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Then don’t date her? People have free agency to do what they want and if you don’t think she has anything to offer than it doesn’t matter anyway because you won’t want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 09:47 PM
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She should make sure he has given her money that she has in her own account in the case she needs to leave. That’s why marriage is always the best though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:39 PM
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Ok I’m going to be blunt here. Hot women absolutely can get men who pay rent, gifts and dates. Some hot women don’t though because they have been conditioned to believe that it’s “unfair” or something. I think average women are honestly less likely to date as much anymore at all. They go to work, hang with girlfriends, family, pets ect and maybe have a fling here or there with a man but for the most part are staying single. Like what is the benefit to a women being in a relationship with a man i…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:13 PM
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That’s like life. Don’t be average. Hot fit women have it easier than fat ugly women. That’s just how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:14 PM
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That’s so sad for your mom, but at least she was probably married. I think it’s dumb for women to pay 50 percent of the rent to live with a just a boyfriend. I suppose some couples wanna do it that way married but the money is joint then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:10 PM
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A women who marries a successful man and has a family with him in her mid 20’s is like the definition of success in the RP world for women. It’s like you want women to hit the wall unmarried no kids and cats so they feel pain? That’s way more likely to happen dating a young man with no money and no marriage commitment for 5+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:42 PM
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I think some guys in their 20’s date women will really busy/full lives like them and/or date a women who just likes the same kinda tv shows or bars because it’s simply convenient. That guy might live in an expensive city, date a okay enough girl who shares rent and consistently fucks him while taking turns going out to eat and just live in that relationship for yearsssss. If he grows really well in his career he will drop her for a new better chick if he doesn’t he will probably stick with her a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:37 PM
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I don’t think a 8 year difference in age means you have nothing in common. One of my siblings is 7 years older than me but we look the same age and talk about the same stuff in our adult life. I still don’t think men truly care about the building with a women. Men want their own empire, at least successful American men, they don’t want to attribute anything success related to a women, especially a women who “built” with them by what, paying rent and cleaning without being married. Men that gain …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:48 PM
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Depends I have a several friends from high school on baby #3 age 24/25. All married for years. I also know people in 30’s no kids single. So it just depends where you live and the lifestyle you are looking to have. I think the national average for the US for first child is 28 for women. So I guess at least 50% want a kid by 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:40 PM
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She cleans the house he pays for it. She cooks the food he buys it. That’s a 50/50 relationship which most couples do. If she is splitting rent and food and cooking and cleaning for just herself that’s what roommates do. This is about couples not roommates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:36 PM
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It’s all in the appearance. Women need to be better at how they appear to men at certain times. Men rarely can put together the intricacies of things they are men. It’s soft voice, play dumb, pretend he taught you something, tell a feminine compassionate story once in a while. Bamb all done. And if that sounds like too much work than you already know that man isn’t worth the time because they obviously are not offering enough of what you want to play the part.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:15 PM
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Ahh that’s why it’s probably best to just know men are selfish and only use empathy to their own benefit. It sucks but finding a man who can do the most for you and make your life the easiest regardless of his emotions is what women need to do. Like a man that just messes up the house all the time but doesn’t care, doesn’t clean, doesn’t pick it up, doesn’t put it back ect is much better when you have a consistent professional cleaner who comes to take care of that stuff and he pays for it. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:06 PM
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No. Imagine being married to someone for 50 years but never having sex with them. I don’t feel like that’s a real marriage. I suppose if both people don’t like sex and don’t want to have sex marry each other it would be ok but I wanna say that’s probably rare. It certainly would be wrong to marry someone who wants a sex life and then saying you can’t have that because I don’t want/can’t have sex. The relationship won’t last in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:42 PM
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The average is the average for a reason. Must not ignore that even in some special cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:15 PM
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While seeming I am still, even years later, the only person on this sub that does think the biggest thing men can do to be the best to women is make money and be generous with it to her and also commit legally and spiritually to her. Money really does fit a lot when it comes to dating for men. Women who want a softer stress free life, having a man who can pay for things and not having to worry about the thing most people worry about the most will keep her happiest. Take a women out for a nice di…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:13 PM
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Right. So if that is the case for that 25 year old women. They need to date older men. If they don’t then right they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:01 PM
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Well getting jaded by dating a brokie for years certainly isn’t gonna get most women to their so call newfound “peak value” in 30’s. Wow red pill has really changed it use to be women lost all the best opportunities once they hit 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:57 PM
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All of this is averages. Everyone knows pretty women have an easier time and wealthier men have an easier time, on average. A young pretty women dating a young broke man, who has potential, but can’t commit in marriage = a doing well 30’s man marrying a fat women because she potentially is gonna loose weight because she signed up at a gym. Women don’t need relationship experience. I don’t know what you’re saying there as a red pill man don’t you want the less fucked women? More to relationship t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:58 AM
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That’s kinda proving my point. If you are 25 and you want to have a kid by 28 you gotta date up because men don’t really want to have kids in their 20’s, but men after early 30’s do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:43 AM
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The 43 year old has some money though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:37 AM
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I’m mostly just taking about possible wasted time. Spend 3+ years in a relationship with a man in his 20’s he still might not be ready for marriage. Maybe wants to date others, not sure, hasn’t reached financial goals, friends aren’t in the same spot ect. Women though not a lot of benefit if she spends age 24-27 in that relationship, has to leave because he won’t commit, now she is back in the dating world in late 20’s vs early.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:31 AM
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Last longer doesn’t mean much unless it’s lifelong. If priorities include marriage and kids, better not to waste age 23-27 in a relationship building with a man who might marry you, but also might not, regardless of what he tells the women. A 25 year old women and 33 year old man might be 8 years apart, but want the same things, thus actually be in similar phase in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:22 AM
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A man could “build” with you and leave in the end because they would rather have a younger new girl who’s prettier to have his babies. And right when she thought all those years of building was gonna earn her the ring and family she always wanted. Now she has to start over, more jaded and older. I don’t think the chance to be possibly seen as more equal if you actually get “picked” is worth the chance you take rather than dating a man you don’t have to do all that with. Less jaded, stressed, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:39 PM
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Depends on the 24 year old and the 32 year old. Some might want a house and kids. Some might wanna get drunk and go to concerts. If you are the 24 year old that wants a house and kids in a few years might be better to go with someone not in 20’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:34 PM
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What are peoples opinions on girls/guys trips? You hear some RP men say girls trips are a red flag, which each to their own, but then also think it’s fine for a guys trip to Vegas?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:09 AM
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Sierra Mist is a vintage retired soda
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:19 PM
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You can't force women to ask you out. If you want to date you ask. If you don't then don't. Not a gender role issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:18 PM
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Why does two plus two equal four?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:54 PM
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Because she doesn't want to ask. Women asking men on dates is like a women buying men flowers. It's lame. And women don't want to fuck men those men because it's not hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:53 PM
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Because you could also say that who ever asks pays. But men ask majority of the time. Women also put more time effort and money into beauty for a date. From clothes, jewelry, makeup skincare, soaps, fragrance ect. Men can wear a white t and blue jeans with some hair gel and thats it. I know some men say "oh she does that for herself" but all and all if she showed up to that date with unstyled hair, no makeup, it a t shirt and jeans you would think she doesn't care about the date vs if she have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 03:16 PM
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If you were a pretty girl born in 1972 and never left the medium size town you grew up you would just never have the opportunity women have today. If you are a pretty girl born in 2000's and up, you have never known life without internet and probably had a phone and social media in middle school. You can actively make yourself more seen and available for life opportunities. Most of the times men pay for dates and it's always been that way. The only reason women wanted to pay their part of the da…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:38 PM
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I think RP just loves destruction and want to watch things burn. Kinda like an 8 year old that wants to blow something up "because it's cool". They just never really passed that phase. JustPearlyThings lately, even the rp men are like "uh what"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:02 PM
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Why are women allowing themselves to get sucked into this whole “the next one will be better than the current guy I’m seeing” fallacy? Because they are not happy with the man they are with. Even if that man think he is great, charming, fit, successful or on track to be successful. Does not matter. If she feels she can do better and wants to try to do better she will try. This is true for men and women but I do think it happens more often for women because men have more time and can stay in an un…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:55 PM
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People can have what ever requirements they want in a relationship. If men want to be with women where they are the girl and she's the boy then that is their issue. Though I think being a SAHH is still fairly rare. I'm the kinda of women where I want things paid for. I want kindness. I want love and attention. If a man can't offer that to me, doesn't mean he is a bad guy or unattractive, I just wouldn't want to be with him because he cannot or won't offer what I am looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 05:47 PM
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A first impression can make SO much difference in how people see and treat you. We live in a super causal environment almost everywhere and apart from the occasional special occasion, we live in workout clothes, t shirts, sweatpants, running sneakers, sandals ect. So when someone is dressed in a nice dress, heels, with a friendly demeanor...they just look like a elevated person in life and will normally be treated as such. I think this is true for people that are not even the most "attractive" b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:18 PM
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Then a guy asking a women "what's your body count" and she says 0 but has sucked 200 dicks, because she didn't have sex with them. Still a whore though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 10:41 PM
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Sounds like you're better off without her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:42 PM
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Yep that typical happens. Men who pay the bills, pay for dates/treats, are emotionally present ect...those women want to sleep with their partner, cook meals, take care of the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:41 PM
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Lying by omission is still lying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:39 PM
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If that particular women wants that and you want to be with her sure. If not then no. If you pay all the bills and do most of the chores why are you with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:38 PM
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Men should plan and pay for dates regularly, men should give gifts, flowers, money for beauty things ect. A lot of men don't do that because they either have no money, or they are selfish. Insecure women/pick me women date these men. Because they think they are getting somewhere with the "I don't need gifts" "I don't need a dinner date" you are my king and I love you for nothing while I pay half the bills cook and clean and you spend all your extra money on gaming stuff or drinks with the boys. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 03:06 PM
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If you don't pay for her, you don't love her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:57 PM
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So what is the difference between standards and expectations? I personally know a women in her 30's that is really pretty and feminine, still lives at home, involved in church and obviously wants to wait till marriage...but she is 31/32? and the clock is ticking what should she do. It's her standards and exceptions that that man also is willing to wait, she's fit and healthy so I would say he should be healthy too, she's religious so he needs to be at least fitting for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:47 PM
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Same for men. Age range within 10 years is 10% of the population but it goes down even further from there. We have to think how many women are just the "hookup women" to men not the wife material women. The the man has to actually be attracted to her physical body. And those are just the basics and take MANY women out of the running for commitment from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:27 AM
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Men need to offer something like women offer something. In a traditional relationship a man goes to work to provide money and the women uses thus money to buy and cook meals, care for the home, care for the children, and care for the man...on every level. Men need to provide and reassure and comfort when their women is scared, worried, in pain...and if you can do that she returns a much better deal in giving you a comfortable clean home, happy healthy children, and endless love and support for y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:51 PM
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Men need to be what women want just as women need to be what men want to be picked. If a guy is getting rejected and then just sulks he has given up. Get in the gym, get the money up, join some social things and just get better and then you will get rejected less. Wheres that statistic that over 50 percent of men 18-30 has never asked out a girl in real life? How can you be rejected if men are not even trying apart from apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:12 PM
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4b movement
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:06 PM
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Final word what? If she says on the date "Yeah I'm looking for a LTR" and he is like "Yeah me too" when he isn't...he is just lying to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:16 PM
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The guys that ruin women also want a "good" wife to have kids with one day too. They play the field till their friends start getting married and have kids then a light goes off where they want a wife and son to play baseball with too. The other group of men you are talking about don't even talk to women so that's a problem they gotta fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:14 PM
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I will always think the issue is in what the guy is telling the women. If he takes her on a date and she has expressed she is looking for a relationship and he runs with that knowing that he will not want that but still goes on to sleep with her then never speak to her again. You can do that, but that is why women loose trust men. So when you're older and ready for a wife and kids and can't find any "good girls" to settle with, just know you actively participated in ruining those girls in your y…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 02:24 PM
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Wearing makeup is needed because other women wear makeup. If all the sudden all makeup just disappeared from the planet then fine no makeup, but thats not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 01:55 PM
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Women don't have to wear heels anywhere it's a choice. I am 5'2 and will always be short to most people heels or not. Most heels are 2 to 3 inches tall, not 6 inch stilettos like models wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:50 PM
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Brunches, wedding guest, formals, church, nice date night, professional interview or internship sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:31 PM
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If women are forced to reproduce than would men be forced to pay $$ and care for the women emotionally? For every "single mother" there is a deadbeat dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:09 PM
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I found a man now
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:56 PM
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I'm a genuinely religious girl who also likes restaurant dates, gifts, and trips. No problem with that to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 10:00 PM
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If a 25 year old women is willing to date in the 35-early 40's range he would have money and be looking for that age of women to start a family. Paying rent, nothing to do with if married or not. If the 25 year old women marries the 25 year old guy with no $$, she'll be workin to pay the bills to instead of being in the home having babies. Religious wanna be housewife in her 20's is the best possible situation to be in to land a high income earning man, she should be picky. Only the younger high…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:41 PM
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So if she is 90% traditional does she only need to provide 10% financially?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:42 PM
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Isn't a 25 year old women suppose to be going out on dates looking to find the best possible guy that she can now? Sure she could just be with a dude who can't afford to take her out often and makes her pay 50% of the rent but that sounds like something she should do in her 30's when options are more sparse? Just like if a guy is in shape making good money he is not going to spend time dating some worn out career women with a bad attitude, he is going to date the young hot blonde who smiles a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:33 PM
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A lot of men say they just want a thin virgin/low body count women but they don't JUST want that. They think a girl like that is a blank slate freshly born for just them in the world of dating and they can mold every part of her personality to exactly what they would like...and then if she doesn't fit the mold she gets cut loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:24 PM
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If you don't provide 100% financially then why would a traditional women be with you when she could be with someone that can provide 100% because her kind is so rare?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 07:16 PM
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Q4M: Would you/do you buy your girlfriend "just because" gifts? Or if she asks for something specific she wants like makeup or shoes/bag ect. would you buy it for her or tell her she can buy it with her own money?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:35 PM
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It might just be the type they are. Because if you are a type of women who is very beautiful the men she goes out with might even be embarrassed to let her pay. Even yourself in a relationship with a women who pays for everything encouraged you to stay with them. So a lot of women want that type of care and it doesn't mean that they all are sucky people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 02:05 AM
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Even if she remains a virgin and becomes religious her background will prevent her from marrying because her word wouldn't mean and much as a religious fathers word would mean to other men about his daughter and she doesn't have an earthly father. With this mindset very few women would ever be able to get married, yet marriages happen everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:22 PM
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So its really birthright that decides the possibility for a traditional women? Because if a women is born into an unstable home, example raised but a liberal single mom who has drug issues, it really doesn't matter because the world she is born into is seen as low value thus she is automatically low value for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:49 PM
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Only a month or two? She can only take that gamble with 2 or 3 guys before she starts having a body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 10:49 PM
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6 months? 2 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:48 PM
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So traditional is solely related to sex? But men can't fit that because a traditional man would be a beta not a alpha? So how long should the man wait to be with a traditional women sexually because any high value man is not going to suffer with sexual frustration?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:41 PM
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But is the different between a "modern" women and just a women? Every women alive today is born into "modern" times and thus is modern. You can't be traditional in modern times because women still have to have jobs, bills, hobbies ect?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:35 PM
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Every women is modern in modern time? Doesn't mean she is promiscuous. Whats wrong with a women expecting more than Netflix and chill?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 02:15 PM
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That would be different depending on the women, age of couple, or even geographical location. I say afford as in be able to afford to take her on dates regularly, dinner dates, activity dates. Being able to buy her gifts. Take her on a trip to do an activity you both enjoy. If you are 18/19 years old in college it might mean dinner dates are at Applebees and gifts are some candy and a candle early on, but if you are older than that it's going to take a little more than that college kid stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 02:13 AM
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Yes, to me if a man doesn't have money to afford himself and me or can't commit with wandering eyes looking for the next women then I would be less sexually attracted to him. Just like if a women was fat and always mad, men would prefer a healthy happy women and be more attracted to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:11 AM
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Women simply have different requirements for sexual attraction than men. Men need want things like a thin body, feminine, happy, willing, no strings. Women want things like masculine, healthy, kind, loving, commitment, ability to provide. The reality is that men and women simply don't want the same thing, which could make dating harder for both genders, not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 11:41 PM
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Whats crazy is that some men can't pick up on extreme flirting whatsoever and other men think that because you're smiling you desire to suck their dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:46 PM
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One girl could experience that 20 times a day from 20 different men. So it only repeated to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:54 PM
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He can't protect me from others who might harm me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:39 PM
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A young women walking down the street to work she shouldn't be subject to a man 20 years older than her asking for sex or trying to touch her. That's harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:38 PM
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Women you know are not working? Maybe they don't want to text every 5 minutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:33 PM
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Because they are busy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:14 PM
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What is older to you for a 21 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 03:13 PM
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I'm 21. I can be in whatever league I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:36 PM
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OK. Im a 21 year old woman and I think men who are 30 look at me like the food. They want to sexually have me and spit me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:34 PM
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A 30 year old man probably wants to start settling down and start a family Not anymore. 30 year old men just think they are 20 still mentally. They don't want to commit to one women, spend money on kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:23 PM
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Maybe those examples are less true for people in their 30's but guys in their mid twenties absolutely think that way. Not every guy of course, but many do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:52 PM
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She's fake, I don't think for a second she truly believes what she says, she wants views, just like how some women use their body, she is using her month to get them. I mean come on she is wearing a t shirt that says "women shouldn't vote" in her clips lately, like what. Also, I think she is probably way pickier that you think. She wants a tall guy that makes some cash because she tall and makes money, and is from a wealthy family. I have a feeling she will get married and have a family one day,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:56 AM
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The thing is that is normally where they found those women, in a club in a tight skimpy dress. These men wants to capture a free bird, only to put her in a cage. If he does not like that a women is doing that his disapproval will mostly push her more, he really should just leave. I am talking about men who flip because their girl wears some leggings to the gym and gets mad because men might look at her ass or a man not liking a guy friend that she has that happens to be her childhood neighbor or…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:50 AM
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The problem is when men try to justify that they can control women because of their internal emotions and feelings. Example being controlling what your girl can wear, who she can be friends with, when she needs to be available to you ect. Or another problem is a lot of men might think a girl with a past might not be marriage material but she might be a nice girl who does sex well so they play her by using her, even for years, when they have no intent to marry her but want to have a girlfriend. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:04 PM
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That's part of love. Men protect and provide, women support and nurture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:30 AM
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I don't hookup but I do date those men. A man with a nice career and apartment is cool to 21 year old me. I don't say that as I wouldn't date a guy that has roommates/has a regular job not a career, but it does show that a guy is advancing and taking care of himself, and he needs to do those things before he could take care of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 02:45 AM
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Men who are "genuinely kind" want payment for their kindness. The want to have dominance over their girlfriends life, like in what she is allowed to wear, who she can hangout with, how fast she need to answer the phone/text ect. Men feel like this is justified because they are "genuinely kind" and "just wants wants best for her" when in reality they just want a human that is theirs to own...but hey, they are "genuinely kind" smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:18 PM
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I think women in general look out for the women in a age gap relationship. Like I'm 21 and my friends are juniors in college. What college student wants to take their 35 year old boyfriend to her dorm?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:41 PM
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Relationships are built after being acquired.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:22 PM
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If a women jumps into a mans arms and wants to text all day, does favors for him, sleeps with him...all after he took her out for a dinner date...that she paid half off...he is not going to value that women much, because he did nothing to attain her. He will use her till he gets bored and find someone new.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:03 PM
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Communication isn't value. Actually I never go on there, only know that means female dating strategy from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:58 PM
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Then you got easy ones. Easy ones just take anything. Anything of value requires effort, or it wouldn't be valuable to attain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:53 PM
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Not act hard to get, be hard to get. Men think they want easy but they don't. If its too easy the men will think that women is desperate. The man wooing the women is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:43 PM
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The is a difference between being easy to get along with and being easy. Men like some resistance in getting a girl. Not that its impossible to get her but if it's too easy men get bored and may see her as desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:41 PM
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Depends how much effort they put into the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:38 PM
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Guys don't chase anymore? Where did you hear that guys are chasing everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:19 PM
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This isn't manipulation? Also I don't think that many women even want relationships anymore unless it's to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:37 PM
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Men don't want "cheap" women. Women decide if they want to be "valuable" which means being hard to get, the chase, have to impress her ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:31 PM
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Men only see women as valuable as women see themselves. The girls who are with men and people don't understand why he would be with her, not the she isn't pretty but he could do better, it's because she is so mysterious to him and he needs to know her. She is just another human, but she doesn't tolerate disrespect, cheapness, lack of attention...so he wants her because she has made herself seem hard to get, he plays the game. My point to this is women are with good looking guys (why not) only fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:18 PM
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Yep. So men are pretty picky about what they want just like women are picky about what that want too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 08:18 PM
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You know men could always be in a relationship but they don't want to settle for less than what they want either. Watching porn of a hot women is better than a 300 pound girlfriend to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:55 PM
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Just curious, why are you working at all? With small children and you doing 95% and 75% of cleaning and caring for kids you shouldn't have to work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:02 PM
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2 weeks into a dating someone nobody should assume they are being exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:36 PM
2

I didn't ask for equality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:20 PM
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I wish more women would embrace their femininity and see the inherent value in it I think many women WANT to be feminine, but they don't have the luxury to do so. They may not have a partner that provides for them. Women have to wake up a 6am and go to work all day, for money to pay bills, thats stressful on men and it's even more stressful on women. Even so called "masculine men" want women to pay on dates nowadays? They want her to work and pay half the bills? I actually think the reason men d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 04:07 PM
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If an adult man can't spend a few hundred bucks a month on pursuing me then I am going to feel like his priorities are not where I want them in a partner. If he can't afford basic things and wants me to pay on dates how is he going to afford a place for us to live? or baby stuff like diapers and a carseat? Is he going to demand I work up until I give birth or make sure he provides and I can be home? If you had a college-aged son who was serious about providing for his future family, would you wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:50 PM
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Im not sure about this one. 18 and 23 is strange but I guess it depends on the situation. 18 and 21 could be a college freshman and a college junior and thats normal so its not crazy far off. 23 and 38 is a really big gap. It's not illegal or anything but just not common. And if that 23 year old is dating a 38 year old, man or women, they are doing it for the resources the older person provides. Like free rent, gifts, money, dinners, trips ect. they are not going to date someone so much older an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:32 PM
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What is young? I think many women want to stay home and have kids. Maybe not at 18 but probably at 28.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:23 PM
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It's not though. A dinner date does not have to be $500. A dinner date with a women you are dating can be $50 and if you can't afford to spend $50 a week on taking your girlfriend out then idk if you should be dating. If a man was going out to the bar with his friends he would drop some money no problem on drinks and food for himself, might even get a round for his buddies. So why can't he somehow afford a weekly date night and even other things once in a while like a gift for her, some flowers,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:07 PM
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That is very dependent on the lifestyle you want to live. The society of today is prioritizing self image, having a super car or nice vacations, or having an expensive home in the suburbs. If people are willing to prioritize family instead of showy things that can have a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 06:28 PM
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Men don't say they don't care about a womens job or they don't want her to make more than they do because it will make him not feel as masculine but then also hate when she doesn't bring in as much as he does and she does home/childcare too?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:59 PM
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The "traditional family unit" was made by men for the benefit of the majority of men. What benefit is there for a women that wants a husband and children to be with men that do not want that? None. If you don't aspire to be a husband or a father you better be at the top or life is going to be pretty lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:36 PM
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My effort is taking care of my body, having a grateful attitude, looking clean with appropriate makeup, nails, hair, outfit for the date. It takes more time, effort, and money for women to do these things than men. I am looking for a man that has the resources to pay for the date and wants to impress me. If he doesn't want to plenty of other men will.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:14 PM
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I just don't want to pay for the dates. I don't mind going on them but if out of 20 dates I go on only 1 is looking for a life partner as well and not just looking to hookup then I don't want to be paying for all those dates with trash men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:08 PM
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I am 21 and I have found that older men (7+years older than me) do not respect me on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:59 PM
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Im a 21 year old women, which is supposably my prime but I actually feel this is a very difficult age to date because even men that are 24/25 years old do not want the family life for another 10 years, which I don't want to wait for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:52 PM
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When men talk about the lack of relationships for them they men lack of ability to be chad. Many of the so called average men involved in RP can find a regular average women to match with on a dating app but the problem is they don't keep her. They want to hookup with her, they want her to desire him, they want compliments from her, they want her to do things for him...but they don't want to keep her, marry her, get her pregnant, care for her, provide for her and provide for the child. Why? Beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:00 PM
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The cool thing about a man not wanting to commit is that women can be dating other guys during that time. She could have a date every night of the week cause she's single!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:40 AM
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That means that women would be paying for dates that would be all doomed because 95% of men just want to get laid. If a man wants to pay for dates I'm not going to argue about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:39 AM
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Men having a clean body and not on drugs is becoming a women now?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:28 PM
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What should women be doing? What should men be doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:27 PM
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Idk what that means but because you're the religious one how do women find a hubby to have a family when men can't even pay their bills and smell like weed?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:26 PM
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Men are not working on themselves as much as women are. They are overweight, don't clean themselves properly, don't clean their personal spaces properly like car, kitchen, bathroom, bedroom. They have no advancing career goals, no desire to get married/have kids, video game dependent, nicotine dependent, maybe drug/alcohol issues, porn is a regularly consumed thing ect. How can you possibly become a "High Value Man" when you live like this?? Most women do have a job with a salary, they do have h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:01 PM
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Women will come to value themselves more in the next decade. Not women trying to be like men and women, but women being like women and forcing men to step up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 06:52 PM
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Thats not women's fault for not being attracted. Become attractive to the women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:40 PM
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Women are achieving higher is so many things like education and income. Women buy more houses than men in 2023. Even physically there are more overweight men than women despite the pushed narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:39 PM
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I am just saying, women don't want the average man of today because they are not desirable and choose not to become desirable and then say "Be happy that I put up with you women" like he is the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:21 PM
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But it doesn't really matter people will alway go for the best. To an average man and average women won't be hot like a super model and that average man is probably more attracted to super models. Women don't need the commitment like they use to they have jobs. So why should a regular women settle for a guy she does not want for commitment she does not want with that man?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:18 PM
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Then women are what they are. Men made those Disney movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:16 PM
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I don't think thats true. Even if majority of women said "We understand you struggle but we are still going to strive for the best and accomplish more than you men as women" men wouldn't like that. They want women to stop striving for their best and to be happy with way less.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:12 PM
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So women should make less money and like men they don't like that offers them less than they can do themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:09 PM
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Men can better themselves and make themselves more desirable to be loved. Just like a women who is a overweight and has bad skin can better herself and lose the weight and take care of her body/skin. Men can do they same. They can get healthy, make friends, get a better job and get their money up, keep their spaces clean and welcoming ect. Men are choosing to not better themselves FOR themselves, which in tune makes you better for society and other people like you more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:03 PM
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Thats what makes being a women more desirable. Women step up for themselves. Men will only step up for a women. That's why women can be happy with her friends, her hobbies, her job, her dog, her family ect. not video games and porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:32 PM
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If a man under 25 is supposedly doing everything, idk one man under 25 who does any other that stuff, they why is he having more kids and working 3 jobs. Like ik you are not working 3 jobs if you're on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:39 PM
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The share of the housework has gone up only because women work full time. Men do those tasks with a begrudgingly like they are doing a favor to the wife not that it is equally their task to do or else men would not need to be asked to do things/clean things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:36 PM
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Ok...but men a lot of time don't want to do the childcare, or cooking and clean, or general household tasks like shopping and making appointments. So is she expected to do those thinks and work to pay the mortgage as well? Or if she does all those things and he does not need to he should take care of the bills. I think a lot of men would say a SAHM is a burden because she does not financially provide even if she takes care of everything else but they also would say that a working wife/mom is bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:22 PM
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Right so people mothers worked full time but dads never did the cooking 3 nights a week or the grocery shopping or make your ortho appointment. It was always mom who did that stuff. Dad might have took out the trash and mowed the lawn but he didn't to the daily tasks. Like no kid of the 2000's remembers dad getting them ready for bed or ready for school as a 5 year old. So how are men suppose to do that stuff now if they don't want to do it? Like they want the women to do the kid stuff and cook …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:16 PM
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Q4M: Is it wrong for women to be stay at home mothers in 2023? Should she contribute financially and do the home care and child raising as a women? Most women in the 80's, 90's 2000's did full time jobs and did all the cooking, cleaning, childcare, grocery shopping, appointment making ect. So how can men be expected to marry women that don't do everything like their mothers did?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 04:41 PM
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The mans payment for dinner is the company of a women on the date. Getting to talk and have conversation with her and be seen in a public area with her. She should always say thank you after dinner but that is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:24 PM
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The company of a women being out to dinner with him. Talking to him. That is the process of a man dating a women. He is to prove himself to her not the other way around. If he feels that is too difficult then he needs to date down or not date at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:20 PM
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Women can sleep with men they don't want a relationship with though. Especially younger women its more beneficial for them to be single and date multiple men than to just say with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:43 AM
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I don't think it truly is most men that have a problem with dating. I think it's most men who have a problem not being the "alpha" male with lots of bitches who want to be fucked by him. RP always says "women are the gatekeepers of sex, men the gatekeepers of relationships". Any guy can get into a relationship, probably with a girl above his league if he wanted too, he just isn't attracted to that type of girl and/or wants multiple girls like other men out there get. Another factor is money. Dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:07 AM
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Q4M: What is "dating" or a "relationship" look like to you? It seems like so many men out here want a "girlfriend" but to them a girlfriend isn't someone they take out on dates she's just a hot girl who has constant sex with him and tells him he is great?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:55 PM
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She is still a single mother and the child is still a bastard according to statistics. The mother is less valuable/less respected as a baby momma to a alpha than as a wife to a beta. The child will be less respected as a adult for not having married parents in a traditional household.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:11 PM
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If RP says that marriage is bad and to avoid but then men want children they would be having children out of wedlock, making a single mom and a bastard child which is keeping on with the problem they hate, because RP men don't like single moms and feel like they should keep their legs closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:36 PM
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Men "friend zone" women all the time because if she is not attractive to the man physically there is no chance. And yes men are attracted to more women than women are to men but in more of a hookup way not in a way where they are willing to walk around in public with her way. Personality and personal likes/dislikes matter in relationships because you spend a lot of time with the person. If they hate what you love and vice vera it won't work. Even little things like one loves scary movies and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:18 PM
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But women can live at home and not pay rent
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:30 PM
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Men are just not pursuing marriage as much anymore. They don't have any money, but the little money they do have they are afraid of spending a dime on someone else who isn't perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:59 PM
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Beautiful women would have the same type of problem..."Is this man with me for my personality or because I'm hot?" And men know it's more because she is hot than anything. How we look, our values, our money/resources and lots of other factors determine who someone is. If a women liked you when you had money and one of the reasons she liked you ways because of thus money it's the same as a man saying a man like a women because she was thin with soft skin. If the man loses his money or the women b…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:13 PM
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You are saying that deadbeat fathers are men who women are getting pregnant with in the first two weeks of knowing each other as well as using fake statistics based on...personal assumption? What if instead of 2 weeks it was 2 months? 2 years? Would that change the landscape? Because deadbeat fathers are men of all kinds, even married men. It is not just the men that get some girl knocked up from a few hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:16 PM
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She isn't demanding payment he is willingly doing it. Wouldn't that be the mans fault. He could keep it fair and just say no?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:09 AM
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Why would he pay for her food at all then, because its like like he is paying for sex? If sex is a mutual benefit then he shouldn't being paying for anything. If she said "I will only come over and have sex if you pay" and he does it isn't he paying for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:05 AM
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Or is the meal for sex worth the cost of the meal. Like if she went not with the intention of free food but to go on a date and he pays knowing that she will sleep with him isn't she still in his debt because sex is mutual?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:56 AM
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But she many not have sex with him either way?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:54 AM
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Neither people are getting paid in either situation. He might pay for streaming services which she is watching, or take a shower with his hot water, or sleep in his bed with a roof over it for the night that he paid for. It could be parasitic for her to do that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:34 AM
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Is a women going on a date for a free meal the same as a man asking a women to come over to Netflix and chill?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:53 PM
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Women don't need to bring anything to the table and men still want them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 04:33 PM
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Men need safety and peace in the form of having a clean home, having a warm meal to eat, knowing their children are being cared for by their mother. Masculine men don't want women to financially provide for them because it takes away their purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 06:18 PM
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Why do people say this. If he cheat on her and she flies for divorce she would not of done that if he did not break marriage vows? Like who is causing divorce her. If the women are filing more its because the other person is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:33 PM
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I as a women would rather live a fugal life and stay home with my kids and take care of my home and husband than ever go work a job to bring in income to have a fancy life with eyelash extensions or whatever. It also so curious to me why men are so upset that women don't want to work a job and work at home. When a man loves a women, and men love their mothers and daughters and sisters, they DON'T want them to have an ounce of struggle in life. They want to provide them safety and give them peace…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:28 PM
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Q4M: If the majority of men no longer want to be legally married doesn't that just make the majority of women single cat ladies or single moms. Because its marriage that makes them not part of the statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:01 PM
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So when is "the wall" anymore? I mainly hear 25 or 30, sometimes 35. But then I also hear 18-25 is the most attractive so what happens to people 26-29? They are not under 25 but also not yet 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:58 PM
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That sounds like an assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:32 PM
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Because its hard and difficult to do that. Men who love the women in their life don't want them to HAVE to struggle. They want them to be at peace and not have stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 03:20 PM
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Also are you saying that people should write off any adult that has divorced parents, or maybe single parent, or homes with trauma like someone died of illness? You are not going to find to many people who don't have some level of dysfunction or trauma in their home. Even the super rich kids of the Upper East Side and Beverly Hills grew up in dysfunctional families, they just have money to patch the parts that don't look as nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:37 AM
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Maybe you grew up poor with a single mom or maybe you grew up the the jones style family in the suburbs that looked perfect but actually had no love and your dad have a drug addiction. That poor kid with the single mom might have been so envious of the kid with the jones family, but that jones kid got yelled at all the time, hated by parents, mentally struggled. While the single mom kid, may have not had a dad, yet had a mom that loved them. From a RP viewpoint, the outside looking in, the kid w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:27 AM
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I am not a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:10 AM
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I promise, its not a special case that women will pick up more plates than men today.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:09 AM
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An alpha can't be married unless he has a wife he wants to disrespect which means he does not love her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:08 AM
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When a man truly loves a women he would do anything to make her life easier, including letting her staying home if that what she wants. Men don't want the women they love to be stressed at work. The only men saying this are men that will never earn enough money (like under 50/60k a year) to let their women stay home. I bet some peoples dads worked two jobs so their wife could stay home, because that kept her sweet and soft. The workplace forces women to be providers, no wonder she can't be peace…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:01 AM
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You know lots of men don't mind being "beta" men. They most likely don't even know what it means. They like having a wife and children and going to church and doing thinks for others. They don't obsess over chad, or height, or get mad that women get stuff men don't because they are hot. They just live life, enjoy holidays, participate in the community ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:53 AM
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Just because it is not my experience does not mean its not womens experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:55 AM
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Conservative women don't work 40 hour work weeks to come home and cook and clean? They stay home and cook and clean. You cannot expect a women to do all the domestic work if she works a normal job. You are working extra by choice. If you want domestic work done tell her to quit her job and do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:41 PM
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Never been my experience. I wouldn't tolerate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:34 PM
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Paying for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:34 PM
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Could you say the same the other way around?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:33 PM
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You teach kids to put their toys away so you don't step on a lego? You teach kids to not leave snacks out so ants don't arrive? I hope you have a clean home for your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:32 PM
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Is it normal to flush the toilet after you go to the bathroom in it? Or is that just a "different state of cleanliness"? If take a dish out, put food on it, eat off it, how is it going to get back clean to use again if you leave it on the table for the ants meal?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:30 PM
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Being a pick me is not settling. It's being feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:27 PM
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Why are you working a 80 hour week? Hire a cleaning person. Your wife is tired from her normal work week. You are choosing to work extra and complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:17 PM
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The post title was too many women want a father not a husband. My CMV is that men are children not husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:55 PM
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I don't mean they will be a HVM or anything. But a man. They could have someone marry them for a green card if they just want to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:34 PM
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What does this have to do with what I wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:32 PM
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Unless you are like a 2 you could always settle in a marriage if you wanted to. Women get married in their 40's even, or do second marriages in their 50/60's. Women get the carefree fun lifestyle in their 20's and even early 30's if they choose to and then when they are older they could settle in a marriage if that is truly what they want OR stay single, focus of the career. They won't be alone in at as the high majority of women will be "single" along with them. Also its not the validation of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 04:00 PM
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This is more commonly seen by men and women who are in a 50/50 relationship and living together yet the man just feels like "Oh im done eating im just going to leave this plate on the coffee table" rather than picking it up and putting it in the dishwasher. Do that enough times and the girlfriend gets sick of having to go pick up his plate at the table to put in the dishwasher and she asks "Why can't you do this" and he thinks she is being naggy because "Its just a plate" Thats why when men say …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 03:46 PM
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Women on their own do better than men do on their own. Also single means unmarried, they could just be in a LTR just unmarried and childfree. Women who make much more than the man wouldn't likely WANT to marry him because in the case of divorce he could be the one coming after her for alimony. Should an average women do an average job to marry an average man to have an average family if that's not what she wants if she has the ability to become a high income earner and do what she pleases with h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:03 PM
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You want her to be 20-25 but not have a full time job? How is she to pay her bills?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 08:44 PM
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I remember the Christian women with the blog that wrote that article "Men prefer debt free virgins without tattoos"...now its a freaking meme for red pill men -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:16 AM
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Can someone make a interesting post or something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:25 AM
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Its really not. What if the girl wants to date you but all be called a whore while fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:23 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:19 AM
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Its just a regular question
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:56 AM
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Would you date a girl that wanted that or want to call a girl you date that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:52 AM
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I want another purge
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 12:48 AM
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Why is it toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:01 PM
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Validation is essentially social approval from others, while sociopathic is anti social and not social approval, so I don't understand how those can mean the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:00 PM
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Why is that a concern?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:58 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:58 PM
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Q4M: What is wrong with a women wanting validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:06 PM
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Men with money don't care if they pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 04:01 PM
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If a girl is thin and wears no makeup/light natural makeup but plain Jane clothing like regular jeans and a shirt, she is seen as less attractive than the girl who is thin wearing ig style makeup, manicure pedicure done, lashes, tan skin, fitted tight outfit ect. The crazy thing is it could be the same girl that guy doesn't even notice when she is plain vs when she is all made up he thinks she's hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:29 PM
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Wdym? I shouldn't take care of my husband and kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 01:49 AM
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I am not saying men don't fine them attractive I am saying men find hot club sluts to be more useful for crazy wild sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:55 PM
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That screws up the madonna whore complex. One girl for making love to (respectable, modest, mother of your children) the other for fucking (hot, sexy, free, confident, expensive)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:53 PM
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You could say the same with women. Men want a "tradwife" type for cooking, cleaning, child raising. But when they want to go out on the town or travel or have crazy wild sex they want the fun confident crazy hot girl with the makeup nails and tight dresses on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:31 PM
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Thats what Mr Andrew Tate says.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:21 PM
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Maybe you are only defining "women" as women you are attracted to. Because I am sure that there are girls in libraries who are introverts too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:55 PM
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The men on this sub believe that men own their girlfriends. So if she makes money from the deal he probably believes he is entitled to the cash because he temporarily owns her pussy till he decides it gets too old and discards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 11:57 AM
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Why do men get mad that women can make money from their sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 12:14 PM
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But they are like that to traditional women too. Or they "respect" traditional women but don't want anything to do with them because they are not a fun whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:29 PM
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I don't want to have sex with someone that makes me pay bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:59 AM
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Thats a reach because most girls don't wear push up bras or heels anymore this isn't 2005. Makeup but he probably saw her with no makeup as well and most girls wear natural style makeup. He might be wearing shoe lifts and claim to be 6 foot when he is really 5"10? Don't know till later.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:55 AM
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But if their husband does leave all the housework and childcare on them and they want a divorce they get blamed for that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:03 AM
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3 months that's it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:02 AM
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This is a traditional arrangement, not a sugar thing? Also, women don't want two jobs, work job and home job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:20 AM
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I love a man that makes enough money to not make me work two jobs, work and home job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:18 AM
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What pisses off men the most?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:21 AM
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If a women has to work after being married she might as well stay single. What is the benefit of the man if he is unable to provide for you to take care of him and the kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:15 AM
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Dating a women, her telling the man she is looking for a committed relationship, him telling her the same, him contacting her daily to talk and plan next date, ect.........sex happens, maybe a few times..........he stops talking as often, doesn't have the time for a phone call or to go on a date..........he stops talking altogether and just ghosts. Man does this over and over again to multiple women. That is how men deceive women into sex. He lied. She didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 10:50 PM
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Pretending to desire a relationship with her is the big one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:57 PM
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There is not enough men willing to be quality men and make enough money to repopulate. Not everyone gets a father anymore because men are lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:44 PM
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If that's what makes you sleep at night
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:43 PM
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Because when you're 40 and have no partner your going to be lonely and want someone to spend Christmas with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:29 PM
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There are even women who are pro choice that say they would not get a abortion. It is something that will follow you mentally for the rest of your life. Also I don't think women need to make their choices based on what the man wants. If they created a baby together than that's the reality. You can't force women to abort because you don't want to be a father. Maybe she wants a kid on her own even if the father is not there. I have even been hearing of passport pregnancies. Where women go to other…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:50 PM
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I want men to want more for themselves. Being called a fuckboy is literally being called a slut, for a male. So when a women calls you a fuckboy she is saying you would make a bad human to meet her family, or that you would make a awful father because you have no respect. A fuckboy is what women mess around with and then they get married and the fuckboy is still at the club at 35 thinking he has all the rizz but in reality he just never grew up and accomplished anything. And being a fuckboy is o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:45 PM
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Their faces and overall appearance...and the fact that they don't know basic info about their partner. The third one was my except one, because she is very big and below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:23 AM
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But birthday? middle name? wedding date? You would never blank on your own middle name you shouldn't on your partner either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 03:22 AM
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But the men are crappy they don't know basic things about their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:12 AM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:38 AM
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Tiktok These guys don't seem great yet they are with average women except one. Any comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:38 AM
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Most men don't feel this way? What do you think of stay at home moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:11 AM
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Have you ever touched a women? Because this seems like a rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:04 AM
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Then men would need women to work the same jobs at them that are high income because that's the only way they would be able to make equal money. She won't make what a lawyer makes if she is a teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:47 PM
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Maybe my mind is just calculatingly smart. I think people are busy with their own jobs and lives, they don't have time to do a background check on who is who from 3 years ago. They look at who someone is now, and maybe their resent past. But how are you really going to figure it out? Dming randoms on ig that she might follow or follow her being like "Who did this girl get with sexually do you knowwww" Like no. Maybe he family really doesn't have any idea either, because they don't talk about tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:45 PM
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Would you be willing to live to her lifestyle to spit the cost evenly? Because would never want to work, have to pay into a lifestyle I can't afford anyway, and come home and do all the domestic labor. Like I would just choose to be in a relationship with someone who does not make me do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:54 PM
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Many men in this same thread have responded that they girl down to sleep on the first night is no go for a relationship. But you are saying she needs to sleep with him right away to "lock him down"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:34 PM
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You are thinking of a wanna be celeb living in a big city or something. Girls body counts are way higher than you think and with private social media who are from a farm in Kansas and went to church on Sunday too. Normal young women who have girly jobs like teacher/nurse, loves kids and babies, sweet feminine appearance. You are thinking the only girls with the high body counts are the girls that have long stiletto acrylic nails and have a bunch of cosmetic stuff done with a tight mini dress pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:29 PM
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Girls sleep with the mediocre guys without care because she won't care if its just a hookup because she never really wanted him in the beginning. She makes the guy she wants wait because she would be hurt if she slept with him and they he ghosted her/played her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:58 AM
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Probably. I think most people do it because they want to compete with their friends. Guys and girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:54 AM
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Women only have a "hoe phase" that will possibly hurt their reputation if they post about it all over the internet/socials, talk to their friends all about it. If you don't tell anybody or act in a particularly over sexual way in attitude or appearance, then nobody really ever knows about your personal sex life, and nobody needs to know either, because it's personal to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:51 AM
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Men should ignore women that are willing to hookup with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:43 AM
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Haha no. As a women, many women sleep with the guy they know they don't like because she won't care about if he leaves or wants nothing to do with her. If she just wants to hookup, girls pick the guy that doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:51 AM
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Men always say that women shouldn't make the guy she actually likes wait for sex if she has had sex right away with other men. But if she does really like a guy she doesn't want to cause herself pain by sleeping with him right away as he may just be telling her what she wants to her to get her in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:12 AM
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I would say if a traditional women is doing all that she should not have a job. Society is on her side with that one. Very few women are going to fit this type of traditional because, at least on here, most guys think the second you have a hookup or if you have been to a club/bar you can no longer be fit for home labor and child raising. With the other thing. I don't think most modern women are sex worker who don't cook food. They just do a regular job, go out with friends, have a nice boyfriend…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:59 PM
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2000's the office core
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 12:36 PM
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People should have sex when both people are comfortable. Maybe she needs to build a connection to the man before having sex so she can bond. Hookup sex is normally alcohol driven and also its less about the women complete enjoyment. If she had a few hookups does that mean she is forever suppose to give sex to a man she is talking to right away because its not fair to him that she had those hookups years ago? If a guy really like a girl, and I mean really likes her, he will tip toe around the sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:14 PM
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Women are only sluts by appearance to men. If you are a curvy fitted dress girl with fake nail and lots of makeup...you might be preserved as a slut or treated like one even if you are a virgin. Yet the thin girl with the natural look and a cute little sundress is perceived as sweet and innocent, men assuming she's a good girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:15 PM
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She was made as a helpmate for Adam. I know my bible
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:05 PM
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My OG comment was about how most women who use the term use it because they become a Christian later in life and did not have the privilege of being raised with Jesus in their life. Women who are raised Christian rarely use the term born again virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:12 PM
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but that is an absolutely shit deal and a complete perversion of what god dictates for what marriage should be, and I think it’s completely within the right of Christian men to call out these deceptive tactics for what they are. You are saying its a bad deal because you are looking through human eye. Women are not a deal to get. They are not a prize for men for being a "good Christian"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 11:53 AM
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I’m just saying that the lifestyle related to sexual restraint and treating women right and being kind doesn’t seem to be worth it. So you don't want to treat women humanely because they have/had sex? This is more of a issue with envy. Contempt for women because they get what you want leads to a very bad path for your heart and mind. You would most likely feel the same even if it was non consensual because she would be consider "used" rather than new. ​ This isn’t to say that I don’t believe in …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 04:24 AM
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Women should wait till they get married before cooking, cleaning, sleeping with, living with ect a man. If she does all that crap she might wait a decade for a ring and then get replaced at the last min. Don't do wife shit with a girlfriend title.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:45 AM
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Born again virgins say born again virgin. Normally Christian people have a testimony. You don't live as a Christian because you are going to get what you want on earth. You live as a Christian because you die to self to serve Christ your savior, which is the best deal of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:42 AM
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I think it's more of a mental thing for Christian women who have made a choice of purity after being redeemed by Christ. In saying that you won't engage in that act till marriage now that you are a follower of Christ. This is the case in some women that did not grow up religious and didn't really have a guilt factor in sex pre marriage because they were not Christian yet. So once they are saved they start their life anew in Christ and don't have the dwell on those choices because they have been …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:43 PM
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I started reading this and already knew who wrote it, thus I don't need to finish reading. Anyways...you know they make drugs that lower testosterone. You should inquire about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:33 PM
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Omg women with trauma are wayyyy nicer that women without trauma. They are accustom to being beaten down so they see it as normal. Women without major life trauma are the confident ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:29 PM
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It's a gamble on the girls part
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:26 PM
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She's going to be cooking the rest of her life. He should take her out. If she really likes cooking as a hobby maybe then it might be different, but for most women this is not a hobby its labor. Being desirable is all women need to focus on in the dating relationship. Cooking, cleaning, wife stuff. That is only going to let you get taken for granted in the end because when you stop doing that stuff because you are tired the guy is going to be like what's up with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:08 PM
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It's just so funny that guys wants to split on dates but then want the girl to be cleaning his place with a happy smile. Like if you find a women willing to do this she has trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:01 PM
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Extra labor in exchange for a relationship means you will never stop doing that because it becomes normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:59 PM
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What is normal? Why are "normal" women suppose to be with men who are not? Like men who have autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:56 PM
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Actually marriage is to me. Why buy it if you get it for girlfriend price?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:39 PM
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He is still going to match with real women but he is not going to entertain convos with them because they look ugly. But if he is ugly that's what you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:38 PM
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They should be swiping no on bot accounts, OF people ect. They don't even look at the profile or picture before they swipe they just swipe right on everybody so the bot mix with the real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 04:12 AM
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I am a Christian, and I know that for religious people it can be seen a little differently depending on background. But for many MC and UMC people the two parents working and "splitting" chores end up falling on the women, as she is mom and wife who's gender is suppose to take care of that. If she doesn't it appears that she isn't doing her best or she doesn't have the strength to rock the marriage/wants to keep everyone in a calm mood. I don't think they choose if for themselves because in a da…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:40 AM
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I don't think women should be cooking and cleaning for a man she isn't married to, does not live with, does not sleep with? She has a job and friends and her own food to make and place to clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:00 AM
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Lots of men just swipe right on every women and only talk to the ones that match. They end up being bots and then they complain about the amount of bots of dating apps when its how they are choosing to use the app. I don't spend a crazy amount of time of apps and most women are not going to either. They pick the best ones. They are not going to match with ugly guys all day. Also, if you are a pretty women. Out of those 15 matches a dozen might be talking to you and it is overwhelming.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:49 AM
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I've seen many men concede that mothering the children justifies a woman staying home. Ive seen many say 50/50 but the dad doesn't pull his weight. He doesn't fold the laundry it just sits in a pile, he doesn't pick up after himself, he doesn't know what time his daughters ballet class is ect. Essentially making him another kid to care for.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:41 AM
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I am not talking about daily mental breakdowns. I am talking about how women have to walk on eggshells to make its seem like everything is perfect when its not. Many women of the 70's and 80's did everything. They went to work, they were mom at home cooking, cleaning, doing all errands, they took care of husbands needs. They did it all because that was their only choice if they didn't want to fail. If she's not interested in making them happen the way he wants them Women who are "wifey" material…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:34 AM
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That means, no pain or tears, no showing real struggle, ect. Someone who is there to serve at all points of the day, no matter how she feels, because that's what wives do. The fight though the pain of struggling to make Christmas just "happen" out of thin air. Most American women I've known behave like they were born in a barn I don't even know what this means. I think that modern American women do there best with how the world is today and what works for them. You don't get any special brownie …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:10 AM
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Q4M: Why is a women having a bad relationship or absent relationship with her father worse than men who don't have a relationship with their father?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:52 PM
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Being the type of girl who is "marriage material" or "wifey" isn't really a compliment. It pretty much means you are an obedient person who always puts others before yourself and stays presentable in public and private, ie a doormat. Men loooove to gaslight women because it works, women are emotional, and it cuts deep if you are sweet. So by telling women they are of less value to men for having life experiences, it cuts her own self worth. Women with less self worth are way more likely to accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 10:33 PM
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Tbh this isn't a thing. The dating layout changes so fast and also this is something everyone needs to figure out by themselves in their own time. Men can't have their mommy do everything for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:18 PM
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I am not a feminist sjw or anything. But same as men telling a new possible partner that you wear cheating on, makes them feel like they can do the same. Man or women, don't tell new people you want to date that someone has cheated on you, was the one to leave you, abused you or anything else. It makes you look weak or un confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:31 AM
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I just made a comment on daily chat the other day asking if normal women are suppose to be happy being with autistic men in a relationship. Even when he is difficult in social settings and can do things or see emotions in a childlike way. I think that is giving the women a demanding task that her partner takes more than he gives, and him treating her as almost parent like sometimes, expecting her to calm and sooth him. If you put RP beliefs into all that you take a man who does not understand em…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:58 PM
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I don't think autistic people are a good judge of understanding the social dating world and really need to stay away from any type of rp/bp thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:42 PM
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This isn't about autistic women. This is about grown men who are on a autistic spectrum and don't do well understanding emotions or sometimes even start seeing their partner more like a parent. It is simply not practical or fair to the women to have a childlike partner, even if they do have a career and whatnot. Also, regarding children, she would up her chances of having autistic children herself when if she was with someone without it if would be a decreased chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:31 PM
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I don't own a credit card and I have never had a mental illness? My close friends are same and we are 20/21.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:38 AM
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I am talking about a non medicated, no therapist, no mental illness, financially sane normal young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:13 AM
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What color nail polish should be allowed for the females because I know men are picky about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:23 AM
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She might just lie though and most men think women would lie about this, even if it was true. Also it might turn off a women because you have this view even if she is a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:51 AM
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Maybe they don't want the hoes because that's dependent, but they don't want to marry a women anymore because she might take everything in a divorce or they don't want the forever commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:36 AM
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It's just sad that young men do not want to marry young women anymore because they want the hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:31 AM
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Q4M: Should not autistic women really be happy with autistic men? If she is "normal" but he is autistic, maybe he is smart, has friends and a good job but still on the spectrum, how is she to feel comfortable with him not understanding things or his almost childlike behavior pattern, especially in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:29 AM
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Isn't this just the naturally way of things? She is using her resources
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:23 AM
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I don't think a women should ever tell a man she was cheated on in a relationship. Women do this in hope that the man will be empathic about her relationship worries but men see it as this women allows and puts up with abuse or being treated less than. Women should always be confident with men, especially a new man, in their lives because he will see that and treat her well because she knows she's valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:16 AM
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But she does not need to and most men just don't care and like to spend money on pretty women because they have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 04:17 PM
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Then men are narcs too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:51 AM
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Damn out of all the crazy posts I see on here... Idk maybe lack of choice? Socialism breeds some sort of happiness that everyone is forever miserable rather than a miserable person having hope to not be one day in a capitalist society. So many people come from socialistic societies to western capitalist nations ie the US for a level of personal growth, largely by wealth, that you can't get where they are from. SO...if you are forever stuck, so is everyone else, and you don't know any different..…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:24 AM
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But women are people so they have there money and just use mens money for what they want and then men have less recreational money so women land on top in the end pretty much. Women have youth and looks and get taken on dates that's really normal to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:15 AM
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Maybe the guy wants to go to a steakhouse and she can't afford it. The guys actually might choose a place near by his place and he can get to easily but she has to pay for her own transportation plus her own meal? She just spent more money than him for the night. I know its a desired dream from men to expect beautiful women to pay for themselves, but it will never be reality because there is always a guy wanting and willing to pay for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:25 AM
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Idk who that is but this type of guy doesn't need to be anywhere near red pill. He would get more girls or a LTR by having nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 02:19 AM
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Maybe her father wants her to state home and not be in the workforce? Or maybe she was raised to work for low low wages because she is just a women and has to hand over her money to family.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 11:39 PM
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Why don't mens eye look at the fat women in sweats walking down the street vs the polished blondie in a dress? Even career wise why do men like a women in scrubs vs a women in a business suit? To men, appearance is what you are. Because men don't care what you think or is in your head he cares what he thinks you are and what he assumes you think in your head. These women want the very best for themselves. So they will become what they need to be to get that with the most ease. Thats normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:38 PM
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If a young beautiful pure sex appeal women has no money should she still go on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 01:33 PM
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I am not bitter I am happy. I love going on dates and I am glad I don't have to pay for them. Maybe the are looking for a relationship and want to be a gentleman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 02:17 PM
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Why just me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:42 AM
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Chads and HVM always pay on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:35 PM
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I think its envy. Men want the life of a women but they can't have it so they try to make her feel shame for normal things. I will not pay for dates I am invited on by men because that is inappropriate and takes away a mans masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:29 PM
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So you are the man in your relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 07:30 AM
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If that is what they want to do sure. The person staying at home to do the domestic work should have access to the money though. I feel like some like to restrict access or prevent their partner from using the family money because only one partner made it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:31 AM
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Ok then that's not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:20 AM
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They would have to live on less than needed then. Because if one makes 50k and the other 150k and they both need to contribute it can't be similar amounts because of the difference in salary. You have to look at marriage and family as a life partnership. Not whoever makes less works 24/7 to make it up and have no free time and can't have any spending money like the other partner does.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:19 AM
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Maybe the guy just wants to make a good first impression and actually wants to pay for the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 05:15 AM
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I have never had a man ask me to split?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:44 AM
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Limited mindset attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:43 AM
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Men don't care if women have money
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:42 AM
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If a man pays for a date he is a fool?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:38 AM
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I don't have money to pay for dates. So if a man really wants to go out with me enough he has to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:33 AM
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Are you bothered spending $50 on a date? Because I have been being complained to all day by men on this sub responding to men saying I am just looking for free food because I am not depending to split the bill on a date HE asked me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:25 AM
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Once you are married with kids you pool the money together in one bank account to pay for life. If she makes 50k and he makes 150k she would be working 24/7 and not be able to make up the difference. This could be said the same if the women was making the 150k and he was making 50k. Is he going to be willing to do all the childcare and housework along with his job just because she makes more?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 04:14 AM
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If two people are both with full weeks it does not matter if the man makes double the household and childcare work needs to be shared. If the wife is a SAHM that's when housework and childcare is put more on her because that is her full time job, to run the home. Bringing home a paycheck is not enough to leave a working wife to take care of the house, children, and you. If she is working a full week, doing house stuff like appointments, cleaning, cooking, laundry, grocery shopping. Then kid stuf…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:37 AM
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A lot of men don't want women dressing a certain way only when she is not with him. If they are with each other he wants her to dress sexy so other men can see what he has. Like on a dinner date if she wears a dress with her boobs out, hair and makeup done looking hot. He would love that she dresses sexy for him. But if she wears the same dress out with to her friends birthday party that you are not at its now a problem because men are going to look at her want want her and you are not with her.…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:45 PM
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I feel like the people I have been responding to all that on this sub have such contempt for women that they think women should not be taken on dinner dates without paying for themselves. Like these men that want a traditional women how are you going to get that if you want her do be doing the mans jobs?? Oh and then if sex doesn't happen right away she's a tease and just wants free meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:31 PM
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Why were men not complaining about paying for dates as women just wanting free meals back 10 years ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:53 PM
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Yep I do things that work for me and are worth my time. Dinner date with a man I think I might like yay. Walking in the park, which I don't get offered much at all, nope. If a obese girl asked you out for a walk in the part on a date would you go and spend your afternoon doing that if you did not want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:37 PM
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It is to much effort for me to take time out of my day to get ready and go on a date that I don't want to go on when I have better offers. Thats like saying "What wrong with the fat girls"? Why do you only want healthy girls? It's to get to know somebody not about what they look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:24 PM
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I just said in another comment I think somewhere around $50 for a date in total is about the price point of the dates I go on. Some a little more some a little less depending.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:41 PM
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I like a place I am comfortable in and can have good conversation. But I do like dinner. So when I get off of work in the evening and have a date scheduled, I don't need coffee caffeine I want something to eat and someone to hang out with. I don't know what you consider expensive but I think that is up to the guy asking. Should I just assume any man taking me on a date that their only sole goal is to fuck me and get out? I will not sleep with him right away I should not go at all? Then I would n…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:27 PM
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If you only want sex stop the dates. By dating her you are duping her into thinking you want a relationship. If you just want casual no strings then say that right away and put it on all your apps. The women that want to fuck you don't need cheap coffee if they actually just want sex only you can just invite them over.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:17 PM
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That is a personal belief not fact. I love going on dinner dates and I am 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:13 PM
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Your view can't be changed if you're just bitter. You're looking at dating not even glass half empty, but just empty. I don't think you are even going to have fun on the coffee shop dates because you will be annoyed that you spent $5 and that this bitch is making you talk to her and isn't just opening her legs saying fuck me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:40 PM
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A dinner date does not not have to be expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:36 PM
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Maybe he paid for 20 $20 bowls of pasta but the 21st ended up being his girlfriend who he loves and ends up marrying, having a family with. The $400 he lost before her was worth it because he found her. Dating life people, it's how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:30 PM
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But other men will, so in the end they will win. You might think oh he's a cuck because he paid for her pasta. But society as a whole does not feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:14 PM
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Happy relationship > Single > Bad relationship If women does not find a man that she wants to be with she is happier single than in a difficult unhappy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:11 PM
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If you think this way truly then you are useless to women who are either beautiful or have money themselves in any way. Because beautiful women will get better date offers that you give so they will not accept your offers and women with money won't either because they don't need yours to do what they want. The only women who will accept this treatment are ugly poor women who are only looking for sex. And you got to watch out for them they might have stis or try to baby trap you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:05 PM
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Don't go on dates if you can't put in the same amount of effort that you do before going to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:56 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:55 PM
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I am 21 and the men I date are around 24. I am not going to yell and scream to pay for a dinner that a man invited me for. I am a Christian and do not sleep with these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:55 PM
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It's not free stuff it's call common sense. When a boss invites the team out for a work dinner they don't split the check a dozen ways the boss pays because its his dinner. When men invite women out out on a date he pays because he invited her. If you don't have the cash don't date. How do you want your future daughter to be treated by men one day?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 03:38 AM
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I feel like if men are not married they can't make the single cat lady with wine jokes? Women will always be single if men don't marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:04 AM
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I don't think women would go for that in long term. Also if he is a SAHF for 20 years and wants to leave he gets the alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 01:01 AM
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I think men would rather act like animals as a conglomerate and then try to shame women for being single (cats and wine) in hopes that it will force their hand to accept them and all their behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 11:35 PM
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Men who ask women on dates, pay for the dates. If you don't want to pay for dates or get ready for them do not ask women on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 11:22 PM
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They don't see the point at 20 either then. Im 21 and want to get married. I think a lot of women want to get married in their 20's they just do not get offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:28 PM
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Y u so dramatic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:26 PM
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Men don't wear makeup? If it takes a women a hour to get ready it takes him 15 mins, maybe. How do you think dating has worked? You ask the girl on the date and she either gives you sex or pays for her own meal? Thats a new concoction.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:16 PM
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I don't know anything about the men when they ask me. We probably exchanged a few msgs. Are they not taking advantage of my naivety if they, a man older than me, wants to take me out with the goal of hooking up with me? Dating apps are normally for do you find this person attractive and do you then have some good banter over msgs and then he either will ask you out or or you stop talking. Thats how the apps work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:08 PM
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Its like so not that big of a deal that a guy wants to buy my meal on a date? This isn't lobster people its a burger and milkshake. Why should I be demanding to pay?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:48 PM
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I never said anything about a fancy restaurant. I don't go to fancy restaurants? You said expensive dinner not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:42 PM
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I do see it that way. I think the age demographic I am in right now is not conducive to LTR in 2023. I am 21, and most 24/25 year old guys I am going out with are just starting out with work or maybe still in school for an extended degree. Overall, if a guy asks me for drinks or dinner and I want to go what is wrong with that? Should I be saying oh no no no lets go on a free walking date instead? Why would I do that if I want to accept the dinner offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:39 PM
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Which is why men reduce the risk by vetting on a simple date. I don't know what the problem is here? If a man wants to take me out to dinner and I accept then what is the problem? Maybe that is simple to him? If you don't want a women to have makeup on or wear nice clothing and she accepts a free walking date than go for it. You will get what you put effort into and that's your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:31 PM
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That is the risk you take in dating. How do I know I will enjoy my time with you? Will you pay for the makeup on my face or the dress I bought? If you don't want to pay for the meal of a women you invite out to dinner then don't invite her out to dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:18 PM
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It's not free dinners. It's him taking me out to dinner to spend time with me. Thats my payment. My time and conversation. I am looking for a relationship I can't help that he just wants sex. Dating never was nor is being taken to dinner means you get sex in return. It means a man takes a women to dinner to spend time with her and enjoy a meal together.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:47 PM
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You could make this claim for men to women too. Men want women that are attractive enough to be a hot OF IG slut and be desired by all but stays pure only for that one man and only sees him. He would feel like quite the prize and other men would be jealous of him with gives him value.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:56 PM
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As a women online dating has been great. I use the apps regularly and should use them more but sometimes they get overwhelming because of how guys speak there. It amazes me how many men go on there thinking women are as horny as they are. Most men on those apps that I am attracted to are not ready to settle into a relationship yet sadly so I mostly go on dates just for the fun of being taken out. I have been more picky about where he takes me lately because if I'm going to do my hair, makeup and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:46 PM
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Most women are shorter than men. If she is 5'4 and he is 5'9, he is still taller. Women care about weight. You have never heard a women say she wants a healthy man? Tbh I don't even think women see fat men. Its like men to ugly or "post wall" women. They just don't get noticed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:54 PM
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I don't think it matters to most, but, it is really strange to me how many men want to make things "traditional" or something similar yet have completely checked out of doing anything to make society be that way. Another reason is that men have this increasing long window of adolescence vs women. It is legit going into the 30's and 40's where men don't have it figured or not wanting anything serious. And at the same time thinking women have to be married and pregnant before 25 or they are loosin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:38 PM
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Do women get to escape the cats and box wine jokes if men don't want to marry them anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:35 AM
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Now, it's not men's fault if most women have little concern about a man's weight. Most people don't want to be with fat people because fat is not healthy. Men who are overweight complain about the women not being thin enough yet don't care about their own weight is just being a hypocrite. And again, men who actually want their partner to be attracted to them should be in good physical shape to a degree. Women don't like fat men just as much as men don't like fat women. And I am not talk about da…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:07 AM
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I would say the normal size body you see on tv is normal for women. Fat might be normal for women across all ages but for dating demographics ages 18-38 its just not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:38 PM
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Muscular men is not the number one body type women prefer. Men think that is the body type women prefer. But it is actually more lanky or normal size body men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:14 AM
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Is it normal that fat men are only wanting thin women? Because it seems odd that so many overweight men are complaining about overweight women when they themselves are overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:38 AM
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Why don't you just go to a legal place and pay for sex? Put it in the budget. You could work on your physical health and emotional maturity and mental health too which might make you more likely to find a partner. Don't be as picky with who you want to sleep with or offer something other than your body to the women so it is worth it for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:44 PM
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Some women don't become pretty till later. I have a friend that was almost overweight and did no skincare and makeup when she was in her late teens early 20's. But then in mid 20's she got skinny, grew into her face and took care of her skin and did makeup, worn nice outfits. You could say that the younger version of herself would win if she was pretty back then, but if you have a glow up later, which many women do, then that's not really true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:28 PM
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Men don't want relationships. They want bitches. If they can get bitches, they settle for a relationship and be "beta"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 02:52 AM
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Are you in shape? I feel like so many men who are fat complain about fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:43 AM
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I agree with your post. I want to note that as a 21 year old women getting into a relationship with men ages 22-29 is almost impossible. I could have hookups, FWB, sistuationships no problem. But today, men don't want just one girl in a committed relationship because that looks "beta" and lame to the boys. Also men don't really have the emotional maturity to be in a relationship with a women. Even if a man was only talking to ONE girl he would always describe her as "this girl obsessed with me" …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 05:10 AM
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Maybe you are not the type of man attractive women want to date? I feel like quite a lot of men only want sex from women and see them as stupid so that's not new. It is such a limited mindset that you are allowing these stupid creatures who only offer a hole to control your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 05:30 PM
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Men in the US can not afford children
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:59 AM
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C - Get pregnant and leave, get good child support
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:27 AM
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Men doing a manual labor job does not mean they can't wash their sheets weekly, have to be overweight, can't have friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:49 AM
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Oh what's something I can say right away on a first date to make them stressed then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:33 AM
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Ok perfect I am within that weight
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:24 AM
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I am 5"2. What weight is thin to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:06 AM
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Good thing I am skinny and pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:55 PM
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Q4M: Same question in reverse
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:54 PM
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l really didn't understand anything about females
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:50 PM
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Wearing a cute sundress on a date is the only way to go in the summer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:46 PM
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Today, kids get their values from the culture, not their family. The roe vs wade happened because Trump got to choose so many new supreme court justices during his 4 year term. Also, I supported the overturning of roe vs wade.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:03 PM
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Why are overweight men complaining about overweight women? Do overweight men believe they should get not overweight women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:04 PM
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Import? If you bring trad foreign women here and have kids with them those kids will be western Americans with western views and values. They will go to American school and be shown a liberal way of life. The daughters may even disown their fathers for being who he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:45 PM
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Im confused? You want women to go backwards or keep moving forward?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:42 PM
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So you want to force liberal women to talk to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:38 PM
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All because they are not getting the pussy they demand. How do you expect to force women to sleep with men is my question because that is the supposed solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:58 PM
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More young women just take care of themselves better. Health, fitness, beauty, work, social life, person spaces ect. More young men live like it's a frat house and drink soda all day while gaming. Sure outliers exist, fat women, dirty women OR healthy men, good social life men ect. But women just have a higher standard for living life. So the average women is more comparable to a above average men by comparing womens and mens lifestyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:54 PM
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Women should not be everything a man is looking for if she wants a man. Men like to find free happy independent bird because they enjoy putting them in a cage. Their "masculinity" has made them capture a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:49 PM
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I think what mens version of above average is average to women. Because womens standards for life are higher. Mens are quite low.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:16 PM
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Hmm. I feel like this stuff is common knowledge. The only men that would have trouble with these things are if the maybe have a mental delay or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:15 PM
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Women can provide for themselves better than a man with 40k. Even the passport women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:12 PM
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I just don't think there are enough men to publicly support a cause that has nothing to fight for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:34 PM
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Nobody wants to subject their children to that type of lifestyle. Women don't want that lifestyle and will not choose men that want to live that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:31 PM
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Can you give me a few examples of masculine things women say are toxic?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:29 PM
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Even without the taxes. 40k can not raise a family well in any US state. It is poverty for a family of four. 40k is enough for a single man in a low cost of living area, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:19 PM
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How would the have nots revolt? It would be interesting to see mass men on the streets protecting for lack of pussy. But again, what would you be fighting for? Because how do you fight for pussy if women don't want to give it to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:17 PM
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No. Just don't do things women do. Just like how many men don't like it when women do masculine things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:12 PM
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Thats because women don't want to have kids with unaccomplished men who have no concept of emotional intimacy and respect. They don't want to have kids with men who feel 40k a year is fine because you can't take can of anybody on that. They don't want to have kids with men that watch porn every night rather than bettering themselves. And if they do have kids with these men they are the ones to get blamed for choosing wrong and not vetting well. Violent men are not going to stop being violent bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:11 PM
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This commenter is already in a defeatist attitude. They won't bring themselves to above average because it is too much work to compete for what they FEEL they should be getting now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:06 PM
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But you can't force women to be attracted to what they are not? Isn't this just natural selection in the modern world. Some get chosen some do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:59 PM
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So don't do girly things? Women like men so don't cry on the first date because of mommy issues that is not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:50 PM
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Because this person is glorifying being a women thinking they all just get to have sex and live in luxury all day. Like um job, cleaning, cooking, kids, ect all forgotten about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:40 PM
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Do you want to be a women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:34 PM
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Abstaining what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:01 PM
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Why don't men wear condoms or take contraceptives themselves? If a guy does not want to have a kid with a women, he should not cum in the women. If he does that, it is his fault, because she's not forcing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:33 PM
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Men are the one pleading for pussy and if they don't get it threatening to murder. That doesn't sound like standards to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:28 PM
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Take them out of the school system.. No access to the internet till they are older. Traditional values instilled in them from birth. That gives the new ones a much better shot in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:12 PM
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Kill the child in womb is actually rarely the mens answer. They want the women to have the kid. They just don't want to help care for it. You make a single mother by having sex and creating a growing baby that one parent gets saddled with and the other takes no blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 09:09 PM
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I am not a feminist so
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:57 PM
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The men here always say women can get above their league for short term, which I guess to the general masses is better than none at all. And it is not a mass problem because there are more pretty women than handsome men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:21 PM
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Maybe the men should step it up and stop making single mothers. It's like the mom is actually raising the kid yet the dad is nowhere to be found?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:13 PM
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Any women that wants to get married. RP men definition, any women who is an adult yet has not lived as an adult, and doesn't understand she has adult rights
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:40 PM
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In this sub, men will just say womens delusional dating preferences, are preventing the masses of men from getting their sex, which makes men so angry they will destroy things and people, thus making the destruction of society womens fault for not letting men use their pussy more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:36 PM
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Men who sleep around just have a limited mindset. They don't value their own body by placing it in the "dirty women" and saying it is an accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:18 PM
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With his situation it was because he was not attractive/accomplished/social enough to get beautiful women. If the only naked women a guy was ever able to see in his life was his wife who was a 3, he wouldn't be complaining as much because he doesn't have a 9 because he doesn't know what a 9 looks like. But today ugly guys know what hot girls look like, even though they are ugly, they can't get off with a 4 irl because they are accustom to looking at 8's in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 02:16 PM
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Nope don't approach me. I do not want to be approached in public by any men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:55 PM
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Men of these last few generations are done for. Some may crawl there way out from the trenches but most will stay. They will not make husbands and fathers that will produce quality men in the future. I think it might be best to put the focus on the next generation of men and make sure they don't have access to the things (porn, social media) that make them see women as sexual objects and make them have anger that they have to suffer with. I saw a post on tiktok about this guy who was mad that he…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 01:51 PM
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You get better people in your live when you level up no matter what. When you see yourself as valuable and deserving of respect you will wait for the man who gives you that, even it it takes years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:22 PM
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I does not really matter if its for a living or a hobby. He dated her, posed in photos, commented on photos, and later changed his views.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:20 PM
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Safe men can change. Safe women can change. It will ALWAYS be a risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:12 PM
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They will always live in this form of bitterness though. They feel like they got the short end of the stick and are having to settle with a girlfriend rather than get whatever girl whenever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:17 PM
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If a man wants to be a HVM he has to make enough money where the women can stay home with the children if she chooses to do so. Even better if he makes enough to hire in some help with cleaning and nanny so she can devote time to personal things like working out, shopping, brunch with friends as well as participate and run charities. Thats at least my definition. I don't think women want to send kids off to daycare to go back to work I think they only do that because they need a break and adult …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:12 PM
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Arn't men always complaining that women don't seem to have hobbies? Or can the hobbies only be like sewing and baking and crap?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:04 PM
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For me personally I don't think an extra 450k a year would hurt me. I would totally marry someone that makes less than me. Actually if I was making that kind of money I could cherry pick just what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:43 AM
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Women doing job, house chores, and childcare Men doing job and getting mad about her being to tired for sex She is doing two job and the man is doing one, all because she is the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:39 AM
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So do you really think women should just start telling some white lies? Because if women just tell the cold hard truth then no women would ever get married to a man again according to RP standards. Men lie to make themselves look better to the women so women should do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:37 AM
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Something to check off the list that is a social desire. We don't have the laws of other countries though so even if she got married and did desire to leave one day she can, he can as well if he wants some younger or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:34 AM
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If they are religious they do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:25 AM
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I would rather have the 500k a year than the 50k a year. A man wouldn't give up 450k for a women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:24 AM
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But how do you really know if women lie? Men lie about things for there own benefit, so women lie too. She could be a virgin on the wedding night and he could still cheat. What does she have then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:20 AM
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Women can be unexceptional and still be the girl of men's dreams. But can the guy be the man of my dreams?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:44 AM
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Maybe they have cared, but it was a make or break on if she was a worthy human or if she slept with a dozen guys in college she was going to be a unfit mother 10 years later. Guys care because they want a less used object to own, rather than a more used one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 03:41 AM
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There are not enough men willing to be betas anymore in RP language. They want to be alphas or not be anything at all rather than a beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:16 AM
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I think men get comfy and women get tired. Caring for a house and kids do primarily fall to the wife even when she has a job and everyday is just so long. Married men see sex as 5/10 mins before going to sleep and maybe he is not putting in the time for her enjoyment and/or she is just so tired from the day and knows the baby is going to cry for her in two hours. Men that get comfy in marriages not thinking of wifes emotional, physical, and mental needs because HE feels everything is all right. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:43 AM
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Women in the US would just simply stop getting married. If they were going to be bang-maids that can't leave its better to get a job and have a kid on your own then deal with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:32 AM
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This is a thing that was not a big deal that was made to be a ridiculous deal. Just like body count. 5 years ago nobody in the real world talked like that, now body count is the biggest deal to men about women because of cultural.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:17 AM
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This is the desperate persons fault though. Men say this to women all the time "Don't date abusive men" but what do you do if that is all that is there??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 01:15 AM
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So having a degree, 90k salary, and healthy is not good for a 35 year old single?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:26 PM
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Maybe, depends where you live, but a degree that gets you a 90k job and you exercise regularly would give you a pretty good life to me personally. Live on a budget and even if that women doesn't find that man of her dreams she could still afford to have a child on her own and become a mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:18 PM
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They have money. The just want to use that money on women that will put out fast not want to be in a relationship or married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:59 PM
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What about her is exhausting?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:58 PM
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She might be dating a divorcee or widower or something who is 50 when she's 40 and his kids are already in college so he is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:56 PM
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But you can't be for sure knowing that you will find a man and have a family. You have to have protected your own financial future. A women who doesn't do the career thing but her husband does, he can hold it over her head that he providers and she rides on his income. Or in the case that she is unhappy and divorce happens she has been hope with the kids for a decade and he feels that he shouldn't be giving any alimony to her because she didn't work like him. I don't have a career, but I think m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:52 PM
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I don't mean my rent I mean if you start to live together. Also, most dating activities are not free. They want to go out. I am just saying men want a women with a career so they can pay 50% of all life costs. If women don't have a career then she doesn't make the kind of money to live up to the lifestyle men want nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:29 PM
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Men won't date me because I don't have a career. Men don't want to pay for all the dates and rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:19 PM
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Does it matter if they are or are not though? Because if they are doing good financially and are healthy fit and beautiful. Then the man she is with HAS to be top notch. Women like that would not allow a man to cheat or be crappy. She would do better on her own in a city around men that would flock to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:15 PM
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I think she is a really bad example because she is not even posting sexual photos. She is a surfer doing her job that happens to be in a swimsuit. Nobody would date a Victoria secret model if it was inappropriate for women to have jobs that they wear less clothing in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:10 AM
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Thats why men say "She left for no reason" or "She broke up with me because I didn't take to the trash yesterday" or some stupid reason. It's never just that, its a bunch of little things and big things to and then one day she will be no more. Either gender will push to see what they can get away with. But the difference is most, not all, but most women in committed relationships, engaged, married, as kids ect., won't be out disrespecting their partner by cheating because it makes them look like…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:01 AM
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I am confused why her photos were bad? She's a surfer and he knew he was dating a surfer who wears bikinis? I looked them up and they were the most normal happy photos with friends and her on a surfer bored. Not sexualized ig model boobs out photos. He was even IN some of the photos with her in a bikini at the beach, where he was in one as well. Bethany Hamilton, a surfer who lost her arm in a shark attack at age 13, is a devout Christian with a husband and children. She had a movie come out cal…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:53 AM
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Do you mind if the girl lies to you on certain things as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:26 AM
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Oh are you the one with the open relationship husband and young kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:37 PM
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Are you another age gap marriage. What is with that on this sub??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:58 PM
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Isn't that the mans fault though?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:44 PM
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She is also just showing the world what is happening to men all over as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:31 PM
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It's more of a warning to other women that this is his behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:49 PM
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I have friends that don't mind if their boyfriends watch porn, like girls photos on ig ect. I think this is more prevalent in young liberal relationships though. If you are married with kids in a trad like relationship, I don't think that's going to go over well. This Jonah Hill situation was absolutely ridiculous and just goes to show the insecurity he had and the desire for control. He got into that relationship knowing she is a surfer. Her photos are not dripping in oil IG OF style pictures, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:11 PM
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Why is it delusion if it happens? Dating is the time for women to be choosy, especially when young with options. Why? Because she wants to find the best she can. If one guy is missing something she wants then she might look for it elsewhere. Men do this too, at least men not in the RP world. They see negatives all the time of why this girl should be in a hookup category vs a dating category. And to get into a "I want to marry this girl" category it's even harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:59 PM
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They might feel entitled so what? And if they get that HVM so what? That is their personal business and choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:50 PM
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It is not black and white like that. RP is not clear vision and BP is not in lala land.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 03:49 PM
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The matrix is a syfi movie not God and science. Don't want to get those mixed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:55 AM
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Which gender complains the most? Men or women? and why do you think that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:50 AM
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Mods always deleting the fun posts. Can we have purge back?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:00 AM
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But men would be willing to be with women that don't respect them more than women are willing to be with men that don't respect them. Sure you will always have some women willing but way more men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 12:40 AM
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Would you rather be wanted by desire or needed for survival?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:53 PM
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But women don't have to procreate with men they don't want to and still have fulfilling lives. Which is what my original comment is about. That if men don't step it up women have zero attraction or desire to babysit men, thus would be happier alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:30 PM
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I mean need men in a personal sexual relationship. Men don't get sexually rewarded for making society go round. Also nothing would be possible without a women. Because women carry, birth and nurture babies, including the future men of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:17 PM
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The whole question is women are at fault because of mens dumb choices? Should slutty women blame men for them choosing to be slutty? Guys like young slutty women so if you want attention from men be a slut. But then later on nobody will want to marry you??? So can they blame the men for ruining their future?? Should women blame men for the time and cost of physical upkeep? Feminine women put lots of time and effort and money that. Beauty treatments, health stuff, attractive clothing, hair makeup…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 08:53 PM
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Isn't all sex free without being married
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:43 PM
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So there are more better women than better men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:12 PM
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Are you saying that women who sexually reject men causes men to want to take her out more to win her over?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:26 AM
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Poor women still need a 2nd parent? What is a poor women in this scenario because a single women with a bunch of kids gets better money from the government single than if she had a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:36 PM
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Guy buys things he can't afford Blame women -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:34 PM
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But if she has no money settling with a guy that has no money who she is not attracted to brings nothing. She would be better off single where she would get more governmental help and not have to care for essentially a grown up child.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:50 PM
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If she was supporting him through all that then wouldn't some of that be hers too? Also if she stood by and helped him and he decided to leave her for someone better/younger/prettier should she get some of the wealth they build together? If he already has built himself up by himself? Got lucky in the stocks or crypto, made and sold a company, worked hard for 20 years idk. What girl deserves him then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:45 PM
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Nah. Women are rising up men are going down. Women know it, Men know it. No need
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:33 PM
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If women is bad at sex and lays like a starfish men complain and say "this is why men cheat'
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:32 PM
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Sure, but the things they say out loud are seemingly similar to the intrusive thoughts men irl have, but don't say out loud
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:05 PM
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I really enjoy understanding how other people think, even if it is different that my own I like to understand others brains. So maybe I do hope that something I say makes another understand a different perspective. Sometimes I take breaks from here if I feel like its just a little to much. Mainly I come back because I like talking on reddit about these issues and seeing others questions and answers about this topic. I feel like if I desperately wanted to be in a relationship that badly I could s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:00 PM
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People just don't need to be in unhappy partnerships anymore. Men and women who do not get into a partnership just probably won't reproduce and die out. So I am not sure what the problem is with that. It's sad, but lots of people are child free and don't want to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:47 PM
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My motivation was being upset about RP content because I felt like young men, my dating pool, were reducing women to body parts in the masses rather than people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:42 PM
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but sexual rejection places men at risk of parasitic female behavior. What does this mean I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:13 PM
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Women use to need men. Now they don't. Simple as that. I know women still want men. But they want men that are accomplished and competent like they are. They don't want the fat guy who works a part time job and has no friends and complains all day with no emotional comprehension. I feel like guys should understand this? Men sometime complain that women with nothing also want these guys, which yes they do, and even if they don't get them life is easier for them on their own than with a guy they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:12 PM
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You're delusional I can't with this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:37 PM
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The best way for a man to get love is to take sex out of the picture right away. Look at the women for her true beauty not wanting to fuck it up. What is her personality as a person, what are her values, what are the challenges she has faced and overcome, and even look at some daily living practical things like how does she budget her money, how does she take care of herself and her space ect. If you can find out these types of things that fit yours you are more likely to actually love and see h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:36 PM
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Going on reddit to talk about social dating issues is similar to drugs or gambling? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:27 PM
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age (25-35), over 6ft tall, handsome, makes $100k a year, owns a nice house, luxury car, spoils her, and is completely faithful. I have a question. What type of women in your view deserves this type of man?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:19 PM
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PPD men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:13 PM
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HAHAHAHAHA I be laughing. Men hate virgin blowjobs. Men like pornstar blowjobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:12 PM
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Emotional connection is what will attracte the women though. Unless she just wants to sleep with you and set you free for your body. Women are not mainly attracted to a mans body first like men. Even if his body is hot the personality values emotional connection have to be included and they come first. So men might think if a women has sex with you she likes you, I would not state that to be true in 2023 she may just want to use you, mess with your mind, get off, feel horny, ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:07 PM
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Women have to have sex to be skilled at sex. Men also like to assume that womens body counts are much higher than they actually are because a women is beautiful and sociable. Just because a women went to college, wears a bikini, has an instagram ect does not mean she has slept with the whole football team like men seem to think. You will never know how many men a women as slept with. Wether she hasn't said anything or told you the truth or lied to you or whatever. Only she will ever know because…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:36 AM
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Idk I swipe on them because I see hot guy not bad boy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:50 AM
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Idk about that one I am talking traditional porn girls/OF girls. And some want a "good girl" who takes care of them and like vanilla sex so he can respect her and then wants the porn side chick to do all the degrading shit with because he could care less about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:21 AM
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She should just take a few shots and walk up to him. If he wants her then yay and if he doesn't then she can find someone else. Men should take this advice too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:04 AM
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What even is this. You can't just sit like a lump and have women desire to suck your dick. Thats true for everybody not just you. That's not paying that's just being a competent human.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:31 PM
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Women still like sex. Also men like sex so in long distance the man can keep things hidden better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:13 PM
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How do you fix this issue then? Women don't want to give up careers or have to settle to a easier one. Men don't want to pay for all household expenses or if they do they feel like the wife is getting a free ride despite her not. The only way to do this is individual families. The wife has to have compensation from the husband because she is taking a physical hit and economic hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:35 PM
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There are tons of articles and even a old reddit post about women want to be compensated for pregnancy and maternity leave. I personally think in a two person career oriented equal relationship they only way to make that "fair" is to do that. It seems crazy to write about but saying "Lifes not fair women just have to do this" isn't really a good answer and doesn't encourage women to go forward with motherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:20 PM
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I feel like guys always tell me they are going to the gym. Do men lie about that to impress girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:15 PM
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Men like complaining. Women like complaining. It's "easier" to whine that do something. I have been seeing a lot about who have it easier in life for all kinds of things. I would also say me want the type of women they see in porn, some admit it some don't, and it costs money to date women and they are not able to afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:13 PM
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We don't know 2 and 3. Why are you shocked that women like attractive men? Why do you swipe right on blonde bimbos in a bikini? Because you are attractive to them and desire their attention and body.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:07 PM
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I am describing in the example of 30 years. So in 1993 not every 25 year old women was married and 25 year old women did not look like the 25 year old (pretty) women of today. They were not trying to make themselves look younger and younger and it was actually more of a flex to get to be older and be treated like an adult women. An example might be Pretty Women, Julia Roberts was only 22 years old in that movie yet she dresses how a super modest 35 year old might dress after her she mights the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:59 PM
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Men don't get to define the standard for women though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:43 PM
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To me RP is fake traditionalist, believes in innate superiority to women type vibe and BP is liberal minded equality, anti true traditionalist type vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:48 PM
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double standard Why should men get more freedom than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:41 PM
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See women place the safe option as a high value man and the lusted after maybe one at low value. So to a women the man who wants or gets a lot of hookups is low value just like when men describe women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:43 PM
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Why don't most guys want that anymore? It never use to be a problem. Men want to work hard, ask a womens father for permission to marry, wanted to have children ect. Now men live in this hedonistic competition with other men. Do men really think single alpha chad is happier being hunger over after going to the club at age 35 with the slutty women that don't want him anymore than the guy with the sweet wife and two kids going out together on Saturday morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:32 PM
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I don't believe women truly sexually desire the alpha as much as men think. Men become hotter and more desired with feelings of safety and connection which the alpha does not have. And the man should want to be the stable guy because its leads to better quality of life. You can be a wild crazy high and low drug addict for a few years and then it ruins the quality of the rest of your life. OR, you can not do that and just be stable and be admired by you wife and children for your stoic life. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:17 PM
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Even if they get divorced they might have 40 years together. He will have kids and grandkids. Alpha life is like the life of a drug addict. Crazy highs and crazy lows. He is going to feel pretty shitty at 35 when he can't get the types of girls he is use to and he can't build connection with women anymore because he never had to develop personality and just lived off his looks. He will be like the single women past the wall, mens version.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:07 PM
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What kind of backwards logic is a girl needs to give sex before she get connection, chemistry and commitment? You men want traditional girls but don't want them to be any such way? You use to have to marry a girl for sex and now a drink at the bar should be more than enough to say give over the pussy women or else you're garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:59 PM
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Just know, the ones with the girlfriends and wives, probably jump through those hoops without it affecting their manhood. I just said in another comment, women sleeping with a man on a first date normally means that is not a man she would desire to be in a relationship with. Alpha might fuck, but alpha is going to be fucking lonely because he can't build connections with women and will never have a wife and children that don't look at him with embarrassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:47 PM
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I think if a guy actually like me he would not want to have sex with me on a first date. You can't build a lasting relationship on lust feelings. You need to vibe on personality and values. A guy that actually likes a girl would be nervous bringing up sex like that and would want to make it special. In my personal note. I think girls would more likely sleep with the guy on a first date that they don't care about keeping. If she sleeps with you right away that means she actually does not see you …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:42 PM
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Mods I wanted to read that post why did you delete it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:59 AM
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I am not even going to engage with this, but I will say I saw lots of fat men on dates and I wasn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:38 AM
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So how bad is it really to say you're saving yourself for marriage if you're a born again virgin and actually still doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:27 AM
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6'1/6'2 is perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:18 AM
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More women seem to be achieving the standard than men are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:12 AM
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Almost everyone does what is "cool" to their own social group, some stand out other don't. A guy being 6 foot is in right now, a women being young is in right now. 30 years ago it was "in" but not to the same degree of today. A 25 year old man wasn't all dooming because he was 5'9 and a 25 year old women dress and looked like an adult not shopping at teen stores. We are living in a different time now and it may look very different in another 30 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:08 AM
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Women are held to standards as well. They need to pay for things like rent, look a certain way, stay young forever, cook and clean and want child raising be their life happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 01:02 AM
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Not the case. If she makes an income, some even make more money, she could be paying alimony to you. Also, alimony only happens in 10% of divorces and child support happens because men don't want to take the kids 50% of the time. In 50% split child support does not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:59 AM
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They are lacking dating success because women can choose now. Before, when women did not have a choice, they did not suffer as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:57 AM
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How? You can do this with less people. But if people want friends you can't just sit in your room all day and wait for them to flock to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:09 PM
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No because I don't want that many friends its exhausting. But if people are complaining about lack of friends that's a great blueprint to making friend circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:00 PM
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If you are not happy with a women you do not want then don't be with her. You are choosing to settle for that women because you want sex. Trying to say you are "shamed" for your own choice won't go far.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:59 PM
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No they are going for sex tourism. And I'm sure the women who are in that line of work take precautions because they don't have child support there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:34 PM
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Men are going down. Women are going up. Simple as that. If women are not attracted to men there is only so much "shaming" you can do to tell her to be happy with a man she does not want. Men need to step up in quality or be less picky about the type of women they want. If you are that average man, you don't all get to have an above average women. You can either have someone closer to your accomplishments or be single. It's not up to the men to decide what woman should accept its up to women. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:20 PM
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You make friends and become the "central" person of friend groups when YOU make them. If you make 10 individual friends and then put together two different 5 people friend groups everybody in that friend groups meets and knows each other from YOU. Later on they might bring in a friend from a different group and when that friend is like "oh how do you know so and so" they say they met them through YOU. That makes that person more likely to want to know you. You can legit make 50 friends and never…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:59 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:50 PM
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This "dual mating strategy" is just so fake because men are not trying impregnate whores. They would actually consider that to be the worse thing. Setting up their own sperm for failure by being with a slut single mother and not having a father because they would not recognize the child. They are using this as a cop out so that they can sleep with multiple women and hope that they have beaten down womens self esteem enough to be deluded that this is part of "mens needs". Men know this. They want…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:17 PM
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Don't overthink it. RP men just want to have their cake and eat it too. They know it, they sometimes even admit it. They feel women do that because they now have freedom as a full fledged human to have their own opinions, feelings, goals ect. and men think that is them betraying what they were made for...to be subservient to a man and raise his children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:08 PM
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Is it more ethical for women to drop their children off at daycare so they can go to a job they don't want to do to pay for the daycare?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:46 PM
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I think it use to be money. Now women make their own money so they can have both and men need to have something else. Which could be looks, personality, values ect.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:41 PM
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You don't seem to have any though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:34 PM
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Robots are going to do the menial jobs soon anyways though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:49 AM
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I mean idk if he will do that I just think that every guy sees what he can get away with behavior wise and that determines how they treat you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:52 AM
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He has life like together and is out of my league accomplishment wise. Looks wise I think we are probably similar me a little bit ahead but that's pretty normal. I don't have the accomplishments but I look pretty but I need something else and I don't know what. I don't want to be overly kind because then he might think I'm a doormat and will be able to treat me anyway he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:23 AM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:18 AM
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He plays games with me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:01 AM
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Whats the difference between when you bruise a guys ego that he wants to like prove you wrong vs when you bruise his ego he gets mad a rage quits and doesn't want to see you? Like what are things I can say that fit the first one not the second one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:50 AM
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That's very heavy. I can imagine that is average for women under like 25 or 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:20 AM
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You should watch the movie Redeeming Love. It's a "girl movie" but you will cry if you watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:14 AM
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Ha men haven't been doing any cheating? Talking to multiple girls, lying about height, lying about their intentions, omitting that they hung out with an ex, flaking after a promise, lying about their future or talking up career
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:04 AM
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Then by those rules women can do nothing wrong. They can do whatever need be done to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:48 PM
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Why are men not going to college and becoming high income earners? Why are they not healing life traumas if need be so they can be emotionally strong men? Why do men think telling women to do worse in life is what will make them better than just stepping up to the plate themselves. If they stop treating women like equals they are cheating the game which means their "win" isn't a true win.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:32 PM
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I did not even read this but just by the title alone. No. Hot guys have good social media and tinder and that's how they do good. Exception is being at college or bar/club.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:49 PM
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I have no dyed hair, no fake lashes, wear light natural makeup. Is it just thot like because i'm in the US and if I was in Italy it would be oh so feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:18 PM
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But women are human people not toys so that's impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:51 PM
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Yeah so what are they wearing that makes them look less thot like than in the US yet still wearing less for the summer heat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:49 PM
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I don't think women who open large businesses like that are fake working. Maybe some. But they are not going to do all that work for no reason just to say they have a job. Especially if they are married with kids, they would have no problem just saying they are a SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:45 PM
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Dress scantily and super feminine? How does that work in Italy because in the US if you do that you're not feminine you're a thot?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:38 PM
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They like virgins because the see her as an untouched object that they get to play with first. They might want to settle down with one because they know she has no true comparison of sex with anybody else so if they are crappy in bed she won't truly know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:36 PM
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The women that is a cool friend. What makes her not relationship worthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:53 PM
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1) Men don't like women anymore because other men tell them they shouldn't and they want the approval of other men more than the approval of women. 2) Men also don't like women anymore because sexuality is so widely deviated that they grow up really seeing women as sex objects rather than people and its really hard to unteach that. Just think for years many men didn't see a naked women until they got married. In the popular tv show Outlander main character didn't have sex till age 23 on his wedd…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:52 PM
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I love online dating, yet it has its drawbacks. I have never know a world without it so its so normal to me. I do think the "vintage" style of dating where you meet people organically is good but I think men (my age) in public already assume I have a boyfriend, and I don't like the idea of strangers hitting on you because they only are doing that based on your looks not your personality or values as well. With dating apps you can share what you are looking for, your interests, your values ect. w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:18 PM
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Men need to make a baseline salary. I just saw something off that stupid fresh and fit podcast about "why are women not happy with a man that makes 40k." Um 40k might be enough for yourself in your 20's in a low cost of living area, but it is certainly not enough to ever buy a home, pay adult bills, raise a family with children ect. I know quite a few women in their 20's with degrees and careers who's boyfriends work part time jobs and don't contribute to the rent. They do that because "having a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:56 PM
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How did Jesus treat the women at the well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:54 PM
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Whats the delusional part?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:46 PM
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I think we should just keep the men as menial labors and pay them shit. Women have been caring for others, cooking and cleaning, all these years getting paid nothing. Women can do jobs that use their brain and then we can just replace those jobs with robots eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:12 PM
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You just grouped women together in that comment. Men build stuff because they locked women in cages and did not allow them to. It's the revolution now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:53 PM
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I mean if we are doing repercussions from the choices of others then men got a lot of paying up to do for the last few thousand years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:47 PM
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Im just saying how do you want your children to be treated by the public? Christians are to help others, when others don't help you. Living to a higher standard. Do you not want to treat others how Jesus would treat others?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:23 PM
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Are you the one with the kids? I can't remember usernames
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:34 PM
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I didn't see this what did you rate this girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:52 AM
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Not every women gets to date or be married to chad because there are only so many of them. They might only hookup with him and have non chad guy to marry/date long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:40 AM
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I mean when you get food pre cooked it will always cost more. Chipotle legit dumps rice, beans, chicken and cheese in a bowl and charges you an arm and a leg for it. It's for convenience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:38 AM
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You could say women desire to stay with one man. But rationally know (because they can prevent pregnancy) that they will do better being with multiple men and using their resources while getting to have multiple sex partners that they enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:53 PM
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Those are like staple side dishes. She might have been getting some chicken and wanted a side to go with it for lunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:46 PM
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Mentally men would be wired to do this because they want to get her pregnant. He does not want to do that. So it kinda voids its self.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:44 PM
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If he liked the first hole, why does he think the new easier to get hole will be better, so much so that he is willing to risk the first known good one?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:35 PM
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I am not crying about it. Don't approach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:56 PM
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Has this sub been dull lately or is it just my perception?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 12:25 AM
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I like the top comment. Men do this same thing. They want a certain type of girl when they are young and then look for the one that would make a good wife and mother to marry. It can't alway be based on passion. You have to be realistic with what the best for your future will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 09:14 PM
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Why struggle to make money like most men do if you can just marry a wealthy man?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:50 PM
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So you don't know? So it does not exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:12 PM
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Not really. Any single women who men would desire to hit on in public is most likely on a dating app and just does not need to share personal details to a stranger in public. I don't think women should be mean to men who hit on them but I don't think men should do it anymore. It is worse for their self esteem than better. This is just an outdated way of going about things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:10 PM
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That could be true too. I have no interest in making men feel bad. But I do say I have a boyfriend because that line normally works the best than anything else. Men know "She's claimed" more than "Not interested".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:02 PM
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Women can get dates from dating apps now. No need for men to hit on them in public. Men would be better off making better dating profiles than hitting on women grocery shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:59 PM
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You are not really giving examples. Like how does a regular women because high status without hypergamy. The biggest way for a women to because "high status" is to marry a hot wealthy hardworking man that loves only you and wants to have a family you. That is like the whole "I did it" mindset of a women who did it right from both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:24 PM
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You are so over reading this. No the 1590's is not safer for women in general. I don't think women walked alone either in the 1590's. Women do not feel safe around men hitting on them in 2023. I don't know what else to say. You can not force women to feel safe around men because "Oh you can call the police". I don't want to talk to a guy while thinking "oh well maybe if he tries to stalk me I can just call the police." I would just not talk to him at all. That why men get "Oh sorry I have a boyf…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:21 PM
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Can you give me some examples of ways women become high status without hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:54 PM
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Whenever it was normal for men to hit on women in public, sometimes seen as a compliment to her, at least in movies. Don't think that was happening in the 1590's. It just doesn't feel safe to women. Whether men feel she should be allowed or justified in feeling that way that is how most women feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:50 PM
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I don't think money is a hot topic in the movies themselves. Even the hallmark movies that are loved the most, the career women goes back to her small town at 30 and falls in love with the damaged widower she use to date in high school. She might have a career as a doctor and he might live on a horse farm in the mountains or something. They are all UMC or UC. ​ It's just a cheap achieve status porn... and mass media telling women that the best way to achieve status is to snatch a high status guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:43 PM
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Not exactly. Men who stalk women sometimes just do it for fun because they like to scare women. You just never know who the crazy one is going to be and who isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:32 PM
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You can't ask random women out anymore like that in 2023. It's just never really feels safe to women because of the way the world is today. Also, when you cold approach, women know you are only hitting on them based on one factor. How they look. You don't know anything about their personality, values, ect. The only real exception to this is if you are say under 25 and in like a college town/beach town where you might get away with this. But in a city no women is going to hand over her phone numb…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:00 PM
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What is consistent casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 04:29 PM
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I feel like this is not going as expected
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:48 AM
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I mean what if women just act out against their husbands? He can divorce right, just not her? So she goes and spends all his money, cheats on him with other men, laughs at him all the time or something. He can't beat her to death or have her arrested, he would just be told if he is unhappy in marriage to divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:02 AM
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Ha. Women might get into relationships because they want to fuck and be comfortable with someone. Does not mean they are going to give up there life for it. Men who want to be in a relationship but can't get a girl is why they are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 03:48 PM
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Men either want it all or want nothing. Women live in the middle ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:29 PM
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You know. The true challenge is making the super rich man fall in love with you. Because wealthy men only are going to marry a women in 2023 if he thinks he absolutely cannot live without her and believes she would leave without a marriage commitment. That takes real time and effort, and a really good appearance, with a really really good personality that is tailored to what he wants. I personally don't desire the money/lifestyle enough to change who I am for it. I would rather be myself, meet a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:41 AM
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Men care about money. Men like nice home, fast cars, cool trips. Women like variety. They like new fun exciting men, they like to be wanted and desired by new men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:28 AM
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Then why is this only a man thing then. Women who make a lot of money could do the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:15 PM
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Even the top 20% of men can be good people. They also don't have this deep desire to control women as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:57 PM
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Advising "modern" men that the thing to work for in life is a "committed loving partner that lets you cheat" is not going to be a reasonable goal and many men will become discouraged because they will fail. Also, it's a narcissistic goal in saying that to be a HVM you must have a partner that allows you to abuse her because your just that great.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:29 PM
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I don't know of these subs. Who posts on what? Like are guys saying women orgasm when giving birth or are girls saying this to troll men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:28 PM
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Most men make average salaries where they want the women in their life to work as well. If she can stay home it does not mean she will accept cheating from spouse. In a reverse situation. Would the man let his high income earning hot wife cheat with other guys so he becomes a cuck. Probably not because it is embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:22 PM
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There are more women studying to become doctors and lawyers than men right now. Even if they have the debt those careers make the money to pay it off fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:54 PM
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You should study the amish. They got so many problems going on its really sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:47 PM
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Story of everybody's life. Men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:41 PM
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We can't force people to have children. Especially if they can not afford them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:37 PM
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If a man cheated on me I would leave him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:08 AM
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I have seen "statistics" out there that 50% of men are not even attempting to date at all. You can't not even try and blame others when you fail. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. You can't blame the opposing team for you not dunking the ball when you sat on the bench the whole game.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:04 AM
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Men whose wives sleep with other men are cucks. Men can not respect women who sleep with multiple men, women can not respect her husband who sleeps with multiple girls after marriage to her. It's embarrassing to her in society and personally. Same as if she was sleeping with other men, he would be embarrassed and personally feel empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:03 AM
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Maybe they had wealthy parents who paid for the fun. Where I come from if you go to college you get a job because you have debt to pay off. And if you don't want to be in debt then you get a job out of high school. Or if you want to be a mom and don't want to struggle in school while getting into debt. Also, you didn't really comment about non educated women. Im 21 and want nothing more than to be a SAHM, but I am seen as a gold digger or not worthy of it because I don't have a college eduction.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:59 AM
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What is the point of dating a women who is going to school or has a career just so she can become a SAHM? Or telling her she needs to do the SAHM duties but also work and make a little money. Men don't like the dead end job girls because they think they are below their league. They don't have the drive and passion for work like they want them to, even if its only for a little while until it's time or them to let it go for the man and children. When actually, a women who is happy in a low income …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:39 AM
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Women are in college more, women graduate college more, women are making more money than men in 2023. Many divorces that are happening right now are filed by working women who are making more money than her husband and they are doing it all. The job, the chores, the childcare. The husband is not much needed if he just makes a little money, and complains about lack of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:31 AM
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That is a bold assumption with nothing to back up on. Many single moms nowadays are making "mom houses" where other single moms are getting together to share rent on a home and help each other with the kids. I think this might end up becoming more popular. I personally, am a huge promoter of traditional households. But not by forcing them, taking right aways, not educating. The handmaid's tale is a dystopian story not a what people want society. That is a fascist society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:25 AM
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Not every women knows if they are going to marry some lawyer where they might get that opportunity. Also, in the case divorce may occur she will have the resume gap for 10+ years while he was soaring in his yet gets upset with the alimony payments. Overall though, if you're a women who wants to be a SAHM and husband makes enough to provide without holding it over her head than yeah that's totally the best way to go. It tends to be men going after career women who work hard at their job, then giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:12 AM
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If she's does a 50k job and he does a 50k job its majority of the time the women leaving rather than paying for childcare. That same man might complain about her wanting money for target when he get stuff for his truck because he worked for it. All while she's staying home taking care of the children he took part in creating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:00 AM
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A traditional marriage is man goes to work and makes a income for the family women stays at home and takes care of household chores and children. Problems are made when the man wants the women to take on a part time job and take care of household chores and children OR when the women wants her husband to start doing the laundry and taking kid to soccer practice. Men should be the provider financially, protecter physically, leader spiritually in a traditional marriage. Women need to care and comf…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:54 AM
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As you said lots of women want to have children they just are not considering the majority of men as good enough to have kids with. So keeps the ones that look good and are socially stable for good genetics and mental health and procreate with them. Then women can raise their children with other women in nurturing homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:47 AM
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Maybe we just need less men? As RP people love to say many women can be pregnant by one man what do we need all these men for? Because women are doing well in academia and career they can just take over running society. That way no rights need to be taken away by forcing marriages or taking away eduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:24 AM
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You could say the same thing about men. Lot's of men use to want to believe in love. They would die in a war for their girl back home. Now it's all about who has the high body count and who gets the hottest girl with the least amount of effort. Sexual liberation happened in the 60's and only a percent of people partook in it. Every decade that went on more and more did and now we are here. The whole concept of relationships between men and women has to be essentially reborn for this to get bette…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:14 AM
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Women give up their jobs to be a parent because childcare is to costly and the man does not want to. Women move locations for their husbands careers. Men will put their careers before their wife and children. In 2023. The safer option is to be a career focused women and never marry unless you are marrying someone who makes more than you. Because you are in charge of your own future, not dependent in a thankless replaceable position with nothing to show for it. This is coming from someone who wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:05 AM
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In a two person working household this should bot only be the wife's job to do. Maybe one week is her week and the next is the mans. Or maybe they wait till they are both available to do grocery shopping a dinner together. It's not her jobs to take the physical and mental energy of making dinner for the family every night just because she is the wife and mom if she is a wage contributing adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:59 AM
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That's not tradwife style. Sounds more like she is trying to do to much. Of course exceptions do occur. Like with a newborn or household is sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:08 AM
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So if they safe guy was not hot enough to do that in his 20's that's not her fault. Also, if they safe guy could not get women in his 20's why would young hot slutty women want to be with him in his 30's? Especially if he is married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:54 PM
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This is also what causes a lot of celebrity divorces. Also in the case of a men with high wealth. The wife is a symbol, not a wife. She does not need to cook and clean or care for kids. She has a cook, maid, nanny. She does yoga and brunch with the women just like her. She might turn a blind eye for her children sake, but she is not thriving and happy about it. It is a shame if men feel that for them to be respected by their partner she must feel disrespected, unloved, and shame. From both herse…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:50 PM
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They don't because they are told it is socially unacceptable. If a women did that the man would be a cuck. Women do not feel respected when her partner goes to sleep with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:44 PM
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With the man she is in a relationship knowing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:36 PM
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Men who have a stressful day at work and can come home to a nice hot meal with a wife and kids happy to see him makes the stress of work worth it and somewhat melt away because he has happiness in his family. Men who don't have a wife and kids, or choose to be with a wife who he wants to work is not going to get this treatment. The wife is just as stressed and tired and does not want to go grocery shopping and cook dinner and the kids want attention but are not going to get it in the same way be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:35 PM
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Women can get bored in relationship too. Also I don't think most women respect a man that wants to go sleep with other women because she is not enough for his sexual appetite. He might choose to enjoy the comfort of the home with her without giving her good sex because he doesn't need it from her anymore. Dead bedrooms happen to women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:28 PM
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She can't be non monogamous in a relationship though? What if she wants a relationship with the safe guy want also wants to fuck chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:00 PM
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If men feel like they should be able to sleep around with women why should women only be monogamous? Your flair is even about it. What women wants to be disrespected by her man going out to sleep with other women because she is not enough and he does not let her go out and find other men. The delusion is your sweet pure hardworking woman at home, happily cleaning the floors, telling you to have a wonderful great time fucking the hoes as you walk out the door. It's not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:39 PM
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Men and women do a lot of the same jobs now. So when a man feels his job is stressful, for women it's just as stressful. There was some clip of a guy complaining about how women don't want to cook and clean anymore and the other guy in the video was like "Yeah they are tired from going to work all day". The original guy was dumbfounded how a women who went to work for 8 hours just like him could possibly be too tired to come home and cook him his meal and clean the house. Men who want a women to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:25 PM
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Why do men like Tim Tebow exist then. Sports star christian who waited till his 30's to have sex with the women he married.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:14 PM
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If this was so great or attainable everyone would be doing it. Regular men don't just hand women money because they ask. They are more likely to say go get a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:40 PM
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Seems fat men do too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:51 AM
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Why would a thin women want to then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:58 AM
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So many overweight men complaining about overweight women? Whats up with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:39 AM
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When my post topics aren't allowed but what if humans laid eggs is -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:48 PM
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This must only be true in basement dwelling land. I never assume a adult is a virgin tbh and most men love to hide that they have a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:09 PM
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Not about the women getting sex. Some men won't settle with an ugly fat girl and would rather just jerk off to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:07 PM
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The man is deciding to have kids though. If a man has 3 kids and his wife dies he will outsource the labor of raising the kids to his mother, aunts, sisters because he can't keep up. Economically use to be, now most middle class families the women makes more than the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:01 PM
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The obsess over sex because they feel it's a need that they don't have. Would you give up food for all the sex in the world? No, oh right because you would fucking die. I bet some dude in North Korea would make that trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:55 PM
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They are porn addicts. How are they going to have sex with an ugly fat lady if they are use to watching 18 year old hot girls. They are creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:49 PM
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Women do the emotional labor once the kids come
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:45 PM
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Wtf r u talking about. No guy is hooking up with a girl once and saying he's not single.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:35 PM
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Women like engagement photos, engagement parties, bachelorette parties, say yes to the dress, cake testing, THE wedding, honeymoon, the rings, the wifey t shirts. It's like prom x10. Men like...idk the tax benefits or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:28 AM
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But that has no care for a hookup or FWB situation, does not matter if she is 20 or 40 if a man does not want a relationship with the women he is not going to want kids with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 05:24 AM
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I totally this this could be true and I know things are expensive right now. I just don't want to lie because it really I what I always wanted to do with my life. Also as I said with waitressing I can make more money than a teacher doing part time work. Even the career women who wants to go 50/50 could change her mind after having a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:23 AM
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Many times I have always said I want to be a sahm once day so I didn't want to spend a lot of time building a career. They understand the answer yet still don't like it. Its a conundrum. Men don't want women to be career women yet want them to have a girly career they might not won't just to claim they are passionate about work to one day pull them away to be a sahm anyway because they don't make enough and its cheaper for the wife to stay home than get childcare. It's kinda pointless unless the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:07 AM
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I feel like you're a real adult. You always talk about big adult issues and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:01 AM
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Why do men always seem to claim they don't care if a women has a job, or what her job is, then never date women with low paying jobs. I get vetoed from men all the time for making low money or doing part time work because it makes me seem dull or not passionate about work or something I think. I said in another comment the other day that a women might be making more money doing 25 hours a week than a teacher makes doing 45+ a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:53 AM
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This happens with so many people though. Example: Man tell you he is a Christian. Has all the right connections, knows all the Bible verses, acts so sweet and kind. Yet you look under his instagram following and he is following every pornstar and onlyfans model in the book. Now you found something that shows he is not the man he claims to be. If you didn't look at that you might not had any clue until after you married him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:36 AM
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A obese women might want that man, doesn't mean she will get him, and if she can't get him she might simply be happier alone than in a relationship with a obese man like society says she should do. Thats not the fault of anyone. Men can't see to see the concept of being happy by themselves. They would rather go find a poor women that does not speak English to marry and if she doesn't preform, drop her on the street with nothing. She can go after money too you know. And if you don't have any they…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:07 AM
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That could be. But you all see all this milf crap and 22 year old men who want to be with the 44 year old career women for the resources. Like if she's single with money and has taken care of herself. He might like the sex, he might let him live with her for free, pay for stuff for him. I bet the hot 22 year old would totally take that up. Its like living the supposed female experience men think all women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:12 PM
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Currently not on tinder but I have used it in the past. I just wrote in my bio that I was looking for a partnership and stuff like that. Hinge is okay but I think people lie there. Everything on that app feels like people will lie to sound good rather that seeing how people truly are in person. My most used app is bumble. Thats where all the guys I seem to like are at. I do hate that I have to message first so I am guilty of just saying Hi.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:07 PM
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My annoyance is that every date I go on guy wants something casual. They lie to get to the date then they say on the date that maybe it could develop into a relationship or some crap. I post attractive photos but do put that I am looking for a LTR on my apps. I can weed out the ones that turn sexual in the first few messages, but some guys are sweet on the app but in person they turn into college frat boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:51 PM
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Thats why you see older women with young men. I think younger women will always want to be with someone their own age. Also most women don't like hookup, if anything they might do a FWB but women almost always develop feelings as time goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:42 PM
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I actually think the error men will have with the women is that they don't look pretty like they think they will. These are poor places. Thailand, Philippines, Cambodia...very poor. I saw this one think about this guy that went over to one of those countries and invited girls over and got all his stuff stolen! Like camera equipment and credit cards. He also posted a picture with a girl who just looked not it. Comment were so funny because he thought he was winning. Also, traditional foreign wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:14 PM
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We can't force men to do anything. Lots of men don't want to be friends with women because they don't see them as equals, they see them as a toy or sex pet. Everyone has seen that statistic that in 2030 women 25-40 will be single and childless. Don't they know that if this is happening to women its happening to men too? The only difference is men has made the single unmarried man seem happier while the single unmarried women is drowning in tears. Both men and women know that's not true but these…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:04 PM
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Who hurt u
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:07 PM
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I will say that with teaching is like the "attractive female career" but the time and pay is crap. The waitress might be making more money working 25 hours a week with tips than the teacher working 45+ to make lesson plans. Thats why you see a lot of college degree holding women doing serving jobs. It's less stressful, less time, and makes more money. Prenups seem fine to make as long as its only the pre marital assets not the assets made during the marriage. Because in the case of divorce if wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:06 PM
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What is a "decent career"? What does intelligent mean to you? Reasonably attractive means all sorts of things as well. Wants a family, can she stay home with the kids or does she have to go 50/50 on daycare? Who do you get along with? Is marriage coming first or only LTR because when the kids are older you might want to leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:20 PM
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It's a pendulum situation. Millennials and Gen Z might push for no marriage and no strings because people don't trust one another. Gen Alpha might grow up and change the whole system again. We never will know till it happens. Also, if you don't respect this women, why be affected by what she says?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:18 PM
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If a pretty women wants to remain pure but men only want her for sex, don't believe her, no shocker when she's 30 with no man because nobody wanted to believe that a relationship with a good girl could even exist, they didn't even try for it. How does a women show a man that's hyper focused on the negative that she is coming with pure intentions, desiring a relationship and family? It would be better to not even waste breath because they won't see it. They will see a lying women out to get them.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 05:13 PM
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Q4M: What jean waist size for women is considered thin?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:48 PM
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How do you tell that special one that hasn't put out on a first date? Because if you want them to and they don't you will just think the are a picky bitch. But if they do they are a whore that does this with every guy. But if they sleep with you claiming they don't do this but you're special you will laugh saying be gone thot. There is really no path without a gate blocking a way forward for your type, so why even go on the date? Why should a women put in the effort for a guy that just wants to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:43 PM
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I personally have never demanded a $300 dinner from a man, I don't know anyone that has either. And I guess that is up to him paying if he wants to and or has the resources to do that. To ask women if they put out before a dinner date is going to weed out all the good women right away because I would never even entertain going out with that kind of man. So you glass will always be half empty there. I think women look at men for resources along with love and intimacy. That makes senses for a wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:24 PM
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I don't think I have ever heard a man say "you owe me sex" but have had a man say he "earned" it. Many men on dating apps will right away want to know if you put out before taking you to dinner. With drinks that's less common even if that's what they hope for. It's more so just sad because this is the majority for me, not the minority. So its difficult to even enjoy the dates I do go on because at any point it can become sexualized and then I have to end it even it I originally was having a good…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:00 PM
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Do RP men want special privileges to exist for their daughters? RP men that have all kinds of terms about women, that they just holes and such. But want their daughters to not know a thing about it. Want her to be college educated, have fun in her 20's, marry some bluepill man that lets her call all the shots and makes lots of money right. Yet all this is completely opposite of red pill and beneficial to the women's happiness not the mans.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:41 PM
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Its because I have my marbles
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:50 AM
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I still don't understand that rollo guy. His only daughter is in her mid twenties with a masters degree like she isn't following the path to loneliness per his own advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:22 AM
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You want women to have emotional trauma, just the right emotional trauma so that she obeys what you say. Trauma free women would never be with RP men because they have all there senses and wires right. Traumatized women of all kinds are with RP because they don't have all there senses and wires right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:20 AM
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In the 1980's you might have gotten some takers. In 2023 women will laugh. "WE ARE GONNA HAVE LOTSSSSS OF CHILDREN AND SEXUALLY SATISFYING MEEEEE IS STILL VERY IMPORTANT!!!" When its written in caps, that's how if sounds when women read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:37 PM
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Where do you want to put them all? In jail?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:22 AM
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Are you a HVM?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:18 AM
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What up with men only wanting to date elementary education teachers? Is it because they are so use to talking to children that they can make the convo easy and simple for him or something? I don't understand
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:17 AM
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Good guys: Love and cherish you, will do anything to protect you, take a bullet for you Bad guys: Spit on you and call you a whore during sex PPD: Bad guys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 08:53 PM
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Not the tradcon rp guys. They would rather live on one lower income and keep control than have women work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:24 PM
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Her entire argument is saying the most extreme crazy crap that extreme crazy men want to hear. They don't even agree with it sometimes like when she was going off about how women shouldn't have the right to vote. If her policies were in place she would not be speaking and have no platform.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:04 PM
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I am a conservative women and I think pearl is dumb as a box of rocks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:54 PM
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Men can complain about wanting feminine things but then they deal with the result of women not wanting to sleep with them. Tbh women got to start throwing back this same black and white treatment to these men so they get a taste of their own medicine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:18 PM
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What about the tradwives
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:08 PM
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Your girlfriend is take the L
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:18 PM
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I dare you to tell the next women you want flowers on dates first and see if she still wants to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:51 PM
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Oh me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:50 PM
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I don't think its about opening up. You should not want that stuff from the beginning because that is feminine energy. Like what women is going to be wet after a guy saying he wants flowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:43 PM
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Because that's not attractive to women. You should do more masculine things so you don't want these female things anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:38 PM
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Yeah but what are men actually going to do with flowers. Are they going to take care of them, put them in a vase, on a clean table, in the sunlight. No, they will throw them away. Also men can't be complaining about women emasculating them yet want flowers on dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:34 PM
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I just saw these tiktok about men complaining about not getting flowers on dates or doors opened for them. Tbh I have the hardest time thinking a man would do that irl because that's embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:14 PM
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I think men are getting jealous that women can do women things and men things but men can only do men things? Lots of tikotks about men wanting princess treatment today.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:05 PM
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Uh I go to events to drink? Are you going to marry these type of women? Or only use them and pick out a shinny new one when you want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:59 PM
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They are only doing that because they have had their trust broken by men so many times they can't trust them anymore. So they get abused by men instead while telling themselves it's what they want. It's not what they want it's a trauma response.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:50 PM
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So men drug women with alcohol so they do things they would not do it they were not drugged with alcohol?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:44 PM
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Alpha female summerrrr. I am going to just be pissing off men with this alllll summer because I saw that post and its really hitting nerves with the men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:34 PM
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I go on a lot of dates from dating apps. If I want something do to this Friday night, get on the dating apps I might get some average last minute offers, sometimes I take them sometimes I just take a relaxing shower at home and watch a movie because they aren't good enough. My "good enough" is not measured in 6 foot 100k crap, its measured in values, what are they looking for on the app, stuff like that. And if they flat out tell me "HOOKUP" "SEX" "CASUAL" then I am already uninterested. I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:27 PM
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Like guys don't want to "hang out" with girls like they do with guy friends. They go on dates FOR women because that is how you get a hookup, or a girlfriend you know. So let say a guy has a girlfriend and its date night. She gives him the choice to go watch the football game with the boys instead of dinner with her, if he is getting that offer free and clear no complaints later, he will go watch the game with his friends because he still has the girlfriend with the sex at home anyways. Men go o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 12:44 AM
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Its with the other guys things. If a girlfriend is with she is just a tag along.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 12:34 AM
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I just mean like is it bothersome on the date? Like when out for drinks or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 12:21 AM
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Ok Q4M: If a girl wore a really cute dress on a date but it definitely shows off her tits does that make it hard to concentrate on the date for you or is it like "I notice" but then won't be overthinking about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 12:00 AM
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I legit was so sad when this happened. I LOVE Sierra Mist. Starry is very close but that was such a reckless choice made.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:19 PM
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I have experienced this so much. When getting asked out by guy many times I asked what they are looking for and almost every time it is short term or lets see where it goes. I mean for the most part I like that they are honest so I can throw them away right there, but men use to like tell women what they want to hear, now they just say what they want and expect women to just be grateful that they want to use their body as a object or something. Even the dating apps guys mostly put on there that …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 01:51 PM
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Because I don't think women look at the way. More like does this guy deserve me, be a good provider for me, be a good father ect. Also if your wife worked outside the home then you probably wanted her to do both the job and domestic but that never works well in the end because burn out. If that's the case you have to outsource labor and pay others to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:54 PM
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Then you picked wrong...just like the women that get crap husbands. I would be careful of the ones giving wife perks before marriage because they are the ones that just want the ring and wedding. Also my example things only apply to those that are SAHW without an income job to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:27 PM
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Then don't get married. But you also can't force women to sleep with you. Also this is a good point to say why it is so important to only ever have ONE partner from my Christian perspective. Men may get sick of the random hookups and want something more meaningful. But sexually he might be bored after awhile because he tried every cookie in the cookbook and now only gets one. So when he can't enjoy simple sex as much anymore it's because it just won't compare. He did that to himself though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:58 PM
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Women have to decide their own values as well. That still doesn't make them perfect. Most women will marry men with average salaries. And they do the domestic work, cooking cleaning child raising. Than they are provider and service to the man just as much as he is making money for the household. This is not a retirement plan this is a traditional family unit. I believe in marriage because I am a Christian and that's how God wanted it. If others don't get married than that is their life, but wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:50 PM
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At the end of the day every person has to decide who they want to be and the values they live by. If a mans attitude is that he wants to have his cake at eat it too he is actively trying to take advantage. High quality men don't live like that. If they say "well everyone is a mess and if you don't take you'll be taken" then they want to become just what they despise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:02 PM
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This isn't feminist stuff, this is traditional dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:38 PM
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But that is kinda dependent on where he puts his money. If he puts his money towards beer with the guys, stuff for his truck, dates for "fun" women to hopefully get some action then he is not going to have the money for a family. He also is not developing the behavior of an adult man choosing to have responsibilities other than himself. Even you, in the same response are saying young men view hooking up as a way to liberate women while also saying men won't marry those damaged women? Men have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:23 PM
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That is a women knowing her worth. If a women has to go on a date feeling worried or stress about trying to entertain HIM then she is not going to be the best version of herself. It's pretty much common knowledge that men don't date women that are not attracted to. A date is a women's time, time for the man to show how awesome he is to her so she become attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 04:34 PM
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No, I am saying that going on date is what men do for women. Men don't care about dates and they are spending money on them. Women like to go on dates because she is being taken care of, not because she wants to put in effort to woo the guy. The guy is already wooed if he is spending money on a date with her and she knows that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:57 PM
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Most of the time the reason men go on date at all is for women. Men don't want to spend money at a restaurant, get all dressed up, go see an event or something. They would totally be way happier watching a sports game, playing golf or working on a car or some other thing as long as he still gets his sex he wants at the end of the night. Men date women to show them they appreciate her and try to make her more comfortable by spending time together...with the purpose of good sex in mind as the end …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:33 PM
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In our time in history we don't live in a polygamous one in marriage. Even though some people attempt to practice it it is still not allowed and when I think of polygamy I think of those crazy Mormons in Utah. The sexual revolution has been going on for a while so I am not surprised when men only want sex from women but that does not lead to fulfilling happiness as a grown adult. I do believe many men will start to feel the longing of wanting to be needed and be a husband with a wife and childre…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:16 PM
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That is a lack of self control thing though. Men do so much better in life in a stable family with a wife and children as that is biologically and socially wanted. Men also feel needed in this type of arrangement that gives him purpose. Men have to decide if they have the want to be a notable high standing man that makes sure his family is taken care of OR if he wants to live in narcissistic hedonism his whole life with nothing to leave behind. Thats not based on what everyone else does. Every m…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:48 PM
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Men have self control. They do they just think they don't. If a man wants consistent sex he should be in a relationship, preferably marriage. Not just trying to hookup with a random all the time. Like another commenter say, the risks for women are so high when it comes to sexual encounters, especially with randoms. Like the risk of being harmed or getting pregnant. Also women rarely get off during hookups, its all about the man and his orgasm not womens, many women do not even feel comfortable e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:13 PM
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Women want to be wooed. They want be taken care of on dates and in a relationship it what lets her stay feminine and worry free because she does not need to worry about these things. Women, imo, normally show relationship appreciation later on in life, after you marry her. With thing like taking care of the home and chores, birthing babies, raising the children, making thanksgiving dinner, wrapping the Christmas presents..ect. The things that MEN don't put as much effort into but it somehow gets…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 01:49 PM
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Why does this red pill guy Rollo have a adult daughter with a masters degree? Isn't that like super anti redpill for women to go be career women? He seems happy this is what she is doing but at the same time saying women should not do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:26 PM
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Wait where are their responses
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:17 PM
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Thats why is so important to be yourself than follow the crowd. Men like women that are not like everyone else and so do women. But I think for women it matters more because part, in my option, most, of the attraction is in the personality of the man than how he looks. His personality is going to show how he handles a disagreement or makes a judgement call. How he fathers his kids the the values he teaches them. This stuff matters more. You can't fake it though because you can't live that way fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 04:01 PM
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The kids could grow up and yes a divorce could happen. Thats doesn't mean it will and that does mean divorced people don't meet other divorced people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:45 PM
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It's not just a fantasy because people live this life today.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:44 PM
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Attractive traits can be learned though and many guys just have the attitude that they are not the best so why try at all mindset. If you look average yet have certain qualities, traits, interests that are attractive to specific women that man would become more attractive than the "chad" to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:42 PM
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But you don't know it will be a dead bedroom relationship? I feel like guys want to experience they waking up on Saturday morning with a pretty wife and the kids jumping on the bed about yelling about pancakes and the happy golden retriever barking. They only focus on the possibilities of bad things rather than all the good things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:35 PM
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So what I am hearing is these men are just narcissists that cannot be saved from their own toxic mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:28 PM
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But according to men themselves only like the top 20% of guys are getting whenever they want hookups. Also at some point the sex is going to drop off in that too. Like even when "Chad" turns 35 he is not going to be pulling the same women he pulled at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:26 PM
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Why do men hate being a good guy? They don't like being a good guy because they don't want to be a provider right? But in reality they went around with all the promiscuous women, some more than others, having their fun and then if they find a girl to settle down with they think oh I can't do that because it will make me beta of some crap. In the average relationship its not like the women is not providing anything either, she cooks, cleans, births babies. So why do men think the are being so tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:13 PM
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Do you think men will ever get baby fever? I feel like these me who want to be forever bachelors are going to want a kid one day?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 02:44 PM
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The churches have just died out for young people. I even go to a big church in a the city they just don't have the young adults that they use to a decade ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 12:59 PM
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Welcome to PPD. Your brain comes to die here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:24 AM
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Sad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 03:23 AM
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Dating apps, like Hinge. I get lots of roses on hinge and men say how much they like my profile but then most can't even keep up a convo or when the find out I am religious they either take it as a challenge till they are bored or completely ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:49 PM
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Porn is not sex education
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:51 PM
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"I'm sure someone will marry the slut" My goodness men are so useless to society. They are like pigs now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:14 PM
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Please repeat more leftist things you were told to say
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:09 PM
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So your not a redpill guy that's complains about womens body counts and how men shouldn't marry used up slutty women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:08 PM
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Pain is not pleasure its pain. It's suffering. People who can't tell the difference have most likely been abused at some point and maybe don't know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:06 PM
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I personally think those women have a lot of trama tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:41 PM
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Then you should repent and follow Jesus and you won't have to worry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:37 PM
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Are you really going to respect women who let you spit on them and degrade them sexually? No
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:36 PM
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Hell is created for Satan, fallen angels, and the unrepentant. The reality is that the unrepentant still alive on earth still can repentant and go to Heaven.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:32 PM
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Part of being an adult human is learning to control your emotions, including anger. It's not diving headfirst into hedonism. It's not seeing how many people you can dominate. That will not make you happy it will just make you more angry wanting more. You can not be your own god. Society falls apart when humans act like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:28 PM
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That is not even considered a kink anymore. Thats how porn is and men AND women are getting their sex education from it. They just think that's normal sex and it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:20 PM
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I don't want people to go to Hell and neither does God. I said sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:17 PM
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I think they need the peace of Jesus and a safe environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:16 PM
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Men think abuse is love and the women that participate never knew love. Any women that wants to be spit on and called a whore while having sex thinks that will earn her love and any man that does that to a women wants to control and abuse women for their own pleasure. I see you are willing to put up with a lot to abuse women, as long as they leave after the abuse or say thanks for it. Both have mental problems and are on pathway to Hell though sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:56 PM
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I am a pretty 21 year can't find anybody to commit for the life of me. Followed the *rules* for the most part. I go on dates with guys slightly older than me and have gone on dates with guys 10 year older just because they are suppose to have it all together but tbh I think were worse than guys my own age. I do think many guys ghost me on like ok like terms because they want to keep me as an option later in life but I am not the "fun" they are looking for right now and that's very upsetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:26 PM
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I was not asking for commitment right away this was a first date. I don't want to sleep with men on the first date even if I physically would want to my brain knows that is reckless, possibly dangerous, not moral to my personal beliefs. I think quite a bit of men have been kinda duped into thinking that if she doesn't sleep with you on the first date she doesn't think your good enough for her and that's just so untrue. I also think men just like the chase of getting hookups rather than getting o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:53 PM
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I think most men would pink thin and has similar values. College is extra schooling that does not make her a better women. If anything it makes her more liberal and into hookups, unless that's what you're looking for if so I don't think the values matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:19 PM
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I don't personally think so. He was two years older than me, About 5'10. He had a lot of acne scarring I have none. Kinda a lanky thin guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:05 PM
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Idk about that. Like two weeks ago I went on a date that legit lasted 6 hours, it was a really fun date I was ready to go home 4 hours in but stuck around. I could tell he was trying to get me to go home with him but not in a crazy way just slightly because he could tell by my personality that I was not into that. Anyways I went home and he went home and I never heard from him again. Now he just watches my ig story from afar like an orbit. This happens over and over again for women. I go out on …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:31 PM
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So is love not unconditional? Because if it was unconditional you wouldn't lessen it for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 04:04 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:46 PM
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Why would it lessen?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:46 PM
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Idk I don't know any but I would assume that maybe one or two had a good home and was just reckless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:59 PM
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Q4M: If your daughter decided to become a pornstar would you still love her?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:57 PM
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That's not accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:22 PM
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Tbh I really am starting to see the point that some of these men are beyond help because they see abuse and think that's love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:07 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:03 PM
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Maybe. Maybe they want a bang maid that doesn't know English.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:48 PM
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I love men, men are the coolest. But you don't need them to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 03:47 PM
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The average guy is more violent today too. They replaced working hard and wife/kids with video games with guns and drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:44 AM
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Because I am not out looking for a rich man to marry. If my future husband is rich its by random not because I went looking for that. Passport bros going to a 3rd world nation to find this young virgin bride to take back to be his little tradwife so he will give you money to send home to your family is exploitative and does not compare in the slightest. She might be forced, she might not we don't know. She might be beaten, she knows nobody. He might just say oh you can only have $150 to send bac…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:23 AM
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I think most 20 year old foreign women don't want to marry a 50 year old car salesmen and leave their family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:16 AM
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Love and values are more worth it to the everyday American girl than lots of money. I may marry a rich guy and I may not. Values are first. And if I do marry rich I won't sign a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:11 AM
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Back in the 60's women could wear just as revealing clothing around a college campus as today and it was fine. In 2023 like 90 percent of men watch porn and culture is generally sexualized I actually think its more difficult for women to go outside in the same coverage their grandma once wore because of hyper sex minded males. It's really scary to be stared at or even have men try to just stand closer and closer to you to make you feel scared and uncomfortable. Male sexuality in not the same in …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:06 AM
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Though in the US lots of people want out of their student loans because it was unfair and exploitative because they were only 18 when they signed. Also women are married against their own wishes because family says you have to. IG models flying the skies is a very small small percentage of women and they are not out marrying anyone to flee starvation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:56 AM
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A poor 3rd world women is coming from a drastically worse lifestyle that I have never known. Women in the US don't need to marry the fat 50 year old because they can have their own job and make money and fall in LOVE with someone their own age. Those foreign women maybe hope that their children will have that option in life so they self sacrifice, or are forced by family.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:43 AM
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I don't not know her personally. The arrangement itself is exploited. Many people, young women, don't even know they are being exploited until years later. Maybe she is happier because she's not starving in a slum but that does not mean she isn't being exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:36 AM
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She need a green card that's it. $300 she could make as a server in the US in ONE night and make a bunch more money for herself. He's not doing some kinda of miracle here other than trapping her in a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:17 AM
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HMM, them MAYBE men should not go over to those countries to do JUST THAT.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:13 AM
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It's just like when men get mad here about women only caring about money. They only get mad because its too much money. Over there wants are more "reasonable" to the western man. You think people don't fall in love in eastern countries? But instead marry some fat 50 year old so the fam don't stave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:57 PM
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I think passport bros know they are exploiting women. Just like in the states. BUT its cheaper to exploit women overseas so that's why they are going, they can't afford to do so in western countries. My cousins best friend married a very poor women from the Philippines and part of the "marriage" was that she can send l think 300 USD a month to her family there and it like changed their life. They lived in slums and now they never will starve. I don't know anything about their marriage no kids an…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:12 PM
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You don't think well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:28 PM
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Men just hate that they love women and women don't love men as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:26 PM
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Not really. Say you have a gross wound on your body that takes a few days to stop being yucky. And someone doesn't want to be around you because of that even if its clean and covered. You most likely will have feelings of shame. Now do that every month.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:17 PM
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If a men is disgusted by a period I think he should just not tell women about that. Because women will take that like you think she's disgusting because her period is part of her for 5-7 days a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:05 PM
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Yeah I am pro women like all the men on this sub are pro men. Most men are pro man. Women have had a lot more suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:58 PM
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Men on this sub don't give a shit about women. Men in general don't care. And you're that sensitive that I and not fighting for something that would make life WORSE for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:57 PM
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Humans are wired to survive. Women have done it for a long time. Right now the resort for men seems to be by becoming women themselves because they seem to be envious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:54 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:14 PM
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Better make a lot of dough buddy. Because you're going to need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:02 PM
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This is what your post sounds like in reverse. Young women are more likely to want sex more than older women. What are you going to do trade wifey in when she gets early pre menopause?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:47 PM
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How do you state mandate a human another human? George Orwell wants his plot line back.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:30 PM
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The only time anybody should be having sex with anybody is when both partner willing agree under zero persuasion. So if your wife has a lower libido than you she does not have to sleep with you more often just because you expect her to do so. Also men will try threatening wives that they will leave or cheat on her if she does not put out more. Thats sketch.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:24 PM
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Nope my dad never wanted a daughter
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:18 PM
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I guess it does not matter what you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:44 PM
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That sacrificing comment was based on women not being sacrificial as said by the other commenter. If women are to be sacrificing men would have to as well. Also with the houses, of course a women would get a house over a man, women are going to be given more because most of society wants men to fail to weed out the good ones. And idc because I am a women so that's not my fight. Good on your sister, be happy for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:42 PM
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You are wrong. You should research.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:25 PM
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Yeah cause chris rock has all the answers. Women are loved for being hot, sucking dick, cleaning...by men Children are just mini's for personal accomplishment by men, to be seen not heard. Dogs are a mans best friend, to comfort him...the dog is dependent too so he better not bite or no bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:24 PM
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What are men sacrificing for women? Also why would women voluntary show devotion to someone that *could* harm them? Men don't show devotion to wives? Women were treated as the property of the husband before feminism existed. Little women shows this well. Women are making more than men because they are becoming the new doctors and lawyers. Way more women than men are in both med school and law school right now. Men are doing trades, which are good jobs but not paid as well except for the very top…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:00 PM
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I'm not a feminist but as a women I support women and the reason men USED to get all of the praise and benefits from women was because women were not people in society. They were valued at the same amount as children or the dog. Women did not partake in societies design they were in the back not in the show. With women in leading countries being more educated and making more money than male equivalents they have no reason to not be able to change societies design. Men will either have to adapt t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:55 PM
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What should I wear on a first date that any guy would love?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:03 PM
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Ive started canceling dates because of this sub...ive gone to far into delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:14 AM
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Ill marry you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:01 PM
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Why did Michael Knowles even want to go on a RP podcast when he is not RP?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:11 AM
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Why do men say men suck to their daughters and sisters but when women say men suck they get mad?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:30 PM
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OUTSIDE! treadmills suck
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:25 PM
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Men are just do chivalries for either family women like mom or sister OR to pretty women. I as a pretty women have lots of men go out of there way to make sure I am assisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:20 PM
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I mean is that legal anywhere in the US? He would have to say that is a genderless argument though because if its only about women not being able to divorce your right that would not go over well. Especially because most of his viewership is 20's and 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:53 AM
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Tbh im already a regular in lurking. Sad because this sub gives me no hope that I will find a man that I'm attracted to and he would love me. But I know this is only one demographic of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:39 AM
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Wait what about the first line?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 05:34 AM
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Idk it seems weird she had her kids then left but sometimes women have kids thinking it will help the marriage and that never happens. I don't really know it you can vet better after a decade has passed. Nobody knows what someone will do that far in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:35 AM
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I mean she was breaking up with him. If she wants a good morning text and he said sure but does not do it so she leaves that doesn't make her a narc it just means she wants a guy that does what he promises he will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:27 AM
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What do we think of Steven Crowders divorce? It seems so odd when you see conservative commentators separate because they push marriage heavily. Some people claim he is a narc so idk how he is as a husband but wife filed for divorce in 2021 after 9 years of marriage, 2 kids. Just got finalized 2023. Edit: Had to add, she had the kids, twins, in August 2021 and filed for divorce in December 2021?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:10 AM
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Oh who do I seem like a alt for. This is my only account but I have had accounts before. I found this sub when Andrew Tate was all the hype because I didn't really know much about red pill till then but I know a lot spending time on here now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:50 AM
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Ive lurked for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:31 AM
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I'm starting to think I interact with this sub as a form of self harm to my brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:15 AM
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Chad won't make a good husband
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:45 PM
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When she broke up with the man and he wanted to know why she told him and he said she would not have to worry about those things anymore because he would fix them but she know from previous behavior that things don't stay fixed. Overall most womens reasoning for breaking up with men is because they are no attracted to the man anymore and that's allowed. She isn't blaming the man for the breakup she is saying that she is not attracted to him anymore and wants to leave. How many times should a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:11 PM
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Why is this offensive. This is a women explaining why women break up. She should not have to be with someone that breaks promises over and over. She lost attraction due to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:52 PM
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Thats the guy saying "for no reason" Women have reasons why they breakup with someone. Its a long thing and they only do it when they are actually no longer attracted to you anymore. Women breakup with men without another man to take his place all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:45 PM
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MEN, if you ever want to know why a girl broke up with you "for no reason" this is why. TikTok Link
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:39 PM
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Some of these guys have just had a really crappy start in life and are just lonely, and nobody is there for them. Moral is needed no matter who you are but those who have no hope for long enough just give up and become destructive, and nobody wants that. Believe me I see some of the things men say on this sub and get angry that someone could think that way. But I know its a projection of the experiences they have had in life and that they need to be given a different way to think about things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:29 AM
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The only thing you can do is try to help. Help them to expand thinking, change perspective and give hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:53 AM
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Sure but I bet many of the people on this sub are a little anti social and are not really doing anything irl. Never more than 1k people on here at once either so its deff not the masses or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:26 AM
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Ehh, I think the men on here just want to vent and complain. I'm here to debate which is what the sub is for. I think a lot of people, men and women, on this sub are in their late teens, 20's, 30's and just find dating difficult depending on their or preferences and/or judgments on others. Some will never get out, others will find the silver lining and carry on. Almost anything you want to fix or do boils down to simple steps. "I want to get out of debt" ---> Spend less money than you make "Oh b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:11 AM
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Q4M: Men, if you were a women would you be the promiscuous girl or the good girl? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:14 AM
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Q4M: If you treat a women badly or cross a boundary of hers and she walks away from the relationship, are you more likely to respect her or be pissed off?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:10 AM
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Q4M: In public are you more likely to sexualize a modestly dressed women with a young pretty face or a more reveling women with cake face makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:06 AM
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I would never want to have a meal with a man who wants me to pay on the first date? I would rather him tell me that first and I would enjoy dinner alone more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:03 AM
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This sub drains me. Idek why I come on here to argue with people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:51 AM
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Ok replace career with job. If a women is caring for children, a house, a husband. That is her job. If she is doing another job. Then she is working two jobs. People in general don't want to work two jobs by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:18 AM
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Because they don't want to raise children, care for husband child, and work?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:14 AM
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You would be happy for her dating Leo for money. And lowkey I deff feel like you would not be that happy because you know they are only dating till she's 25 and he will throw her out. I said a friend of yours, that makes a regular income.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:12 AM
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Yes women were tired of getting beaten and wanted jobs and bank accounts. Shocker
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:53 AM
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A 19 year old is a baby adult. Literally been an adult for a year. TEENagers are in a growing period between childhood and adulthood called adolescence. This was not as much of a thing over 100 years ago because women had less free will and needed a provider. In 2023 that's not our world. In the Middle Ages young children around age 7 were treated just like mini adults because they did not have the knowledge to know about how brain development works. A 50 year old man has over 30 YEARS of adulth…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:45 AM
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RP men want a traditional working woman. Like their moms of the 80's. 90's, early 2000's. Women were told then they can "have both". The career and the family. Which as we know today means "do both", and women don't want to do that anymore because it leads to burnout and unhappiness. And yes, men, no matter the smile on yours moms face if this was her reality, she was burned out. (I posted this on a post yesterday but it got removed by mod so imma put it here)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:32 AM
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Hair Extensions, Hair Coloring, Gel Nails, Pedicures, Lash Lifts, Brow Lamination, Makeup, Skincare, Waxing..ect It's overall just a lot more than a haircut, hair products. This is on top of that. This is getting repetitive because I wrote this a few times in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:13 AM
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I mean that's because that's just so wrong. Even if a 50 year old is attracted to a 19 year old its just a gross thing for the poor girl. She was BORN in 2004. I truly believe that if an old man wants to be with a just legal girl, in our society, he just enjoys the destruction of innocence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:54 AM
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Not in comparison to what women do. Much more stuff to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:27 AM
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What I am saying is women do more. So man pays for the date but women pay for the makeup, other beauty products, the hair salons, the nail salons, waxing, the shoes, dress, handbag, jewelry. It's more than going to sports clips and making sure dirt isn't under your nails.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:22 AM
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Its not though. I have seen so many articles about the toxins in cheap products.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 12:07 AM
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Harmful chemicals are in cheap dollar store items. You need to buy clean items with chemicals that won't affect your hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:46 PM
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I'm not sure if you are agreeing or disagreeing with me. I'm just saying that womens expectations for general cleanliness is vastly different than mens. When men say "Showered and clean" that is very different to men and women. Men take 5 min showers while women take 25 because they do 5 times the steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:37 PM
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My earlier question responses inspired me to write this. Any commentary? Men spend so little money for what is expected when it comes to body hygiene. Like body wash, razor, shaving cream, deodorant, toothbrush/toothpaste, floss. THATS IT Women is shampoo, clarify shampoos, conditioners, leave in conditioners, deep conditioners, face wash, face masks, body wash, body scrub, body conditioner, shaving cream, razor, face oils, eye creams, deodorant, body lotions, scented lotions/sprays...ect. SO MU…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:16 PM
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Yeah but I think most women just want men to smell clean. So many men just dump 3 in 1 on their heads. Women have all kinda of different products. Men are kinda more picky about this imo than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:44 PM
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Q4M: What scent do you like on women the most? Florals? Vanillas? Earthy? Citrus? Sweet? Men always say women HAVE to smell good. So what is the go to for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:33 PM
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How would you ruin womens lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:42 AM
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Then you're probably not going to find what you're looking for. Women have no reason not to sleep with who they want to when they want to unless they are religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:01 AM
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I hope you are devoutly religious then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:07 AM
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Who decides what's moral or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:44 AM
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RP men want a traditional working women. Like their moms of the 80's, 90's, early 2000's. Women were told then they can "have both". The career and the family. Which as we know today means "do both", and women don't want to do that anymore because it leads to burnout and unhappiness. And yes, men, no matter the smile on your moms face if this was her reality, she was burned out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:13 AM
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What keeps a women from being a "hoe" if she doesn't get to be a housewife by getting married?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:07 AM
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Women are not meant to do anything other than look pretty when it comes to attracting men. Its in their biological nature. Men are to do the pursuing. If a man really wants you he will do anything in his power to get you and keep you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:38 PM
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I would think guys like flip flops because womens feet are pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:45 PM
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I heard someone say yesterday that shoes can give you a clue into a persons personality. As a women I would agree but I don't think men would. Modest heels? Stripper heels? Flip flops? Sneakers? Docs haha? Ballet flats? Riding boots? I don't really think men care but preferences make the ideal women right
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:39 PM
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These people don't care about earth day. WALL-E is their dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:33 PM
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You are supporting what I said with your response. You have to make the choice on what your life will be and continue to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:32 PM
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I guess I take a little bit of a psychologists viewpoint of this. Sometimes certain things are more difficult for some and easier for others. A rural impoverished tribe in Africa might have a good social life, great stories told, good family units...but they are lacking food, its so difficult to get and when they do they are never full. Ultimately they still must get food so they don't die right? If feel like this is first world nations problem in reverse. No close knit families or community, ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:34 PM
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Reasons why something can't be done as easy as other people will will always be there. Just because you use screens less and go out into the world doesn't always mean you have to be social all day. Going for a walk alone, listening to music, having a picnic outside to birdwatch, reading a book at a cafe, ect. All those types of things are free or inexpensive and not dependent on someone else..but you never know, you could meet a stranger doing the same thing, and find a friend in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:06 AM
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I made another comment about giving up screens. If you take a hermit 30 year old for example. Give up the videos games, phone, internet ect it would probloby feel like you just gave up your only source of a version of happiness. But, you would eventually get bored enough that you would venture outside of the basement and maybe go for a walk, and maybe get a job, and maybe read a book, and maybe find in-person friends. Maybe you would be happier? Maybe you would even loose weight and find a relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:15 AM
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What if every RP person just got rid of all phones, computers, no internet or screens, no porn and just like interacted with humans and read books and work a job? What would happen would the TRP persons life get better or worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:10 AM
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