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| 45 | what age should you prioritize marriage? | Discussion | Sigma_Fang | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Who has more unrealistic dating standards? | Debate | Sigma_Fang | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 05:30 PM |
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| 1 | To men who want biological children: It might be better to pay a surrogate than to have children with a woman. What do you think?Or you can move your mom in... lol. Also you can find a female family friend who's been vetted to have the child and have the legal docs go through a court. If it's done that much people will will start doing them 3rd party independent with court docs to protect the man. You're witnessing men going over seas and going with surrogates or at least circumventing the law by doing it right... marriage is over. Dont do it boys, let em be strong and independent on their own. Also divorce rate averages … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?Hm... how can I explain this. I guess I think the genuine ones with good messages that are guiding men are being derailed by saboteur type creators. Kinda like how the BLM movement became the organization that swindled the community and did its own destructive subversive marxist agenda bs. The people planting bricks to get people to become violent, the fake RP men on chats that say crazy racist shit to get the streams banned and taken down. I don't think its all but I think anyone that high prof… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?Hahaha oh thank you for the reassurance. I'm more concerned for the young men. I do fine. I did well on the apps and got sick of the shitty people I kept meeting. I was an athlete and have always been in great shape. I was a fuccboi my whole teens and 20s and women 10 years younger than me still approach me. I earn within the top 10% and have multiple grad/undergrad degrees. I'm well spoken and funny and despite pissing off the simp enforcers, detractors, and feminists in here I'm actually prett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | What will happen to current dating situation in the future ?Yeeesh. It's you again huh. Do they have you guys on call or something. Sure buddy. I'm not concerned with the world. Just America. 5% of men on dating apps are fucking all the women they want. That constitutes relationships right? Do you think this is going to get any better for young men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV, Sex is an essential part of a long term relationship, without it relationships lose their love and end badly.Yup. Dont get married. And dont have kids with or e in relationships with women who arent fucking you regularly. Once that stops, I'm out. Maintian your leverage and know when to pull chalks and peace the fuck out. Dont fall into the trap boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Men who only LTR exceptionally low n women while being promiscuous themselves generally make for bad partners.Oh wow you are so perfect sweet heart... this is priceless... please continue sir... The main point was my (as well as most RP guys) preference and why men don't like high N counts... but please tell me everything you need to to get me back on the plantation and think just like you do... I would love some valid points aside from coddling language... please convince us to get with promiscuous women long term... give us some reassuring data that negates the divorce and birth stats. I would love to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Men who only LTR exceptionally low n women while being promiscuous themselves generally make for bad partners.Wow... this is golden. Did they make you in a white knight facility??? You're almost stereotypically perfect. Having opinions and preferences as men = toxic, insecure, dont get laid. Hahaha, is this the best the blue pill can do??? Ah yes the keyboard warrior here to tell me how much he gets laid. Please, if you have any point aside from being a white knight simp I'm all ears. Are you just here to defend your fair ladies??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Men who only LTR exceptionally low n women while being promiscuous themselves generally make for bad partners.Hey there mr simp enforcer. Sure thing Mr simp enforcer. You seem very offended so that must make you right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Men who only LTR exceptionally low n women while being promiscuous themselves generally make for bad partners.Read any human sexuality book that doesnt have a feminist agenda and you can learn all about it. Google is a powerful tool. We used to have to go to libraries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 07:01 PM |
| 1 | What is the end goal according to redpill?To not have the gov in my love glove. To live in peace with as little bullshit and financial liability as possible. To dodge problematic women. To still be able live life on my terms and not have any leverage from anyone trying to get me to anything that I dont want to do or pay into. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Men who only LTR exceptionally low n women while being promiscuous themselves generally make for bad partners.Let me reframe for the haters and the baby ears. I dont think cheating or promiscuity is good for either side. I dont cheat. I used to be a fuccboi and cheated a lot and was very promiscuous. It wasnt good for me. I learned the hard way and broke a lot of hearts and felt really guilty. Any man who does cheat in a marriage deserves everything he gets in divorce and family court. What I do mean is that promiscuity affects men differently, it's worse for women. And a man can still be a great partne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Men who only LTR exceptionally low n women while being promiscuous themselves generally make for bad partners.You're right.... hmmm... when did all this RP stuff start again? Hm... who controls marriage again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Men who only LTR exceptionally low n women while being promiscuous themselves generally make for bad partners.Oh you're right.... how could I have been so wrong... If only there was some sort of measurable data set that showed some sort of declining marriage/birth rate that showed a drop of nearly 1.5 million marriages in 1 year... How could I have overlooked the hope strategy. Queue my violins 😭🤡 https://www.nationalreview.com/news/u-s-marriage-rate-dropped-to-50-year-low-in-2020/#:~:text=The%20U.S.%20saw%201%2C676%2C911%20marriages,for%20Disease%20Control%20and%20Prevention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Men who only LTR exceptionally low n women while being promiscuous themselves generally make for bad partners."Shame, insults, guilt, and the need to be right" Anecdotal evidence and resorting to attacking the person are indicators that you have no relevant evidence to support your arguement. I hope that you dont drag him through divorce court and become another statistic. May you be the unicorn that makes the exception the rule one day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Men who only LTR exceptionally low n women while being promiscuous themselves generally make for bad partners.Ah yes emotional mumbo jumbo huh. Men built this world. That's a fact. I dont care that you're comfortable now but it was pretty ugly up untill a few hundred years ago. You arent strong and independent... the government just became your man after men built the world you get to enjoy... the west is too comfortable now and forgets what life can be like. The life that molded evolution. Go and watch she hulk already, i know this isnt going anywhere. Accountability and the word No are kryptonite to w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Men who only LTR exceptionally low n women while being promiscuous themselves generally make for bad partners.We are not equal outside of constitutional law. Preference does not equal ideology. You came in here telling conservative people to go away. I am not a conservative but it is very like your kind to scream at the next orange man bad ghost. Women can do whatever they want. Men can have their preferences. And when you're 35+, single, and married to a simp or unhappy you cant pair bond, that is on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Men who only LTR exceptionally low n women while being promiscuous themselves generally make for bad partners.This is my contention with this article. This is that feminist ideology that asserts we are the same. We are not the same. It is not hypocritical. That's my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Men who only LTR exceptionally low n women while being promiscuous themselves generally make for bad partners.Here we go with the political ideology. Men who date and are willing to marry promiscuous women may do as they please. But men who are waking up are no longer accepting that. You'll be there for fun but marriage is off the table. The majority of men that women dont like but will marry for resources can be put up for slaughter at the altar of divorce courts. Saves us the bachelor tax and it keeps the economy running. Simps feed the 50 billion dollar divorce industry and that is a ok with me. RP w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Men who only LTR exceptionally low n women while being promiscuous themselves generally make for bad partners.Haha! Victim narrative. How ironic. I'm not saying anyone should be promiscuous or not but a woman being promiscuous negatively affects her and a relationship than it does a man. We are not equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Men who only LTR exceptionally low n women while being promiscuous themselves generally make for bad partners.One is a view based on opinion and one has data to support it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Men who only LTR exceptionally low n women while being promiscuous themselves generally make for bad partners.Hypocrisy? We arent the same, we have different valuations. I dont care how equal you think we are, society and evolution didnt play out equally. When we are truly equal, which was the major point of my rant, then we can talk about n count not mattering. These reasons are opinion. Show me a metric with proof that any of this is valid. Show me stats that show any correlation that preferring low n women shows a man who is more likely to be abusive or go to prison. There are metrics that show the i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Men who only LTR exceptionally low n women while being promiscuous themselves generally make for bad partners.Its asserting men who prefer low body counts are bad partners. I'm saying it's in the same vein, not that its asking why cant they. What actual metrics can you measure "bad" with? Preferring low N women doesnt mean you're bad. I reject the notion whether or not it is a why justifying it. It's no different than me saying women who prefer white men are bad. Are they racist? body counts for men are not the same for women. Just because you say it's bad to date men who prefer low N women doesnt make … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Men who only LTR exceptionally low n women while being promiscuous themselves generally make for bad partners.Meh this is another argument in the same vein of "why can men do it but we cant."/circular contrarian reasoning. We're different, our bodies our different, we are not equal outside of legal purposes and American law/constitutional rights and even then women are treated better by court and the legal system... Society is built and has been built on evolutionary traits that allow us to coddle/pedestilize/protect women while also being cold heartedly calloused to men in survival situations. It doesn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | “Tired of taking care of a grown child”Because guys dont care so long as we're banging the girl. Shit I'll cook, clean, work, and be the most emotionally supportive cuddly loving hubby type boyfriend if I had an attractive feminine submissive low body count non feminist gf. She doesnt even have to know how to read or have a fancy job, we'll both figure this life out ❤ Also women love publicly shitting on men, it gets applauded and people like steve harvey and dr phil make money off of it. Theres no reason, just what they do, I just i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | most blue pillers and blackpillers give lonely men a very grim view of dating kife"Sbame, insults, guilt, and the need to be right." -The Kevin Samuel's crowd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 04:55 PM |
| 1 | most blue pillers and blackpillers give lonely men a very grim view of dating kifeHow can you defend opinions or what someone will or wont do? Hahaha this is priceless... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Money is not enough, you need a lifestyleWell I mean all relationships/sex is transactional. You wanna pay up front or more at the back end in court? I'm not saying what you should or shouldnt do... but 6 million women on seeking arrangements know what's up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 02:33 PM |
| 1 | most blue pillers and blackpillers give lonely men a very grim view of dating kifeWomp womp.... "You can't make this stuff up." - Kevin Samuels. This is why I dont argue with people. I know what it is and am not listening anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | So sex is seeming more and more transactional these days. Who’s to blame?Hey thats not nice for you to judge a certain demographic by their genitalia... don't you know that is sexist??? Hope you don't get in trouble here with those super fair moderators. I'm just looking out for you. Here is the truth... IT HAS ALWAYS BEEN TRANSACTIONAL.... this was all sorted out through evolution and we wanna split hairs and virtue signal now that we can be poor and fat in our AC cooled apartments. IT is what IT is, look at the data, 6 million gals on seeking arrangements... most g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 07:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: I believe lacking "Daddy vibes" (sexually) is a big reason men get cheated on / dumped, and why women gravitate away from men without that side to themYes. Let me explain to you why CMV isnt an echoe chamber. It stands for Change my view. I disagree with the view. Any other detractor/contrarian opinions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 03:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: I believe lacking "Daddy vibes" (sexually) is a big reason men get cheated on / dumped, and why women gravitate away from men without that side to themJesus dude sure let's focus on minor details. My point is that even the top men according to society shit the bed in relationships whether by their hand or someone elses. But sure live life on the hope strategy because "not all". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Mommy’s Little Secret: a Discussion on Paternity FraudDont get married gents. Also I am not confrontational with women. I dont argue with women or negotiate boundaries. I would never ask her if she was cool with the test. I would talk to the doctor in private and get the DNA test done myself. If it wasnt mine I'd just disappear and make sure my name wasnt on the birth papers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Mommy’s Little Secret: a Discussion on Paternity FraudGood luck feeding the 50 billion dollar divorce industry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Mommy’s Little Secret: a Discussion on Paternity FraudPlot twist: never married Never marry... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Mommy’s Little Secret: a Discussion on Paternity FraudEasy way to check. Test at birth. If it's not yours walk away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 12:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: I believe lacking "Daddy vibes" (sexually) is a big reason men get cheated on / dumped, and why women gravitate away from men without that side to themHere we go... you know what I mean. Sure let's go there then. "Men do it too." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 03:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: I believe lacking "Daddy vibes" (sexually) is a big reason men get cheated on / dumped, and why women gravitate away from men without that side to them"Cheated/divorced/left..." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | FDS (female dating scam) and the irony of how women always say the manosphere only exists to scam young men out of moneyMa'am I do not argue with women because I have learned that the ones who want to learn and be with men will do so and the ones that want to swindle them will go about trying. And when called out instead of arguing the point they resort to Shame, Insults, Guilt, and the Need to be right S.I.G.N. language. When you cannot argue the point and go to S.I.G.N. language you are more concerned with maintaining leverage, not about the truth. First and foremost, there is no official or unofficial RP group… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/22 01:14 AM |
| 1 | CMV: I believe lacking "Daddy vibes" (sexually) is a big reason men get cheated on / dumped, and why women gravitate away from men without that side to themI disagree. I dont think it's one size fits all. I've seen women cheat/leave their husbands for going back to school and no longer being a provider with their previous income. That's actually really common. Ive seen women cheat/leave their husbands when the wife loses weight, if she gets a higher paying job/finishes a higher level degree than him, if the man gets injured horribly, loses his job, let's her single miserable friends influence her to act like them, and when shes successfully managed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How often do you get approached and asked out in public?You're not average. Definitely above average body lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | FDS (female dating scam) and the irony of how women always say the manosphere only exists to scam young men out of moneyI only disagree with one thing. Women dont care that RP content "scams" men (it doesnt, it's all free) I mean shit only fans, seeking arrangements, divorce swindles are a real legal scam so they dint really care about us getting scammed It's all about leverage, and being RP takes away their leverage... that's why you get shamed by society and people now like that Gump therapist calling us lonely.... yea cuz the equal opposite alone women are totally happy sharing Chad on tinder at a 26% rate bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 06:31 PM |
| 1 | men who went from scarcity to abundance. What did it cost you.It took life to be completely hopeless for me. I was spoiled by women. I had fwbs, gfs, almost got married multiple times, 3 somes, etc. But I was very depressed in my early 20s and thought so little of myself. And towards the end of my 20s/very early 30s I gained a shit ton of weight. Most of it is gone now but it woke me up to how ruthless attraction is and how you cant negotiate it. It took me going from Hot to Not to truly appreciate what I once had. I've always been motivated and success ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Women: If you asked out a guy and he was nice but said “sorry, you’re just a little too fat for me” how would you respond?Body fat can be worked on. Height cannot. I think its terrible for anyone to insult someone based on looks but I dont disagree with a guy not wanting to date a heavy set woman especially if he is fit. Most men will still fuck a heavier woman despite that weight can be changed. Most women will not date men under a certain height which cannot be changed. My question is, which is more reasonable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 07:56 PM |
| 1 | What do men think of the Pink pill?It doesn't exist. Truth is or isnt. This labeling is stupid and shows how dumb ppl are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Men are more likely to divorce a sick wife.One day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Men are more likely to divorce a sick wife.You dont know what youre talking about kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Men are more likely to divorce a sick wife.Ive lived this. I could give a fuck what you think playing your bullshit games reading your feminist bullshit. one day men here are going to turn on this country that hates them. god forbid... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Men are more likely to divorce a sick wife.Former marine, women are more likely to leave a wounded wounded warrior. quit virtue signalling. you dont know what the fuck youre talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 03:38 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%?I disagree with your assertion that being cognizant of hierarchy = bad mental health stemming from feelings of inadequacy. Are you sad that you arent Jeff Bezos, or his ex wife ? Are you bitter and depressed that you are not selected to be a victoria secret model? (The OG ones, not the new virtue signaling ones) Can you get through life knowing that you arent part of the royal family? These are all exxagerations that symbolizes my point. Men know their strengths and weaknesses, well healthy and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage???? You sure about that??? I know several that went to my university that are in the NFL, 1 Olympic athlete. The stories o heard from the girls that fucked them are crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | PUA is for men what makeup is for womenOoooo good point. Swag as in hats or earrings maybe. Hair styles/beard style? Men really dont have something similar. Boots to make you taller??? That's lying about height so theres that. Fake tattoos? Idk. But I'm pretty certain about the pua stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | PUA is for men what makeup is for womenNot even close duderino... Beards and "swag" are to men what makeup is to women.... PUA is to men what foodie calls/stringing along simps in the friendzone/female dating strategy is to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 08:23 PM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?Thank you. I agree. I'm trying to settle down within the next 2 years before 35. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?Womp womp. I'm happy, I'm not part of any group. But sure rage out on the internet "Who hurt you?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?Yeesh. Those darn statistic lies. You tell them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 03:11 PM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?Red pill lifestyle??? What do you mean? I feel like a lot of people are misinformed about what the red pill actually is. It isnt a alt right trump fan club. It just means seeing things for what it is. Theres content creators that use the name to peddle products sure but if you cant see a snake oil salesman then that's on you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?Interesting observation. A lot of men in the manosphere call these new female Allies chameleons lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 11:09 AM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?That's what she says. I grew up around athletes though.... I know what happens on the road trips... I would be very surprised if she was being honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 10:19 AM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?I'm trying to date more but my schedule is busy. I'm good, my preference is 23-26. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?Just a preference. I rather not run the risks of being on her biological clock/having to rush the kids, wondering if she's really into me or if I'm just the gump that she is pulling the buzzard beater on, having to deal with the nightmare of IVF/the crazy cost, etc. Also I look a lot younger than I am so when I do date older women I've gotten the "oh you got a cougar" comments and just accepted that I'm better suited/more attracted to women 23-26. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | I don’t see anything wrong with pumping and dumping a womanPump and dump in this economy? I disagree. I used to be a fuccboi and it isn't all its built up to be. You run risking STDs, the risk of a METOO accusation, pregnancy in a post Roe V Wade America, the money wasted in dates that you are stacking if you got it like that to better your odds. For what? for some P-sleeve? Eventually you wake up and you feel lonely even with a hottie next to you especially if she isn't anyone special to you but just another face, another notch. There's a reason why St… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 02:47 AM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?https://thebolditalic.com/the-two-worlds-of-tinder-f1c34e800db4 well thats why | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?They just aren't my preference. Women have their height preferences and income and racial preferences and education preferences and body composition preferences and compatibility preference etc. I just have an age and body composition preference before compatibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?Its sad but this is what I see happening to my female friends. I love them dearly and they were at one point really sweet and cool. Idk what happened but this society lied to them. I know one 36 year old back home that owns her own business, travels, has stupid money. She told me one night when we were drinking that she would trade it all away for a few kids and a man. In her 20s she was a 9/10 easily. Tall blonde. Blue eyes, so pretty. She became a super angry man hating feminist and jumped to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?All that success, all those years working hard and the one thing she is wanting is kids and a husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 01:10 AM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?Just havent found anyone yet. College killed me and I'm on my 2nd masters, career had me moving all over the country the last 10 years. Plus I play live music. I meet/date/hook up with plenty of young women just havent met someone I'd be ready to settle down with. My lifestyle and playing music keeps me around a younger crowd plus I look mid to late 20s and I've had issues with older women that I rather avoid for marriage and kids so I just have my age preference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 12:20 AM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?That's terrible, I really despise men who waste young womens time. That's why I'm so vehemently against those dating apps. They just perpetuate men to sleep around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 12:07 AM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?I actually agree marriage is antiquated. But would you say having kids should be done by a certain age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?Wow, I'm in my early 30s. Definitely on my radar by mid 30s. I'm open to 23-26 age gap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?Agreed I think theres a stigma against this conversation geared towards young women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?Agreed. I hate how the family unit was destroyed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?What about kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Does having regular girlfriends cause a man to have a higher income over time?The men were/are single. That's what I mean. Most successful guys dont have a girl "making them" build. Usually they meet the women after they're successful lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Does having regular girlfriends cause a man to have a higher income over time?Meh. Maybe but I just dont see that with my friends who own businesses, are in tech, in the medical fields. Dont get me wrong they are definitely hoping that they meet a good girl and they try getting laid at the bars but I dont see a woman behind them telling them to hustle harder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Does having regular girlfriends cause a man to have a higher income over time?I dont think so. I mean having kids and getting married/divorced will definitely make you more motivated to work to provide but simply sex and gfs??? Maybe in your 20s or for men who havent dated much but I think men who make the most money are already very motivated, business savvy, intelligent, worked hard. Also making money for most men takes time and a lot of work, med school, engineering school, law school, building a trade business over a 5 to 10 year span, business school, etc. The averag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?I think it goes deeper than that. I think they are part of the master plan to get you to give your info and privacy away freely and subjugate yourself to a social credit score system that monitors if you are in line with the government or if you are a threat to order. Welcome to 1984, if the last 2 years didnt tell you what's happening nothing will. All hail the ministry of truth, they know best what to do when society crumbles, the problem solution formula to quell the masses crying for interve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you think more ease to travel would affect dating at all?Yes. Western men are going to other countries where women are more "feminine"/traditional. Also all the instagram models and even regular looking women are doing the doodoo Dubai stuff or visiting sugar daddys for their instagram photo ops. Ease of travel is a product of social media and being able to connect with people who provide what you want in other parts of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend seemed annoyed at me when i had a minor health scareNot at all, hes in the wrong here. I take health scares 150% serious. You never know with heart stuff, you should be concerned. What if it was serious and you did need to go to the hospital??? | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | “it” factor can even the field tremendously regardless of status, genetics, money etc.It isnt that. I mean you can. But theres just some people like chris Farley or john Belushi that just have this aura. I think you're born with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | “it” factor can even the field tremendously regardless of status, genetics, money etc.This. But it's rare, has to be natural. Met a few people like that and they just radiated confidence and light from their eyes. Theyre often genuinely happy and positive and just light up the room. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | I feel like a loser who hasn't accomplished anything.Join the Marine Corps | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | He enjoys anime and it's slowly killing my attraction.No offense but you must be either really young or really not into this guy.... If anyone lost attraction to me for my hobbies and interest I would be outta there asap. You need to talk to him about this and consider possibly breaking up with him. If it's that easy to lose attraction over anime.... I cant imagine what's gonna happen when something serious comes along. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/22 04:00 AM |
| 1 | After Leaving A Good Man, Do Women Typically Find Better?Fresh and Fit is an example. The view, female hosted shows, pop culture led talk shows catered towards women dont differ in the type of message of what most women want. You can say some, but common... its not just some. Kevin Samuels is probably another good channel to see with that message being prominent there too. He actually tried helping women on there with good advice aside for being vilified for calling a woman average.... I am used to your communication style and the shaming stuff, the "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | After Leaving A Good Man, Do Women Typically Find Better?lol I love the word nuanced. My old hipster roommate used to use it a lot along with "a lot of character" when describing our shitty 1st apartment that looked like a Fallout bombshelter. No doubt, I agree with you. I was listing a catch all list of things I've overheard that a man should be in a relationship. But yes I agree, not being religious that is probably not on your list. But describers like fair minded and considerate can really be subjective. Again everyone has a different taste, not e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standardsThere never is. Strong and Independent from what??? Men built this world and let these chics run around comfortable enough to even question the stable and safe society that tells them they just gotta swipe the phone and the card for survival. It isnt perfect but the world was a lot worse and these modern females are too comfortable shitting on everyday men. Learn the language, the talking points, the "bad bitch" / hot girl summer tell tale signs and avoid them gents. Dont feed into the 50 Billio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standardsEvolution produced: prostitution, war, hunter/gatherer mindsets, survival traits that are now deemed the toxic masculinity patriarchy that set up the comfortable lives and infrastructure we have been spoiled by. The state has taken up the place of the man for women in the west, take a look at https://blackdemographics.com/ to see how that plays out. Kevin Samuels spoke at length about this. When it gets back to brutal survival in nature, men provide resources, their seed, and protection. Its jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Is being black a blackpill?Na you're not crazy. And not black pill lol, they're doom and gloom and have checked out. This is just how it is for melanated minorities like you and me, most women stick to their race of men on average or have fetishized you. Look for the latter lol or be open to moving, that's what I did. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/08/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | What even is the "friendzone"?"We're like Friends. I am Chandler, and Joey, and uh, Pam is Rachel, and Dwight is... Kramer." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | I like access to media, but I think it is significantly to blame for driving communities of men and women apartTribalism and survival of the fittest are hardly harmonious. Heck, the dastardly "patriarchy" was a product of evolution... Fighting for good and inequality, making a change for good and virtues is what's set us apart from the animal kingdom in addition to being able to create and wonder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Being "a good listener" made me prone to being 'friend zoned'Welp. I'm gonna piss some guys off here... The friend zone is only regulated by women. Men put themselves in it. You cant negotiate attraction. If she isnt into you sexually and isnt in lust with you then any interaction after that is platonic and when you communicate on her level like a woman she internally and subconsciously assigns you to that in her mind. It isnt a concious thing. If you're not attractive to her then you're not attractive to her and no amount of nice guy bullshit or being th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 03:03 PM |
| 2 | I like access to media, but I think it is significantly to blame for driving communities of men and women apartI'm a conspiracy theorist, I think it's all part of the plan. Destroy the family unit, put parties against one another, double the taxable workforce, appeal to mens logic and womens emotions, keep the masses dulled/entertained/numb, overstimulation of senses, misinformation to cause doubt in fact, silence and shame the thinkers who point it out as whatever "ist" or "ism" draws the most emotional outrage, have the masses accept and emotionally call for control and favor big brother and a ministry… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Men: how many of you are willing to risk getting married?Oh no that was definitely sarcasm lol. My friends are in fact not that smart. They think with their penises and wonder why these things happen. I think in addition to love if both people had similar education, similar class/earnings, have been together 5 plus years and arent in their early 20s marriage could definitely work. We are really approaching a point where everyone has a career and their resources, I think marriage will be evolving into a more love based agreement in the future and hones… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Men: how many of you are willing to risk getting married?During my friends divorce, the judge laughed when they brought up his prenup lol. Said that it wasnt in the best interest of the mother and the kids and that my friend made enough to recover. My friend lived on couches, ate only ramen, and struggled to pay bills... started his own company, became successful, met a 21 yr old and after 2 months married her and had another kid... my friends are super smart... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Men dont age betterLol triggered... going straight to insults.... after you posted a discussion on a topic you know little about... telling men to stick to their own age? As a "20" yr old? For what? How sad.... but sure I guess you kids have fun. I'll leave the information up for people that want actual facts. Happy shit posting for you and your simp enforcer friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Men dont age betterHaha hey there troll, you having fun on the internet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Men dont age betterYeeesh got the enforcers out today huh... Acknowledging his debauchary does not equal me riding his dick.... Just validating your assertion that he is repulsive and could care less what we think. Hes banging whoever he wants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Men dont age betterI dont promote those sites, I'm telling you what those old dirty rich men do... the same ones being told to get with their own counterparts that seem to be in here... Angry? Ha, this is hilarious to me. I figured you were here to antagonize and shit post. I dont pay women, I have a healthy social circle and date normally. I get approached at bars and in person by younger women. How am I pedaphillic???? For dating 23 year olds??? When I look 25??? In my early 30s???? Wow you're really reaching hu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | I'm a firm believer of the power of talking things out. What are some of the things you would like to tell the women that hurt you?In text only, what is your situation and how did she/they hurt you? She was my friend, my best friend. We were so close and went through everything for 5 years. We were inseparable and accomplished so much... every second we laughed or had deep convos, made love, cuddled and just talked. Even when we saw other people or had serious relationships with other people we were always together as friends and supportive of everything. What was the outcome? She chose to be promiscuous with a different gu… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/22 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Men dont age betterWow.... you are very smooth brained... Are you drunk or do you just get off to arguing with men online???? That is exactly what we are talking about. You will like men your age on average but the men around you will go for 20 yr olds.... and there are multiple dating/sugar sites where those men can do what they want in exchange for their money.... those men are not interested in marriage.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Men dont age betterYou dont think Elon musk has a rotation of porntstars/escorts for himself available everyday? What do you think he does with his F you money??? You think he cares if they have genuine lust for him???? Hes a billionaire.... that's as F you money as you can get lol literally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Men dont age betterAre you really saying alimony is rare??? That men dont want custody that is predominantly awarded to women at an above 95% rate??? And that child support isnt a billion dollar industry???? I think you're new here.... because this is obviously not something you have looked into.... Lost in the sauce..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Men dont age betterHahahaha well well well. A common chameleon coming in these parts to spout venom huh.... Well I gotta say, its run of the mill. I'm in great shape and have a healthy dating life with younger women. I'm successful, got all my beautiful hair and have no wrinkles... I look good and get flirted with pretty often so I appreciate the attempts at the shame, insults and guilt but I'll get back to the main point. Here are the charts : https://images.app.goo.gl/HztynPzNmNBgCVPB7 Women prefer guys their ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Men dont age betterYour emotional assertions. I mean you can look them up if youd like... but the shame/insult stuff doesnt work for me. Heck Dr. Phil talked about this on public TV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Men dont age betterCredit/debt/spending habits matter to men. Having a stable income and your own heth insurance and place matter to men because they are no longer marrying or cohabitating.... Marriage is over, we know your paycheck isnt theres to help us or the family... that's why as brave and independent as you may be you still freak out when we dont pay for dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Men dont age betterOoooof this is all false... common now... you're in a pilled community where we all have the stats memorized by this point... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Men dont age betterYea but that's why hes got money.... and procreated with some hotties.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Men dont age betterAlpha Chad? Is that you??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Men dont age betterHigher educated and higher successful women actually file for divorce more... Women file at a 70 to 80 percent rate The more education and career advancement the closer women file to 90%. Look it up... I know you're venting but it just isnt going to change what is. That's why most "pulled men" who are successful are no longer marrying.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Men dont age betterLol not gonna happen. Evidence: seeking arrangements, sugar daddys sites, pay for play sites, the fact that most rich celebrity men and top percent earners have the money and financial sway for younger women who could care less as long as they get flown to Dubai. Look at the ok cupid dating app data they released, they showed that men across the board only were interested in women in their early/mid 20s. I never think about it but most girls that are interested in me are usually 21 to 26 and I'm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/22 01:26 AM |
| 2 | My bf(20 M) doesn’t like how I dressNo shame in the game. Whatever makes you happy. Ask him why it bothers him so much. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/22 02:32 PM |
| 6 | My bf(20 M) doesn’t like how I dressI was just playing but I think I see what's going down. In high school, before dating apps/social media/"everyone deserves the best of the best and shouldnt settle" mindset, I was a long haired punk stoner ass skater kid. A super beautiful cheerleader and I fell in love, hard, like The Notebook hard. She was super preppy and dressed really well, dresses, nice clothes, styled out. I come from a poor family so all I had were band t shirts and jeans... somehow we didnt care. I never felt out of pla… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/22 02:05 PM |
| 2 | My bf(20 M) doesn’t like how I dressStart dressing like "the fifth element" characters | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/22 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Chasing women is idiotic and unnecessary.Dont chase. Have fun and be social but if someone isnt on your page, peace out. Dont get foodie called or used for validation. Delete those dating apps gents. "You'll always lose money chasing women, but you will never lose women chasing money." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Arguments that will destroy Red Pill's AWALT foreverA. Not defending it, I just know their talking points because I've debated them frequently. Read "red pill" ??? Since when did they publish anything, all they have are statistics and divorce talking points. B. Spinning plates is literally that, you can YouTube this. I was around those content creators for years... C. The alpha fux betabux has nothing to do with womens character it has to do with how a woman will either sleep with you or she wont based on attraction, and of you at least can be a … | /r/ExRedPill | 03/08/22 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Arguments that will destroy Red Pill's AWALT forever??? I've never heard that AWALT. I've only ever heard of NAWALT in negating deflection or plausible deniability. I frequently debate red pillers and know all of their talking points. I know there are concepts like AWALT but I've never heard anyone push that. AWALT is impossible, and they are all about stats. Also spinning plates isnt what you described, spinning plates is just dating more than one girl and not committing to one. In fact they emphasize only dating women with high character and hi… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/08/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Arguments that will destroy Red Pill's AWALT foreverGeeez lol this is a pretty misinformed post. Red pillers never argue AWALT, they just claim that NAWLT isnt a valid argument when looking at data. For example, theyll say something like 80% of divorces are filed by women which is a statistic that is valid and when a woman says her and her friends are happily married for 10+ years theyll say that those are outliers. Which again is true. But they use averaging statistics to invalidate successful numbers which may be smaller but still relevant. Ins… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/08/22 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Agree or Disagree: It’s not that women don’t care about “looks.” They do. It’s more that they’re “turned off” by socially inept behavior and turned on by sexy socially adept interaction.I am a cutie with a booty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Agree or Disagree: It’s not that women don’t care about “looks.” They do. It’s more that they’re “turned off” by socially inept behavior and turned on by sexy socially adept interaction.Wow never thought of that. That's interesting, I'm clumsy as fuuuug and still managed to do well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Pill ideology is irrelevant to most healthy people capable of successful relationships.True. But it's one of the red pill philosophys biggest talking points. That's literally every video, divorce stats/alimony/child support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed?Depends. If she was promiscuous before in her early/mid 20s and now finds you to be the beta bux deluxe at 30 then nope, I'm out. If shes always been like this and doesnt sleep with anyone right away and everything else is golden then I'd be on board. Once you're commited and you're bf/gf if theres still no sex and you're stuck doing choreplay, it's over, time to peace out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Pill ideology is irrelevant to most healthy people capable of successful relationships.Yup. That's why that is the only thing I found helpful about RP talking points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Pill ideology is irrelevant to most healthy people capable of successful relationships.Partially agree. The pill group mentality i have seen on social media typically gets touted by very young and disenfranchised young men. Late teens early 20s males will take divorce statistics, videos of young women acting out hypergamous nature, and video admissions of bad behavior and make blanket statements about all women. This isnt productive and most men who have successful careers and healthy social groups dont typically focus on the negative. In fact I really think the energy you keep yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | A good looking guy, say 7-9/10, should easily be able to get his equivalent for sex or LTR. The fact that he usually struggles to do this is indicative of the overall problem with dating in 2022.Na man you cant let stats and articles get you down. Go out and get social and have fun. Lifes short | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 11:10 PM |
| 1 | A good looking guy, say 7-9/10, should easily be able to get his equivalent for sex or LTR. The fact that he usually struggles to do this is indicative of the overall problem with dating in 2022.There was some data released that showed analytics on dating apps. A lot of it is easily found on google. Most of it showed that all women only swiped right on between 20% and 5% and found that 80% of men were below average attraction according to women. It isnt the guys faults. Social media, dating apps, seeking arrangements, and this new idea that all women no matter how they look deserve the best of the best and should never settle is why you are seeing this. How is it that every woman deserv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Good books on understanding gender differences in a rational way?It doesnt change the fact that it was used for the framework. Yes because I suggest books and get shamed and challenged and downvoted I'm the one with an agenda. I'm sorry what agenda could they have been pushing in the late 1900s? Were they getting fact checked for feelings by the ministry of truth? Psychology is nearly a 70% female dominated industry and yet people here are more concerned with if the authors of books in that industry are written by females.... that isnt an agenda? You have men… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Good books on understanding gender differences in a rational way?Yes. My ex in college was getting her psych phd, a friend was getting her MS in geology/anthropology, and my other ex was finishing her biochem MS when I was in grad school so attended conferences and lectures frequently. My degrees were all in engineering though. Not strictly those two but I did take courses in those disciplines. Most of the academics I learned from or heard lectures/conference presentations were knowledgable female researchers. Very credible and insightful people that I learne… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Good books on understanding gender differences in a rational way?Uh oh... it seems as though you have an issue with the books that dont agree with the narrative that you want to push. How about Anne Campbell's "a mind of her own" circa 1983. That's fine, you can read whatever agrees with your bias. I hope you have scientists today fact checking Darwin then... because you know that whole divinity degree that priests get totally made him a credible scientist per today's research standards... But mate selection is scientific fact and it established gender roles.… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Good books on understanding gender differences in a rational way?Anne Campbell wrote her research in 1983. Modern scientists are very much edited and tread lightly. If they dont agree with established timelines and frameworks they can get black balled out of academia. Just look up what happened with egyptology. Theres far more agenda pushing now when questioning anything makes you an "alt right extremist." 1800/1900 books were pure research boring findings. They talk about early man and evolution and built on Darwin. I'm guessing you should repent now and fin… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Ex-Red Pill Guru doing a 180 (and how it almost killed my marriage)That is the problem with what became this online red pill presence. Whatever original content creators used to warn men of divorce court and mating patterns and how to date effectively was eventually co-opted by trolls, sabateurs, and snake oil salesmen type pickup artists. Whatever served as a resource for men going through divorce or warnings to men wanting to get married/date became this giant cluster-fuk of angry young men that put their shortcomings on womens mate selection. I remember when… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Best counter to: “A key that can open many locks is called a master key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock.”Sorry but this isnt very "detoxing" or a good "counter argument." Is the point of this group to shit on men? I'm noticing a strong ideological trend in the comments. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Good books on understanding gender differences in a rational way?I agree. Evolution is well studied and scientific. The psychologists who determined mating patterns didnt have an agenda to push, they were conducting research regarding why mates selected eachother.... how is this shocking? Humans havent really changed much, we are still evil hairless monkeys. A lot of RP creators may allude to it or reference it but this has been in the scientific community for awhile. RP does not own science or academia. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Good books on understanding gender differences in a rational way???? Evolution is redpill talk ??? I'm not tracking... | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Good books on understanding gender differences in a rational way?Yea check out any evolutionary phsychology/sexual mate selection books written in the 1800 and 1900s. Most dive deep into why both men and women act the way they do from a cave man hind mind perspective. Our mate selection evolution and group forming early on had a huge impact on male and female personalities and hierarchy development. Most of the old books arent subject to this 1984 paradigm of censorship or agenda pushing, most of it is purely scholastic research based information. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/08/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Most men don't understand that women's standards are like a barrier, not a sum, so a man cannot compensate for bad traits.This might be an oversimplification. I think that it can be an either or type of situation depending on the man and the girl. Attractive/personable man in 40s multimillionaire probably has a pretty good chance of banging girls on seeking arrangements or even at his local steak house/dive bar. Very unattractive overweight man in his 50s who's also a millionaire probably can bang the same girls on seeking arrangements because money but probably wouldnt have the same social proof in the bars as his… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 09:52 PM |
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