what they do. Like a large percent psychopaths are known to be in powerful positions like CEOs.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/24 04:04 AM
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Could be but their infields tend to work and there’s gotta be some way to teach dudes so I wouldn’t doubt if they actually are. Like I know a guy who listens to Todd V(idk how bad he is) but it’s helped him and I’ve gotten decent tips from him as well that have worked.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/24 03:59 AM
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Following because I have no idea and need to know too
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 07:23 PM
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Where do I find these movements? I would say I already lean left on most issues and feminism as well but a lot of the advice I find from feminist doesn’t actually produce results. Like I do benefit and men do benefit from a lot of feminist ideas which is why it’s good. 2. That’s hard because I’ve been single 28 years and it’s a basic human experience I’m missing out on. Plus saying see them as people instead of partners is implying everyone who has girlfriend or boyfriend is not seeing each othe…
/r/ExRedPill30/01/24 08:34 PM
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Yes but none of them do. There’s one person who idk if I’ll stay friends cuz they purposefully hit on me and they complained once when they wanted me to go to a meetup which they were at and I asked if there’s women.(most meetups I’ve been to are mostly men and since this was a social thing I assumed it was to meet strangers) but there’s other things too where I know it’s purposefully “cockblocking”. Or a lot of my friends just don’t know many women, even my women friends, a lot only have a few …
/r/ExRedPill24/01/24 08:19 PM
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Okay should I say cute? Because I’ve done the hangout sometime, drink sometime, insert activity sometime and they think it’s friendly. I’ll try more physical, touching hands I’ve only kinda done if they have a nice ring on or necklace but it’s rare. It’s hard to not have the views too that it’s my looks lol Do you know any YouTube channels or any online sources that can help?
/r/ExRedPill30/12/23 06:18 AM
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Yeah a lot meet thru friendships I’ve heard but so far no luck. I’ll see my friends hooking each other up like “oh you’d like my friend ___” but never me, never someone who actually needs it. But I don’t have many married friends, only ones are gay lol
/r/ExRedPill30/12/23 06:16 AM
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Sorry for the late ass reply but yeah I usually ask for a number at the end but the times I have they usually just reply SUPER late or most have just said theyre not looking to date or think it's friendship. Like there was one friend who I did wanna date at first and when we first met I asked if she'd like to go out and do X activity on this day and then we did but she said just friends. Touch idk how to ask without it being cringe, I see people like touch someone if they're laughing or like Ive…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/23 11:11 PM
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How do I be intentional without being creepy? I can approach at times like at a place I frequent I sat near a friend and there was a new girl there so talked to her, got her number but I feel like she's just going to think im being a friend since that's usually what happens. Not sure if im supposed to tell them I think they're cute or whatever
/r/ExRedPill29/12/23 11:05 PM
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I dont know how to though, like what do I say?
/r/ExRedPill29/12/23 11:04 PM
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I've tried salsa, i'd have to go again though because after the lesson they did a free for all and I didn't approach any girls since none of them gave me a look or approached me so I took it as im not going to ask them to dance.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/23 11:04 PM
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Don’t a lot men who hate themselves still get laid or date a lot? Sure usually it ends toxic but I just don’t think that’s the problem if even people who hate themselves do that. Also, therapy just doesn’t really work. I’ve gone for years and it’s good for making acquaintances or friends but they don’t really teach you much that’s useful. Sure some self love BS but usually comes from people seeing positive results or they lie to themselves that they’re worth something. Were all just evolved apes…
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 04:09 AM
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I do worry about being boring but the questions I just can’t think of besides generic what’s your passions, hobbies, work etc which is good and I usually try to get them to talk more cuz I have nothing to say.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 04:06 AM
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I have only a few times in my life, most off apps but by most only like 3 times in a span of years which isn’t good.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 04:04 AM
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Nah a hooker just isn’t as satisfying after awhile cuz they probably wouldn’t wanna touch me without money. I have genuine intentions and yeah sex is part of it. Like having a best friend who I sleep with a lot is the best combo. But it’s also important 28, relationships are such a fundamental basic human thing people experience and the older you get the more of a red flag it becomes and harder.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 04:04 AM
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I have women friends though. Being friends is easy, usually they make that decision, but then if I stay just friends too long then it becomes like “oh you were never a friend” kind of thing so I have to make it known first. Unless you mean actively go just for friendship, which I’ve done that too through mutual or work but like I wouldn’t see a point of seeing a cute girl and going “I JUST want to be platonic”, especially because it never really works that way.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 04:02 AM
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Friendzone means objectification? I’ve liked plenty of my women friends, most I’ve asked out then they wanted to just be friends so I stayed friends. I eventually moved on but if anything they were getting everything they wanted while I had to decide whether to either cut them off cuz it’s one sided or wait till I get over them. But they got the friendship they wanted, sure are some “friendzoned” guys weird, yeah but I think it’s a thing for sure. Because why is it dehumanizing to want a relatio…
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 03:59 AM
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Well we all want value from friendships. It’s human nature, like you enjoy spending time with friends and that’s the gain from it. I get people don’t wanna be used but isn’t that entitlement? Like if I have NO idea who you are, all I know are looks and THEN I can go off that and decide if I like the person. Like unless you’re a friend, friend of friend, or something then I don’t see why Id have any reason to trust you enough to not want something. Maybe I’m cynical but most people seem self inte…
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 03:49 AM
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Thank you for understanding! Because yeah I’ve heard all that other stuff and if it worked I’d be either in a relationship with a woman I find attractive or I’d be consistently getting laid with cute girls. But even my women friends have said things ranging from being a little more of an asshole, to “rizz”, or mostly just being hot. Plus, if someone is socially awkward then them treating people “like people” is just being awkward which won’t help Basically, I asked this because that’s what I hea…
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 03:24 AM
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True but I know dudes who are good with women and they either just say generic “be confident” or they’ll say things that are somewhat “PUA”-ish like teasing, playfulness etc. being kind sure I guess helps and many have said yeah you probably shouldn’t outright just insult people but just being kind or talking to them normally is usually boring. I know I’m boring cuz asking what their hobbies are isn’t really anything
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 03:18 AM
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I do though that’s why I don’t like that advice. It doesn’t really work, especially since a lot of very toxic dudes who don’t view women as such still get laid, still get into relationships etc. they may not be healthy but it’s still something. I treat people kindly and with respect cuz it’s default but it’s never really gotten me anything except sometimes friendships. Like I’m not dislikable but I also don’t really see the point in being friends with most people. Like why would I want to approa…
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 03:14 AM
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I wouldn’t say that necessarily. The idea you can’t hire a sex worker without being misogynist and not seeing women as human is a bit extreme There are a lot of ways to tell if they’re not being exploited. Like some do full background checks etc The money thing? Sure a lot do it for extra money for whatever reasons, I met a dancer(didn’t sleep with her it was not at a club) but she does it for her med school. Its just not really a great argument cuz we live in a capitalist system, most people ar…
/r/ExRedPill09/12/23 05:56 AM
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I have and it was amazing. It’s definitely risky though cuz I’ve had iffy times too but usually those were at massage places that I didn’t realize were “sexual” and id have to say “no” lol. I think its helped me though in the beginning, I still struggle attracting women cuz of personality but it helped me be confident in my sex game. I’m sorry you had a bad experience but for some dudes I think it can be okay. I would probably be much more depressed if I never hired an escort, I’m still depresse…
/r/ExRedPill09/12/23 05:46 AM
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Are you saying it’s easy for you? Curious how you do it then. I KNOW redpill shit is BS but I struggle with women being attracted to me, I don’t wanna believe it’s just looks but I don’t know. I know though the “masculine” stoic shit doesn’t work. Like NOT caring and not showing emotion makes women think I’m not into them. Showing emotion has gotten me a lot of friends who are women and it does suck that I feel more comfortable talking to them about problems than some of my guy friends.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/23 07:39 AM
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So then what’s wrong with redpill? Cuz that sounds like they are right, or more so Blackpill cuz I don’t think I’ll ever be rich. Muscle I have but i can’t get like a bodybuilder cuz it’s not sustainable. Does charisma and confidence just not matter? Cuz since I’m neither of those should I just never talk to cute girls? It does seem like only fat chicks want me. Which kinda makes me resentful towards women if they’re that evil and materialistic
/r/ExRedPill13/05/23 02:03 AM
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And yes I appreciate hearing a woman’s perspective. I’ve heard from some men that you shouldn’t take advice from women but ironically those are usually the men who never get dates, laid or anything LOL
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 02:55 AM
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I’ll try that for sure! I’ve been decent at starter convos like asking for help or even at a cafe I asked a woman about what other cafes are good in the area and what things to do. But then the convo ends after they answer, that prompt though I’ll have to write in my notes and screenshot, that’s so simple yet I never thought of that haha I will say though if I’m approaching and do situational, odds are at the moment I am valuing their looks, is that bad? Like I probably wouldn’t approach someone…
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 02:54 AM
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No problem! I really appreciate it, the more the better haha
/r/ExRedPill07/02/23 02:49 AM
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Just curious, how would it be done right? Like if a guy comes up and says like “hey I thought you were pretty and wanted to come talk to you if that’s okay?” Or like “hey that outfit looks great on you!” then have a convo from that somehow. Cuz I get OPs struggle so I’m curious as well, I’d hate to be creepy or make a girl uncomfortable
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 08:16 AM
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How does one learn this then? And is it fine to just go up and say “hey I saw u from over there, I thought you were cute and wanted to come talk to you”
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 08:12 AM
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Thank you, i know not all girls care but I guess it’s just exhausting being rejected
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 05:57 AM
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Where do I learn social skills tho cuz that is my problem. I’m already doing all the other things. Also aging isn’t an issue it’s like if she becomes fat then that’s bad. That can be prevented tho
/r/ExRedPill11/01/23 02:42 AM
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So I can’t be sad I get rejected then see them fuck someone else? That would effect anyone wtf. I don’t use them as a commodity, they’re human just like me. But humans are flawed and yeah idk but if you had a crush on someone then had to watch them have sex, pretty sure you’d feel something. It sounds like you’re implying I’m the bad person for being hurt by rejection. They’re doing it for pleasure too in these cases like the sex party I went to so why is it ok for them to do it but not me? I do…
/r/ExRedPill11/01/23 02:38 AM
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And yeah it is a long game but gets exhausting. Like the girl I gave my number too never texted back and we talked for a few hours. Even some friends of mine and like two strangers said we hit it off so those things confuse me like damn was she really not into me then? And I’ve approached a lot of people in the past few weeks. I went to a sex party which fucked with my head cuz being rejected then seeing them literally naked fucking someone else made me extremely depressed. But other than that y…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 05:25 AM
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Well I need the outstanding personality how do I get that. I’m trying to do that and I’ve got lucky off dating apps but it’s so rare and not as frequent as most guys. Im trying to have a good personality and improve but idk, like just look at my photos and tell me then where I stand cuz I don’t fucking know looks wise. I’d rather not live longer if I can’t achieve my goals. And I am doing the numbers game, I can get numbers but they don’t ever respond. I hooked up with a girl last Monday met on …
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 04:50 AM
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Just shows that even a good conversation and all the signs like leaning in and having the same interests mean absolutely nothing. Even when I look for signs of interest that people tell me, they’re not interested
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 12:43 AM
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I think it’s fine when I do it. I don’t really care if it’s hypocritical cuz idk what level I’m at tbh. Like I’m aware of the double standard I just don’t really care. At this point in my life I have to look out for myself and my needs only so if it benefits me then I may as well do it. It’s selfish but I find other people are too Sure I want someone beautiful inside as well but my point is I need both. I literally cannot just magically make myself attracted to people I’m not so that’s why I’m s…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 12:36 AM
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I wanna be super attractive or I’d rather just not be alive tbh. I don’t care if they have a heart of gold, I really don’t. Like I DO if it’s someone I’m attracted to but I’ve went on dates with women who def are really kind but they’re not attractive to me so I can’t feel any emotion towards them. I disagree personality can’t be changed, I’ve seen it happen a lot, looks change but if you’re healthy you’re probably good. I don’t know where I’m comparable or what kind of girls to go for, like fee…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 12:33 AM
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At least I’d know I can do it. A woman comparable by my in looks? How do I know what kind of woman that is? Cuz the women who reply and show most interest(except the two I hooked up with) have been kinda on the fatter end and if that’s where my level is then I’d rather just give up cuz it wouldn’t be worth it. I’ve tried and it never works
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 12:25 AM
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Are you really gonna try saying humans don’t want benefits from relationships. Well I’m talking about specific women who have already rejected me but wanna be friends. Like if you reject me and just wanna be friends, that’s fine but yeah you’re showing you don’t appreciate me either enough so it’s a two way street. Not women I just became friends with randomly but even then you just become friends with people that you don’t benefit from? It’s human nature, I know it’s taboo to admit but you’re n…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 12:22 AM
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I do treat women like that and then they just see me as a friend. It doesn’t really help
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 12:19 AM
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I’ve tried most of those and they bore me. I do yoga and weights but since I can’t go at the same time consistently cuz of work I wont meet anyone. I kinda have to rely on approaching to strangers. But yeah most hobbies bore me if they’re not social LOL like drawing is fine but I can’t sit down and do it, I only do it if I’m like in a class room or writing notes.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 12:18 AM
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Yeah one of them doesn’t give me a hug anymore cuz I asked her friend out but me and her friend hung out one on one so idk it sucks. But idk where to find new friends and some the ones that like me(have few gay friends) I don’t really like being around
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 12:17 AM
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How can I learn to do that though? It’s very hard for me to emotionally connect with someone. I can if they’re super attractive but like I don’t know how to make THEM feel connected if that makes sense. Like one sided
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 12:15 AM
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Yes childless “women”. A lot too is just biologically hard wired in us cuz working on yourself is great and we should but plenty of people don’t work on themselves and are shitty and abusive yet they’re having sex constantly or dating the hottest women. Which to me is better than just improving but being alone forever
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 12:13 AM
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Well I have female friends and only a few but yeah if they’re attractive I’d rather date them cuz I value them more. Like dating and sex to me mean I value them more than friendships so if they just want friendship it’s telling me they don’t value me enough so there’s no point in being in a relationship with that dynamic
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 12:11 AM
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Well yeah but if I lower them I can’t love the person. Idk how to lower them, my standards are high cuz looks matter to me. Like I’ve tried going on dates with girls I don’t find attractive and I couldn’t connect at all. It means I’m ugly then and at that point I sincerely don’t wanna be living.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 12:10 AM
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Well I wanna be the best version but able to get into a relationship. It won’t fix all my problems, I know I would still work on myself but it’s hard when I see people get with women who are super attractive yet they don’t work on themselves? Like I can’t even get into a toxic relationship with a hot girl even if I tried which is a problem. Yeah I’ll improve myself and I’ve been on that journey for years to be the best version of myself but i still can’t even do something so basic
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 12:06 AM
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What psychological YouTube channels would you recommend?
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 12:03 AM
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It happened Saturday I think
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 12:03 AM
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I’ll try that, I do need numbers tho cuz if I never se the person again
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 05:32 AM
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Well rn I am alone so it probably will be that way. When is improvement enough. Cuz here’s my thing I know people who are SEVERELY depressed or hate themselves yet they have girlfriends/boyfriends and or hooking up so it’s like there’s a problem if I can’t get with a lot of women or find a relationship unless I drastically change yet people who are worse than me in terms of improvement are doing better. I know maybe it’s toxic for them but goddamn I can’t even get into a toxic relationship with …
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 05:13 AM
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I’ll try to find a group it’s just hard to find ones here. Like meetup groups are old people and the ones my age are not cute girls so it’s like eh not really worth it. Rockclimbing group I’ll try to find
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 05:12 AM
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I’ll try again some those things. Maybe helicopter and carpentry cuz I don’t really enjoy cooking. Running club may be cool only cuz the one near me has cute girls but if there’s no women I won’t like it lol
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 05:11 AM
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I get a girl can be as attractive as me but I don’t want that. Cuz then I won’t find them attractive if they’re on my level, idk what that is but I know most women I find cute are in a higher “league”(idk if they exist but idk how else to word it) Therapy is fine but it’s only once a week which isn’t enough and I’ve been going a few years but haven’t found a girl whose attractive and likes me because looks DO matter alot to me. But idk the girls I slept with were cute but I think my “level” like…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 05:09 AM
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What hobbies tho? Hard to stick with one
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 03:58 AM
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What kind of therapy? I’ve done CBT and now DBT. It’s just getting hard to think anything is gonna change at this point. Even exercise, I love it and I do it but I still wanna be able to have basically a best friend I can fuck and live with lol
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 03:57 AM
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It won’t preclude it, I know it will help but i want to be able to focus on myself yet talk to a girl I think is cute if I want to and get her number. Instead of not doing it to focus on myself. A large part is communication too even if I focus on myself I need to practice social skills, platonically I’m fine, I can make friends. But yeah
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 03:56 AM
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Then why should I be friends? Like yeah I understand it’s cuz you’d value them less than they value you. But it’s like I’m not gonna approach an unattractive woman soo what do I do. Cuz most my friends are attractive and if they DID wanna fuck I would but I don’t try or anything. Some women I’m friends with I don’t find attractive and we’re still friends but still like idk how that’s gonna help me. That’s why I wanna meet women who are into me too It’s so hard not to focus on it tho cuz it’s sur…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 03:47 AM
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I needa talk to that guy cuz I’m not interesting.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 03:29 AM
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I’d like to know more in depth. The third is what I’ve been doing lately like lot of numbers just from people I met the day of.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 03:29 AM
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I get their number usually but they don’t respond or they respond days after. The girl last night I forgot to cuz my phone didn’t wanna receive the number so that sucked cuz we vibed and talked for a few hours. Even the people and my friends there were watching and said we were hitting it off Demographics YES that’s my city it’s more men. I’m honestly thinking of moving to NYC because of it. I live in San Diego I have friends I think but it’s hard to be close to more than like 5 people at once. …
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 03:27 AM
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Well everyone wants something. Humans are inherently selfish nothing wrong with that. Like why would you wanna be with someone you don’t want? Makes no sense and yeah I should love myself to GET to that goal. Like we’re all gonna die in the end, so it seems loving myself is just a excuse distract myself. I understand you’re right but I’ve been trying to have that mindset for years but nothing seems to work especially cuz I experience so much that enforces my negative beliefs. They maybe DO pick …
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 03:23 AM
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Well it’s prob cuz I’m not attractive or my personality. But that’s why I’m saying I can’t rely on women friends, especially if they were ones who rejected me like last time I was suicidal having to see my crush make out with her bf. Yeah we’re friends but it shows me damn I value her more than she values me
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 03:20 AM
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If females didn’t exist? Depends, if there was no hardwire biological need for sex and intimacy then idk? What I’m doing now I guess? Yoga, working out and I’m down for more but idk not much entertains me. Even yoga kinda gets tiring. If I had unlimited money then I’d prob travel and party constantly.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 03:19 AM
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Career and hobbies basically but those don’t distract me. I go to therapy, go to group meetings and group therapy. I workout exercise and all that shit. Like i needa find like a YouTube channel that’s kinda PUA but not redpill cuz idk if PUA works, seems like it doesn’t
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 03:16 AM
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So anyone who has depression should just die alone? That’s nice to know
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 03:15 AM
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I kinda agree most my women friends don’t wanna help me. Or like women who rejected and just want to be friends don’t wanna help me too so it’s like why do I wanna be valued so little by someone?
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 03:09 AM
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I’m just going based off research but people aren’t happy just alone usually that’s very rare. I know I should be happy alone too but I know people who hate themselves and they’re taken which it’s like fuck at least can I get to that point? I have clinical depression I will never be HAPPY that’s unrealistic but I don’t think that means I deserve to be alone
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 03:08 AM
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I have women friends but they don’t hook me up with anyone. I don’t wanna be friends cuz then I gotta watch them love someone else and that fucking is painful. A lot of women friends I have rejected me in the past but I’m fine now but like if I’m approaching a girl at a cafe I’m not trying to “just be friends” I want to take her on a date or hook up. Also why is it selfish I’m taking care of my mental health? I’ve been to a s*x party where I’ve literally had to watch people who rejected me sleep…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 02:31 AM
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I guess but for how long? I can’t just be alone forever happy. Humans are social creatures and we procreate so desire for sex and shit is engrained in us. No matter how hard I focus on other stuff I still wanna be able to have a woman actually be into me. I’m trying to be the best person I can but it doesn’t really satisfy me
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 02:29 AM
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Yes that’s what I mean. I hear that but it’s usually bullshit like I hear women complain about men who were friends then they realized they wanted more. I also see in my life tons of examples where girls who’ve rejected me end up dating or hooking up with a guy they knew just as long or shorter than me. I know people don’t “owe” anything I didn’t say I was owed anything. Where do I find a dating coach that’s cheap and not just a redpilled or PUA? Been doing therapy for years it helps a little bu…
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 01:06 AM
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I agree I notice too a lot of people say they don’t like muscular but they do. It’s just some weird societal thing where it’s like “oh no we can’t be shallow” but it signifies health so yeah I agree
/r/seduction29/10/22 05:13 AM
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Sorry for the late reply I appreciate the comment on my photos and yeah I’m hitting the gym more now but do muscles really matter to girls? I hear they like dad bods. I mean Imma still do it anyways cuz I wanna workout but still
/r/seduction26/10/22 05:19 AM
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I’m trying to do therapy for anxiety but then I don’t know what to say. For example, I can take a Xanax which would kill my anxiety but wouldn’t know what to say or how to flirt. The drugs and alcohol aren’t for women it’s more so I’ve decided until I get into a relationship then I may as well do it since the longer I’m single the more I get “tired”
/r/seduction23/10/22 09:14 AM
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I’ve joined communities, for example one of them I’ve met tons of friends but within that community people date or set each other up but they never set me up. It’s like how people go, “hey I have a friend I wanna introduce you too, she’s hella cute.” that’s not what I get I get “just focus on yourself” I do wanna try traveling especially New York I hear there’s more women and I’m not really into HEAVY partying anymore like Miami It’s mostly my confidence, but idk I think I have pics of myself on…
/r/seduction23/10/22 09:13 AM
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But how do I approach and what do I say
/r/seduction23/10/22 09:10 AM
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Apps have been horrible for me. No luck cuz I don’t flirt with my tinder dates so it feels like two homies hanging out I’ll try the others tho. I wanna go back to school for classes and to meet people lol
/r/seduction23/10/22 09:09 AM
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Meet up usually in my area aren’t really cute girls but fitness classes sure. I rockclimb and do yoga but usually with yoga they leave right away and idk what to say. I can compliment, introduce myself but then continuing a convo and getting her number is hard
/r/seduction23/10/22 09:08 AM
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How do you know whose sober?
/r/seduction23/10/22 09:07 AM
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I’ve tried I end up drinking, I have little self control over alcohol
/r/seduction23/10/22 09:07 AM
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Yeah but aren’t most drunk?
/r/seduction23/10/22 09:07 AM
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Dude - you can go to pubs and clubs sober also. I know it's hard at first but once you get socially warmed up it's even better. When you get to the venue start talking to random people straight away.. some comment to some dude, asking about the party, just joining random groups by walking up and being like "hi guys, what are u up to? I came out tonight and thought to socialize, I am xyz" Then, when u see a girl you like then immediately start walking up to her - don't think what to say or anythi…
/r/seduction23/10/22 09:07 AM
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I do workout, it doesn't solve all of them. It solves a good amount but I can't work out as much as I used too because I have a stent in my heart now. But yeah it does get me confidence and respect.
/r/seduction01/11/16 06:39 AM
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That said, I do want to point out your self-awareness and applaud you for having some clarity in viewing your situation. Most guys would harbor resentment or anger towards "the other guy" or even the woman herself, so it's good you seem to be able to recognize that it's not "you versus them" or anything like that. Thank you, I mean there's only one "friend" of mine who I feel that way about but only because I know he will like hug her or whatever just to see if I get butthurt. Like just a dick t…
/r/seduction01/11/16 03:38 AM
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