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Thanks for the clear explanation. Gave it another thought and I think I'm applying the same method, but never really on a conscious level. Thanks again for putting my thoughts into words.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 06:38 AM
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Can you explain me how you engage them in a way they will start qualifying themselves? Are you initiating setting the bar high and then let them go for it? Can you give me a practical example? I feel like i get the basics but it's kinda hard to get the whole idea.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 08:35 PM
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It's the same as when she says: "I'm not gonna have sex with you tonight." She is thinking about having sex with you and you just need to make her feel comfortable, tell her nothing that she doesn't want to happen, will happen and escalate further like she is already sucking that massive dick. She needs you to initiate, and make it possible for her to rationalise that everything 'just' happened and that it was all your idea/responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 10:29 AM
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Do you have a job, go to the gym, read books every now and then, spend time with your bros, learn to play an instrument (or another hobby really)? If so, either invest more of your time in these things or pick up a new hobbies. If not, work on this small list of things from left to right and soon you'll wish you had more time to live your new life to the fullest.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 01:59 PM
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I'll give it to you that you can't be extreme with the selecting, but I'm still convinced that with just a little you can get rid of at least 75% just because they are so obvious. I do also completely agree with you on AWALT and it being just your turn, but to be honest I'm not too worried about any of those concepts. And if I do make the mistake then it's just another plate broken and a valuable learning experience for next time. Experience you clearly already have...
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 12:17 AM
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Reading V_Y's reply alone I don't see how you can call women jackasses... What he is basically saying: live a healthy and fun (as in being passionate about the hobbies you do) life and women will come to you. Your answer sounds like you don't want to live healthy and have fun and blame women for not being attracted to a fat lazy boring man (over exaggerated a little for impact). You not settling for less than a HB8 but expecting women to settle down with a boring normie sounds fairly hypocritica…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 09:23 PM
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I would get rid of all the alcohol around the house and only ever buy some if a party is thrown at the place. I do this with snacks for that reason. If it's easily accessible, you'll need to be a lot more dedicated to keep your hands off it than when it's just not there. The next thing would be shopping, but if you go in with a list of what you need and stick to that list, the mental reward you'll get not buying booze when you walk out the store will be bigger than your hangover the next morning…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 10:35 PM
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I've started writing my thoughts down in a little journal and it's been helping me big time knowing what I want and need in my life, staying on the right track and keeping my mind in check. It has also greatly reduced the urge to start venting to other people in my life, reduced those moments when you can't fall asleep because your mind is going in overdrive, and it has reduced the time overall trying to jam this pill down my throat. I'm not saying I'm there yet, but the pill isn't as bitter as …
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 10:22 PM
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Was going to say the same. Take it a little easier. Everything needs time to change and I find that if there is more than three things changing at once, failing all happens a little too often. And where had I tried one or two at a time, I would have been fine in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 12:01 AM
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Genuinely don't know if what I'm about to say adds anything to your theory: I've been on NoFap for about 2,5 years now with sporadically giving into it maybe 4 times over those years. The funny thing is, ever since I started hitting the gym 5-7 times a week and adding Headspace (daily 10 mins of meditation) into my daily routine one year into NoFap, I haven't had one single setback. I do have plenty female attention now, so maybe that releases some sexual stress, but I honestly don't even think …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 07:18 PM
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Can't believe you say that you'd rather have your thoughts push you to committing suicide than talking about it, solving your problems, and live. If you had any form of abundance you wouldn't give a flying shit what other people think of you, and in the worst case cut these people, those who actually fucking helped you putting it all back together, out of your life.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 06:20 PM
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When I spent nights with three different girls in 5 days without the feeling that I had actually tried at all. I was just having fun those nights and everything really just happened without any effort.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 09:14 PM
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How do I combine running with hitting the gym six times a week? I love both running and lifting and switch in-between both when one of them is impossible to do for w/e reason, but wouldn't I lose too much energy/time to let hypertrophy do it's work and lose potential muscle? Can I implement running three times a week with the six day workout, or should i balance it out? Feel like it's a little over the top, hence why I haven't started living that way yet.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 02:31 PM
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I've been traveling cross-ocean on my own for the last six months and often catch myself thinking in this negative nihilistic mindset when I'm out alone hiking for the day. Realizing that everything I've done in my life won't matter to anyone else, can sometimes get the better of you. However, lately another thought has been popping up in my head everytime i seem to drop into this negative mindset. Just because it not making a single bit of difference in the end in the world, doesn't mean it has…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 05:38 PM
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Thanks for putting this onto paper. As a guy in his twenties you just made a big impact on me. I'm going to save this and read it back regularly to keep myself on track towards my mission.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 04:22 PM
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Had lots of success in the last half a year since I started travelling here.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 12:33 AM
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One of my favourite quotes goes like: "God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference." - Reinhold Niebuhr This little piece of wisdom has been keeping me sane whenever shit starts hitting the fan in rapid succession.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 09:19 PM
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Drinking water definitely helps a lot. Have a gallon with me all day every day. Thanks for your advice, definitely going to use it.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 02:36 PM
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Thanks for all the advice, definitely some stuff in there that will help me out. I definitely should be less of a bitch when it comes to giving in to the urge and just say no. Also the info about protein and fats is an eye-opener. Thanks again.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 02:33 PM
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Congratz on your weight-losing journey man, keep it up! I was wondering what you have done with your diet? What does your breakfast, lunch and dinner look like now? I'm not overweight but nonetheless pretty self-conscious about my body and constantly trying to improve my overall food-intake. Do you have any tips on eating healthy that you find work well for you? Or what to do when you start feeling hungry, knowingly it's not a good idea to eat at that moment. Thanks in advance!
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 01:25 AM
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Don't know how it went but try Headspace. They have a tryout called Take Ten. Been using it for almost a year now.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 09:30 PM
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Never heard of it but worth the try next time I take a coffee. Thanks for the tip!
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 09:20 PM
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Gotcha, thanks for your insight.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 05:07 PM
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Thank you very much. Going to try this tomorrow.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 05:07 PM
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Something like this is what the others are telling me as well. Thanks for the confirmation. No bread at all for you? I've been eating it for all my life and I'm going to miss it haha
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 11:54 AM
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I'll need more time in the morning to get all the food for the day but it's something I should try. Does your plate look like this every day? And should I combine eggs and nuts in a healthy salad for a good lunch for example? Sounds interesting, I'll look into it more. Thanks for the ideas and help.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 11:52 AM
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Ah yeah. I eat one orange, an apple and a banana a day. Good point though
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 11:46 AM
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Thank you. Been looking into IF so that's a good idea.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 06:13 PM
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Going pretty alright. Lifting three times a week, stronglift 5x5. Headspace meditation every night to keep myself on track. Rocking a 40 days streak. Still doing the 100 or more push-ups from Men of March every day. Hiking on the weekends and started doing some bakery which made me feel surprisingly good when it came all good en tasty out of the oven. Need some help with food though... I feel hungry every day all day long even though I eat 1 sandwich at 7 am. 1 at 10 am. 2 at 1 pm and a good din…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 02:44 PM
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Thank you very much. You got the season pass?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 11:14 PM
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That's the interview I was talking about. Really interesting too. I'm going to check on the times of the lecture now and I'll let you know.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 07:15 PM
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Living about 30 minutes away from Toronto. Would like to do something like this. Only moved to Canada three months ago, and as I do have a roof over my head, a full belly, a job and iron to pick up and put down, I'm still lacking a local social circle and people I can learn from/have fun with. Been looking into the stuff from Mr. Peterson for a while now and started following his YT channel when there was a post here from the interview he did with that one podcast (don't remember the name).
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 06:17 PM
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Can you explain me why people cry when they lose their loved ones? It's not so much that I'm trying to bust your comment but I can't think of a way I could apply your way of thinking on this matter. Do they cry over the friendship they lose but want so badly? Thanks in advance.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 01:52 AM
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I wear a watch with the one pointer reading 'Remember' and the other 'you will die'. I check my watch at least 15 times a day and it keeps me on track just reading it and seeing myself (backplate is a mirror). Best investment in a long time.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 12:06 AM
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You'll see her at the gym again. If a conversation comes up just tell her the same and if she doesn't take it you'll know for sure. She might leave every weekend, who knows...
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 11:02 PM
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I think the Rational Male (book) talks about a different author who has written stuff about your problem as he is also a Christian MRA. I'm not able to check it for you but someone else might know or you could do some searching yourself. There must be a PDF on the internet somewhere. It's mentioned all the way at the end by Tomassi.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 10:58 PM
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If it's active stuff that you are into, take her with you doing said activities. Topics about the things you're doing and also like, should be some good fuell for your convo's.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 10:41 PM
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You should be pointed for this post. I've been reading a lot about dopamine and sugar lately and the OP sums it up perfectly. If anyone wants to know more about this subject but rather not read endless amounts of books, I would recommend the movie 'That Sugar Movie'. It's a little subjective but still a really interesting documentary about sugar and what it does with your body and brain.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 06:24 PM
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