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It sucks but you're just using the excuse of your friend as a social crutch. The only way to get over it is just to get out of your comfort zone and try going solo for a few. If you fuck up or fail it doesn't matter, it's just practice. Keep going until you get better at it. Not much else to do.
/r/seduction31/07/14 04:41 AM
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When I realised that spending the night trying to come up with witty shit to say or openers or topics for conversations was a waste of a night. Now I just go up, introduce myself and say whatever the fuck I want. Girls love it and it's a better night for me. I've gotten 15 numbers in the last three weeks and I hang out with most these girls regularly enough. Some of em have boyfriends etc but never underestimate the power of female friends!
/r/seduction21/07/14 10:52 PM
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Something similar that's worked for me before is if they're leaving you just ask "What, no kiss goodbye?" It's worked numerous occasions for me and most girls will usually be cool with it. It also opens up more options to escalate before they leave.
/r/seduction08/07/14 02:05 AM
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There's too much bullshit on here about what to do once you get the number. Some say you should text her there and then with a smart witty message so she'll know who you are when you message her again. Others say you should leave it for a day or two until you have plans etc. To be quite honest you need to figure out what works best for you. If you're quick witted and funny then by all means go for the on the spot text so she'll know who you are. If you struggle with coming across as funny by tex…
/r/seduction15/05/14 01:51 AM
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This has happened to me multiple times before. I was out with this girl once and she started talking shit about her ex and then talking about some pretty emotional stuff during her childhood. If you like the girl and want to try and make something happen then you need to knock it on the head quickly. Listen to her for a bit then change the topic, tell her something like you're out with her now so don't dwell on the past or some shit like that. From what I've seen, if a girl is confiding in you o…
/r/seduction29/04/14 02:53 AM
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Don't think I was coming across as needy, but like I said, I'm not an expert. You're right though, no point in fucking it up if the groundwork is there.
/r/seduction27/01/14 02:18 AM
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I know, I just always figure that they've lost interest. I spend way too much time in my head. Yeah I try keep a check on that, it's caught me out before
/r/seduction27/01/14 01:37 AM
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Yeah you're right. When it comes to women my mind always jumps immediately to "they lost interest". Thanks for the help though.
/r/seduction27/01/14 01:09 AM
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I'm not saying you'd give your number to anyone because of your job. What I'm trying to say is it gives you a better chance of getting a number because you're taking the work aspect out of it and letting them know you're serious
/r/seduction14/01/14 12:37 AM
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I work in a shop and 90% of the stuff I say to or do for the customers is because of my job. When you take the job out of it or mention about being out of work it makes the person pay more attention to you and you're likely to get a better response for it.
/r/seduction14/01/14 12:27 AM
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Because getting hit on is part of the job. It doesn't happen a massive amount but it happens so when you take work out of it you're letting her know you're serious. It's less bullshit and it get's to the point of, if you weren't working would you give me your number. Also it leaves less room for a bullshit answer and you get an answer straight away.
/r/seduction14/01/14 12:07 AM
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Walk up to them and just open with something simple. Never single one girl out because that's a dumbass move. Approach the situation as if you're trying to open both girls, get friendly and then subtly switch your attention towards one.
/r/seduction13/01/14 11:47 PM
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When you're trying to pick up a cashier or someone who works in retail it's a bit different to normal game. Basically we get paid to work the tills and part of that is being nice to customers. So unless you're getting major signals it's probably just her doing her job. One way that could work is something along the lines of "If you weren't working right now and I asked you for your number what would you say?" It takes them out of the work mode and lets them know you're serious and not just messi…
/r/seduction13/01/14 11:11 PM
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Approaching somebody at work is different to regular game. When someone is working they're usually in work mode so most of the usual stuff won't work. Speaking as someone who works behind a counter, you barely register anything people say to you once they've gone. What you need to do is take them out of the work mindstate and then ask them. Usually what works for me is something like "Quick question, nothing got to do with work for a second..." or "If I were to ask you out right now, what you st…
/r/seduction30/09/13 02:05 PM
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You could go try get sympathy and tell her that you just haven't met the right person yet but it looks kinda sad. The other way is just wink at her and tell her it's cos she hasn't said yes yet. Both have worked for me before but the first one backfires more often than not.
/r/seduction30/09/13 01:45 PM
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I'm not trying to teach him anything. We were talking a while back after he broke up with his girlfriend and he told me he's done with relationships for a while he's been in five relationships since he was 16 and he's only 23 now. I'm not teaching him anything I just wanna try some shit with him and see if I can't help him out a little. Kinda like the "Have you met Ted?" line from How I Met Your Mother. Just to get him out there and meet new people and get some confidence back. Thanks for the re…
/r/seduction25/09/13 02:32 AM
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For the girls working as cashiers or hairdressers you need to let them know right away what your intentions are. Don't wait til you're leaving, go up to them at the beginning and just ask them. It will take them out of the work frame of mind and they'll see you as a person and not just another customer. Generally though, girls are friendly to most guys that come into their work, it just works better that way. Good luck.
/r/seduction16/07/13 01:27 AM
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Haha I never would have thought of this. Thanks for the idea, even if it does go bad it can't be any worse than what i've been trying.
/r/seduction17/06/13 11:20 PM
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Thanks for that, wasn't too sure where I was going wrong. Your advice makes a lot of sense though, I think I was probably half assing it when I said it cos I wasn't thinking it through fully. Definitely gonna take your advice on board though, thanks.
/r/seduction17/06/13 08:24 PM
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I don't know whether I'm just bringing it up too early or what but usually once I've been chatting to the girl for a while I try and bring the subject up. An example of a conversation I've had is one time I was out and I'd been chatting to this girl for quite a while, we were pretty close and she offered to buy me a drink. I jokingly asked her if she was trying to get me drunk so she could have her way with me. The conversation stopped dead right there and she was pretty distant after that. I th…
/r/seduction17/06/13 07:57 PM
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Cool, thanks for the info. Might have to take a look at that some time.
/r/seduction17/06/13 07:30 PM
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The Cube?
/r/seduction17/06/13 07:24 PM
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Sounds like some really good advice, might have to try this minus the kamasutra app. Thanks
/r/seduction17/06/13 07:24 PM
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If you're not a total ass and just refuse them point blank then it's usually fine. You could try make up some funny excuse but if you have a good reason and you're grateful then it doesn't matter. If someone offers you something sweet and you want to decline I've always found a good line to be "No thanks, I'm sweet enough." It usually gets a smile and you come across as a nice person.
/r/seduction17/06/13 05:39 PM
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If anybody offers you anything you politely take it and say thanks or something like that. Unless you're allergic, have a hatred of said object or are just an ass. If you turn someone down and they were just trying to be nice then they'll just think you're an ass.
/r/seduction17/06/13 05:26 PM
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I honestly still don't know why I said that or why she went for it but hey, if it works it works! Thanks
/r/seduction11/06/13 10:05 PM
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As weird as it sounds, I get a lot of compliments on my hair. It's nothing magical it's just that for some reason women love it. Anyways long story short, because of this women love to touch my hair and tell me how soft it is and all this bullshit. I go along with it cos there's pretty fucking cute women all over me! This usually leads to the girls getting a few pictures with me and then I go my own way. About a year back this happened to me when I was out one night at a bar. The girl got the pi…
/r/seduction11/06/13 09:57 PM
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Eh...hard luck bro? What else can you say in a situation like this? We all fuck up from time to time though so don't worry. Just means you're human.
/r/seduction11/06/13 09:34 PM
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Well this blew up quick. I checked like an hour ago and there was three maybe four and now there's tonnes of em!
/r/seduction24/05/13 03:21 PM
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I'm not saying they work but I'm sure that people have used them or have had them used on them before. Was just looking to hear a few that people had heard.
/r/seduction17/05/13 04:48 PM
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Haven't heard it described like that before but my parents use that all the time when we're out at dinner or something. It's a real Irishism. I like the description you gave for it though, never thought to use it in that kind of a way.
/r/seduction16/05/13 01:14 AM
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It gets a conversation going.
/r/seduction16/05/13 12:24 AM
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Thanks for that, it's a pretty good analogy. I'll have to try it out and see how it goes.
/r/seduction14/05/13 03:02 PM
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A friend of mine got a girlfriend from something similar to this. He was out with this girl and she kept looking at her phone and texting and he was getting pissed off. Eventually he told her that if she looked at her phone again he'd kiss her. She laughed and put the phone away for a few minutes, then she checked it again and he kissed her. TL;DR Tell her if she checks her phone again, you're going to kiss her. Follow through if she does.
/r/seduction12/05/13 10:10 PM
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I'm just throwing this out there but if the girl actually goes for this then she's probably not the kind of girl you wanna go for.
/r/seduction12/05/13 08:45 PM
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"Hey, my name's archerninjawarrior. What's yours?" Works like a charm, no stupid openers, now lines to remember, no chance to fuck it up. Just Hi, my name's (enter your name here). Smile What's yours? Job's done.
/r/seduction23/04/13 05:42 PM
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Fuck that shit! If a guy like me can get a girl then there's hope for any motherfucker out there. Step 1. Go out and make small talk with at least five or six girls that night. Nothing major, no bullshit. Just small talk. Ask her about her pet if she has one, where she's from, what she did in college. Anything, just get her talking. Step 2. Do not and I mean DO NOT buy her the first drink. If you buy a woman the first drink she automatically has the upper hand, she knows you're into her and she …
/r/seduction23/04/13 05:31 PM
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Don't go out with the intentions of hitting on them just go out with the intentions of making small talk with someone. After doing this a couple of times you've taken the pressure off yourself because you don't need to get a number or a kiss or anything else it's just for fun. Then when you have the opening perfected and you know you can randomly start a conversation with anyone try to steer it towards meeting them again or getting their number. If they look busy just talk to them for a bit and …
/r/seduction23/04/13 05:21 PM
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Also, I looked at the clock wrong. It's 3:33am here in Ireland.
/r/seduction28/03/13 03:33 AM
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If you go through life thinking looks are all that matter then you'll always have that mentality and you'll attract people like that. I'm overweight, last time I checked i was 16 stone which is around 225-230lbs. I don't see the point in getting hung up on looks because in my personal experience I've met a lot of women who aren't necessarily stunning but they're infinitely better company than any modelesque woman I have ever met. I like to think I'm a hit with the women because I'm a funny dude …
/r/seduction28/03/13 03:32 AM
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I've read that sentence three times and for some reason I cannot understand it. If you're asking if I'm as good with the women as a dude who isn't overweight then yeah. I've had no complaints thus far and I typically get along very well with women. If I misunderstood the question then I'm sorry., it's after 4am.
/r/seduction28/03/13 03:04 AM
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This is coming from a guy in a very similar situation. Just be yourself, if you try too hard women will know. You're a big guy but how many big guys have you seen with girlfriends? If girls didn't like big dudes at all then the world would just be full of skinny guys. I figured out that the reason I was overweight wasn't because I was eating bad or not exercising, you use you're weight as a put down for yourself. You think women won't like you because you're a big guy so you shy away from it and…
/r/seduction28/03/13 02:32 AM
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